She's recognized something that she and her generation now do, that older generations do not. Now she can improve her speaking skills. Like...Good for her...
This is not about speakint skills. Languages are getting extremely simple, because majority of people are just typing stuff on their phones and everybody secretly hates the shit out of writing on their phones and people aren't focused on the language but on an efficacy of their expression - the shorter the better.
A sign of intelligence doesn't equate to actually being considered intelligent, it's a start though. Working on oneself and correcting the issue, now that is. Hope she does it.
Yeah she realized her flaw of being stupid. Stupid people are capable of realizing things. It doesn't mean she's now smart. All of you are actually proving you have the same level of intellect.
I agree, this doesn't mean she's stupid at all... it does however give us an insight to that guys character and mentally who is calling her stupid though..
if she’s continues being an intersectional feminist but improves her vocabulary, she’s still stupid, unfortunately. but yes, it is a good realization on her part, could be a “eureka” moment that leads her to stop being an intersectional feminist. we can hope!
Not being able to form a complete sentence in your mind before you speak is a bigger sign of the opposite.... It means she has no control and doesn't think before she opens that hole
@@vonsanson3120I guess you're the typical Murican that thinks YT is only in the states XD. No I'm not, I'm not even an American. :o I know! It's shocking! You can tell by the fact that I can think for myself instead of being A sheep and being lead into hating on my fellow countryman by a 3rd 21st chromosome 2 party system. Next time say "Behhhhhh" a little louder XD
Right? I like that she recognizes it. She's aware of this issue and seems as though she genuinely wants to correct it. That doesn't make her stupid. I think Benny may have been a little harsh here.
@@jacobhartman1091 I don't think Benny boy even watches his own videos. Because what he says has usually very little to do with the video. Not long ago he posted video of epic libs getting owned and it was about dudes opening a restaurant.
I wouldn’t call her stupid at all. She’s actually more self-aware than 90% of the other people in my generation. None of the rest of us are thinking about filler words, we’re way too busy shrieking about ‘decolonization’ and who’s an whatever-ist or whoever-phobic right now on social media 🙄
Calling her stupid for recognizing that she uses filler words only makes you look like a bully. You should be ashamed of yourself. You’re a grown man, do better.
@@billg7813 if that’s how you feel then that’s valid, but it doesn’t negate the point being made in my original comment. I gave a measured criticism of someone directing digital hate at a woman who’s analyzing her own behaviors and habits, a video he intentionally titled “The Exact Moment She Realizes She’s Stupid.” The woeful lack of self awareness, to call someone stupid when they are implementing skills that we intelligent human beings have used for ages would make a wonderful foundation for firing off all sorts of insults yet I didn’t. He could have made the same choice I did and offered genuine criticism. Instead he chose to belittle another person, and he is in fact a grown man who is capable of doing better. Lastly, was your comment meant to be a quote of some kind? Or was it a genuinely original thought? Because it actually would make a great quote.
@@safffff1000that's a really good point, because young people want to be accepted by their peer group, even if it means looking stupid. Honestly, I don't think she's stupid, because she is showing insight, and she has awareness of her bad habits.
Yeah the problem is even though feminists realize something, it doesn't necessarily mean they will follow through with it to their promises or try to make a change. Realizing it is just half the battle
What’s funny is she uses a filler word in her statement about individuals over the age of 50. “That,” is a filler word. You can remove it 99% of the time it’s used.
Maybe in a couple more decades. This is a habit that we are supposed to drop as kids when our vocabulary grows. However, women went to work and there was an immediate lack of parenting. This problem manifested almost immediately.
I read somewhere that people use filler words as a way of softening what they’re saying so as to not offend the listener. In line with this reasoning, I have a gifted iq, but low confidence, so I notice that I tend to use them as a means of hedging.
Meeting some American tourist really made me realize that my English is way more fluent and articulate then many of the native speakers I've encountered. It is an advantage now days, because I never visited the US, I never got conditioned by their speech habits :D
@@BatkoBrat I travel about the planet, and I’m here to tell you that these deplorable habits are spreading faster than one would care to even imagine. Sad, really, because the speakers/users of “like” rarely hear it as it flies from their pieholes, so insidiously ingrained has it become.
@@bearvonsteuben9675 Are you saying that more and more non-native speakers are adopting this habit? That is sad, indeed. Sounds like a pandemic of Tourette's syndrome
@@BatkoBrat I agree with your characterization, and I am indeed saying that. In the States, it seems to have infected two generations, while elsewhere it seems to be rampant only in the kids.
Before the likes, it was and,um and ah.... if u want to see how bad you are, join toastmasters... u will learn all your flaws... my stepson was making fun of me because i didnt know what he was saying... sounded like eubonics, a "language" they tried to make equal to english instead of the mangling of english... i told him it was his job to learn to talk english, not gutter wanky 😅
😂 can't help joking about what she caught and can't call her stupid for pointing it out and trying to change the way she speaks um like she's on to something. 😂😂😂
I wouldn't attribute this to stupidity. She has acknowledged it, and the filler words have become almost an accent unto their own with the younger generation. Good on her for trying to dump the filler words.
Hi from Great Britain, I've noticed alot of black Americans say " do you know what I mean" every few seconds ? Do they realise they keep asking the same questions ???? They need to listen to themselves 😅
I'm happy to come to the comment section and see people applauding her for gaining some self-awareness and wanting to make a change. This leads to her then understanding the definitions of the words that are casually thrown around, and will then change her views accordingly.
@@ianswift3521 I don't think that is how brainwashing works. These younger people today are constantly bombarded with influencers and propaganda. It's apart of the plan that they talk like that.
Actually, Benny, you're wrong on this one. She's finally realizing how indoctrinated she's been and seems to be making an effort to remedy that. At least she's aware, which ISN'T stupid, and recognizing it's a problem for her. Good for her.
If all it takes to make one smart is to realize one's mistake , which is usually half the battle, then yeah, that's smart. I agree with mimi's point but ....they got a lot of catching up to do.
@@dominusstyxeh, we all get it wrong sometimes. A big pitfall for political influencers is going through content too quickly with judgment, that they miss what’s actually good about it.
Totally agree, props to her for being able to see her own behavior from a constructive perspective and choosing to improve herself. It’s exactly the kind of attitude that all young people should have.
She formed the habit while attempting to fit in with, and be accepted by stupid people. She has no intention to stop as long as she’s given positive attention by her peer group et al.
So if someone realizes that they have a problem, and wants to acknowledge it and improve upon it, then they are stupid? I don’t think she’s stupid. I think it’s human nature to fill in paused silences, when we are thinking and trying to form our next thought and/or sentence. She recognizes that she has a shortcoming and wants to improve upon it. That isn’t stupid.
She was baby sat in school, older people were educated. America churns out idiots so the population is easier to control. It has been working REALLY well for them.
I think she’s being a bit harsh on herself tbh… I remember being a teenager & using swear words in every sentence as fillers, verbs etc… like ‘fucking hell I went to the fucking car wash the other day & the price had gone up 30 fucking percent! Seriously what the fuck are they using liquid gold? Fuck that’… you realise how cringe & alienating it sounds to people outside your bubble & grow out of it.
Stupid would be if she was oblivious to her own actions while criticizing others. She's aware that she has an issue, along with her entire generation, and she's at least trying.
As a dyslexic person this is hard wired into me but I don't say like all the time, it's more so a uuuhhh instead since my mind runs faster or just goes blank instead and time the information that my mind sends to my mouth it doesn't know what to do 😂
I think the fact that she understands this is a bit of an issue is fantastic. She’s conscious of it, and that’s great. I wish this young lady the best.
Not 'Hate' as much as *frustrated* by the irony that our leaders are chosen by these wonderful people and look where we are now. And in addition to that there's the fact that it's deliberately counterproductive.
@@bertkilborne6464 there's been trans people around for a long time, the world hasn't ended. You guys are just easily offended, snowflakes basically. It reminds me of a guy I knew at school who way overreacted if you called him gay. People would do it just to get a reaction. That's what the entire Trump clan is like. It's like they are so insecure inside they have to overreact to trans people to prove they are a man.
Agreed. I don't understand why he's using his platform to shame someone who is publicly acknowledging an area they need to work on. She's not stupid. Also, in her defense, and in the defense of others who use filler words, it can also be a sign of high stress and anxiety. Rapid speech is also a design. What if we, horror of horrors, just showed each other grace and kindness? Why do so many people feel the need to be superior to others in some way? 🤦♀️ Anyway, sufficient to say, I agree with your statement. I'll get off my soap box now 😂
Yes I don't think she stupid. People learn from their environment sometimes obviously she is talking like the majority op people her age. Now she can work on it
Fact check from a conservative non academically smart person: People can be very intelligent with common sense (such as myself) but not have book smarts/ perfect communication skills. Lots of people who use filler words have low self esteem, but not always. We are not all cookie cutter human beings and we all don't fit the same mold. If you're so quick to say someone is stupid because of the way they talk, maybe you should look in the mirror at the person with the real problem....very shallow thinking 🤔
Thanks! Someone said what I was thinking. She actually called herself out on what she perceives to be something problematic…so why is Benny trashing her and Click baiting us by labeling her an intersectional feminist?!?! 😮🤦♀️🤡
@@who399how does using filler words make her stupid exactly? Its a generational habit. Its like old people watching the weather channel when they could just download an app that tells them instantly. Its just a learned behaviour, and on top of that, she recognizes it as undesirable and is trying to change it, but slips up, as one does when trying to drop a bad habit.
Low vocabulary in a language its associate with illiteracy (it happens in all the languages btw ). Being aware of the repetition and not being able to fix it makes her close to Stupid. Neuro linguistic programming (NLP), approach this issue and point out How Important is to speak right. Defending or justifying stupidity only will make it worse, you can tell the embarrassment in her face.
Calling someone "really stupid" who has become aware of their own negative behaviour and is endeavouring to change it, is something only a "really stupid" person would do.
She is NOT stupid. She has waken up and start to realize things about herself she would like to change. This is a sign of maturity and intelligence. Go for it, young lady. 😊
Great hah! I am 33 years old , when I was a teenager the usage of "like", "and", "umm", "but" where started to be used a lot more often. So at least in the County where I went to school at. The teachers n all the schools started targeting this and it worked! Me and most my friends got corrected and we do not speak like that at all. Also worked on us w/ public speaking.
It’s almost as if she doesn’t think before she speaks! Imagine spelling your own name wrong while making a video about not being able to spell your name correctly. 😂
@Darksphere101 You can almost tell by the way this guy is talking, he goes real quiet for the word 'stupid', it lacked all the confidence of every other word he said, like he knew it was a joke or something..
I remember when I was in my 20’s, I learned how to speak without using the filler words and to speak more fluidly so your mind can think to say the next word rather than trying to throw in like, um, you know, uhh. Focusing on the next word rather than the filler word regulates your mind to connect to the next word. Very powerful especially in the work environment
if she’s continues being an intersectional feminist but improves her vocabulary, she’s still stupid, unfortunately. but yes, it is a good realization on her part, could be a “eureka” moment that leads her to stop being an intersectional feminist. we can hope!
Come on, Benny. Look up the difference between ignorant and stupid. If you don’t know something, you’re ignorant. If you either do know the truth and refuse the facts, or are ignorant and refuse to go beyond that point, you’re stupid. This young lady isn’t stupid.
If she were ignorant she wouldn't have recognized a problem. She acknowledges that she constantly uses stupid filler words, decided to make a video pointing it out, and then repeatedly uses the stupid filler words in the video, it's a literal exercise in stupidity. Furthermore, aren't leftists the ones that try to control what words people can say? Benny pointing out that someone is acting stupid isn't the end of the world, perhaps she'll realize how stupid she sounds and seek to broaden her vocabulary so as to sound more intelligent in the future.
Guess we found the group of Karen’s… your definition and explanation is wrong. She is aware (knows something) and it doesn’t sound like she was convinced enough to stop and maybe she was even trying. So she’s not ignorant (by your definition) so yeah, she is probably a little stupid on her way out hopefully. 🤞 goodnight Karens.
And yeah that entire generation declares themselves “feminists” so the odds are in Benny’s favor. He probably (maybe) looked her up before posting…? I didn’t im just assuming the odds and she didnt say anything to convince me otherwise. Sucks to be lumped into that generation.
@@stefanieark why would I have to remove a common word? I know how to use words without repeating them over and over. Idk if the schooling was better back then, but I’m 34 and it’s pretty easy for me to sound intelligent when I want to. Luckily I will never have this problem. I was taught well. My words do not control me. I control my words.
@@SugiesCookies Have you ever tried starting a new habit? As in, you did not have the habit on monday, but pn tuesday it was fully incoorprated. That is what she is struggling with, making a new habit, its not done in 2 seconds. Takes weeks actually, sometimes longer.
Pretty stupid to call someone stupid for having self-awareness… this one was a loss on your part Benny. Also I didn’t hear her say anything feminist. She’s pointing out a generational degradation and I applaud that. Let’s be kind to people who can admit their own flaws. 🧐
Benny is a turd. All talk no action. He should go learn a trade or some skill that actually makes him a contributing member of society instead of being a useless mouthpiece who never actually accomplishes anything.
When my daughter was 12 or 13 I noticed she was saying “like” a ton. I figured that it stems from trying to talk while you’re still thinking about what you want to say. So, I told her to think about what she wanted to say BEFORE she spoke, not while she was speaking. Practically cured it instantly.
@@jonahzablow2132, they're just basically teaching them how to pass a test instead of teaching skills and knowledge needed to survive after high school. I have relatives who are or were teachers and I've heard plenty of stories.
Yes. Also females need males in their lives to guide and protect them including telling them when theyre wrong if necessary... ...not strange dudes online trying to publicly humiliate them like this sarcastic little feminine dweeb, who would never say any of this to any female's face. He's a "yes dear, whatever you say dear" kind of guy, but tries to act like a tough red pilled guy online
Why are you repeating the same "self sware" comment that has already been said over and over and over again? It's weird. You're not adding anything new or original just copying what you've read in the comments. Lol
@@chedderz66eh its fine. They wanna make the comment section more visible for Benny so he knows he was out of line. The more people agree the more Benny will see.
Benny, she is not stupid. I applaud her for recognizing what her generation is doing and she is trying to rectify it. We should all be encouraging her.
It doesn't and shouldn't take a genius to realize speaking flaws when the words are coming out of your own mouth. It's good that she acknowledges it, but it doesn't mean she still isn't stupid. You cannot judge her intelligence on this either way.
The very fact that she recognizes this shows that she is very intelligent. The first step in changing something is to recognize the problem. Most can't see it or don't care to.
I don't see that she's stupid at all 🤷♀️ She's found a problem and has acknowledged it, and now wishes to address it. Isn't that what you want more young Americans to do? And also....where did the "intersectional feminist" thing come from?
*So is she going to have an epiphany that she's trying to only date and mate with the wrong males, and that she should caution the majority of the rest of women not to make that same mistake?* *Probably not.*
Dude Benny is 100% whack here What even is this short? He’s had a lot of misses lately and nonstop clickbait video titles, and I like the guy but f this vid
I agree with the rest of the comment section Benny. This girl actually realized what she is doing and started to try to correct it during the video. We should be supportive of her for doing that instead of just calling her stupid. Remember Benny, the first step in changing is realizing you have a problem. She has realized she has a problem in how she talks. Let's encourage her to become better.
Low vocabulary in a language its associate with illiteracy (it happens in all the languages btw ). Introspective?, Being aware of the repetition and not being able to fix it makes her close to Stupid. Neuro linguistic programming (NLP), approach this issue and point out How Important is to speak right. Defending or justifying stupidity only will make it worse, you can tell the embarrassment in her face. Are you really calling out her stupidity as Intelligence?
@@andrinjohn3449”I think” means “I believe this to be the case” in this context. That’s not filler at all. If you’re gonna be an ass, at least be correct
She's recognized something that she and her generation now do, that older generations do not. Now she can improve her speaking skills. Like...Good for her...
So effin true man
Um ok
Well, like duh!
This is not about speakint skills. Languages are getting extremely simple, because majority of people are just typing stuff on their phones and everybody secretly hates the shit out of writing on their phones and people aren't focused on the language but on an efficacy of their expression - the shorter the better.
K boomer@@HanginInSF
She is not stupid, realizing your flaws is a sign of intelligence. Hopefully she works on it.
Never happened
I have hope for this one. Not only is there self awareness but she's triggering others to see the same in themselves.
A sign of intelligence doesn't equate to actually being considered intelligent, it's a start though. Working on oneself and correcting the issue, now that is. Hope she does it.
Yeah she realized her flaw of being stupid. Stupid people are capable of realizing things. It doesn't mean she's now smart. All of you are actually proving you have the same level of intellect.
100% she will, it is so embarrasing and you can see her realization every time.
She’s not stupid. She’s realised what’s going on and she’s working on it. I wish her the best.
Spot on!!
I agree, this doesn't mean she's stupid at all... it does however give us an insight to that guys character and mentally who is calling her stupid though..
I'm old enough to be her grandmother, and when I was young I used a lot of "filler" words too. However, I got over it somewhere along the way.
Exactly. Was thinking that too. She’s aware of it at least.
if she’s continues being an intersectional feminist but improves her vocabulary, she’s still stupid, unfortunately. but yes, it is a good realization on her part, could be a “eureka” moment that leads her to stop being an intersectional feminist. we can hope!
She's not stupid. She's smart enough to develop self-awareness.
Self-awareness is actually a sign of intelligence. BRAVO
You can't change the problem til you realize it's a problem.
I agree & we're absolutely right. 🕊💜💫
Not being able to form a complete sentence in your mind before you speak is a bigger sign of the opposite....
It means she has no control and doesn't think before she opens that hole
@@StMargorach so I take it you are not a Biden supporter?
@@vonsanson3120I guess you're the typical Murican that thinks YT is only in the states XD.
No I'm not, I'm not even an American. :o
I know! It's shocking!
You can tell by the fact that I can think for myself instead of being A sheep and being lead into hating on my fellow countryman by a 3rd 21st chromosome 2 party system.
Next time say "Behhhhhh" a little louder XD
She’s one of the few that has recognized it
Right? I like that she recognizes it. She's aware of this issue and seems as though she genuinely wants to correct it. That doesn't make her stupid. I think Benny may have been a little harsh here.
I recognize it I just don't know how to correct it sometimes
Like, i don't get what's wrong with it.
Brought to them by Hollyweird & music & a generation of affirmative action teaching programs.
@@jacobhartman1091 I don't think Benny boy even watches his own videos. Because what he says has usually very little to do with the video.
Not long ago he posted video of epic libs getting owned and it was about dudes opening a restaurant.
I wouldn’t call her stupid at all. She’s actually more self-aware than 90% of the other people in my generation. None of the rest of us are thinking about filler words, we’re way too busy shrieking about ‘decolonization’ and who’s an whatever-ist or whoever-phobic right now on social media 🙄
like like uh um heh uh like lol like u
eh uh ah oh ey
She has been saturated in this her entire life. Noticing is the beginning
Amen. She’s not stupid. It’s how we have been programmed.
I agree. Awareness of a problem is the first step to fixing the problem. At least she's recognizing how she may be perceived poorly
Using the word 😢"Like" in every sentence was accepted by educators, parents, and religious leaders.
So, what else do you expect????? 😮
Calling her stupid for recognizing that she uses filler words only makes you look like a bully. You should be ashamed of yourself. You’re a grown man, do better.
Joey would be proud!!!
Everything you said after the word “bully” makes you look like a bully
@@billg7813 if that’s how you feel then that’s valid, but it doesn’t negate the point being made in my original comment. I gave a measured criticism of someone directing digital hate at a woman who’s analyzing her own behaviors and habits, a video he intentionally titled “The Exact Moment She Realizes She’s Stupid.”
The woeful lack of self awareness, to call someone stupid when they are implementing skills that we intelligent human beings have used for ages would make a wonderful foundation for firing off all sorts of insults yet I didn’t.
He could have made the same choice I did and offered genuine criticism. Instead he chose to belittle another person, and he is in fact a grown man who is capable of doing better.
Lastly, was your comment meant to be a quote of some kind? Or was it a genuinely original thought? Because it actually would make a great quote.
@@censheard7019 The world works by its own set of rules. It’s not dependent on your thoughts and values. It’s narcissism to think differently.
@@billg7813 what a blatantly disingenuous response 😂 may the universe bless you with all that you deserve.
I applaud that she has become self-aware. Hopefully she will better herself.
Same, there may be hope for this one. She still has her natural hair color and most likely hasnt masectomied her boobs yet. 🙏
She's this way because she has to fit in.
Like totally dude! I was like 🤷♂️. You know what I mean, like
@@mantis10_surf85 hahahahahahahah
@@safffff1000that's a really good point, because young people want to be accepted by their peer group, even if it means looking stupid. Honestly, I don't think she's stupid, because she is showing insight, and she has awareness of her bad habits.
She’s maturing and being open about it. This should be encouraged.
Exactly, I've had my: "Stupid," moments
but cos she's a woman apparently it's some kind of gotcha moment
@@superwildside4585I'll just bet you have and guess what you're having one right now😮
Agreed. The first step is admitting you have a problem.
Yr absolutely right! I'm glad someone else gets that. ✌️🇺🇸
Self Awareness is the first step to self Improvement.
the irony of your comment
Like, seriously
She is not stupid. She’s young and actually doing really well since she’s realizing she has this habit and wants to correct it.
Well done, young lady recognizing a problem. She's gonna be just fine.
Yeah the problem is even though feminists realize something, it doesn't necessarily mean they will follow through with it to their promises or try to make a change. Realizing it is just half the battle
She’s not young
Hey bro, that was dead ass. Bro, your OP was legit fire, no cap,
straight facts. 😜
What’s funny is she uses a filler word in her statement about individuals over the age of 50. “That,” is a filler word. You can remove it 99% of the time it’s used.
Maybe in a couple more decades. This is a habit that we are supposed to drop as kids when our vocabulary grows. However, women went to work and there was an immediate lack of parenting. This problem manifested almost immediately.
Good for her. That’s not stupidity. That’s self-awareness.
Yes!!!
Exactly. What's he talking about?
She's no intersections feminist.
Like absolutely
I read somewhere that people use filler words as a way of softening what they’re saying so as to not offend the listener.
In line with this reasoning, I have a gifted iq, but low confidence, so I notice that I tend to use them as a means of hedging.
Pretty stupid to say "like" that much.
She’s not stupid! She’s mortified at what has happened to her illiterate generation!
They want you stupid for a reason just ask FOX news. Lmao
She's part of it, so I'm gonna say she stupid.
No like shes like totally like stupid and like dumb like for real
She's stupid. The results of near Zero consumption of literature, zero expectation of English grammar knowledge is what you see here.
Exactly
Why is he calling her stupid?
You missed the boat on your description of this video. She is not stupid. She just had an epiphinany, a momement of clarity and understanding.
I applaud her self-awareness. She'll be okay.
Meeting some American tourist really made me realize that my English is way more fluent and articulate then many of the native speakers I've encountered. It is an advantage now days, because I never visited the US, I never got conditioned by their speech habits :D
@@BatkoBrat I travel about the planet, and I’m here to tell you that these deplorable habits are spreading faster than one would care to even imagine. Sad, really, because the speakers/users of “like” rarely hear it as it flies from their pieholes, so insidiously ingrained has it become.
@@bearvonsteuben9675 Are you saying that more and more non-native speakers are adopting this habit? That is sad, indeed. Sounds like a pandemic of Tourette's syndrome
@@BatkoBrat I agree with your characterization, and I am indeed saying that. In the States, it seems to have infected two generations, while elsewhere it seems to be rampant only in the kids.
Before the likes, it was and,um and ah.... if u want to see how bad you are, join toastmasters... u will learn all your flaws... my stepson was making fun of me because i didnt know what he was saying... sounded like eubonics, a "language" they tried to make equal to english instead of the mangling of english... i told him it was his job to learn to talk english, not gutter wanky 😅
We should be congratulating her for having the self-awareness to recognise the issue and standards enough to strive for better. Good on her
Do you mean, good for her?
@@johnwarner8139I think they meant exactly what they wrote. Idiom.
@@johnwarner8139 what's the difference?
😂 can't help joking about what she caught and can't call her stupid for pointing it out and trying to change the way she speaks um like she's on to something. 😂😂😂
Or chose to ignore it and wallow in a comfortable lifestyle
I wouldn't attribute this to stupidity. She has acknowledged it, and the filler words have become almost an accent unto their own with the younger generation. Good on her for trying to dump the filler words.
💯 Percent Agree
Don’t give them an “out” and call it an accent. They’ll roll with it and say it’s how you’re supposed to speak now.
Hi from Great Britain, I've noticed alot of black Americans say " do you know what I mean" every few seconds ? Do they realise they keep asking the same questions ???? They need to listen to themselves 😅
She's not stupid at all. She recognized a problem and actively tried to fix it. Good for her.
exactly.
She's smarter and more self aware than a lot of people 🤷🏼♀️
I'm happy to come to the comment section and see people applauding her for gaining some self-awareness and wanting to make a change. This leads to her then understanding the definitions of the words that are casually thrown around, and will then change her views accordingly.
I don't know why or how she could be characterized as stupid. UA-camrs too eager to bait viewers.
@@meta5291 Agreed bud, gave a dislike for it.
The fact that she recognized that on her own is pretty amazing. I think she is pretty smart for coming to that realization.
Yes she is not stupid and she is actually a very hot chick.
not at age 35, sorry . you figure that out by the time you're 14 if you're smart.
@@ianswift3521I'm sure you are a genius
@@ianswift3521 I don't think that is how brainwashing works. These younger people today are constantly bombarded with influencers and propaganda. It's apart of the plan that they talk like that.
@@thorsrensen3162 too dumb 😢 huge turnoff
Self-awareness is not stupidity; it reflects intelligence and maturity. Good for her.
IMO.. Filler words give you time to process. Stupid can not be just based on that.
@@StuntPilot88not using filler words, show a much better sense of this. Giving a space to be quiet is easy more impactful. This has been studied
Just give a "like" 😉
@@StuntPilot88you don't see a Kenedy giving a speech with filler words
Like really lol
How do you know she is a intersectional feminist though😂
That’s a little harsh dude. She’s not stupid. She’s making fun of her self.
I agree, so it was clickbait: pretty girl and then the word stupid...there you go
Plus how can she be accused of what was passed to her by the previous generations.
You’re a snowflake
Fr@@splash4891
herself
Actually, Benny, you're wrong on this one. She's finally realizing how indoctrinated she's been and seems to be making an effort to remedy that. At least she's aware, which ISN'T stupid, and recognizing it's a problem for her. Good for her.
Yeah, why was that?
He’s a smart person. I believe he didn’t pay that much attention to the video.
If all it takes to make one smart is to realize one's mistake , which is usually half the battle, then yeah, that's smart.
I agree with mimi's point but ....they got a lot of catching up to do.
Perhaps in the future she may become a conservative or libertarian voice. She could start to understand merit and personal responsibility.
@@dominusstyxeh, we all get it wrong sometimes. A big pitfall for political influencers is going through content too quickly with judgment, that they miss what’s actually good about it.
@@rocketta.chique5761 Yeah, that's what I think happened. He went too fast.
It takes a rather smart person to realize there is a problem; and actually admit to having that problem! Don't call her stupid, please.
It is better to have a wise enemy, than a foolish friend
Nonsense. Too many see a problem and accept the consequences with no desire / ability to change. Therapists retire on such women...
Respect to you young lady. Recognizing that there is an issue is the first step towards positive change.
Acknowledging the problem is the first part of the solution to her dilemma. I've faith in her.
I don’t.
Stupid are the people that do not recognize their flaws. She’s not stupid.
Totally agree, props to her for being able to see her own behavior from a constructive perspective and choosing to improve herself. It’s exactly the kind of attitude that all young people should have.
Yes!! There was actually a lot of humility in her response to herself 💕 I’m happy for her! She’s on to something👌🏽
They say recognizing that you have a problem is half the battle! Good for her...
I like that.
I'm afraid to "like" this video.
More like the onset.
She formed the habit while attempting to fit in with, and be accepted by stupid people. She has no intention to stop as long as she’s given positive attention by her peer group et al.
How is the fact that she's an intersectional feminist even relevant? I don't think she's stupid at all, she realised what's wrong. she's aware.
So if someone realizes that they have a problem, and wants to acknowledge it and improve upon it, then they are stupid? I don’t think she’s stupid. I think it’s human nature to fill in paused silences, when we are thinking and trying to form our next thought and/or sentence. She recognizes that she has a shortcoming and wants to improve upon it. That isn’t stupid.
I use the word " like " a lot and I'm a 66 yr old male 😂 what the hells wrong wth me ? Like I need help
If you pay attention to how he used his words he's not calling her stupid he said "when she REALIZES she's actually really stupid"
@@ovoxomcfulhe also called her a feminist for absolutely no reason, he keeps doing that to every woman he uploads and its rude asf.
@@nuggs9999 It's a dog whistle
@@Bitterstone3849apparently that makes you an “intersectional feminist” according to this clip lol
Stupid people wouldn't care about how they talk. She is smart to recognize the problem.
She was baby sat in school, older people were educated. America churns out idiots so the population is easier to control. It has been working REALLY well for them.
She still Will not change ...just like all the m@rons who say bruh bro....if anyone talks dum with me, I'm walking away
That’s true, a lot of young people don’t see this as a problem and don’t realize how they sound. Some don’t even care, that’s stupid.
Yeah she can fix it it'll just take time. Now that it bugs her she'll stop eventually.
She still speaks way better than her president
Recognizable words is a good start!
@@WildBikerBill haha indeed sir
That really doesn't say much. An alcoholic on their 8th drink still sounds more coherent than that guy.
She's not stupid, exactly the opposite. She's been made aware of something she does that she doesn't like, and is trying to stop. How is that stupid?
She's on the right track. She's interrupting herself. She's on her way to breaking the behavior. Good for her. 👍🏼
I think she’s being a bit harsh on herself tbh… I remember being a teenager & using swear words in every sentence as fillers, verbs etc… like ‘fucking hell I went to the fucking car wash the other day & the price had gone up 30 fucking percent! Seriously what the fuck are they using liquid gold? Fuck that’… you realise how cringe & alienating it sounds to people outside your bubble & grow out of it.
Of breaking
Stupid would be if she was oblivious to her own actions while criticizing others. She's aware that she has an issue, along with her entire generation, and she's at least trying.
At least she's aware, realizes that it's not a good thing and is trying to correct it.
She needs more practice.
Yet she catches it every time. I think she's working on it and being aware and stopping when she says it is a great step forward.
She's showing generational self awareness. That's not stupid.
👏
Like seriously lol
Yeah at like 30 years old... That's stupid.
As a dyslexic person this is hard wired into me but I don't say like all the time, it's more so a uuuhhh instead since my mind runs faster or just goes blank instead and time the information that my mind sends to my mouth it doesn't know what to do 😂
@@joeydigrado382 Why does it matter what age she is?
I think the fact that she understands this is a bit of an issue is fantastic. She’s conscious of it, and that’s great. I wish this young lady the best.
The point is thought that this Benny character is always trying so hard to hate on certain people in society
Not 'Hate' as much as *frustrated* by the irony that our leaders are chosen by these wonderful people and look where we are now.
And in addition to that there's the fact that it's deliberately counterproductive.
@@bertkilborne6464 there's been trans people around for a long time, the world hasn't ended. You guys are just easily offended, snowflakes basically. It reminds me of a guy I knew at school who way overreacted if you called him gay. People would do it just to get a reaction. That's what the entire Trump clan is like. It's like they are so insecure inside they have to overreact to trans people to prove they are a man.
@@MikeKulls2 I agree 👍 💯. He seems to be hating on young women in particular.
@@jilladams7573 that's true, I have noticed that pattern.
Recognising a weakness is the first step to fixing it. That puts her way above the average NPC.
I agree. Calling people NPCs is actually stupid though.
@@thediz01 NPC - good description of somebody that doesn't think and has pre canned reponses. The description fits.
@@thediz01 Somehow I feel like you've been called that.
@@stanleyclark923 an NPC? No, because regular people don't say that lol
@@thediz01some people literally are NPCs though. They dont have thoughts or plans of their own, they just exist with no self awareness
She's calling out a bad habit, this is a W not an L
Yeah we don’t need to shame her for actually realising something and wanting to improve it. Good on her.
THANK YOU!!!
Agreed. I don't understand why he's using his platform to shame someone who is publicly acknowledging an area they need to work on. She's not stupid. Also, in her defense, and in the defense of others who use filler words, it can also be a sign of high stress and anxiety. Rapid speech is also a design. What if we, horror of horrors, just showed each other grace and kindness? Why do so many people feel the need to be superior to others in some way? 🤦♀️
Anyway, sufficient to say, I agree with your statement. I'll get off my soap box now 😂
Yes I don't think she stupid. People learn from their environment sometimes obviously she is talking like the majority op people her age. Now she can work on it
Right, why shame a girl who already posted the video and shamed herself
Yes shes not stupid..she sees her flaws. You cant change it if you cant see it. I applaud her
You're not a great judge of stupidity, based on how you type and the fact that it's your native language.
You can't fix stupid, but you can adjust dumb. The girl proved the point that she CAN NOT be adjusted!!!!
the birth of self awareness is such a beautiful thing to witness 💞
@@thedreadedredhead7220Unfortunately gripey Benny doesn't see it this way. To him the glass is always half full unless everything is going his way🙄
@@GameChanger597 his day will come 😊💞
She's not stupid. She's becoming self aware. If she were stupid she wouldn't have even noticed nor cared.
Yr absolutely right! 🕊💜💫
Of course she's NOT stupid...
Just dumb.
She's not stupid..she's like stupid..
Lol - I was going to write the same thing...
Fact check from a conservative non academically smart person: People can be very intelligent with common sense (such as myself) but not have book smarts/ perfect communication skills. Lots of people who use filler words have low self esteem, but not always. We are not all cookie cutter human beings and we all don't fit the same mold. If you're so quick to say someone is stupid because of the way they talk, maybe you should look in the mirror at the person with the real problem....very shallow thinking 🤔
Is she an intersectional feminist? I see no immediate evidence of that from this one clip
Ya, unless they're nore, it's not here
She's also fully aware of her problem so where's the fail?
Thanks! Someone said what I was thinking.
She actually called herself out on what she perceives to be something problematic…so why is Benny trashing her and Click baiting us by labeling her an intersectional feminist?!?! 😮🤦♀️🤡
WOMAN BAD CAUSE SHE POST ONLINE must be feminist antifa trans then
@tfromt.o.9774 yeah, *Benny is being a hack* , and a troll by using editing to troll a young person who is actually showing self awareness! 🧌
I'd say her sense of self-awareness should dispel any perception of stupidity.
Don't call her stupid. She realized what she is doing. She is willing to correct hersel! Commend her!
After she improves and shows results, THEN I'll praise her.
Get off with that "praise me or I will forever make mistakes" bullshit.
No. Change first.
You can't fix stupid, but you can adjust dumb. The girl proved the point that she CAN NOT be adjusted!
It's garbage fill words. If you know your topic, you don't need them. Done
Recognizing her flaws doesn’t make her stupid.
If one of your flaws is stupidity yes it does and the inability to communicate in a proper fashion is pretty much sign #1 of a stupid person.
Sending a bloopers video to the world does..Just Saying 😭😭
@@who399how does using filler words make her stupid exactly? Its a generational habit. Its like old people watching the weather channel when they could just download an app that tells them instantly. Its just a learned behaviour, and on top of that, she recognizes it as undesirable and is trying to change it, but slips up, as one does when trying to drop a bad habit.
This wasn’t about providing she was stupid, it was about her realizing that she was in fact stupid by her own definition
ive seen will smith using "you know" lots of time and its annoying.
I thought that this was going to be bad, but she's acknowledging that she uses filler words and is catching herself using them. Not stupid at all.
She's not stupid. She is being self-aware. Out of order calling her stupid.
Low vocabulary in a language its associate with illiteracy (it happens in all the languages btw ).
Being aware of the repetition and not being able to fix it makes her close to Stupid.
Neuro linguistic programming (NLP), approach this issue and point out How Important is to speak right.
Defending or justifying stupidity only will make it worse, you can tell the embarrassment in her face.
Exactly
I agree
This Lovely young lady is a great example that there is hope for her generation.
But she showed she's stupid. She just kept saying "like" all the time.
Calling someone "really stupid" who has become aware of their own negative behaviour and is endeavouring to change it, is something only a "really stupid" person would do.
She’s not stupid, she is humble enough to be reflective and is willing to change. Come on Benny you are better than that.
Agreed! The guy who suggested it seems like the stupid one, pun intended.
100% He's petty.
is he really though?
@@jbbolts yes
benny does this a lot.@@thebigpicture2032
The fact she's got insight shows she's not stupid.
Ever seen acting before?
She is NOT stupid. She has waken up and start to realize things about herself she would like to change. This is a sign of maturity and intelligence. Go for it, young lady. 😊
Agreed. Lots of really smart people are not super articulate. It's a skill to focus your thoughts that anyone can learn.
She has woken up. Not waken up!
@@pattineedham9094 Sorry, English is not my native language. I live in Sweden 😊
@@robert4you Dont stress, we all know what you meant. Lots of people correcting in comments. There, their, they're. Ignore them.
There's another word that used to be said all the time, Example= He was ALL, we were ALL, they were ALL.
Great hah! I am 33 years old , when I was a teenager the usage of "like", "and", "umm", "but" where started to be used a lot more often. So at least in the County where I went to school at. The teachers n all the schools started targeting this and it worked! Me and most my friends got corrected and we do not speak like that at all. Also worked on us w/ public speaking.
Yeah, calling her out and saying “she’s stupid” in front of millions is actually stupid to me. She’s at least trying to better herself. 🤷🏻♂️
How?
Soft skin, huh? Can’t handle it when somebody comments on your bad habits?
Those Nails are Major Hygiene Issues. Collects stuff 😝
It’s almost as if she doesn’t think before she speaks! Imagine spelling your own name wrong while making a video about not being able to spell your name correctly. 😂
Yeah, Benny is a mrn.
She's not stupid, she's programmed. Admitting there's a problem is the 1st step to fixing it. I applaud her!
That would be addiction 😂
Can't call this stupidity, noticing your own flaws is the first sign of intelligent self awareness. She's not dumb if she's learning something.
True self awareness is key to intelligence
@Phvkyuoh really? Then what are you doing here? You don't have a life? She's right. She's an idiot and she knows it. Good for her! Lol
Right. I'm actually embarrassed for the guy who posted this as if it's some crazy gotcha. Pathetic.
@Darksphere101 You can almost tell by the way this guy is talking, he goes real quiet for the word 'stupid', it lacked all the confidence of every other word he said, like he knew it was a joke or something..
Noticing the flaw is one thing. FIXING the flaw is a completely different beast.
I remember when I was in my 20’s, I learned how to speak without using the filler words and to speak more fluidly so your mind can think to say the next word rather than trying to throw in like, um, you know, uhh. Focusing on the next word rather than the filler word regulates your mind to connect to the next word. Very powerful especially in the work environment
She's not dumb at all. That's called awareness, and it's very teachable!
if she’s continues being an intersectional feminist but improves her vocabulary, she’s still stupid, unfortunately. but yes, it is a good realization on her part, could be a “eureka” moment that leads her to stop being an intersectional feminist. we can hope!
Not awareness, it's called acting for clicks. Everything about her SCREAMS fake!
@@TommyHodge-i6v then, her awareness game is deeper than I thought. Hats off!
Not with our teachers today.
no she is dumb
Benny, she’s not stupid!!! This is a valid observation of something she’s wants to work on.
Come on, Benny. Look up the difference between ignorant and stupid.
If you don’t know something, you’re ignorant. If you either do know the truth and refuse the facts, or are ignorant and refuse to go beyond that point, you’re stupid.
This young lady isn’t stupid.
and he's quick to call someone a feminist whenever they're not even saying or doing anything feminist in the video
@@darrenswailslol I was wondering when she was going to say something feminist, but it never happened 😂
If she were ignorant she wouldn't have recognized a problem. She acknowledges that she constantly uses stupid filler words, decided to make a video pointing it out, and then repeatedly uses the stupid filler words in the video, it's a literal exercise in stupidity. Furthermore, aren't leftists the ones that try to control what words people can say? Benny pointing out that someone is acting stupid isn't the end of the world, perhaps she'll realize how stupid she sounds and seek to broaden her vocabulary so as to sound more intelligent in the future.
Guess we found the group of Karen’s… your definition and explanation is wrong. She is aware (knows something) and it doesn’t sound like she was convinced enough to stop and maybe she was even trying. So she’s not ignorant (by your definition) so yeah, she is probably a little stupid on her way out hopefully. 🤞 goodnight Karens.
And yeah that entire generation declares themselves “feminists” so the odds are in Benny’s favor. He probably (maybe) looked her up before posting…? I didn’t im just assuming the odds and she didnt say anything to convince me otherwise. Sucks to be lumped into that generation.
Benny , when did you become such a name calling bully? She is not stupid , she has been conditioned , there is a difference.
She's not stupid. She's aware and stated that people older than her don't use them. Bless her heart, she was actually really funny 😊
And cute 😂😊
She's not stupid. The amount of awareness and self-reflection she's showing is a sign of intelligence.
Yea but she keeps doing it…like stop
@@SugiesCookieshave you ever tried removing a common word from your vocabulary? It's more difficult than just not saying it.
@@stefanieark why would I have to remove a common word? I know how to use words without repeating them over and over. Idk if the schooling was better back then, but I’m 34 and it’s pretty easy for me to sound intelligent when I want to. Luckily I will never have this problem. I was taught well. My words do not control me. I control my words.
@@SugiesCookies Have you ever tried starting a new habit? As in, you did not have the habit on monday, but pn tuesday it was fully incoorprated.
That is what she is struggling with, making a new habit, its not done in 2 seconds. Takes weeks actually, sometimes longer.
Agree. Let's be kind to her. At least she is self aware of her mistakes. She's OK. We all have struggles.
Pretty stupid to call someone stupid for having self-awareness… this one was a loss on your part Benny.
Also I didn’t hear her say anything feminist. She’s pointing out a generational degradation and I applaud that. Let’s be kind to people who can admit their own flaws. 🧐
Benny is a turd. All talk no action. He should go learn a trade or some skill that actually makes him a contributing member of society instead of being a useless mouthpiece who never actually accomplishes anything.
100% agree.
100% agree
I absolutely agree with you
Well said
I'm in my 40's but I never speak that way, even in my 30's.
She's not stupid, this was her moment of clarity and the first step on her journey to personal growth.
I agree, she's not stupid. It is an ingrained habit that can, with some work, be broken.
The fact that she noticed it shows she's intelligent and observant.
No lmaao
When my daughter was 12 or 13 I noticed she was saying “like” a ton. I figured that it stems from trying to talk while you’re still thinking about what you want to say. So, I told her to think about what she wanted to say BEFORE she spoke, not while she was speaking. Practically cured it instantly.
One of the reasons is that critical thinking skills and grammar are not being properly taught in primary school.
@@jonahzablow2132, they're just basically teaching them how to pass a test instead of teaching skills and knowledge needed to survive after high school. I have relatives who are or were teachers and I've heard plenty of stories.
She's not stupid. She realizes how her grandparents are at a whole other level.
She’s not stupid though, she’s realised what her generation does and wants to correct it. Fair play to her.
Yup. We have to have more charity in this case. This is “like” a repentance, no pun intended, but at least I didn’t use it as filler.
Yes. Also females need males in their lives to guide and protect them including telling them when theyre wrong if necessary...
...not strange dudes online trying to publicly humiliate them like this sarcastic little feminine dweeb, who would never say any of this to any female's face.
He's a "yes dear, whatever you say dear" kind of guy, but tries to act like a tough red pilled guy online
She realizes it's a problem. That's a sign of intelligence.
How is she stupid??? She's self-aware unlike most of her generation.
Why are you repeating the same "self sware" comment that has already been said over and over and over again? It's weird. You're not adding anything new or original just copying what you've read in the comments. Lol
@@chedderz66eh its fine. They wanna make the comment section more visible for Benny so he knows he was out of line. The more people agree the more Benny will see.
Yea and using filler words only means that you speak faster than you can think which is pretty normal
@@jpp1123that's me
Believe it or not-NOBODY cares what the wanna-be-know-it-all little girl is saying, let alone what you clowns are mouthing about😆🤣🤣😴
Lol, this is because you first spit out the word then think.
She isn't stupid. She is becoming self aware
Benny, she is not stupid. I applaud her for recognizing what her generation is doing and she is trying to rectify it. We should all be encouraging her.
Right!
It doesn't and shouldn't take a genius to realize speaking flaws when the words are coming out of your own mouth. It's good that she acknowledges it, but it doesn't mean she still isn't stupid. You cannot judge her intelligence on this either way.
I have high hopes for her. She strikes me as someone who recognizes a problem and wants to improve herself.
She's actually quite awesome🙏
The very fact that she recognizes this shows that she is very intelligent. The first step in changing something is to recognize the problem. Most can't see it or don't care to.
I'm starting to question if he actually watches any of these videos, or he just gets a transcript and films a reaction 🤔
I think you know the answer to that question.
I don't see that she's stupid at all 🤷♀️
She's found a problem and has acknowledged it, and now wishes to address it. Isn't that what you want more young Americans to do?
And also....where did the "intersectional feminist" thing come from?
Probably her other videos.
@@JMBBrasilhe seems to say this about a few people. I find some of his content humorous but its not fair to assume who people are.
Not an intersectional feminist, she looks like she has self awareness!
She deserves credit, not criticism.
No kidding. I like Benny. But sometimes, he gets a little cringe 😬
Benny, you messed up. You don't make fun of someone who recognizes a fault and tries to correct it. Love you though man.
*So is she going to have an epiphany that she's trying to only date and mate with the wrong males, and that she should caution the majority of the rest of women not to make that same mistake?*
*Probably not.*
People are so sensitive over females. Would never protect a man like this and wonder why chicks are entitled these days.
@@Thedukeg1993-ww1gv It's not a female or male thing. It's rare to see someone listen, understand, and admit their faults, man or woman 🙂
@@aaronmartin4611 If you only knew, bud.
Dude Benny is 100% whack here
What even is this short? He’s had a lot of misses lately and nonstop clickbait video titles, and I like the guy but f this vid
Acknowledge a lack of verbal skills is an improvement as opposed to be stupid. Good for her.👏👏👏
lack of vocabulary...
Try Engaging brain before engaging mouth..
I don't think she's stupid. It's just a really bad habit at this point. The fact that she's aware of it and actively working on it is admirable.
I agree with the rest of the comment section Benny. This girl actually realized what she is doing and started to try to correct it during the video. We should be supportive of her for doing that instead of just calling her stupid.
Remember Benny, the first step in changing is realizing you have a problem. She has realized she has a problem in how she talks. Let's encourage her to become better.
Amen!
What's the problem with like??
That’s not stupid. I think that’s rather observant, introspective and shows intelligence.
"I think " = filler words
@@andrinjohn3449 nonsense. “I think” vs “it is” are semantically very different. “I think” indicates subjectivity.
Low vocabulary in a language its associate with illiteracy (it happens in all the languages btw ).
Introspective?, Being aware of the repetition and not being able to fix it makes her close to Stupid.
Neuro linguistic programming (NLP), approach this issue and point out How Important is to speak right.
Defending or justifying stupidity only will make it worse, you can tell the embarrassment in her face.
Are you really calling out her stupidity as Intelligence?
@@andrinjohn3449”I think” means “I believe this to be the case” in this context. That’s not filler at all. If you’re gonna be an ass, at least be correct
@@andrinjohn3449Absolutely freaking incorrect.
Outstanding. She is actually looking at herself and realizing she is part of the problem. Now she can change.
Nah. She can stop saying it, but there's still nothing but air between those ears. One filler word won't change that.
But why is she stupid? She’s admitting her shortcomings and is aware of them. Good for her. This is a great thing and I applaud her for being honest.
SHES $TUP!D ENOUGH TO COMPLAIN BUT DO THE SAME ACTION SHES COMPLAING ABOUT!!!!!@
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Because she's a woman?
I mean, I would never say or think such a thing personally. Heavens no! But maybe that's what she had in mind.
Like.
Benny's a bit of a dick. She has a better point than him. Putting sentences together on the fly isn't easy, it takes practice. We stopped practicing.
The moment I hear someone say like more the twice in a sentence I tune them out.
She’s trying to improve. Not stupid at all. Also: where’s the ‘feminist’ angle?
Bad take, buddy!
This guy has only bad takes.
Yeah not a good look to just always dog a certain group of people for no real reason
100%, I thought wtf. Shes acknowledged a minor issue & gets blasted for it
Unless there's nore of the clip
I agree, realizes her issue,
and doesn't act the feminist.
Maybe our host 'Elroy' needs to take inventory on the home front?