Husband Doesn't Allow Wife To Work | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2022
- For a society to develop, men and women should get equal opportunities in all kinds of fields. Females should get employment opportunities so that they can grow and become major contributors to society.
Credits:
Director: Sparsh Dhawan
AD:- Sara Singh
Script Writer: Sachin Mishra
Cinematographer: Mohit Paliwal
Assistant Camera: Neeraj Kumar Gautam, Nancy Kumari
Editor: Vishal Singla
Head of Production: Sudhanshu Mishra
Production Assistant: Anjali Tomar
Head of Post Production: Anuj Ramatri
Social Media Manager: Mariyam Alam
Channel Manager: Vivek Rajput
Actors:
Manish Panwar
Namya Saxena
Rasesh - Розваги
Hatts off nijo....... Well said.. your partner is not your property...
To everybody out there work hard and make your dreams your reality...no need of anybody's permission...
Credit goes to his friend. He made him understand that where was he wrong. Good message conveyed 🙂
Why will husband allow to work?
It should be ones choice, either to work or to stay at home.
Chahe wo male ho ya female.
Both are capable of doing job or household work.
For men saying they will "allow" their wife to work...
The fact that you think you have the authority to "allow" shows clearly that you think you are superior to her. A wife doesn't need to be allowed by her man as much as a husband doesn't need to be allowed his woman.
If they want to work , they will work. All they should do is just "inform" that they are working now, not seek permission to work.
Well said👍
True
Exactly, and they are working not just in office but in homes as well, so it's a double duty. People think because they own the house or are owner's things will work according to their likes & wishes. What if the roles were exchanged, or women were the owner's, will the men seek permission to WORK, step out, meet friends and family or to make a choice between as shown here.
Things are not as simple but as complicated as they seem.
Years of efforts are just bound in the four walls; they try to be independent and also help in building more resources but again get judged and suppressed. If women say we will tackle both our job and house shouldn't that be motivating enough.
It's high time things need to change for the better!
Everyone has a right to choose how they wanna live their life regardless of gender. Imposing your own decisions to others is what people have been seeing happening around and they kind of believe that it is their right to control the life of others.
True
It's actually very good to see Namya happy..🙂
Great Message! But Girls...... In real life, you have to take steps by your own. Nobody is gonna take that for you! So speak up for yourself and things will be change defiantly. We need to do adjustments in our life, not compromises!
Very true!
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
@@dineshrakhyani805 👊👊👊😡😡😡😡You don't never marry n you go to hell
@@dineshrakhyani805 men 💩
Nobody is going to bow down to you and if you want everything your way then just don't get married
In reality, at the end, he will go home and torture his wife, suspecting her of having an affair with his friend and telling him family matters, because his ego is burst due to another man telling him what to do about his issues with his wife. I'm glad good examples exist atleast in stories. But in the real world, things are bitter
This is the problem with some families. The girl has to listen to the father before marriage and husband after marriage.
This kind men truly exists in my home. But I don't care it n follow my dream . I had struggled a lot already but now onwards my destiny will be my decisions . I will surely crack a govt job this year itself for sure
I was doing my pg as well working in US based company(wfh). I'm a mom of 2yrs old so I work by taking care of my son. I attend my colz when in need. One of my clsmate guy asked me why you struggling by blncing home,kid job and education as my husband is government employee he is earning good.....still there are guys who did not changed their mindset according to the new era
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
@@Arjun-yo1cl he got terminated from his company due to his attitude. He was jobless for an year. His girlfriend left him for someone better. So I don't think that he is right.
@@dineshrakhyani805 Tu Kar naukrani apne pati/Bhai ya baap ki.
Dusro ko mat samjha!
Kamakkal. Bartan dho sirf.
Wahi aata hai tujhe!
Aur bachche aaye toh potty saaf karna. Uske alawa tumhe bheekh maangni bhi nahi aata
Same happened to me even too but my in laws was restricting me not my husband. .but i have taken my move strongly to go for higher education and work whatever happens now am happy doing my post graduation and work 😀with god's grace.
This is so true , every man should learn this and respect their wife's choices .....
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
@@dineshrakhyani805 no! 😂
@Dinesh Rakhyani you sound like a man who is threatened by independent women
@@dineshrakhyani805 Correctly say brother marry small town traditional value girl, not English speaking carrierist women
When walking on the path, you do not think about the destination, then you are on the right track.
I like your way of ideas and thinking process @nijo sir.....Always support your ideas ...
No point marrying an educated lady if ur just going to make her servant of ur house and marriage is based on trust don’t over control ur wives respect and support her in every where as she has sacrificed every thing for you the less u could do be supportive and loving that’s all women ask for
Same works for men . Men sacrifice too 🌹🌹
Agar ghar ki financial condition badhiya hai to jaroorat he kya hai wife ko kaam karne ki. Apne aap ko itna strong kro ki aurat k paise ki jaroorat he na pade. Paise s sab kuch kharida jaa sakta hai even normal ghar sambhalne wali wife bhi joi koi feminist nhi hogi.
@@hhhhh12552 that's was her answer don't marry educated girl just marry any maid or 10th fail girl who wants to become servant in your house
@@Amritanjali Who are u to advise me to whom I should marry??
It's none of ur business. I will marry definitely an educated girl because that's the question of my family's prestige. But not allowed to work post marriage will be cleared prenuptial. Understood no forcing no troubling. Just a commitment only
@@hhhhh12552 "allowed" ...god knows who gave so much power to you...
Nice video 📹 👍 👌 👏. Everyone acted well. One thing we should learn from this vedio both men or women should not be treated like a slave for money or restricting their passion , job or stoping doing business . Jobs and business are equally important to degree we are holding. If both men and women are equally working then there will be financial support and stability in family and we take care of family ever done before. Peace in family will arise.
This will help in overall development of our skills and our nation . Break the belief of male or female dominated society and give equall importance to all.Keep going NIJO 💪.
End of the script is wonderful n beautiful. 👍🏻
What should a girl do or not... why is it that she doesn't have any right to decide for herself. This husband is so irritating to watch when he makes decisions for his wife. But sad reality is we still have such misogynistic people still in the society. For them wife or the so called ghar ki auratein are not fellow humans but an asset or trophy they decorate their house with just like furniture and other things
Exactly
Aise logo ko muh mein bolna chahiye ki job and respect jyada imp hai.
Agar ghar ki financial condition badhiya hai to jaroorat he kya hai wife ko kaam karne ki. Apne aap ko itna strong kro ki aurat k paise ki jaroorat he na pade. Paise s sab kuch kharida jaa sakta hai even normal ghar sambhalne wali wife bhi joi koi feminist nhi hogi.
@@hhhhh12552 women kam kre toh wo faminism nhi hai thik hai...kam krne ka haq sbko hai man ho ya woman...afsos tum bhi isi thought ke ho...
@@hhhhh12552 and you r wrong ...paise se sab kuch nhi kharida ja skta...aur agr koi apne wife ko paise se kharide toh samjh hi aata hai ki wo kis type ka insan hai including you bro...
Aese ghatiya husband ko divorce hi de Dena chahiye humari b feelings h kisi ki property nhi 😠😠 but ha beautiful msg 🥰🥰
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
True..They always wants to dominate over d
Female...
@@dineshrakhyani805 you are so delusional man I hope you never get married 😭😂
Divorce se problem kya solve hongi. Society aapko accept nahi karte. Har jagah hain problem . Tumko kya lagta doosre shadi karengi tau solve ho jayengi jara isse jyada suffer karna padta aur zindagi bhar taanne sunne padte haun isliye chod diya honga. Isliye better to sort out problem. Kal uske bachche bhi apni life mein busy ho jaate hain. Husband wife he saath dete hain
Good job very important to expose domestic violence
Well said
Abhi mehngai itni hai ki Husband wife dono ka kaam karna is a better idea to sustain the family. People should understand this.
Agar ghar ki financial condition badhiya hai to jaroorat he kya hai wife ko kaam karne ki. Apne aap ko itna strong kro ki aurat k paise ki jaroorat he na pade. Paise s sab kuch kharida jaa sakta hai even normal ghar sambhalne wali wife bhi joi koi feminist nhi hogi.
@@hhhhh12552 haa toh tu apna dekh naa dusro pe kyu opinion thop rha keep your cheap mentally with you only
@@dolidevdutt5530 Cheap or bikhari mentality to teri hai
Ladki k paise p jeena chahta h kya.
Khud kamane ki aukat nii hai 😂😂😂??
Ja ladki k paise s poore kar shok apne
@@hhhhh12552 har Ghar ki financial situation better ho jayegi toh house help kaha se lagaoge?!
Bhai I equality is here to stay.
Pata nahi kaunsa nasha karke kaunsi movies dekhta hai 😂😂😂
@@lakshmikrithika2521 Mere ghar ki to financial situation bhot better hai tension mat lo m apne paise or apni job or mere mummy papa ke contacts se ek housewife aasani se khareed skta hu with dowry. Mereko apni thinking ke liye kisi movie ki jarurat nai hai samjhi. Meko apne decision lene aate hai. Meko apne liye jyada pdi likhi chahiye he nai😂 varna vo mere he sar p kudegi fake feminism k naam pe. Mera ghar mere decisions. 😬
You can't reach anywhere without covering the distance.
Namya Saxena is a very versatile actress. ♥️
Nice story 👍
Great
Very nice video.....
Everyone says Dont Judge Me, but everyone does.
Some people do the same things differently. I am also suffering with the same problem,i want to do restart my career but i can't because of some family issues.what should i do?
Nice message
Ye sir bahot axa role krte h
I hate these kind of men 😑 I'll be single forever or be a single mother by adopting a child but I'll never bear these kind of behavior 😑
Yeah I agree but not all men are bad
Agar ghar ki financial condition badhiya hai to jaroorat he kya hai wife ko kaam karne ki. Apne aap ko itna strong kro ki aurat k paise ki jaroorat he na pade. Paise s sab kuch kharida jaa sakta hai even normal ghar sambhalne wali wife bhi joi koi feminist nhi hogi.
🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔 use your common sense... I hope ur dad is not like a man... In the video so hope u learned that all the man are bad 😚😚 no negative thoughts please
@@hhhhh12552 jarurt hai
ye mentality hota hai
kl ko aapki daughter hogi aap uske as a liability samjhoge
uske paas female role model nahi hoga vo apne mummy k jaise bnna chahegi
fir aapka expection son krna hoga esse aap khush nahi rahpaoge agar son nahi hua aapko to and apki daughter jab badi hogi to aapse nafrat kregi q ki aap usko equality nahi diye
I know some of my friends who hate there parents because her parents did partiality b/w son and daughter
so it's better agar aap apna mentality change krlo toh
@@Amritanjali Madam mentality k liye 2 shaks or 2 reason responsible hote hai. Mere bhi parents dono working hai. Meko nhi pasand ki meri mummy job kre. Bachpan s bina maaa k ghar m saare kaam khud kre hai. Jo maa s kuch expectations thi vo puri nhi hui kyoki vo ek working independent lady thi. Unki vajas s muje working lady s aajtk chid hai. M nii chahta ki mere bacche bhi aage bin maa k saaye mein palle. M nii chahta vo bhi same feel kre jaise maine kiya. Isliye meko working woman nahi chahiye. Mere ghar ki annual income 80lakh plus hai. Muje paise nhi chahiye bas thodi shanti chahiye. Or shanti or working wife ek jagah nahi ho sakti. Samjhe mentality ka reason. I hate working ladies. Muje apni wife seedhi saadhi housewife he chahiye. Varna muje beta beti m farak krne ka koi shok nii hai.
After 1:09 instead of crying tell him it's better to get divorce rather than this family rule and fly as you wish 🥰🥰
Neither us or neither society no one has a right to decide your own future
But it happens rarely in real life that the obstinate husband changes his stupid and old thinking. First of all, every boy must clarify to the girl before marriage whether he should allow her for job or not. In reality, many people don't marry for happiness and wife, they just want a maid free of cost who just give free services 24/7. Every girl has the right to do any job, the boy's family might put some conditions relating to the kind of job but they don't have the right to stop any girl from doing any job which she wants to do for her happiness and financial independence. The boys who don't understand this are completely illiterate despite being educated🙂
Namya is such a dream girl
U know this is where women make a mistake, they choose their toxic families over anything else... My mom made the same mistake years ago(16 years ago) and now my parents are on the verge of divorce cuz of my father😞😞
U r right house wife is very beautiful
Very well !!! Top notch !!! Just a truest content by the end scene....! No matter what....! Come what may, go what may... Couple have the equal right to do work and housechore... Most of women are always living in house hold work, but why not men ? Men should also balance the both work and house hold work the way women are doing ! They both have an equal right on the right decisions themselves ! Old ages restrictions is which this video shown, But a woman sacrifice change her family strict restrictions, That's a great respect to humanity ever ! However family restrictions from old ages is being in the way of negative which is being like imprisonment in the golden cage. This should not happens in our life ! There should be good limit in the right restrictions, not a bad restrictions. I have seen & heard that they abusing without their knowledge which is a domestic violence ! I have seen and heard most of women were becoming victim of domestic violence , they should not get afraid of it, instead they should firmly stand against it with respect and honest...! Those women who don't have work men should always support her in her new start up work if he have more earned pension and money...! They must share equally always in their married life....! Sacrifice is the best ideal ! People must always understand and value sacrifice ! Thanks for posting this impressive video Nijo sirrr....! Hope it reach many people and make them a lesson by understanding by watching this one ! ❤
Agar ghar ki financial condition badhiya hai to jaroorat he kya hai wife ko kaam karne ki. Apne aap ko itna strong kro ki aurat k paise ki jaroorat he na pade. Paise s sab kuch kharida jaa sakta hai even normal ghar sambhalne wali wife bhi joi koi feminist nhi hogi.
@harshbhardwaj a woman needs to be independent dude.. grow tf up
@@herm8438 There are 95% people who don't want working wife.
@@hhhhh12552 yes, in yr dreams
@@yoginagowda7410 this is in reality not in dreams bcoz I am in those 95%
1st career then other for everyone
Some husband's strongly ignore these types of video, they fully decided not to change. And behave like they were not wrong. They will never try to be a good.
Yes .ur right
Actually log mostly males apni glti accept ni krte so called their male ego ...or baat jb biwi ya kisi aurat se related hoti h then they r vry adamant to accept their mistake 😏
@@madhusmitasethi3239 yeh saale mard log sab ek jsehi hai Rakshas ase mardon ko ladkiyan milna hi nhi chahiye shadi bohot karliya in saale mardon ne shadi ke naam barbaadi
@@madhusmitasethi3239 me to itna jhelti hun mujhe hi pata h.. Kitna v samjhane ki koshish karu husband maante hi ni mene work from home v suggest kiya but he listen nothing pura din bore hoti hu frustration badhta jaa raha h chidchidi ho gyi hu. Husband ka kahna h chupchap ghar me raho kahi ni jana h koi kaam ni karna h
Completely agree with you
Chalo kafi time ke baad thoda sensibble video dekhne ko mila.
To all my male fellows ask your wife to earn she should be ur supporting pillar what if u lose the job one day at that time u''ll be in much relief
Apne biwi ke peso par palne ke jitna namard nahi hu. Agar kamane ki aukat nahi tehti to shadi hi kyu karte ho.
@@sureshtripathi7 is this gender equality? Biwi bhi kamayegi toh chote ho jaoge? Uska man uski job
@@shivanshdayal2444 hamare ghar ki aurate kaam nahi karti
@@sureshtripathi7 par kyu? Agar aurat kaam kare toh dikkat kya hai?
@@shivanshdayal2444 jarurat kya hai?
They just realise temporarily then back to normal any bad attitude they give they feel guilty then again back to who thy were it's so painful
I like their content
I like too
1:10.... If I was in her case, I wld divorce him d moment he didn't allow me to work
Very good
It is very difficult to divorce..
Good movie
The second person has started speaking for injustice this is a progress 🤣
If relation is toxic , quit it as early as possible
Good
Wow
I never seek any permission from my husband. I just informed him that I will work.
thats a ladyy
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
@@dineshrakhyani805 😝😝😝🤣🤣🤣🤣 good joke. I feel sorry for your wife/future wife
@@dineshrakhyani805 kyu? Husband bhagwan h?
@@dineshrakhyani805 no one is controller of house house is not a property but it is group of people's everyone has right on there own life
Totally related to my story
It wasn't so hard for him to chose his job over his family ,but she chooses her family and yet is it not the right of the woman whether she chose to work it not ,women are not slaves but sometimes want the freedom of being independent
Who rejected me seeing my time, I swear,
I will bring such a time that I will have to meet by taking time from me..
😍👍🏻😘
Mere sath same hua ab mom k ghr pe hu UA-camr Hu reseller bhi Hu khud ka income kr rhi Hu now husband alow Happy h o bhi
If I were a husband, I will let my wife to work, there's a lot of women in my country UAE are working are married and became a parent, that husband in the video should let his wife to work so they can support each other
The fact that you think you have the authority to "allow" shows clearly that you think you are superior to her. A wife doesn't need to be allowed by her man as much as a husband doesn't need to be allowed her woman.
If they want to work , they will work. All they should do is just "inform" you that they are working now, not seek your permission to work.
@@prameetchawla worst reply
@@athribhat2243 i don't think you understood
I totally agree with @Prameet Chawla
this is the same point as parmeet has nitted to allow some one. who are others to allow them for working or any other thing. it's not mens mistake we women do not value ourselves. that's y the others start allowing us permissions
Why is she asking permission from her husband to work? Can't she take her own decisions?And who is he to permit her to work?
this actress is cute
Please our Indian society has such kind of bad attitude wherein they follow their ancestral theories. Please stop and think.thst we are living in a 21st century. Girls has to decide on their own responsibilities. They should work and both men and women are equally balanced. There is no point in saying that men can only work and females not. Just leave those families apart if such incident occurs.
Really sorry to say this but why in every video the girl is shown so weak that she can’t fight for her rights n always keeps quiet
Why should every wife wait for her husband to realise his mistake n keep giving him chance
I don’t understand why she chose him over her job
Because she should actually choose her self respect which clearly the husband was not giving
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
@@dineshrakhyani805Grow up
Man 😂
Career is more important than marriage. Mein girls ko yahi bolunga ki chod
Do aise admi ko Jo tumhe job na karne de
Mujhe ye samaj nhi ata ki wife husband ko puchti hi kyu h job ke bare mein.
Sidha jake bola mujhe job karni h air mein karungi.
Yes
*Chhod
Yes...well said...
Noble thought. Amazing!!
Nice thought
Ma itna hi bolna chahta hu ki agar aadmi ko bola jaye ki tumhe sirf ghar ka kaam karne ha baki kuch nhi to wo kaise react karega ya 2022 chal rha ha abhi bhi ladki job nhi kar sakti job sirf aadmi krega ladkiya sirf ghar ka kaam kregi to kaisa hamaare desh taraki krega ladkiya bhi padhti ha kyuki wo kuch man ska jitna hak ladko ko ha apni pahechaan manana ka utna ladkiyon ko bhi ha ya 1900 ka time nhi chal rhi ha jab ladkiyon ko boj samajhte jata tha infact mujhe aise lagta ha ki aaj ka time pe - ladkiyon zyada talented ha ladko sa hamare desh isliye itna piche ha kyuki abhi kuch log 1900 sadhi ki soch lekar jite ha aur kuch logo ko sirf ego aur attitude ki wajah se ladkiyon ko padne sa aur kaam karne sa rokte ha kyuki unko pta haki ladkiyon hamse zyada talented and capable ha 😂😎 isliye hamare inka sath comparison hoga to hamari ego hurt ho jayegi
Agreed
We all need to grow up especially in our Pakistan India Bangladesh subcontinent area. We keep this shameless mentality otherwise let fate teach you the hard way. Allah (God) give us all Hidayah guidance whatever religion creed caste we are.
Situation is changing in our country you worry about your country Pakistan you need not worry about us
Why was she silent of I would have been there in her place I would have shouted and divorced with him lol
Nijo sir I do I have story, please let me know how can I call you....
First to watch
Disappointing ending.. again
So Sunidhi chose Karen job.
Very bad Sunidhi 😅
Wish life was so simple and he apologizes and all
This name Hitesh has a curse alongwith it. My ex name was also the same and he behaved somewhat like a control freak.
No, every women should obey his men's decision and follow it religiously after all men is the controller of the house.
✌️🙏✌️
See everyone has a problem whether working ir not
Ladies who r working they also fave many issue boss ke gaali chalengi par husband thoda bhi bol tau bilkul bhi naho chalenga. Servant issue jo adha time chutti par tehti hain. Bachcho ko padana health issue. Kul milakar life mein har jagah struggle hain
Kabhi husband gussa hota tau deekhta hain wife bhi bahutental stress deti hain.
Movie hi na Aisa hi hota hi 😂
Sir I want to hug you...
Camera Is Everywhere 🙄
It is to late for him to understand
Aurat ko permission ki zarurat nahi...its her choice job karni hai ya nahi...na husband batayega na uske gharwale
Indian husbands : If wife goes against their will then husbands don't remain husbands they becomes boss and rules the life of wife. Such an injustice. You are husband you have right to express your wish final decision should be taken by wife herself. You don't have any right to shout at her when she takes her own decisions.
Ladki ko bhi haq hai kaam karne ka, aakhir problem kya hai husband's ko unki patni ke kaam se
Unka male ego hurt ho jata he
Tu itna kama leta toh usko bahar jaane ki zarurat nahi padti.
Banja Tu bhi ambani phir bola.
Ye ek do lakh ki naukriyo se itni zubaan nahi chalti.
Jab itna paisa AA jaaye tab bolna ladkiyo ko kya aur kya Nahi karna chahiye
@@lakshmikrithika2521 yeh kya tarika hai baat karne ka aap ladki hoke mujhe hi kyu bol rahi ho, eak toh ladki ka side le ke bol raha hoon ki ladki ki bhi apni aazadi hai, une bhi haq hai apne makaam pe aage badne ka aur aap ho ki ladki hoke mujhe bewajah sunaye jaa rahe ho, main ladki ka support kar raha hoon aur aap mujhe hi tane maar rahe ho
@@madhusmitasethi3239 hmm woh bhi hai
Bas ek bar apne liye khade hokar dekho. Dusre logon ko jab bhi jarurat ho unhe khada hone me madad kro. Fir kabhi bhi pichhe mud kar nhi dekhoge. Ki family ya azadi.. bas aap ki maang sahi honi chahiye.
Aise aadmi Pahle to wife ko job nahi krne denge...phr baad m apni wife se bolenge tmne paise ke liye mujhse shaadi ki .... Kyuki use pta hota h na ki ab ye puri trh dependent ho gyi h husband pe ...kahi nhi ja sakti ...uski maid ki trh hi puri life rhne k liye majboor kr dete hai
6:57 koi ......ko b smjhao
I would have said JOB
Real life me koi nhi hota jo ese husband log ko samjhae bhadkane Wale zada mil jate h 🙄
Exactly
I don't understand why women are not allow to work
The entire company is ran by 2 persons😂
😔😔😔😔
Kash koi meri hubby koibhi samjale 😭😭😭😭😭
And who tf are these people to decide for women ? Who are they to "allow" women to work ?
if I were at her place l will choose job
I should have left immediately such an irritating man. Who wants to enslave woman for entire life.
Honestly I'd rather stay home and help my kid with homework etc. After having him hardly spend any quality time with the little one
If your husband donot allow you for job...
Please you create same thing...do not allow him to job..
I hate this man... he acts so perfectly just like the way some cruel husbands dominate their wives ..
This is not a reality...this is all is over reactions....Nijo bhai... Kya ho gaya hai apke stories and content ko ....You were the best among many other youtubers who motivates through stories ..
Oh shit, he was thankful, his friend explained basic common sense to him!! He had to follow his family tradition & enslaved his wife!!
Such a shame, anyways
Such a joke. Govt job?? Nothing in life is permanent 😂
Wife working within the family is her chief and most comfortable work, it doesn't make her maid , rather going out and working under an unknown boss is a service which is mainly done by men now try to understand who is servant and who is not, feminism, western woke culture can only give a short term enjoyment later devastation
Homemaker wives are much much greater than the outdoor wives.