How To Get Over Break Ups And Failure | David Goggins | Fillip

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  • @FillipMotivation
    @FillipMotivation  Рік тому +80

    Stop Holding on. Get Over It. Stay Hard...

    • @luminex2906
      @luminex2906 7 місяців тому +1

      When you let your insecurities go, you will escape the prison of your mind and be freer than ever before.

  • @travis4308
    @travis4308 6 місяців тому +240

    She watched me crumble to pieces while I tried so hard to keep her and she did nothing. She took my kid, took my happiness, took my hope, took my drive, took all the good stuff. She left the depression, anxiety, stress, life ending thoughts. But here I am listening to the one man that understands how I need to be talked to to get me back up off the ground. LETS GO!!!!!!!!! I’m bout to go lift now. I hope everyone out here that got fucked over by some POS you all are staying strong and moving forward. Love you all out here going through it.

    • @bobdillon3085
      @bobdillon3085 5 місяців тому +4

      You ain’t got time for commenting on UA-cam bro… live in real life

    • @lolopywan
      @lolopywan 5 місяців тому +8

      Let’s go bro💯💪🏻

    • @Bluecollartiki46
      @Bluecollartiki46 5 місяців тому +10

      She was never yours, it was just your turn. Let's go lift weights and thrive

    • @komplizierttv5522
      @komplizierttv5522 5 місяців тому +4

      We love u brother!

    • @tedbachoe4288
      @tedbachoe4288 4 місяці тому +3

      Focus on yourself man time will help a lot !

  • @31IVI3jZ
    @31IVI3jZ 2 місяці тому +26

    12 years and replaced within 4 weeks. Will be the best shape in my life in the next 6 months. Will come back to the comment in 6 months. Started at 295 lbs now at 273 in 6 months will be 220 shredded

  • @ILLRICARDO
    @ILLRICARDO 8 місяців тому +88

    Holding on hurts more than letting go.

  • @JasonSparks-fu3jp
    @JasonSparks-fu3jp 3 місяці тому +17

    I let her live in my head for over a decade while she went on with her life happy with someone else. It's time to let it go!

  • @tylerpace6517
    @tylerpace6517 9 місяців тому +48

    Going through a breakup right now. IMPROVE YOURSELF. I am working out, working on my place. I sing karaoke, working on my song list. Experienced musicians say I am band ready. I have put out feelers. I am also noticing the women that are noticing me.

    • @lolollolol5654
      @lolollolol5654 6 місяців тому

      how did you make the women noticing you? because i am 27 and never really had a serious relationship, i am really successfull at job and degree but i am a completely socially anxious. my biggest fear is dying alone with no family, and every birthday it comes closer i fear. really messes with my head

    • @tylerpace6517
      @tylerpace6517 6 місяців тому +1

      @@lolollolol5654
      If you have money then:
      good haircut
      good clothes
      lift weights, get in shape
      2 days a week for an hour, lift weights
      good car
      good home
      good furniture
      Look up how to talk to women and when you just start to casually talk about yourself, talk about your resources in a casual, non bragging way. Don't be a simp if a woman is good to you, nothing wrong with making her life easier financially. Not in a business manner but in a loving manner.

    • @kylethedalek
      @kylethedalek 5 місяців тому

      @@tylerpace6517I can only lift for 10-15 mins. I get tired fast.

    • @kylethedalek
      @kylethedalek 5 місяців тому

      @@lolollolol5654I’m the same, I’m also not the best looking (going bald and such.)

  • @eddiegooze
    @eddiegooze 6 місяців тому +31

    I watched this 100 times on repeat today to memorize everything he's saying because I got crushed by my GF breaking up with me and I felt like I was lost and had nothing left but now I keep listening to this I am regaining my mental clarity and really learning that it means nothing and I have to move forward and be better than I was when I was with her. Life doesn't just happen for no reason and you have to take control of the situation.

    • @Nobody-pj3bc
      @Nobody-pj3bc 5 місяців тому +1

      stay strong brother 😊

    • @rylenguitton4122
      @rylenguitton4122 5 місяців тому +1

      This shit happened to me too thank god for goggins and his book

    • @matthewmarkham1663
      @matthewmarkham1663 5 місяців тому

      I'm 27 and currently in the exact same as situation as you my friend, been 23 days off nothing but a mental battle but I've learned that letting her hijack my mind and feelings sorry for myself is affecting no one but me.

    • @coolnchilled2456
      @coolnchilled2456 5 місяців тому

      This is true motivation right here. Thx bro

    • @johncee
      @johncee 4 місяці тому

      Keep your head up, my dude.

  • @DEBTFREEMIKE769
    @DEBTFREEMIKE769 7 місяців тому +14

    This hits me at the moment. Girl left me and now I’m trying to press forward. What’s bad is I’m pressing forward, but I still think of her from time to time. Mixed emotions. Seems like it takes a while, but I’ll watch this 1,000 times until I’m better.

    • @caffeineisking8132
      @caffeineisking8132 6 місяців тому +5

      Same boat man 4 years and she left me. It is absolutely destroying me.

    • @eddiegooze
      @eddiegooze 6 місяців тому +4

      Same here man. She broke up with me 2 months ago and is talking to another guy already. Im here thinking about her and having her consume my life for no reason when she gave up on me. Time for all of us to say fuck this and become the best version of ourselves and make them regret leaving us. It takes time but one day you will look back and be like thank god that happened because it made you the man you are that day.

    • @govindbarhey1585
      @govindbarhey1585 Місяць тому

      Same boat. Feel like shit. Can't eat, sleep, function. Watching this video on repeat

  • @SchoolBullyDeEverett
    @SchoolBullyDeEverett 8 місяців тому +15

    “She no lo she’s wants you” hit hard slot

  • @mariobaruncic2811
    @mariobaruncic2811 8 місяців тому +16

    I swear to God, the best video on all of UA-cam. There isn't a day when I don't watch it in the morning, afternoon and evening and take my dose of motivation, faith in a better tomorrow and the reality and truth that this video represents!
    Stay hard motherfuckeerrs!!!

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Рік тому +18

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 427 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessonsÀ we that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @Itsv1098
    @Itsv1098 Рік тому +18

    I love David Goggins

  • @alijahcordova8359
    @alijahcordova8359 11 місяців тому +9

    This is so true never fold never be venerable never give up never stop pushing always adapt always overachieve overcome and embrace difficulty stay focused and eliminate distractions the difficulty is where you grow be different be uncomfortable and be uncommon 💯

    • @jasonsturgeon1252
      @jasonsturgeon1252 10 місяців тому

      This should be interesting I've been fuckin up for 10 years I'm 49 at one time I went from messed up child hood to get into sales and busted my ass to run my own company then I got different dad passed away he wasn't a good father I was diagnosed with bipolar and generalized anxiety now I got health issues and I'm state aid in debt no car no confidence no respect but I'm still breathing

    • @King4Lasta
      @King4Lasta 10 місяців тому

      It’s so hard what do I do I’m 18 I’m successful in my business and it’s going down. I love her so much help

  • @scottsmith4854
    @scottsmith4854 2 місяці тому +3

    Stay hard brothers. Let’s show the people who’ve hurt us what we’re capable of 💪🏼

  • @lolollolol5654
    @lolollolol5654 6 місяців тому +24

    i am 27 and never really had a serious relationship, i am really successfull at job and degree but i am a completely socially anxious. my biggest fear is dying alone with no family, and every birthday it comes closer i fear. really messes with my head

    • @eddiegooze
      @eddiegooze 6 місяців тому +5

      It will come when it's time. Trust me you're not alone. Im in the same boat as you and im 31.

    • @Nobody-pj3bc
      @Nobody-pj3bc 5 місяців тому +2

      28 turning 29 soon brother. I'm with you

    • @NiggahStyler360
      @NiggahStyler360 5 місяців тому

      When youre not looking for it, it will look for you. Been in your shoes. Be your best self, be happy and people will want to be happy with you!

    • @notTheSamePersonAnymore
      @notTheSamePersonAnymore 5 місяців тому

      True woman will come bro

    • @RealBullbear
      @RealBullbear 5 місяців тому +1

      @@eddiegoozeit wont come by itself. He needs to do hobbies like park runs, go to afterworks etc. To beat social anxiety and actually be exposed to women. Im speaking from experience as someone who suffered the same after a 5 year long relationship being isolated for several years after.

  • @vladalx8820
    @vladalx8820 Місяць тому

    Anyone going through tough shit right now, you got this! Stay HARD!

  • @911eVoX
    @911eVoX Рік тому +7

    Great message. On point 100%. Embrace the darkness

  • @bradtoops5108
    @bradtoops5108 4 місяці тому +4

    2mo bender after being fired from my dream job over petty stuff and everyday I let my emotions get the best of me until one day I said I’m done feeling like this. One phone call and working making 5$ an hour more than my dream job was paying. Less stress. Less worry. Less dread. And it’s back to driving tanker semis and big dump trucks which I promised myself I’d never do again because of how much I dislike it after doing it for 18yrs. I’m never content in life, idc if I make a million dollars a year. I learned how to make that mill, now how do I make a million and 1$ a year. Always set goals and push and put in the time and effort to reach them and then set new ones and repeat. Never stop learning, never stop pushing to be the best at whatever company your working for, or whatever position your in, push to be the best and stand out. You will eventually be rewarded.

  • @gentlelife7241
    @gentlelife7241 Місяць тому +1

    I failed in running an army test and had already cleared the exam . But who cares , goggins gives me motivation, what if I can pull this off.

  • @matteoescana4338
    @matteoescana4338 18 днів тому

    After 8 years together she left me just like if it wasn’t nothing to her. She moved on just like that.
    All this motivational video helps me, and helps you, that’s true, but when you unplug your headphones is just you against you. We and you can get over it, get in shape and build yourself in the way you imagine. Do it for you, fuck that bitches bro

  • @pulokahmed4584
    @pulokahmed4584 2 місяці тому +2

    My kamilia has left me. After breaking the relationship of 3 years and 6 months he married someone else without telling me. Now I can't forget him in any way, I quit the gym, quit the bodybuilding life, I cry all the time. How do I get over them?
    July -27, 10:10pm, 2024💔

  • @dayella3113
    @dayella3113 5 місяців тому +7

    I fucked up with some stuff in my life that I could make them right and now I can't forgive myself. I've made some poor decisions and I am paying for it. I'm crying and regretting it why I didn't do it the right way and I just can't move on although it's been done. I can't undo it. I'm just tired and broken mentally, but I know I need to move forward. Sorry! I just needed to write this and get it out of my chest.

    • @MegaTheRollingStones
      @MegaTheRollingStones 4 місяці тому +1

      Same thing, bro. You need to learn from your mistakes, so you wont do them again. That's what they are made for. You did a mistake bc you didn't know how to do something right. Now you know. Everything comes from an expirience and there's nothing wrong in doing something wrong bc you didn't know the right thing to do it.
      You did a mistake --> you learned from your mistake --> you wont do that mistake again --> profit!
      Take your time to heal, analyze your actions, find things you did wrong, learn from your mistakes, and move on when you're ready
      Yes, some little part of regret and selfhate will always live deep inside your heart. But that's okay. Use it as a motivation to better yourself and become a better self

    • @6AM96
      @6AM96 4 місяці тому

      You can move on and you will move on bro. You got this!

    • @dilhancongar-pn1nd
      @dilhancongar-pn1nd Місяць тому

      Most embarrassing comment I’ve ever read.

    • @stefanoquattrini3270
      @stefanoquattrini3270 12 днів тому

      Same man. Regretting our own mistakes, especially if you would do anything to fix them but can't, no matter how bad you want it, is truly mental hell

  • @Lion-qi8ej
    @Lion-qi8ej 2 місяці тому +2

    F’ing LOVE this. All Truth. Say what you want to say about Goggins but this shit makes sense. At least it has for me. Stay hard.

  • @Icekuma23Chen
    @Icekuma23Chen 8 місяців тому +2

    Great vid!

  • @imjoceagirl
    @imjoceagirl Рік тому +8

    Stay hard 🎉

  • @JuseJamez
    @JuseJamez 2 місяці тому +1

    You gotta train… before you can over train… man… I like that…

  • @urfaceistoofunny
    @urfaceistoofunny 2 місяці тому +1

    She said i was a burden to her because of my mental health. I had two hard months. I was good already but just those two months made her say to me. This isn’t worth it.

  • @VOXHUNTING
    @VOXHUNTING Рік тому +10

    Stay hard 💪👍🎉

  • @robertboberson9776
    @robertboberson9776 15 днів тому

    still listen to your body a bit. I was sore and I kept going. now I have a doctors appointment for some shit going on with my feet and it feels like my joints or ligaments are heating up when I walk for 10 minutes

  • @JohnSmith-ql7qg
    @JohnSmith-ql7qg Місяць тому

    I got rejected by my crush of 2 years for 2 times. I got left of delivered for 8 hours and I just figured she doesn’t like me. It hurts like shit, I truly loved her with my heart, she left me with sadness, hopelessness and pain. It’s extremely painful. Like it was some extreme crush that rejected me, I truly liked her. I’m 16.

  • @DavidDavid-m4g
    @DavidDavid-m4g Місяць тому

    Thanks very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @maciej_zieba
    @maciej_zieba 11 місяців тому +7

    I think being single is way more easier...

  • @karinvalle3294
    @karinvalle3294 25 днів тому

    My ex left me after 8 years together he met a girl online faked a work trip. Left for a whole week leaving heartbroken I knew something was wrong that whole week I didn’t know for sure until he came back. On top that later I found out he had stolen my jewelry and some money I had saved in my safety box.

  • @StepSev7en
    @StepSev7en 8 місяців тому +4

    they dont know me son!!!

  • @theethanexperience6097
    @theethanexperience6097 Рік тому +7

    Amazing channel! Pls keep the content coming

  • @rulistening7777
    @rulistening7777 Рік тому +1

    I like the movie
    Little Miss Sunshine.

  • @Martarini
    @Martarini 7 місяців тому +7

    If he loved me, he would've stayed and fought for me.

    • @zero.taiko.3110
      @zero.taiko.3110 7 місяців тому +5

      Did you show equal effort?
      Did you make it worth for him to stay and fight?
      Did you offer him your respect, feminity and care?
      If you did what you had to do then, he doesn't deserve you.
      But if not, own up to yr own actions and reflect upon them.

    • @victoriav6626
      @victoriav6626 3 місяці тому

      We have the people in our lives similar to who we are mentally. And we need to reflect on that

    • @SimplyNow
      @SimplyNow Місяць тому

      I'm in that situation now. She left me, it's not the first time. We managed to get together by my initiation. But last time I always chased her, she didn't give a fuck and blocked me everywhere for no reason. Yes, I love her, but she doesn't show equal effort. She doesnt show me that she loves me and fights for me like I fight for her.
      IT MUST BE EQUAL FIGHT FOR EACH OTHER. Stop playing games. I will move on.

  • @johnsanchez6683
    @johnsanchez6683 2 місяці тому +2

    My high school ex, who I eventually started dating recently, left me again. Men after me took advantage of her, and I felt terrible; when I was in the army from 2019 to 2023, she would reach out to me, wanting to try again, but I couldn't. But after I came back, she sent me inappropriate photos, teasing me and waiting to date again. I felt terrible for her and was angry because she did all that. She played me for a fool like a game. She's childhood friends with my friend, with whom we hang out. We were playing games online recently, and I could hear her phone call through the mic. I asked if my friends listened to that, and they did not. I was the only one who could listen to her with another guy in the military. She had a guy on the side waiting. The sad part is that I felt terrible for her, and she did not care that I felt like this. She broke me badly. I tell my friends, and they have been there for me, and I am grateful, but it goes so far. I needed to hear this.

  • @harshil.pathania
    @harshil.pathania 3 місяці тому +2

    why always women

  • @lifechangingwords7466
    @lifechangingwords7466 2 місяці тому +1

    Yo very powerful motivation! A quick question... check your emails.

  • @adityarajbasistha377
    @adityarajbasistha377 6 місяців тому +2

    I am free!!!

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 Рік тому +1

    What can of fight you want pick with this guy?😂

  • @JDKOLD
    @JDKOLD 17 днів тому

    time 01:26 November 13 2024

  • @mylesc2902
    @mylesc2902 Місяць тому

    She left me for an arranged marriage. Im dead inside

  • @simonkuiyaki5760
    @simonkuiyaki5760 Рік тому +2

    ..🔥😎

  • @Castro0119mc
    @Castro0119mc Рік тому +7

    Bro can you imagine David Goggins talking about Jesus Christ
    That shit would be down right outrageous

  • @Lostandtobefound
    @Lostandtobefound 3 місяці тому

    This was definitely the worst thing to watch. Shane on you, Goggins.