For the last piece of advice.. That includes if you feel like the sherpa. Don't make the mistake of thinking that because someone needed you once they'll always need you. Life changes, one moment never persists. Enjoy what you have as if you'll never have it again.
It's good general advice but there are subset of people who *need* someone else because devoting your life to yourself feels meaningless. There are people who live to help the world and take care of others, people who want to conquer the world and people who are somewhere neutral in between. If you take the person who lives for others and tell them to "grind" just for themselves, it's like a recipe for depression.
@@wowandrss That's called "codependency" and it's extremely unhealthy. You shouldn't have a relationship that imbalanced. Like Otz said, they are your partner, not your sherpa. You need to protect each other equally, and if they fall off the mountain, you need to be able to keep climbing even though it will be harder alone. Someone who feels like they need to be in an imbalanced relationship to offset clinical depression is someone who needs to get help for themselves and seek out therapy immediately.
@@mayebeline1149 So every person who lives in commitment to the service of others because that's how they derive meaning in life, is clinically depressed and should get help? That's a wild leap. I think something is getting mixed up between the lines here. I'm saying these people live FOR others, that doesn't imply that without them they are secretly mentally ill.
@@wowandrss But you can't control others, and requiring something from them in order for you to feel okay isn't healthy. Many people find some sort of meaning in things that are not good for them. Finding purpose in service CAN be good-but it cannot be contingent on requiring others to receive / appreciate it. This can be as toxic as anything else and it isn't exactly rare.
Idk what to say to that, it's like a fundamentally different view/understanding of how society and people function. People need each other, whether you want to accept that or not, whether you can find positives or negatives. If you'd isolate people, they actually become sick. So a need to belong to a group and service it doesn't just make sense for those people, they wouldn't be able to exist without that. I'm sure a lot of positive things could have a spin on it to make it seem bad. But of course it all depends on the extreme lengths people would go, like dedicating 50% of your time vs 95% to someone/something else. There's gotta be a balance for sure. I'm just saying things are far from black/white. What works for one, could be a disaster for another.
What perks do you use? I mostly go for aura reading perks since I don't need chase perks because I mostly go for women and children and you don't really need gen regression unless you're niche is factory employees
@@Nate_0820 I'm still waiting for this movie be in DbD. How cool would it be in a few years to have the duo AVP hunting survivors together in a 2v8? That'd be peak
uuuUmmmMmm acTuaLly iT’S a dAviD NOt a JakE. (For legal reasons this is meant to be a sarcastic joke response. If this response has upset you make sure to contact my legal team (me) later on in the messages. Hope you have a great day.)
Of all he things that Singularity could have said, "not feeling it anymore" is probably the nicest and saddest thing he could have said. Hope that person is having a good day today.
Well said at the end there, Otz! There were times in my life when I thought that I needed to find a relationship to feel valued or "fix" myself. In the last 4 years or so I managed to really dive into my own interests, make significant progress, and learn to love myself. Relationships can be very important, but you should never tie them to all of your self-worth. Keep up the great work Otz, and thank you for many great videos over the past few years!
Even though Otz's last advice may sound cruel, it's true of any relationship, not just with a significant other. Being self-sufficient is very important not just for confidence, but for life itself.
It's incredibly important to realize that you don't know what the future holds and are not entitled to anything. You can make no mistake and still lose-that's life. Had a very close friend who wanted me to promise that we would be tight forever, but couldn't understand it, and resented it, when I insisted on just enjoying and appreciating what we had in the moment. Of course, some people take it too far in the opposite direction and never want to require anything from anyone; but we are social animals, and we have community for a reason. We aren't supposed to get through this completely alone, we all require teachers and we all have something to offer. Plus, it's impossible to be a fully self sufficient generalist without knowledge and resources you can only get from others.
I really like that advice that otz gave at the end. When you feel extremely dependent on someone, there is no way that it’s not gonna end in pain. I got dumped some months ago and I was so distraught over it I thought I might die. I advise everyone to heed his advice.
9:00 Poor Otz. I know it must have been hard on him and it probably still is. He's trying to teach us to think ahead so we don't have to suffer the same way.
That relationship advice was what I really needed to hear a few months ago. I used to do everything with my best friend and we still consider each other as our other half but now (through unexpected circumstances) we rarely see each other now. I became depressed for a while but now I learned that I cant have my best friend with me by the hip 24/7 and have come to terms with it.
good advice at the end otz. Is really important to be able to be alone, so you can grow as a person. That way when the time comes, you don't hurt others.
I was coping with the loss of my little brother for the last year, and it's been hella rough, although I'm kind of better now, but I'm still suffering, I've watched this video while on my way to my University earlier today.and DUDE this video changed something inside me, people you love does not make you full, you make yourself full. I really appreciate our OTZ, thanks man it meant alot coming out from you.
Hello Otz. I just wanted to let you know that you have impeccable timing with your advice. I am currently going through a phase and I definitely needed to hear that. Thank you otz
Yup, seems like survivors struggle to find you if you’re in the basement 😭 I was hooked in the basement at shack once and died on first hook because nobody could figure out where I was 😭😭
It's really badly designed honestly. I hate it for so many reasons on both sides. Like a two floor map where the basement ISN'T on the bottom floor. You cannot make up that level of design incompetence. Too excited over dumb portals they forgot to design most of the map.
The advice at the end is actually crucial guys, take it seriously. I was one of those people who were like "nah why would i need a plan B, this person is my everything and i know her so well, we'll break the rule", and then she left me. Took year to recover from that and start living again. With my new partner i do keep in mind that we may break up and i want to be certain i will be fine after that Dosen't mean you shouldnt attach through
I guess that's the one question I still have after listening to Otz's advice...what is even the point in having a relationship or forming attachments if you can never fully trust the other person is always going to be there for you?
@@FurionTassadarthat isn’t what he means, he means you should never depend on that person for yourself to be happy, without them you should still be able to be happy
@@FurionTassadar I heard a great phrase that defines good healthy relationship: "you will be fine by yourself but you don't want to be". Meaning that you do not depend on them to live good but their presence brings joy in your life. You can help each other with many things, grow together, you can owe them big part of the stability you have in life, they can be your best friend, but they simply shouldnt be your everything. This does not exclude trust, you just need to have a thought in life like "if she gets hit by a car tomorrow, will I be able to live after that?"
otz once again giving best life advice at the end of the video better then parents or teachers ever could really makes you sit in your chair for a minute to take it all in
Otz I just want to thank you for that information at the end of the video, it really hit me hard. I went through a hard end to a relationship and hearing you of all people say this is just so warm. 🧡🧡
The way the Alucard couldn't find the basement is what happened to me, except I spent 3 games looking for it. I just happened to be trying the Weaving Spiders build when Vecna came out... I felt very dumb & I'm sure I made some of my teammates very mad.
i love that piece of advice at the end!!! cuz it's very true. the best way i've heard it put is "your partner is your complement, not your missing piece"
In that Lara's defense, it is a small amount of damned if do or damned if don't without an aura read/callout from teammates. Stay: You come walking in. Go: You're up there. She just lost her 50/50 choice :D
3:35 - people see ayrun use self care mid chase and think its a good perk to run. There is a reason why this is considered "the best killer perk," yet i can already predict some reply commenting "WeLl AcTuAlLy If YoU kNoW hOw To UsE iT" to convince me that current self care is in any way, shape, or form, a good perk
I don’t even think it’s an Ayrun thing because they’d usually actually try to take chase instead of hiding in a corner, even if they have no idea what Ayrun is doing
7:43 I had this happen to me a lot during my first playthrough. I think what happens is because James falls backwards during the death animation, if you die in a place where there isn't room for him to fall backwards, like in a corner or right against a wall, the animation just doesn't play. Not 100% sure, but from my experience and the small amount of testing I did that seems to be the case
To be real, everyone who doesn't take the game serious runs into the issues Otz mentions in the vid. I play with my family and since we barely see the new maps in rotation, we have no idea where the teleports take us or where the basement even is on those stages. As long as we are playing together, thats what matters to us. I imagine Otz will be so confused to how disorientated we look, since we play the game maybe 2 hours every week or 2.
absolutely based advice at the end, I wish i heard that about 10 years ago my life would have been a lot better, still getting there though, thanks Otzy
5:45 Editor's getting fired and publicly executed for this mistake, don't worry guys.
Poor shrimp
No 😢😢
Lets go 🍿 🍿
Thank god
RIP in pieces
That Alucard thought he could double jump over the gap but forgot he still hasn't found the Leap Stone this playthrough
Bro tried to eye of vecna over to otz 😂
"Alucard just look at the ground"
>Alucards entire screen being covered by his cape
For the last piece of advice.. That includes if you feel like the sherpa. Don't make the mistake of thinking that because someone needed you once they'll always need you. Life changes, one moment never persists. Enjoy what you have as if you'll never have it again.
It's good general advice but there are subset of people who *need* someone else because devoting your life to yourself feels meaningless. There are people who live to help the world and take care of others, people who want to conquer the world and people who are somewhere neutral in between. If you take the person who lives for others and tell them to "grind" just for themselves, it's like a recipe for depression.
@@wowandrss That's called "codependency" and it's extremely unhealthy. You shouldn't have a relationship that imbalanced. Like Otz said, they are your partner, not your sherpa. You need to protect each other equally, and if they fall off the mountain, you need to be able to keep climbing even though it will be harder alone.
Someone who feels like they need to be in an imbalanced relationship to offset clinical depression is someone who needs to get help for themselves and seek out therapy immediately.
@@mayebeline1149 So every person who lives in commitment to the service of others because that's how they derive meaning in life, is clinically depressed and should get help? That's a wild leap. I think something is getting mixed up between the lines here. I'm saying these people live FOR others, that doesn't imply that without them they are secretly mentally ill.
@@wowandrss But you can't control others, and requiring something from them in order for you to feel okay isn't healthy. Many people find some sort of meaning in things that are not good for them. Finding purpose in service CAN be good-but it cannot be contingent on requiring others to receive / appreciate it. This can be as toxic as anything else and it isn't exactly rare.
Idk what to say to that, it's like a fundamentally different view/understanding of how society and people function. People need each other, whether you want to accept that or not, whether you can find positives or negatives. If you'd isolate people, they actually become sick. So a need to belong to a group and service it doesn't just make sense for those people, they wouldn't be able to exist without that.
I'm sure a lot of positive things could have a spin on it to make it seem bad. But of course it all depends on the extreme lengths people would go, like dedicating 50% of your time vs 95% to someone/something else. There's gotta be a balance for sure. I'm just saying things are far from black/white. What works for one, could be a disaster for another.
Thank you for donating 30 lungs to the hospital Otz, my sister really needed it
Didn’t know Otz was Albanian
Does your sister really like lungs or something?
your sister needed all 30?
I ate 28 of them so she'll have to settle for 2
Naah bro
I'm a killer (IRL) and even I don't understand portals. Like what the hell are they?!
Uhhh wait what?
@@Dylan-lx5ro did he stutter?
What perks do you use? I mostly go for aura reading perks since I don't need chase perks because I mostly go for women and children and you don't really need gen regression unless you're niche is factory employees
@@scaly_sausage6944 NAH AH hahahahaha
@@scaly_sausage6944nah man you gotta run an endgame build when the cops pull up. They won’t escape you then.
"I love predator" something I thought I would not hear in a million years
It’s a good movie
@@Nate_0820 I'm still waiting for this movie be in DbD. How cool would it be in a few years to have the duo AVP hunting survivors together in a 2v8? That'd be peak
The never-hooked Jake self-caring in a corner while you are dying on hook is so frustrating to watch, I can't imagine being in the match lol.
uuuUmmmMmm acTuaLly iT’S a dAviD NOt a JakE. (For legal reasons this is meant to be a sarcastic joke response. If this response has upset you make sure to contact my legal team (me) later on in the messages. Hope you have a great day.)
solo q is crazy you cant actually seriously play it at this point because that is the average game
hey that was a david we jake mains rarely run self care and even then when know when to use it
Yeah fr get the unhook goblin! Hehe
Solo Q is hell @@uzundeprem5743
I love it when Otz gives genuenly good life advice while casually slaughtering people in the game
It should be common sense not to get attached to the past. E.g your "ex". Getting attached to the past is what drains us emotionally and physically.
@@keiztratit's not just getting attached to the past, it's about being able to love someone and also be able to function on your own.
His giving out life advice ingame and death irl
Just got back from a public execution, perfect upload timing, Otz! 😁
icant
"they're a partner not your Sherpa" is so perfectly put lmao
0:54 the moment of which basement is no longer the lowest part of the map
2:11 That Claudette is a prime example of people we don't welcome/want in the DBD community
That Claudette IS the community.
Average anon mode user
I mean.. why not
Just throwing out random dbd buzzwords even after a funny moment, it's so cringe
you say that but she is the majority of people playing it
Of all he things that Singularity could have said, "not feeling it anymore" is probably the nicest and saddest thing he could have said. Hope that person is having a good day today.
That Claudette in post game chat better have been joking.
@@dr.cheeze5382She probably wasn't. Which makes her the most toxic by default. Kicking someone when they're already down, so pathetic of her.
@@6powersofM Exactly the point I was trying to make.
How did Single Larry DC, but still go to endgame chat?
@@GarboEmbargo if you leave the match as killer, the game just auto ends. you are still connected to the server
Well said at the end there, Otz! There were times in my life when I thought that I needed to find a relationship to feel valued or "fix" myself.
In the last 4 years or so I managed to really dive into my own interests, make significant progress, and learn to love myself. Relationships can be very important, but you should never tie them to all of your self-worth.
Keep up the great work Otz, and thank you for many great videos over the past few years!
Rupaul said it best: "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?"
The Alucard POV was perfect thank you Otz
Even though Otz's last advice may sound cruel, it's true of any relationship, not just with a significant other. Being self-sufficient is very important not just for confidence, but for life itself.
So true, actually. This is based.
It may sound cruel but imagine an Otz who didn't accept this advice himself.
@@merepseuOkay, what happened to Neena?
It's incredibly important to realize that you don't know what the future holds and are not entitled to anything. You can make no mistake and still lose-that's life. Had a very close friend who wanted me to promise that we would be tight forever, but couldn't understand it, and resented it, when I insisted on just enjoying and appreciating what we had in the moment. Of course, some people take it too far in the opposite direction and never want to require anything from anyone; but we are social animals, and we have community for a reason. We aren't supposed to get through this completely alone, we all require teachers and we all have something to offer. Plus, it's impossible to be a fully self sufficient generalist without knowledge and resources you can only get from others.
*Just* came out of an interview, needed this to calm the nerves 😭😭😭
I hope it went well😊
I also wish you luck.
Hope the interview went well inchallah
First DBD player to get a job
Hope the interview went well friend!
The Claudette at 2:16 is exactly what's wrong with this game
8:25, I don't know how, this advice came at a time when I really needed it. Thanks Otz!
8:50 ...is Otz threatening to kill my SO?
Absolutely
I honestly had the same reaction. A killer main saying "accidents happen" is just so ominous lmao.
Threaten or offer? It's all about perspective.
0:38 Alucard trying his best 😅
I gotta remember "You're being fundamentally unserious right now." as a "polite" insult for the future....
or "you are LITERALLY trolling", when they are just being stupid
4:28 Otz getting impressed by his own old trapper main skills
No matter how rough life gets.... these weekly compilations always manage to make me smile, thank you for being a ray of light in my life otz
"Harmer of crews" is the best singry name I've ever seen 😂
2:16
Bro thought he could Narnia his way through the locker to the basement.
1:37 Otz contributing to proud sci-fi tradition of rogue computers no longer able to compute due to human silliness.
I really like that advice that otz gave at the end. When you feel extremely dependent on someone, there is no way that it’s not gonna end in pain. I got dumped some months ago and I was so distraught over it I thought I might die. I advise everyone to heed his advice.
9:00 Poor Otz. I know it must have been hard on him and it probably still is. He's trying to teach us to think ahead so we don't have to suffer the same way.
Aw man what happend?
Hello guys this is the IRS
Edit: well... thats alot of likes. Thx guys but u still need to pay ur taxes.
Plz leave my dog alone plz 😭
i dont care who you are sending, iam not paying taxes !
No, me and my cat followers will not stop committing fraud please leave the condo
Hello IRS this is guys
Hello friends
That relationship advice was what I really needed to hear a few months ago. I used to do everything with my best friend and we still consider each other as our other half but now (through unexpected circumstances) we rarely see each other now. I became depressed for a while but now I learned that I cant have my best friend with me by the hip 24/7 and have come to terms with it.
good advice at the end otz. Is really important to be able to be alone, so you can grow as a person. That way when the time comes, you don't hurt others.
I was coping with the loss of my little brother for the last year, and it's been hella rough, although I'm kind of better now, but I'm still suffering, I've watched this video while on my way to my University earlier today.and DUDE this video changed something inside me, people you love does not make you full, you make yourself full.
I really appreciate our OTZ, thanks man it meant alot coming out from you.
1:50 understandable DC. I'd be done with the match if that happened to me. playing against survivors that can communicate to each other is unbearable
SWF > Killer > Solo queue Survivor
Always has been and always will be.
How did he chat in end game though?
That's some good relationship advice, Otz. Thank you!
Hello Otz. I just wanted to let you know that you have impeccable timing with your advice. I am currently going through a phase and I definitely needed to hear that. Thank you otz
9:45 C A T (S)
"Why are all the goals so gay?" Brother what game community do you think this is? Otz knows his audience damn well
🤫
Yeah I also hate that map that alucard ain’t the only one that has trouble moving around it
Yup, seems like survivors struggle to find you if you’re in the basement 😭 I was hooked in the basement at shack once and died on first hook because nobody could figure out where I was 😭😭
@@summersout1 not to mention that room down there that if you go in it you have one exit only
It's really badly designed honestly. I hate it for so many reasons on both sides.
Like a two floor map where the basement ISN'T on the bottom floor. You cannot make up that level of design incompetence. Too excited over dumb portals they forgot to design most of the map.
5:11 No, and I'm not Remus either.
Thanks for the video content Otz.
Thanks for the editing SimpingForOtz.
the sad Singularity even had a silly name :(
The advice at the end is actually crucial guys, take it seriously. I was one of those people who were like "nah why would i need a plan B, this person is my everything and i know her so well, we'll break the rule", and then she left me. Took year to recover from that and start living again. With my new partner i do keep in mind that we may break up and i want to be certain i will be fine after that
Dosen't mean you shouldnt attach through
I guess that's the one question I still have after listening to Otz's advice...what is even the point in having a relationship or forming attachments if you can never fully trust the other person is always going to be there for you?
@@FurionTassadarthat isn’t what he means, he means you should never depend on that person for yourself to be happy, without them you should still be able to be happy
@@bapob But again, if I'm perfectly happy by myself, why would I need other people?
@@FurionTassadar I heard a great phrase that defines good healthy relationship: "you will be fine by yourself but you don't want to be". Meaning that you do not depend on them to live good but their presence brings joy in your life. You can help each other with many things, grow together, you can owe them big part of the stability you have in life, they can be your best friend, but they simply shouldnt be your everything. This does not exclude trust, you just need to have a thought in life like "if she gets hit by a car tomorrow, will I be able to live after that?"
You loved too hard.
All jokes aside that advice at the end was really solid!
otz once again giving best life advice at the end of the video better then parents or teachers ever could really makes you sit in your chair for a minute to take it all in
Otz I just want to thank you for that information at the end of the video, it really hit me hard. I went through a hard end to a relationship and hearing you of all people say this is just so warm. 🧡🧡
Great timing for my food Otz! Just what I was looking for.
❤
I really needed to hear that part about being prepared for someone not being in your life anymore, and have for a while- thank you 💛
The way the Alucard couldn't find the basement is what happened to me, except I spent 3 games looking for it. I just happened to be trying the Weaving Spiders build when Vecna came out... I felt very dumb & I'm sure I made some of my teammates very mad.
i love that piece of advice at the end!!! cuz it's very true. the best way i've heard it put is "your partner is your complement, not your missing piece"
That Artist shot blew my mind, I kinda enjoy her and had no idea that was even possible. Jeez thanks Otz, survs are gonna love that lmao
To be fair to the Alucard that map is so confusing to someone that doesn’t know every single nook and cranny
Just smoked a blunt and a new Otz video drops? Yeah we winning
Was not prepared for the last 30 seconds. I needa minute.
Otz discovering artists sanctum trick: :0
Regular viewers: o.o
Artist mains: EEEEEY HE FOUND IT
I'm a P100 Artist and I'VE NEVER SEEN THAT
Singularity main "harmer of crews" reportedly not feeling it anymore, more news at next weeks Otzpilation
He doesnt feel like harming anymore, so he tried sparing the crew.
it's always the last clip that gives you the best tipps for life.
keep it up, Otz!
"they're not your sherpa" is actually insanely profound
4:35 "Why are all the goals so gay? Chat... just know your audience, you know what I mean?"
You're SO real, I feel seen right now by Otz 😌
having just left a toxic 7 year relationship, I needed that last clip.
2:38 Steve's screams of pain will NEVER not be funny. LMFAO
In that Lara's defense, it is a small amount of damned if do or damned if don't without an aura read/callout from teammates. Stay: You come walking in. Go: You're up there. She just lost her 50/50 choice :D
I love Otz and the community he’s built
I hecking love weekly compilations
My third favorite part of watching otz is seeing myself in the weekly compilation.
3:04 this was so surprising
Going through a rough breakup rn, and that last clip was really helpful to hear, thank you
5:18 You know you're too addicted to DBD when you literally make your name to match the theme of the game.
1:35 You laughed just like Homelander here man. It gave me chills.
3:35 - people see ayrun use self care mid chase and think its a good perk to run. There is a reason why this is considered "the best killer perk," yet i can already predict some reply commenting "WeLl AcTuAlLy If YoU kNoW hOw To UsE iT" to convince me that current self care is in any way, shape, or form, a good perk
I don’t even think it’s an Ayrun thing because they’d usually actually try to take chase instead of hiding in a corner, even if they have no idea what Ayrun is doing
Honestly hyped for this man's every release
You remind me why i love this silly game Otz I hope you have a nice Christmas
The number of times I've died or had opposing survivors die because they don't understand Forgotten Ruins Main Basement is staggering.
7:43 I had this happen to me a lot during my first playthrough. I think what happens is because James falls backwards during the death animation, if you die in a place where there isn't room for him to fall backwards, like in a corner or right against a wall, the animation just doesn't play. Not 100% sure, but from my experience and the small amount of testing I did that seems to be the case
😮 I see!!
That bit at the end hits extra hard cuz you know it comes from his heart.
Also, Otz played TCM again and i missed it? Buh
advice at the end is so important, thank you.
I feel like at the end Otz is trying to answer the question while only thinking of how hes doing without Niina.
The kitty in the end card... Just like me fr
The new event portals are here to troll everyone again
I can't even make fun of that Alucard, that's legit something that could happen to me
To be real, everyone who doesn't take the game serious runs into the issues Otz mentions in the vid. I play with my family and since we barely see the new maps in rotation, we have no idea where the teleports take us or where the basement even is on those stages.
As long as we are playing together, thats what matters to us. I imagine Otz will be so confused to how disorientated we look, since we play the game maybe 2 hours every week or 2.
4:39 DONT GIVE DEMI MORE MATERIAL TO WORK WITH!!!!
I was not expecting to hear some insanely powerful life advice in my DBD funny moments
"I love Predator" the first time in human history anyone has said something positive about this perk.
Im glad i heard that, about being a full package at the end. Your video found me at a perfect time. Thank you gamer.
3:42 poor Ada! David let her die while she had on her cute Christmas sweater.
Me when notOtz uploads: 2:48-2:50
Relationship advice in the end is something I needed to hear
The poor singularity player lol
You just start to be way more careful about who you give your heart to.
The locker stun, the blind, and then the rage quit.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hi otz this is-
a person very happy to watch a new amazing weekly compilation 🗣️
3:02 That is literally the COOLEST animation in the game; straight out of Initial D or something
'Know your audience'. I feel called out.
Perfect for bedtime🛌
3:01 Otz as an Artist main THANK YOU AND I LOVE YOU for showing me this 🩵
Same here, that is crazy
Do you think predator might be less powerful if it stopped as soon as you used your power? Might help it stop feeling like free value
"Hey guys this is not otzdarva. *looks over shoulders*..... okay I think they bought it"
That basement is terrible on that map not his fault
absolutely based advice at the end, I wish i heard that about 10 years ago my life would have been a lot better, still getting there though, thanks Otzy