Wow! You have really spoken well. I also brought this 'holier than thou' attitude to my marriage. I thought it had to be the way I related with God. In fact I started thinking I got it wrong by getting married to my husband, but I now know better. Thanks for making it real sis. God bless
I love this content and your approach to giving her needed wisdom to consider in making her decision. This man was honest enough to open up to her,tell her his past experience, scripturally it's like this man has stripped off his old personality and put on the new one that's according to Christ.I want to implore her to look out for the positive aspect of his life now,that involves his spirituality, Godliness, and present way of life.If his imperfections is what you can live with, focus on his good , overlook his past.Our God sees our heart,and forgives in a large way,if God has done that for him do not live on it ,pursue the relationship prayerfully and wait on God for conviction and approval.
To be honest, you did an amazing job addressing the matter. But i have something i ill like to add...from how the lady talked, it seems she is the one that likes the man, it seems the man has not even shown any interests in her yet...i just thought to mention this because many ladies have entered an abusive relationship because they were the ones that suggested it to the man, its a dangerous thing if the man take advantage of this
She's not judging she is just concerned about being married to someone who has had past sexual partners , this may also comes with baggages . Lets just be honest
As long as the man is willing to wait with you and not have sex with you until marriage and he's not cheating on you, you are good to go. I love that part of your husband. My man also is dropping some things for me, he's not a virgin. I've come to realize that there's no ' perfect' person out there. If the man is good for you, it's good. You might not get a better person than him, you might get as well. It's 50/50.
I love this question; I myself have wondered about this. But two things came up for me when thinking about it after watching this video. One, the first source of advice that we seek should always come from God; so I think that when looking for someone to advise us on anything, the first resource should be God, which includes via scripture, because ultimately it is His advice that we want to follow. And two, just in my personal opinion, how the person you're interested in's past relates to his present is something to consider. Does he still engage with women in the ways that he did before? What kinds of changes, if any, do there seem to be? Because even though I believe in a sense we can't hold someone accountable for what they have done previously, we can in the sense of seeing the influence that past may still be having on their present. And then just lastly, just in my personal opinion again, if the man is to be a renewed man then the other women he was with would not have stolen the first time for you all; because he would be a totally different person from what he was then, and you all's experience would be totally different. These are just my opinions, but again I think overall what is important is what God has to say about all of it 🙏🏾. Thank you for the question, and thank you Victoria for what you are doing for us 💖
I get what she means,you kind of feel cheated in a way. Saving yourself only to end up with someone who has so much experience. I used to feel like her,now im 28 and i know most guys have had experience. So it's about acceptance and not being self righteous.
Yes o and you just might appreciate that experience when the time comes. Some people develope one aspect of their lives and leave others. They're some entitled, bad behaved Virgins who feel everything will fall into their laps just because they're Virgins and they are forgetting every other aspects of their lives😅
I believe that keeping yourself is a personal thing. And the primary reason is because of your relationship with God. It is left for God to decide whether to give you a virgin or not. As far as one is now in Christ is what matters
It's not only personal. Because when you have s*x, it involves somebody else. Imagine walking in the street and every woman knows your partner intimately but you. The Bible says 1 Cor 7:3 "the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife". So if the wife herself hates and avoids fornication, of course she wants the same for her husband to be. Because it will be like her own body.
@@elodiest6271 what I mean is that you are keeping yourself because of your personal conviction and it is not for you to expect the same from other people who may have tested life before they made Christ
Vicky you are looking good my dear. Good talk realistic opinion you just gave. Only Christ is the standard not any man. Even Ruth the moabitess shouldn't be used of God. Greetings to mr Fash
You just gave terrible and dangerous advice. The bible is clear that grace does not prevent the rules of wedlock and marriage. Read 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel for more enlightenment.
Wow! You have really spoken well. I also brought this 'holier than thou' attitude to my marriage. I thought it had to be the way I related with God. In fact I started thinking I got it wrong by getting married to my husband, but I now know better. Thanks for making it real sis. God bless
I love this content and your approach to giving her needed wisdom to consider in making her decision.
This man was honest enough to open up to her,tell her his past experience, scripturally it's like this man has stripped off his old personality and put on the new one that's according to Christ.I want to implore her to look out for the positive aspect of his life now,that involves his spirituality, Godliness, and present way of life.If his imperfections is what you can live with, focus on his good , overlook his past.Our God sees our heart,and forgives in a large way,if God has done that for him do not live on it ,pursue the relationship prayerfully and wait on God for conviction and approval.
To be honest, you did an amazing job addressing the matter. But i have something i ill like to add...from how the lady talked, it seems she is the one that likes the man, it seems the man has not even shown any interests in her yet...i just thought to mention this because many ladies have entered an abusive relationship because they were the ones that suggested it to the man, its a dangerous thing if the man take advantage of this
Thank you for your wisdom.
Let her be more realistic and stop judging if she is willing to settle down.
She's not judging she is just concerned about being married to someone who has had past sexual partners , this may also comes with baggages . Lets just be honest
Hi Victoria! You have a special place in my heart❤️. Thank you for consistently yielding to this cause.
As long as the man is willing to wait with you and not have sex with you until marriage and he's not cheating on you, you are good to go. I love that part of your husband. My man also is dropping some things for me, he's not a virgin. I've come to realize that there's no ' perfect' person out there. If the man is good for you, it's good. You might not get a better person than him, you might get as well. It's 50/50.
I love this question; I myself have wondered about this. But two things came up for me when thinking about it after watching this video. One, the first source of advice that we seek should always come from God; so I think that when looking for someone to advise us on anything, the first resource should be God, which includes via scripture, because ultimately it is His advice that we want to follow. And two, just in my personal opinion, how the person you're interested in's past relates to his present is something to consider. Does he still engage with women in the ways that he did before? What kinds of changes, if any, do there seem to be? Because even though I believe in a sense we can't hold someone accountable for what they have done previously, we can in the sense of seeing the influence that past may still be having on their present.
And then just lastly, just in my personal opinion again, if the man is to be a renewed man then the other women he was with would not have stolen the first time for you all; because he would be a totally different person from what he was then, and you all's experience would be totally different. These are just my opinions, but again I think overall what is important is what God has to say about all of it 🙏🏾. Thank you for the question, and thank you Victoria for what you are doing for us 💖
Mrs Fash I hope you did enjoy the sunshine we had recently.
Wow you explained and addressed the question really well precise and to the point. Well done
I get what she means,you kind of feel cheated in a way. Saving yourself only to end up with someone who has so much experience. I used to feel like her,now im 28 and i know most guys have had experience. So it's about acceptance and not being self righteous.
Yes o and you just might appreciate that experience when the time comes. Some people develope one aspect of their lives and leave others. They're some entitled, bad behaved Virgins who feel everything will fall into their laps just because they're Virgins and they are forgetting every other aspects of their lives😅
" No christian is a standard, God is still dealing with all of us"👌👌👌
I believe that keeping yourself is a personal thing. And the primary reason is because of your relationship with God. It is left for God to decide whether to give you a virgin or not. As far as one is now in Christ is what matters
It's not only personal. Because when you have s*x, it involves somebody else. Imagine walking in the street and every woman knows your partner intimately but you.
The Bible says 1 Cor 7:3 "the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife". So if the wife herself hates and avoids fornication, of course she wants the same for her husband to be. Because it will be like her own body.
@@elodiest6271 what I mean is that you are keeping yourself because of your personal conviction and it is not for you to expect the same from other people who may have tested life before they made Christ
@hopeabraham7162 yes but I can understand that as a consequence of personal conviction, someone can be uncomfortable with this.
Vicky you are looking good my dear. Good talk realistic opinion you just gave. Only Christ is the standard not any man. Even Ruth the moabitess shouldn't be used of God. Greetings to mr Fash
Great words
This just so amazing cause these what I and my girlfriend was just talking about
In my country, most women, virgin or not want to marry a man who had some sexual experience.
We marry character not only the physical aspect of the person.
Wow!
Thank you so much ❤❤
Hi Vicky happy sunday
The bible never called Rahab a prostitute. She was referred to as a harlot and not a prostitute.
The More women are aged , the more they will meet man with experience or with children.
Can I use it to send dollar to someone in the US? Iam in Nigeria let me know.
You seem to be trusting in your own imagination instead of learning the rules of wedlock and marriage.
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You just gave terrible and dangerous advice. The bible is clear that grace does not prevent the rules of wedlock and marriage. Read 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel for more enlightenment.
Hi Vicky happy sunday