Brother came looking for his suffering sister that the family sent away for getting pregnant 😭💔😭
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- Опубліковано 19 вер 2024
- Brother came looking for his sister who’s suffering after the family sent her away for getting pregnant for a man they considered low life 😭
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Mothers! Mothers! Mothers! I am a mother. As a mother , when your child does something wrong, scold them and embrace them. Don’t forget your nine months and sleepless nights in a hurry. How can a mother allow this beautiful lady to waste like this because she made a mistake. Her appearance made me start boohooing. I wish the child was alive to be her source of consolation and happiness. I am also proud of her for not harming herself.
Well said……..
The culture of Igbo with first-daughter pressure is a punishment/pain……..honestly
@@innocencyike5630 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
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I really feel bad for her,😢@@zoedonajessys874
God bless you
This girl is a wild flower, she can grow wherever she’s planted. She’s a survivor
My brother you don't have excuse. Why did you joined them to sack her from the house? Yes she made a mistake but she never gave birth to animal. She gave birth to human being. Sometimes, some families can be wicked.
The family are justified to be annoyed with her but she should have apologize for her mistakes and ask family and friends to help her beg her parents and siblings bcos she disappointed them not enough reason to ran out of her immediate family bcos of one man where it's the man now ??
You are talking rubbish who told you she did not apologise didn't you hear that the family chased her out@@KateVivian-tf3nx
stop blaming the family for anything pls……the family was only trying to make a better choice for her 👎now see her condition,the guy has left her to suffer and instead of her to go back to the family and apologizes she still act as if she was a victim here 😳
@@royalgold6180 you are mad was it not the same family that sent her away . Who told you she did not apologise and of course she is a victim that made a mistake and the family are not suppose to chase her away. Now why do they want her back what is the point of looking for her
Very wicked
Stop calling somebody a low life, cos you are not anybody's God..God can turn people situations around n he does not take permission from anybody to bless someone.
❤❤❤abi,
Awww 🥰
I really love 💕 this write up💕👌
There are situations or condition someone will leave you with, any name calling will suit the person as at that moment
Amen 🙏
GOD bless you my dear
It's an extreme wickedness for a man to have intimacy with a girl he is not ready to marry, and an overwhelming evil when he put her in a family way and abandoned her. It might be because this disappointment that the father died. She's now cursing her family but I know they did warn her. However, it's wrong for the family to neglect and disown her.
She looks malnourished. She doesn't even have the strength to cry. May God forgive all of us. My prayer is for God to touch her heart to forgive. It might not be easy. Praying for God's intervention in her life.
It is so that because I don't understand what family mean in this life we live now. I thought family should be there through thick and thin regardless. Thus, it is unfair because I am sure they would have been present if her partner was rich. May God have mercy
Honestly 😢
I know, right & she looks so gaunt. I was emotional watching this segment- the rejection of family, losing her baby, the boyfriend have traumatised her, she needs time to heal!!
I am in tears the family failed the Ada. Her love for her family was betrayed by everyone. They buried her father without looking for her. Imagine calling the man a low life!
My mom and brother threw me because of my leukemia and also because I was jobless. She kept my school documents so as to just be staying in the house and she be controlling me without even having me get personal stuff for girls. The rest is history but i thank God for the strangers who helped me start from 0 to relocating to Canada to school. Am okay now but they are now begging me to be part of them. Its rough, and i don't wanna go back to trauma again because of them. I know how this lady is feeling after the guy confronted her 😢😢😢😢 Nowadays strangers have become pillars for rescue rather than the blood family 💔💔💔💔💔
Then it’s a good thing you saw and watched this video, may I or anyone in my family never experience this,amen. Please remember to forgive just keep remembering forgiveness until you can forgive please 🙏
Sorry....
The pain of loosing the child during the course 😭😭😭😭
Her pain is so real. She's been through so much. Sometimes, the mistake children make is that their parents didn't show the love they needed. They just pressure them and treat them as properties and slaves. When someone deceitful comes along and shows some form of kindness, they fall for it. Parents, learn how to love your children. Don't reject them for their mistakes. That grandchild may end up being a blessing to them.
MY EYES ARE FILLED WITH TEARS AS THIS IS SO EMOTIONAL TO WATCH. God is your strength baby GIRL ❤
Those who watched and wept gather here😢😢
My heart is broken. Ah! It's so sad. She made a mistake, but the family went to an extreme. May God forgive her sins and heal her wound.
A'm 💔💔, she's depressed,
NA LIE O. ONLY SOME OF THOSE WHO GATHERED HERE WHERE CHILDISH ENOUGH TO WEEP. GETTING PREGNANT WAS A TOTAL DISGRACE. BUT THEN SHE MISCARRIED. GIVING HER CHANCE TO CORRECT HER BLUNDER.
I cried like a baby forgetting that I’m at work and people were looking at me, I had to go the same thing but I’m glad i wasn’t thrown away. So sad 😢😢😢
@tonybantu1681 you should not judge if your family released you for a mistake how would you feel. That was way extreme. Not saying getting pregnant is okay just saying if you don't have family support I can see why she is so broken she should not be mentally abused she's gone through enough losing her child and being disassociated with her family think before you speak you speak this could be your child or your sister
I’m crying for this lady, it’s very painful.
Me too am crying with this. Young lady as if she is my sister 😢😢😢
I'm very hurt watching this girl. People shoukd never be treated like this. Watching from Uganda.
Okitegera
Chimaka surely goodness on mercy shall follow you.❤❤❤❤❤
Can't control my tears, chai people can be mean ooo,only that she's pregnancy ,or what other crimes did she commit
Tears has been running down my eyes from the beginning to the end of this video. You cheats your own daughter out for yrs, and you stay back leaving happily?
It is really strange, without thinking if any thing bad will happen to her.
You correct a child even punish the child but sending her out of the house is nit an option.
Now she has lost the child and even her father.
Get out nonsense talk sometimes whenever you tell them to behave themselves they refused and decide to make silly decisions
There is no pity for her. I have my sister she is misbehaving. we always beg her to amend her ways she refused. I hope she doesn't fall victim to a silly mistake she will see more than this nonsense. She should be happy that the family came looking for her
@@josephejiogu1884You are insulting someone over a harmless comment the person made.. Is it nice? That's not cool at all. Please be nice.
Well! If we should go by what you just typed right here, then why are they now looking for her? They should stop looking for her, if that is the case.
@@josephejiogu1884Are you perfect
See me crying here..poor me😢
She look unhealthy n weak..
Sorry Ada, just forgive your family n forgive yourself
I am in tears for her. I was treated bad and cast out by mom , her husband and my sibblings too , but my case was child molested by step dad and because of speaking the truth, they turn their backs on me till this day. I forgive them but i cannot forget the pains they put me thru. For you my little sister i feel your pains and i am sorry for your miscarriage. God knows best, i love you andstaystrong.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻✌️💯🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾
so sorry dear, so sorry!! God is your strenght!!!!
I had a child at the age of 16, my mum didn't disown me, she's 10 now in secondary school ❤...My mom took take of her till now,told me to concerntrate in building my self...first❤
Better dialogue with your sis instead of doing it by force, she is already traumatized, I shed tears too, Parents please show love to your children no matter the circumstances.....
Being pregnant at early age is not the End of the World, ... , the girl can still pursuit her studies after delivered her child.
It’s not good to throw ur blood away no matter what.
This is so heart breaking. The entire family threw away their daughter, just because she got pregnant. Is there any one in this life without sin? Imagine if this girl had lost her life in the process, can they be able to forgive themselves? We should all stop this holier than thou attitude and trade with caution.
I cant agree with you more! African parents tend to worry too much about other people's opinion. Like you said, 'is there any one in this life without sin?? Having a baby is a blessing not a curse, I pray Ada can heal from this trauma!
Jesus, this brought tears to my eyes. She is in so much pain. Abandoned by family hurts deep. May Jesus help them all. She made a mistake but that mistake was also their blood, their niece, their grandchild 😢
My beautiful Ada please just forgive your family ok.
Asa odogwu 1,Thanks a lot for this beautiful reconciliation of Families
Stop telling her to put herself in order! The girl is heart broken!😭😭😭
The host needs to get a diploma in guidance counseling..
Is Ada's brother truly remorseful?
Nobody is above a mistake. That your child got pregnant out of wedlock is not a good reason to chase her away and disown her.
Your right dia they did Avery bad things all the do mistakes
Sometimes you want to look at this kind of video as acting but then you realize it's real... coming across this video at this moment breaks my heart into pieces and fill my eyes with so much tears...to be thrown out and rejected by family just because you got pregnant is something that's uncalled for...who doesn't sin to be sincere?we all are not perfect.im feeling disturbed after watching this video...just look at her body,she doesn't look good and this is a clear indication that she's been going through hell...hugs Ada
Leave her alone you’re evil as a brother you shouldn’t have turned your back from her as a true brother man like you can’t never treat you wife good 😢
She looks malnourished. She has suffered alot ..she spent days without eating. Ooh God thank you for saving her life not to die .
Some families are wicked.
I pray God to.mend her broken heart.❤❤sending love to.her and prayers.
Such a pretty girl. Her only crime us daring to have a choice instead if living her family's dream. Even if her choice was not the best, disowning her is not the solution. This disowning thing is so outdated and only makes things worse. She must have felt so betrayed and completely dejected. They are looking for her just because people are talking and they need to cover their shame. It is all about them and not about her.
Yep family shame
Your brain dey work. ❤
Chiamaka you really bring good content , but most is so heartbreaking, but thank you chiamaka for opening our eyes on situations, thank you
Some family can be cruel, I'm sorry lady for all you gone through
Chaimaka please give that girl some time.That Remind me of my own Family.Family don't have any Love for one Another again.I know it is very painful the Memories I had to face.When I was pregnant with my first child . Family's must Learn to treat each other nor matter what.Chaimaka u never go down that kind of stuff.Family is too wicked.🇹🇹🇹🇹
SO MUCH SORRY ABOUT YOUR PAINFUL EXPERIENCE TOO MY DEAR SISTER, REMAIN BLESSED, AND I WISH YOU WELL. 🇳🇬
I would NEVER send my child away for being pregnant. NEVER!!
Chiamaka
You are so decent
Keep it up please
*Look on good hearted beautiful Mrs Chiamaka🤗🥰🇯🇲 my eyes are teary she had gone through alot, so brother if people never see your sister suffering and you feel bad ,you never come back to look for your sister, she is God fearing too, we all make mistakes, but your family was heartless but thank God you all come to your sense there nothing God can't do*
Exactly He just came looking for her cuz of what people are saying about her sister
People should stop this thing of chasing girls away in situations like this. The reason l want to built a home for abandoned pregnant women is this. I was once abandoned and lived a painful life when I was pregnant l suffered until my real heart could not carry on.
Until l land in lCU with a heart failure and now I am operated and have a ticker. I suffered.
I still pray to God to bless me so I can accommodate every lady in situations like this 😢
No matter what a child does, parents need to know that they have a responsibility of taking care of their children. Show them their mistakes and keep them guided.
You can't get your sister without the social media . Showing the world how malnourished your sister looks is even the worst you have done. You guys are not really sorry.
It happens to me when I was in school but my family take good care of me ,today am the one help them with my daughter ,God have mercy Ada please forgive them
This lady is rude to the young lady. She suffered and God will heal her. I pray he bless her and she forgives them.
She so beauitful❤😢
She has gone through emotional trauma and needs rehabilitation. As her brother, if you sincerely recognise that two wrongs do not make a right. I expect you to support her even if the family does not want to. Find her a suitable accommodation and if you have resources, find her a better income-generating activity to support herself.
You have spoken well sir 😢 I feel for her😢
I bawled watching this video. They should never abandoned her.
It is good to see her brother trying to reconciled with her.
Her family has broken the their trust and bond with her. Her partner should have stayed with her.
I wish for this heroin great joy and peace within as she accepts her family forgiveness or as she continues her survival journey alone.
I watch this and I cry bitterly cus this is what happened to me though my baby is alive he is 10yr now and we are still pushing forward
I had this problem with my younger sister and she ran away up till now I have not seen sister for 35 years. The worst mistake in my life, is like committing murder. Dede watching from Barcelona Spain .
Dear parents pls no matter what your kids do never deny them of a family. We all make mistakes but and the second chance the brother is asking for on behalf of the family, she was denied that. I pray she finds peace within her to forgive them.
Wow! And the baby didn't market! That makes the pain even worse 😢
Just watching in tears...
The most painful thing is that she was rejected by her blood. Even if she forgives,she can never forget. They should better start pampering her like an egg to get her heart back.
Just watching very sad story regardless the family shouldn’t have disowned her. Even if everyone forsake her, her own family should have been there for her very sad truly
Some families are wicked this young lady is broken 💔🥲
😮😢😢😢 Almost like Chichi in that time Alrx and Chiamaka came for her Abi this is so touching, everything fine but yet not family surely 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
We need love no matter what family let's unite , love is the key to success , brothers and sisters let's take good care of each other we mustn't push away each other or hate, My sister forgive them I feel your pain 😢😢
My family did this to me too, i sent away in the middle of the night with my pregnancy and to my greatest surprise the owner denied it but i thank God that he came through for me. Right now the boy is married for four years now yet no sign of pregnancy or miscarriage on the other side of my family i was bless with handsome husband, Care husband and very rich that without my present in the house no family meeting will hold. Because God understand that i made a mistake and gave me a second chance again. Some mother's are mean and some of your siblings will be busy pressuring the mother not to forgive that you don't worth it. Is only God intervention that we need. Sister please 🙏🙏🙏🙏 forgive them dear
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Chiamaka you are an amazing person, I just love your work. I love you dear but Jesus loves you more. Nice skirt as always...❤🙌🏽🇦🇴
Nothing is worth abandoning your blood no matter what. I really feel sorry for Ada
- Ask to come into her space, sit down
- commend her resilience, her strength and courage. Validate her
- that shack is a monument to her strength, survival and determination. Do not dismiss it or be in haste to bundle her out of it; show respect
- Ask for forgiveness.
- Ask what you can do to support her. Ask about her dreams, and how you can assist to make it happen
- invite her to come back home. Don't dare force her to your house. Don't trash, dismiss, trivialize her struggle especially that shack
- Everything she's done for herself is greater than any billion dollar worth plan you have for her. Maybe if you respect this fact, she'll be inclined to receive your support
- Good luck
This is too painfull to watch, J from Jamaica.
Nobody is perfect. Only in Africa similar thing happened. Here in US, when similar thing happened, despite the fact that the girl's parents didn't like it. They will support her and after giving birth the girl will go back to school. She can still comes who she wants to be.
Parents should learn from this...dont throw away the child with the birth water..
Pls Chiamaka... This lady is really broken..help to find time to talk to her later.. I trust you, you can do this. God bless you for being used as a vessel. Thanks Furo... Port Harcourt.
This is so sad, may Almighty GOD bless her🙏🏻😭 😢..
Even as am watching am still crying 😭😭😭😭 please no matter what our family those to us we must always remember that family is important
Despite her error, she should have been scolded and never to be pushed away but all the same, it's better late than never.
Some families care more about reputation than life, If men were to carry pregnancy for the women they sleep with every wk a child will be born ,but here acting Jesus as if they are soo righteous, you did not only reject your sister but your nephew/niece ,heartless people who have no regard for life
Getting pregnant and what?
You people are callous. You should know the innocent one get pregnant easily while the smart and the one with experience will never get pregnant.
Ada needs you the most that time or trial.
Please Ada forgive them and pick the pieces of your life together you will surely make in life,amen.
This definitely hit a nerve.... Ada I pray you truly heal from all the trauma you've experienced.
If The Almighty God, the one who created all things should throw us away when we make mistakes, where would we all be? I pray she agrees to go back home, since her brother came to look for her. May God heal her heart.
same God Almighty made a law that children must respect and obey their parents so that their life should be long ✨besides her parents are human and they acted like one 😳so comparing them with GOD is wrong !!
@@royalgold6180but we see God’s children in the bible making mistakes, David, Samson, Solomon, Jacob, Abraham and God did not discard them, we must temper justice with mercy, no one is perfect
@@whiteliberty4492 what mistake did Abraham made? anyway those children of God in the Bible you think they made mistakes showed heart full remorse yet God still punish they ⚠️men are suffering today because of sins from Adam 🚩so the girl is not a victim here ⚠️why did God refused to accept Satan back to Heaven? because pride and ego couldn’t allow Satan to apologize and be remorseful
@@royalgold6180 Father Abraham made many mistakes he married Hagar at the insistence of Sarah because he did not believe God’s promises. He went down into Egypt during a famine when God specifically told him to stay where he was, Abraham took Lot with him when God told him he will give him land, Abraham lied about Sarah not being his wife to Abimelech and got favours as a consequence
Why do many parents choose their pride more than their children? pregnancy comes from God because they are rich people who don't have children. in my opinion, child is blessing.
Am even crying here in Ghana bro. Try to make your sis big happy.
its God comes in a way,being pregnant doesnt mean you can send her away,love her hug her comfort her as a young girl chiamaka good work
Hii wivu ya bahati haitaishia poa atosheke na alichonacho ama atajiroga mwenyewe mtaka vyote hukosa vyote . Bahati kua mtu wakufurahia mafanikio ya wengine sio kila siku ni wewe
😢she is in pain 😔 I can't feel it😢 words can't really explain what she is passing through for now 😢😔I pray may help her to recovers what ever she had lots in hundred fold in Jesus name
After the family traumatising her you think she will be fine just like that? Take her to see a therapist.
she is the one that disappointed her family,shocked them with bad news of pregnancy with thug 🚩pride is what kept her in such condition,why not go back to her family and apologize? since the man has left her ⚠️her condition now is what her family is trying to prevent
@@royalgold6180 will you throw your child away when she disappoint you with pregnancy? Yes, she has made a mistake but doesn't mean the family should also make a mistake. So why are they looking for her if they think what they did was right?
@@Beauty2056 Beauty!! stop encouraging evil ⚠️nobody throw her away, they are just angry that their daughter came home with unwanted pregnancy 👎 of course no parents welcomes that as good news 👉so by trying to ask questions she run out of the house ⚠️is that what you called throwing out? well even if they throw her way because of her mistake,Is she not supposed to come back with sincere apology full of remorse 🥵why not ran to aunties uncles brothers sisters, I mean some relatives pls help me beg my parents to forgive me for my mistake 🌹which parents will not have change of mind? Instead she just proudly move in with a thug and this’s the end 😭so beauty dear sister 🐍zip your mouth if you don’t know what to say
@@royalgold6180 if what the family did was right then why looking for her. With your long essay have have ask that question? The brother said people are saying where she is staying is so disgraceful and he feels uncomfortable about the news he heard. Which means she is not staying with the guy after having miscourage.
@@Beauty2056 yes because the guy left her 😭and because of her stupidity and pride she can’t go back to her family and beg ⚠️prodigal son was pardoned hope you remembered 😳why not go back home as a prodigy daughter 👉that’s what the brother is doing to bring her home
This girl she suffered a lot 😢😢 mothers no one does not make mistake and in life you live once you should have forgive her and give her a second chance my god help her to heel so that she can forgive her family watching from south Africa 🇿🇦
Those wounds will never heal she may show them that she forgiven them but its not possible heal and forget all the situation she passed through😢😢
She so beautiful ❤😢
So painful, Ada please forgive your family, God knows why u are still alive, tears full my eyes
Thanks to Chiamaka and her teams
You just gained a new follower 😢
She is so traumatised with the family's treatment! The only way is to support her emotionally, mentally and financially. She lost her child and no family supported her with her pain! Give Ada time to heal and by God's grace she will return to you all!
Caution: African parents don't throw out your young unmarried daughters when they get pregnant, please! This is the time they need you most, thank you!
This is so emotional, i wept bitterly 😢😢 Yes she made a mistake but her family went to far throwing her out of the house wasn't a good decision everybody makes mistake 😢😢
Please forgive your family 🙏
This is a good show but please improve on the quality of the video recording
I was very touched by her saying even you James.
We cannot make plans for our children. They came to us with divine soul plans. We may not agree with God’s plans for our children, but as parents, we also have a divine responsibility to support them in their life’s goals.
It is this same petting that made her feel she is right for getting pregnant out of wedlock. We don't pray for it but no responsible family would be happy about it.
If she was scolded and thrown out she was supposed to go back and begged her parents using whatever medium was available not to claim rights and be asking whether it is a.crime to get pregnant out of wedlock. Yes it is a crime because it is a sin to start indulging in sexual acts without husnand. What a society!
I am a victim of this situation also but thanks to my mom who stood by me, today things are better
I think sometimes we missed the main point, we said she only got pregnant she didn't commit a crime. But wait, was she pregnant for herself? Where is that guy who said he had loved her and got her pregnant? Why put all the blame on her family? The guy and his family should be responsible for her present state, she also and then her family. Stop blaming her family as if they are the only one to be blamed. Life have many challenges and we will have to face them. Let be careful with our choices.
Exactly
@Chimaka Ugo are you from Amawbia?
Yaaaaaa ccter you're very smart in blue and white
I will never do that to my beloved daughter. I will support and give her the best while staying with me. Don't care about anyone says
Couldn’t hold my tears. Ada, please forgive them so you will heal. The worst is that the so called boyfriend left her to suffer alone. Not even the baby to keep her company and give her some relief. Oh my God, I feel your pain Ada. Still in tears for you. But forgive please.
It's not the all the boyfriend fault. Families should have done better by her. Now her lost have multiplied with the lost of a child . Blame the over righteous parents.
❤ parents stop this nonsense of chasing your girls out when they are pregnant . Thanks my miss pretty for the great job
This beautiful lady has really suffered for her mistakes.. please young lady what they did to you was horrible but please let them take care of you everything will be fine soonest.... it's time to go home, my darling 😢😢😢😢
Chamaka pained me when she expect the greaving lady control herself look the way they want her to be happy and welcome them. If you never greave in your life then don’t expect a smile and laughter greaving and hurt is severe pain that no pain killers can touch only God can heal and restore exercise patience with her seeing her brother is not a joy for her right now
My brother, as much me im concerned more about her safety staying there instead of status. Don't forget she were homeless when she was pushed outside by you. Just thank God that she's still alive and at least make ends meet for her own wellbeing. I thank God for her resilience
If you love her you wouldn't have consiconsidered her lover "a low life." The poor wouldn't like poverty.
Please how can help me to connect to madam chiamaka ugoo please I need his help to fix my relationship please help me
Children make mistakes even adults ,instead of guiding you throw her to the dogs?
True
what remorse did she showed to the family? when they are angry at her about the unwanted pregnancy 😳 the girl supposed to blame nobody for her condition now
Why is he pulling her like that...and chiamaka how can you tell her pull herself together... sometimes i wonder about some people
Probably the same way he put her out of the house. Even now he has no compassion for her.