I Asked Out 50 Girls On A Date As A Nerdy Introvert

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  • @wreckingbear69
    @wreckingbear69 23 дні тому +218

    While it's harder beeing introverted, the fact that this guy is handsome as fuck definitely helped his case

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому +12

      Thanks I guess 😂😂

    • @Liapjr
      @Liapjr 17 днів тому +3

      And he's not an introvert.

  • @PanikNT
    @PanikNT 23 дні тому +122

    this guy aint no shy introvert, we dont claim this guy.

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому +22

      I was but I evolved

    • @Mirak-el
      @Mirak-el 23 дні тому

      ​@@David_PhamDPOh oh! You too! I know what you mean dude! I think I'm one stage further into the evolution tho. I've been going out raving lately and all that stuff! It's pretty cool but since I'm an introvert I don't befriend anybody but I think, I think what I really need is to have a reason to have friends. Maybe like grow an IG or something.

    • @kyodizzy
      @kyodizzy 20 днів тому +8

      I agree 100%. He's far from "shy" or "introverted".

    • @shavaizahmed9210
      @shavaizahmed9210 19 днів тому

      @@PanikNT 😂🤣

    • @ange34
      @ange34 16 днів тому

      Bruh what

  • @yccn410
    @yccn410 24 дні тому +86

    As a girl I really admire what you did. It’s not easy to take the courage to ask someone out with the risk of being rejected. Excellent job!

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  24 дні тому +3

      Thanks haha I was hella nervous :) but it was fun

    • @ovyle
      @ovyle 18 днів тому +1

      And as a guy, I know he cried every night 😭

    • @eddy0603
      @eddy0603 18 днів тому +4

      Look at this guy's face
      If i look like that i won't think i'd ever be rejected lol

    • @onebyone4530
      @onebyone4530 18 днів тому

      Getting rejected is the risk? Hahahaha bruh

    • @UserRobot215
      @UserRobot215 17 днів тому +2

      Obviously you admire that an attractive guy did this, if he was short and unattractive you wouldn’t have admired it

  • @ramanchakraborty4839
    @ramanchakraborty4839 23 дні тому +48

    I think no matter how attractive you are, its definitely admirable that you had the courage to go and ask 50 strangers the same question. Nice video man!

  • @prostohodim
    @prostohodim 23 дні тому +75

    I Asked Out 50 Girls On A Date As A Tall Handsome Shy Introvert. Man, thats preposterous

  • @Koki1897
    @Koki1897 22 дні тому +20

    bro is lucky to be handsome, if i asked 50 girls i would be probably consider as creep :(

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  22 дні тому +10

      No I think it depends on "how" you ask them, I know plenty of dudes who are not considered 10 out of 10 nd still get a bunch of yes

    • @UserRobot215
      @UserRobot215 17 днів тому +3

      Same, I’m short and ugly so it wouldn’t go well for me either

  • @Final_Boss
    @Final_Boss 18 днів тому +14

    Man looking like the protagonist straight out of Persona 5, building his harem.

  • @heymanhaha
    @heymanhaha 21 день тому +26

    8:34 thought you were a Squid Game participant for a second

  • @Genie98997
    @Genie98997 21 день тому +6

    Props and well done. I think to make this more fair/interesting, you should start by asking if you have a boyfriend/married and if they are, then don't ask them or they don't count towards the 50. You've got this

  • @frommars8247
    @frommars8247 18 днів тому +10

    bro said himself as an introvert while doing full selfie face youtube channel, so u need to be someone living alone in the forest to be introvert nowdays

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  18 днів тому +1

      Naw I’m naturally introvert but I trained myself

    • @arjawabagusofficial
      @arjawabagusofficial 14 днів тому

      Introvert is different with shy, introvert just lose energy when socialize, they are not a social anxiety

  • @playstationplusfilm316
    @playstationplusfilm316 19 днів тому +5

    Bro giving me inspiration to approach and date girls. Nice video

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  19 днів тому

      So glad it helped you! You got this :)

  • @jinsilverknight899
    @jinsilverknight899 21 день тому +7

    corrections and truth:
    u have to date in order for you to get to know them,doesnt really matter if both of you are totally strangers to each other,
    just think about it thats why in early 20's blind dates are pretty open to everyone....

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  20 днів тому +4

      I disagree, if you are not their type they will not agree to the date in the first place

  • @clean082
    @clean082 19 днів тому +2

    Yeah like sometimes you just yap and the conversation goes smoothly somehow. Great content David 😆

  • @Tomtom12654
    @Tomtom12654 13 днів тому +1

    That’s quite impressive. As someone who sometimes has social anxiety, I’ve found that socializing isn’t really as hard as it seems the more you do it. But I have to admit that asking people out like that is probably a different story ;) Great job 👏

  • @prescottosegie
    @prescottosegie 23 дні тому +4

    David Ima introvert to the maximum and I respect that you ask these ladies on a date. Keep up the good work dude

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому +1

      Thanks man! You can do it too

    • @prescottosegie
      @prescottosegie 22 дні тому

      @ your welcome and thanks dude I appreciate it 💪😎 happy new 🎊 year be safe

  • @weehc
    @weehc 18 днів тому +6

    Lol it is because u still handsome. Alot of ladies not even give u a chance to go out a date if u r ugly. If u r ugly, u can ask 1 billion girls also will get reject at the start.

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  17 днів тому

      Looks def matter dude, but I know plenty of average looking dude pulling insane girls. If you dont look "good" work on other aspects of you that can compensate for that.

    • @SolidoNaso.
      @SolidoNaso. 17 днів тому

      @@David_PhamDP Copy pasting the cope reply to everyone who says looks matter is kinda sad. Nobody said anything about average looking dudes. Imagine being a 5'3 dude with an ugly face and being told to "just work on other aspects tee hee". Ridiculous stuff.

    • @UserRobot215
      @UserRobot215 17 днів тому

      @SolidoNaso. I’m that guy except I’m 5’4 lol it’s beyond over for me

    • @SolidoNaso.
      @SolidoNaso. 17 днів тому

      @@UserRobot215 Yes it is. It is the sad truth. Do not fall for tall or attractive men telling you "Oh it's your fault! You just need to be superman and women will love you! I know a 5'2 short balding Indian janitor that gets all the IG models!"
      Never fall for it. Women will say it, men will say it. Even other undesirable men will say it to cope.

  • @yuwa2151
    @yuwa2151 23 дні тому +19

    They said yes not only bc you're good looking but also polite and not creepy 🤪

  • @siegfreidx1633
    @siegfreidx1633 18 днів тому +3

    before the video even started i need to see how this guy's looks because thats all that matters

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  17 днів тому

      Looks def matter dude, but I know plenty of average looking dude pulling insane girls. If you dont look "good" work on other aspects of you that can compensate for that.

  • @christiangarciaaaa
    @christiangarciaaaa 21 день тому +3

    Gonna try this out soon, thanks for the inspo 🙌

  • @vlogbyday
    @vlogbyday 6 днів тому +1

    This great, im also an introvert , this helps , where did you film this? also the reason im on here is because i watched your you should make a youtube channel video ,and thats exactly what im doing, thanks bro!

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  6 днів тому

      You got this bro! I filmed this a couple weeks ago

  • @beng7469
    @beng7469 22 дні тому +1

    Bro this is so motivating, my recommended has given me a banger video 😌🙌🏼

  • @lschwaier
    @lschwaier 22 дні тому +3

    good job dude, this is something i wanted to do at your age.. never did, and paid the long lonely consequence..

  • @necryeopyre9577
    @necryeopyre9577 21 день тому +2

    Wow! I couldn't tell at all that you're a shy intovert if you didn't say so. Props up to you man! Could never get the courage to do this.😅

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  20 днів тому

      You can! I am like this after a lot of years of practicing :) you can do it too

  • @AmilDiligent
    @AmilDiligent 24 дні тому +3

    You are inspiring me to come out of my comfort zone frl 😂. Part 2?

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  24 дні тому

      If this video hits 100K I will make part 2 :)

  • @noneofyourbusiness918
    @noneofyourbusiness918 24 дні тому +2

    Great video David.
    I believe your success rate would be higher if you didn't emphasise on the complete stranger part 😂😂
    Your mindset is very good, I'm confident you can get a much higher success rate with a bit more experience!
    Cheers 🎉

  • @CASLochana1111
    @CASLochana1111 23 дні тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video 😊

  • @imark182
    @imark182 20 днів тому +4

    Asking them with a camera is crazy lol

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  20 днів тому

      Yeah haha obviously I asked for consent :)

  • @Xavy_OO
    @Xavy_OO 20 днів тому +1

    You have my respect bro.

  • @c.j50
    @c.j50 19 днів тому +1

    As an introvert, watching your video was great, great job. If I were to do the same, I would have had to be alone for a few weeks afterwards☺

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  19 днів тому

      So glad it helped you! You got this :)

    • @c.j50
      @c.j50 19 днів тому

      I really get it, but it took me many years to understand myself. Always feel welcome if you have thoughts or reflections.🙏

  • @skidwirks7660
    @skidwirks7660 20 днів тому +1

    Loved the closing comments

  • @aiden4203
    @aiden4203 13 днів тому +1

    Im a straight guy and id go on a date with you no cap ur majestic brah

  • @socku5850
    @socku5850 15 днів тому +1

    He built his confidence in approach women. This also help with handle rejection.
    this. For me, it might be kind of difficult because of how i look and with a speaking impediment.

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  15 днів тому +1

      No excuses, you can do it too. It needs pateince and courage to change :)

  • @juliomarques3242
    @juliomarques3242 19 днів тому +1

    I dont know about you guys, but I think that the main reason I would ask someone if they would go on a first date with me as strangers is to get to know them, like, isn't that the point of a date? to know the person? Also if the girl thinks that Im gonna be the same person chatting on instagram as the person in real life, she's very wrong.
    Thats why if you guys like to chat online, make it a real conversation, in real time, not taking more than 2 minutes to respond right?

  • @TheOne_isGOD
    @TheOne_isGOD 15 днів тому +1

    as a 33yo asian american viet myself. i used to wear glasses. remove them. get contacts. glasses LITERALLY change the shape of your eyes and nose and middle are to uglier. after 3-6 months your face will be better. trust me. i got no girls with glasses . eye laser was the best thing i did

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  15 днів тому

      I should consider then!!!

    • @InstantKiwi1005
      @InstantKiwi1005 13 днів тому

      ​@@David_PhamDPNooo! Try a challenge first by putting on 100 different glasses and ask your tribe witch they prefer
      lasering at a to young age has to be redone later on
      Btw all my friends, but one, had glasses - but I always prefered the neerdy greeks, so I am probably not representative ;)

  • @Akib-xy1pr
    @Akib-xy1pr 18 днів тому +1

    3:03 nah bro you going to jail ☠️☠️

  • @zackstorm2888
    @zackstorm2888 24 дні тому +2

    That's exactly what Noah Kagan says in his Book A million Dollar Weekend: Go chase rejections

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  24 дні тому +2

      I love that book!

    • @Mirak-el
      @Mirak-el 23 дні тому

      F YEAH! THAT SOUNDS LIKE IT! THAT SOUNDS LIKE THE FUN! That being said me personally, I'm not about that number's game.

  • @yuwa2151
    @yuwa2151 23 дні тому +4

    I feel like lately women just started bragging their Asian boyfriends like it's latest iPhone

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 23 дні тому +3

      Good. Asian men need more love

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому +2

      @@PurpleDoritos666true

    • @Mirak-el
      @Mirak-el 23 дні тому

      I mean Asians are the cutest race imo I'm kinda glad they aren't getting slept on

    • @daquieshakeaundra2854
      @daquieshakeaundra2854 22 дні тому

      @@Mirak-el WTF cutest race
      So black are what then ?🤨

  • @amoswang1473
    @amoswang1473 18 днів тому +1

    Ken Takakura chasing golden ball ❌
    Ken Takakura chasing girls ✅

  • @antondelafuente
    @antondelafuente 23 дні тому +4

    How did you handle the filming? Did you approach them with the camera already rolling? Did you ask first? I’m guessing you probably even approached more than 50 because some people didn’t want to be on video?

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому +4

      Yeah exactly! I asked for permission first

  • @ashgg392
    @ashgg392 18 днів тому +2

    To all the guys, stop doing this, it only boosts women's ego.

  • @jacobthesettler7616
    @jacobthesettler7616 19 днів тому +1

    I can't do this, bro. My energy is going to drain very fast.
    I'm 38. I only have 2 relationships just cuz the girl are interested in me.

  • @duckieman69
    @duckieman69 19 днів тому +2

    Bit weird if U ask three people and go to all of them lmao

  • @rhythmandacoustics
    @rhythmandacoustics 21 день тому +1

    I think when you say "date" they are thinking a formal dinner date.
    You should ask, would you go out or give your number to someone like me?

  • @held2417
    @held2417 22 дні тому +2

    Hast du auch vor, die Personen die du gefragt hast zu Daten ? (cooles Video ❤)

  • @Schwrtzxd
    @Schwrtzxd 21 день тому +3

    23 missed calls.....

  • @SergioTobal
    @SergioTobal 19 днів тому +1

    And with what are you recording? With a phone? I would feel weird recording and talking with her at the same time. And at the airport, you are both on the scene, but they look at the screen sometimes, so I suppose they can see themselves.

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  19 днів тому

      Yes I film on a DJI Vlogging Cam :)

  • @NamiSan-o3i
    @NamiSan-o3i 18 днів тому +1

    Give me that confidence gang😂

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  17 днів тому

      You gotta develop it by taking action bro

  • @duckieman69
    @duckieman69 19 днів тому +1

    You should do a proper date with one

  • @Iloveseasideyes
    @Iloveseasideyes 20 днів тому +1

    Do part 2 pls 🙏

  • @Leandra-ek9om
    @Leandra-ek9om 24 дні тому +1

    This is soo inspiring for me 🤩Maybe I'll talk to people at the airport too because it's so boring there😅(i'm also very introverted so..) Why has this video like 530 views?!? There should be more!

  • @rafadnan9796
    @rafadnan9796 23 дні тому

    love the vid man, I really need to do a challenge like this myself.
    How did you actually record these without making this awkward camera in their face?

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому

      I asked them for consent first 🙏🏻 and then asked

    • @rafadnan9796
      @rafadnan9796 23 дні тому

      @David_PhamDP you said: "I'm filming a video for yt mind if I ask you a question?"
      Damn I'd imagine the number of rejections was way higher because people don't like to be on camera.
      Mad respect

  • @ActualizeYourPotential
    @ActualizeYourPotential 18 днів тому +1

    1:35 why would you do brother dirty like this lmao... not a homie

  • @Leumar1990
    @Leumar1990 21 день тому +2

    How did you do to talk so casually? Chit chat is my worst point

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  20 днів тому +1

      Practice, it's a skill. When I first started I was akward as hell now it comes naturally

  • @You2lessgetit
    @You2lessgetit 22 дні тому +1

    maybe i should try this

  • @Myself_myst
    @Myself_myst 24 дні тому +1

    I was doing my Homework📚........ But after this im kinda laughing🤣

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  24 дні тому

      Why 😂😂

    • @Myself_myst
      @Myself_myst 24 дні тому

      @David_PhamDP cuz it was so funny seeing the girls reaction and even ur reactions plus when u were celebrating the fact that Asian boys are finally in the handsome list

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  24 дні тому +1

      @Myself_mystHAHAHA

    • @Myself_myst
      @Myself_myst 24 дні тому

      @@David_PhamDP 😂

  • @shavaizahmed9210
    @shavaizahmed9210 19 днів тому +2

    Is that USA?

  • @kyodizzy
    @kyodizzy 20 днів тому +3

    I'm sorry, but these are clearly clickbaits claiming as a self-proclaiming "shy introvert" - the way he speaks on camera and to everyone is far from it. It's like Trump saying he has social anxiety. A true introvert wouldn't even be able to hold the camera and film strangers this comfortably.

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  20 днів тому +2

      You my friend just need to realize that introverts can train to become extroverts, that's exactly what I did

    • @kyodizzy
      @kyodizzy 20 днів тому

      @@David_PhamDP I know... Just like professional athletes aren't born professional - it's from training. It's like Mike Tyson claiming he can knock out 50 guys now ....when he used to be a scrawny weak kid. The title should be "as a former introvert" because you clearly are nowhere near that now.

    • @ChoweyChoo
      @ChoweyChoo 20 днів тому

      ​@@kyodizzy UHH. Doing extroverted things doesn't automatically make him an extrovert. You're too dense to impose your perspective on him.

    • @duckieman69
      @duckieman69 19 днів тому

      Bro is like fire took a L

  • @hellodddd33134
    @hellodddd33134 18 днів тому

    You on the FBI watch list now

  • @13skyburger
    @13skyburger 18 днів тому +1

    introvert my ass...lolz

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  17 днів тому

      Yeah you can't believe it, but that's how hard I had to work on myself

  • @Ezukie
    @Ezukie 24 дні тому +3

    Broooo 😂 being extrovert

  • @daninspiration4064
    @daninspiration4064 21 день тому +1

    Columbia girl is super nice and fire prob the best looking one

  • @RxRip01
    @RxRip01 14 днів тому +1

    What’s your height?

  • @Nanohamage
    @Nanohamage 17 днів тому

    do people say they're introverted nowadays just because they think it sounds cool? word is kinda losing its meaning

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  17 днів тому

      Nope, I am introvert naturally but I trained to be extroverted

    • @Nanohamage
      @Nanohamage 17 днів тому

      @@David_PhamDP my guy you're not an introvent then you're different person now. it's like saying i am naturally weak person but i trained to be body builder and then post video "how i deadlift 400pounds as a weak person"

  • @ЛарисаМаксимовнаМаксимовна

    I'd say no, because a handsome guy like you wouldn't do it to me unless it's some scam 😂

  • @jagicyooo2007
    @jagicyooo2007 20 днів тому +1

    @1:51 FRIENDZONED BRUH

  • @uno228
    @uno228 23 дні тому

    Such a handsome man asks average women to go out....

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  23 дні тому

      Average?

    • @uno228
      @uno228 23 дні тому

      Don't wanna be rude just honest, I'm from Russia, our men have much higher standards and women have much lower standards than in the US or Germany ​@@David_PhamDP

  • @being5743
    @being5743 21 день тому +1

    Wait...., you're an introvert? and you're asking strangers? to have a date with you?
    Did the meaning of an "introvert" changed already?

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  20 днів тому

      No I am naturally an introvert but I trained for years to improve my social skills and this is the result

    • @teacherangry121
      @teacherangry121 20 днів тому

      introvert and shy are two different things, introverts can still do things like this, but introverts just need time to themselves to recharge.

  • @ActualizeYourPotential
    @ActualizeYourPotential 18 днів тому +1

    lmao telling the person you already asked 4 people and she is the first to accept is.......... 🤪🤪so not smooth wtf...

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  18 днів тому

      I still got it :)

    • @ActualizeYourPotential
      @ActualizeYourPotential 18 днів тому

      yes you alr got the yes, but if you actually meant to go on a date with her, you already killed the vibe by making yourself look like a playboy and by making her feel cheap and easy since shes the only one who said yes out of 5 women

  • @MrRedTech
    @MrRedTech 23 дні тому

    He's gaslighting himself

  • @tyronmccool1765
    @tyronmccool1765 23 дні тому +2

    As a shy introvert I wouldn't even look into their eyes, you're brave introvert💪

  • @jenn3270
    @jenn3270 22 дні тому

    ¿Irías a una primera cita conmigo?

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  22 дні тому

      hahaha

    • @jenn3270
      @jenn3270 22 дні тому

      @David_PhamDP be my first rejection of the year😅

  • @rhythmandacoustics
    @rhythmandacoustics 21 день тому +1

    This was in NYC? Why so many Asians?

  • @madailengee8435
    @madailengee8435 23 дні тому +1

    Du benimmst dich nicht wie eine schüchterne Person

  • @dotmusicsiam2254
    @dotmusicsiam2254 22 дні тому

    No disrespecto but 4:08 isnt that mommy khalifa?

  • @dearcyborg272
    @dearcyborg272 23 дні тому +2

    Bro, what if those 50 girls said "YES?" 💀

  • @durch_als_Lurch
    @durch_als_Lurch 21 день тому +1

    Mach das in Deutschland und das Verhältnis wird verdammt scheisse

  • @Bheckma-1
    @Bheckma-1 13 днів тому

    Algum Brasileiro?

  • @mishi144
    @mishi144 23 дні тому +1

    I got excited and thought this was about a lesbian girl asking other girls out because relatable but no : ( Still, it's hard as an introvert.

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  22 дні тому +1

      Why would it be from a lesbian girl? My channel is called David Pham hahha

    • @okayokay2376
      @okayokay2376 21 день тому

      Damn low key I thought that at first too just cause of the videos that pop up on my feed however I think that this was a pretty good video lol

  • @oqi1199
    @oqi1199 21 день тому

    So cringe 😬

  • @AngeloOrendain-v3d
    @AngeloOrendain-v3d 22 дні тому

    asking a date just for a challenge? be a man bro. asking for a date is a serious thing for a real man. then you don't have plan to go on a date just ask bunch of girls for a date. -____-

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  22 дні тому

      Ok pc warrior thanks for your advice

    • @AngeloOrendain-v3d
      @AngeloOrendain-v3d 22 дні тому

      @@David_PhamDP can't accept advice? pc warrior huh? that's how you respond to your viewer? attitude lol. let's meet then. I challenge you. and it's keyboard warrior if that's what you mean. Let's meet face to face boy.

    • @jonathan9916-ht
      @jonathan9916-ht 19 днів тому

      Well, he said that he got their permission to record, so the girls probably understand it's mostly for an experiment

  • @joshuakim03
    @joshuakim03 22 дні тому +1

    my dude, the rise in popularity of Korean entertainment doesn't mean more popularity for you. you're not even Korean u vietnamese. don't be delusional and think you're gonna get girls because people are obsessed with Korean idols and actors.

    • @daquieshakeaundra2854
      @daquieshakeaundra2854 22 дні тому +5

      chill, don t hate your asian brother
      For us yall look the same
      Your Korean ego is too much

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  22 дні тому +1

      You must be hella jealous to spread this much hate HAHAH

    • @David_PhamDP
      @David_PhamDP  22 дні тому +1

      He jealous :)

    • @joshuakim03
      @joshuakim03 21 день тому

      @daquieshakeaundra2854 yes friend, i am not hating, just saying he delusional. also, why do people keep saying all asians are same. all asian countries have different nationalities. Koreans are different from southeast asia its not an ego thing its just everything from the culture to the language is different. just because spain and france are europeans don't mean they are the same.

    • @joshuakim03
      @joshuakim03 21 день тому

      @@David_PhamDP don't be too sad your not korean bro. its ok, just embrace your own culture and identity