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КОМЕНТАРІ • 619

  • @clmccain27
    @clmccain27 9 місяців тому +67

    Honestly, you have shared plenty. I'm not sure viewers truly comprehend how vulnerable you've been. When you mentioned your phone was disconnected right before you were to pickup your car, my heart broke! You didn't have to share that but you did! If only viewers would read between the lines...share only what YOU'RE comfortable with...❤

    • @shannongraham5786
      @shannongraham5786 9 місяців тому +9

      You're so right, not many people red between the lines...

    • @julietspeace8186
      @julietspeace8186 9 місяців тому +5

      People need to stop 🛑, let Kim be when she feels like explaining she she will Stop forcing 😢😢😢 sanetimes just be there for sameone look at her face o feel for her I don’t think I even wanna know I just want to send my love and hugs 🫂 God loves you know and he will help you throw okay ❤

    • @jaykash11
      @jaykash11 9 місяців тому +5

      I had to comment on that on her previous video because it broke my heart for her because I've heard of the phone issue with another Jamaican on tik tok who just went to America and was left by the way by hèr mom and step dad😢. It may sound simple to some, but imagine being new in a 1st world country without a phone to navigate your way or make contact 😢

  • @md-k08
    @md-k08 9 місяців тому +66

    Girl! You are so not fake and owe nobody any kind of explanation! The FACT that you are showing up daily bringing interesting and new content proves how much of a strong Woman you are! It sucks that you don't have any real close people that you can go and confide in. I hope you go home to JA for a holiday so you can go and get the love and support you deserve and need! Look after you and keep your head up beautiful, you got this! 🙏🏾

  • @petulasunflower6230
    @petulasunflower6230 9 місяців тому +197

    Lady you no need to explain nothing before the time. The time will come to talk. Plan plan plan and talk to the right people

  • @lifeisablessing247
    @lifeisablessing247 9 місяців тому +48

    The sad part is even after she post this, there are folks who will STILL harass her. Please people, leave a positive comment, or a positive quote instead of prying. Whenever she's ready she'll speak, and if she chooses not to, be contented with that too.

    • @antoinetterochester2952
      @antoinetterochester2952 9 місяців тому +4

      I dislike them so so so much, and make it worst the way how they project their life on her as if they know her good grief.

  • @sheranebaker8645
    @sheranebaker8645 9 місяців тому +122

    Kim don’t let nobody rush you to talk about whatever is going on. Take your time when you feel like talking then you can talk.
    Love you and Blessings 🙏🏽❤️

    • @gailbryan2529
      @gailbryan2529 9 місяців тому +4

      That's right.

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 9 місяців тому

      I totally agree but I would suggest she get therapy ❤️

    • @KRISSY2SHY
      @KRISSY2SHY 9 місяців тому +3

      There is nothing fake about you ..one step at a time hun.

    • @marjorieharrison3390
      @marjorieharrison3390 9 місяців тому

      She don't look happy at all.

    • @sheranebaker8645
      @sheranebaker8645 9 місяців тому

      @@marjorieharrison3390 because she is going through stuff. We are all human and we do go through things. Not everyone problems are the same we have our own burdens to carry and we just have to keep encouraging her. Number 1 she is here all by herself and that in itself is hard although she talks to her mom regularly but I know a hug from her mom or brothers would make her feel much better

  • @ceebee3490
    @ceebee3490 9 місяців тому +12

    Kim, just take one day at a time. I'm 64 years old and i have seen men in action. Most of them like green lizard, when them can't get to run you totally, and have you totally dependent on them; helpless and hopeless, they start been spiteful. Just take one day at a time. You don't have to spell things out to us old times, we peep what's happening already. This man take back the car, shut phone off. You'll be okay, take one day at a time. Keep doing you. You was an independent girl long before you got married, you have a family that cares for you. Stay strong.

  • @dornellwarburton7220
    @dornellwarburton7220 9 місяців тому +109

    Sis your real supporters are here for you don't have to share what's happening when you are ready and if you want to but keep pressing on we will always cheer you on

    • @ForEverBless70
      @ForEverBless70 9 місяців тому

      Yes!!

    • @jacyc2032
      @jacyc2032 9 місяців тому

      That's right well said that's the spirit be happy beautiful princess you were born to excell and be happy❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jacyc2032
      @jacyc2032 9 місяців тому +1

      Oh my please be strong daughter of Zion praying for you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @jacyc2032
      @jacyc2032 9 місяців тому

      +hugs+

    • @marlenefennel7389
      @marlenefennel7389 9 місяців тому

      Yeeh,Yeah, real❤

  • @kerrykay86
    @kerrykay86 9 місяців тому +16

    People just want to know your business they don't genuinely care about your well-being. Gwaan do the do,we are here to support you

    • @sandraweekes9023
      @sandraweekes9023 9 місяців тому +1

      This is very true. We wish you all the best Alicia. All of us go through things at some time. All of your personal business is not social media business. We will continue to love you and we we will love you even more.

  • @empress1868
    @empress1868 9 місяців тому +45

    Hey my love, let me just note, avoid getting burned out. Yes we want the videos and all but please take time to deal with your emotions and personal issues. Don’t feel forced to give us a video EVERYDAY!! Ensure u are ok first because yes, it’s obvious that’s alot is going on which means it’s showing. Ensure u are good first sis. We love you❤

    • @CapreDiem42
      @CapreDiem42 9 місяців тому +1

      💯💯This!!!

    • @joywallace6514
      @joywallace6514 9 місяців тому

      Kim you owe no one any explanation please take care of your health god got you girl everything will be just fine .❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jeninewalters4423
    @jeninewalters4423 9 місяців тому +35

    Kim your mental and emotional health is first and foremost don't let anyone rush you into anything the will come a time when you are comfortable enough to share and if you dont wish to that's okay you owe no one any explanation not because your share with us doesn't say you have to share every aspect of your life some things are personal period. Be encouraged you are in my prayers

  • @chazj2425
    @chazj2425 9 місяців тому +36

    Well done Kim on taking the necessary steps to have an outlet for yourself. Social media is not the place and you do not owe strangers on the internet your intimate thoughts and feelings… speak only when you are ready!! Your health and well being should be your only priority for the time being ❤

  • @thefaulknorsfamily7722
    @thefaulknorsfamily7722 9 місяців тому +2

    Put a red small towel behind the lil white towels in the bathroom

  • @cherishwillis2525
    @cherishwillis2525 9 місяців тому +76

    Enjoy your holidays baby girl. It’s nobody’s business what’s going on in your personal life. You can tell when and IF you want to. Merry Christmas and much love from Kentucky.❤

  • @patricegregory4502
    @patricegregory4502 9 місяців тому +8

    Kim i’m a new immigrant as well. And some days I go into depression some days i’m good. But the thing that keeps me going is prayer and faith in God. So just pray. I started writing to God too and it has helped me a lot. So just keep pushing and keep praying.

  • @se_me1756
    @se_me1756 9 місяців тому +8

    You don’t need to share at all. I don’t believe people should share every personal thought, or detail of their lives on social media. People will think and believe what they will anyway, let them. Many are rooting for you regardless. We want to see you win! That said, it’s wonderful that you’re seeing a therapist, I pray it proves fruitful for you. Keep growing. You’re an intelligent, beautiful, and amazing young woman. Proud of you-- and again, so happy that you have a car now, I really hated to see you walking with that grocery cart, but love that you made lemonade out of lemons. Continued blessings. 🙏🏾

  • @latoyabyfield1981
    @latoyabyfield1981 9 місяців тому +67

    Kim I know exactly what you are going through, I went through it, still going through it, I'm praying for you, and I'm happy you are doing therapy, my mom and Aunty are my therapists don't ever stop praying 🙏 be careful of what you say and who you say it to. Love you hon. ❤

  • @ListedInTheSouth
    @ListedInTheSouth 9 місяців тому +4

    Therapy is such a good idea. I think it will do wonders for you. You asked for some suggestions on Vlogmas ideas: Attend Art Basel, Monroe Steele will be covering it & a link-up with you two would be awesome. She loves caribbean music & food; A link-up with Kerry Spence would be so nice. She creates fashion content & you like fashion as well; Vlog some tours in the Miami area, like the Versace mansion or the butterfly garden.
    Hope you enjoy this Christmas season & reach out to people you trust when things get to be too much.

    • @AliciaKim
      @AliciaKim  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the ideas!

    • @Blessedgurl
      @Blessedgurl 9 місяців тому +2

      Monroe Steel is my girl I love her so much . Her style everything,She and Kim has a lot in common there’re so humble and nice.

    • @ListedInTheSouth
      @ListedInTheSouth 9 місяців тому

      @@Blessedgurl Yes, she has a great personality as well as style.

  • @ambitiousjackie921
    @ambitiousjackie921 9 місяців тому +17

    As a mother i am feeling your pain Kim ❤ just continue to look after yourself my dear 🙏🙏

  • @EBB-kab
    @EBB-kab 9 місяців тому +14

    No body's business but yours. You're not fake, you're offering Vlogmas content. That's it. Folk are so nosey and often feel they know you, which we don't. I feel your loneliness, my Lovley, so you need to do what makes you happier. No one else. 😊 Much love from the UK. X

  • @brigitteb6463
    @brigitteb6463 9 місяців тому +46

    Share what you want when you want. Im here for the daily vlogs. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @DANIIVONETTA
    @DANIIVONETTA 9 місяців тому +10

    Going to therapy was the best decision I made for myself and getting my mental health back on track while I was going through separation and every session I felt relieved after each talk with my therapist❤

  • @shermsja876
    @shermsja876 9 місяців тому +5

    Virtual hug homegirl i remember when you commented on my mexico vlog you're such a sweetheart and i wish nothing but the best for you, always remember you're a Jamaican we make it anywhere in this world.bigupbigup

  • @brendarote3976
    @brendarote3976 9 місяців тому +4

    A really difficult situation. A very brave young lady who seems to be trying to take charge of her life during these trying times. She has all of my sympathy

  • @maxinemorris9789
    @maxinemorris9789 9 місяців тому +9

    Do your vlog Kim, take your time, nothing beats prayer 🙏🏾

  • @kathleenhyacinth2163
    @kathleenhyacinth2163 9 місяців тому +5

    You are a beautiful young woman who deserves to be happy. Try not to stress because stress is a silent killer.

  • @Findingkeeann
    @Findingkeeann 9 місяців тому +8

    Take your time and heal. Please don't allow anyone to rush you to say what you don't want to until you're ready. Nobody's life is perfect. We're humans. Love you girl ❤🙏 This too shall pass in Jesus name

  • @viviennejohnson4273
    @viviennejohnson4273 9 місяців тому +3

    Alicia you have a terrific relationship with your mom,so call and throw it all on her

  • @580069063
    @580069063 9 місяців тому +2

    Kim this is your vlog your life and you are in control it.I can’t Waite to see your family come visit you from Jamaica .God is blessing you don’t let no one take you off your path in all the blessing he have for you.stay bless and focus

  • @Lisa-qj1fu
    @Lisa-qj1fu 9 місяців тому +17

    Hi Kim, share whatever whenever .. if you want to, remember you are not obligated to tell us everything..Stay strong💕💕

  • @marlenehenry8961
    @marlenehenry8961 9 місяців тому +3

    Life can be a roller coaster - just continue to ride with pride and dignity. May God bless you and your family.

  • @RoxieR
    @RoxieR 9 місяців тому +3

    Just a pray fi yuh muma ! I went through it with “family” when I came here. This too shall pass! You don’t have to say a word. The prayer warriors will discern and pray exactly how they should!

  • @claudetteburrell1735
    @claudetteburrell1735 9 місяців тому +1

    Take time for yourself if it's marital issues Take time and fight for your marriage as mother wife and immigrant I feel for you both my prayers is that this too shall pass.. In life we sometimes have to compromise but not your peace and happiness.

  • @missbrownhenry4002
    @missbrownhenry4002 9 місяців тому +8

    Kim I'm thankful, that you even take the time to give us vlogs. I know it's not easy my love, take it one step at a time don't let anyone rush you. Kim I love that you're fixing your home and doing you. Remember you can do all things through Christ Kim. God bless you ❤

  • @faith4270
    @faith4270 9 місяців тому

    Kim no explanation needed. Share what you choose. Yeah people want to know what is going on. However, you are in control. You decide. Just trust God, stay focussed and do what you have to do for you. God bless you

  • @berlindaburnett6583
    @berlindaburnett6583 9 місяців тому +3

    Hey Kim 👋🏽,
    What you are going through is understandable.
    And God never said the road would be easy.
    What don't brake you will only make you stronger.
    Just know that you are not the only one, and remember there's someone that's going through worse than you .
    You are never alone...
    Keep the faith and stay focused. Sending Love & Light ✨️🙏🏾 ❤

  • @jamaicamyhome
    @jamaicamyhome 9 місяців тому +27

    Kim I’m here with you no explanation needed, I’ve been through a lot as an immigrant and had to figure a lot out. You are already taking the right steps by not venting on this internet cause people going to twist things no matter how you explain. Stay strong ❤ love you. Great little vlog, nails cute!

    • @JANET.19645
      @JANET.19645 9 місяців тому +2

      Totally agree

    • @jacyc2032
      @jacyc2032 9 місяців тому +2

      Thank you stay with her 💯agree👍

  • @vanessarichards4960
    @vanessarichards4960 9 місяців тому +15

    You got this kim! I hope you know that you are an inspiration for many people out there ❤❤❤❤❤️

  • @mariel2319
    @mariel2319 9 місяців тому +4

    Hi Kim, there is no need to explain what is going on, that is your life and no one else’s. I am so grateful for your videos. Take time for your self. We will be here waiting. By the way red really compliments you.

  • @latoyaedwards5074
    @latoyaedwards5074 9 місяців тому +17

    Keep strong girl, you are doing absolutely great and we are so proud of you 👍🏼 sendings lots of love and prayers your way Kim🙏🏽

  • @jodre2007
    @jodre2007 9 місяців тому +3

    Kim take your time…it is evidence that you are not fine but you don’t need to explain a thing to anyone especially right now. Girl keep pushing!! Love you so much…it’s life…it’s just another detour that u didn’t expect and soon you will find your way back on the highway. Take your time hun. Keep pushing, you have a lot of support, anything you need to navigate through this place you can get info and build yourself… you are an inspiration. ❤❤❤
    BY THE WAY MI LOBE DI NEW CAR….yes we need a tour! 😅😅

  • @stephd6277
    @stephd6277 9 місяців тому +1

    Girl, you don't have to explain anything of your personal life to anyone. The audacity of people asking why you are not explaining what is going on. Anyone's personal business is only shared when you want to share. You are a beautiful young lady and I can fully relate with you on being all alone in this country. I am from southern Africa and have noone here, no family, kids, relatives, noone, just I and I!!! A lot of people don't understand what that is like. Keep being strong and pushing on, God got you!! Sending you love n hugs 🤗💝❤️

  • @SassyYawanaBoutique
    @SassyYawanaBoutique 9 місяців тому +1

    When Kim said she poured it all out on random strangers I was able to relate,though I have a supportive circle it’s the people who I met once and told them my business that gave the best advice because they were neutral.

  • @serikaclarke1116
    @serikaclarke1116 9 місяців тому +2

    Kim just continue to stay strong God is with if you don't want to share you doing ofto share anything. Kim that's so true your mental health and physical health is important so therapy is the best thing for you❤❤.

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 9 місяців тому +3

    Personal details are yours to share if and when you choose to do so.Keep strong and take time to sort things out.Pray and take care of yourself.

  • @christinemiller1596
    @christinemiller1596 9 місяців тому +6

    Hi Kim I understand the confusion, challenging stress. We all here to listen to you and give you advice. You are not the first wife going through this difficult time.God will see you through this difficult time. Kim you will be fine soon.
    Don’t give up. You’re are brilliant and smart African queen.we love you. Keep safe and do what makes you happy. Your breakthrough is coming soon.❤️❤️😘

  • @missalwaysfortunate
    @missalwaysfortunate 9 місяців тому +1

    Therapy is great. I wish more people did it. I think a short trip to go see Mommy might be in order. Isolation from family and friends can be extremely challenging. I hope you will be able to bring your Mom her soon. May God continue to bless you.

  • @charmainepowell-lynch5463
    @charmainepowell-lynch5463 9 місяців тому +2

    Kim just take it easy girl you are human I am here for you ❤❤❤if you need someone.

  • @mollyboo7555
    @mollyboo7555 9 місяців тому

    Kim, remember that you are enough, take it a day at a time.

  • @andreastewart9618
    @andreastewart9618 9 місяців тому

    Kim let go and let God,he is your sustainer baby girl you will ride out your storm the Lord will make a way for you.Be strong hon.❤

  • @evettemarshall4540
    @evettemarshall4540 9 місяців тому +1

    Kim don’t worry God is with you he is the same today yesterday n forever,I will always love 💕 u

  • @soniamendez5405
    @soniamendez5405 9 місяців тому +1

    Kim, if you visit a discount store u can find a variety of decent Christmas decorations.

  • @user-qo5it3mw3v
    @user-qo5it3mw3v 9 місяців тому +1

    Plz don't tell your business my dear. You owe us nothing. You need your privacy. It's yours. Take your time my dear. Praying for you. God will see you through

  • @ronniephilip1680
    @ronniephilip1680 9 місяців тому +1

    Hey Alicia, I feel your pain, you tried hard not to cry yesterday but trust me I was crying for you because I know that you didn't anticipate what ever is going on in your life right now, when you were leaving Jamaica I saw a very hopeful and transparent person.And if I remember the beginning of this journey your are going through right now you didn't seek out anyone they came looking for you, so stay strong my dear and the Almighty will see you through.blessings.

  • @msann7988
    @msann7988 9 місяців тому +1

    Kimmmmmmm kimmmmmmm please handle your business the best way you know how… you are handling your stuff with a whole lot of grace …. The viewing people want gossip and story to soothe their problems and issues… please no come out here and dash out your life story… yessss it’s obvious you and your husband going through something okay then let’s just admit that…!!!!… deal with your personal matters the best way you know how… THANK YOU FIR SHOWING UP NONETHELESS…happy to hear you going to therapy…handle your business.. this new ride suits you ❤❤❤❤

  • @chrystaldennis3391
    @chrystaldennis3391 9 місяців тому +1

    The holiday season can bring out the ups and downs in anyone emotions compounded with trying to figure out life in an unknown country...I'm sure the big up crew will help you get through it

  • @hyacinthblake8486
    @hyacinthblake8486 9 місяців тому +2

    Life is a journey, and with that comes many hurdles. With those hurdles,you have to be strong both mentally and physically. But i hope andpray that you will overcome them all,in jesus name🙏🙏❤😮

  • @risajacobs9132
    @risajacobs9132 9 місяців тому +1

    TAKE YOUR TIME TO HEAL!!!!!! Please, don’t let anyone rush you take it from me HEAL! Then if you feel comfortable to talk then you can, trust me your true supporters are cheering for u hun. But take some time for u to regroup do some self introspection and pray! I know it’s hard but you will overcome it with the help of God ❤

  • @pauladwyer2626
    @pauladwyer2626 9 місяців тому +5

    Yes my girl,I love how you getting in the Christmas spirit,God is good

  • @bountifulbloomsmore4669
    @bountifulbloomsmore4669 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi Kim. Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Like I said last night, God has you covered...just trust him. I'm praying for you my dear. God bless you❤❤❤

  • @dccsessionsdallasconsultingcoa
    @dccsessionsdallasconsultingcoa 9 місяців тому

    There is somewhere you can go that will make a deference. the ocean and just vent! you're not going to unpack everything one time with your therapist. but the ocean will definitely help. i have been reaching out a long time now.

  • @jenf9272
    @jenf9272 9 місяців тому +7

    Go right ahead and enjoy the holidays girl as it brings cheers to the heart. Life happens to everyone so you have no obligation to explain anything to anyone. We all experience down times at some points in life. Do whatever you have to do to keep your sanity as you navigate life. You are an ambitious and hardworking woman so God will see you through. I just admire the way you are making your little apartment comfortable and personal..kudos on your achievements Kim, I am proud of you just as I am my own daughter who is a immigrant there as well and making a life of her own. Doh watch noh face my girl! 🙏🥳🥳🥂🎉🎉 💃💃

  • @LornaFoster
    @LornaFoster 9 місяців тому

    Kim you don't need to explain to anyone. Take the time to sort yourself out. God be with you. ❤u

  • @sharonpinnock471
    @sharonpinnock471 9 місяців тому +1

    God is your best friend take it to Lord in prayer first then you will know what to share when you want to stay Bless ❤

  • @novamartin7631
    @novamartin7631 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi kim, u don’t need to explain anything to anyone whenever u choose or not to say anything his your business don’t let people bully u do the do keep praying 🙏🏿 and asking god to take u true, kim I been there it’s not easy from god got your back u is going to be ok , love ❤️ u and keep smiling u have a bless day

  • @carrolwilliams8776
    @carrolwilliams8776 9 місяців тому +1

    Loving the new car Kim ride on with love and care. Ppl might say don't share your life, but sometimes a burden is lifted, when you share and you will sleep well, God will see you through my daughter ❤

  • @camillebrooks3527
    @camillebrooks3527 9 місяців тому +1

    God is good all the time. Kim you're a human being. All of us face our battles, take it to the lord in prayer. This too shall pass, whatever it is. Don't think about the negative try and stay positive. Love always.

  • @JM-eh7pz
    @JM-eh7pz 9 місяців тому +1

    Kim! As you said you're an immigrant so they're some things you need to keep personal to protect yourself.

  • @Versiongurl
    @Versiongurl 9 місяців тому +5

    Kim, most definitely stay away from coffee if you are currently experiencing anxiety. It can be a trigger. I’ve been enjoying your vlogs lately.

    • @theofficialfriendlyretrievers
      @theofficialfriendlyretrievers 9 місяців тому

      Kim rice gives the most anxiety as well but not too many people know, so Becareful…. Try to limit carbs and sugars in general and take natural magnesium supplements to help- exp tahini. Good luck

    • @Versiongurl
      @Versiongurl 9 місяців тому

      @@theofficialfriendlyretrievers wow, never heard this. I love rice, eat it everyday. I know a drop in your blood sugar can make you anxious. Maybe that’s the connection. When you eat too many carbs without the right amount of protein, your blood sugar can crash and drop too low. You need protein to help keep it balanced.

    • @theofficialfriendlyretrievers
      @theofficialfriendlyretrievers 9 місяців тому

      No- rice is naturally loaded with arsenic- its the way its grown. So if you figure how arsenic works on the brain and system in general, then you figure what the rice is able to do- and plus its a heavy carb- so figure what all that taxing does to the system. Just look at those Asian
      people who eat the most of it and see , even what their posture looks like when they get older. @@Versiongurl

    • @Versiongurl
      @Versiongurl 9 місяців тому

      @@theofficialfriendlyretrievers ok but Asians are one of the most healthiest ppl.

    • @theofficialfriendlyretrievers
      @theofficialfriendlyretrievers 9 місяців тому

      and they're also more prone to alot of health conditions than others- like the ones i mentioned before. smile
      @@Versiongurl

  • @leletaparchment2120
    @leletaparchment2120 9 місяців тому

    Kim i must first say be strong and pray for I know it is an easy road. I can say that for i am going through the same ordeal. Girl prayer and therapy and your faith in God is your best friend right now. He knows your pain inside ok God bless

  • @marleenblack70
    @marleenblack70 9 місяців тому +3

    People who need to know is just nosy, stop asking the lady her business and just give her the support. I don’t care who wants to come for me. Do you my dear ❤

  • @kerickablair6279
    @kerickablair6279 9 місяців тому +3

    One thing with man kind they love to judge people sigh don’t be discouraged my darling am here to support you always ❤

  • @florence-1470
    @florence-1470 9 місяців тому

    Every morning write Down how you feel what makes you feel that way ,dont judge yourself .

  • @velmagayle7602
    @velmagayle7602 9 місяців тому +3

    BLESSINGS KIM LOVE THAT U DOING VLOGMAS CONTINUE TRUSTING GODDDDDDDDDDD HE WONT GIVE UP ON U STAYED PRAYED UP N READ UR BIBLE VICTORY IS AHEAD 💖🙏🏿💖🙏🏿💖🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @siosworld4064
    @siosworld4064 9 місяців тому +2

    I went through therapy as well and it was the very best decision I ever made after I got divorce. I am owed healed and happily married to an amazing respectable man. It’s always good to drain your thoughts to professionals you don’t know. I never regret therapy never. You will get to find out things from your childhood you never imagined.

  • @paulineanderson3524
    @paulineanderson3524 9 місяців тому

    Just in the Lord with all thine heart and him be your guide.❤❤❤

  • @LilianAshley512
    @LilianAshley512 9 місяців тому +1

    Kim you are living in my area!! Whenever I come down for the holidays we need to link up and hang!!!!

  • @carlasanchez7561
    @carlasanchez7561 9 місяців тому

    Kim no need to explain people really lack compassion remember god don’t put you no where you don’t belong God got you just keep doing the do honey 💕

  • @Storm383
    @Storm383 9 місяців тому

    Therapy is good my two kids have had it and I’m next‼️🥰🙏🏽

  • @susieroberts8457
    @susieroberts8457 8 місяців тому

    Praying for you that God help you esp mentally. Your mental health is key

  • @theaandlsquad
    @theaandlsquad 9 місяців тому +1

    Totally understand.. girl I just love watching you.. it’s motivation for me to not give up on my UA-cam journey

  • @Samantha-cp8yq
    @Samantha-cp8yq 9 місяців тому

    First ting first involve God in everything and the be anxious for nothing take life and day at a time as the word of God says every day as its own troubles so so take life a day at a time i have learn that the reason things stress us out its because we wanna get everything done one time just remember everything as its expiry date

  • @user-vj4lw9yo2r
    @user-vj4lw9yo2r 9 місяців тому +1

    Kim I see the positive in this, it was never going to work ,I was in a similar vibes but I bail too late so thank god and take it as a blessing

  • @barbaramorrison9008
    @barbaramorrison9008 9 місяців тому

    Happy in every one live is very important

  • @france7598
    @france7598 9 місяців тому +1

    Dont know what your going through but just pray girl...am an immigrant too and trust me its hard.very hard!

  • @saneisha3450
    @saneisha3450 9 місяців тому

    You nuh owe nobody no explanation PERIOD!!!!

  • @Rochielin
    @Rochielin 9 місяців тому

    You’re doing great and nothing before it’s time. It’s crazy how Hobby Lobby in your city is sold out . Mine is FULLLLLL

  • @carmencamron5478
    @carmencamron5478 9 місяців тому +2

    Don't talk your business later you'll regret. Pray and trust God , He'll work it out just fine. ❤

  • @arethacooper2566
    @arethacooper2566 9 місяців тому +1

    I don't think you should come out on here and talk everything. You must have someone before this life you can talk to, continue praying God will turn it around for you❤❤❤❤ blessings.

  • @ceecee3943
    @ceecee3943 9 місяців тому

    Hey Kim, you're on the right track, keep your mental and physical health on track, as priority. You're a level-headed young woman, examine your options for economic empowerment, plan and execute. This is America, opportunities abound, but some of the rules of engagement are different from our Caribbean culture but you've got this. Soon you'll catch your up wind!! Whatever you're experiencing, God's got you! Others have overcome similar challenges and you will too.
    ...... fellow Caribbean immigrant!

  • @rae198
    @rae198 9 місяців тому +1

    You don't need to say anything. Live your life

  • @dianajohnson3956
    @dianajohnson3956 9 місяців тому +2

    Kim I just love your spirit....I am happy you're getting professional help and share what you are comfortable with. You're true supporters will understand. I have learned never let people know too much on social media it can be a really unkind place. Keep doing your Christmas decor it will left hour mood and I can't want to see your Christmas tree.

  • @rosec.7436
    @rosec.7436 9 місяців тому +2

    Kim, you don't have to explain anything to those people. If you want to share anything, it must be your choice. You do you keep giving God the glory the big up family is here for you. Looking forward to your christmas vlogs. ❤

  • @Listen_before_you_act
    @Listen_before_you_act 9 місяців тому +4

    Kim you are young and inspiring. You are doing the right thing, whatever you do the internet is not the place to air your troubles. Life is trying at times.
    God's way is always the best way to deal with problems pray and talk to professionals such as councillors, if there is something you would like to share from lessons you learn do that but there is no need to share private details. I love you for being you🌹
    Proverbs 11:13 reads -
    A slanderer goes about revealing confidential talk, But the trustworthy person keeps a confidence.
    Things in private needs to remain in private you are doing excellent at the above scripture. You will respect yourself for being a confidential person.
    You are greatly loved as we can see you are doing the best you can with the skills, knowledge and experience you currently possess. 🤗🎁 ❤

    • @HR-lc2pk
      @HR-lc2pk 9 місяців тому

      Amen well said and DAT IS IT .

  • @lovelyone9062
    @lovelyone9062 9 місяців тому

    Kim you owe no one any explanation. Yes we’re here supporting you , don’t give anyone any ammunition to use over you in the future. God is in control he’s the best listener, he understands your every need and will NEVER be tired of being there for you. Stay blessed stay focused and remember only the strong survived

  • @ilenebrown121
    @ilenebrown121 9 місяців тому

    My dear you owe no apologies for not disclosing any details about your personal life.Remember you are human .God be with you. I have a daughter your age and feel protective of you. Stay positive. ❤️❤️God keep you safe.

  • @JANET.19645
    @JANET.19645 9 місяців тому +2

    It’s Christmas girl make yourself happy although it’s really hard to do so when reality hit you. I am happy you get your car to move around

  • @user-vp8vs5nd4z
    @user-vp8vs5nd4z 9 місяців тому +1

    No rush not all who wants to know really cares them jus nuff....stay prayed up an be bless the big up crew is always here

  • @kimmyhotstuff
    @kimmyhotstuff 9 місяців тому +3

    Kim happy for you girl you don't have to force anything the real ones understands ok just show up God is amazing Always remember that ok loving vlogmas already keep them coming love always❤

  • @Solo-Rosemarie
    @Solo-Rosemarie 9 місяців тому

    You look sad. I feel 4u. I will put you on my prayer list. Stay blessed❤

  • @sannettesky9791
    @sannettesky9791 9 місяців тому +3

    Congrats on taking that bold step and seeking help, sometimes the burden is just too heavy and you have to unpack. Also let no one pressure you in this life, whether internet or otherwise, I'll call your name in my prayers tonight hun, sleep tight