I had some things to get off my chest in this new video, this was a pretty terrible experience but I hope you guys can take something useful from watching it. Never let anyone overstep your own boundaries :)
Dude i live in the us in kentucky and ive had hundreds of terrible dates. I dont understand why its so hard to find a monogamous guy who isnt going to leave the moment you are anything but normal. Also i aint a super dry texter. I try to keep it going and playful but over here where i live apparently they dont care lol. They just want whats in your pants over here its so annoying. I hope your next dates go a LOT better.
i'm really sorry to hear that your first date went so poorly. you deserve so much better than that! don't let one bad experience get you down-you're awesome, and there are plenty of people out there who will see that. onto bigger and better things! ♡
omg are you okay. this is actually terrible!!! you have a very kind presence & online dating can be so so so rough (on hinge too😭)!!! i feel like people can sense when you’re genuinely nice and try to take advantage of it which sucks. i’m so sorry you had this experience but good for you for setting your boundaries!!! like yup‼️
I'm fine now, thank you! Thanks so much for your kind words! Literally it is just a massive reminder that there are horrible people out there. But ye I'm just gonna take this as a learning experience and move on 😌
omg no way, people are this evil ? props to you for setting boundaries, don't let this get you down-there are so, so many amazing ppl out there !! also, you totally deserve to find someone who values and treats you right. hope you're all good :3
Im gonna make a separate comment now that i actually got to finish and rewatch the video. That dude was such a terrible person like genuinely. It explains a lot as to why hes single lol. I dont think he could go on a date with anyone that wasnt as evil as he was or worse without them never seeing him again. I hope you blocked him seriously you never know with these people. Also thank you to your mother for being there for you and making sure you were safe as well as the stranger on the bus for his kind words. As for my own kind words i might have a lot of them tbh. All i can really say is dont give up regardless of who you meet or how they treat you at any point of the dating or relationship process. I know that is much easier said than done but as one gay man to another who is looking for something genuine and a little bit more slow- its going to be REALLY important to remember that and not let people shake your want for a genuine relationship. A lot of people will (hopefully not this bad) be total flops and be mean and evil and i do feel like their goal is to dishearten you so you are more receptive to them and what they want. Manipulation if you will. Just stay strong max. If i had met you organically as a friend i would have you put me on speed dial so i could come pick you up if this ever happened again. But dont give up. Its been 3 years of complete ghosting and belittlement and manipulation for me but even when you feel like you shouldve found someone by now- you must still carry on that wish and that hope and drive that you WILL find someone someday- because you WILL find someone and they will be a right match for you. And even if you dont find them within a long span like me- its a good learning experience for your next dates which makes it easier to connect with that right person and potentially not miscommunicate or mis-express yourself and potentially ruin something great without meaning to. Obviously i dont mean learning in a bad way just learning how you work and your preferences and boundaries (even ones you may not think of). Stay strong Max and thank you for sharing.
Ahh thanks so much for sharing this! This is so valid tho, experiences within the gay world can feel so isolating and negative but we can only hope to find a good match out there. We just have to get through the flops of the world aha😭I wish you luck with that! And thank you again for sharing your own wisdom, it's so appreciated!!
Wow, this person sounds like he has some serious attachment issues :( some people need professional help before getting into a relationship. Not respecting your boundaries is so not okay tho. Hope you’re well x
I had some things to get off my chest in this new video, this was a pretty terrible experience but I hope you guys can take something useful from watching it. Never let anyone overstep your own boundaries :)
Dude i live in the us in kentucky and ive had hundreds of terrible dates. I dont understand why its so hard to find a monogamous guy who isnt going to leave the moment you are anything but normal.
Also i aint a super dry texter. I try to keep it going and playful but over here where i live apparently they dont care lol. They just want whats in your pants over here its so annoying. I hope your next dates go a LOT better.
i'm really sorry to hear that your first date went so poorly. you deserve so much better than that! don't let one bad experience get you down-you're awesome, and there are plenty of people out there who will see that. onto bigger and better things! ♡
Thank u for the support, I appreciate that sm! Exactly, I'm just gonna move on from this now😌
omg are you okay. this is actually terrible!!! you have a very kind presence & online dating can be so so so rough (on hinge too😭)!!! i feel like people can sense when you’re genuinely nice and try to take advantage of it which sucks. i’m so sorry you had this experience but good for you for setting your boundaries!!! like yup‼️
I'm fine now, thank you! Thanks so much for your kind words! Literally it is just a massive reminder that there are horrible people out there. But ye I'm just gonna take this as a learning experience and move on 😌
Love your style/ loved this video❤❤❤
Thank you!!
omg no way, people are this evil ? props to you for setting boundaries, don't let this get you down-there are so, so many amazing ppl out there !! also, you totally deserve to find someone who values and treats you right. hope you're all good :3
I know right, it's so weird. I'm doing good, thanks so much! I really appreciate your kind words :)
Im gonna make a separate comment now that i actually got to finish and rewatch the video.
That dude was such a terrible person like genuinely. It explains a lot as to why hes single lol. I dont think he could go on a date with anyone that wasnt as evil as he was or worse without them never seeing him again. I hope you blocked him seriously you never know with these people. Also thank you to your mother for being there for you and making sure you were safe as well as the stranger on the bus for his kind words.
As for my own kind words i might have a lot of them tbh. All i can really say is dont give up regardless of who you meet or how they treat you at any point of the dating or relationship process. I know that is much easier said than done but as one gay man to another who is looking for something genuine and a little bit more slow- its going to be REALLY important to remember that and not let people shake your want for a genuine relationship. A lot of people will (hopefully not this bad) be total flops and be mean and evil and i do feel like their goal is to dishearten you so you are more receptive to them and what they want. Manipulation if you will.
Just stay strong max. If i had met you organically as a friend i would have you put me on speed dial so i could come pick you up if this ever happened again.
But dont give up. Its been 3 years of complete ghosting and belittlement and manipulation for me but even when you feel like you shouldve found someone by now- you must still carry on that wish and that hope and drive that you WILL find someone someday- because you WILL find someone and they will be a right match for you. And even if you dont find them within a long span like me- its a good learning experience for your next dates which makes it easier to connect with that right person and potentially not miscommunicate or mis-express yourself and potentially ruin something great without meaning to. Obviously i dont mean learning in a bad way just learning how you work and your preferences and boundaries (even ones you may not think of). Stay strong Max and thank you for sharing.
Ahh thanks so much for sharing this! This is so valid tho, experiences within the gay world can feel so isolating and negative but we can only hope to find a good match out there. We just have to get through the flops of the world aha😭I wish you luck with that! And thank you again for sharing your own wisdom, it's so appreciated!!
I miss your videos. I hope you doing ok there☺️
I'm all good thank you! I'll be back very soon, just been busy lately :)
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Wow, this person sounds like he has some serious attachment issues :( some people need professional help before getting into a relationship. Not respecting your boundaries is so not okay tho. Hope you’re well x
I'm doing good, thanks! That's so true, professional help is important in these situations