I dont want to judge the dad too much considering OP is trying to rebuild their relationship, but the man is definitely an idiot. How could you choose those brats over you amazing, smart child!?
I do. This new woman is badmouthing his dead wife, mistreating his daughter, and he looks down on people because they make less money than him. He’s either a spineless moron or is complicit in all of this…I’m leaning towards the latter. He’s a failure as a father and as a man.
Literally one if not both of the daughters are walking around the house half naked? And walking into random rooms? How likely do you think it is that he messes around with all 3 chicks just due to maybe looking good and having a 6 digit income 😂
Put yourself into the father’s shoes. Would you stay with a woman who badmouthed your dead wife? Would you look down on somebody for having less money? The man’s a narcissist and was probably cheating on OP’s mother for years with this woman.
this is wild as hell. im so happy for op. congrats on the engagement! and im glad to see someone successfully put their foot down for a damn good purpose! :)
Im really confused why dad's an idiot. I would like to think since he earns a six figure income he wouldn't have an issue being an adult. Really makes me wonder what the other family stories are. Why doesn't the new wife know about the home and who owns what. I would think in two years the subject would have come up. Not inviting her to the wedding... Being a doormat to let new wife to rule the roost thats not his... So many questions.
Alright watched the first min and had to stop. I don’t know what part of the world this is in and I’ll start with that. In most parts of the us if the father was paying the taxes on it (he most likely was) for more than 4 years OP technically doesn’t own the house anymore and the father could just file a claim with the local tax office and have the deed changed over. But once again idk where this is taking place and what state it’s in if it’s the USA. There are also lots of other legal issues going on with the will depending on such as well. You are not the AH but I would definitely get a estate lawyer asap cause this could go a lot of ways in the courts eyes not in OP’s favor.
@@theresakerins4563 getting hostile but didn’t read my comment all the way through clearly. All I stated was laws vary from country’s around the world and from state to state here in the USA. An estate lawyer should always be involved here in the USA when stuff like this comes up since paper work may have been signed but not honored by either party. Here in the USA documentation is everything, even if it seems small make sure it’s recorded cause it just might save your butt one day.
"..he doesn't approve of him since he's middle class." Well, there went every drop of sympathy I had for the father.
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This has nothing to do with the story but 7 bedrooms?!?!?! And 8 baths!! Damn they must be well off
Honestly when I hear the words “ancestral house” that shit just makes sense
Her dad literally didn't approve of her boyfriend bc he's 'middle class', and refers to her dad's six figure salary as decent or modest or smth
I dont want to judge the dad too much considering OP is trying to rebuild their relationship, but the man is definitely an idiot. How could you choose those brats over you amazing, smart child!?
"I didn't tell you I was dating because I didn't know how you'd react, so I got married and then told you."
Make it make sense.
The head he used wasn't the one on his shoulders
I do. This new woman is badmouthing his dead wife, mistreating his daughter, and he looks down on people because they make less money than him. He’s either a spineless moron or is complicit in all of this…I’m leaning towards the latter. He’s a failure as a father and as a man.
Literally one if not both of the daughters are walking around the house half naked? And walking into random rooms? How likely do you think it is that he messes around with all 3 chicks just due to maybe looking good and having a 6 digit income 😂
@@shawnhiggins1005 🤢
Put yourself into the father’s shoes. Would you stay with a woman who badmouthed your dead wife? Would you look down on somebody for having less money? The man’s a narcissist and was probably cheating on OP’s mother for years with this woman.
My best guess
Yes
How much do you want to bet that the twins are his
Ima bet 5 bucks
Im betting about $10
Oh wow, i wish i had half the self control and composure she has. You managed the whole situation really well ma'am.
Those twins might be his ......
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Dad wasn't made to choose. He was just made to act on the choice he'd already made.
Too bad your father lied and told his new wife it was his house, but that’s between the two of them. You handled things well.
The new couple needs their own territory. Wait until Steph sees they can only afford a two bedroom apart.
Of course you did the right thing
How long did it take everyone else to realize this is a Cinderella retelling?
this is wild as hell. im so happy for op. congrats on the engagement! and im glad to see someone successfully put their foot down for a damn good purpose! :)
It's like a Cinderella story but in a different version! I like it❤
What in the Cinderella madness is this!
Girl, make your own family.Uou gave them a down payment? You opened the piggy bank. They will be back with sob stories.
Why give them money? If he makes SIX figures!!
When she said her dad makes a decent living…of 6 figures! 😮
Right but them she also she paid the down payment to help them out. Why would he need help ?
@@jeanna7851 meaning she is probably wealthy
Im really confused why dad's an idiot. I would like to think since he earns a six figure income he wouldn't have an issue being an adult. Really makes me wonder what the other family stories are.
Why doesn't the new wife know about the home and who owns what. I would think in two years the subject would have come up. Not inviting her to the wedding... Being a doormat to let new wife to rule the roost thats not his...
So many questions.
Absolutely 💯
Mother after money... Dad should have a prenup or postnup.
Nta
I don’t think this was “am I the asshole?” story lol
Bro how you gonna put a 10 minute story in shorts?
Terrible father
Alright watched the first min and had to stop. I don’t know what part of the world this is in and I’ll start with that. In most parts of the us if the father was paying the taxes on it (he most likely was) for more than 4 years OP technically doesn’t own the house anymore and the father could just file a claim with the local tax office and have the deed changed over. But once again idk where this is taking place and what state it’s in if it’s the USA. There are also lots of other legal issues going on with the will depending on such as well.
You are not the AH but I would definitely get a estate lawyer asap cause this could go a lot of ways in the courts eyes not in OP’s favor.
Why do you think the OP father is paying taxes on the home instead of her? When she works also.
@@Nashae-kz5bc some had to be… she got it at 16
You did not pay attention. They BOTH signed paperwork saying they WOULD NOT contest anything.
@@theresakerins4563 getting hostile but didn’t read my comment all the way through clearly. All I stated was laws vary from country’s around the world and from state to state here in the USA. An estate lawyer should always be involved here in the USA when stuff like this comes up since paper work may have been signed but not honored by either party. Here in the USA documentation is everything, even if it seems small make sure it’s recorded cause it just might save your butt one day.
@@Nashae-kz5bc she got it at 16… no way she’s paying the taxes on it at 16 let alone could even legally claim it here in the USA.
Nta
Nta