“ DATE ETIQUETTE ” 1952 SOCIAL GUIDANCE / EDUCATIONAL FILM FOR TEENAGERS XD49914

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  • @poetcomic1
    @poetcomic1 Рік тому +86

    When she is showing him her charm bracelet she says "I make a lot of my own jewelry" but the captions for the hearing impaired said "I make a lot of my own children." which I found actually more impressive.

    • @drewconway7135
      @drewconway7135 Рік тому

      Well abortions were harder to come by, back then

    • @poetcomic1
      @poetcomic1 Рік тому +4

      Classic. I have seen some funny CC mistakes but that is well up there.

    • @65gtotrips
      @65gtotrips 8 місяців тому

      That’s sooo funny…yea well the AI butchered that one !

  • @pennypay1
    @pennypay1 Рік тому +29

    That Kay is a swell girl. And Nick, while a bit awkward, is an agreeable and considerate guy. It warmed this middle-aged woman's heart when Nick found out, to his surprised happiness, that Kay liked miniature golf and weenie roasts and scavenger sales as much as he did.

  • @susanortega6666
    @susanortega6666 9 місяців тому +20

    These are great tips! I followed them to the queue. The young lady and I are now best friends and she talks to me about all the other guys she's seeing....

    • @sdkz995
      @sdkz995 8 місяців тому

      If she rejects you, report her for being a communist spy

  • @savafanbryan
    @savafanbryan 4 місяці тому +2

    2:49 I hate those awkward moments of silence when meeting and being around new people. I kind of felt that moment and was glad he came up with a topic to talk about. I love these old informational films. They can really be swell for all age groups and time periods for sure.

  • @manhoot
    @manhoot Рік тому +22

    Love Danny's bow tie.

  • @briancrane7634
    @briancrane7634 Рік тому +13

    memories...nice to remember a time when dating was civilized...I grew up during this time...the govt didn't hesitate to tell young people the 'proper' way to act...not that it worked!...when I was out of high school it was the sixties...you know!...the bomb, hippies, Vietnam, demonstrations, 'free love'...all that. The 'proper' behavior here was pretty much abandoned.

  • @jfiorello68
    @jfiorello68 Рік тому +11

    9:34 starts a second short from 1951 called "What To Do on a Date".

  • @edwardliquorish8540
    @edwardliquorish8540 Рік тому +13

    It all makes sense now. Would like to see the whole series.

  • @Ryzaki961
    @Ryzaki961 Рік тому +19

    This was an amazing was! Times were more simple back in the day!

    • @lilblackduc7312
      @lilblackduc7312 Рік тому +4

      People were more polite & decent to each other...Girls practiced modesty, something unheard of nowadays! 🇺🇸 😎👍☕

    • @gi70st
      @gi70st Рік тому +1

      @@lilblackduc7312 They also had cleaner rooms. Now we have girls taking selfies in front of piles of trash and laundry

    • @RoadRunnergarage8570
      @RoadRunnergarage8570 Рік тому +1

      You got that right . I think I was born about 20 years or so too late....

    • @Deathmastertx
      @Deathmastertx Рік тому +5

      Well, at least it was in the world of Coronet instructional films. They're really quite fascinating in the way they tend to show a very systematised world of social interaction. We mustn't mistake what these instructional videos portray as to what was actually common practice during the period.

    • @lilblackduc7312
      @lilblackduc7312 Рік тому +5

      @@Deathmastertx For the sake of argument, let's say 'Coronet films' set a not-so idealistic standard, compared to what was actually common practice during the period. Now, decades later, where are the videos that set today's standard? Movies & music videos?!?! They're crude, vulgar, lacking any moral compass or modesty. Compared to what Coronet depicted, today's examples are essentially declaring, "Throw the meat on the grill & call out the dogs"!!! Today's "common practice" then, is so vile, it isn't worthy of mentioning here.

  • @bobdobbs9096
    @bobdobbs9096 Рік тому +34

    An appropriate day (Valentine's Day) to upload this. :)

    • @lindathrall5133
      @lindathrall5133 Рік тому +4

      THAT'S A GOOD IDEA

    • @lilblackduc7312
      @lilblackduc7312 Рік тому +3

      Timing is everything! 💖

    • @PeriscopeFilm
      @PeriscopeFilm  Рік тому +10

      @bobdobbs9096 glad you made the connection! We often schedule films of interest on "special" days. Next up -- April 1st stay tuned.

    • @bobdobbs9096
      @bobdobbs9096 Рік тому +2

      @@PeriscopeFilm Figured, & appreciated! It's kind of scary that things like this were made, but that could be said about many of the films in your archive. :)

    • @justinconroy5621
      @justinconroy5621 Рік тому +2

      @@PeriscopeFilm for april fools day

  • @deniseherud
    @deniseherud Рік тому +12

    Wow! These kids had classier, better dates than we do now😳 They were more civilized in that restaurant than the majority of ppl these days.

  • @markreed171
    @markreed171 8 місяців тому +13

    These are truly the best of times. Manners, ettiquette, appropriately dressed.....very nice!! On a side note Danny will not be getting a good night kiss on the first date.
    Then i think to myself gosh.....ive gotten 🧒 on the first date. Jus sayin. Seriously though, this era was priceless!! 😉

    • @SandraNevermind
      @SandraNevermind 2 місяці тому

      Your use of emojis sure is keen! 😂

    • @Lisa59
      @Lisa59 Місяць тому

      Not sure back then was all that different. Not all the kids were that pure 😉😜

  • @eddieafterburner
    @eddieafterburner Рік тому +10

    6:36 I was half expecting Danny to order “a chicken salad sandwich on wheat toast, no butter, no lettuce, no mayonnaise, oh, and hold the chicken … between your knees!”

  • @scratchdog2216
    @scratchdog2216 Рік тому +7

    A first date visit to a bookstore/cafe' for a bit is a great place to learn about each other.

  • @packersnerd
    @packersnerd Рік тому +23

    If only you could use this in modern times… 😢

  • @marie4585
    @marie4585 4 місяці тому +2

    These were times when you dated to get to know someone--- their values, interests, character, etc. focusing on building a real, and deep relationship that would last the test of time. Not dating just to get your rocks off then living together and hoping for the best while you each go on your own selfish ways.

  • @masterbondofox8982
    @masterbondofox8982 Рік тому +4

    The second short had a couple of notable pieces missing. It was edited well enough that they wouldn't have been missed if one wasn't familiar with the short already

  • @65gtotrips
    @65gtotrips 8 місяців тому +7

    I can almost guarantee the teenagers back when this film came out were making fun of it even in the early 1950’s.

  • @justinconroy5621
    @justinconroy5621 Рік тому +3

    thanks for the infomation of the movie glad you like it happy valetines day!

  • @blockcl
    @blockcl Рік тому +18

    Alice and Danny sound more like a contract negotiation than a high school date.

  • @Ltulrich
    @Ltulrich 8 місяців тому +7

    My, how times have changed.

  • @packersnerd
    @packersnerd Рік тому +4

    Great video for Valentine’s Day 😂

  • @lindathrall5133
    @lindathrall5133 Рік тому +31

    MY MOTHER PAID FIFTY CENTS FOR A HAMBURGER

    • @RoadRunnergarage8570
      @RoadRunnergarage8570 Рік тому +1

      Weren't those the days!!

    • @CowSaysMooMoo
      @CowSaysMooMoo Рік тому +1

      @@RoadRunnergarage8570 That's equivelent to 5.60 today....nothings changed.

    • @drewconway7135
      @drewconway7135 Рік тому +1

      OH MY GOD LET’S GO SCREAM ABOUT IT ON THE INTERNET

  • @glennhopkins2643
    @glennhopkins2643 Місяць тому +1

    Ms. Manners would approve of this film.

  • @joeguzman3558
    @joeguzman3558 Рік тому +5

    When getting married really mean getting married Lol

  • @The3GMom
    @The3GMom 3 місяці тому +2

    Alice’s parents should have made Danny feel comfortable not the other way around

  • @johncampbell3735
    @johncampbell3735 8 місяців тому +6

    I just meet the girls at the bedroom window. I make sure the parents fast asleep.

  • @calvinjackson8110
    @calvinjackson8110 4 місяці тому +1

    I was looking at prices on her menu and I just laughed. All 2 digit numbers and you knew they couldn't be in DOLLARS. Then it hits you that when you see the deluxe sandwich priced at "65" that means 65 CENTS!
    Careful you don't want to break the bank!

  • @edasm4113
    @edasm4113 9 місяців тому +3

    Gosh yes! Neat.

  • @lightdark00
    @lightdark00 Рік тому +12

    I have to wonder if there's a Tinder date etiquette video now.

    • @TrapperAaron
      @TrapperAaron Рік тому +5

      There is a video on Tinder dating etiquette. I think it's called "No means NO!"

    • @gi70st
      @gi70st Рік тому

      Yeah, pay the ho when you're done

    • @commentatron
      @commentatron Рік тому +2

      No need, only one rule: don't sleep with your date before the first date.

    • @jacquelynsharp9354
      @jacquelynsharp9354 8 місяців тому +1

      Wouldn't get far bc all guys do these days is use you,want sex once and ghost you,or you get ready for hours only to be outside waiting in hot sun,makeup melting off,expensive perfume wasted no show,no call or text saying why or nothing!!!these days just show an Eileen woros story that's wut us women today are feeling like😡😡😡😡🤡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😠🤡💩💩💩😺

  • @CrodolookslikeFrody
    @CrodolookslikeFrody Місяць тому +1

    This video is so cute

  • @Useryoutube02847
    @Useryoutube02847 4 місяці тому +2

    I can see most Gen z would bomb this advice today.

  • @gabbylopez9091
    @gabbylopez9091 2 місяці тому

    Where's Danny's car? Are they just going to walk there or something? Guys, take note from a woman, we like it when you show up early. It's very appreciated! In my opinion, it shows you're considerate of our time and effort to get ready!

  • @MichaelPowell-yn1dx
    @MichaelPowell-yn1dx 8 місяців тому +3

    I see some of this is outdated but I have used basic rules from this video such as having the masculine lead Etc and Ive never had a bad expirence. Just know what is outdated

  • @bboucharde
    @bboucharde Рік тому +9

    Western civilization values at mid-20th century.

    • @hf15123
      @hf15123 2 місяці тому

      What do you mean?

    • @bboucharde
      @bboucharde 2 місяці тому

      @@hf15123 , Just follow the advice in this film and you will be in good shape.

    • @hf15123
      @hf15123 2 місяці тому +1

      @@bboucharde Ohhh I getcha. Basically be polite, kind and respectful. Its sad that it has to be specified these days.

  • @Nunofurdambiznez
    @Nunofurdambiznez Рік тому +6

    All I have to say is "if ONLY..."

    • @AuroraBoarder1
      @AuroraBoarder1 Рік тому +2

      💯‼️. We could definitely use this today!

  • @michelereid
    @michelereid Рік тому +7

    Wow….to think datings just swipe right & a “you up?” Nowadays 😫😫😫😫

    • @jacquelynsharp9354
      @jacquelynsharp9354 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes!!!im55,white fine polite,dress to the nines only to get no texts til midnight, saying "you up?"or "wyd"stupid sh*t I'm so traumatized by dating site free,trying to get to know a guy asking questions, making polite conversations, and outta nowhere they say something like, do you deep thr**t"?SICK SICK MADDENING 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @michelereid
      @michelereid 8 місяців тому

      @@jacquelynsharp9354 yup…..the worlds a different place now. When I was a teenager…we had to dial home Telephones and speak to our crushes. Texting has changed it all. ☹️☹️☹️☹️

  • @Chernochegger
    @Chernochegger Рік тому +5

    They had to go all in with the milk

  • @janscott602
    @janscott602 9 місяців тому +1

    The meal with drinks was $1.50, so he tipped the waitress a whopping .15 cents.

  • @missdebbie8131
    @missdebbie8131 Рік тому +11

    Oh, now I am feeling nostalgic and I wasn't even born in the 50's. You know what I miss? Good manners. Consideration. Chivalry. Men could be men and women could be ladies and nobody was saying stupid things like "gender is a construct" or " I can order my food! Open my door etc." or " call me by my chosen pronouns". People got way too much time on their hands, and parents who don't want to be bothered. The old days and old ways are the best, especially looking at the sad decay of our country now.

    • @pennypay1
      @pennypay1 Рік тому

      I was born in '71. I feel the same way about the depressing downfall in consideration and chivalry, and I miss the days before all this militant gender/social engineering took hold. I really enjoy these 50s and 40s social guidance films; so many of their messages (should) apply today.

    • @scrateshooter
      @scrateshooter 8 місяців тому

      Remember, current society is what you women wanted.

    • @hf15123
      @hf15123 2 місяці тому

      ​@@scrateshooterBro WHAT? 💀

    • @scrateshooter
      @scrateshooter 2 місяці тому

      @@hf15123
      Are you serious?
      Take a step back and notice who supports:
      Transgenders in sports
      Me-2
      Ubortion
      Letting murderers free
      Communism

  • @blanchiep
    @blanchiep Рік тому +3

    Why do the girls look like they are old enough to be my grandmother?

    • @cynthiahintz1900
      @cynthiahintz1900 Рік тому +2

      I know what you mean ..... hair styles for one

    • @KenKurkowski
      @KenKurkowski 8 місяців тому +2

      @@cynthiahintz1900 Back then short styles were quite popular with young girls, not just with older women.

  • @tookitogo
    @tookitogo Рік тому

    I can’t wait to see what Huggbees creates out of this!

  • @johnnyb3126
    @johnnyb3126 Рік тому +2

    Thing's used to be so simple

    • @calvinjackson8110
      @calvinjackson8110 11 місяців тому +1

      I think that's what I miss the most. The simplicity. Today in 2024 everything is so complicated. There were just things back then you could count on and were fixed. You didn't have to figure out or think twice about. Now everything is questioned and the complexity resulting from trying to accommodate everybody's freedom and "rights". It's not even male or female anymore but you have to include other combinations of the two. CONFUSING.

    • @scrateshooter
      @scrateshooter 8 місяців тому

      ​@@calvinjackson8110
      Things are still simple; if the guy is a 7' tall jacked billionaire.

    • @hf15123
      @hf15123 2 місяці тому

      Yes, things were simpler when women had fewer rights... NOT

  • @cancel1913
    @cancel1913 8 місяців тому +2

    Winnie roast must have been code for another activity back then I suppose.

  • @eddieafterburner
    @eddieafterburner Рік тому +1

    Never did work out with Danny for Alice, but she later met Bob, with whom she went on to invent modern cryptographic protocols and public key encryption.

    • @ghostmanscores1666
      @ghostmanscores1666 Рік тому

      Danny found uranium on his families property and is glad he didn't marry Alice. He is now 87 with a nineteen year old wife.

  • @terrymcnaughton1430
    @terrymcnaughton1430 Рік тому +4

    That was a fun video, thanks 👍

  • @chuckrawlings9518
    @chuckrawlings9518 Рік тому +1

    Unintentional MST3K reference at 5:24

    • @jfiorello68
      @jfiorello68 Рік тому

      MST3K also riffed the second part of this video - it's called "What To Do on a Date." The MST3K episode is 503 with the main movie "Swamp Diamonds."

  • @tookitogo
    @tookitogo Рік тому +2

    I’m pretty sure that a weenie roast and taffy pull are code names for… other stuff. 😂

  • @calvinjackson8110
    @calvinjackson8110 11 місяців тому

    The tip he left was only a few coins!

  • @lightdark00
    @lightdark00 Рік тому +1

    The audio really needed to be cleaned up. 😕

    • @peterparker9286
      @peterparker9286 Рік тому +2

      All these videos are the real deal. Periscope does it that way to Honor the content and Plagiarism of theifs.

    • @PeriscopeFilm
      @PeriscopeFilm  Рік тому +6

      @lightdark00 appreciate the feedback -- but we believe in showing these films to the world pretty much as people experienced them back when they were projected in the classroom. That means we don't digitally enhance picture or audio, unless it's really a total mess. : )

    • @lightdark00
      @lightdark00 Рік тому

      @@PeriscopeFilm I'm doubting the audio was in that shape originally.

    • @wmalden
      @wmalden Рік тому +2

      The audio sounded great to me.

  • @kevincurry4735
    @kevincurry4735 Рік тому +7

    Danny being polite he walked on curbside. That what Alice said to the policeman when the 1948 Red Ford convertible ran over the curb and slam Danny against the White Oak tree injuring him greatly.

  • @hiketas3565
    @hiketas3565 Рік тому

    Are those prices in dollar at the restaurant???

    • @warreneckels4945
      @warreneckels4945 Рік тому +1

      No, they are prices in cents. 100 cents = 1 dollar; 0.01 dollars = 1 cent.

    • @hiketas3565
      @hiketas3565 Рік тому

      @@warreneckels4945 Thank you!

  • @chrishiggens9225
    @chrishiggens9225 Рік тому +9

    Two glasses of milk. I can't imagine teens today ordering that with their meal. The country is hooked on sof
    t drinks and energy drinks. Another reason why kids weren't obese then.

  • @TrapperAaron
    @TrapperAaron Рік тому +4

    Soo what is the tip on a $0.65 hamburger and a $0.40 chicken salad sandwich? Thank you ma'am the meal was excellent here is $0.20 don't spend it all in one place.

    • @edwardliquorish8540
      @edwardliquorish8540 Рік тому +2

      $0.20 would buy a pack of 20 cigarettes and a Choo Choo Bar.

    • @roseary9198
      @roseary9198 Рік тому

      Bout 15¢ based on 15% tip

    • @seaofmadness2622
      @seaofmadness2622 Рік тому

      Also my mom told me that giving one penny along with the tip meant that you got good service while you dined there

    • @drewconway7135
      @drewconway7135 Рік тому

      @@roseary9198Closer to 20¢ once you add the two glasses of milk

  • @Discopuss
    @Discopuss Рік тому +2

    This is way before my time, when there was a basic expectation of propriety between men and women. The whole point was to determine overall compatibility, and it seems far less "transactional." Of course, roles were very different, and I'm talking from a guy's perspective.
    When I was actively dating in the 90's and 00's, I noticed a lot of women had some kind of "victim" story about how horrible her ex treated her. How unhappy she was and all her life problems. LOL, not attractive on a first date! Then, if you didn't want to date them again, you became the next problem guy.
    These days, I can't imagine what younger guys go through.

  • @MadawaskaObservatory
    @MadawaskaObservatory 7 місяців тому +4

    this doesn't feel realistic.

  • @drdean9913
    @drdean9913 Рік тому +4

    20-year-old Carol Burnett

  • @brianl0604
    @brianl0604 Рік тому +5

    Danny can do better. Just sayin'.

  • @wmalden
    @wmalden Рік тому +10

    No kiss on the first date? Today, sex on a first date is the norm.

    • @williamv.v.3706
      @williamv.v.3706 Рік тому

      I wish loll

    • @AuroraBoarder1
      @AuroraBoarder1 Рік тому +1

      Right. And look at the results!

    • @warreneckels4945
      @warreneckels4945 Рік тому +5

      I always thought it was no sex until the third date unless you were promiscuous by 1980s standards. Now it's probably safer to wait until you're actually married. Amazing how what's old becomes new again.

    • @tookitogo
      @tookitogo Рік тому +2

      Yet the data shows that the actual percentage of teen sexual activity has gone down significantly (from 48% to 40% from 2007 to 2017, for example, for the percentage of high schoolers who have ever had sex at all). Teen pregnancy is down. All the signs point towards todays kids being _more_ responsible, not less!!!
      The only thing that has gone down is the age at first intercourse. But that aligns with many other aspects of adolescence that are occurring faster, including physical development.

  • @HuskerHank4866
    @HuskerHank4866 Рік тому +2

    And nobody had a clue on sex ed. Whoops...I thought only bad girls got pg and I'm a good girl so WTF? And just in case I gave myself a cocoa douche at the drive in.....

    • @AuroraBoarder1
      @AuroraBoarder1 Рік тому +1

      They were VERY knowledgeable about sex. That's why they had a healthy respect for it.

  • @TheGlenn8
    @TheGlenn8 Рік тому

    Today we just clap our asses on Tinder. Much easier.

  • @jacquelynsharp9354
    @jacquelynsharp9354 8 місяців тому +2

    Im55 fine wish i could go on a real date,minus all vulgarity and constant sex talk,jokes,innuendo

  • @brianarbenz1329
    @brianarbenz1329 Рік тому +2

    Some good basic advice about social communication in this,. But ordering to the girl's food as well as your own. Yeech! The dark ages.

  • @johnrudy9404
    @johnrudy9404 Рік тому

    The bow tie. Making guys look like dweebs since forever. Danny is a bit slow...

  • @bardo0007
    @bardo0007 Рік тому +3

    This educational movie could not be made in 2023. Too many genders. You need to include everyone today or else social media will not leave you alone.,

  • @SGTDuckButter
    @SGTDuckButter Рік тому +8

    Did Danny score? Nah, Danny’s a closeted homosexual.

    • @lightdark00
      @lightdark00 Рік тому +5

      Third date or later if he wanted to marry her.

    • @TrapperAaron
      @TrapperAaron Рік тому +4

      Lol right on it was 1952 America. They used to call themselves bachelor's. If u weren't married w 3 kids by 21 people got really suspicious.

    • @billhuber2964
      @billhuber2964 Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kevincurry4735
      @kevincurry4735 Рік тому +1

      😀😆😂🤣

    • @AuroraBoarder1
      @AuroraBoarder1 Рік тому +1

      I suppose producing a population of feral illegitimate brats is better than practicing self control and truly caring about your date.

  • @thewkovacs316
    @thewkovacs316 Рік тому

    CONFORM

    • @jamestiscareno4387
      @jamestiscareno4387 Рік тому +3

      Conform ? Everyone should practice good manners. What's wrong with being a gentleman ? Why wouldn't you want to be well mannered ?

  • @IndebtedPleb
    @IndebtedPleb Рік тому +5

    And now women have slept with 10 guys before their first date

    • @meganghost7206
      @meganghost7206 Рік тому +3

      Sounds like guys do that a lot too now off days but men only care about purity culture as it pertains to woman but can not fathom holding themselves to the same standards

    • @IndebtedPleb
      @IndebtedPleb Рік тому +1

      @@meganghost7206 i hold myself to that standard. Only interested in serious relationships. Hookups for me is disgusting

    • @carissimealfante9168
      @carissimealfante9168 5 місяців тому

      ​@@meganghost7206LOL PERIODT

  • @dotell3359
    @dotell3359 Рік тому +25

    Wow 😳 sixty five cents for a hamburger deluxe. Today your lucky to get away with twenty dollars.

    • @lightdark00
      @lightdark00 Рік тому

      Thanks to the federal reserve removing the value of our money. 💫

    • @jamesTBurke
      @jamesTBurke Рік тому +3

      I pay 20 bucks just to feed myself

    • @BeingFireRetardant
      @BeingFireRetardant Рік тому +1

      Came here for this, lol.

    • @AuroraBoarder1
      @AuroraBoarder1 Рік тому +3

      True, but what was minimum wage in those days?

    • @brianarbenz1329
      @brianarbenz1329 Рік тому +3

      @@AuroraBoarder1 That's the part all these nostalgia buffs don't want to hear.