OMFG, sister, you are way too invested into your parents and your brother life. They gave everything to your brother and indulged him in everything. They gave him 100%. It isn't your responsibility to pay for their burial. Your brother is an A-hole.
I don’t know why you feel that it’s your brothers responsibility to take care of your parents funerals. They gave birth to u too and took care of u too.
Have u not been raised in the hmong community???? That is the norm. The idea that daughters help pay for the funeral is still a very new thing currently and NOT ALL hmong ppl practice that yet.
Some daughters don't understand that their parents give them more money when they get married too. Why do they always feel like it their brother's responsibility to take care of the funeral!
It’s Not all your Nyab’s fault. It’s your parents and your brother’s fault for giving her all the power to be who she is. Why would they give her everything because she is zoo, zoo nkauj? Another thing is that tiam no cov tub yeej ruam thiab yeej nyoo poj niam. Sad but true.
Wow...how Hmong people ruin their only sons with privilege and entitlement at the expense of their daughters. Don't blame the sil for everything. There are multiple parties here to bear the blame.
Even if your nyab is that bad, its not your place to replace your nyab. If your brother wasn't stupid, he would be a man and stand up like a man would. I understand you felt bad due to your parents, but you guys are too extra. You guys went for this new nyab due to her money only. How sad.
Haub yau, Tus sister aws koj tsis txhob cob2 koj tus nus ya phem os. Coj li koj coj ko no ho siab phem dhau lawm thiab os. Tim koj tus nus xwb mas. Tsam nyob2 ea ho txog koj zeeg ned?
Hmm, you’re overstepping your boundaries. Never encourage a divorce, especially if kids are involved. What if it was you? Your parents and your brother allowed your SIL to behave like she did. All are wrong.
Sister you are the problem, why are u so jealous and want to ruin someone’s life??? Don’t you think that watever happen to ur parents was because of their own fault. Why don’t you turn around and worry about your own in laws? You sound so proud ruining someone’s life, shame on you, as bad as you claim your nyab was, you’re no better than her either
Ua cas kuv tus niam pog hlub nws tus ntxhais xwb es cas nws tuag kuv ho mag tha na....cov muam mas yeej muaj cov zoo cov phem os cov nyab los yeej muaj cov zoo cov phem thiab os kuv zaj yuav tawm sai2 no thiab nawb kuv zaj yog muam phem ntag os tsis muaj muam nyob pem niam ntag nawb....
@@maryly09 The parents are happy to gave it to them to spend. What can you as muam do? Probably go ask your own mother in law to gave you money? So you spend it like her??
Tus nyab no mas tsim nyog los ua nyab kawg kiag li,xav kom yus muaj hmo zoo li no ,tab sis yuam tsum muaj qhov muag saib tib neeg ua neeg thiab, hos yog tsi muaj qhov muag ces thaum kawg yus yuav rov muab yus tus kheej faus nyoos xwb lau.. 😅😅😂
You are evil for finding a new wife for your brother. It was your parents fault for embedding their behavior. Also your brother allow it. But you as a sister should never break a marriage. You are so wrong!
Well, the question is if your cousin is so perfect herself, despite she’s a divorcee, why would she really want someone like your brother too? 😂 I mean, an independent woman wouldn’t want someone who has nothing and be so quick to be in a relationship with a married man at his own mom’s funeral. I’m just saying.😊
Niam ntsuab teev kuv mloog koj txhua hnub koj lub suab ntxim li koj nice thiab tab sis ua cas thaum ntsib kiag zoo li koj muab hlob heev kuv nrog koj tham ntxim li koj tsis xav tham li na
@toosay200 I like the way May tells story. She is calm and neutral in her stories. Please dont change, May. If you like actions, you may like niam tais Ci Nplas (Nancy Yang), Kablia niam Neej Vam, and Jenny Vaj.
Your sil was a brat, she lived a life style that your brother allowed her to live. Your parents encouraged their actions. However, your actions are very cruel and unforgivable. Hopefully you are a perfect nyab and your sil don't find a new nyab for your husband.
Yog yus yog ib tug nyab tsis cov li no ces yeej tsis muaj ib tug muam yuav pab nrhiav hluas nkauj rau yus tus txiv li os. Niam pog tuag es tseem ua thaj xuab li ntawm thiab ces yeej tsis muaj ib tug neeg qhuas li mas. You'd feel the same way if that was your mom.
This nyab is no good. She spends like she’s a millionaire when she is dirt broke. She has no shame for spending all her in-laws’ money lavishly. You don’t spend money that you don’t have.
@ShouaTojsiab, the thing is that the parents gave them the money to spend. If they very don't want her to spend money they'll never gave it to the nyab and son. So it's just their fault, it's the parents fault.
Leej twg ntshe ce leej twg tau noj xwb ma. Koj es ca tseem yuav kom niam ntsuab teev ntuav nej lub qe thiab na. Tu muam zoo li koj tu nyab thiaj thiaj koj thiaj tsi sib haum. Pab nej tsev neeg txaj muag rau teb chaw qhov nej sib txeeb nyiaj
It’s all your dad’s fault. He trained your brother and your Nyab to be like that. To take over lawv tej qub txeeg qub teg and everything else that they have. Your brother stupid too. You should have done this earlier than your mom might not be so broke. You waited until both of your parents were gone. Ruam tiag. You are a sister that was too involved in your parents and your brother’s life. So Annoying
Koj kuj tsis yog ib tug muam zoo kiag li thiab nawb. Yog koj cov muam ua rau koj ib yam li koj ua rau koj tus nyab los tej zaum koj yeej tsis txuas siab thiab os. Koj tus nus thiab koj niam koj txiv yeej tso tus nyab nyob lub neej zoo li ntawv ne. Koj yog ib tug muam phem kawg nkaus li tsuas muaj thov kom koj txhob tau ntsib li uas koj ua rau koj tus muam xwb os.
My fil passed away way before covid. When he passed away, my husband and i got the most part, but it's a good thing one of the sil that married other race help us without any hesitation . I'm glad i have the best sister in law .
Vim mob2 koj niam nkawv tes ne nyiaj Nyob ntawm nkawv tes vim li cas muab ib txhia Los kuj tseg ib txhia thiab koj niam nkawv twb ua hauj Lwm vim li cas nkawv tsis tso 401k rau nkawv naw!
Thaum ib tug txiv tsis yuav kabpaus kim, tsis yuav khau luj siab, tsis yuav phliab diamond, tsis mus party, tsis haus cawv, tsis yuav paj rau poj niam no ces nej hais tias kom nrauj tus txiv vim tsis paub hlub poj niam. Yog ib khub niam txiv sib nrauj vim tej khoom teej tug no, nej hais tias tsim nyog kawg. Tabsis thaum nej muaj ib tug nyab los yog niam ncaus ua li no es pluag tag tsis muaj nyiaj los pam nej niam thiab nej txiv no ces nej hov hais tias yog ib tug nyab xyob txhiaj thiab nyab siab phem, nyab poj dab, nyab corruption, nyab noj nyoog haus txias.. Come on poj niam hmoob..
Lub ntuj nyob qis qis li lawm os. Tsis txob siab phem txw yus tej nus mus tham hluas nkauj thaum lawm tseem muaj ib lub neej tsam ib hnub ho yog yus nawb. Txawm lawv lub neej yuav zoo thiab phem los cia lawv ua tus txiav txim siab es kev phem thiaj tsis raug rau yus rau yav ntom ntej. Mloog mas tus muaj no siab phem kawg. Muab txua tsav yam phem pov rau tus nyab xwb.
Wow, this is one of the most horrible story I have ever heard of a wicked woman like this narrator is. Not only you so jealous of your nyab but you did everything to destroy her. Girl, she doesnt share the same D with you enough for you to go beyond this length to destroy her. You will get your karma for not staying your ground. You should be ashamed of yourself. This got to be a women world where they go against each other. This narrative is insane on all levels!
Sister why do you care, you're an outsider, your parents want their son to be happy, its their fault, why do you keeps getting involved with your brother's life..
YOU are part of the problem. Sisters like you always have bad intentions and always think they have a say in their brother’s life. Don’t do that!! I am pretty sure your sister in law acts like that because she is tired of your BS. I know a few sisters who dont mind their own business just like you. Please focus on your life, not your brother’s. Shame on you!
You are prolly just like ur sis n law. U know her story well becus u one urself! 😂😂😂 aint no way in hell will i give that much fawk bout my bro marriage life. OG hmoob folks already sign ther death when they give everything to ther son knowing the risks! I dont have time to be giving that muchs fawks bout my dum bro who, i bet expect the wife to be paying all the bills, cook n clean n raise the kids and all he does is go to work n bak!😂😂😂
I don't understand the infatuation with diamonds and luxury goods. Diamonds are useless rocks with a high price placed on them by humans. 😂 Like cars, as soon as you drive them off the lot, it decreases in value. Luxury goods are a sign of fake wealth. Every time I see someone or see ppl wearing and carrying luxury goods, I just laugh bc it tells me they are just wanna be's. The luxury industry is designed to keep the poor poorer. The luxury industry is aimed at the middle class and the poor. I've met and known a few rich ppl in my life, and trust me, they don't flash their wealth! Flashing your wealth is akin to begging for robbers and scammers to rob you. 😂 The rich knows this. They buy a few sentimental, no-name luxury pieces, and that's it. Why carry a 10k bag when you have no money in it? 😂 You ain't fooling me. It's all for show. Neeg khav theeb xwb os. I'd rather invest all that money and make more money than spend it all on useless junk. Some ppl are born with it, some are not. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
OMFG, sister, you are way too invested into your parents and your brother life. They gave everything to your brother and indulged him in everything. They gave him 100%. It isn't your responsibility to pay for their burial. Your brother is an A-hole.
Don't blame your sister-in-law. Blame your brother and parents. Stop trying to find a second wife for your dumb brother. Stay out of their business.
Agree!! Sister like this is no good either 😂 trust me once this one go bad she will find a new woman for her brother.
Ab yog kv lam muaj ib lub neej zoo li kj lub ntshe kv yuav hlub cov laus heev os me nyab hmoob mekas aw
Muaj ib co muam mas control tej nej nus niam tais yawm txiv lub neej heev dhau lawm thiab na.
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I don’t know why you feel that it’s your brothers responsibility to take care of your parents funerals. They gave birth to u too and took care of u too.
Didn’t you hear all the daughters had to pitch in $$ as well bc it’s their parents.
Have u not been raised in the hmong community???? That is the norm. The idea that daughters help pay for the funeral is still a very new thing currently and NOT ALL hmong ppl practice that yet.
Some daughters don't understand that their parents give them more money when they get married too. Why do they always feel like it their brother's responsibility to take care of the funeral!
It’s Not all your Nyab’s fault. It’s your parents and your brother’s fault for giving her all the power to be who she is. Why would they give her everything because she is zoo, zoo nkauj? Another thing is that tiam no cov tub yeej ruam thiab yeej nyoo poj niam. Sad but true.
Enablers is the problem here....
Wow! Your parents created a monster for spoiling your only brother!
Wow...how Hmong people ruin their only sons with privilege and entitlement at the expense of their daughters. Don't blame the sil for everything. There are multiple parties here to bear the blame.
Listening to the introduction
The son is dumb and the parents too for loving him and give him everything
Don’t blame the Nyab blame your family 😂
Even if your nyab is that bad, its not your place to replace your nyab. If your brother wasn't stupid, he would be a man and stand up like a man would. I understand you felt bad due to your parents, but you guys are too extra. You guys went for this new nyab due to her money only. How sad.
Haub yau, Tus sister aws koj tsis txhob cob2 koj tus nus ya phem os. Coj li koj coj ko no ho siab phem dhau lawm thiab os. Tim koj tus nus xwb mas. Tsam nyob2 ea ho txog koj zeeg ned?
Sister your guys very strong👍🏻👍🏻
Hmm, you’re overstepping your boundaries. Never encourage a divorce, especially if kids are involved. What if it was you?
Your parents and your brother allowed your SIL to behave like she did. All are wrong.
Well hmoob yeej in txwm coj tie xeem ceem tias tus tub yuav tau take care so there u go.😊
Why blame the SIL only? Your brother is partially blame too. Pretty sure he spent your parents money just as much.
Sister you are the problem, why are u so jealous and want to ruin someone’s life??? Don’t you think that watever happen to ur parents was because of their own fault. Why don’t you turn around and worry about your own in laws? You sound so proud ruining someone’s life, shame on you, as bad as you claim your nyab was, you’re no better than her either
With a muam deb li no just be thankful ur nyab even sold her ring 💍
Ua cas kuv tus niam pog hlub nws tus ntxhais xwb es cas nws tuag kuv ho mag tha na....cov muam mas yeej muaj cov zoo cov phem os cov nyab los yeej muaj cov zoo cov phem thiab os kuv zaj yuav tawm sai2 no thiab nawb kuv zaj yog muam phem ntag os tsis muaj muam nyob pem niam ntag nawb....
Yog li kj hais kawg os sister
Me muam mind your own business... It looks like you're jealous of your nyab....
forreal lol
Heck yeah! Who wouldn't be jealous of the nyab when she's spending all my parents hard earned money?!
@@maryly09 The parents are happy to gave it to them to spend. What can you as muam do? Probably go ask your own mother in law to gave you money? So you spend it like her??
Koj kuj tsis yog ib leej muam zoo thiab. Koj niam lub ntees tseem dai ncuv es koj twb mus nrhiav poj niam rau koj tus nus. Koj kuj phem kawg li thiab.
Nrog Nej zoo siab os tau ib tug nus ua tsis tau txiv ces kawg yeej zoo lis no os
Tus nyab no mas tsim nyog los ua nyab kawg kiag li,xav kom yus muaj hmo zoo li no ,tab sis yuam tsum muaj qhov muag saib tib neeg ua neeg thiab, hos yog tsi muaj qhov muag ces thaum kawg yus yuav rov muab yus tus kheej faus nyoos xwb lau..
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Zoo siab koj tus nrauj tau niag poj laib ntawd thiab koj tus nus mus tau lub neej zoo lawm pab koj zoo siab os
Agreed 💯
Great job for you sisters!!! I completely support u girls for helping your brother to ditch that lazy ex-nyab to the curb! Hahaha.
Nyab siv niam pog txiv zawg nyiaj tag lo vim niam pog txiv yawg xwb yus nyiaj yus kuj khaw yus lo pob
You are evil for finding a new wife for your brother. It was your parents fault for embedding their behavior. Also your brother allow it. But you as a sister should never break a marriage. You are so wrong!
Well, the question is if your cousin is so perfect herself, despite she’s a divorcee, why would she really want someone like your brother too? 😂 I mean, an independent woman wouldn’t want someone who has nothing and be so quick to be in a relationship with a married man at his own mom’s funeral. I’m just saying.😊
Sister, what you did to your nyab is wicked. Your story goes to show that you are the problem in the family. Mind your business. Karma will get you!
Maybe, just maybe, the nyab was the wicked one and karma used the sisters to give karma to the nyab? Haven't u thought of it that way?
This muam doesn’t sound like an angel.
Niam ntsuab teev kuv mloog koj txhua hnub koj lub suab ntxim li koj nice thiab tab sis ua cas thaum ntsib kiag zoo li koj muab hlob heev kuv nrog koj tham ntxim li koj tsis xav tham li na
Haha puas yog ma, es nws tsis paub koj ne
Kuv xav kom nws paiv kom muaj action zog thaum txog qhov ntshav siab na. Because in real life May is very loud 😂
@toosay200 I like the way May tells story. She is calm and neutral in her stories. Please dont change, May. If you like actions, you may like niam tais Ci Nplas (Nancy Yang), Kablia niam Neej Vam, and Jenny Vaj.
Your sil was a brat, she lived a life style that your brother allowed her to live. Your parents encouraged their actions. However, your actions are very cruel and unforgivable. Hopefully you are a perfect nyab and your sil don't find a new nyab for your husband.
I agree.
Yog yus yog ib tug nyab tsis cov li no ces yeej tsis muaj ib tug muam yuav pab nrhiav hluas nkauj rau yus tus txiv li os. Niam pog tuag es tseem ua thaj xuab li ntawm thiab ces yeej tsis muaj ib tug neeg qhuas li mas. You'd feel the same way if that was your mom.
This nyab is no good. She spends like she’s a millionaire when she is dirt broke. She has no shame for spending all her in-laws’ money lavishly.
You don’t spend money that you don’t have.
@ShouaTojsiab, the thing is that the parents gave them the money to spend. If they very don't want her to spend money they'll never gave it to the nyab and son. So it's just their fault, it's the parents fault.
I'm gladly you suppose your brother if I have a sister -in-law like that I want to help my brother too
Anyone would want to help their own sibling too, but a lot of ppl here only wanna point fingers. 🙄
Leej twg ntshe ce leej twg tau noj xwb ma. Koj es ca tseem yuav kom niam ntsuab teev ntuav nej lub qe thiab na. Tu muam zoo li koj tu nyab thiaj thiaj koj thiaj tsi sib haum. Pab nej tsev neeg txaj muag rau teb chaw qhov nej sib txeeb nyiaj
It’s all your dad’s fault. He trained your brother and your Nyab to be like that. To take over lawv tej qub txeeg qub teg and everything else that they have. Your brother stupid too.
You should have done this earlier than your mom might not be so broke. You waited until both of your parents were gone. Ruam tiag. You are a sister that was too involved in your parents and your brother’s life. So Annoying
Tsis yog tim koj tus nyab xyhob txhiaj ko tim koj txiv xwb cias kom nws tuag li dev tuag xwb thiaj tsim nyog nawb
😅😅😅😅😅 Nev Nev Nev
Wow kuv xav tias nqa kabpaus kim2 ntshe muaj2 nyiaj no ntshe yog ib txhia xwb os yom
Koj kuj tsis yog ib tug muam zoo kiag li thiab nawb. Yog koj cov muam ua rau koj ib yam li koj ua rau koj tus nyab los tej zaum koj yeej tsis txuas siab thiab os. Koj tus nus thiab koj niam koj txiv yeej tso tus nyab nyob lub neej zoo li ntawv ne. Koj yog ib tug muam phem kawg nkaus li tsuas muaj thov kom koj txhob tau ntsib li uas koj ua rau koj tus muam xwb os.
My fil passed away way before covid. When he passed away, my husband and i got the most part, but it's a good thing one of the sil that married other race help us without any hesitation . I'm glad i have the best sister in law .
Yog lawm os cov poj niam ko ma thiaj tseem2 Yog poj niam xyob txhiaj tiag2 li os yom
Vim mob2 koj niam nkawv tes ne nyiaj Nyob ntawm nkawv tes vim li cas muab ib txhia Los kuj tseg ib txhia thiab koj niam nkawv twb ua hauj Lwm vim li cas nkawv tsis tso 401k rau nkawv naw!
Ab cov niam txiv uas cia cia siab rau cov tub es hlub cov tub tseg cov ntxhai tsi hlub ce zoo li no los maj tsi tsim nyog hlub cov tub li os lawv
Thaum ib tug txiv tsis yuav kabpaus kim, tsis yuav khau luj siab, tsis yuav phliab diamond, tsis mus party, tsis haus cawv, tsis yuav paj rau poj niam no ces nej hais tias kom nrauj tus txiv vim tsis paub hlub poj niam. Yog ib khub niam txiv sib nrauj vim tej khoom teej tug no, nej hais tias tsim nyog kawg. Tabsis thaum nej muaj ib tug nyab los yog niam ncaus ua li no es pluag tag tsis muaj nyiaj los pam nej niam thiab nej txiv no ces nej hov hais tias yog ib tug nyab xyob txhiaj thiab nyab siab phem, nyab poj dab, nyab corruption, nyab noj nyoog haus txias.. Come on poj niam hmoob..
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Should have let them deal and pay for all funeral expenses. Period
Love the ho ho ho stories
You must be proud but this whole situation is not ur nyab's fault. It is nobody's own fault but your parents.
Nyob zoo os tus phauj. Kuv xav kom koj piav kuv ib zaj dab neeg es yuav ua cas thiaj li contact tau koj
Lub ntuj nyob qis qis li lawm os. Tsis txob siab phem txw yus tej nus mus tham hluas nkauj thaum lawm tseem muaj ib lub neej tsam ib hnub ho yog yus nawb. Txawm lawv lub neej yuav zoo thiab phem los cia lawv ua tus txiav txim siab es kev phem thiaj tsis raug rau yus rau yav ntom ntej. Mloog mas tus muaj no siab phem kawg. Muab txua tsav yam phem pov rau tus nyab xwb.
Cov biag muam phem li mas txhob pub tuaj ntxub heev
Wow, this is one of the most horrible story I have ever heard of a wicked woman like this narrator is. Not only you so jealous of your nyab but you did everything to destroy her. Girl, she doesnt share the same D with you enough for you to go beyond this length to destroy her. You will get your karma for not staying your ground. You should be ashamed of yourself. This got to be a women world where they go against each other. This narrative is insane on all levels!
So you enable your brother to cheat what kind of sister are you
Sister why do you care, you're an outsider, your parents want their son to be happy, its their fault, why do you keeps getting involved with your brother's life..
I like to hear your ex sister-in-law’s side of the story
YOU are part of the problem. Sisters like you always have bad intentions and always think they have a say in their brother’s life. Don’t do that!! I am pretty sure your sister in law acts like that because she is tired of your BS. I know a few sisters who dont mind their own business just like you. Please focus on your life, not your brother’s. Shame on you!
That's why I don't like diamond
You are prolly just like ur sis n law. U know her story well becus u one urself! 😂😂😂 aint no way in hell will i give that much fawk bout my bro marriage life. OG hmoob folks already sign ther death when they give everything to ther son knowing the risks! I dont have time to be giving that muchs fawks bout my dum bro who, i bet expect the wife to be paying all the bills, cook n clean n raise the kids and all he does is go to work n bak!😂😂😂
Cov nyab poj dab zoo li nej tus hauv no ntxov muab nws tso plig dov kauj vab ntxov npaum li cas ces zoo npaum li ntawd xwb.
You’re not any better.
You’re Nyab aren’t perfect but are you perfect yourself?
I don't understand the infatuation with diamonds and luxury goods. Diamonds are useless rocks with a high price placed on them by humans. 😂 Like cars, as soon as you drive them off the lot, it decreases in value. Luxury goods are a sign of fake wealth. Every time I see someone or see ppl wearing and carrying luxury goods, I just laugh bc it tells me they are just wanna be's. The luxury industry is designed to keep the poor poorer. The luxury industry is aimed at the middle class and the poor. I've met and known a few rich ppl in my life, and trust me, they don't flash their wealth! Flashing your wealth is akin to begging for robbers and scammers to rob you. 😂 The rich knows this. They buy a few sentimental, no-name luxury pieces, and that's it. Why carry a 10k bag when you have no money in it? 😂 You ain't fooling me. It's all for show. Neeg khav theeb xwb os. I'd rather invest all that money and make more money than spend it all on useless junk. Some ppl are born with it, some are not. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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