Dealing with toxic partners || Acharya Prashant, Vedant Mahotsav at IISc Bangalore (2022)

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  • @AcharyaPrashant
    @AcharyaPrashant  2 роки тому +12

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    For online solutions to life questions: solutions.acharyaprashant.org

  • @pushpamakhijani7345
    @pushpamakhijani7345 2 роки тому +33

    When sufferings labelled as justice, there is no question of freedom from sufferings. 🙏🙏👍

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 2 роки тому +29

    Nothing in life is irreversible. The only thing that you never compromise on, never negotiate on is the central purpose of life, and that is liberation.

  • @ramz2184
    @ramz2184 2 роки тому +17

    Brutal truth.Society needs to change their mindsets.

  • @Rishurao
    @Rishurao 2 роки тому +23

    *We are Born for Something Higher* *in Life.* 🔥🔥
    Please, please, kindly understand this thing. 🙏🙏

  • @tarundiwakar739
    @tarundiwakar739 2 роки тому +11

    Society is born, when the individual loses his individuality. - Tarun

  • @Ranjit_Sir17
    @Ranjit_Sir17 2 роки тому +16

    Only Acharya prasant ji can save present and future generation.

  • @reenuyadav8481
    @reenuyadav8481 2 роки тому +15

    If you find suffering is inevitable, atleast choose the higher suffering 🔥

  • @BD721able
    @BD721able Рік тому +6

    Great advice by Acharya Prashant, on an important topic in today’s times: Dealing with toxic partners (dealing with toxic societal conditioning actually!)
    Please do not expose your children/ grandchildren to movies or music which revolve around romanticizing man-woman relationship and making that a life purpose. Please watch what goes in through 5 senses in the children.
    I am also guilty of this. I let my son watch Bollywood movies & listen to the songs in his impressionable childhood. I have a lot of rectification to do now.
    Thank you Acharya Ji for this enlightening video!
    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @music-Songs7
    @music-Songs7 2 роки тому +24

    Great eye opening session
    We are blessed to have such a great guru like acharya ji to guide us to the right path
    Wisdom literatures must be taught right from young age so that people will not fall for wrong things in life and can avoid suffering, which is not due to past sin, suffering is our own choice, we can change it, it is not inevitable or irreversible.
    Thankyou Acharya ji

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому +6

    43:50, you have the power, nobody is born to suffer.
    Suffering is a choice.

  • @divyamadhubala7102
    @divyamadhubala7102 Рік тому +9

    17:27 - 20:06
    20:23 - 21:26
    24:37 - 24:53
    24:56 - 25:57
    Thanks Acharyaji 🙏🏼

  • @androiduser6928
    @androiduser6928 2 роки тому +11

    One of the most memorable answers by Acharya ji. 🙏🙏🙏. I would need to hear this many many times to understand and internalize.

  • @CAHKSoni
    @CAHKSoni 2 роки тому +8

    जीवन सार्थक हो गया, जबसे सत गुरु जीवन में आए!
    सत सत नमन आचार्य जी 🙏🙇💯🥰
    आप न होते तो कैसा जीवन होता, कल्पना करना भी दुखदाई है🥺

  • @Userae_473
    @Userae_473 Рік тому +2

    The ending is quite bitter with the truest taste of truth.Naman Acharya ji🙏You always make us look into things with a complete vision.

  • @preetinarwal2591
    @preetinarwal2591 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks a lot sir.....I have so many changes in my life....I had done many mistakes in my life ....now I m suffered....I want to be out from these suffering...

  • @parmeetkaur8733
    @parmeetkaur8733 2 роки тому +8

    We can never thank enough to
    Aacharya ji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kahaniwithnaga
    @kahaniwithnaga 2 роки тому +8

    Thanks acharya ji for choosing to teach vedanta, it has deep positive impact on my life. Thanks for clearity on this relationship issue

  • @nirajpatil9040
    @nirajpatil9040 2 роки тому +10

    Nothing in life is irreversible 🙏🙏💯

  • @sppscompany6886
    @sppscompany6886 2 роки тому +8

    We learn a lot from ACHARYA JI.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому +5

    40:28, your suffering is your own choice.
    You choose to remain the sufferer, you can opt out the suffering.
    By choosing to suffer more you are not getting any better.

  • @Bloomwithgrace
    @Bloomwithgrace Рік тому +3

    We are born for something more in life 🔥

  • @_Shivani_Rajput
    @_Shivani_Rajput 2 роки тому +6

    Naman Acharya Ji 🌺🙏

  • @swatisharma8247
    @swatisharma8247 2 роки тому +5

    Great knowledge shared in this session...eye opening and liberating🙏👍

  • @mitalighosh5011
    @mitalighosh5011 2 роки тому +2

    I'm thankful to Acharaya Prashant ji today that I took life decisions where I chose to opt out of suffering

  • @sujatasrangan258
    @sujatasrangan258 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you Acharya ji,
    I was thinking is it only my thought process is this way. these kind of vedios should reach many
    🙏

  • @mr.maheshreddy
    @mr.maheshreddy 2 роки тому +3

    Closing note is super sir. I feel touching your feet 🙏

  • @prashantsharma3907
    @prashantsharma3907 2 роки тому +2

    Anand or joy is the name of higher suffering. Gratitude acharya ji❣️🙏

  • @rajendraprasadrastogi7091
    @rajendraprasadrastogi7091 2 роки тому +3

    प्रणाम आचार्य जी कहते हैं शादी का लड्डू जो खाये वह भी पछताए और जो ना खाए वह भी पछताए इसीलिए बहुत सोच समझ कर अपना जीवन साथी चुनना चाहिए

  • @Anurodh_80
    @Anurodh_80 2 роки тому +6

    Gratitude acharya ji 🙏🏻

  • @sonatan-sonofsanatan2741
    @sonatan-sonofsanatan2741 2 роки тому +2

    Charan Sparsha Acharya Ji…
    Koti Koti Naman 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Magicalpuja777
    @Magicalpuja777 2 роки тому +3

    Lots and lots of gratitude acharyaji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @joyetahazra2864
    @joyetahazra2864 2 роки тому +7

    Gratitude Guruji ❤️🙏

  • @anitapatnaik7667
    @anitapatnaik7667 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks a lot Acharya ji....🙏🙏🙏😊

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому +3

    29:40, Give your life something worthwhile, not to some average Joe or Janes.....👍

  • @puneetkumar1575
    @puneetkumar1575 2 роки тому +5

    Your vedios are eye opener 🙏💪

  • @aashishsinghnagvanshi4155
    @aashishsinghnagvanshi4155 2 роки тому +3

    Great content are also available in the world. But there are very few amount of people in the world who actually wants to consume them.
    And acharya ji your content is Kind to be diamond 💎.
    But wo kahete hai na hire 💎 ki pachan jauhori ko hi hoti hai.
    There are very few jauhari present in the world

  • @diwakarkumar1469
    @diwakarkumar1469 2 роки тому +1

    It is neither compulsory nor irreversible!! 25:25

  • @diyaghosh3341
    @diyaghosh3341 Рік тому +1

    Another eye-opening session 🔥🔥🔥

  • @dead5266
    @dead5266 2 роки тому +3

    THANKYOU FOR THIS🙏

  • @titoni.
    @titoni. 11 місяців тому

    Namaste Guruji 🙏🏻
    Amazing information. Your message can save all the relationships. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @BD721able
    @BD721able Рік тому

    We choose what we value.
    Watch your mind truthfully & see where your values lie-
    With suffering or with bliss?

  • @deepakjoshi3401
    @deepakjoshi3401 2 роки тому +3

    Pranam acharya ji🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @pallabisahu600
    @pallabisahu600 Рік тому

    Thank you sooooo much Aacharya ji🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️

  • @dr.susheelkhemariya8966
    @dr.susheelkhemariya8966 2 роки тому

    Thanks gretitude Dhanyawad ji thanks for happyness Dhanyabad Thanks

  • @vigatkautuk
    @vigatkautuk Рік тому

    It is neither compulsory nor irreversible
    You have a choice.

  • @pawantomar2162
    @pawantomar2162 2 роки тому +3

    Check your inner designing of your thoughts, that must be known to you, from where thoughts are originated. Who is doer??
    Thankfulness Acharya ji

  • @prashantsharma3907
    @prashantsharma3907 2 роки тому +3

    If you find suffering is inevitable atleast choose the higher suffering. Thank you acharya ji for providing this precious vedantic knowlege for free of cost. 🙏❣️

  • @rupaliart4185
    @rupaliart4185 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you ! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @PiyushGrover
    @PiyushGrover 2 роки тому +10

    “Well known major cause of mental health problems is the institution of marriage”
    Would like to dig deep into the data/reports. I would be grateful if some reports/findings can be shared because google results says otherwise.

    • @UnmayaSolren
      @UnmayaSolren 2 роки тому +8

      Acharya Ji is right 100 %.
      All the below are closely coupled with marriage institution and it is obvious.
      1. Rat race in the name of Education.
      2. Competition/Jelousy/Ambition to get govt jobs.
      3. Indirect rat race during bride/groom selection.
      4. Physical/Mental Abuse.
      5. Divorce.
      6. Mental trauma related to relationship/Child upbringing/Financial fluctuation.
      7. False responsibilities(to satiate our own lust/insecurities) taught in the name of morality.
      We also have the right to brainwash ourselves with special investigation reports that says otherwise.
      If we are honest, Reasons are obvious. Only way we can save ourselves is to Opt out.

    • @Ganitiya_Saundarya
      @Ganitiya_Saundarya 2 роки тому +1

      Yes, @prabha is right. Our reports won’t directly say that studying for govt. job is related to marriage. Hence, classify it as mental problem due to studies. NO! It is due to marriage.

    • @anushkashreya696
      @anushkashreya696 2 роки тому +6

      Isn't it obvious? Simply take a look at our surroundings.

    • @nidhi6699
      @nidhi6699 Рік тому +1

      You don’t need google reports you just have to look around .. Married people are miserable but pretend otherwise. And the impart their own trauma to their children and the cycle continues.

  • @Rishurao
    @Rishurao 2 роки тому +2

    Namaste Acharya Ji.🔥🔥🙏🙏

  • @umasharma7360
    @umasharma7360 2 роки тому +2

    Real bad situation. How to stop our children from this situation. Pl. Continue your efforts. Atleast few will change.

    • @music-Songs7
      @music-Songs7 2 роки тому +1

      Spread acharya ji's teachings to all other people, patents etc

  • @krishram956
    @krishram956 Рік тому

    Great insight Prashant ji Thanks

  • @akashyadav1335
    @akashyadav1335 2 роки тому +3

    Gratitude❤ 🙏

  • @vishwasyadav6775
    @vishwasyadav6775 2 роки тому +6

    🙏

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому +3

    45:17, there are bigger things in life than a girl and a boy, a man and a woman, husband and wife. These are small things.

  • @Missriyaaa
    @Missriyaaa Рік тому

    The biggest treasure of my life I've got is you guruji 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I do not have regrets for anything now, I'm very grateful for you🙏✨

  • @KhushisVeganCafe
    @KhushisVeganCafe 2 роки тому

    शत शत नमन गुरुवर।

  • @heyanshul
    @heyanshul 2 роки тому +3

    Gratitude 🙏❤️🕉️

  • @niharikaagr78
    @niharikaagr78 Рік тому +1

    Nothing is normal for me now and I too ask such questions which people are shocked to hear

  • @ishitasharan8201
    @ishitasharan8201 2 роки тому

    Pranam Acharya ji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @subhashrandive7132
    @subhashrandive7132 2 роки тому

    excellent i will take care of this

  • @lifechangingquotes3231
    @lifechangingquotes3231 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir ❤️

  • @chaitalipatil2226
    @chaitalipatil2226 2 роки тому

    Gratitude Acharya ji 🙏❤️

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому +1

    39:20, For sure...

  • @priyamonga7506
    @priyamonga7506 2 роки тому +1

    Just wow

  • @Ramk5601
    @Ramk5601 2 роки тому +1

    Sabhi ko नमस्कार🙏🙏

  • @suchitrahegde1662
    @suchitrahegde1662 2 роки тому +2

    Dhanyavad acharyaji🌷🌷🌷🙏🙏🙏

  • @siddharthjoshi6811
    @siddharthjoshi6811 2 роки тому

    Beware from where you get your entertainment.
    -AP

  • @lifechangingquotes3231
    @lifechangingquotes3231 2 роки тому

    Life changing

  • @akashyadav1335
    @akashyadav1335 2 роки тому +4

    🌼🌸❤

  • @alpnamittalclasses8361
    @alpnamittalclasses8361 2 роки тому +3

    🙏🙏

  • @Nisthaunfiltered
    @Nisthaunfiltered 2 роки тому +3

    🙏🙇‍♀️🙏

  • @Pooja77797
    @Pooja77797 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @vk250958
    @vk250958 2 роки тому

    "The other is hell"- Jean Paul Sartre.

  • @agritwo2910
    @agritwo2910 Рік тому +1

    And the most horrible is false 498A cases

  • @ravipurdasy9074
    @ravipurdasy9074 2 роки тому +1

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @satyajeet384
    @satyajeet384 2 роки тому +1

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Happyroma7
    @Happyroma7 2 роки тому +2

    🥺

  • @tourismagency
    @tourismagency 4 місяці тому

    😮

  • @Wisdom738
    @Wisdom738 2 роки тому

    Brutal truth 😜😜

  • @daraiusdubash
    @daraiusdubash 2 роки тому +11

    It is very well known that the major cause of all kind of mental problems is the institution of marriage.
    The extent to which this institution causes neurosis is unmatched by any other cause.
    The urge to not miss out on something extremely important and central.
    Do we see how much of our lives are dictated by the forces of entertainment?
    Right from the age of 6 or 8, we are forcefully made to believe that the purpose of life is to chase a man or woman. And the highest ideal of life is to spend time with some nice and ideal person.
    That ideal is engrained in our minds from a very early age and it refuses to leave us even after we turn 80 or 90.
    Life is not for a noble cause. Life is not for liberation. life is not for knowledge. life is not for exploration. Life is for romance.
    Why o you have so many husband wife jokes? Just to mitigate the suffering a little. Just to be able to laugh at your own sorry situation a little.
    Why don't you have mother-son jokes? Because without joking it would be even more difficult to tolerate.
    Who has taught you to put up with daily torture and abuse. Who declared that to be your destiny?
    That's why wisdom literature at a young age is so important, so that you may have higher ideals - especially girls.
    You must have great ideals in life, read great books, watch great movies, seek the company of greats, so that you can think beyond this man-woman game.
    There is not problem with being a man or woman. The problem lies in compulsiveness. The problem lies in the feeling that this is compulsory or irreversible.
    Is this what you're born for? Do you have nothing better in life to do?
    Be very mindful where you get your entertainment from. In the name of entertainment, we get a lot of poison.
    As you sink deeper into entertainment, you find that you need more and more entertainment. Because you suffer so much that entertainment becomes necessary.
    Do not take things as right just because they are normal. There is a difference between something being normal and something being right.
    This association that man is incomplete without a woman and woman is incomplete without a man is false, false, and false.
    You understand the question? A false morality has been implanted within. If someone is dangerous and toxic and coming close just to infect you, are you not entitled to take care of yourself.
    Your suffering is not your own stored Karma. Your suffering is your own choice. You choose to remain the sufferer. You can opt out of the suffering.
    Anand or Joy is nothing but the name of higher suffering. Why must you suffer like an animal in yoke?
    The man cannot be your God, the woman cannot be your Goddess. Stop this madness.
    If you had any fondness for anything high in life, you would have turned yourself into a de-facto god. Look what you're dedicated to - some piece of flesh.
    Tell me what is the primary qualification of your husband or wife? Let's be blunt - the primary qualification is the genital organ.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому

    39:45, that person is toxic.

  • @nehaatwal1462
    @nehaatwal1462 Рік тому

    Suffering is sin.

  • @kusumkala4660
    @kusumkala4660 2 роки тому

    🌺🙏🏼🌺

  • @rabi_tiwari12ka4
    @rabi_tiwari12ka4 2 роки тому +1

    Bhagwat Gita khud ko Arjun samj ki padhna chahiye ya khud ko bhawan Shri Krisna ban ki padhana chahiye..q ki Shri Krishna bhagwan khate hai main hi sab kuch hon ..🙄

    • @nilajmondal1660
      @nilajmondal1660 2 роки тому +1

      Arjun bankar kyu ki Gita mein Shri Krishna guru hai Arjun ke 🙏

    • @madloop2456
      @madloop2456 2 роки тому

      Shree Krishna khud rehte guruji aap to padhna hi kyu padhta Geeta

    • @muntakim3294
      @muntakim3294 2 роки тому

      We are all arjuna's in this world, we're born this way and as long as we are born this way we will require Shri Krishna (Brahm/absolute) to guide us.

  • @saurav_advait
    @saurav_advait 2 роки тому +5

    🔅Why must you act as if you're helpless and powerless? Why must you behave as if there is no choice?
    🔅The curse that we experience in our daily lives acts both ways. We feel compelled to stay in rotten relationships. Also, we feel constrained from entering the right relationships.
    🔅You must have great ideals in life. Read great books, watch great movies, seek the company of the greats so that you think beyond this man-woman game.
    🔅There is no problem with being a man or a woman. The problem lies in compulsiveness. The problem lies in the feeling that it is compulsory and irreversible.
    🔅Hundreds of better options are available when it comes to having a great purpose for life. You were not born to worship some person of the opposite gender of your own age.
    🔅Have something worth attending to then you will automatically become oblivious to all the nonsense in the world.
    🔅Be so immersed in the right thing that you are left with no space, no time, no attention to spare on all the general normal nonsense.
    🔅Be very mindful of where you get your entertainment from. In the name of entertainment, we ingest a lot of poison. A Lot of our entertainment is just about getting deeper into bondages. And then as you seek deeper into bondages, you find you need more and more entertainment. Because you suffer so much that entertainment becomes necessary.
    🔅Learn to ask some basic questions. Do not take things as right just because they are normal. There is a difference between something being normal and something being right.
    🔅This association that man is incomplete without a woman and a woman is incomplete without a man is false, false and false.
    🔅Your suffering is your own choice. You choose to remain the sufferer. You can opt out of the suffering.
    🔅If you find suffering is inevitable, at least choose the higher suffering. If you have to suffer, suffer at least honourably, for a higher cause, for the sake of freedom.
    🔅If you have to suffer, suffer like a worrier, fighting a great battle.
    🔅Look what you're dedicated to. Some piece of flesh, whose primary qualification is that the gender it carries is opposite of what you have. How high or sublime is that?

  • @anamikamishra7666
    @anamikamishra7666 2 роки тому +2

    Pranam acharyaji 🙏

  • @saurav7206
    @saurav7206 2 роки тому +3

    😊🙏

  • @paulusjeffryjosepayyappilly
    @paulusjeffryjosepayyappilly 8 місяців тому

    🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @akashyadav1335
    @akashyadav1335 2 роки тому +2

    🌸🌼🙏

  • @vinaysharma9216
    @vinaysharma9216 2 роки тому +2

    🙏

  • @mr.maheshreddy
    @mr.maheshreddy 2 роки тому +1

    🙏

  • @harmeshkumarbansal9485
    @harmeshkumarbansal9485 2 роки тому +1

    🙏