Spot on Marie Anne. I am ten years older than you and I feel that I have finally found my style. I love tailored pieces - frills and flounces are just not me. I have more time now than when my children were small and can really enjoy dressing nicely - even if I'm only going shopping! It's never too late to look great 😊
I just came back from a shopping trip, and as I walked through the stores I had your voice in my head advising me to choose quality over quantity and to Keep it Simple! I decided not to buy anything because I am Finally (at 59!) learning how to shop wisely, like a French woman, and search for the perfect pieces, instead of “making do”! Merci Marie-Anne!!
Hi Jenny! Good for u! U can venture out 2nd have and/or vintage shopping. So many high quality and well structured pieces at very affordable price. Plus. U get to wear unique pieces.
@@daffidalswuli Thrift stores feature so-called "second-hand" clothes that are more often than not brand-new. People buy clothes, put in closet, and by the time they notice them again they have put on too much weight or lost too much to fit well into the clothes. Sometimes the clothing donated was an unwelcome gift and so was never worn. Very often, depending on how close you are to cities, thrift stores are given whole lots of items from high-end stores who want to clear out unsold clothing to make room in stores for the new season's inventory. Many pieces donated are classic enough in style so that they are never out of style and can be tweaked in many ways. Often clothes that have been lightly worn by the original owner are very well-made and show no signs of wear like scuffed collars or cuffs, loosened seams, slight tears, spotting, or even pale ring around the collar. Many readers are well aware of the once-expensive treasures at a good thrift (regionals usually have the most selections), so I am just trying to share goods news with those who may feel a bit squeamish about seeking bargains where they incorrectly assume the clothing will not be of good quality to begin with and may show visible signs of wear.
Great video as always! I had a wonderful trip to France with 2 older ladies, my aunt and her best friend. I was intrigued at how charming and attentive people were to them. In America older women become more invisible somehow. It was food for thought, because we should honor older generations. ❤ I loved so much about the French people I met.
Wow!!!! 😎 That brings it home doesn't it? Lol! Never going to forget that gem!!! ...Thank you, Marie. I watched this with my daughter and we really enjoyed your video together and I emailed it to us both to enjoy again! XOXO 🙋🏻♀️❤💐
OMG love it! My husband and I watch a lot of BBC and love your turn of phrase. We find ourselves using them in conversation. Seriously who wants to look like mutton anyway 🤣🤣🤣
@@ms_prescott_regrets I think you missed the point. The phrase means "older woman dressed like a child." If you're mutton (an older woman) you're not going to look like a lamb no matter what you do, but dressing like a teenager just makes you look ridiculous. Or crazy, like Whatever Happened to Baby Jane.
Marie-Anne, I love this video and your tip for not trying for perfection really hit home. How do you feel about longer hair on an older woman? Your style looks so carefree and chic, but I'm not sure I could pull it off. Do you have any videos (past, present or future) about hair?
Bonjour Cindy - oooo good question. I have seen some older women with amazing long hair sadly they are the very rare exception. As women age their hair becomes brittle and even thins out (I suffer stress alopecia) so generally I advise older women to have shorter hair to avoid having too much thin, straggly grey hair around their face which does not do them any favours. If your hair is in good condition and thick then go for it 😃
Yesterday was my 80th birthday and inside one day I am 50 and the next 18. Hard to know what to wear anymore. Not like my granddaughters but not old and dowdy either. Maybe we need a consultation
I've been working on my style thanks to your videos. I watched you for months and months before starting to do anything about it. I had gained weight and developed the habit of just wearing leggings or jeans with baggy top unless I had date or speaking engagement. I didn't want to buy new clothes until I lost the weight but in doing so I looked not my best at all. I am so grateful for your videos. I'm also thankful for your courses and your style subscription. I love your Style Journal and the book I ordered called How to Be Chic & Elegant. Thank you Marie-Anne!!!!
Comme d’habitude, de bons conseils. I would add that a well-tailored tweed skirt, which is something that can be stylish for a long time, can be “modernized” with a silk top or cashmere sweater, and shoes with a bit of a heel. As for not following trends religiously, a small accessory in the “in” colour of the year can keep an outfit looking current. For example, I own - and wear - some quality pieces of jewellery, but if the season’s colour is something that doesn’t really suit me (e.g. tangerine, khaki, yellow, etc.) some inexpensive costume jewellery or an inexpensive scarf with those colours can keep the look fresh. And then I can donate it to charity.
Marie-Anne, you get more gorgeous with every passing year, what a great role model you are :-) Your advice is spot on as always. I am 54 and in my early 40s I started collecting photos of beautiful women in their 60s, 70s and even 80s. It is a wonderful affirmation that women can be beautiful at any age.
Great viideo madam....... Just moved to a very large acreage and doing hte garden and of course old clothes become gardening clothes and still enjoy getting dressed oroperly for the rest of the day....... so right about life and style being a journey
I love your encouragement! I don't buy 'fast fashion' and spend more time looking for things I really like now such as things made from natural fibres. My latest purchase was a classic v neck cardigan made of cotton and silk. It feels luxurious and helps boost my self esteem. Merci for this channel Marie-Anne! x
How do define the styles that only a Chinese l We are talking about elegance. In fashion no one can carry a cheongsam with ease like a Chinese lady the kimono by a Japanese the Thai ladies in their aui dais and the Spanish senioiritas In. Their off shoulder tops and flamingo skirts and other ethnic backgrounds ? There is a certain elegance in. Their styles too.do we. Limit fashion sense only on how the French do ? Although I love the word chic that is the look I like not predictable and creative but in good taste and quality quality!
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Thank you, you always make my day. Sydney is in lockdown and I’m so grateful for your videos. I love them all and I love you! Thank you again xxxx 💐💐💐
Another excellent and helpful video 😊👍 I’m in my 40s and I meant so much from your videos ! Your warmth, humour and charm ( apart from style etc) is something to admire and aspire for.
Best suggestions! Don't strive for perfection, don't try too hard... when you try too hard, you are selling yourself short, you are not happy! So true. Be happy, be the best yourself, or, when you have accepted yourself, just be happy, because now is you at your best!
So happy to have found you and subscribed today! This 56 year old American woman agrees with you 💯%. 🇫🇷🇺🇸 I have been mixing tailored and trendy lately by wrapping the base of my messy bun with a tidy braid.
Wonderful and such an inspiring and relevant video again. I feel you speak directly to me and I am sure most of your followers do too. I like to think of my style as a hobby, not an obsession, which ties in with your ‘don’t try too hard to be perfect’ analogy. The more time I spend thinking about my style (within reason of course!) the more confident I feel generally. I’m getting help to chose an outfit for my son’s wedding and am taking much of your advice on board to create an elegant unfussy outfit that I am comfortable but also feel fab in. Brilliant and good luck with your new channel! 🙏
I went out two days ago to get my car washed. Since it was a good day to test out a new outfit on unsuspecting strangers, I wore mostly white: white slacks, white cashmere sweater, beige blazer, white ballet shoes. The only things not white on me were a large pair of dark sunglasses and red red lips. I was absolutely NOT invisible. Your style tips are very on point and accurate. Thank you.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur It really is true, what you said. We're really not invisible if we carry ourselves in a way that shows we are confident. Great lesson I learned. Normally, I would just throw on some old clothes to take my car to get it washed (we are not allowed to wash our own cars since we are in a drought, so the professionals have a system that recycles water from previous car washings). But I am now taking every chance to dress in a nice style to go out and do chores and errands. No more looking dumpy frumpy for me. ❤️
Agree with most. I do think there is a point where pared down elegance becomes a little boring and adding something eccentric takes it up a notch. My pet hates are slogans and messages, especially designer and fakes with designer logo as print, including handbags, even originals!
Can you speak the link for the Briton master class? I cant seem see it below. I love YOUR style Marianne. Each of these fashion "must nots" are SPOT ON. Thank you🙏
Your content is always so helpful. I’m in a unique position. My husband is French, I am AmErican…and 12 years older than he is. We’ve been happily married for 27 years…and I an grateful…I still do not feel as though I as confident as I should be…not totally comfortable in my own skin. I am trying to buy better clothes…do you have any other specific tips for the confidence part? Thank so so much A bientôt! Ellen
Hi i am over well over 60 ! from Uk i dress classical In blazers , , white shirts , white tee shirts , shoes punps and pumps with heels in cream navy black ! shifts dresses , with blazers over the top ,trousers which fit me , yes some of mine are older ! but i love scarves ,
Wonderful advice! And your hair looks SO CHIC. Is it a little different cut? Maybe it’s just a combination of that PERFECT shade of lipstick on you (Russian Red) and your black top. Looks GREAT on you. As always, thanks for another great video! And I agree, especially on the last one…. BUY BETTER CLOTHES. Better clothing ALWAYS makes a person look better! (And feel better & more confident) And they last!
I’ve got a few years before 50, but this is good advice period. Where I live, a lot of women dress like they are TRYING to get noticed with the “sexy” attire - it’s a little sad.
Thank you Marie-Anne for your 10 invaluable points. May I suggest a No. 11 ? Get a GREAT HAIRCUT ! However chic your clothes, messy, badly coloured hair that may also be too long - is a complete no-no for girls over 50.
I agree. I see some older women who wear their hair so long. Not implying that everyone needs to go short but sometimes that long hair hanging down really drags down their face...and it's really not doing them any favors.
Just came upon your video...subscribed and love it!! Approaching 70 years old, but thats no big deal. Love keeping it classy and simple. I do find difficulty shopping for clothing in US department stores for this look any ideas on online shopping sitesfor women in my age group.
Excellent tips 💗 I have two quotes that fit two of your points. One is from the film Sunset Boulevard. William Holden’s character tells the iconic character Norma Desmond that being 50 is fine as long as you don’t act 25. Also Clothes make the man (or woman) I did what you said when I turned 50 and went through my wardrobe. I also talked with friends older than me and who have great and unique style. I personally feel it’s hard here in California because of Hollywood and youth obsession. No one wants to admit their age here and are shocked by those of us that do. Like you said we are not dead, we matter. We need to help our younger counterparts navigate life. Your tips are great for all ages. Love watching you and learning from you. 💗💗💗
Hello, Marie-Anne, I had not seen your videos in a while, and I kind of missed your personality !! happy to see you back. As always, your classic chic tips are relevant. Yes, style is the key, but I think it is nice to style according to the mood and circumstances. Maybe it would be useful to mention stature and morphology, for I think a petite woman is more versatile in wearing "young looks" because we look physically closer to "teenage" and looking too "madame" is not the good pick. Yes, the art is to style who we are mixing pieces with what makes us look good and womanly confidence, and not too boring. Thank you for being you !
Trends in fashion now, that I wore as a child, eg. Puff-sleeve tops or dresses. I distinctly remember dancing around a maypole at school in a dress with puff-sleeves and a full skirt, which was fine back then, I was about seven. I can’t imagine wearing that style now!
Oh yea! The 80’s are back. I saw it at Target. The ruffles the pants and dresses. AND the Madonna song Borderline was playing while I was looking at everything. It felt like a time warp. It brought back some fond memories but I have no desire to be 18 again thank you very much 🤣
I am pretty casual and I like wearing nice clothes, but I wear very simple make up only at work, in my private time just a lip gloss is ok for me, in fact I don t own any kind of powders, concealers, blush etc just mascara, some eyeshadow and a few lip glosses
Thank you very much. Agree with in every point except it’s very hard to find nice fitted pieces. Because with age our bodies change and nothing fits properly. As a seamstress working in alteration business
I love you& your taste on clothes.....you are my favorite, do you have a video on little short and a woman of 70 should dress.....Thank You soooo much MS MARIE ANNE
Spot on as usual Marie-Anne. Nothing dates you more than dressing the same as your daughter! I often take my 23 year old daughter with me when I shop just in case I have a moment of madness. Changing the shops you look in is important I think. But there seems to be gap between clothes for women up to 35 and then Miss Marple style - I'm older, not ancient!
Madame Lecoeur...where I live everyone from tweens to grandmas carry luxury handbags and other luxury items. Does this happen in France? How do elegant women in France deal with this?
Interesting video Marie Anne. We all need to be aware with clothes and make up that's appropriate too. I was just wondering about racer back tops. I like them, when worn with the right bra, but do you think they are suitable for any age? I'm thinking for informal / outdoor wear, not dressing up.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Thanks for your reply about the racer back tops Marie Anne. While a younger woman can get away without much exercise as we get older we need to watch out for the bingo wings and do something to keep the arms in shape.🏋️
Bonjour Marie-Anne. Always good to remember. I have lived by those fashion rules. The way women wear clothes that are too tight is what I dislike the most at the moment. Young women often tug at their dresses that are riding up and pulling up theirs tops and dresses and they can hardly walk in their heels and tight skirts. They just look so uncomfortable and aren’t flattering at all. Clothes that skim the body but aren’t tight are much more flattering. Pregnant women with skin-tight dresses and a belly button poking out is awful. Maybe that’s just me. Mine didn’t protrude but still, I don’t think very tight, belly clinging dresses look nice. I’m still working on my style. I know what I like but the hardest bit for me is whether it suits me. Thank you for keeping me on track. 😊
Hi, Marie-Anne. I am a 68-year-old Canadian from Toronto, Canada. When I was younger, I worked downtown, and the Canadian women dressed in much more classic pieces and in good taste when they were working. What a shock it was for me when we moved to the Miami, Florida area in 2004, where "anything" goes! I know it's hot, but everyone was wearing stretchy shorts and cheap, revealing tank tops along with rubber flip-flops when they lined up to get into a really good restaurant. Most of these women (and men) should NEVER be wearing these pieces, even in the comfort of their own homes, as they certainly did not have the body type to show off. I noticed that in the United States, a lot of women showed a lot of leg and cleavage when going to the office. We women in Toronto had always dressed very appropriately for work, for fear of looking unprofessional. So, I guess what I want to say is, that Canadians DO tend to dress somewhat more like Parisians, at least in a professional setting. However, when you take these same women out of the office, admittedly, they can get a bit too casual. Also, the new generation is leaning towards the "too sexy." I think that this is the bad influence of social media.
I am transitioning my wardrobe to middle age. I am getting rid of spaghetti straps and strappy sandals. I find that each outfit will have one focus, something I want to draw attention to. This is different from my youthful style that showed everything all at once. Sometimes I wear things that emphasize my waist. Other times, I emphasize my slender arms or my collar bones. Also. I know what parts of my body are bigger (bust, bottom, ankles) and what parts are petite (waist, neck, arms, legs). I can add volume to the smaller areas and keep the larger areas simple and streamline. I've done away with most all graphic t-shirts and do not go outside in workout clothes unless I am actively going to exercise. Getting old doesn't terrify me. Dressing inappropriately for my age does!
A little too minimal for my taste. Tasteful, yes. But inspired? I'm not quite sure. Still, a great presentation for ladies who like this look, of which I am one (sometimes).
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Yes, it can be. My romantic spirit seeks more, something different than this. That's all. I am too expressive for this style but I do enjoy aspects of it.
O Marie-Anne, here in the US you are old if you hit 35😮 and people asking your age the minute they meet you😮 I have been fighting with it for years and never told anyone how old I am and certainly don't look or act my age😊 and people think my silver hair is colored and not natural 😊😊❤
I have heard the French expression that when we age, we should dress "more like a mutton, not like a lamb". Don't remember exactly how to say it in French, but I think that's your point, Oui?
Hard to find clothes that fit large breasted women. Did not see too many large breasted women in France. Though……my French sister-in-law’s father( I’m Australian) loved to give me hugs when we saw each other, as well as the big grin he had on his face afterwards!!!
Marie - Anne I just love when you say with such passion in your voice: 'maturity is beautiful, embrace it with style and confidence' ... so inspirational, I really needed to hear it!
Thank you Marie-Anne for your wisdom: you are totally correct. In the United States we are too obsessed the “sexy” looks. They are anything but sexy ; they reek of vulgarity and bad taste
I had to turn off a program about .... because the woman host had her breasts hanging out. I'm not watching that with my husband! I don't even show that much skin in my own home! It's not feminine at all, it's gross. It's funny, you don't see men showing off their body parts like that, ever! Why do women think is okay? Men know exactly what you're doing, and know you are quite aware that your boobs are hanging out and all you succeed in doing is losing their respect. In my world, respect is EVERYTHING!
Hallelujah sister! What happened to styles that Ginger Rogers, Joan Crawford and Audrey Hepburn wore? Many are classic pieces. Rita Hayworth was sexy but not vulgar. I used to watch the Oscars for the clothes but have been disappointed. Maybe someone someday will bring true class back.
@@noeldeal8087 You are right! Sometimes I try to watch Romanian television shows. All you can see,those low self-esteem women,and and they’re cheap clothes with boobs hanging out, everywhere.
I'm 58 and lost a lot of weight. Along the way your videos have helped me build a complete new wardrobe of mostly high quality 2nd hand pieces. You explained well what to look for to find good clothes. Thank you. Overall I'm more stylish now even though I'll soon be 60. So what...
I'm 62 and still re-evaluating my style every year. I noticed that when I wear good quality, well cut clothes, I feel more confident. So I got rid of cheap pieces. Thank you for your advice, you help us so much.
Style forever! I’m 61 and can’t ever imagine not enjoying fashion and style! Among the other usual joys, like looking and feeling great, it’s one of my creative outlets.
I love this channel so much. No words can really explain how much it's helped me as a person. I'm over 50. It's because of this Channel that I adopted new ways of dressing that make me feel amazing.❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this video Marie-Anne! I could not agree more with all the mistakes you mentioned, especially looking overly sexy. I think it looks vulgar at any age. I find that I look sexier and more confident now that I am 55 than I ever did. I too love to pair my tweed blazers with jeans, that's one of my favorite combinations. Nothing looks more desperate than a woman trying to look 20 years younger. It's not always easy to grow old as our body goes through so many changes and we have to adjust our style along the way.
I will be 77 in September. Men still notice and it's because I am confident. Last year I was wearing a pair of indian silk print trousers. They were very beautiful full, not "sexy" and a strange man complimented me on them in a store! I never wore them again. I don't need strange men noticing my trousers. Especially in the Middle East where I live. But if they notice my overall look and are appropriate, bring it on. I'm single. ☺
I'm actually in Israel and "classic" isn't really a big style here. Most women go for trends even older ones and I could do a whole sociological study on why but it's irrelevant. Clothes are expensive too although there are some coming in from Italy that are reasonably priced like the linen dress I bought the other day for 50€. It's very simple. It does have a handkerchief hem but the highest part is just below my knees so I can have it modified if I want. I'm an artist so my "style" can be a bit varied. When I went into the store where I got the dress and which is owned by a French woman, btw, I had on a madras patchwork maxi skirt and a plain linen top. And we sort of joked about my preference for variety. I actually got that outfit in Italy a couple of years ago, but it's fine for going out doing errands in the morning. When I go to church I dress more elegantly. I never, ever wear trousers let alone jeans and my hemlines vary but I try to keep it simple. Not easy here.
Yes, Marie-Anne, i completely agree. I want to maintain my self-respect by not trying to look like a 16 year old since I will just end up looking ridiculous, cheap and desperate. It will definitely not suit me anyway, and I don't want to be an eyesore. Nevertheless, I don't want to look like my great grandmama either, and so I try to be stylish and elegant and agree with and love your tips on dressing and fashion. Thank you so much!
Thank you Marie-Anne. Older women wearing makeup and lipstick that don’t suit their age. I also see older women wearing tight leggings. My poor eyes…. Have a great week. Love from Texas
If I'm out shopping with a friend it becomes a joint venture, and honest replies are so vital to honest friendship. So I've started to be able to say we can do better. Which simply means "there's something better out there, let's keep looking."
Thank you Marie-Anne! Your video is inspiring and uplifting for ladies such as myself who might need help embracing our style as we get a little bit older and staying confident. Your positive and affirming attitude helps you remain youthful. Your videos are always so warm and encouraging. Thank youX
Great tips, no extremes, work on confidence, no drab clothes
Spot on Marie Anne. I am ten years older than you and I feel that I have finally found my style. I love tailored pieces - frills and flounces are just not me. I have more time now than when my children were small and can really enjoy dressing nicely - even if I'm only going shopping! It's never too late to look great 😊
I just came back from a shopping trip, and as I walked through the stores I had your voice in my head advising me to choose quality over quantity and to Keep it Simple! I decided not to buy anything because I am Finally (at 59!) learning how to shop wisely, like a French woman, and search for the perfect pieces, instead of “making do”! Merci Marie-Anne!!
Love it :)
Merci Marie-Anne! Your videos are inspiring.
Hi Jenny! Good for u! U can venture out 2nd have and/or vintage shopping. So many high quality and well structured pieces at very affordable price. Plus. U get to wear unique pieces.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur "Elegance is restraint" -- didn't Madame Coco Chanel say that?
@@daffidalswuli Thrift stores feature so-called "second-hand" clothes that are more often than not brand-new. People buy clothes, put in closet, and by the time they notice them again they have put on too much weight or lost too much to fit well into the clothes. Sometimes the clothing donated was an unwelcome gift and so was never worn. Very often, depending on how close you are to cities, thrift stores are given whole lots of items from high-end stores who want to clear out unsold clothing to make room in stores for the new season's inventory. Many pieces donated are classic enough in style so that they are never out of style and can be tweaked in many ways. Often clothes that have been lightly worn by the original owner are very well-made and show no signs of wear like scuffed collars or cuffs, loosened seams, slight tears, spotting, or even pale ring around the collar. Many readers are well aware of the once-expensive treasures at a good thrift (regionals usually have the most selections), so I am just trying to share goods news with those who may feel a bit squeamish about seeking bargains where they incorrectly assume the clothing will not be of good quality to begin with and may show visible signs of wear.
Great video as always! I had a wonderful trip to France with 2 older ladies, my aunt and her best friend. I was intrigued at how charming and attentive people were to them. In America older women become more invisible somehow. It was food for thought, because we should honor older generations. ❤ I loved so much about the French people I met.
In Britain we have a saying for women dressing to young for their age.
😂 " mutton dressed as lamb " 😂
Love all of your tips.
😅🤣😂
Same in NZ and Australia.
Wow!!!! 😎 That brings it home doesn't it? Lol! Never going to forget that gem!!! ...Thank you, Marie. I watched this with my daughter and we really enjoyed your video together and I emailed it to us both to enjoy again! XOXO 🙋🏻♀️❤💐
OMG love it! My husband and I watch a lot of BBC and love your turn of phrase. We find ourselves using them in conversation. Seriously who wants to look like mutton anyway 🤣🤣🤣
@@ms_prescott_regrets I think you missed the point. The phrase means "older woman dressed like a child." If you're mutton (an older woman) you're not going to look like a lamb no matter what you do, but dressing like a teenager just makes you look ridiculous. Or crazy, like Whatever Happened to Baby Jane.
Every tip is spot-on! Love how you kindly encourage us to grow (in our style) 😊 Merci!
Merci, Marie-Anne. I absolutely agree that lack of confidence on the inside shows on the outside. Yet another wonderful video.
You speak my language. Thank you for reassuring me in my style choices. I've always preferred classics over the latest trends. Merci beaucoup!
I'm 30 but your advices are just good for any age 🙂 thank you for being so passionate and kind and generous in sharing the wisdom 🧡
I am new to your channel. Your enthusiasm is very infectious, and endearing. All your videos are well thought-out and helpful. Thank-you SO much!
Marie-Anne, I love this video and your tip for not trying for perfection really hit home. How do you feel about longer hair on an older woman? Your style looks so carefree and chic, but I'm not sure I could pull it off. Do you have any videos (past, present or future) about hair?
Bonjour Cindy - oooo good question. I have seen some older women with amazing long hair sadly they are the very rare exception. As women age their hair becomes brittle and even thins out (I suffer stress alopecia) so generally I advise older women to have shorter hair to avoid having too much thin, straggly grey hair around their face which does not do them any favours. If your hair is in good condition and thick then go for it 😃
Wise words from a very wise lady. Thank you Marie Anne
Yesterday was my 80th birthday and inside one day I am 50 and the next 18. Hard to know what to wear anymore. Not like my granddaughters but not old and dowdy either. Maybe we need a consultation
Happy birthday!
At 79 I still struggle with what to wear, still love my jeans and tees, still trying to keep my confidence up!
I love what you said - don't look like you are chasing your youth!! That's so true. And then the opposite - dressing too old - tweed!! 😄
I've been working on my style thanks to your videos. I watched you for months and months before starting to do anything about it. I had gained weight and developed the habit of just wearing leggings or jeans with baggy top unless I had date or speaking engagement. I didn't want to buy new clothes until I lost the weight but in doing so I looked not my best at all. I am so grateful for your videos. I'm also thankful for your courses and your style subscription. I love your Style Journal and the book I ordered called How to Be Chic & Elegant. Thank you Marie-Anne!!!!
Comme d’habitude, de bons conseils. I would add that a well-tailored tweed skirt, which is something that can be stylish for a long time, can be “modernized” with a silk top or cashmere sweater, and shoes with a bit of a heel. As for not following trends religiously, a small accessory in the “in” colour of the year can keep an outfit looking current. For example, I own - and wear - some quality pieces of jewellery, but if the season’s colour is something that doesn’t really suit me (e.g. tangerine, khaki, yellow, etc.) some inexpensive costume jewellery or an inexpensive scarf with those colours can keep the look fresh. And then I can donate it to charity.
Great advice, Marie-Anne. Thank you.
Marie-Anne, you get more gorgeous with every passing year, what a great role model you are :-) Your advice is spot on as always. I am 54 and in my early 40s I started collecting photos of beautiful women in their 60s, 70s and even 80s. It is a wonderful affirmation that women can be beautiful at any age.
Great viideo madam....... Just moved to a very large acreage and doing hte garden and of course old clothes become gardening clothes and still enjoy getting dressed oroperly for the rest of the day....... so right about life and style being a journey
Very good vlog Marie-Anne, thank you. I try to follow your tips all the time and these are particularly essential...The 10 commandments of style.
Thank you so much.
I love your encouragement! I don't buy 'fast fashion' and spend more time looking for things I really like now such as things made from natural fibres. My latest purchase was a classic v neck cardigan made of cotton and silk. It feels luxurious and helps boost my self esteem. Merci for this channel Marie-Anne! x
How do define the styles that only a Chinese l
We are talking about elegance. In fashion no one can carry a cheongsam with ease like a Chinese lady the kimono by a Japanese the Thai ladies in their aui dais and the Spanish senioiritas In. Their off shoulder tops and flamingo skirts and other ethnic backgrounds ? There is a certain elegance in. Their styles too.do we. Limit fashion sense only on how the French do ? Although I love the word chic that is the look I like not predictable and creative but in good taste and quality quality!
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Thank you Marie-Anne
I’m turning 53 on July 14, Bastille Day and no, no, no I don’t want to make any fashion mistakes.
A great video xxx❤️❤️❤️
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Thank you so much 😊🎈🎈🎈🎈🍷🍷
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Thank you, you always make my day. Sydney is in lockdown and I’m so grateful for your videos. I love them all and I love you! Thank you again xxxx 💐💐💐
Another excellent and helpful video 😊👍 I’m in my 40s and I meant so much from your videos ! Your warmth, humour and charm ( apart from style etc) is something to admire and aspire for.
Best suggestions!
Don't strive for perfection, don't try too hard... when you try too hard, you are selling yourself short, you are not happy! So true.
Be happy, be the best yourself, or, when you have accepted yourself, just be happy, because now is you at your best!
Thanks for the upbeat video .
I an French and I agree on all points. However, I would like more visual, comparing f the good and bad ways to dress when getting older.
Great MarieAnne L. thank you
Well said Marie-Anne, all good advice thank you !
I am not in my 50s, and I look up to your tips 💖 you are so graceful.
So happy to have found you and subscribed today! This 56 year old American woman agrees with you 💯%. 🇫🇷🇺🇸
I have been mixing tailored and trendy lately by wrapping the base of my messy bun with a tidy braid.
Cranberry. Silver pins and earrings. Thank you for all your tips.
I dressed up like Miss Marple for Halloween one year. I wore head to toe tweed! 😂
😅🤣😂
Wonderful and such an inspiring and relevant video again. I feel you speak directly to me and I am sure most of your followers do too. I like to think of my style as a hobby, not an obsession, which ties in with your ‘don’t try too hard to be perfect’ analogy. The more time I spend thinking about my style (within reason of course!) the more confident I feel generally. I’m getting help to chose an outfit for my son’s wedding and am taking much of your advice on board to create an elegant unfussy outfit that I am comfortable but also feel fab in. Brilliant and good luck with your new channel! 🙏
I am a person of few words. This video deserves only one. "Fabulous"
Excellent tips, Marie-Anne!
I went out two days ago to get my car washed. Since it was a good day to test out a new outfit on unsuspecting strangers, I wore mostly white: white slacks, white cashmere sweater, beige blazer, white ballet shoes. The only things not white on me were a large pair of dark sunglasses and red red lips. I was absolutely NOT invisible. Your style tips are very on point and accurate. Thank you.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur It really is true, what you said. We're really not invisible if we carry ourselves in a way that shows we are confident. Great lesson I learned. Normally, I would just throw on some old clothes to take my car to get it washed (we are not allowed to wash our own cars since we are in a drought, so the professionals have a system that recycles water from previous car washings). But I am now taking every chance to dress in a nice style to go out and do chores and errands. No more looking dumpy frumpy for me. ❤️
Marie-Anne, thank you very much for your wonderful advice.
Agree with most. I do think there is a point where pared down elegance becomes a little boring and adding something eccentric takes it up a notch. My pet hates are slogans and messages, especially designer and fakes with designer logo as print, including handbags, even originals!
Tweed in England is very different to tweed a la Coco Chanel. Chalk and cheese.
Can you speak the link for the Briton master class? I cant seem see it below. I love YOUR style Marianne. Each of these fashion "must nots" are SPOT ON. Thank you🙏
Your content is always so helpful. I’m in a unique position. My husband is French, I am AmErican…and 12 years older than he is. We’ve been happily married for 27 years…and I an grateful…I still do not feel as though I as confident as I should be…not totally comfortable in my own skin. I am trying to buy better clothes…do you have any other specific tips for the confidence part? Thank so so much A bientôt! Ellen
Great advice, as usual. Merci!
Thanks Marie-Anne, for the wonderful tips. By the way, your hair is looking lovely. I like the way you've styled the front.
While I was enjoying your advice, my husband was laughing at your humor. We both are over 60 and liking your videos. Thank you!
Hi i am over well over 60 ! from Uk i dress classical In blazers , , white shirts , white tee shirts , shoes punps and pumps with heels in cream navy black ! shifts dresses , with blazers over the top ,trousers which fit me , yes some of mine are older ! but i love scarves ,
Wonderful advice! And your hair looks SO CHIC. Is it a little different cut? Maybe it’s just a combination of that PERFECT shade of lipstick on you (Russian Red) and your black top. Looks GREAT on you. As always, thanks for another great video! And I agree, especially on the last one…. BUY BETTER CLOTHES. Better clothing ALWAYS makes a person look better! (And feel better & more confident) And they last!
I’ve got a few years before 50, but this is good advice period. Where I live, a lot of women dress like they are TRYING to get noticed with the “sexy” attire - it’s a little sad.
Thank you Marie-Anne for your 10 invaluable points. May I suggest a No. 11 ?
Get a GREAT HAIRCUT ! However chic your clothes, messy, badly coloured hair that may also be
too long - is a complete no-no for girls over 50.
I absolutely agree.....a good haircut is essential.
I agree. I see some older women who wear their hair so long. Not implying that everyone needs to go short but sometimes that long hair hanging down really drags down their face...and it's really not doing them any favors.
Just came upon your video...subscribed and love it!! Approaching 70 years old, but thats no big deal. Love keeping it classy and simple. I do find difficulty shopping for clothing in US department stores for this look any ideas on online shopping sitesfor women in my age group.
Congratulations on your excellent command of the English language 👏
Thank you for sharing very interesting information!! I agree with you 100 %👍👍👍👍👍
Excellent tips 💗 I have two quotes that fit two of your points. One is from the film Sunset Boulevard. William Holden’s character tells the iconic character Norma Desmond that being 50 is fine as long as you don’t act 25. Also Clothes make the man (or woman) I did what you said when I turned 50 and went through my wardrobe. I also talked with friends older than me and who have great and unique style. I personally feel it’s hard here in California because of Hollywood and youth obsession. No one wants to admit their age here and are shocked by those of us that do. Like you said we are not dead, we matter. We need to help our younger counterparts navigate life. Your tips are great for all ages. Love watching you and learning from you. 💗💗💗
Hello, Marie-Anne,
I had not seen your videos in a while, and I kind of missed your personality !! happy to see you back.
As always, your classic chic tips are relevant. Yes, style is the key, but I think it is nice to style according to the mood and circumstances. Maybe it would be useful to mention stature and morphology, for I think a petite woman is more versatile in wearing "young looks" because we look physically closer to "teenage" and looking too "madame" is not the good pick. Yes, the art is to style who we are mixing pieces with what makes us look good and womanly confidence, and not too boring.
Thank you for being you !
Trends in fashion now, that I wore as a child, eg. Puff-sleeve tops or dresses. I distinctly remember dancing around a maypole at school in a dress with puff-sleeves and a full skirt, which was fine back then, I was about seven. I can’t imagine wearing that style now!
Oh yea! The 80’s are back. I saw it at Target. The ruffles the pants and dresses. AND the Madonna song Borderline was playing while I was looking at everything. It felt like a time warp. It brought back some fond memories but I have no desire to be 18 again thank you very much 🤣
I am pretty casual and I like wearing nice clothes, but I wear very simple make up only at work, in my private time just a lip gloss is ok for me, in fact I don t own any kind of powders, concealers, blush etc just mascara, some eyeshadow and a few lip glosses
You are the best you tuber ever! Good sound advice! I love you so much! Thank you!
Thank you very much.
Agree with in every point except it’s very hard to find nice fitted pieces.
Because with age our bodies change and nothing fits properly.
As a seamstress working in alteration business
Your accent is smashing Miss. Very good fashion tips!
I love you& your taste on clothes.....you are my favorite, do you have a video on little short and a woman of 70 should dress.....Thank You soooo much MS MARIE ANNE
Totally agree with you❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗
I’m 61 and need help appearing soigne. Thank you for making this video.
Nice comment on confidence.
Spot on as usual Marie-Anne. Nothing dates you more than dressing the same as your daughter! I often take my 23 year old daughter with me when I shop just in case I have a moment of madness. Changing the shops you look in is important I think. But there seems to be gap between clothes for women up to 35 and then Miss Marple style - I'm older, not ancient!
Love it, thanks.
Some trends are refined repeats of past fashion. Choose carefully
Madame Lecoeur...where I live everyone from tweens to grandmas carry luxury handbags and other luxury items. Does this happen in France? How do elegant women in France deal with this?
I find that custom made bags (cheaper than you think!) always have class. Check your local shoemaker.
Interesting video Marie Anne. We all need to be aware with clothes and make up that's appropriate too.
I was just wondering about racer back tops. I like them, when worn with the right bra, but do you think they are suitable for any age?
I'm thinking for informal / outdoor wear, not dressing up.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur
Thanks for your reply about the racer back tops Marie Anne.
While a younger woman can get away without much exercise as we get older we need to watch out for the bingo wings and do something to keep the arms in shape.🏋️
Loved the video, and you look great in that black dress with red lipstick. :)
Bonjour Marie-Anne. Always good to remember. I have lived by those fashion rules.
The way women wear clothes that are too tight is what I dislike the most at the moment. Young women often tug at their dresses that are riding up and pulling up theirs tops and dresses and they can hardly walk in their heels and tight skirts. They just look so uncomfortable and aren’t flattering at all.
Clothes that skim the body but aren’t tight are much more flattering. Pregnant women with skin-tight dresses and a belly button poking out is awful. Maybe that’s just me. Mine didn’t protrude but still, I don’t think very tight, belly clinging dresses look nice.
I’m still working on my style. I know what I like but the hardest bit for me is whether it suits me.
Thank you for keeping me on track. 😊
Hi, Marie-Anne. I am a 68-year-old Canadian from Toronto, Canada. When I was younger, I worked downtown, and the Canadian women dressed in much more classic pieces and in good taste when they were working. What a shock it was for me when we moved to the Miami, Florida area in 2004, where "anything" goes! I know it's hot, but everyone was wearing stretchy shorts and cheap, revealing tank tops along with rubber flip-flops when they lined up to get into a really good restaurant. Most of these women (and men) should NEVER be wearing these pieces, even in the comfort of their own homes, as they certainly did not have the body type to show off. I noticed that in the United States, a lot of women showed a lot of leg and cleavage when going to the office. We women in Toronto had always dressed very appropriately for work, for fear of looking unprofessional. So, I guess what I want to say is, that Canadians DO tend to dress somewhat more like Parisians, at least in a professional setting. However, when you take these same women out of the office, admittedly, they can get a bit too casual. Also, the new generation is leaning towards the "too sexy." I think that this is the bad influence of social media.
Merci for sharing your experience Carol 😃
Yes, many Canadians, especially in Montreal, dress better than many Americans. Having said that, sadly, I am seeing standards slip in Quebec.
I am transitioning my wardrobe to middle age. I am getting rid of spaghetti straps and strappy sandals. I find that each outfit will have one focus, something I want to draw attention to. This is different from my youthful style that showed everything all at once. Sometimes I wear things that emphasize my waist. Other times, I emphasize my slender arms or my collar bones. Also. I know what parts of my body are bigger (bust, bottom, ankles) and what parts are petite (waist, neck, arms, legs). I can add volume to the smaller areas and keep the larger areas simple and streamline. I've done away with most all graphic t-shirts and do not go outside in workout clothes unless I am actively going to exercise. Getting old doesn't terrify me. Dressing inappropriately for my age does!
Oh no, I have a Hello Kitty tee shirt! I better make the most of it before I turn 50. 😂
Love you
Ha ha! Miss Marple!!
A little too minimal for my taste. Tasteful, yes. But inspired? I'm not quite sure. Still, a great presentation for ladies who like this look, of which I am one (sometimes).
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Yes, it can be. My romantic spirit seeks more, something different than this. That's all. I am too expressive for this style but I do enjoy aspects of it.
@@MarieAnneLecoeur So true! When you find your own vibe, you are free and authentic!
You look great for nearly 60. 💚
দারুন I done subscribe
O Marie-Anne, here in the US you are old if you hit 35😮 and people asking your age the minute they meet you😮 I have been fighting with it for years and never told anyone how old I am and certainly don't look or act my age😊 and people think my silver hair is colored and not natural 😊😊❤
Stay young at heart Sophie 😘
good common sense
Agreed! ❤️✨
Hello kitty tshirt🤣
Desolee des ‘typos’
I have heard the French expression that when we age, we should dress "more like a mutton, not like a lamb". Don't remember exactly how to say it in French, but I think that's your point, Oui?
Looking more intellectual sounds more like my speed. Very good. No cleavage, very good!!!
Hard to find clothes that fit large breasted women. Did not see too many large breasted women in France. Though……my French sister-in-law’s father( I’m Australian) loved to give me hugs when we saw each other, as well as the big grin he had on his face afterwards!!!
I think you're wonderful🤗
Marie - Anne I just love when you say with such passion in your voice: 'maturity is beautiful, embrace it with style and confidence' ... so inspirational, I really needed to hear it!
Thank you Marie-Anne for your wisdom: you are totally correct. In the United States we are too obsessed the “sexy” looks. They are anything but sexy ; they reek of vulgarity and bad taste
Totally agree! We have lost our sense of class: it's best use in appearance & behavior. Oh, beloved America, are you listening?
I had to turn off a program about .... because the woman host had her breasts hanging out. I'm not watching that with my husband! I don't even show that much skin in my own home! It's not feminine at all, it's gross. It's funny, you don't see men showing off their body parts like that, ever! Why do women think is okay? Men know exactly what you're doing, and know you are quite aware that your boobs are hanging out and all you succeed in doing is losing their respect. In my world, respect is EVERYTHING!
Hallelujah sister! What happened to styles that Ginger Rogers, Joan Crawford and Audrey Hepburn wore? Many are classic pieces. Rita Hayworth was sexy but not vulgar. I used to watch the Oscars for the clothes but have been disappointed. Maybe someone someday will bring true class back.
@@noeldeal8087 You are right!
Sometimes I try to watch Romanian television shows. All you can see,those low self-esteem women,and and they’re cheap clothes with boobs hanging out, everywhere.
No style in America.... just T shirts and sweat pants, no elegance!
I'm 58 and lost a lot of weight. Along the way your videos have helped me build a complete new wardrobe of mostly high quality 2nd hand pieces. You explained well what to look for to find good clothes. Thank you.
Overall I'm more stylish now even though I'll soon be 60. So what...
I buy 85% of my clothes 2nd hand at 66!
I am 57 and I feel my body is changing fast. No point in spending a lot of money for clothing, if I need to buy cloths more often.
I'm 62 and still re-evaluating my style every year. I noticed that when I wear good quality, well cut clothes, I feel more confident. So I got rid of cheap pieces. Thank you for your advice, you help us so much.
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Me too, Marion Sinclair. I’m 63 and am having such fun with fashion these days.
Style forever! I’m 61 and can’t ever imagine not enjoying fashion and style! Among the other usual joys, like looking and feeling great, it’s one of my creative outlets.
67, ditto!
I love this channel so much. No words can really explain how much it's helped me as a person. I'm over 50. It's because of this Channel that I adopted new ways of dressing that make me feel amazing.❤❤❤❤
I am very happy that it has resonated with you FlipMacz 🤗 give Poppy a hug for me 🐾🤗
Thank you for this video Marie-Anne! I could not agree more with all the mistakes you mentioned, especially looking overly sexy. I think it looks vulgar at any age. I find that I look sexier and more confident now that I am 55 than I ever did. I too love to pair my tweed blazers with jeans, that's one of my favorite combinations. Nothing looks more desperate than a woman trying to look 20 years younger. It's not always easy to grow old as our body goes through so many changes and we have to adjust our style along the way.
I will be 77 in September. Men still notice and it's because I am confident. Last year I was wearing a pair of indian silk print trousers. They were very beautiful full, not "sexy" and a strange man complimented me on them in a store! I never wore them again. I don't need strange men noticing my trousers. Especially in the Middle East where I live. But if they notice my overall look and are appropriate, bring it on. I'm single. ☺
I'm actually in Israel and "classic" isn't really a big style here. Most women go for trends even older ones and I could do a whole sociological study on why but it's irrelevant. Clothes are expensive too although there are some coming in from Italy that are reasonably priced like the linen dress I bought the other day for 50€. It's very simple. It does have a handkerchief hem but the highest part is just below my knees so I can have it modified if I want. I'm an artist so my "style" can be a bit varied. When I went into the store where I got the dress and which is owned by a French woman, btw, I had on a madras patchwork maxi skirt and a plain linen top. And we sort of joked about my preference for variety. I actually got that outfit in Italy a couple of years ago, but it's fine for going out doing errands in the morning. When I go to church I dress more elegantly. I never, ever wear trousers let alone jeans and my hemlines vary but I try to keep it simple. Not easy here.
Yes, Marie-Anne, i completely agree. I want to maintain my self-respect by not trying to look like a 16 year old since I will just end up looking ridiculous, cheap and desperate. It will definitely not suit me anyway, and I don't want to be an eyesore. Nevertheless, I don't want to look like my great grandmama either, and so I try to be stylish and elegant and agree with and love your tips on dressing and fashion. Thank you so much!
Such very sage advice, and at almost 80 and I still embrace those concepts. Basically the common denominator is just using good taste
Thank you Marie-Anne. Older women wearing makeup and lipstick that don’t suit their age. I also see older women wearing tight leggings. My poor eyes…. Have a great week. Love from Texas
I adore Ms. Marple....but no, I don't want to look like her, lol 😉. Merci!
@@MarieAnneLecoeur Miss Marple knew how to dress correctly for every occasion.
When I was younger, I always loved the gorgeous Cape of Mrs Marple - I wanted to have one like that 😬 lol🤣
Same here 😅🤣
I just want her brain 🧠
@@allinclusive4943 the one worn by the Margaret Rutherford version, right? I loved her cottage, too. ;-)
I have a friend who will say something like “those shoes don’t serve you well” a nice way to say something is not right for you.
My daughters and I say, “I think we can do better.” 😄
If I'm out shopping with a friend it becomes a joint venture, and honest replies are so vital to honest friendship. So I've started to be able to say we can do better. Which simply means "there's something better out there, let's keep looking."
Thank you Marie-Anne! Your video is inspiring and uplifting for ladies such as myself who might need help embracing our style as we get a little bit older and staying confident. Your positive and affirming attitude helps you remain youthful. Your videos are always so warm and encouraging. Thank youX