CAM TELLS CHAYANNE "YOU'RE A SINGLE 41YR OLD RELATIONSHIP COACH? ..CAM LETS TALK ABOUT YOUR TRAUMAS.

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 279

  • @erikarobinson3557
    @erikarobinson3557 16 днів тому +316

    Didn’t nobody say anything about Kevin Samuel’s being OLD AND SINGLE after two divorces and hypertension! Every time a BW checks them, they immediately go into defense mode! It’s why they are in the position that they are in today.

    • @delightfular9200
      @delightfular9200 16 днів тому +13

      Thank you. ❤

    • @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo
      @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo 15 днів тому +24

      The men in Africa do this too. If you dare to check them, the will ruin you. Fragile confidence in my opinion. Ive never understood it. Its actually weakenss masquerading as strength.

    • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
      @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 15 днів тому +5

      Girl that’s never going to change.

    • @coopercamacho
      @coopercamacho 15 днів тому +13

      Yep, a lot of unwillingness to grow up.

    • @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo
      @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo 15 днів тому

      @@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 😔true.

  • @stacyjohnson6627
    @stacyjohnson6627 15 днів тому +147

    Thank you for your message. I’m a 54 year old black woman with no kids and have never been married. I refused to compromise, but in the same time beat myself up because I’m not married with no kids. Currently, going I’m through BIG transitions in my life with my career, finances, health & taking care of my mom who’s been diagnosed with Dementia. Everything has hit me all at once. Outside of God, I don’t have much support, but listening to you & Dr. Bryant reinforce my commitment to find my inner strength to keep running because a winner don’t quit on themselves. 😃

    • @weziefaith5484
      @weziefaith5484 15 днів тому +16

      Your message just inspired me thank you ❤

    • @Godis4me1978
      @Godis4me1978 13 днів тому +6

      ❤❤❤ amen

    • @klavdjaroc2535
      @klavdjaroc2535 13 днів тому +14

      I am ur age and people look at me like I'm crazy when I say I never got married or had kids. I say it's because I never found a man and people look even more baffled.
      Compromising or settling is the way most people function so people don't understand me.

    • @Time_with_leeola
      @Time_with_leeola 11 днів тому +3

      Keep going ma👏👏👏👏👏

    • @ChooseU4ever
      @ChooseU4ever 10 днів тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @danacooper6723
    @danacooper6723 16 днів тому +209

    "When you compromise yourself, you get the smaller prize" Fumi Desalu you are correct!!

  • @hb7580
    @hb7580 16 днів тому +245

    Using single as an insult when the mothers of your children are all ‘single’, and you are also behaving as a single man… 🤨

    • @rollerbaybee4230
      @rollerbaybee4230 15 днів тому +20

      That part💯

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 15 днів тому +35

      Make it make sense. They are soo annoying with that. 😂 They really think a woman’s value is tied to her having some dude around. Chile please. 😂😴🚮

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 13 днів тому +7

      It’s positively absurd

    • @Islandgirl_18
      @Islandgirl_18 13 днів тому +1

      Crazy behaviour

    • @AMYP6
      @AMYP6 12 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂 Facts!

  • @elMARABIYOCHO1989
    @elMARABIYOCHO1989 16 днів тому +157

    He's a serial baby daddy creating multiple broken homes. He can't judge anyone

  • @lademac5791
    @lademac5791 15 днів тому +40

    One of the best things a man can do for his children is to love their mother. Wise words from my father, dead now 36 years, but never forgotten.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 16 днів тому +175

    When you are healed from inside nobody can touch you from outside

  • @lashondap9924
    @lashondap9924 16 днів тому +241

    Her analysis hit his Brokenness HARD N ACCURATELY... HE COULDNT HANDLE THE TRUTH IN MY JACK NICHOLSON VOICE

    • @katrinahtims6687
      @katrinahtims6687 16 днів тому

      Low hanging fruit

    • @justjoan4010
      @justjoan4010 15 днів тому +2

      🤭🤭🤭

    • @feelosophy1921
      @feelosophy1921 15 днів тому +3

      Hahaha! Exactly how I read it and heard it.

    • @Chazzabox1
      @Chazzabox1 14 днів тому +4

      I have heard a couple of men’s take on her rant and I’ve heard the woman’s take and what I will say is both takes make sense to me. Listen to Fumi but consider facts and reality which is what the men are saying. Woman shouldn’t ignore reality because we are not all the same. Many women do not look as good as this woman or Fumi at 40 and we can talk about compromise but you have to first get a man, before you can talk about marriage and kids oh and the man willing to do IVF or adopt. Balance is key not everyone gets what they want within two years as Fumi did. Make sure you are actually the woman you say that you are and not the woman you wish to be. As for Cam what a flawed mind of a man. Kids deserve both parents.

    • @rethsen8146
      @rethsen8146 7 днів тому +1

      @@Chazzabox1wow wow thank you! I feel exactly like you after watching both sides’ take to the interview.

  • @KiKi-qn8is
    @KiKi-qn8is 15 днів тому +37

    Fumi, you spoke the truth! It is so important for women to not lower their standards.Low functioning men want women to fear being alone and settle for a miserable experience with them.

    • @SandcastleGirl
      @SandcastleGirl 14 днів тому +3

      Amen! Say it louder for the ppl at the back 👏🏾 🙌🏾

  • @GHO5tMod3
    @GHO5tMod3 16 днів тому +110

    Some people don’t get married until later in life or even have children until they’re pushing 50 I’ve known three people like this and they ended up marrying the right person and their union was blessed as well

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 15 днів тому +7

      Even in astrology it’s seen as bad luck to get married BEFORE your ‘Saturn returns’ which is around 27-30+. So.. I’m not surprised that most women are not married until those ages these days and that it’s most likely to end for those who marry before that time.

    • @mafemartinez2235
      @mafemartinez2235 13 днів тому

      💕

    • @saibay.a8574
      @saibay.a8574 13 днів тому

      Ameen! ❤

    • @TJGalacticEmpress
      @TJGalacticEmpress 13 днів тому +2

      Oooooh really? Very interesting and thank you for the info. I'm currently studying it

    • @babyjells
      @babyjells 11 днів тому

      @@gailainsley6939yup yup. I’ve heard this as well- my Saturn return which started in 2020 of all times was a major catalyst for me. I’m a completely different person now. Had I gone through with my wedding we would have divorced by now. Called it off, couldn’t be happier 😊

  • @justmyopinion4938
    @justmyopinion4938 16 днів тому +108

    Fumi I absolutely love you. This was just what i needed. Society looks down on us as failures (45, no kids) no matter how successful we've been in other areas of life. I would happily date a white man because you're right its a about CLASS! For some reason Black women have been conned into thinking that they can only find love with a Black Man. Yet and still Black men DATE/MARRY EVERYONE. I do not have that blind loyalty, my loyalty is for me and how I expect to be treated regardless of race. Fumi you are such an inspiration. Keep up the great work.

  • @MaiWarie05
    @MaiWarie05 15 днів тому +30

    I watched that show last weekend. Had been cleaning my house initially, but had to stop to get it all in. I was so proud of the good doctor. She made me understand certain things I do, not truly able to explain why. She put into words the thoughts I have but fail to articulate. That was THE best podcast I ever watched... I took so much from that. I am beyond happy you are talking on this Fumi. I am turning 38 in October, being from Africa every one feels its over for me. I don't feel that way, I know my man is there. And the doctor and you Fumi, make me stronger in knowing I am not crazy. I know my worth and know what I want in my life...❤

  • @danacooper6723
    @danacooper6723 16 днів тому +60

    Is it me or was it difficult to listen to the message, I was preoccupied with Fumi's BEAUTIFUL hair!! OMG!! I LOVE IT!!

    • @malguseebaway
      @malguseebaway 15 днів тому +2

      Pay attention next time 😂😂😂

    • @mkhotle
      @mkhotle 12 днів тому +2

      Beautiful hair, beautiful eyes, beautiful lip color, gestures, just the whole composition of her face. I can’t stand it. I have ADD, I’m listening to her voice, watching her, you think I have any clue what she said, I heard she’s giving somebody flowers, blah blah blah, 😂 she is gorgeous. Ask me if I watch her yes, listen urrr… what did she say… hmmm. Powerhouse!

  • @user-lb8eh2bn1o
    @user-lb8eh2bn1o 15 днів тому +17

    Fumi, you are outstanding, im turning 32 this year and I've been feeling depressed because I'm not married but your message this evening has uplifted me.

  • @TierraSanea87
    @TierraSanea87 12 днів тому +15

    She wasn't acting like she was perfect or like she knew everything, Sis was literally just calling it like she saw it. And I like Cam's podcast but this time...I feel like he just couldn't handle hearing what she had to say. 💯✨

  • @EssRelaxingSpace
    @EssRelaxingSpace 15 днів тому +38

    Funmi, I’m so moved by every word you say. God bless you. At 38, fulfilled, successful, and single, your words are incredibly inspiring. I especially appreciated your point about "picking from your class"-it's a crucial reminder that can save us a lot of trouble. Your emphasis on the time it takes to find the right match is vital for those of us who have worked hard to become whole. Thank you for sharing your story and wisdom. We love you here in Texas.

    • @teafactorytv
      @teafactorytv 15 днів тому +3

      I'm also on this street, do you mind we connect?

  • @scott1nicole
    @scott1nicole 15 днів тому +32

    Fumi is the best relationship expert ever. She knows more about life than any woman I know.

  • @victoriaj4272
    @victoriaj4272 15 днів тому +14

    Class is the most overlooked indicator but is the most impactful on whether or not the relationship will be successful.

    • @beautybonvoyage8624
      @beautybonvoyage8624 15 днів тому +4

      Yup but also keep in mind class isn't just about where someone comes from financially but their upbringing. People can come from money and have no class and people can come from modest means and be filled with all the class. Too many people focus on the lust and emotions and don't take anything else into consideration. You DO have to ask questions and don't lie. People need to know if they are a match and can handle certain people's lifestyle.

  • @trfrierson
    @trfrierson 16 днів тому +54

    When i watched that podcast with Cam my eyes opened to exactly what i couldnt articulate my feeling about my dating life. I would meet this men and they assumed something and i believe they didnt get what they thought i was.
    Men use money to mask their shortcomings. I would have men who would spoil me rotten. I would appreciate the moments but at the same time i was intentional in getting to know who they really were and now i know they ran because they didnt have anything beyond that to offer.

  • @thickbrownlegs1859
    @thickbrownlegs1859 16 днів тому +56

    Dr. Cheyenne Bryant made listening to that podcast barely. Dr. Bryant was truly amazing she got a follower in me. I love how Dr. Bryant fixed up Nick Cannon as well.

  • @mzansialerts2474
    @mzansialerts2474 15 днів тому +29

    Let's give it up though for the black men seeking healing and willing to be transparent with the doctor and the community.

  • @cyndim9798
    @cyndim9798 15 днів тому +14

    He says his parents have been married for over 37 years and all of his 8 kids were born out of wedlock and his daddy is a pastor. Something is wrong in his family. Pitiful how 70%+ of Black children end up like his NO DADDY AT HOME!!!!

  • @bubblegumpeach5662
    @bubblegumpeach5662 16 днів тому +79

    There's nothing I love more than your laugh

    • @jan854
      @jan854 15 днів тому +2

      Same! It is simply divine ❤. Her brother's is very similar 😄

    • @user-to2wd5ip5x
      @user-to2wd5ip5x 14 днів тому

      Yes!! Her laugh is EVERYTHING! ❤❤❤

  • @cindyc12
    @cindyc12 15 днів тому +42

    He has the nerve...I cannot stand him🙄 he is arrogant and so is Shay Shay they believe they know everything and continue to offer advice. Yet they need a mirror 🪞 🤷🏾

    • @moniquej369
      @moniquej369 10 днів тому

      Exactly! I don’t take relationship advice from men. It’s usually bad advice. Most men are selfish and self centered.

  • @danacooper6723
    @danacooper6723 16 днів тому +36

    She is a "HEALED" woman who knows who she is and her worth. Fumi, you are correct, Dr. Bryant should look for someone who vibrates at the same level and nothing less. When you are "healed" NOTHING can touch you. I LOVED THIS NECESSARY CONVERSATION BETWEEN THEM TWO. While I disagree with Cam and his unhealed self, I will not downplay his understanding of relationships and marriages. We are our experiences, Cam is his experiences, and more.

    • @MDWhite-qg6yb
      @MDWhite-qg6yb 16 днів тому +4

      I could be wrong but it was my understanding that he was raised in a 2 parent household and they are/were married.

    • @trycoachinglv
      @trycoachinglv 16 днів тому +18

      ​@MDWhite-qg6yb Yes his parents are still together... His parents have been married something like 39 years. Doesn't mean happily or a healthy functioning marriage. Dr. Bryant even eloquently told him a 2 parent household can create brokenness as well... and that's TRUE!

    • @CoralNeon-nk6vf
      @CoralNeon-nk6vf 16 днів тому +9

      ​​​@@MDWhite-qg6ybyou must keep in mind he was a quarterback in the NFL, in Atlanta. He has been given access and privilege, this plays a major factor in men's integrity and outlook on women. Fumi even spoke of the God complex 21:35

    • @MDWhite-qg6yb
      @MDWhite-qg6yb 16 днів тому +5

      @@CoralNeon-nk6vfGreat point

    • @MDWhite-qg6yb
      @MDWhite-qg6yb 16 днів тому +5

      @@trycoachinglvGreat point. I do think a 2 parent household can create brokenness as well especially if it’s dysfunctional. It was a bit surprising to me though because usually when I’ve heard men making broken homes (multiple children and baby mommas) in most cases they came from a household where this behavior was modeled and it’s like a generational cycle.

  • @chosendaughter4359
    @chosendaughter4359 16 днів тому +29

    Sis Fumi, made me think about my marriage and how I relate to my husband with loving the children AND him more. Marriage isn't for play play and needs to not be romanticized. Thank you for being honest

  • @wendy4313
    @wendy4313 15 днів тому +10

    Am 33 and trying to go back to school and starting all over thank you for this 🙏🏾🤗 May God richly blessed you for your up lifting words

  • @bridgetofodile5613
    @bridgetofodile5613 15 днів тому +17

    Please remain virgin man or woman, pray to God until you find your match and your class. Thank you Fumi. Love always. Nice video. Love your videos. Living and loving

  • @Tellasisreviews
    @Tellasisreviews 16 днів тому +31

    I was just laughing watching this video because I have gotten a lot of labels for making the decision to move on from my relationship of 6years. The most interesting part of it is the fact that amongst many critiquing my moves includes the mothers of marriageable boys and girls and grand mothers. I am difficult, it can never be perfect etc. I know that I am not difficult but I know my experience in the 6years journey and still now. And I am wondering, I guess many people needs to heal after all and I guess age is not the definition of wisdom after all 😂. I am miss unbothered about been single at this age because I know what I am and what I want and I know that man is on the way but I am very worried about the number of people like me the women that doesn’t know any better has and will lead to their destruction. Ladies and gentlemen, heal and understand thine self. Thank you aunty Fumi. I love you always. 🎉❤

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 16 днів тому +3

      U will be fine. There r a lot of people who r in very difficult marriages. Its not worth it to marry just because. I have seen good marriages (my parents really like each other n our house is always peaceful. Parents married 40+yrs). I had married neighbors who were happy and some who werent. There r good marriages out there. We dont have to suffer forcing bad relationships to work

    • @ellenfloyd5776
      @ellenfloyd5776 15 днів тому

      So true❤

  • @tc6700
    @tc6700 15 днів тому +10

    Hi Fumi. My sister. You are spot on with all of your pearls of wisdom today. I am 57 years old and married, and we are celebrating our 22nd wedding anniversary on this day. I have not birthed children but I've helped to raise many young women via friendship, mentorship, and coaching. It is important that women remember their worth and to wait for the one willing to accept them as they are. I encourage women to find joy within themselves and not be dependent on others for joy. Fumi, I love your show! If you’re ever in Chicago, let's have tea. 💖

  • @alliahmac
    @alliahmac 15 днів тому +10

    CAM and CHAYANNE owes Aunty Fumi a check!!!!

  • @Jie85-
    @Jie85- 16 днів тому +23

    I like when you said as white as he is you guys are in the same class. Which means you guys have the same values, BINGO! 👏👏👏

  • @feelingoodinblue
    @feelingoodinblue 15 днів тому +6

    Dr. Chayanne, was absolutely brilliant and beautiful during this interview. Fumi, I promise you are the TRUTH. Your speech during this video hit every mark. Your knowledge and wisdom is remarkable. Thanks for being an influencer.❤❤❤

  • @MichelleMichelle203
    @MichelleMichelle203 16 днів тому +32

    I’m sorry but I’m picking up Diddy vibes. These men need to just live in their truth and stop creating broken homes to cover up themselves. When the skeletons fall out of the closet I’ll revisit this video.

  • @shawnsandridge5677
    @shawnsandridge5677 16 днів тому +36

    Fumi! Your afro is afrolicious 😊

  • @PrincessLopez
    @PrincessLopez 10 днів тому +2

    I love how you gave Dr. Bryant her flowers and spoke support and wholeness over her. Since the podcast with her and Cam Newton has aired, I have seen so many youtubers, mainly men, come out to bash and degrade her based on her stance, her age, and her non-negotiables.
    One would think men would champion her because she spoke truth with love and consideration to Cam. However, it appears they are being hard on her because she spoke uncomfortable truths to Cam that his 'homeboys' and mentors should have spoken to him.
    I was so inspired and uplifted by what Dr. Bryant shared. Not because an ego was hurt, but because a standard for many women was raised. No woman of any age has to compromise because they fear not finding a man who will meet them at their level of wholeness.
    Beautiful as usual, Fumi ❤❤

  • @MegaPhoebs
    @MegaPhoebs 10 днів тому +2

    I am 34 years old, not married with no kids. I started following you last month. I am so in love with your Tough Love. I grew up with 3 brothers and I have always yearned for an older sister. This message is definitely what I needed. From now on, I am done with comprising. I have find my tribe in you. I lobe you from South Africa.

  • @reina76artist999
    @reina76artist999 12 днів тому +3

    And if this were a successful woman with eight children and three baby daddies, the story would be all over national news. This Planet continues to fight women everywhere. We must continue to educate and stand together. #R76

  • @CourtnixB
    @CourtnixB 12 днів тому +5

    I’d rather be 41 sexy and single with no kids than to be 41 with three baby daddies and five kids and single and not so sexy lol
    So that’s not a flex when somebody says “don’t have kids “

    • @TheXZfactor
      @TheXZfactor 9 днів тому

      When a woman has all those kids the need to be sexy is not a priority anymore cause she’s already learnt that being sexy is what led to all them kids 😂

  • @jenetwaldenmills8643
    @jenetwaldenmills8643 16 днів тому +11

    Absolutely your advice is absolutely correct...Kudos💯💯 I
    married a 2nd time when I was 41..One son from my first marriage.. Absolutely respected my myself and my body in any relationship. Your advice is what I practiced all my life..❤️❤️ I did have physical relations prior to marriage but only after liking the person and knowing the person liked me.. Having fun, and many good times, before intimacy.. Give it lots of time, give it lots of time before intimacy.
    If you need professional help seek it... Thru your health care, reading books
    Online programs. Do not have
    children except by marriage...
    Thank you Fumi 💯

  • @KL.KLKLKLKL
    @KL.KLKLKLKL 16 днів тому +15

    YESSSSS!!! I have been waiting for your video!!! (Karine )

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 15 днів тому +5

    Thank you very much Fumi !
    I approve this message!🥰😃
    May the Lord continue increasing your Territory!
    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @MsFadir
    @MsFadir 14 днів тому +9

    Miss Chey... DOCTOR Cheyenne Bryant❗️❗️❗️

  • @collegiatemisfit6071
    @collegiatemisfit6071 16 днів тому +11

    I knew we were gonna be back for Cam🎉😂❤

  • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
    @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 15 днів тому +2

    Aunt Fumi came with major wisdom.❤ Working on self, loving oneself and embracing self care makes a better you for the right man.❤ Never compromise or settle.❤

  • @shawna7227
    @shawna7227 9 днів тому +1

    This was beautiful. Women encouraging women. ❤

  • @maamecarolboahen5508
    @maamecarolboahen5508 15 днів тому +2

    I wish this video was longer!!!! The Cam Newton and Dr. Bryant interview will be a catalyst in many more uncomfortable and great discussions. Side note: I manifest that Dr. Bryant and Fumi have an interview on this channel ❤❤

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 7 днів тому +1

    Thank you Fumi,women don't need just the money ,they need the man's protection.

  • @urlaeversley-moses5308
    @urlaeversley-moses5308 15 днів тому +3

    Yes, strong fathers make strong daughters.

  • @paulinew5998
    @paulinew5998 8 днів тому

    Amen Fumi, CLASS is everything and I think the problem is that most times we’re looking outside of our CLASS

  • @VictoriaNwogu
    @VictoriaNwogu 16 днів тому +8

    I was waiting (IM)patiently for this episode 🎉🎉

  • @professlch6347
    @professlch6347 16 днів тому +6

    Your Fumi-isms never disappoint.

  • @valrice817
    @valrice817 16 годин тому

    Just seeing this today! Fumi, you are spot on! Marriage is work and a lifetime commitment! When you pay child support, it ends at 18 years! Long term but not a lifetime! I look forward to watching their interview!❤😊

  • @meandmy2cents309
    @meandmy2cents309 14 днів тому +1

    Fumi, your commentary has provided so much clarity. Thank you for always living, loving and sharing. I hope Dr Bryant sees your post so she can appreciate your kind words. 🌺

  • @sydellmack
    @sydellmack 13 днів тому +1

    You Fumi are a rare diamond! I love everyone of your videos! Thank you and many flowers to you!

  • @hazelderoche6470
    @hazelderoche6470 15 днів тому +3

    Preach on, sis! I always believe in having standards for yourself❤. Love your review! 👏 👏

  • @jenetwaldenmills8643
    @jenetwaldenmills8643 16 днів тому +9

    Fumi you look fabulous as usual. Beautiful ❤️

  • @johnarhodes3748
    @johnarhodes3748 15 днів тому +1

    I was introduced to her when she was a couples and group therapist on the television show “Teen Mom”. She gave great advice to the people on that show. She was on point. I was impressed. I did not know she was an author. I’ll have to check out her book.

  • @ShaundaOlivia
    @ShaundaOlivia 9 днів тому

    Amen 🙌🏽💖 Thank you for this talk Fumi, we all need a big sister sometimes! So grateful 😘 👑

  • @wilderaingraham6446
    @wilderaingraham6446 15 днів тому +4

    Wow well said…he didn’t date either for class that’s why he never married them. I really hope they play this and listen to it. They were fools to have a child or children by him. This video was powerful and it always a woman or man to reevaluate themselves. Thank you Aunt Fumi I AM NON NEGOTIABLE AND I AM A WOMAN OF CLASS!!! ❤

  • @normaivory336
    @normaivory336 16 днів тому +5

    I AGREE WHOLE HEARTILY FUMI !!!!!!!!!!

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness 12 днів тому +3

    Unfortunately a lot of men feel the way Cam does..they do not want to get married..and he comes from a 2 parent household. Look at a man's patterns. If he has multiple long term relationships that went nowhere..what does that say about what he wants...esp a man with Cam's access and status. More women need to understand and be ok with the fact that many men don't see marriage the way women do...and go find men who are in alignment and want to be married. I'm still trying to figure out why she was dressed like she was going out on a date versus dressed as a professional. Perhaps it was a tactic. For men who think like Cam, a professional woman dressed this way... would not be taken seriously..and with an ego like his..only a man he respects that has been married for a long time..could truly keep him accountable.

  • @stanfordt362
    @stanfordt362 16 днів тому +4

    Thank you for the excellent analysis that helped me to think about that interview differently! Continued Blessings! 🥰

  • @TheKandiaaird
    @TheKandiaaird 15 днів тому +6

    Fumi, Cam needs to be looking for no one nowhere. He needs to sit down and focus on his healing through intense therapy and being a good father to his flock of children, both the girls and boys. He needs to shelve looking for a partner or wife. That ship has sailed. That opportunity is forfeit.

  • @baybeecakes450
    @baybeecakes450 13 днів тому +2

    It’s like saying to a university professor that studied engineering and buildings and passed all the exams he needed to be a professor in that field, that he can’t teach you anything cause he’s never physically built a house.. are you serious Cam? 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @omondiantony1207
    @omondiantony1207 15 днів тому +8

    well put mama Adrian, I feel like Cam has some deep unresolved traumas and he is hiding in his celebrity status, his money, and his business among others. I'm no better than him. But I intentionally chose to heal first, find myself then get into marriage and have kids.

  • @MsJayRDee
    @MsJayRDee 14 днів тому +2

    Respect to Dr. Cheyenne Bryant… just watching the clips of their interview was exhausting😅

  • @tjc2993
    @tjc2993 15 днів тому +15

    I know this is not a popular opinion but going back to what the Bible says is the resolution. Not trying to be preachy but a lot of broken home is the results not adhering to Bible principles. It may be an old book but it’s values and principles can still be of use today. If my comment sounds judgement, I apologize.

    • @kimm3375
      @kimm3375 10 днів тому

      Don't apologize. We think we know better than the creator of heaven and earth, God. 😮nlNo. The bible is our guidebook. He said what He said. Alot of issues are caused by fornication, adultery, living together, and yes, divorce.

  • @mzansialerts2474
    @mzansialerts2474 15 днів тому +2

    'you are who you are' if you're holding on to hope for a change..accept this fact and decide what to do

  • @ladylorp2738
    @ladylorp2738 12 днів тому +1

    I say it all the time, I don’t want a man with kid/kids. I’m NOT having kids before marriage either and that’s something I’m standing on.

  • @MrMissjordan09
    @MrMissjordan09 8 днів тому

    Queen you don't know how you have motivated me. I am 57 as of 8.30...I have 2 teenage sons and never been married. I want a good husband that will accept me for me. God told me he was working on my husband..thats why I know he's coming. But I have feel victim to stinking thinking..low swlf worth..im not pretty enough ..i dont have a perfect body.. stuff like that, I am not perfect in a lot of areas but in alot of areas..I am successful..this podcast today..let's me know I am on the right track.i am almost debt free, i work out 5 days a week, i attend churxh and bible study..i help and encourage alot of people...thank you Queen

  • @helenogbe308
    @helenogbe308 15 днів тому +2

    Let them who have ears hear😂. Aunty Funms you look fabulous by the way. How are you, uncle Ole and Adrian?

  • @naimamorgan6209
    @naimamorgan6209 12 днів тому +2

    Im not sure why UA-cam has messed w my Algorithm but I missed a few of your videos and hadn't realized it😮

  • @esselembalayabassienne4171
    @esselembalayabassienne4171 15 днів тому +2

    Aunti Fumi I love you soooo much Love from Cameroon 🇨🇲❤❤❤

  • @nitab453
    @nitab453 9 днів тому +1

    Wonderful pearls of wisdom

  • @queenmother47
    @queenmother47 15 днів тому

    Auntie Fumi!! Can I just thank you for being so real! You give such great advice and energy ALWAYS !!! ❤❤❤ Thank you 🙏🏾 and thank goodness for my bestie Debbie for introducing me to you and your UA-cam channel.

  • @AngelaLDavis
    @AngelaLDavis 15 днів тому +3

    She's been making her rounds. Previously she had the same talk with Nick Cannon. He had the same attitude about his life with a whole baseball team of children with random women.

    • @user-cj5zo4zm6j
      @user-cj5zo4zm6j 11 днів тому +1

      Is that who she is???? OMG! I saw some of that interview. She was in spiritual warfare with those demons in him. It was becoming quite apparent as time went on. God is using that young lady in a miraculous way!

  • @curiosityantidote
    @curiosityantidote 8 днів тому

    TEam Fumi Nation all day. I love it here!!!

  • @urlaeversley-moses5308
    @urlaeversley-moses5308 15 днів тому +1

    Words of wisdom Fumi, I hope our nieces listen and follow the counsel.

  • @gaylongoogle3726
    @gaylongoogle3726 5 днів тому

    Fumi! You are a wise Sage for real!!!!

  • @happyngulube1871
    @happyngulube1871 15 днів тому +2

    Maybe we should start by actually defining what a traditional union actually looked like for our people and what its principals were before the western white wedding was introduced.

  • @TooBlessedBabyDoll
    @TooBlessedBabyDoll 15 днів тому +1

    Fumi! Fumi! Fumi! 🎯 Yes, Dr. Bryant stimulated where no other stimulated. Provoked thought that no other woman has for Cam. I agree. 💯Cam needs to be true to himself about his current stance on marriage and seek the healing he needs 100%. With all this… Dr. Bryant has words for days! The man must match her class and have a heck of an hear! 😂

  • @reneegranger6109
    @reneegranger6109 15 днів тому +1

    Amen Sister Fumi to all of this! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🥰🙏🏽🙏🏿🙏🏻

  • @Lucky-yb3ki
    @Lucky-yb3ki 16 днів тому +5

    I have a family member with nine kids six baby mothers first two he married the rest thought they will be his wife one day (NEVER)……99% of women think they are going to marry this kind of men😢😢😢

  • @Aqua-y2e
    @Aqua-y2e 6 днів тому

    I thought of Jamal Bryant 😂. But she's def deserves her rewards for her accomplishments❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @sweetbe49
    @sweetbe49 15 днів тому +1

    Fumi Darling you share some of the most amazing powerful wisdom.
    To another woman.
    woman empowerment women.

  • @MitaliNavajaCondori
    @MitaliNavajaCondori 15 днів тому +1

    Fumi, I used to think that what you say about "class" is an insult towards others, but it is absolutely not. "Class" is a real thing, although "Status" is fluid.

  • @kodwat2134
    @kodwat2134 14 днів тому +3

    Fumi’s dresses❤❤

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 15 днів тому +4

    Aunt Fumi would like to hear your take on Tyrese interview with Shannon Sharpe😊😁

  • @ultratech1534
    @ultratech1534 15 днів тому +1

    OMG FUMI!!!!!! YOU HIT THE NAOL ON THE HEAD !!!! Stating what his parents had ,,,, his children deserve the same thing!!!!!! That's the part people miss.Just because you can do something Nick & Cam doesn't mean you should do it.. Fumi I love the advice you give out. By the way that was another CUTE DRESS YOU HAD ON .

  • @ewaoluwaagunsoye4499
    @ewaoluwaagunsoye4499 16 днів тому +5

    Thank you mama God bless you

  • @lawandaboutte7420
    @lawandaboutte7420 11 днів тому

    Thank you Sis for one of your more powerful and mature commentaries. I will share this message with my daughter. You've said expressed this subject matter far better than I could have. I love you Fums🙏🏽🥰🌈

  • @user-ij2ll9dm7g
    @user-ij2ll9dm7g 13 днів тому

    GREAT ADVISE AGAIN FUMI.
    LOVE THE DRESS, AND EARRINGS IN THAT SOFT YELLOW TONE, THE FOOTWEAR, SPOT ON. HAIR AND MAKEUP WERE FLAWLESS. EVERYTHING WAS PERFECTLY ALIGNED IN FASHION HEAVEN 💯💯💯💯👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾🌏🌏🌏🌏🌏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸🌝👍🏾

  • @stephaniedesign888
    @stephaniedesign888 15 днів тому

    Your commentary is unmatched!! Wisdom!

  • @elMARABIYOCHO1989
    @elMARABIYOCHO1989 15 днів тому +4

    @Fumi Desalu-Vold do you have a video on appropriate shapewear. It's something women don't do these days since we are mostly in casual wear, especially us tech girlies but it would be cool if we got a vid from you about the appropriate shapewear to get.🥰

  • @honeyshyne
    @honeyshyne 8 днів тому

    I will forever love Fumi ❤

  • @dianneswann7098
    @dianneswann7098 12 днів тому

    I agree and love Every word you said , you need a Dr infront of your name. Sooo wise and loving , you have a gift that we are all enjoying. ❤❤FUMINation blessed forever ❤

  • @maame6224
    @maame6224 15 днів тому

    Fumi is a gem! She's always on point, thnx for the great advice you give to women. You look stunning btw! ❤❤

  • @JaniceLDN
    @JaniceLDN 15 днів тому +1

    Fumi, I've just discovered your channel and love your vibrant personality. Subscribed❤

  • @lisajennings9603
    @lisajennings9603 15 днів тому

    God bless this real woman called Fumi she is all I needed as confirmation today