Me, My Husband, and Our Live in Lovers | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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- Опубліковано 22 жов 2022
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TOGETHER for a decade and married for nine of those years, with a six and three-year-old, despite their conventional-looking family setup, couple Matt and Carmen had often talked about opening up their marriage. When they started swing dancing lessons they instantly clicked with their teachers, Brooklyn and Keith. One summer evening, while having some drinks round their pool, conversation came around to open relationships and the fact that Brooklyn and Matt and Keith and Carmen were attracted to each other. After taking it the next level, Brooklyn and Keith officially moved into Matt and Carmen’s family home. Splitting their time between their original, or ‘OG’ as they refer to them relationships and the new partnerships, the four described themselves as a closed hetero quad. Carmen and Matt’s children thought of Brooklyn and Keith as godparents that lived with them and the two couples enjoyed hanging out as an extended family of six, as well as double dating. Reactions from friends and family to the arrangement were mixed, with the usual assumptions that the quad are together mainly for sex. They believe polyamory is the way forward in modern living though and hope their relationship is a testament to this.
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What you have is lovely, you have a deep loving relationship with your spouse and a genuine love friendship with your couple friends. You will never feel lonely, you will never get bored because you have each other.
You all participate in the house chores, cooking, etc. so it is less work for each. It is safer because you all have each other’s back.
Love making will always be interesting and passionate. Your style of loving makes the bond with your spouse stronger and the friendship with your couple friends deeper.
Don’t let anything ever spoil what you have.
How do the kids not get messed up by this? They're holding hands and embracing their other partner in public with the kids, talking about date night with a kid sandwiched between them, and making googly eyes at each other. Meanwhile, the kids are being told they're just godparents. He's 6, not stupid. 🙄
Well, I think he has indeed been (unfortunately) exposed to the unfortunate events. But his mind is still developing and so I don't think he "really" knows what a poly couple is. He just understands what he was told
It’s unnatural, there’s a reason why this just doesn’t work mainstream worldwide… this is not meant to last. Also feel bad for the children.
What is natural? Keep getting married and have multiple ex wives and baby mamas?? (Trump)
What ruins kids??? Missing parents or horrible parents
I think it's great and I hope they continue being able to make it work.
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Long-term swingers? 😂
I have met two poly quads. Very nice people.
Love is short in this day and age (I should know) so good for you and fair play
They all look soo much alike
Monogamy is not hard ....
Monogamy is hard for nonmonogamous people
Dhabi2724 And then why are so many people cheating on their partners in a monogam relationship? Pretty sure most people are jealous on poly couples because they are to prudish and unhappy itself. Glad to live in Europe and not in U.S.
@@deancrow573Wow thank you for saying that. I do indeed agree with your point. But I live in the U.S and I'm not messed up like these people 😂❤
You can just bet someone in this relationship isn't happy 👀
That’s wayyyyyyy to much loving there
That'd be funny if on top on that they were all bisexual.
They probably are
We aren’t :)
Do they really know who is actual father of these kids????
Since they have only been a quad for 8 months and the kids are 6 and 3, pretty sure they know...did you even watch? Or just judge?
@@lifeisrocqi I watch and judge, buth this channel have really unusual stories. Even hard to believe if such things exist in society.
@@mshafqat88 I'm guessing you don't look at relationships throughout history nor globally then
@@lifeisrocqi I am a religious person, I believe that relationship is kind of mental satisfaction. But there are other things also attached to relation. Like we feel happy if we get a news that my wife is pregnant or my baby is born. But if we start following the relations like shown in this video, there are a lot of questions left.
@@mshafqat88 you present an interesting context. I am a polyamorous married woman who is pregnant with my first child and my husband and I are overjoyed. While neither of us currently have any other partners, I don't think having them would diminish that.
But due to living in a mononormative society, there is a blueprint for life laid out. When stepping outside of that, there tends to be a lot more questions because you are carving your own path and no longer living by default. But it's okay to have questions.
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Weird
Somebody please, hurry up and write a show about a romantic unit like this. Movies, plays, novels and TV shows have all touched on themes of homosexuality but polyamory I’ve noticed has got no love in well-known artistic media.
U ever try to fill the void with Jesus? I'm single, celibate & very much content, bc I know Jesus is the only 1 who can ever TRULY fully fill that void we all feel. No longer a constant hunt to fill it once u do!
Not so say that I'd never fall in love again with a man, but no great thing should ever feel rushed.🤷🏼
If you truly love someone you don,t want anyone else
Ryt
Not agree with this comment. You can love more than one person on the same level.
Actually love is abundant, not scarce
Wtf..🤣😄