MY FINAL RESPONSE TO MY EX!

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  • @CJSOCOOL
    @CJSOCOOL  7 місяців тому +924

    I’m just trying to forgive and forget anything negative that’s happened in the past I’m here to be as positive as possible ❤

    • @DailyTeaaa
      @DailyTeaaa 7 місяців тому +56

      Everything you said was real CJ I heard you 💯💯

    • @lindadickerson3799
      @lindadickerson3799 7 місяців тому +83

      You’re not being positive 😮

    • @HardlyAthletic842
      @HardlyAthletic842 7 місяців тому +68

      You bashing the kids is not gonna help anything

    • @HardlyAthletic842
      @HardlyAthletic842 7 місяців тому +71

      You got caught in so many lies in this video and just to tear them down, you’re sick

    • @Burpy604
      @Burpy604 7 місяців тому +27

      u good cj. keep progressing.

  • @ThePresidentialFamily
    @ThePresidentialFamily 7 місяців тому +291

    It’s not easy being transparent about private situations. As a creator he gives us parts of his life most people would never put on display, thank for being brave and using your real life situation (negative or positive ) for our entertainment! Stay blessed CJ ❤

  • @moniquerhone2810
    @moniquerhone2810 7 місяців тому +94

    Cj pray and read Psalms 91:11. It reads let no evil befall thee, neither any plague come near your dwelling . That entire chapter is a protection from evil chapter of the Holy Bible . Keep smiling and moving forward God got you!!! With love from one of your biggest followers ❤

    • @ayezay2677
      @ayezay2677 4 місяці тому +1

      In Jesus Name Amen

  • @denise3388
    @denise3388 7 місяців тому +25

    You will respect your mom when you let go of the hurt or when you have no fan base!
    Ride with your side hard but can’t stand to watch the disrespect you have for your mom 💔

  • @BABY_VIC-f9r
    @BABY_VIC-f9r 7 місяців тому +126

    Bro I hear you but pause, THEM TWINS DEFINITELY GODS WILL! No matter how you had them GOD BROUGHT BOTH THEM THROUGH & they here so please rephrase that 💯

    • @angellattan5443
      @angellattan5443 7 місяців тому +13

      you my friend are a real man and a wise one at that god bless you

    • @BABY_VIC-f9r
      @BABY_VIC-f9r 7 місяців тому +3

      @@angellattan5443 thank you , god bless you as well.

    • @bankroll_breee
      @bankroll_breee 7 місяців тому +4

      And you can go even further and say God put CJ in a position he could even afford to have the choice to get it did.. So i definitely agree please rephrase

  • @bhodmondezz2625
    @bhodmondezz2625 7 місяців тому +72

    Bro they had such a beautiful family together though. The kids should’ve stayed out of it especially when he took them in as his kids😭😭 we get the disrespect but in all due honesty these kids would’ve been happier if they stayed out of it

    • @starzz_andre
      @starzz_andre 7 місяців тому +1

      They weren’t happy coming to the closing of that relationship, you could literally tell

    • @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473
      @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473 7 місяців тому +4

      Anyways those kids been mad disrespectful!! Let's see if another man gonna step in and treat them like CJ did!!! He didn't have to accept those kids but he did!! Then they tried to alienate him from his own biological child. Royalty is bitter and need to get over it

  • @NikkiJsLife
    @NikkiJsLife 7 місяців тому +397

    It’s Camari keep waving at us in the background for me 😂🤣😂 hey boo 👋🏽

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro 7 місяців тому +24

      She's the perfect mix of Ni'kee & CJ.

    • @mzzkikilopez4879
      @mzzkikilopez4879 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@HughMadBro crazy in the head same way

    • @bamagirl1655
      @bamagirl1655 7 місяців тому +3

      @@mzzkikilopez4879lmaooo

    • @the_chosenone1647
      @the_chosenone1647 7 місяців тому +1

      @@mzzkikilopez4879 wtf lmfaoooo

    • @mzzkikilopez4879
      @mzzkikilopez4879 7 місяців тому +1

      If is one thing she took was being not right in the head like them 2

  • @kaylab93
    @kaylab93 7 місяців тому +152

    I am so glad that CJ finally had a chance to share his side of the story. CJ is not perfect. Charlene is not perfect. They both, all of them has said and done things too. We may not like or agree with those things but it is what it is. It is going to take both CJ AND Charlene to respect each other and move has the drama, and the kids to get along as well. Unfortunately, that may never happen. As long as the twins are well taken care of. That’s all that matters. Keep your head up CJ, and try to mature, heal, or whatever you have to. You will be fine.

  • @Mgamble214
    @Mgamble214 7 місяців тому +424

    Who cares if you like CJ or NOT
    Every man deserves to see their kids!!!
    Glad he fought in court
    Your kids will appreciate You later
    Poor ex, the more she plants negative seeds, tries to manipulate, etc
    His seeds will grow and let her know, once they get older, it never fails🙏🏾

  • @curtisgivans6624
    @curtisgivans6624 7 місяців тому +30

    U gotta humble yourself man. The creator is trying to humble u. Sometimes u gotta ask yourself are u being real with yourself

  • @brianamonique2082
    @brianamonique2082 7 місяців тому +536

    But CJ what part of the story is your fault ? It’s almost like nothing is ever your fault and i think that’s something to think about

  • @shareefahgillett
    @shareefahgillett 7 місяців тому +239

    Both of you won so both of you need to be great parent's for the kids .

    • @shannonlink7738
      @shannonlink7738 7 місяців тому +7

      Love this

    • @laurablair4328
      @laurablair4328 7 місяців тому +27

      What did she win exactly??? I wanna know 😅like he said he won … went from seeing his kids on her term pretty much to 50/50 … he definitely up even though its no competition… but shout out to him for fighting for his kids no matter what the parents go through… he definitely could of been the next man to not even try to fight for them

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому

      Don't seem like it.

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@laurablair4328 Exactly!

    • @Empress_xo
      @Empress_xo 7 місяців тому

      Facts

  • @Daytavion.
    @Daytavion. 7 місяців тому +1360

    like him or not, he’s a good father 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Goawayninja
      @Goawayninja 7 місяців тому +105

      Like her or not, she’s a good mother 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Daytavion.
      @Daytavion. 7 місяців тому +12

      @@Goawayninja say i meant to put him🤣

    • @Loveeee397
      @Loveeee397 7 місяців тому +5

      Simple

    • @keilanjohnson6324
      @keilanjohnson6324 7 місяців тому +8

      Facts

    • @amari648
      @amari648 7 місяців тому

      @@lizzy45722tell that to royalty who lets Jaaliyah run her mouth on the internet trying to fight for the past couple of days 😂

  • @simplymayax3
    @simplymayax3 7 місяців тому +183

    Cj you need to realize you’re the problem in a LOT of these situations….once you take accountability, you will see you’re the issue. You put the blame on everyone else BUT CJ

  • @Clutchgodchi
    @Clutchgodchi 7 місяців тому +13

    Bro I use to watch cj as a kid but every since you an royalty broke up your vlogs ain’t been the same bro I just don’t even watch you no more but still much love bro I hope you heal man I hope you find what your looking for brother honestly take care 🫶🏾

  • @TheNikkiTimm
    @TheNikkiTimm 7 місяців тому +48

    Everytime cj speak on this it makes it all clearer to me why Royalty left. I'm proud of Royalty don't know how she put up with this for so many years.

    • @game_commune1431
      @game_commune1431 6 місяців тому +7

      Idk how he put up with her

    • @GoatReactz
      @GoatReactz 6 місяців тому

      She got kicked out and not a day too soon

  • @joeyelder2654
    @joeyelder2654 7 місяців тому +74

    my man i’m 65 years old and i was and iam a single father you are a young man with money now that you have money one thing is for sure when you come and you grow not everyone will grow with you because you are the one with the vision son im worried about my legacy now because not everyone in because not everyone in my life have my vision for success and and generational wealth so we have to have lawyers and people do this for us because at the end of the day we have to get our business in order i love you son you are on the right track ☝🏿♥️you are figuring it out that’s life ☝🏿♥️

  • @msdanni25
    @msdanni25 7 місяців тому +95

    Parts of this video came across as confusing, selfish, and unfair to everyone involved. Especially about your mom. Your mother was not bringing drama. She was defending you and herself! You say that you've made mistakes then you should understand that about others. Show some grace and maybe the negativity will cease!

    • @millennial9835
      @millennial9835 7 місяців тому +21

      Everything is everyone else’s fault and he doesn’t see a problem with anything he does.

    • @lakeshachildress5605
      @lakeshachildress5605 7 місяців тому +3

      💯

    • @r3ustoxic518
      @r3ustoxic518 7 місяців тому +3

      @@millennial9835 I think you didn’t watch the video and you don’t know what your talking about

    • @millennial9835
      @millennial9835 7 місяців тому +2

      @@r3ustoxic518 I watched the video maybe you didn’t

    • @TeonnaCash
      @TeonnaCash 7 місяців тому +1

      @@millennial9835 You need to rewatch the video. CJ expressed reconciliation and love for Royalty and her family all throughout the video and took accountability for all of it. The only person it appeared he was holding a grudge to was his mother.

  • @Gamingwith1Life
    @Gamingwith1Life 7 місяців тому +204

    If yu been watching Cj so cool since da beginning like dis
    real support

  • @ChinaWrite777
    @ChinaWrite777 7 місяців тому +53

    Please do not diminish the twins conception. They are beautiful & deserve to feel proud of how they came into existence. You can go through 1000’s of IVF procedures & if God didn’t send the souls it wouldn’t be. They were meant & are so precious & magical.

    • @victoriabrown9358
      @victoriabrown9358 7 місяців тому +4

      Yes, that's what should be said by CJ, instead he is saying that Royalty made him have the twins and he didn't even want them 😭

    • @TheNikkiTimm
      @TheNikkiTimm 7 місяців тому

      No let him do it, when they get older they would c the kind of man he is, not worthy of being called dad

  • @daurianasimpson7169
    @daurianasimpson7169 7 місяців тому +227

    You should find a church in Vegas.

    • @victoriabrown9358
      @victoriabrown9358 7 місяців тому +13

      And GO to it 😉

    • @SakuraTheBloomDino
      @SakuraTheBloomDino 7 місяців тому +5

      AMEN Jesus Christ Our Lord And Savior Hallelujah Hallelujah

    • @58wheelerL
      @58wheelerL 7 місяців тому +1

      Why, so he can support some church.(Nah)

    • @hbj11
      @hbj11 5 місяців тому

      @@58wheelerL To thank GOD

  • @Yolliemacc
    @Yolliemacc 7 місяців тому +386

    The theory of “what happens in this house stays in this house” has caused so much trauma in folks lives.

    • @welcometoscums
      @welcometoscums 7 місяців тому +7

      Nah that’s sum rs

    • @zacchfromdalou9679
      @zacchfromdalou9679 7 місяців тому +15

      Nahh you outta pocket if yo speaking on family affairs outside the family/home… that’s ridiculous. You must be a child

    • @DearestDaisha
      @DearestDaisha 7 місяців тому +8

      @@zacchfromdalou9679 That is why kids were being molested by their uncle and stuff. Things needs to be said outside of the home. 2nd point is he called them dirty isn't he not following that same mindset.

    • @queenquerii1998
      @queenquerii1998 7 місяців тому +3

      💯

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro 7 місяців тому

      Thissssss 👏🏻 you didn't used to see into folks houses back in the day but now it's just a phone call away or just a video away for someone's personal business to be put out.

  • @TrayWands
    @TrayWands 7 місяців тому +55

    The first step of healing is to be accountable for your actions. You was a major part of the problem. Next, tell the kids that you love and miss them even though the relationship with their mom did not work out. You hurt their mom. Your mother made the situation worst. Jdub is a kid. She is also hurting. To bring Camari was just immature and crazy.

    • @carmenjackson4597
      @carmenjackson4597 7 місяців тому +5

      Jdub need to stay in a childs place. 🤬

    • @Nunyabiz83
      @Nunyabiz83 7 місяців тому +2

      Naw he need to leave them kids where they at

    • @TrayWands
      @TrayWands 7 місяців тому +1

      @@carmenjackson4597I guess you would let a man constantly disrespect your mother. I guess grown acting Camari gets a pass.

    • @TrayWands
      @TrayWands 7 місяців тому +1

      @@Nunyabiz83he should just leave them alone. He got Camari

  • @ren_ssg
    @ren_ssg 7 місяців тому +18

    Proud of you cj! Always keep ur ground dont give up for ur kids.

  • @xxbluexx480
    @xxbluexx480 4 місяці тому +3

    Cj you gotta innerstand that majority of people walking are already dead they stay the same and never change cause they’re dead, your alive when your growing, learning, and do doing different thing, dead energy stays stagnant and never grows

  • @victoriabrown9358
    @victoriabrown9358 7 місяців тому +41

    CJ you make it sound like you soooo innocent in everything 😢

    • @Mya_unknown1
      @Mya_unknown1 7 місяців тому +3

      Explain how he’s not??

  • @KeepingupwithCherish
    @KeepingupwithCherish 7 місяців тому +62

    Cj you will keep going through this until you change money is not everything. Pls fix this before someone die take it for me someone who I was beefing with died and I regret it a lot

    • @Lovemeorhateme143
      @Lovemeorhateme143 7 місяців тому +3

      Lol r u listening to what he saying???

    • @jenncastro350
      @jenncastro350 7 місяців тому

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @itsofficiallytia3321
      @itsofficiallytia3321 7 місяців тому +1

      Did you even watch the video 🤨?

    • @chichilol1706
      @chichilol1706 7 місяців тому +1

      Bro that’s not the point of this vid

    • @monadejaneiro
      @monadejaneiro 7 місяців тому

      @@Lovemeorhateme143What they are saying is life is too short to be holding grudges. We all know that he doesn’t get along with half the people he spoke on in this video so yes we did watch it

  • @autumnm4020
    @autumnm4020 7 місяців тому +121

    Naw when you said “I know my kid won’t sit there crying and recording while I get beat up” 🤣🤣 that took me out

    • @theofficial.a
      @theofficial.a 7 місяців тому +5

      Time stamp ??😂

    • @antionettathomas8822
      @antionettathomas8822 7 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂😂 cj stay throwing jabs

    • @autumnm4020
      @autumnm4020 7 місяців тому

      ⁠@@antionettathomas8822they be so random too. That’s what makes it funny 😭😭

    • @Empress_xo
      @Empress_xo 7 місяців тому +14

      That's jus messy

    • @KhahdijahMuhammad
      @KhahdijahMuhammad 7 місяців тому +11

      What ever jaaliyah just went out her way to make a public disrespectful statement to that men

  • @Quackyy2xfuturelegendsgg
    @Quackyy2xfuturelegendsgg 7 місяців тому +225

    There no way bro just yappin for 50 mins straight 😂

    • @SOBTWIN2
      @SOBTWIN2 7 місяців тому +11

      Fr I can’t talk that Long

    • @LilMissPretty06
      @LilMissPretty06 7 місяців тому +8

      LIKE Literally YAPPIN!!😅😅 HE is exhausting AF!!

    • @kswag5759
      @kswag5759 7 місяців тому +4

      😂😂😂& did

    • @janellej1704
      @janellej1704 6 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Afnfbtk_
      @Afnfbtk_ 3 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

  • @e.w.6259
    @e.w.6259 6 місяців тому +5

    My Grandma Dad Auntie Uncles Cousins all live in Gary I have been going there every summer to visit I'm 50 now and it hasn't changed. U made it out CJ get your Daughter back to Vegas don't let NO ONE dictate your life. We do this for our kids to have a better life. ❤

  • @panchitalatouche4514
    @panchitalatouche4514 7 місяців тому +35

    👑 CJ it’s only the closest to you who you trust will want to bring you down 😢Take my foolish advice DO NOT post anything on The 8th of April 🥰God go with you, if it is truly in him you trust 💙 Much love, appreciation and RESPECT ALWAYS 🙏🏽

  • @xpose09
    @xpose09 7 місяців тому +110

    Man don’t say that about the twins, those kids are blessings and were planned by both of y’all, don’t leave permanently scars from temporary hurt 😢

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому +3

      If its the truth then what's the issue?

    • @kokie2ya
      @kokie2ya 7 місяців тому

      @@YtorisvThe issue is that there’s evidence from past vlogs about his excitement.

    • @TheNikkiTimm
      @TheNikkiTimm 7 місяців тому +1

      No let him say it, the twins would get old enough to know the truth that cj is n not worthy of being their father

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому

      @@TheNikkiTimm worthy😁

    • @evelyndunham7275
      @evelyndunham7275 6 місяців тому

      ​@@TheNikkiTimm sound crazy

  • @michellehyatt4643
    @michellehyatt4643 7 місяців тому +345

    CJ I am gonna support you till the end. I’m glad you standing up for yourself and telling your side of the story. Im proud of how you have handled the last year, and I look forward to seeing all the blessing coming your way this year!

  • @keasawebster3581
    @keasawebster3581 7 місяців тому +6

    Your mother no matter what your relationship is like with her, she is still going to defend you the best way she knows how or can at the moment. It may not always be the right or best way for you but it’s what she is capable of doing.
    Appreciate her more. You don’t have to take her advice but do not disrespect your mother.
    God says to honor your mother and father. He didn’t say you had to like everything that they do but honor them. The best way you can honor someone is by respecting them.

  • @Meshia-kw1sl
    @Meshia-kw1sl 7 місяців тому +27

    Both y’all need healing praying for y’all. It’s about accountability from both parties.

  • @xpose09
    @xpose09 7 місяців тому +117

    You and royalty both have issues from not having a father growing up, y’all should be having deep conversations and trying to heal not doing petty stuff on the internet 🤦‍♂️

    • @cjtnc9102
      @cjtnc9102 7 місяців тому +4

      Why comment this huh why? Didn't he just said that go tell her that. Smh

    • @amourrkenn4898
      @amourrkenn4898 7 місяців тому +7

      Nobody has issues but royalty & it’s her mother’s fault.. did you forget royalty mother put her out when she found out she was pregnant with jaaliyah?

    • @celebritea5813
      @celebritea5813 7 місяців тому +4

      cj has father and mother issues

    • @therealnanna-yp1do
      @therealnanna-yp1do 7 місяців тому +5

      As u can see royalty doesn’t wanna talk she just wants money she selfish

    • @celebritea5813
      @celebritea5813 7 місяців тому +4

      @@therealnanna-yp1do no tf she dont if she wanted that she woulda went back 😂

  • @journeyofrelaxation7028
    @journeyofrelaxation7028 7 місяців тому +68

    The kids were about to go to foster care but the court gave her 50/50 custody also make it make sense. Oh you can't

    • @Pageisclose
      @Pageisclose 7 місяців тому +14

      He slow

    • @meriah-kj5sr
      @meriah-kj5sr 7 місяців тому +15

      How u know you were there?? Cause the only person sounding slow is yall

  • @billbrown1631
    @billbrown1631 7 місяців тому +6

    CJ I’ve been watching you guys for sometime now probably from the very beginning and I have to say I normally take the woman side but in this particular situation I have to say I think you’re 100% right you did a lot for a lot of people. None of us is perfect however we all make mistakes but because of you some people are living a better life and you lifted a lot of people I pray that you continue to do well and I wish you a very, very best. I don’t agree with everything but I have to say I think you are pretty good stand-up guy.

    • @micheler3011
      @micheler3011 7 місяців тому

      He is 100%. I am wondering about what’s been happening with scary thing are you sure someone who’s against you or loyal to Royalty does not have a key, I know in the old days you would curse the ghost out and get a priest to come and bless your home! Be safe and do your best to do what’s right at all times. Stay blessed, do not take on the negativity going on, when they go low you go high. Continue to be a great daddy to your kids, show them you love them, not by giving them everything they ask for but by their treatment, care love!

  • @zylendickerson792
    @zylendickerson792 7 місяців тому +6

    Cj keep your head up u did the right thing I prayed for u tbh if it wasn’t for u they would be nothing at all but what I think the problem was u let her come back into your life and what I learned if god takes someone out of your life don’t try to bring them back because they we’re not meant to be in it but I love what you are doing keep up the good work I enjoy watching you I have watched you since I was little but keep doing good I wish u the best❤💪

  • @journeyofrelaxation7028
    @journeyofrelaxation7028 7 місяців тому +100

    If camari didn't even come to the house you got shot in til you moved why did you want the twins in a crime scene when at the time the people that broke in your house were not even caught yet

    • @Lovemeorhateme143
      @Lovemeorhateme143 7 місяців тому +18

      He just wanted to c his kids it didn’t necessarily have to b n the house …

    • @journeyofrelaxation7028
      @journeyofrelaxation7028 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Lovemeorhateme143Go back and watch the videos. He said royalty wanted him to get a hotel room are Airbnb too see the twins, but he refused.

    • @journeyofrelaxation7028
      @journeyofrelaxation7028 7 місяців тому +2

      Okay and when he moved out that house he got his kids and been having them since then

    • @Moe_love33
      @Moe_love33 7 місяців тому +7

      @@journeyofrelaxation7028he had to pay to see his kids and that was not fair and if he didn’t he could not see them

    • @Lovemeorhateme143
      @Lovemeorhateme143 7 місяців тому +1

      @@journeyofrelaxation7028 yeah because she was forced to… not because she wanted to!!

  • @On3Lov3ly
    @On3Lov3ly 7 місяців тому +15

    Super proud of you for recognizing you're valuable to your kids and you didn't take the easy way out!!! Because it's easy to walk away but u stood up and handled your business. ❤

  • @KuttA-pr9bh
    @KuttA-pr9bh 7 місяців тому +3

    “ my kid not gonna watch me get dragged on the ground and record while crying”😂😂😂 yu snapped

  • @TheBoiVonn
    @TheBoiVonn 7 місяців тому +14

    Ima be honest I don’t even watch his video anymore every since he has his dreads he’s been acting real different CJ you got to grow up man🤦🏾‍♂️💯

  • @DreDay-4202
    @DreDay-4202 7 місяців тому +37

    Wow???
    - did this dude really sit up there and say he wasn't getting nothing in return for his money spent on a lawyer to get 50/50 to stay in NBA part of his kids lives???
    When in all actuality
    Really should have went for full custody with all that money you have!! But nah you went 50/50 ....
    But anyways to say you're getting nothing in return for your money is down right a selfish and self centered statement and I know you meant that..
    Smh coming from a man that's her full custody of his 2 kids for past 7 years that cost me $52,058.67 and yeah I got everything in return..
    You really need to get your sh$t together on the inside...

  • @HonestyJones-f2n
    @HonestyJones-f2n 7 місяців тому +12

    You and your mom are just alike. I hope you can grow from this. Its obvious you are hurt and struggle with accepting responsibility for your own actions. So sad to see when the twins get older and see you say they were not Gods will. Gods will is in doctors hands, medicine, Royaltys health. Very sad all around.

  • @jeremiahtyler9703
    @jeremiahtyler9703 7 місяців тому +106

    Look at cj again always trying to make his self look good let’s be honest who got the first house they ever moved to and cj talking trash to the kids he is just mad that the kids don’t want to come over be my friend come on now they just mad royalty doing a lot better than them royalty told Lexi she was going to go through the same stuff she was no different so I know royalty and the kids sitting back and laughing enjoying 😂😂😂

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому +3

      They are definitely NOT sitting back laughing😐.

    • @GoatReactz
      @GoatReactz 6 місяців тому

      Great now move along!

  • @Summer-xv1lt
    @Summer-xv1lt 7 місяців тому +38

    One thing CJ gone do is talk shit about his mom. 😂 That lady on live talking all that shit tryna take up for him and he down talk her every chance she get. She slow asf. 😂

  • @hrwatchinpuff6551
    @hrwatchinpuff6551 7 місяців тому +3

    You’re not the only person with a unhappy childhood, but you still have family, and success! Mend those relationships first, then grow from there. Your ex made decisions designed to benefit (her) family, now you need to focus on yours.

  • @xpose09
    @xpose09 7 місяців тому +115

    Cj you need to apologise to those kids aswell, you said a lot of stuff about them, y’all all need to heal together

    • @therosssisters911
      @therosssisters911 7 місяців тому +6

      I agree I just hope and pray things can change with you guys

    • @ambitiouswomen83
      @ambitiouswomen83 7 місяців тому +18

      No he don’t he already did . They momma need to apologize to them for keeping them away from their dad Jamie!

    • @Lets0627
      @Lets0627 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@ambitiouswomen83 exactly, she's searching for sympathy after she caused all of this ruckus....@xpose09 is Charlene 💯

    • @محمدعبدالله-ض7ي3غ
      @محمدعبدالله-ض7ي3غ 7 місяців тому +2

      Nope apologies to lexi

    • @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473
      @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473 7 місяців тому +2

      He don't need to apologize to their disrespectful selves!! He needs to move on and Charlene needs to seek therapy because she's so bitter!!!

  • @Aishapeters7
    @Aishapeters7 7 місяців тому +6

    The fact that you both was so young and in love not thinking at that moment bc it was beautiful at the end 2 beautiful kids and I look at it as nobody perfect just let it go and move forward it’s not worth the energy of u both wishing y’all the best💜

  • @LoraChunk
    @LoraChunk 7 місяців тому +8

    Man I heard and watched both sides. Royalty side and now CJ’s side… In our culture I wish you both would do things the Christian way. Y’all and all yall kids need the protection of the blood of Jesus. That’s the only way to go. These are end times.

  • @Samiam173
    @Samiam173 7 місяців тому +8

    CJ neither of you won or lost....you both made the kids, you both should see them...PERIOD-T

    • @CJSOCOOL
      @CJSOCOOL  7 місяців тому +4

      Very true but never forget that just like you said we both should’ve been able to see them she kept them away from me for 8 months

    • @Lawrence_ent
      @Lawrence_ent 7 місяців тому +3

      all this started when he wanted to collab at a party in atl and some girl touched him on camera. he wasn’t trying to hide it, he’s famous and things happen but she should of never kept the kids away from him for that

    • @Lawrence_ent
      @Lawrence_ent 7 місяців тому

      @@Escalarawoah royalty left him before all that. she left before he even got back to vegas. he was doin over 100 in the mclaren trying to get home. then she did skits with funny mike and was keeping the kids away from him

    • @Samiam173
      @Samiam173 7 місяців тому

      @@CJSOCOOL Agreed. Chalk it up to life, and Karma. Kids are real people CJ. I know this is a business for you and all but you're (both) doing too much. In hindsight doing the "right thing" is always the "right thing" to do. This isn't your first rodeo. You had your daughter, then you get with Royalty and have more kids. Whatever happened to preventive measures (not to say you didn't use them). Then what happened to marriage? Then what happened to not letting the dollar rule you? You always talk about what you have what someone else doesn't have but look at you. Failed relationships, kids all over the place (figuratively) and you putting their lives on blast before their old enough to know what this is all about. All I'm sayin is, you're right, you should have been able to see them but again, it's life, you're not the first person this happened and trust/believe you're not the last. Just keep you business out of the media. People (some) don't care what you have, cars, houses or money,,,,,are you truly happy, inside, when noone is watching. Because CJ, to me, figuratively (and respectfully because it's just my opinion)...you are broke.

    • @ndjmvideos
      @ndjmvideos 7 місяців тому +2

      @@CJSOCOOLit was not 8 months 💀why are u lying ?

  • @Sky-ue1vb
    @Sky-ue1vb 7 місяців тому +9

    I been watching this man since day one and I hope he gets through all this you got this cj❤❤❤

  • @leteatales3004
    @leteatales3004 7 місяців тому +100

    Something YOU can't seem to do is Take accountability! You make being a co parent hard and Royalty never wanted your money, she would've stayed around if that was the case. YOU are all about the money.

    • @Petty-s2w
      @Petty-s2w 7 місяців тому +20

      he literally took accountability the whole video. he shouldn't downplay the attacks against him

    • @TeonnaCash
      @TeonnaCash 7 місяців тому +16

      So you didn’t watch the video? This is such an ignorant comment.

    • @Green121082
      @Green121082 7 місяців тому +8

      He literally put them out!!

    • @Poppasmurf458
      @Poppasmurf458 7 місяців тому +3

      This her family member that’s y it sound dumb

    • @ambitiousbreezy7569
      @ambitiousbreezy7569 7 місяців тому +6

      So if your providing for all these ppl and they being nasty and ungrateful and disrespectful you would keep dealing with it? Yall say he all about the money but if that was the case wouldnt he have just dealt with it to keep the family around for views and money? Smh yall gotta start thinking man

  • @HardlyAthletic842
    @HardlyAthletic842 7 місяців тому +51

    You and royalty need to both go to therapy together to be able to coparent the twins, this back and forth internet mess isn’t helping anyone

    • @Incogn3gr0e
      @Incogn3gr0e 7 місяців тому +4

      He’s the problem not her. Don’t you see he’s a narcissist? All he does is gaslight, deflect and lie. He’s clearly bitter royalty isn’t going back to him. Court is over & he’s still causing drama for what?? Saying that the twins are not God’s will is disgusting. He planned to have kids with royalty & for him to constantly speak on “paying for their existence” and how he wish she wasn’t their mother is gross. He’s one angry manchild. Royalty has been sparing him he’s lucky she’s holding back

    • @illcomebackyesterday
      @illcomebackyesterday 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@mszgigi0518 nope. He just a dad who wants to see his kid. she making that difficult lol but of course the females will sidebwith royalty and the guys will side with cj.

  • @ayeshuck1990
    @ayeshuck1990 7 місяців тому +7

    Bro literally listed allll the things that points to him being broke. 😂 didnt list businesses or property or any type of asset that isnt depreciating. Kids, dont be like this man. Make smart investments. This man is such a cliche new ghetto money. Live that flashy life to look rich and whole time they continue to lose worth.

  • @lovelydixon1629
    @lovelydixon1629 7 місяців тому +11

    Your mom is not the problem cj you both need to do therapy together so you can forgive not forget but really move forward in your life without trauma hurt holding you back seriously that's why pass trauma affects your relationships in your life wish nothing but blessing an real light❤😊

    • @superwisewomenmaga9727
      @superwisewomenmaga9727 7 місяців тому +3

      She love her son.

    • @lovelydixon1629
      @lovelydixon1629 7 місяців тому +3

      She does hopefully one day they can share they story to each other he really never knew why she gave him up that would be a good start to a healthy realistic relationship genuine love is hard to come by

    • @Herbertherbal
      @Herbertherbal 7 місяців тому +1

      Mama really does love Cj she's a sweet person herself

  • @TheBossladyjay
    @TheBossladyjay 7 місяців тому +48

    One thing I will never forget is u using Royalty house as a punishment for the kids… that was the weirdest part honestly!

  • @raymellebuxton-johnson2733
    @raymellebuxton-johnson2733 7 місяців тому +417

    Cj, you need to look at your fault in this whole situation. You the main issue in this problem.

    • @TeonnaCash
      @TeonnaCash 7 місяців тому +21

      He held himself accountable, I guess you missed that in an almost hour long video.

    • @simplymayax3
      @simplymayax3 7 місяців тому +37

      @@TeonnaCashhe will hold himself accountable then turn around & bash someone else like it’s pointless for him to even be held accountable cause he’s just proving everybody’s point that HE’S the problem 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @patriciacook3169
      @patriciacook3169 7 місяців тому +10

      Exactly

    • @TeonnaCash
      @TeonnaCash 7 місяців тому +10

      @@simplymayax3 I guess he can be two things at once: shady and accountable for his actions. That comes with his territory that’s why everybody around him keeps leaving.

    • @fruitfuljeremiah392
      @fruitfuljeremiah392 7 місяців тому

      Exactly

  • @Marquita191
    @Marquita191 7 місяців тому +20

    The saddest part of all is the twins not getting to experience the same family dynamic as the older kids😩. Although life goes on, and ppl have a right to their decisions, it should have never gotten this deep. I hope this gets better and soon.

  • @_monteexd
    @_monteexd 7 місяців тому +19

    Accountability you talked negatively when you got shot and all after about her and them kids and ya momma . This use to be a family channel now it’s just down talking your baby mom and drama smh . Same kids you saying dirty you wanted to link back up with and wanted them to come over smh just sit down and talk or don’t and let it go . Court over the twins won the end ?

    • @_monteexd
      @_monteexd 7 місяців тому

      @@TrevonWilliams12437don’t read my comment

    • @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473
      @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473 7 місяців тому +2

      He clearly apologized! But I believe she did have summing to do with it. Bitter Betty

  • @TellItLikeItTis4578
    @TellItLikeItTis4578 7 місяців тому +31

    There’s no winner CJ, the kids have you both still. I 🙏🏾 things get better with time for you ❤. When it’s your time with them, you make a way to get them. And vise versa

    • @busitbaby41
      @busitbaby41 7 місяців тому +8

      And that’s what he wanted she wanted to keep him away fully so he won but I agree with you

    • @Mgamble214
      @Mgamble214 7 місяців тому +9

      He did win
      The right to see his kids that he pays for
      She can never use the kids as a weapon now
      He won🙌🏾

    • @stompdumptrump2024
      @stompdumptrump2024 7 місяців тому +1

      @@Mgamble214 ..EXACTLY..these folks act like they was blind and didn't see how Char-Lean tried to do to CJ want she's done to Jamie/keep his kids away from him..but CJ is cut from a different cloth and had to show that trash-bag what type of man/father he really is..most of these women who encourages Char-Lean's behavior has done/or is doing the very same things to their kids father

  • @OGALMIGHTY2k
    @OGALMIGHTY2k 6 місяців тому +2

    Ima give a gem rich or not cheating is like a spiritual thing starts with someone’s mind once u cheat fellas just be done women can sense and feel it trust women don’t forgive like that it’s like u killing someone’s on a mental level tho if u get with someone do not cheat

  • @TwilaMoore-nq3lc
    @TwilaMoore-nq3lc 7 місяців тому +39

    I was literally routing for you and Royalty, a lot of us admired y'alls blended family. But also a lot of people were also jealous of you and Royalty’s relationship. I think the reason Royalty wanted supervised visits is because of the beef between her, Nikki and Lexi. I remember watching the video you made and Nikki disrespected your son and barged in front of him(like purposely ). Also Lexi was seen multiple times on video blatantly disrespecting your kids.. On the outside looking in, Nikki and Lexi played a big part in interfering in a negative way. Lastly,if you're in a position to help the mother of your kids financially so she can live comfortably you should. If Royalty is living in a 2 bedroom apartment with your kids, just help her to get back on her feet.

    • @zetemazobathi6244
      @zetemazobathi6244 7 місяців тому +3

      💯

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому +1

      Or YOU can help her get on her feet😀. He was helping her and THEN SOME she got greedy and vengeful.

    • @ms.sanders3900
      @ms.sanders3900 7 місяців тому +2

      He should help

    • @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473
      @thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473 7 місяців тому

      He don't have to help her. You reap what you sow!!!!

  • @Aishangwenya
    @Aishangwenya 7 місяців тому +28

    Congratulations cj 🎉 you are a very good father , and a good person keep doing what you doing it will pay off ❤

  • @welp6968
    @welp6968 7 місяців тому +5

    It’s so sad to see what happened to this family man . I remember Royalty having to have her tubes untied and the miscarriage to then finally have the twins and now it’s crazy to see how much the times have changed

  • @SpicyChannelShoutOuts
    @SpicyChannelShoutOuts 7 місяців тому +94

    CJ IS NOT TELLING THIS STORY RIGHT! She left him and he said in the video in the last house they lived in that he waited around for two or three months to see if they would come back. She left because of the cheating with girls, not because you was just networking, you had inappropriate behavior throughout the relationship, I watched all the videos.

    • @ashlynbonini3710
      @ashlynbonini3710 7 місяців тому +5

      You watched all the videos except the one where she posted what he was telling them which correlates to hai story😂😂

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому +11

      That lady should've stayed with CJ he is a darn good provider. She won't ever find another provider like CJ especially not with 5 kids😬.

    • @traceejohnson290
      @traceejohnson290 7 місяців тому +4

      Were you listening he said he played on her a few times in the 9 years😏

    • @Chattyhub
      @Chattyhub 7 місяців тому +1

      He put them out. Yes he waited a few days then he went out and partied. Dingdong the witch is gone wicked witch is gone 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅🧙🧙🧙🧙🧙🧙🧙🧙🧙

    • @TeonnaCash
      @TeonnaCash 7 місяців тому +2

      @SpicyChannelShoutsOuts you’re too invested that it’s clouding your brain. I guess it hard to believe that he was frustrated, as too the kids and Royalty, with the relationship and that’s how it ended the 2nd time. It’s ok. People grow apart.

  • @Rainett-g5n
    @Rainett-g5n 7 місяців тому +10

    CJ if you thought doing things the way you did it is the way a real man moves HONEY bless your heart you need some real counseling 😢

  • @CakedUppTv305
    @CakedUppTv305 6 місяців тому +3

    I believe everything he’s saying !!!
    Most men going through this now !! Nd can’t even voice there thoughts to the world !! Nd no one can last in a relationship for dam near 10 years !! CJ I respect this !

  • @stargirl4378
    @stargirl4378 7 місяців тому +7

    Cj mad funny '' she got her lawyer from temu and I got mine frome the designer store" 😂

    • @heyitsanniyah
      @heyitsanniyah 7 місяців тому +5

      How is that funny? yall cj fans are so corny and immature 💀what grown adult says that

    • @stargirl4378
      @stargirl4378 7 місяців тому

      ​@@msdothedash23:40

  • @shucoreyshaw4387
    @shucoreyshaw4387 7 місяців тому +40

    Don’t let them stress you out, CJ SO COOL🙏🏾❤️

  • @TheNikkiTimm
    @TheNikkiTimm 7 місяців тому +12

    So what CJ is saying its ok to cheat every now and then, u only got back with her the second time so u can get to dump her/them

  • @atriesha683
    @atriesha683 7 місяців тому +3

    Cj i love u and I'm happy u won 50% custody of the twins but
    PLEASE GO TO THERAPY BECAUSE AT THIS POINT 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ you really need it

  • @malani-vx6lz
    @malani-vx6lz 7 місяців тому +4

    cj im so sorry u had to go threw this im praying for u and ur kids ❤🙏🏾

  • @michelleparker4186
    @michelleparker4186 7 місяців тому +51

    CJ you are an amazing father! Don't let them bring you down.

    • @DearestDaisha
      @DearestDaisha 7 місяців тому +2

      He isn't though. Royalty has had the pickup the children early on his visits so many times. He better keep this his entire time as he fought so hard for this. He call them names etc.

  • @allboutgeny
    @allboutgeny 7 місяців тому +12

    Congrats CJ!!! So happy that you’ve won this case and now you’ll be able to have rights over ur kids.. Keep doing what ur doing.. you’ll be in my prayers❤🙏🏾

  • @mz.samanthaabimbola5506
    @mz.samanthaabimbola5506 7 місяців тому +16

    ❤❤❤ congratulations 🎊 🎉🎉 CJ you fought a good fight and kept the faith and it paid off and I'm so happy for you CJ ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TavashaRandell
    @TavashaRandell 6 місяців тому +3

    Cj you always been a good father whatever is happening to you god has a reason for you being here happy you won your kids and to be in their life so keep your head up and don’t let nobody effect you

  • @rebel_wrld
    @rebel_wrld 7 місяців тому +1

    Stay strong bruh good fathers always end up with the crazy bm with all the bs that come with her

  • @amaryathompson5645
    @amaryathompson5645 7 місяців тому +17

    Never gonna take accountability for your wrongs you did you kept that trail going that girl don’t want nothing from you and you know that

  • @ericbingham1183
    @ericbingham1183 7 місяців тому +15

    This dude got caught with 4 phones, and broke up with Royalty because the kids didn't clean up after they self. Make it make sense people. 9 years down the drain.

    • @patriciacook3169
      @patriciacook3169 7 місяців тому +3

      But during the little argument jahlyiah was doing the dishes and cleaning up

    • @yourforevermadtho
      @yourforevermadtho 4 місяці тому

      They treated camari like trash.

  • @Oneakaell
    @Oneakaell 7 місяців тому +172

    He’s allowed to speak. He is human and he has feelings. He is a good father and we can see that. Royalty never liked his daughter! She tried to take his twins from him just how she kept her children from their father. That says a lot about her character. Men deserves loves too.

    • @TrayWands
      @TrayWands 7 місяців тому +16

      How is he a good father. He is bashing kids.

    • @xotic_boi
      @xotic_boi 7 місяців тому +12

      ​@user-dn3sz2kn8v, how long have you watched cj because he loved his family over everything

    • @LWJJ.J
      @LWJJ.J 7 місяців тому +20

      @@TrayWandshis kids or the kids who disrespected him? And last thing I checked those 3 stooges aren’t his kids anymore the only kids he’s responsible for is Camari, Cordero Jr and Cordayah

    • @Tina54476
      @Tina54476 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@LWJJ.J But he asked those kids to be his friends?

    • @ndjmvideos
      @ndjmvideos 7 місяців тому +7

      when yall say royalty never liked camari that’s just a complete lie .. i’ve been watching since 2017 and cj treated camari like she was an outcast the ENTIRE time up until 2022 when they left. royalty treated camari like her own yall really be yapping fr

  • @jarquezbolden1408
    @jarquezbolden1408 7 місяців тому +2

    Let this Growm man speak how he feel keep yall childish opinions to yourself don’t watch if you feel some kinda way I never understood why ppl that don’t know someone has so much to say like they do know them, MOVE AROUND ‼️‼️‼️

  • @dasimpsons
    @dasimpsons 7 місяців тому +208

    This 🥷🏽 addressed everything except why he called Lexi the cook be fr

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому +16

      Cause she cooks.

    • @TeonnaCash
      @TeonnaCash 7 місяців тому +4

      Because he already addressed it on his Instagram. This video wasn’t about her.

    • @TaebonyGipson-ew3he
      @TaebonyGipson-ew3he 6 місяців тому

      he apologized to Lexi and he said we separated

  • @famousjak9222
    @famousjak9222 7 місяців тому +14

    I think what nobody has even said yet in these comment which is a part of the problem is basically you let money get to you bro like be fr all your fans feel like that and your family feels like that I think you need to sit and ponder with that part of accountability Cj you can’t pay your way through everything.

  • @CJJefferson-th5yn
    @CJJefferson-th5yn 7 місяців тому +8

    You know what im support you because you always be there to your children and you always be on your kids life

  • @mimisworld8123
    @mimisworld8123 7 місяців тому +30

    Cut it out it’s 50/50 you both win in the end. Just co parent and keep it moving.

    • @zaquiersmith8323
      @zaquiersmith8323 7 місяців тому +1

      It’s all him yapping his mouth

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 7 місяців тому

      What did she win?

    • @mimisworld8123
      @mimisworld8123 7 місяців тому

      @@zaquiersmith8323Exactly

    • @mimisworld8123
      @mimisworld8123 7 місяців тому

      @@YtorisvDuh, to keep having her kids, he thought he was getting full custody. So they both win!!

  • @BridgetOlagundoye
    @BridgetOlagundoye 7 місяців тому +6

    I m on Team CJ all the way love his personality your winner at heart your a great father . Cj i feel you 😂. I understand you 👏👏

  • @HaiisLifestyleee
    @HaiisLifestyleee 6 місяців тому +5

    Cj you're a good man!!! Keep up the hard work and don't let dem haters get to yo head and keep grinding with these videos I love watching your videos!!!!❤

  • @Nassirr_the_don
    @Nassirr_the_don 7 місяців тому +4

    Omg I’m dying he said “she got her lawyer from Temu and I got mine from the designer store”😂 23:41

  • @Rainett-g5n
    @Rainett-g5n 7 місяців тому +40

    Uhhhh did you not hear yourself? You are telling the kids you didn’t want them.

    • @auzy2u845
      @auzy2u845 7 місяців тому +5

      He said that he didn't want kids at the time, but he loved them

  • @preciouschikitita4134
    @preciouschikitita4134 7 місяців тому +64

    Bro do you actually know the twins are gonna see this when they grow up … why are you saying you never need them

    • @CJSOCOOL
      @CJSOCOOL  7 місяців тому +31

      I never said I didn’t need them in my life I said I didn’t need to have kids with Charlene my kids could have had another mother and they still would’ve been my kids since they came from me

    • @preciouschikitita4134
      @preciouschikitita4134 7 місяців тому +55

      @@CJSOCOOL but you choose to have kids with her and that was both of y’all decision!!! Why make mockery of someone that had you kids and stayed in the hospital till her birthday to be home like that wack

    • @ALiGzz
      @ALiGzz 7 місяців тому +17

      @@preciouschikitita4134 Her keeping the twins away from him for no reason is wack , and also letting her kids speak negative on a man who stepped up to support them is wack.... Lets not get off track now!

    • @ThierryAlcime
      @ThierryAlcime 7 місяців тому +5

      @@preciouschikitita4134did u not watch the vid?

    • @preciouschikitita4134
      @preciouschikitita4134 7 місяців тому +20

      @@ThierryAlcime yes and bro was just yapping

  • @Samanthafrei36
    @Samanthafrei36 7 місяців тому +167

    Why is he saying family they are not your family anymore they want nothing to do with you they dnt want anything from you.

    • @ashlynmoore4994
      @ashlynmoore4994 7 місяців тому +26

      He needs to get this through his head while he’s trying to down play his mom which is his REAL family. CJ all F’d up in the game. Them people will never like him. They will use him and record him.

    • @swolepope
      @swolepope 7 місяців тому +1

      Obviously they do did you not here Cathleen wanted child support listening is fundamental

    • @lisarobinson4008
      @lisarobinson4008 7 місяців тому +4

      ⁠@@swolepopewho is Cathleen

    • @swolepope
      @swolepope 7 місяців тому

      @@lisarobinson4008 I meant Charlene

    • @Xoxo.camii0
      @Xoxo.camii0 7 місяців тому +1

      @@swolepope she ain’t want child support he took HER to court she didn’t take him to court.

  • @ShikaShay0503
    @ShikaShay0503 7 місяців тому +4

    I think you are a Good person you just need some guidance because sometimes you come off as arrogant and like because you have money and looks it's ok to treat people as such you can't do that just stay humble and ignore the drama no matter what

  • @lovinsmurff24
    @lovinsmurff24 7 місяців тому +3

    CJ it's life man Just keep thanking God for the blessings and stay moving on baby luv just as you should😊 congratulations on the ending to your new beginnings. Enjoy your life and time with your family💙💜🙌🙏😇💪🏾

  • @Diamonivibez
    @Diamonivibez 7 місяців тому +6

    This man never once said he was innocent ... he had his faults and he owned them ... at the end of the day he is a good father and provider and yall cant stand seeing a black man win ... Cj is smart very smart .... yall are weird ... and if u unfollow him u was never a real fan of his period.... we love u cj and ur real fans already knew the truth from the gate... Fan from the beginning

  • @nw6027
    @nw6027 7 місяців тому +15

    Why is he still talking about and making videos about his Ex and her children 😢this is horrible let that family find some peace and you get yourself together smh mental health is a serious matter!

  • @simplymeconnie4003
    @simplymeconnie4003 7 місяців тому +39

    "How quickly do people forget?" You forgot that it's thanks to Royalty and the kids that you're where you are today. If you didn't prank them kids, you would still be a low level dealer.

    • @mzzkikilopez4879
      @mzzkikilopez4879 7 місяців тому +4

      Preach but now others wanna reap from what they built any woman will think like royalty let's be real

  • @megganspoeticalbreeze1266
    @megganspoeticalbreeze1266 7 місяців тому +4

    I'm glad that you won your rights as their father... I hope that this gives fathers out there the courage to fight to be in their kids lives as well... A child needs both patients to make it in this corrupted world ..

  • @E_GotSkillz27
    @E_GotSkillz27 7 місяців тому +4

    I’ve been watching CJ SO COOL SINCE DAY 1 with jinx
    My uncle CJ been tho ALOT 🎉
    Praise to him 🙏🏾