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I personally don't find him apologizing showed weakness ,him was trying to be nice to her , cause him could of said something differently that could of sound not to nice .
Is it me or does it seem like the people (guys or girls) that come out with the most outlandish outfits tend to be the most insecure and emotionally oblivious people? It's like they're wearing what they think people want to *SEE* but never being able to give more than that!
Why are these individuals finding anything and everything possible to have a reason to pop the balloon. It's like people who don't buy a certain house because of the color paint on the walls. Folks its the internal that matters and not the external. Stop being so vain!
First impression, he's not ready to lead a woman, not a woman of substance anyways. He's dressed a bit wild but the real issue is with his lack of confidence. Cant fake or hide that!
Whenever I buy my two toned suits, I make sure to get them custom made and don't just get them off the rack. Those sleeves are giving me hand me down flashbacks.
Apologizing for rejecting someone is wild to me! On either side, apologizing for not being attracted to them to apologizing for not being someone's type like in this case. Either case is insane to me! Never apologizing could be a sign of Narcissism but apologizing too much is very bad and can be a sign of deep insecurity!
Apologizing doesn't make you weak because I apologizes to some situation that I don't have too. It really makes me wonder if people now what a confident person look like because they all don't look the same. My family members is the best example of this me and father are confident people but he is more relax with his confidence while I am more quiet with a ego about me. My uncle is smiles a lot while another doesn't. Confidence is not this western male image with on facial expression all the time.
She was on to him, he was apologizing out of lack of confidence, he's probably a people-pleaser and just had a knee-jerk reaction but either way, Gama nailed it, unless you're told specifically what you offense you committed, if you're not committing a crime or a sin, what is the apology for? He's not exuding any confidence and she was spot on!
imagine missing love for a hoop earing/nose ring =/... But there arent any good guys out here huh ladies =/... Bro didnt display any since of "lack of confidence"... Bro walked out there with a pink and white suit, hoop nose rings, braids with jewelry, KNOWING this is going on social media/youtube... his apology wasnt an apology, it was more a statement =/... I disagree with your take on his confidence... I dont even believe she had an issue with him saying he apologized, I feel like that was a cop out... she didnt want to reach for the low hanging fruit like all the other women... women are so corny on this show... The lineups of men are far more tolerant of the superficial things.. Seems like more men are there to find love than the women...
I'm just not buying or impressed with the pink and white two-toned suit, or the shoes, the earrings, the hairstyle and nothing else about this dude. So, it really doesn't surprise me that these ladies were less than impressed as well.
I only rock my pink on Breast Cancer Day for women i would not want to stand on stable foundation with none of them woman because it will become unstable real fast for all the wrong reasons help him women wear 5 lb of makeup each and every day they step out what happened to Natural
Nah, that sister give that man a life lesson. He should be happy she did it with respect but I'm not sure if he caught it. He's definitely not ready to lead a woman!
So I like the fit. But not so much the hair. I can appreciate that he came dressed to impress. Got his hair done fresh even though the style is a bit much.
I’m not surprised that he didn’t understand what the girl in black and gray was saying. As a creative I totally understand what she meant about it being deeper than his outfit. Creative expression shows up in a NUMBER of ways, not just fashion. I get it. Takes another creative or a true intellect to get that. And when he said “I apologize” I actually took that as him not knowing what to say. Not that he was actually “sorry”. He has a limited vocabulary. You can look at his posture and his eyes, and see there’s a can missing from the six pack.
By the time he reached Lunaka (in red) I got to realising that all the women were just playing 'judge' toward him. It was as if he was supposed to present himself to win one of them as a potential future wife. They weren’t trying to figure out if he was going to choose one of them. It seamed he had to pass their emotional critical scrutiny. Isn’t he the one to reward them with a future? They are so worried about their sense of style that they forget fashion is but skin deep. Marriage and having someone to share the rest of your life with is more important. His styling would be a great talking point (and fun banter) for their kids in the future. They should be wanting to compete for his attention, not play judge. That’s lack of priority, inability to make good decisions and it leads to a bad attitude. I say bad attitude as they try to correct him when he apologises while displaying an ‘air’ of delinquent superiority (check their body language) because they act like his judge. Mind you they are not teenagers but fully grown women who are looking and hoping for a good man.
I think the other group began to pop once they heard him do two mistakes: one is to apologize, justify his reasons, and lose his confidence and his smile once he was criticized for his style, which made him appear weak. The second is him saying he would talk to them without giving much of a reason which made him appear like he had no particular standard and seem maybe desperate. This is when the other girls started to pop. I love his energy though, and i would say to him to keep his style and not get discouraged, and in fact double down on it even more and rock that shit
The biggest problem here is he just didn't come accross as a man. Sometimes stereotypes can work in your favour. He needed to present himself as a man straight up. None of that pink coloured suit with the half white jacket. Then his niceties wouldn't make him look less self assured.
Women think about performance depending on the personality a man exudes whether its soft or hard personality or even a mix.. confidence, insecurity, pride, humbleness... its all about discretion and discernment
So when he said he loves to travel for a minute i was like wow till i remembered that mr Neapolitan strawberry vanilla icecream sandwich is a postal worker and he really does travel alot
I think it's disingenuous to ask if anyone is anybody’s ‘your type’. Isn’t ‘type’ a casting that requires a set of values? For instance fat, thin, tall, short, round, light, heavy, stern, happy, big eyes, fake hair, botox enhanced features, having kids, married 5 times, too loud, combative, smoker, drinker, etc. It’s easy to reject one person for certain characters yet accept another only just because their skin is lighter or darker or their wallet is thicker. Why can’t the host ask a different question?
To my Afro American Men stop apologizing to women about your style they dont apologize for looking like there dressed up for Halloween with there Exesive weave and eyelashes Bbls and on and on.
There's a thin line between being confident and being non teachable or stubborn. It all depends on the scenario at play. So yeah he didn't necessarily have to apologize or worse he could have said im sorry thats how you feel about it but i mean in reality he did put it on and look in the mirror and thought it was good before getting on the show.
I felt sorry for him because with each popped ballon I could see his confidence go down. It's sad these women judged his book by his cover. He sounded like a wonderful gentleman. Men do that all the the time with women, but there's more women to choose from. However, there are a lot less quality men to choose from today. So, these ladies may have missed on a diamond in the rough.
At the end of the day he's a kind, sweet, stable man from what I heared, who would give two shits what he wears with that kind of character, relying on dresscode is just petty for me
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Gamma the guy commentator was keeping it 100 with final thoughts. Juju you could tell has a kind heart and isn’t the judgmental type. That’s the kinda girl I like!
not sure what you're talking about, they're fine just the way they are. Everyone else seems to be on the same script, they're always a breath of fresh air!
Definitely some baddies but they all missing out in their blessing. Thats the difference between men and women. Women choose based on the top traits while men choose based on the pool that is available.
Imagine feeling the need to apologize for not being some broads type lol... stand on your square homie they'll respect you more, but tht suit wasn't it tho👎🏿
I mean, what am I supposed to do, disagree just for the sake of it? 😂 I get where you’re coming from but most of the time, it’s too obvious what goes wrong in these shows so it’s hard to defend/support a particular angle just for argument sake but we do try to elaborate on the male/female points of view since that’s the only thing you can really distinguish when you’re trying to use simple common sense approach 💯 🙏🏼 - JuJu
This MAN Was REJECTED By A WOMAN Then APOLOGIZED For It!
*What Do Y'all Think About His Apology?*
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His apology was not needed at all
The apology made him look weak
A man should NEVER apologize for his appearance
It revealed his weakness thats all
I personally don't find him apologizing showed weakness ,him was trying to be nice to her , cause him could of said something differently that could of sound not to nice .
you can always change clothes but the most important thing is to have a person who can truly appreciate you: Those girls are just there to be on tv.
Exactly, they want a roughneck, I guess.
So sad but true
After listening to these ladies, he did not miss much.
EXACTLY 💯‼️
He only missed a few arguments, headaches, and heartaches.... DAILY! 🤣
He seems like a good man overall. Nothing shady or weird. Just a simple easygoing type of man.
You guys crack me TF up but still manage to drop jewels but I already know y'all acting up just by the first few seconds 😆
Is it me or does it seem like the people (guys or girls) that come out with the most outlandish outfits tend to be the most insecure and emotionally oblivious people? It's like they're wearing what they think people want to *SEE* but never being able to give more than that!
"Temu can you make me look like Two-Face?", "say less fam, I got you".
Precisely!
😂😂😂😂
I came to say EXACTLY this 🤣😂
He got that dangly thing in his ear! 😂😂😂😂😂 if nothing turns me off more than anything it’s a dangly earring.
He didn't have to apologize, especially not for something like that
Why are these individuals finding anything and everything possible to have a reason to pop the balloon. It's like people who don't buy a certain house because of the color paint on the walls. Folks its the internal that matters and not the external. Stop being so vain!
First impression, he's not ready to lead a woman, not a woman of substance anyways. He's dressed a bit wild but the real issue is with his lack of confidence. Cant fake or hide that!
Whenever I buy my two toned suits, I make sure to get them custom made and don't just get them off the rack. Those sleeves are giving me hand me down flashbacks.
He got that Black Friday special. Buy 1 get 500 free! He got every 2 color combo ever 😂
Makes sense
That apology was definitely a sign of weakness in his character. His more of a pleaser which is never good as a man
I disagree with you, He can apologies and still be confident.
Totally agree it was literally the reason why he got popped some more
I am super confident but I do have a habit of apologising. Damn, so many women will be single for a.long time.
That man is well respective. You always can change an outfit.But none of them is wearing their real hair and load it up with makeup..
He wore his Easter best.
Apologizing for rejecting someone is wild to me! On either side, apologizing for not being attracted to them to apologizing for not being someone's type like in this case. Either case is insane to me! Never apologizing could be a sign of Narcissism but apologizing too much is very bad and can be a sign of deep insecurity!
Powder Puff outfit.
A good, caring woman could help him out.
“That fit is fabulous it give him superpowers” 😂🤣😭 I can not with Gama
Apologizing doesn't make you weak because I apologizes to some situation that I don't have too. It really makes me wonder if people now what a confident person look like because they all don't look the same. My family members is the best example of this me and father are confident people but he is more relax with his confidence while I am more quiet with a ego about me. My uncle is smiles a lot while another doesn't. Confidence is not this western male image with on facial expression all the time.
She was on to him, he was apologizing out of lack of confidence, he's probably a people-pleaser and just had a knee-jerk reaction but either way, Gama nailed it, unless you're told specifically what you offense you committed, if you're not committing a crime or a sin, what is the apology for? He's not exuding any confidence and she was spot on!
First Impression, he was sassy if we being honest. Everything about it was not hittin for shxt 👎🏼
Oh man! He should have never apologized for that! It was all downhill from there
Nobody else heard until Arlette yelled it out "you don't have to apologize, that's you"!
She gave it to him straight.
imagine missing love for a hoop earing/nose ring =/... But there arent any good guys out here huh ladies =/... Bro didnt display any since of "lack of confidence"... Bro walked out there with a pink and white suit, hoop nose rings, braids with jewelry, KNOWING this is going on social media/youtube... his apology wasnt an apology, it was more a statement =/... I disagree with your take on his confidence... I dont even believe she had an issue with him saying he apologized, I feel like that was a cop out... she didnt want to reach for the low hanging fruit like all the other women... women are so corny on this show... The lineups of men are far more tolerant of the superficial things.. Seems like more men are there to find love than the women...
Hey ETM. Love the reactions and points of view. Y'all should do pop the balloon south Florida edition by tpindell
Shallow!!!! If he had told the girl with the mushroom hair style her makeup wasn’t matching her skin tone she would’ve been upset!!??
☝🏿🔍🎯🔥🔥Him not being able to wear an outfit that looks nice makes the ladies feel that he cannot dress to match the occasion!!
They're trying not to say too feminine without saying too feminine. Razzle Dazzle was crazy. 😂
He was dressed to impress alright, just not them 🙄
I'm just not buying or impressed with the pink and white two-toned suit, or the shoes, the earrings, the hairstyle and nothing else about this dude. So, it really doesn't surprise me that these ladies were less than impressed as well.
We’re back at it!
I don’t under why men take away their masculinity with the ear rings and long hair sometimes. He would be so much more attractive.
That suit is crazy 🤣😅😅
That being said he seems like a good dude.
I only rock my pink on Breast Cancer Day for women i would not want to stand on stable foundation with none of them woman because it will become unstable real fast for all the wrong reasons help him women wear 5 lb of makeup each and every day they step out what happened to Natural
Good point!
His poor attempt to downplay his apology makes him look even weaker and now also disingenuous. He dug himself into a deep one!
Nah, that sister give that man a life lesson. He should be happy she did it with respect but I'm not sure if he caught it. He's definitely not ready to lead a woman!
☝🏿🔍🎯🔥! His mistake was that pink and white suit that makes him look effimine.Had he wore an all Black suit he would be received better !
So I like the fit. But not so much the hair. I can appreciate that he came dressed to impress. Got his hair done fresh even though the style is a bit much.
Dressing to impress is not costuming. That suit is whack and not fitting properly either.
I’m not surprised that he didn’t understand what the girl in black and gray was saying. As a creative I totally understand what she meant about it being deeper than his outfit. Creative expression shows up in a NUMBER of ways, not just fashion. I get it. Takes another creative or a true intellect to get that.
And when he said “I apologize” I actually took that as him not knowing what to say. Not that he was actually “sorry”. He has a limited vocabulary. You can look at his posture and his eyes, and see there’s a can missing from the six pack.
Yall respect too much a lot of it is absolutely ridiculous reasons
By the time he reached Lunaka (in red) I got to realising that all the women were just playing 'judge' toward him. It was as if he was supposed to present himself to win one of them as a potential future wife. They weren’t trying to figure out if he was going to choose one of them. It seamed he had to pass their emotional critical scrutiny. Isn’t he the one to reward them with a future? They are so worried about their sense of style that they forget fashion is but skin deep. Marriage and having someone to share the rest of your life with is more important. His styling would be a great talking point (and fun banter) for their kids in the future. They should be wanting to compete for his attention, not play judge. That’s lack of priority, inability to make good decisions and it leads to a bad attitude. I say bad attitude as they try to correct him when he apologises while displaying an ‘air’ of delinquent superiority (check their body language) because they act like his judge. Mind you they are not teenagers but fully grown women who are looking and hoping for a good man.
I don’t trust people who stand sideways when talking.
I think the other group began to pop once they heard him do two mistakes: one is to apologize, justify his reasons, and lose his confidence and his smile once he was criticized for his style, which made him appear weak. The second is him saying he would talk to them without giving much of a reason which made him appear like he had no particular standard and seem maybe desperate. This is when the other girls started to pop.
I love his energy though, and i would say to him to keep his style and not get discouraged, and in fact double down on it even more and rock that shit
The biggest problem here is he just didn't come accross as a man. Sometimes stereotypes can work in your favour. He needed to present himself as a man straight up. None of that pink coloured suit with the half white jacket. Then his niceties wouldn't make him look less self assured.
I was with him til she pointed out the apology thing and even the way he handled that was very telling.
Homie out here looking like Two Face from Batman Forever if Billy Dee Williams wasnt recasted 🤣.
Nice guys (and they all said it) finish last plain and simple
Women think about performance depending on the personality a man exudes whether its soft or hard personality or even a mix.. confidence, insecurity, pride, humbleness... its all about discretion and discernment
So when he said he loves to travel for a minute i was like wow till i remembered that mr Neapolitan strawberry vanilla icecream sandwich is a postal worker and he really does travel alot
I’m sorry my brother, his Easter suit , sleeves to short, looking like an broke James Harden
This line up of women is very attractive
He should have wore something different
Juju is real, simple, what we we're used to in women, a breath of fresh air, definitely the world has changed #Commenting from Africa, Swaziland 🇸🇿
I think it's disingenuous to ask if anyone is anybody’s ‘your type’. Isn’t ‘type’ a casting that requires a set of values? For instance fat, thin, tall, short, round, light, heavy, stern, happy, big eyes, fake hair, botox enhanced features, having kids, married 5 times, too loud, combative, smoker, drinker, etc. It’s easy to reject one person for certain characters yet accept another only just because their skin is lighter or darker or their wallet is thicker. Why can’t the host ask a different question?
To my Afro American Men stop apologizing to women about your style they dont apologize for looking like there dressed up for Halloween with there Exesive weave and eyelashes Bbls and on and on.
There's a thin line between being confident and being non teachable or stubborn.
It all depends on the scenario at play.
So yeah he didn't necessarily have to apologize or worse he could have said im sorry thats how you feel about it but i mean in reality he did put it on and look in the mirror and thought it was good before getting on the show.
He just different y’all 😂
Ju ju you reminds me of Robin from the Howard Stern show… you talk and laugh like her…. Look alike too….. you are nice
The fit is not the problem, it's him! He lacks a lot of things, self-awareness and confidence are two of them! He's not ready!
I felt sorry for him because with each popped ballon I could see his confidence go down. It's sad these women judged his book by his cover. He sounded like a wonderful gentleman. Men do that all the the time with women, but there's more women to choose from. However, there are a lot less quality men to choose from today. So, these ladies may have missed on a diamond in the rough.
At the end of the day he's a kind, sweet, stable man from what I heared, who would give two shits what he wears with that kind of character, relying on dresscode is just petty for me
Etm i c yaw break these vids down cause they is long.
The woman are trying to letting my cousin the Energizer Bunny down nicely. He’s really a nice guy.
you guys have problems
if you want your audience to grow you have to be serious with this
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Gamma the guy commentator was keeping it 100 with final thoughts. Juju you could tell has a kind heart and isn’t the judgmental type. That’s the kinda girl I like!
No they don't
ETM are doing their thing and making it fun.
Chill
not sure what you're talking about, they're fine just the way they are. Everyone else seems to be on the same script, they're always a breath of fresh air!
Definitely some baddies but they all missing out in their blessing. Thats the difference between men and women. Women choose based on the top traits while men choose based on the pool that is available.
His fit is different 😂😂that man in his own lane he is not a follower.
Imagine feeling the need to apologize for not being some broads type lol... stand on your square homie they'll respect you more, but tht suit wasn't it tho👎🏿
There is nothing wrong with that suite
He has a lot of confidence to wear that its miss placed someone talked him into that, he has no sense of style.
😂😂😂
Ju Ju you agree with your co-host to much….. however I still love you guys show….
I mean, what am I supposed to do, disagree just for the sake of it? 😂 I get where you’re coming from but most of the time, it’s too obvious what goes wrong in these shows so it’s hard to defend/support a particular angle just for argument sake but we do try to elaborate on the male/female points of view since that’s the only thing you can really distinguish when you’re trying to use simple common sense approach 💯 🙏🏼 - JuJu
All this over expressions, the suit trash, 2 for 150 special, one 2 give away the other 2 throw away.