how can something like a cigarette (which is harmful to you and others) be accepted by society but her sucking a dummy gets frowned upon? i mean she isnt hurting *anyone*. we live in such a twisted world
Yea I agree like if you smoke no one looks at you but if you have a pacifier\ dummy and your not a baby people will look at you even when it’s not harming anyone
@@RochelleHa umm smoking dose go against the natural cycle of life it literly kills ur lungs and pacifiers arent natural they don't grow on trees their man made- ur comment is so dumb i don't even know what to say
She's really brave to go and share it. She's actually really adorable. I love how she is so confident about it. I'm jealous how happy she is, I want to be that happy.
Chilla ja linnea många autistiska släpper varken napp och blöja, inte för att de inte kan gå på toa för det gör dom. Men det är en trygghet att bara ha blöja ist för trosor. Och det med alkolism va ett dåligt skämt om att dom suger på flaskan. Men autism har med det att göra, alkolism nja not so much =)
I'm American, so I thought that a "dummy" meant a "mannequin" or "stupid person." My mind went into the gutter for a moment. o_O In this case, it's a "pacifier."
Narriesse Darbon cause people still believe that if you suck on your thumb or pacifier that it will effect your teeth, but your body actually decides what kind of teeth you get. I've never sucked on my thumb and sucked on my pacifier when I was 1/2 and stopped before my teeth were falling out. And I never played with my gums with my tongue. But when I got my adult teeth, it wasn't even in a good shape and I had to get braces for 2 years.. now that is out of the way, and my teeth is perfect rn.
Yeah but it doesn't mean you ONLY have bad teeth when you suck your thumb/a dummy. Sucking your thumb does affect the direction of growth as when a thumb is in the mouth constantly, it's constantly pushing your teeth forward
I sucked my thumb when I was a toddler to the age around 8 or 9. It caused an overbite. Now, I'm 24 and wearing braces for that and some crooked teeth on the bottom. :D
Lauren Evans yes I agree I suck my thumb at the age 35 shameful really. my teeth are really bad had braces and I ripped them off at the age of 16 my over bite is now massive my front teeth are so far forward the hole gum gets reshaped too 🙈 no strait teeth for me ever 😬
I'm 18 as well and I use a dummy (pacifier) as my comfort for stress and anxiety. It is really comforting and soothing to use when all worked up about stuff. In no way is it weird or creepy. We all have our own ways to deal with stress, and this is how me and the person of this video deal with stress.
my dad still sucks his thumb and I'm a teenager and i still get urges to suck a dummy or drink out of a bottle , I secretly bought myself a bottle once and i loved it but my grandma took it away and I'm still trying to get my hands on another one , this speaks to me on a personal level
I actually sell adult pacifiers that are larger and designed to combat these issues. There is nothing wrong with it, accept yourself. I even sell comfy baby onesies for adults and I'm going to start designing bottles.
Step 1. Go to your mom. Step 2. Tell her you want bottles and pacifiers for your toys. (If you play wif toys) Step 3. Go to the store and buy some Step 4. Show her and tell her your using em for ur toys. Step 5. SECRETLY USE EM!😃
As a fellow pacifier user, I am very pleasantly surprised by all the supportive comments here. I would like to be able to use my pacifier without shame and she's a great example.
And what’s wrong with that? Also, ‘get away with it’? Nobody can stop her, she isn’t getting away with anything. There’s nothing wrong with being gorgeous.
@@l-3832 phaha i mean people dont bully her for it cuz she’s gorgeous and they arent saying bad things, if she wasnt as pretty people would be saying it’s disgusting and shit so shut your gob i know wat im talking about
@@misabeard1818 DDLG stands for daddy dom, little girl. This form is usually sexualised which I personally don't agree too much with. Age regression on the other hand is about going back mentally to a younger age and maybe having a care giver, this is strictly safe x
The only harmful thing about this is she's not using a dummy that is the proper size which could cause her teeth and jaw problems! 😭 I think the blinged out dummy is adorable, I just hope she gets a proper adult dummy to prevent damage 💖
Heard it helps with relieving stress as well, and with how stressful it is running a resteraunt, especially during Covid, I decided to order one a couple days ago. Should be here in a few days, just to see if it can help with my stress. Edit: received it yesterday, after 10 minutes of sucking it literally melted away most of my stress, and I didn’t feel as tight. Never felt so relaxed before, it was great.
We all have to have some comfort in this world! I sleep with a blanket I got when I was 18 and before that I used to have a bundle of cut up petty coats I used to snuggle! It’s lovely that everyone has their own comfort and way to just be themselves in a single moment and happy! With everything goes on nowadays we all need it! She is very cute and you go girl! Whatever makes you happy! ☺️
She's not a freak. She can be who she wants to be and she can do what she wants to do and no one have the rights to stop here. It may not be natural but thats what she feels comfortable doing.
The use of a 'dummy' is one of the first stress relievers a human learns; along with crying. I completely support the use of one throughout life. It's an extremely effective method of handling stress, but society thinks that baby/toddler stuff needs to be "let go" at a certain age for some reason. Wouldn't logic tell you that if something works for people, you shouldn't shun it? This sort of thing can be applied to almost the ENTIRE "Freak Like Me" series.
I'm almost 13 and I still play with toys and dress up, and play games, and watch cartoons. but then there's the other side of me, tht does my hair, makeup, and hang out with mates
K think about this, she is sucking on a rubber thing which people think is weird, but smoking which is inhaling nicotine (which is used for painting roads) into your lungs is fine? Totally makes sense.
I want one! I've heard they are great for relieving jaw pain, & just relaxing. I'd definitely believe it watching her, she looks so chilled out & happy! ^_^ Not only that, but look at her sculpted cheek bones! I hadn't thought of that, but having seen her I reckon it might be quite a good work out for your cheeks too, which is never a bad thing. ^_^
I'm 23 and i bought today a cute purple dummy and it IS helping a bit with my anxiety, calms me down and it's kinda comforting. It's a form of oral stimming (i have adhd and autism) and i wish i knew i could do it sooner. I also bought a rubber baby thing for chewing 😊
I can relate to this on a personal level as I still have a dummy I’ve never really gave it up I’m 19 years old and I’m not ashamed of it! The only bad thing is that it’s pushed my teeth out funny so now I’ve got like an open over bite but apart from that I am happy with the way I am 🥰
I'm 17 and still have several Mam Perfect binkies My mum enjoys me being more babyish on weekends while I'm not at college I still drink bottles too (Nuk/Mam/Avent) And (for medical reasons I have to wear adult sized nappies I've always had a weak bladder.
Seeing this made me so happy 😊!! I suck my thumb, I'm twelve and there is almost no way I can stop: it's attached to me! 😂😂 I tried to tell my mum that she just has to accept it, and she hasn't spoken of it really since; however, my dad is a complete different story! This has made me so happy to know that I am not the only one!
Pay your dad NO MIND. My dad used to give me hell about my pacifier but I just IGNORED him. And today, I am a very, very successful criminal defense attorney, so I don't need ANYONE, my dad included, to accept me. I am who I am . . . . And if you don't like it, well, there's the door, hunty!
Way much healthier. At least sucking on a dummy doesn't damage your lungs and make you sick. She should keep on doing this, it's better for her this way. I don't care if some people think it's weird.
Weird quirks are what make us human. I actually think having a unique or odd habit is quite attractive; it's boring to be "normal" and having a little eccentricity or difference can mean so much in today's world. That's why i love this series and the people in it. :D
I'm an age regressor too and I have a couple of pacis in my backpack. There's nothing wrong with it nor is it abnormal, it's a coping mechanism for me.
Tbh, I don't understand what everyone's issue with her is. It's her life, not yours, and her sucking a dummy does not affect you whatsoever. It's simply none of your business.
Kylie definately this has helped myself I wish it was more of a thing and acceptable for us autie adults to use pacis or dummies great stim and sensory
I think that there’s a part in all of us that would like to escape back into babyhood sometimes because it’s a time we never had any problems and someone else had all the responsibilities but alas we can’t stay there, we’ve all got to face the real world with all it’s problems and strife.
Cecil Palmer It's not pedophilic because there's no children involved. If I dress up and act like a cat when I have sex with my boyfriend, does it make it bestiality? No.
how can something like a cigarette (which is harmful to you and others) be accepted by society but her sucking a dummy gets frowned upon? i mean she isnt hurting *anyone*.
we live in such a twisted world
Smoking is defo frowned upon that it has to be heavily taxed
Yea I agree like if you smoke no one looks at you but if you have a pacifier\ dummy and your not a baby people will look at you even when it’s not harming anyone
Because pacifiers are for baby’s (hence them being in the baby aisle at a store)
Because smoking doesn’t go against the natural cycle of life, hence aging from babyhood
@@RochelleHa umm smoking dose go against the natural cycle of life it literly kills ur lungs and pacifiers arent natural they don't grow on trees their man made- ur comment is so dumb i don't even know what to say
I'm 15 and still sleep with teddy bears. it's just a security thing
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samme
MøøtacheCX 15 Me too
me too
Im 23 and I still do...haha
I like how a lot of these comments are really supportive.
Hannah Carroll, saame
She's really brave to go and share it. She's actually really adorable. I love how she is so confident about it. I'm jealous how happy she is, I want to be that happy.
she has a really cute face.
0 body tho
BurnedSpace gross...
Wtf she's adorable XD
I'm i like this one, but why are we like this is this like autism or alcoholism ?
PureVikingPowers Wtf, what does autism have to do with this?
Linnéa Niklasson lots of autistic children use dummys or pacis longer if they stim to help calm them down
Chilla ja linnea många autistiska släpper varken napp och blöja, inte för att de inte kan gå på toa för det gör dom. Men det är en trygghet att bara ha blöja ist för trosor. Och det med alkolism va ett dåligt skämt om att dom suger på flaskan. Men autism har med det att göra, alkolism nja not so much =)
Larry's In My Closet Well, hello there fam
I'm American, so I thought that a "dummy" meant a "mannequin" or "stupid person." My mind went into the gutter for a moment. o_O
In this case, it's a "pacifier."
AMReed8 Good god... if it was mannequin
AMReed8 Same. I was really confused
AMReed8 Same!!
Honey Bae Hate to say it that's what I thought...
AMReed8 wow Lol! I forgot Americans call them Pacifiers.
how does she still gave perfect teeth :0 :(
Narriesse Darbon cause people still believe that if you suck on your thumb or pacifier that it will effect your teeth, but your body actually decides what kind of teeth you get.
I've never sucked on my thumb and sucked on my pacifier when I was 1/2 and stopped before my teeth were falling out. And I never played with my gums with my tongue. But when I got my adult teeth, it wasn't even in a good shape and I had to get braces for 2 years.. now that is out of the way, and my teeth is perfect rn.
Honey Bae sucking your thumb affects the direction your teeth will grow
Yeah but it doesn't mean you ONLY have bad teeth when you suck your thumb/a dummy. Sucking your thumb does affect the direction of growth as when a thumb is in the mouth constantly, it's constantly pushing your teeth forward
I sucked my thumb when I was a toddler to the age around 8 or 9. It caused an overbite. Now, I'm 24 and wearing braces for that and some crooked teeth on the bottom. :D
Lauren Evans yes I agree I suck my thumb at the age 35 shameful really. my teeth are really bad had braces and I ripped them off at the age of 16 my over bite is now massive my front teeth are so far forward the hole gum gets reshaped too 🙈 no strait teeth for me ever 😬
I'm 18 as well and I use a dummy (pacifier) as my comfort for stress and anxiety. It is really comforting and soothing to use when all worked up about stuff. In no way is it weird or creepy. We all have our own ways to deal with stress, and this is how me and the person of this video deal with stress.
Do you still use it now?
Just use adult dummies you could hurt your teeth if you use dummies made for babies
That so true
I’m 18 I do the same haha
I'm 32 and I still suck my dummy too ☺️
Ok, I don't care what anyone says, she's adorable.
Also, I'm 26 and still have a security blanket.
my dad still sucks his thumb and I'm a teenager and i still get urges to suck a dummy or drink out of a bottle , I secretly bought myself a bottle once and i loved it but my grandma took it away and I'm still trying to get my hands on another one , this speaks to me on a personal level
lol me but my lips got huge!!!!!!!!! lol I used to suck on my lower lip after that then they got huge too.
Same, I wanna start drinking out of bottlesss😩
I actually sell adult pacifiers that are larger and designed to combat these issues. There is nothing wrong with it, accept yourself. I even sell comfy baby onesies for adults and I'm going to start designing bottles.
Step 1. Go to your mom.
Step 2. Tell her you want bottles and pacifiers for your toys. (If you play wif toys)
Step 3. Go to the store and buy some
Step 4. Show her and tell her your using em for ur toys.
Step 5. SECRETLY USE EM!😃
Monkey Magic Hey! You sell adult pacifiers? May I see them?
i came here expecting to be grossed out but she's sort of adorable lmao
formlessness would you say that about her if she wasn't hot?
No.
Nope
formlessness and stylish too
Laura Jelsma I would
i thought this was weird till she said about people smoking she isn't doing anyone any harm and she looks happy
I actually think this is so cute! It's her decision and her life. Leave her alone haters. She's flipping adorable!
As a fellow pacifier user, I am very pleasantly surprised by all the supportive comments here. I would like to be able to use my pacifier without shame and she's a great example.
she gets away with it because shes gorgeous
And what’s wrong with that? Also, ‘get away with it’? Nobody can stop her, she isn’t getting away with anything. There’s nothing wrong with being gorgeous.
@@l-3832 yeah actually cant disagree cuz im gorgeous and get away with everything ;)
@@oliwiapolasik if your pfp is you then you're about 3/10
@@l-3832 phaha i mean people dont bully her for it cuz she’s gorgeous and they arent saying bad things, if she wasnt as pretty people would be saying it’s disgusting and shit so shut your gob i know wat im talking about
She's so adorable I can't
No you are.
@@tylerstumke7222 smooth
I thought it was like, a sex doll or something
Waffle Dragon4 me too omg
Waffle Dragon4 sameeee
Waffle Dragon4 me too but this was cuter
emo rat imao
Is that Kaidou?
She just hasn’t discovered DDLG yet. Just wait..
Yes.
Well hopefully agere not ddlg if it's for therapy reasons 😂 but yeah definitely
What is DDLG? Lol
@@misabeard1818 Ummm... Search it up...
@@misabeard1818 DDLG stands for daddy dom, little girl. This form is usually sexualised which I personally don't agree too much with. Age regression on the other hand is about going back mentally to a younger age and maybe having a care giver, this is strictly safe x
She is soooooooooo damn cute
Maggie Simpson?
Lol
I want to adopt her.
1adebarde lol
.....
Me tooo
I see this as a completely harmless obsession, as long as it’s not hurting you, other people, or animals, I don’t care!! I have a similar one too
Cows are being r*ped and k*lled for milk. If you are not vegan you are an animal abuser which hurts animals.
It IS hurting her, unfortunatelly😢
She uses A baby pacifier, which is harmful for her teeth. I hope she finally will get an adult pacifier
How are baby ones different than adult ones
@@Charlie61728 the teat of the baby ones is smaller compared to the teat of the adult pacifiers
i got cunfused at the title cuz i dont call those dummies i call them suckers lol then when i read the comments i was like oh...😹😹
Hey its Solae my parents call them pacifires
Hey its Solar in Singapore or at least Asia they're called "pacifiers" how interesting XD
Thad/Ro and in America
I called it a soother
Ya girl Solae I call them fake nipples
She's so cute :)
The only harmful thing about this is she's not using a dummy that is the proper size which could cause her teeth and jaw problems! 😭 I think the blinged out dummy is adorable, I just hope she gets a proper adult dummy to prevent damage 💖
Let's hear it for white people!
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Gary Dehamer huh?
Joe Navajo TELL EM
She’s mixed
+KawaiiProductionsYT I thought it was fake tan 😂😂
I'm going to START sucking a pacifier!
UA-cam aholic ip carefull you cant backout once your in
UA-cam aholic Hope you didn't start
I use one to help me cope with my twitches because of my anxiety
okay but shes actually adorable soooo
I love how she said "fidgitated" as a fused fidget and agitated word
Now I want a pacifier.
erin f haha
me too.
I got one ^^ appearently it rlly helps with sleeping, anxiety, and other things!
@@squidwurdiered1445 i also hear it helps with adhd(and autism) which is why I ordered one :3
Heard it helps with relieving stress as well, and with how stressful it is running a resteraunt, especially during Covid, I decided to order one a couple days ago. Should be here in a few days, just to see if it can help with my stress.
Edit: received it yesterday, after 10 minutes of sucking it literally melted away most of my stress, and I didn’t feel as tight. Never felt so relaxed before, it was great.
cry baby,dollhouse,sippy cup,alphabet boy ...that's all I gotta say let the thumbs do their magic..
purple princezz m e l a n i e :3
This is just so lovely and cute !! Age regression is so sweet
It's fairly odd but bless her I still have teddies and love blankets or blankies as we called them as children Xx
Kate McDevitt :D
She is so adorable ❤️
We all have to have some comfort in this world! I sleep with a blanket I got when I was 18 and before that I used to have a bundle of cut up petty coats I used to snuggle! It’s lovely that everyone has their own comfort and way to just be themselves in a single moment and happy! With everything goes on nowadays we all need it! She is very cute and you go girl! Whatever makes you happy! ☺️
She's not a freak. She can be who she wants to be and she can do what she wants to do and no one have the rights to stop here. It may not be natural but thats what she feels comfortable doing.
'i all started getting angry and figitated'
lol
Awwwwww there's nothing wrong with using a pacifier 😊😊
I want to use a pacifier but i didn't have one so i suck my thumb
The use of a 'dummy' is one of the first stress relievers a human learns; along with crying. I completely support the use of one throughout life. It's an extremely effective method of handling stress, but society thinks that baby/toddler stuff needs to be "let go" at a certain age for some reason. Wouldn't logic tell you that if something works for people, you shouldn't shun it? This sort of thing can be applied to almost the ENTIRE "Freak Like Me" series.
As odd as it is, she is so confident and endearing.
She should sooo invest in some adult paci's, I think she would like them
I don't understand why people say this is wrong, she really isn't hurting anyone. You do you, Annie!
Am I the only one who thought that she kinda looked like Melanie Martinez in the thumbnail?
I absolutely did
Same
Ha ha " when I'm out close shopping and I fancy a suck I just go in the changing rooms" lmfao
I'm almost 13 and I still play with toys and dress up, and play games, and watch cartoons. but then there's the other side of me, tht does my hair, makeup, and hang out with mates
akiko Pii cool
You are allowed to do it
You ate still a kid
I still played with toys until I reached high school
I love my paci
Shayla Cleveland
Niceee
Me to
Same
K think about this, she is sucking on a rubber thing which people think is weird, but smoking which is inhaling nicotine (which is used for painting roads) into your lungs is fine? Totally makes sense.
She seems so sweet! ❤️
Same!! I'm 20 soon and I still have one, it calms me down and I can sleep better with it
I want one! I've heard they are great for relieving jaw pain, & just relaxing. I'd definitely believe it watching her, she looks so chilled out & happy! ^_^
Not only that, but look at her sculpted cheek bones! I hadn't thought of that, but having seen her I reckon it might be quite a good work out for your cheeks too, which is never a bad thing. ^_^
She has developed a fixation. Good thing she does not smoke.
She seems sweet! Bit of a strange habit but we've all got our weird stuff lol
I'm 23 and i bought today a cute purple dummy and it IS helping a bit with my anxiety, calms me down and it's kinda comforting. It's a form of oral stimming (i have adhd and autism) and i wish i knew i could do it sooner. I also bought a rubber baby thing for chewing 😊
btw she doesn't look like she's 18 she looks like 20
Who cares if they do it? I personally think is absolutely adorable!!
I never had a dummy as a baby but I have anxiety so I stuck my thumb (as a way of covering my face so no one can look at me) I want a dummy
I can relate to this on a personal level as I still have a dummy I’ve never really gave it up I’m 19 years old and I’m not ashamed of it! The only bad thing is that it’s pushed my teeth out funny so now I’ve got like an open over bite but apart from that I am happy with the way I am 🥰
I started using an adult one when I was about 19 I’m 20 and use it every day I’ve had to get some new ones tho it’s not the same one but yeah
Don't blame her, my parents made me give up my dummy
I'm 17 and still have several Mam Perfect binkies
My mum enjoys me being more babyish on weekends while I'm not at college I still drink bottles too (Nuk/Mam/Avent)
And (for medical reasons I have to wear adult sized nappies I've always had a weak bladder.
I am never going to give up my dummy!!
Ha
You know what, me neither.
it's fine if she does that as long as she is happy it's freaking adorable too
Whatever makes you feel happy
Seeing this made me so happy 😊!! I suck my thumb, I'm twelve and there is almost no way I can stop: it's attached to me! 😂😂
I tried to tell my mum that she just has to accept it, and she hasn't spoken of it really since; however, my dad is a complete different story!
This has made me so happy to know that I am not the only one!
Tamsin Curtis ofc ur not the only one, I'm 18 still suck my thumb and getting a pacifier next week!
Pay your dad NO MIND. My dad used to give me hell about my pacifier but I just IGNORED him. And today, I am a very, very successful criminal defense attorney, so I don't need ANYONE, my dad included, to accept me. I am who I am . . . . And if you don't like it, well, there's the door, hunty!
The music in this is groovy. Video is awesome too
I'm almost 18 and still have to sleep with my teddy, even on holidays I have to take it with me😂
That's healthier than having a cigarette!
Way much healthier. At least sucking on a dummy doesn't damage your lungs and make you sick. She should keep on doing this, it's better for her this way. I don't care if some people think it's weird.
She is so pretty
Honestly, I'd like to meet her and give her an interview, she seems really interesting to me.
Honestly, it's not hurting anyone so she can do what she likes!
“When I fancy a suck” me too HAHA
Weird quirks are what make us human. I actually think having a unique or odd habit is quite attractive; it's boring to be "normal" and having a little eccentricity or difference can mean so much in today's world.
That's why i love this series and the people in it. :D
I do the same thing and always have. It is very comforting. Like an anxiety reducer.
Age regression is innocent and is an 100% valid coping mechanism 😊💖
Huh
I'm an age regressor too and I have a couple of pacis in my backpack. There's nothing wrong with it nor is it abnormal, it's a coping mechanism for me.
Tbh, I don't understand what everyone's issue with her is. It's her life, not yours, and her sucking a dummy does not affect you whatsoever. It's simply none of your business.
Ageplay ftw!!!
a Despondent Thespian its not ageplay its just called liking pacifiers stop pushing your nasty fetish into others
Ahaha the part about the baby's dummy is so hilarious
This is actually more normal then you think. Search up age regression. Also great for people with autism or sensory processing disorder
So true
Kylie definately this has helped myself I wish it was more of a thing and acceptable for us autie adults to use pacis or dummies great stim and sensory
My teddy got a dummy nothing ring with that
I could tell from the accent she's from essex
Or because...she literally said she was lol.
She’s gorgeous and cute ❤️
All good. She seems cool. Not hurting anyone. Peace.
I’m an age reggresor/little so i find this normal
what is the name of the song that started at 0:51 ??
Preston Luniewski American Boy by Kanye West
It really doesn't matter, like she's not hurting anyone, although I'm not sure why she wants to advertise it
Each to their own as long as she is not hurting anyone
I think people who dare to do things outside of the societal norm are much cooler.
A confident person doesn't care what others think of them.
I think that there’s a part in all of us that would like to escape back into babyhood sometimes because it’s a time we never had any problems and someone else had all the responsibilities but alas we can’t stay there, we’ve all got to face the real world with all it’s problems and strife.
she seems so sweet tho 😂💕
Does anyone know if she is on social media??
I miss my paci 😞 I sucked it till I was 10 I might relapse 12 years later .
1:16 what the heck is "figitated" ???
im 20 and still sleep with the same teddy for 15 years.
It's a comforting thing
ddlg? 💕
I thought that:3
Lyzie I thought this oml
Lyzie yes!
Cecil Palmer It's not pedophilic because there's no children involved. If I dress up and act like a cat when I have sex with my boyfriend, does it make it bestiality? No.
Simply having a pacifier for comfort is completely different from ddlg😂😂😂😂 ddlg is a power exchange dynamic. Did you stretch before that reach?😂🙄🙄
It's a comfort thing. She's doing no harm.
If she has children of her own, they could have matching dummies!
she has the best smile
She's adorable
"Sucking dummies in their prams"="Sucking pacifiers in their strollers"
Me and my friend went to the dollar store and got one for fun XD
Melanie, is that you? 😂