Feeling Like a TOTAL FAILURE ? [ Don't Skip ] - This video is for YOU

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  • Опубліковано 12 січ 2025

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  • @Ishitakchoudhary
    @Ishitakchoudhary 15 днів тому +16

    Bhaiya, I'm preparing for Neet 2025. Is journey mein mai kitna left out, anxious aur depressed feel kr rahi thi usko mai explain bhi nhi kr skti. Lekin ek phrase hai "Pta nhi kis roop mein aakr narayan mil jaayega" . You know what meri liye vo roop aap ho. Maine jab se aapki videos dekhna shuru kiya hai tabse mere andr ek positive aur analytical soch develop ho rhi hai . Aap ek mere liye ek mentor ho. Aur ab mujhe pkka yakeen hai ki itni baar idhr udhr bhatakne ke baad ab koi kujhe guide krne wala mil gya hai. Jiske guidance mein mai apni life improve kr skti hu . Mere paas shabd bhi nhi hai aapka shukriya ada krne ke liye. Lekin phir bhi dil se Thank you. Thank you soo soo sooo much ✨️

    • @myonlylilac
      @myonlylilac 15 днів тому

      Same yaar his videos help a lot in this rat race.

  • @anonymous-m5s6b
    @anonymous-m5s6b 14 днів тому +2

    This video hits hard . As someone who has always got good greats without trying and was always at the top on the class appreciated and loved by all the adults ,after hitting rock bottom as a student after the lockdown it was impossible to even accept that im not the same anymore so i hope i can accept it , embrace my mistakes and move forward with only better things now and accept that my exams dont define me !

  • @Ankitasingh05x
    @Ankitasingh05x 15 днів тому +3

    I found you at the lowest phase OF my life and trust me you're the reason why Ive started believing in myself. I can't thank u enough thankyou so much . Your channel is gonna be soo famous one day mark my works

  • @sid2k7
    @sid2k7 15 днів тому +1

    7:53 completely true. was one of the top scorers and most meritorious student all my life. reached 11th, saw my own best friend constantly getting ahead of me in every single aspect. academics, sports, social life, etc for 2 years straight. fucked my self esteem to such a level that i now feel "at rock bottom" for the first time in my life. the simple lack of self esteem and loss of confidence has thrown me into such a deep downward spiral that i dont even know how to get up anymore.

  • @cheeseandcat703
    @cheeseandcat703 15 днів тому +2

    16 year old here and going through a tough time in life with jee,seeing everyone around me succeed except me and have a focus disorder but not gonna stop working till the end,ur video opened my eyes seriously,gonna watch this video everytime i feel low

    • @ashtheticbrownies
      @ashtheticbrownies 15 днів тому

      in the same boat bro. aap akele nahi ho. hum saath mei is dikkat se niklenge. i believe in you. and in us.

  • @saanvisalunke7196
    @saanvisalunke7196 15 днів тому +2

    Pls don’t stop posting !! I’m going through this phase I legit cried for 2 hrs yesterday, you got me out of this ❤ thank youu❤

  • @imtrusfrated99
    @imtrusfrated99 15 днів тому +1

    These fears will start holding you back, more than u ever realise, be compassionate to yourself, agar fail huye but only after giving your best, certainly kuch to aisi cheez hogi that is bigger and actually waiting for you.. Be self-compassinate, but don't also drown yourself in self-pity, because duniya phir bhi chati rahegi, it's you who will decide whether you want to move ahead kyunki baaki to hrr cheez, trauma, mindset issues, emotional turmoils, sbb kuch ek level pr ek hi kaam krr rhe hain, i.e, to stop you. Figure this out and don't let unawareness ruin your life. Great video overall❤

  • @kshitijmayank6694
    @kshitijmayank6694 15 днів тому +2

    so after watching this i think this should be appreciated . currently i can relate with each and every second of the video and i have conclude i'm not a failure and ye sab maine khud ko bas ek mayajaal me gher rakha hai.. everything he said gave me clarity about so many things and i think it's time to get back to zero and start getting 1 percent better everyday. thank you so much for this bhai. actually i was kind of lost and i think this video found me.. thanks a lot shashank bhai

  • @Yogita_sahu29
    @Yogita_sahu29 16 днів тому +4

    The way you explain everything is so so fine, there's no need to watch another video❤️

  • @Yogita_sahu29
    @Yogita_sahu29 16 днів тому +8

    You are the only channel whose not a single video I have missed👀

  • @vandanalodhi3222
    @vandanalodhi3222 13 днів тому

    From my bottom of the heart thank you Shashank for making these self help videos❤ I'm with this channel when you have 49 subscribes i literally thought you have a great scope in UA-cam career man!! and look your growth is tremendous and believe me I'm so glad for you. Plz don't stop making videos they helping my alot .I continuously failing in my competitive exam and i literally lost my self confidence. I don't wanna meet anyone like what if they ask me oh how's your life going, khi job mili kya?? Than what can i say i have no words but most painful thing is when someone ask this question to my parents they are embarassed and it's scatter my heart that i can't even make them proud. I just want to be independent and fulfill every wishes of them before my marriage but I don't know what is god plans and how can i oversome with this. I just want to be happy and relax atleast once😢 😢 sorry for long comment koi na pde chalega bas dil halka ho gya thoda

  • @shambhavigaunkar6758
    @shambhavigaunkar6758 15 днів тому +2

    Thanks for changing my life dude❤😭

  • @gunjansometimes
    @gunjansometimes 15 днів тому

    Couldn't make peace with the fact that i flunked in my exams until i saw this. Dil se Thanks.❤️

  • @ANKITA-uz2ur
    @ANKITA-uz2ur 15 днів тому +1

    i found about your channel recently..n aapka video ek dm perfect moment of time pe aataa h...this video of yours just made me cry..!!!

  • @30Phani
    @30Phani 15 днів тому

    Thank You for this video. I needed to hear this.

  • @Neetaspirant2004
    @Neetaspirant2004 15 днів тому +2

    Please you don't Stop Posting i am a 4th year neet dropper i know this year i clear neet but still I felt that am i a failure continuously i questioning myself but now definitely i comback and thankyou for this push....

  • @Snehaa_285
    @Snehaa_285 16 днів тому

    Bro I don't know how to thank you ❤️
    Me abhii life k usi phase se guzr rhi huu sochti thi koi to help kre but there was no one ..fir ek din mene apki vdo dekhi ..ab me jb b low feel krti hu apki vdo dekh leti hu

  • @foreverus716
    @foreverus716 15 днів тому

    From bangladesh , loved thjs video , will comeback after 20 days again

  • @Drishtigarg1
    @Drishtigarg1 15 днів тому

    Failure is a part of success you should be proud of yourself that you tried atleast thats the win in the ist place most peoples dont even try of the fear of being failed.

  • @Prash-m2m
    @Prash-m2m 15 днів тому

    Failure, is such a scary word for me I'm so scared of life everywhere I think of my life is just end with falling apart I don't know what to do where to start it's not one part of life is falling apart, even if I try to be a better person again this tough cycle repeat

  • @MehzabinParween-bh6ic
    @MehzabinParween-bh6ic 14 днів тому

    Thankyou bhaiya ❤❤

  • @MaiKarsaktaHu-j2g
    @MaiKarsaktaHu-j2g 15 днів тому

    Bhaiya you are helping me a lot. Thank you soo much. I am trying and will keep trying to get better each day.

  • @vansh_01_
    @vansh_01_ 16 днів тому +2

    Thankyou bhaiya😭❤️

  • @SelfReflection-w9h
    @SelfReflection-w9h 16 днів тому +1

    Bro really ur video helped a lot and it still helping thanks a lot

  • @aditishetty757
    @aditishetty757 16 днів тому +1

    Much needed! ❤

  • @Beingbetter69
    @Beingbetter69 15 днів тому

    Consistency on top 📈📈

  • @s.7624
    @s.7624 15 днів тому +2

    Thank you bhaiyaa what I learnt from this video is to let myself give permission to fail 🤧& it’s okay to not have figured out everything & that life is a journey so we will learn our lessons eventually 🥹 also bhaiya can you PLEASEEEEEEEEE make video ofWHY PEOPLE DO BINGE EATING & EMOTIONAL EATING i suffer from that myself but because this is not about just weigh loss what is the psychology behind it & how to make mindset shift to change myself into better version of myself physically , mentally& emotionally … from choti behna sonu & Thank you in advance i know you will make video on it soon ❤

  • @srishti473
    @srishti473 16 днів тому +1

    Congrats for 7 K 🎉...and counting...

  • @tattvabodhaka6140
    @tattvabodhaka6140 16 днів тому +1

    I make notes/worksheets of some of your videos. They help me brainstorm towards a solution!

  • @deepakdamodar3484
    @deepakdamodar3484 15 днів тому +1

    Sahi kar rahe ho bhai, lage raho .

  • @NdaAspirant-l6x
    @NdaAspirant-l6x 16 днів тому +2

    Thank you so much bhaiya ❤❤....plz keep uploading videos....one day you are gonna make a magic 🪄✨.....this video helped me a lot to change my thinking 🔥....

  • @adarshanand2956
    @adarshanand2956 15 днів тому

    You're so good bhai, Spotify pr bhi daalo ise

  • @dushyantsinghchauhan7050
    @dushyantsinghchauhan7050 15 днів тому

    Bro Thanks a lot ❤
    Aapka Timing ekdum perfect hai bro aaj mein bhi aesa hi feel kr ra tha yr but thank you so much for this video 🙏
    Bhai meri ek request hai aapse Ki ek video past Ki Guilt par bhi banao.

  • @KavyaSharma-t2b
    @KavyaSharma-t2b 15 днів тому

    This man❤

  • @uditakushwaha5445
    @uditakushwaha5445 16 днів тому

    thank you so much bhaiya

  • @ShubhiPathak6392
    @ShubhiPathak6392 15 днів тому

    Bhaiya do share about good relationship and toxic relationship. And how they affect and may help in studies.

  • @She.theNeetdropper
    @She.theNeetdropper 15 днів тому

    People ask what you are taking to 2025? My only reply will be this channel tbh .... It has helped me alot by alot i means so so much 🙃
    You're literally my favourite thankyou!🎀

    • @ShashankThisSide
      @ShashankThisSide  8 днів тому

      this is the best comment tbh ! made my day..thank you girl !!

  • @okiamcool
    @okiamcool 16 днів тому

    needed

  • @envy9775
    @envy9775 15 днів тому

    badhiya hoodies h yaar aapki

  • @ani.281
    @ani.281 16 днів тому

    Yaar subtitles are attractive and hits hard🎉❤

  • @aasthasahu6090
    @aasthasahu6090 15 днів тому

    Make a video on how to dealt with your old self and came out of it?

  • @divyasaini4685
    @divyasaini4685 15 днів тому

    He's gonna be next sandeep Maheshwari

  • @Ashmitaspace12
    @Ashmitaspace12 16 днів тому +2

    Look who posted 😭🙏🏻.
    Pookie man posteddd...🙏🏻😭🎀

  • @Kanikasinghh-92
    @Kanikasinghh-92 13 днів тому

    Bhaiya which books should i read ? To overcome my negativity, to improve myself (mujh books pdhna psnd ni tha but mujhh chahiye ki mein kru iss loop mein se nilkne ke liye )

  • @_methegreat
    @_methegreat 16 днів тому

    If also i grow up other people who did not know about my past but they just know me little bit like i am not good in study and everything when i will meet them again they will said to everyone how she will succeed show much? This thought pull me not to grow up idk why.

    • @Aayush-i2h
      @Aayush-i2h 15 днів тому

      I am myself doomed rn. I have developed anxiety problems, depression, and had 3-4 panic attacks in some months. I also used to think about what my image will be in front of these people. I don't really care about them now and you shouldn't either. Those people you're talking about haven't even lived 1% of your life, they don't know your past, they don't know your ambitions, they don't know your problems, they don't know your mindset these reasons are enough to not take them seriously.

    • @_methegreat
      @_methegreat 15 днів тому

      @Aayush-i2h Thanks😄

  • @Mr.Kwatrochi
    @Mr.Kwatrochi 15 днів тому

    Bhaiya, I am in a very very deep and troubling confusion and would be extremely grateful agar aap meri help kar sakein.
    I am currently in ca inter and i know ki ca banna meri 1st priority hai.But phir main overthink karne lag jaata hoon ki CA banne ke baad : job kaunsi karunga, work life balance par dhyan doon ya nahin, foreign settle hoon ya nahin, growth and money par focus karoon or family par, self discovery karoon ya nahi,relationship mein aaun ya nahin aur agar haan toh kab, kahin mera saccha pyaar mujhe ca banne ke pehle hi mil gaya but mein usse reject kar doon just because I think ki ca banne ke liye single hona zaroori hai,biwi sahi milegi ya nahin,etc ...
    And yahi sab sochne mein mera poora din nikal jaata hai aur tension itni badh jaati hai ki mujhe kayi-kayi raat neend tak nahin aati hai aur panic attacks aane lagte hain aur padhai bhi bilkul nahin ho paa rahi hai.
    Please help me

    • @ShashankThisSide
      @ShashankThisSide  15 днів тому

      Bhai I've made vids condition. Kindly watch vids. Also keep commentis concise. Due to time constraints I read longer cmts less

    • @Mr.Kwatrochi
      @Mr.Kwatrochi 15 днів тому

      ​@@ShashankThisSideSure Bhai.
      Thanks for replying😊

  • @adarshanand2956
    @adarshanand2956 15 днів тому

    What's your favourite word?
    Shashank bhai - Endeavour!! 😂😂❤

  • @devarwal_vishal
    @devarwal_vishal 11 днів тому

    bro your stage-name ?

    • @ShashankThisSide
      @ShashankThisSide  9 днів тому

      back then it was sankalkp , abhi to shashank this side hi

  • @anshverma9149
    @anshverma9149 15 днів тому

    Brother aap 1on1 session lete ho? if i want to talk on Audio/Video call, is it possible? if yes, then how?

    • @ShashankThisSide
      @ShashankThisSide  14 днів тому

      Starting frm next year. Soon... I'll try everything to make it worth it. Currently...comments are the only best way. Might take some more time... Coz I wanna give max value from my side... 🙏🏻 Appreciate your love.

    • @anshverma9149
      @anshverma9149 14 днів тому +1

      @ShashankThisSide you should start brother parralally with youtube videos

  • @bloodysanid
    @bloodysanid 15 днів тому

    spam mt kr yr fir local content lgta

    • @ShashankThisSide
      @ShashankThisSide  15 днів тому

      Bhai I don't do for only content, there is a voice of consciousness that guides me to make content. I hope you appreciate it. It ain't spam from my side, i can vouch for this

    • @bloodysanid
      @bloodysanid 15 днів тому

      @Shashank this side i appreciated it that's why i am your subscriber buddy ❤️

    • @ShashankThisSide
      @ShashankThisSide  15 днів тому

      I appreciate your support bro. Will always vouch for providing as best as I can.