I hate when people try to tell people what emotion to have. You have no idea why someone will react the way they do. Could be nervousness, some people are really just happy go lucky and it’s hard not to smile and laugh.
right . i read a book here a woman faked her death and framed her husband to punish him for an affair. he did a news interview to speak to who they THOUGHT kidnapped her at the time, cuz she just vanished... he made the mistake of smiling out of nervousness and EVERYBODY, even his twin sister, ate it up swore he killed her and that was the smile of a sociopath. whole time she ran off wit money and was somewhere watching him suffer on the news until she decided to stop her bullshit
I get your point, but I believe as you are presenting your case about abuse, nothing should be funny especially if you have no proof & expect the Judge to believe your words. Secondly, he made a joke to woman that are currently being abused to go to the kitchen for self defense. He didn’t make a joke or laugh at her but she couldn’t stop smiling at her own abuse 🤷🏾♂️
@@kacielynk9749when you’ve been though abuse the smile stops around the abuser. And the amount of time she described there wouldn’t be smiling but be miserable. You’re either between being mad looking or looking upset even when you try to hide it. Violence have you scared, scared and anxious with panicky moments not nervous. But in today’s society a man expressing their feeling is abuse in many peoples eyes especially feminist and those wanting to win a court case. It’s sad because there are real cases of abuse taken lightly because of women like her.
And sometimes you just get to a place where do you feel in your head as you repeating things that's going on the it was a joke you just couldn't believe it I don't think it was a funny laugh.
He's coming down on the plaintiff because she's young and clearly naive. Judge believed her (which is why she won), but she needs to understand that when a man is violent, call the police. Too many women don't take it seriously and end up de*d.
Totally agree too many abused women try to protect their offender by not calling the police for whatever reason JM was definitely trying to make her realize the abuse she suffered she should’ve called the police .
Some people smile, giggle, or laugh as a way of hiding being ashamed or embarrassed. I can assure you that when the drama was occurring she wasn't smiling. It sounds like she would fight back. However, she really needs to call the police to get the abuse on the record.
JM is emotional and irrational as usual. Jumping to conclusions, blame the victim for not reacting the way he feel they should have and only hearing what he want from the story. Typical
I have a brother who smiles when he's nervous he even laughs because he's trying not to cry. My cousin laughs when he pissed almost like the joker. You really don't wanna be around him when he's laughing when he's angry
Judge getting on her case about smirking while the defendant all out laughing and interrupting the whole time. He turned on to the defendant once the audience stopped laughing at him for how he was treating her.
Children trying to live an adult life ....and allowed sex to throw them off in this tough game called life....sex is for emotionally mature adults who handle their business in every level.
Yup. They were physically fighting each other that's why she never called the police. But obviously it escalated the night she hit him with the car. She said in the case she leaves when he gets drunk.
I feel like when JM ask how often was a man violent he’s essentially saying the woman is lying! What difference does it make if it was every day or once every 6 months? I do not like this man.
He is trying to establish a pattern of behavior. If there is several instances of violence plus police reports(official documents)it changes what is believable behavior from the abuser.
The plaintiff will be right back with the defendant ,dealing with emotional and physical abuse as well as CHEATING. . I don’t see what’s all the smiling and grinning for . . Ain’t shit sweet. SMH
@jermainemiller7189 I didn't miss shyt. U missed the point that everyone doesn't respond to traumatic events in the same way. My sister gets uncomfortable and has anxiety and it causes her to smile. That don't mean she likes wtf going on.
I noticed the plaintiff was smiling during the first couple of minutes of this case. I'm not sure if she was smiling because she was nervous about being in a courtroom in front of Judge Greg Mathis or some other reason .
After the case...Same thing, Defendant said false statements about the plaintiff again, said that she lied when she did 🚫, she won, you lost your counterclaim without showing evidence 🧾, she doesn't have your property, she wasn't order to return it
Was she grinning??? I didn’t see the plaintiff grinning. What the heck…, 😳. Maybe the smirk was from embarrassment or nerves. But she was not laughing.
I smile at a lot of stuff. Not because it’s funny but because I’m nervous. JM has it bad by jumping down ppl’s throat because they’re not reacting the way he wants them to
Cmon judge they clearly were kids living at home before they got their apartment together. He clearly had more freedom and started acting up once they got their first place together. How could the judge not put that together??
Judge Mathis should know by now that there is no typical reaction to domestic violence. Smiling, laughing, or a flat affect is a trauma response for many victims of violence. Listen to them instead of going off.
When I’m having a disagreement with someone and they say something so far fetched, crazy, or disrespectful, or worst cut me off when I’m speaking , I start smiling too 😊 because I’m collecting myself as my other personality comes forward and destroy them! It can be nerves, anxiety or many times like in my case, rage. 😅
I can't watch episodes where he feels he gets to degrade another woman. It's just absurd how little he understands the psychology of abuse victims yet assumes his limited and often irrational view is the one that should be chosen. Why would someone afraid acquiesce to the demands of someone violent? It's a textbook case of socialized subservience and lack of agency. It's why people remain with abusers, which again he doesn't comprehend because apparently he never took a psychology class ever in his storied life.
They’re both violent, immature, and not too bright. She admitted to being violent toward him as well. I believe they’re both toxic. Her grinning and claiming he was always jumping on her while downplaying her throwing things, yelling and screaming, trying to run him over, etc makes me believe that she’s trying to paint him as the aggressor. That also explains the grinning and never calling the police… she was just as involved as he was.
Some people smile when they’re nervous, I don’t think she’s making light of the situation. I grew up in an abusive household and my wife looked at me and my siblings crazy when we would laugh and talk about it. She and other people didn’t understand that, that was our reality. We were desensitized to it cause we grew up watching and experiencing it. It felt like the norm to us at first. Before someone says it yes we and our mother called the police several times and nothing ever came of it.
I believe both were lying BUT I hate it when JM is callous with his words. This is at least the 3rd time a man has claimed abuse and JM says he deserved it. SMH
I think the plaintiff is nervous! They are both young!! Sounds like they had a toxic relationship. I hope the plaintiff learns from this! Judge Mathis could have been more patient with the plaintiff.
This lady needs proper orientation... It is never acceptable for anyone to get into a physical altercation in a relationship. JM was obviously disappointed with her demeanor towards their altercation.
So mathis doesn't know that people smile or smirk to hold back from crying or having a meltdown in front of public.....love mathis, but sometimes he lets his emotions get in the way of fair judging.
Be carefull what you tell girls to do. If you stand up to the wrong Guy it can Cost your life.. Get away and stay safe (have restraining order i have to get renewed 3 or 4 times now. Still got a letter from prison)
Thank God JM now has the fake ass tv show that he’s wanted. Because all these years of him talking over people and talking down on people is ridiculous.
judge mathis cant tell this woman how to react and respond to things. just because youve seen 3 reactions from people in similar situations doesnt mean everyone in the world will respond the same. The defendant isnt really denying that they get physical at all and just mathis is acting like she lied period. neither should be touching each other. i do like him pointing out the common sense that she lacked tho because it doesnt make sense that he aggressive trying to get in the house enough for you to rush in a room and lock a door but then u open it when he gets more aggressive because you are confused why hes aggressive.... People sadly do dumb none-logical-verymuch none common sense things all the time. JM should be use to it by now
Honestly, JM did not make the abuse allegations any better …his remarks to the plaintiff is coming off like justification to the defendant actions…the defendant is not going to learn until he is locked up with expensive attorney fees and bail. JM should have gotten on the man as well..esp JM should have told him to STFU. Bc they both look foolish and act too childish to stay together let alone had a child . They both need to grow TF up.
This guy is an emotional abuser, he says things like i aint mad at you, for what she supposedly did. That of course is to get her back in there between cheats.
Maybe it’s a “nervous” grin. Geesh
Exactly my sister is the same way. She doesn't mean to but smiles/giggles when nervous
Yea I was thinkin that too… a nervous grin she didn’t think it was funny
No. She's a liar. What kind of fool opens a door for a man punching and kicking a door to get to you? Smh....
I didn’t even see a grin 🥴🥴🥴. The defendant was doing all the grinning
Jm doesnt smiling or grining can be a nervous action😮
Some people smile to keep from crying
Absolutely 💯
Yep...me yesterday 😮
She's maybe in denial about how serious the abuse is. Lots of women stay in abusive relationships, they don't want to let go.
True that.
JM is an arse hole sometimes…
Nerves can make you laugh or smile...when will people get that?
No hospital bill does not mean that you did not verbally abuse her.
Many victims smile when discussing their trauma. It’s a coping mechanism . They smile to keep from crying.
I hate when people try to tell people what emotion to have. You have no idea why someone will react the way they do. Could be nervousness, some people are really just happy go lucky and it’s hard not to smile and laugh.
Right
right . i read a book here a woman faked her death and framed her husband to punish him for an affair. he did a news interview to speak to who they THOUGHT kidnapped her at the time, cuz she just vanished... he made the mistake of smiling out of nervousness and EVERYBODY, even his twin sister, ate it up swore he killed her and that was the smile of a sociopath. whole time she ran off wit money and was somewhere watching him suffer on the news until she decided to stop her bullshit
Young lady how in the hell did you stay involved with that fool for six years.
How is the Judge going to tell the plaintiff to stop smiling because it’s not funny then proceed to make a joke to allow jurors to laugh?
I get your point, but I believe as you are presenting your case about abuse, nothing should be funny especially if you have no proof & expect the Judge to believe your words. Secondly, he made a joke to woman that are currently being abused to go to the kitchen for self defense. He didn’t make a joke or laugh at her but she couldn’t stop smiling at her own abuse 🤷🏾♂️
@@I8PLYN7 some people smile or laugh because of nervousness and I think that’s all this was.
@@kacielynk9749when you’ve been though abuse the smile stops around the abuser. And the amount of time she described there wouldn’t be smiling but be miserable. You’re either between being mad looking or looking upset even when you try to hide it.
Violence have you scared, scared and anxious with panicky moments not nervous.
But in today’s society a man expressing their feeling is abuse in many peoples eyes especially feminist and those wanting to win a court case.
It’s sad because there are real cases of abuse taken lightly because of women like her.
And sometimes you just get to a place where do you feel in your head as you repeating things that's going on the it was a joke you just couldn't believe it I don't think it was a funny laugh.
@@I8PLYN7he basically said if he abuses you, put em on a shirt 🤷🏾♀️😂
He's coming down on the plaintiff because she's young and clearly naive. Judge believed her (which is why she won), but she needs to understand that when a man is violent, call the police. Too many women don't take it seriously and end up de*d.
Totally agree too many abused women try to protect their offender by not calling the police for whatever reason JM was definitely trying to make her realize the abuse she suffered she should’ve called the police .
Berating her is definitely not the way to get her to understand that.
@@salihahwilliams1453He was mean. That’s not the way to get a victim to see the light.
@@author_tiffany_dionne ok
Some people smile, giggle, or laugh as a way of hiding being ashamed or embarrassed. I can assure you that when the drama was occurring she wasn't smiling. It sounds like she would fight back. However, she really needs to call the police to get the abuse on the record.
He talking to the judge like he like he is in the streets or something
Sad thing is she's connected to him forever, because they share a child smh
Just cause you have a child with someone doesn’t mean SHIT
Yeah, dealing with that now. Horrible but you get stronger
JM is emotional and irrational as usual. Jumping to conclusions, blame the victim for not reacting the way he feel they should have and only hearing what he want from the story. Typical
Perfectly said. If Judge has a bad day at home, he brings it to work.
Exactly he keeps talking over her he didn't hear when she says verbally abusive
Can’t keep using the same excuses. You better call the police or head to the kitchen
The way he is looking at her the whole time was irritating😂
like bruuu😂😂
They're childish.
Extremely! 💯
I have a brother who smiles when he's nervous he even laughs because he's trying not to cry. My cousin laughs when he pissed almost like the joker. You really don't wanna be around him when he's laughing when he's angry
Judge getting on her case about smirking while the defendant all out laughing and interrupting the whole time. He turned on to the defendant once the audience stopped laughing at him for how he was treating her.
She is slow, and he is an abuser
She does seem slow
She ain't leaving him, the toxicity is what's keeping them dealing with each other
Exactly! They will resume the Horizontal Hula again after they leave court together 🤷🏾♀️ 🤦🏽♀️ PATHETIC 👎🏾
She was clearly lying and judge still ruled in her favor👎🏾
That Little boy SO Trifling ❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼
Children trying to live an adult life ....and allowed sex to throw them off in this tough game called life....sex is for emotionally mature adults who handle their business in every level.
Yup. They were physically fighting each other that's why she never called the police. But obviously it escalated the night she hit him with the car. She said in the case she leaves when he gets drunk.
Judge Mathis be doing the most sometimes
He likes to hear himself talk
Judge is coming down on the plaintiff a little harsh. He should be digging a new hole in the defendant for his actions.
No he didn’t.
He didn't believe her. To be honest, they were probably both violent towards each other...
He did come down on him too at the end
@@brandoni241 exactly!!!!
@@brandoni241exactly not all men are bad ridiculous everyone acts like all men are bad 🙄
They look like siblings
Yes judge Mathis you was a little rough on her you can clearly see she nervous
I dont know why these dudes move in with these women. Have your own place, Brothers!!! It will stop alot of this nonsense
They both are crazy
JM a flip on u n a minute 🤦🏾♀️😭
She’s not the sharpest tool in the shed but hey, we all have our young and dumb days; I suppose
Her young and dumb days need to be over...she's a mother. I feel for the child
I feel like when JM ask how often was a man violent he’s essentially saying the woman is lying! What difference does it make if it was every day or once every 6 months? I do not like this man.
That part
Right!?! 🙄
ONE times too many times,, what difference the "frequency" ?!? 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
He is trying to establish a pattern of behavior. If there is several instances of violence plus police reports(official documents)it changes what is believable behavior from the abuser.
He’s trying to see if the man was an abuser or if he just had a slip up or 2. There’s a difference.
Jamar borrowed his uncle's shirt to come to court?
😂🎯
🤣😂🤣
And still smiling smh
The plaintiff will be right back with the defendant ,dealing with emotional and physical abuse as well as CHEATING. . I don’t see what’s all the smiling and grinning for . . Ain’t shit sweet. SMH
Judge did too much. My sister does the same thing. Smiles/giggles when nervous....he be doin way too much sometimes
U missed the whole point how it looks weird asf smiling while talking about being abused it makes it seems like u don’t take the topic seriously
@jermainemiller7189 I didn't miss shyt. U missed the point that everyone doesn't respond to traumatic events in the same way. My sister gets uncomfortable and has anxiety and it causes her to smile. That don't mean she likes wtf going on.
Eww to both of them
Right
I’m a JM crackhead…
I noticed the plaintiff was smiling during the first couple of minutes of this case. I'm not sure if she was smiling because she was nervous about being in a courtroom in front of Judge Greg Mathis or some other reason .
After the case...Same thing, Defendant said false statements about the plaintiff again, said that she lied when she did 🚫, she won, you lost your counterclaim without showing evidence 🧾, she doesn't have your property, she wasn't order to return it
She's has a nervous smile and laughter.
Hey JM folks! Im on vacation on South Padre island, TX, for a week. Hope yall are doing well and giving ol whatshisname some truth for me! ⛱️ 🏝 🐟 🐠 🦑
Hey! Hope you enjoy your vacation.
Where's your witness that i took your TV = she took the TV😅😅😅😅
Sometimes opening the door is less scary than facing the monster.
Was she grinning??? I didn’t see the plaintiff grinning. What the heck…, 😳. Maybe the smirk was from embarrassment or nerves. But she was not laughing.
Back again lol Hey y’all.
lol hey again
I smile at a lot of stuff. Not because it’s funny but because I’m nervous. JM has it bad by jumping down ppl’s throat because they’re not reacting the way he wants them to
Cmon judge they clearly were kids living at home before they got their apartment together. He clearly had more freedom and started acting up once they got their first place together. How could the judge not put that together??
Some people are like that
Judge Mathis should know by now that there is no typical reaction to domestic violence.
Smiling, laughing, or a flat affect is a trauma response for many victims of violence. Listen to them instead of going off.
She might smile to avoid crying… the defendant exhibits aggressive behavior and minimizes DV.
When I’m having a disagreement with someone and they say something so far fetched, crazy, or disrespectful, or worst cut me off when I’m speaking , I start smiling too 😊 because I’m collecting myself as my other personality comes forward and destroy them! It can be nerves, anxiety or many times like in my case, rage. 😅
Dude, have no respect for his girl bringing another woman in the same house were you and girl live is pitiful. She need to leave him immediately 😮
I can't watch episodes where he feels he gets to degrade another woman. It's just absurd how little he understands the psychology of abuse victims yet assumes his limited and often irrational view is the one that should be chosen. Why would someone afraid acquiesce to the demands of someone violent? It's a textbook case of socialized subservience and lack of agency. It's why people remain with abusers, which again he doesn't comprehend because apparently he never took a psychology class ever in his storied life.
She has very poor decision-making skills
So if a man hits u less than 5 times a year it’s okay??? He gets a pass!???? And maybe is a nervous smile….🙄🙄🙄
We all know most abused women don’t call the police and continue to go back to the abuser. Judge is tripping
He look drunk she deserves so much better
They’re both violent, immature, and not too bright. She admitted to being violent toward him as well. I believe they’re both toxic. Her grinning and claiming he was always jumping on her while downplaying her throwing things, yelling and screaming, trying to run him over, etc makes me believe that she’s trying to paint him as the aggressor. That also explains the grinning and never calling the police… she was just as involved as he was.
She was not GRINNING. People dont know what trauma and abuse does to someone. How irritating, JM. Oh, but he allowed the defendant to laugh and grin.
Some people smile when they’re nervous, I don’t think she’s making light of the situation. I grew up in an abusive household and my wife looked at me and my siblings crazy when we would laugh and talk about it. She and other people didn’t understand that, that was our reality. We were desensitized to it cause we grew up watching and experiencing it. It felt like the norm to us at first. Before someone says it yes we and our mother called the police several times and nothing ever came of it.
JM annoys me so much!
I believe both were lying BUT I hate it when JM is callous with his words. This is at least the 3rd time a man has claimed abuse and JM says he deserved it. SMH
What about his TV judge?
They need a DNA test acting like spoiled rotten siblings 👩🏿⚖️
They are so kid like ew
Toxic relationship. Mathis is always extra and it's completely unnecessary.
I’ve known a girl, since childhood, who literally laughs at any an everything. Serious situations and all. It’s a nervous/trauma tick.
I think the plaintiff is nervous! They are both young!! Sounds like they had a toxic relationship. I hope the plaintiff learns from this! Judge Mathis could have been more patient with the plaintiff.
Make it to that kitchen
They both childish
OH WELL
This lady needs proper orientation... It is never acceptable for anyone to get into a physical altercation in a relationship. JM was obviously disappointed with her demeanor towards their altercation.
So mathis doesn't know that people smile or smirk to hold back from crying or having a meltdown in front of public.....love mathis, but sometimes he lets his emotions get in the way of fair judging.
That judge forever trying to blame the victim when the victim is a woman
Yeah keep trying the tiring angle...
This is so disgusting of Judge Mathis........ You can not tell women how to handle or react to abuse....
Young folks enjoy life and be passionate but please use protection.. and don’t bring children in this world if you’re not mentally mature
Nah she isnt grinning at all ease up on the woman. She is probably scared or embarrassed.
Be carefull what you tell girls to do.
If you stand up to the wrong Guy
it can Cost your life..
Get away and stay safe
(have restraining order i have to get renewed 3 or 4 times now. Still got a letter from prison)
Why is he so funny looking seeeeee she must b blind
Thank God JM now has the fake ass tv show that he’s wanted. Because all these years of him talking over people and talking down on people is ridiculous.
He does seem a little controlling though but I think she is innocent either
judge mathis cant tell this woman how to react and respond to things. just because youve seen 3 reactions from people in similar situations doesnt mean everyone in the world will respond the same. The defendant isnt really denying that they get physical at all and just mathis is acting like she lied period. neither should be touching each other. i do like him pointing out the common sense that she lacked tho because it doesnt make sense that he aggressive trying to get in the house enough for you to rush in a room and lock a door but then u open it when he gets more aggressive because you are confused why hes aggressive.... People sadly do dumb none-logical-verymuch none common sense things all the time. JM should be use to it by now
Honestly, JM did not make the abuse allegations any better …his remarks to the plaintiff is coming off like justification to the defendant actions…the defendant is not going to learn until he is locked up with expensive attorney fees and bail. JM should have gotten on the man as well..esp JM should have told him to STFU. Bc they both look foolish and act too childish to stay together let alone had a child . They both need to grow TF up.
She brought this on herself
Never hold men accountable for their own actions
Ofc a big back mammy would say this🙄
The plaintiff is a cutie
This guy is an emotional abuser, he says things like i aint mad at you, for what she supposedly did. That of course is to get her back in there between cheats.
Mathis thinks he's a body language expert when he isn't. His rigid opinions aren't good for litigants.
You wrong Judge you act like she caint smile she could be nerves you wrong on these one she not lieing
Omg she’s soo skinny..
So. She pretty. Always throwing shade. Everybody doesn’t want to be overweight
Cap
Good looking young couple tho 💯
Ppl love being victims. Just look at the comments
JM dead wrong that lame did all that
First🎉🎉🎉