The Truth About Being Black And Dating in Japan (Black in Japan) | MFiles
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- In this clip from an upcoming Melanated Files (MFiles) episode, entrepreneur Donald Gray, talks dating in Japan. Stay tuned for the full episode.
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Thanks for watching! Watch the FULL interview here:
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A bit short, but its enough for me to expect even more future newer episodes from BEJ : Ranzo, Wife and family!
B1
Will there be a black female version about the same topic
Can u do a segment on the history of the black people in Japan?
I'm a veteran who has spent some time overseas including Korea and Japan and that is correct: white folk are gonna white folk
Yes he was
My man let him talk for 9 mins and didn’t interrupt once. So refreshing.
That’s great journalism/interviewing! Let them talk themselves silly. They reveal more.
Yeah that is great skills to have . Listening!
Very good conversation and informational.⭐😁
As a Japanese, yes what you say here is true. These people are influenced by Americans who detest African American. I love black people, we have 2 black friends in our group and they are awesome.
Edit: Most Japanese like and wants to know about blacks people. Sorry for bad English. I am still in process.
It's OK I actually am trying to learn Japanese myself
@@KARMAGEDDEM 📠 3 different alphabets me too
Yooo we should teach each other my brother
君の英語をとても上手に話す😉✌
@@kenwu7 🤔❓❓❓❓
Super nervous and scared to talk about it but we all know the truth bro.
@Regnery Cruz Apparantley documented history during active Jim Crow segregation was racist. That's crazy yo!!! Tell us more.
@Regnery Cruz No matter what you me are still gaijjn. So no special treatment from Japanese who haven't been poisoned by hate.
@@mrsoshadabaadman Yeah, We're in equal ground.
You know as a black man I don't like these conversation. Painting white people as bad. So being an American form Jamaica. If I travel any were I got American privilege. If I put away my credit card get local currency's speak more like Jamaican am treated worse than than in America. And in all my years here the few times that has happened is nothing to talk about. Stop tearing down AMERICA the American people. Because your in the presence of people who would like to be here. It's American privilege and yes the genuine good people.
@Loud Italian You're racist for assuming he was thinking something racist.😆
My guy was doing his best to not offened anyone😂😆🤣
Frfr 😂
He articulates himself so much he wanted to use the most words to stay completely safe lol
For real. Was a shame at that point.
It took up half the video.
I always feel like their scared to actually be real.
I love how blunt but appreciate he is! No cutting corners but also telling the WHOLE truth.
As an Black make from America living in Japan for over 15 years now, I can say that I’ve watched many of your videos. My experience in Japan has been very positive in all parts of my life. I often tell people that I actually feel like I’m treated better than many Japanese in their own country sometimes. In the work force I’m very sure I am treated better than the Japanese workers.
When ever I see black guys who say the lived there i always wanted to ask this how did you do it? Like how did you find a place to stay/rent out if everything is in Japanese also how did you find work if everything is in Japanese?
@@pistolgangmanman818 I’m here just in case someone answers your question. I would like to know that too
I remember I met a lady for a language exchange in Korea and she went on about how she loved black people and all these light skin singers & rappers. I had no idea whether I was on a date or a language exchange (I had my book and everything lol).
Generally speaking, I always saw it as a red flag when someone has a preference for 'foreigners' while shitting on their own people.
Bra said he had his book and everything 💀
Yeah I know what you mean when they fetishize others it's a red flag on their level of maturity, we are all humans.
@@jermainenowels9511 hahaa. She thought she could sweet talk me into a lot of English ... nah mate, I made sure she helped me with that Korean vocab list
@@londonerlearnsjapanese3337 lmaoo I feel you on that you came there to study not play games
Y mention the lightskins ? Was she making differences with skin tones too When it comes to blacks ? Does the behavior change some thing ?
0:54 “That’s fine forget ‘em” I instantly knew I’d dig this man’s energy and approach to life from that line alone.
As a African American who lived in Japan also, I personally had no issues with Japanese people, but I also know all of them were not friendly to black people, I lived there 2.5 years. I never felt it was my duty to encroach my culture on Japanese people, or try to make them understand me and my culture. It was always accept me as I am or don't. And I never thought to live in Japan no matter how good it is. I'm African American, I needed to be in my own country fighting for justice and to make things better and not run away from it. On the front line in America is where I belonged regardless. I loved Japan and the girls over there, I was military and had many Japanese friends, but I could never live there, my purpose was not there. I needed to be home to influence and lift up young people, to help them be better people. America needed me more than Japan.
Purpose! I love your answer especially in this "open" world where so many choices are being offered. It helps to have a way to narrow down options. With life being so short a slight turn can change your life significantly for better or worse. It's really important to choose wisely
You sound like you have an interesting story!
@@rezvlt9285 Thanks
🙄
Did you pull a lot of girls out there, and do they really love black men that much ?
I love any video giving modern folks of a global mindset and perspective the lime light. They’re both handsome too!
U look good too angel
Very pretty u in Africa
He's actually 100% on point about how European G.I.'s were being in Japan. The same can be said about The Vietnam War; they wanted African soldiers not to fight and preferred to face the European soldiers. Charlie couldn't take down Vietnam without the help of Africans.
Africans?
@@blackroute1527 What's your ancestry bruh? I don't think there was any offense intended.
One love.
You mean American soldiers, not European, right?
@@snorremortenkjeldsen6737 Is the latter any different from the former in this particular context? Please explain.
@@blackroute1527 if you're a black person, then you're african
They're are alot if black woman and girls who live in Japan who is dating, marrying, and starting families with japanese men. Which is very nice♥️ I'm glad that black woman are finding happiness in a foreign country.
I'm not
Well that's awesome news!
@@Nocturne33 there's always a hater
@jay thomas fr bruh, it's literally a part of their culture to not like dark skin
@jay thomas I watched a UA-cam video on it, asians literally bleach their skin to have a lighter skin tone
My dating experience out here has been pretty positive too. Been on bunch of dates and been in three relationships in the two and a half years I've been here.
Why did the relationships end for you?
@escalate 100 Do you know the Kodak actor Yurik Hunt?
3 relationships in 2 years? 🪳 Toxic
@@torij9139 Huh? That's normal if you in your fuxing years.
@@mrsoshadabaadman frankly, every year is your fuxing year if you're doing it right 😉
In terms of dating Asian men, Black women would do well to approach a guy they suspects like them first.
I know some Black women feels as though the guy should approach them first, I respect that but it’s not always an ideal approach. Sometimes the more aggressive guys are sleazy and the nicer ones are shy. Waiting to be approached might mean you miss out on the nicer ones.
@gippygipmg 💯
@SilverSun Tree- Very good point. The "role reversal" comment below is irrelevant b/c you're bringing to light the fact of how difference in culture would make this more acceptable than a female approaching a male here in the States. I get your point and it's completely valid. Thanks for sharing.
@Mony Mon Uhmmm, I'm not single and I've never dated a nonBlack male..... Soooo, do ya feel stupid?????....... Or just dumb AF???
@Mony Mon well said!
I would say im confused as to why all these Black men who were clearly interested in dating nonBlack women are attacking this commentor who isnt worried about them and just want to help Black women have an easier time dating in Japan but Im not because alot of Black men see interracial dating not as an act of just so happening to like a nonBlack woman but as a direct competition with Black women. No one is worried about yall and to bring attention to the elephant in the room HOW MANY BLACK MEN DO YALL THINK ARE IN JAPAN, a mostly monoracial country, REALISTICALLY TO WHERE A BLACK WOMAN WOULDN'T DATE OUT like how yall date out? Get a life.
My late uncle was in the Korean War and he received the Purple Heart because he was wounded. They send him to a hospital in japan. While in Japan he started socializing with the Japanese women. He said that the white Americans soldiers told the Japanese women that black soldiers have a tail like an animal. Eventually they discovered that black soldiers had no animal tail like a dog or cat.
they told those tail story after World War II to Japanese,German,Korean,Vietanese,Filipino,and Italian women to stop them of being with Black men it away to bring Jim Crow to those countries
lol
@@coreylevine3856 truth! They definitely did. Lots of hate back then.
They found out the tail was in the front not the back.
@@alaskanwhiskey Oh I'm pretty sure those white women Did find a "tail"... especially while their white husbands where gone 😂
He’s a nice looking guy, I’m sure he’ll have a easy time dating virtually any place in
the world.
Hes a little big.
@@lindywinthrop8260 : folks lose weight everyday
@@lindywinthrop8260 imagine if he lose a little weight, hit the gym and upgrade to "thick".
This is what I wanted hear. Thank you my brothers. Working on my Japanese now. 💪🏿💪🏿
I’ve been waiting for this
thirst
Well, know it's possible and I hope you can find love in Japan.
@NepSSB Same. It's seldomly ever talked about.
As a Japanese person, my view is that dating should be a casual affair, and skin color is inconsequential. At least in Japan, there are no Japanese who unleash overtly harsh words or show insulting gestures towards black people. It is possible that drunks and drug addicts will insult people of African descent, but please forgive them. Some, if not all Japanese women, consider Japanese men boring. There must be countless opportunities for men of African descent to date Japanese women.
Dude If I visit Japan I'm doing it for humanitarian and adventure purposes not the women, if I happen to visit and something happens than it just happened. I just like going places I never been that's usually how I meet people
@@STG6_Phearable Well said.
@@Greenforrest7342 I understand that respect is given when you give respect. I'll always honor the next with utmost respect until they show me other wise.
Who do Japanese men date or want to date if their women do not want to date them?
Lies
Love your vids, bro. I'll be visiting Japan in 2022 for my 40th, can't wait.
Please tell us your experience when you do, The Lord willing.
Such a great interview and I love the way he expresses himself, which seems especially genuine and well-informed.
It’s really the military guys, black and white that mess up the dating scene with the Japanese women. Not to discourage the military guys but they have a bad rep like he said close to Yokosuka and Kanagawa areas
Well done Ranzo, this interview was fantastic. 👏
Thank you for sharing his perspective on dating in Japan. I would assume if it is hard for a Western woman, it would be 100 times harder for a black woman. Thank again.
He's using code. Asian men love white women especially if they have the stereotypical blonde hair blue eyes look.
@@dd1ee2vv3oo4nn5
I don't know about Asian men in other countries, but it is almost never the case that Japanese men like Caucasian women. To be more precise, Japanese men are not interested in foreigners themselves, regardless of race.
@@oorsimmwam2717 I understand that most races and cultures choose their own but if they have the opportunity to choose someone outside who would it be?
@@dd1ee2vv3oo4nn5
If I had to say, I think East Asian women would be preferred. In fact, nearly 70% of the international marriages of Japanese men are to East Asian women (Chinese, Taiwanese, Korean, etc.). However, it is very difficult to say that these women are not chosen because they are popular. In Japan, international marriages are seen as a symbol of losers and are not common. So I don't think it will be very helpful.
@@oorsimmwam2717 Those you picked are different cultures not race. For instance I like Black women who are Brazilian, Columbian, Cuban, Caribbean, Canadian, etc. They are not Black American but they are are still Black meaning they possess a substantial amount of African ancestry. Also you are talking about marriage but what about pure sexual attraction.
I've been living in Korea last few years and will be moving to Japan later this year. I have dated multiple races of women as black man but I do find Asian women to be particularly attractive to me. You like what you like, so long as your preferences are not in a fetishizing way, enjoy it if there is a common interest.
@Open Ranks perhaps in some ways... but i like what i like and won't apologize for that...if you only would date one race of women that's fetish territory in my eyes
@Open Ranks have a good one sir lol
Ain't nothing wrong with your preference of Asians...fukk wtf the ignorant people commenting..
@@blasianluvschocolate397I know, they are beautiful women of all races, but it's my preference, can't let trolls get to me
@@22s22a❤️🇰🇷🈲💐
Really appreciate this interview great insight here. This actually went deeper in conversation than I thought 👏🏾
I’m black and I’m married to a Korean woman but basically it’s the same.
Don't repeat what that to your wife...lol
@Agni Kai Sama Yes most of them. Many people on that side of the world are very anti-black except for a few individuals here and there. Many if not most romanticize everything that white people want you to know about them and their countries. I’ve witnessed many people engage and rationalize racist behavior, imagery, and talking points throughout my time in Korea and Japan. Many people and their government participate in “white supremacy”(not extremism) both in their countries and here in the west, but some individuals I’ve met are not like that at all and are very exceptional people. Honestly I would suggest talking to honest people who’ve lived there for some time to tell you about certain experiences because sometimes these videos don’t do us any justice when it comes to our issues and experiences in these countries.
We have just witnessed Mario Judah 15 years from now.
Loool. I was thinking the same thing as well
Finally a sound perspective. This guy gets it
This sums up the problem with western women. There is not that much respect for the “get to know the guy” aspect anymore. It’s more of who’s the most attractive high status male in the room and ignore all the other guys there.
My sister-in-law’s cousin married a woman from Okinawa while he was in the Navy. He lived in Japan until he was medically discharged from the Navy.
Black culture in Japan is not common, but it is something that younger people explore with music, hairstyles, fashion. I think the Japanese people recognize the strength in the black culture. Of course, there is the negative stigma associated with a few in the black culture. Naturally, it doesn’t apply to every black person.
A relationship other than friendship can work out, but it takes some patience. If a Japanese person doesn’t feel pressured or threatened, then, they will be your friend. However, may be wrong. I have a desire to go to Japan, one day. It is my childhood dream destination(thanks to Godzilla and friends, anime,manga and NHK News).
Can we get the black woman side of dating in Japan
He already told you as to what it's like for black women he just used coded language when referring to "Western women" who happen to be very beautiful and very talented that he lost friendships with, due to dating Japanese women.
We all know there's only one group of women that will end a friendship and cut you off the moment that you date someone that doesn't look like them. Don't be obtuse bro.
@@fullmetal71481 no I mean for the ones already in Japan not ones that he lost friends to.
@@fullmetal71481 yes we know our sisters only ones that look at u different but it’d be nice to here from their perspective
Yes a female perspective would be greatly appreciative. It’s easier for men to date abroad in general ive noticed according to expat groups
@@kawaiijones6571 well the floor is yours based off of your avatar, I assume you're a female so please give us your perspective.
Wow . It is amazing to see that my brother did not interrupt him no even once during the whole interview. Listening is a great skill to have .
Thanks for addressing black Women’s experience dating in Japan :)
@@joseph3036 are you japanese?
No one cares
@@itsDjjayyArt facts we don’t give a shit
@@itsDjjayyArt LEI EL cares
There is a very strong history regarding the humanitarian qualities demonstrated by the Black GI abroad. We have heard and care still hearing about so many acts of kindness and protection from ascendants of native Western Europeans during WWI and WWII. Also from natives from Japan, Korea, Vietnam, Cambodia, Iraq and Afghanistan.
For top-tier Japanese women, successful Japanese men will always be their first choice, unless they pass 30 unmarried.
not really, they get tired of the japanese 4 inches preyty quick
@@klel4334 Cool joke but I doubt you're speaking from lived experience.
@@Knight766 I hate to say it but white men will always be their first choice. Even with African women.
Nyiko Maswanganyi what are you talking about?
@@nyikomaswanganyi5983 Sounds like you've never spent any time in Japan
I was deployed to Japan and as a black man I am here to tell you that Japanese women LOVE US!
You sure?
@@kto2934 "he said what he said".
Get me one
Oh really what part I'm looking for the thick ones 😉😉😉👌🏾🔥
@@TheoCynical 😤😤😤 facts
Am looking forward for the man of my dream, who is loving, caring and focus.
Hold on tight u will get a sweet heart
Hollablack at me
I would love to here more from this guy. Very articulate.
Wow... Thank you... History is definitely more complex that what has been prescribed...
I am considered a “gangbanger” because of how I dress and the amount of slang I use (UK)in central London every time someone sees me walking towards them, they cross the street. I love everything about Japan, the landscape, culture and food. I am very self conscious so every time someone looks at me I feel as if they are saying something bad about me. I would not survive in a country with so few ethnic minorities. Everything I know about Japan I learnt through anime. I love all people. Any Japanese people in the comments, nice to meet know. I know I will never get the chance to be friends with a Japanese person 😔
Ik the feeling bro will be taking my trip 2 Japan soon.
I would love to be your friend when you come to Japan.❤
There are always racist, ignorant people from all races. The great thing is, there are more people who are open minded and accepting than there are racists.
I really hope so. I've too much misinformation
@Patiently waiting yes, because you know her so well. All races feel more comfortable with people who look like them because that’s how the human brain is wired, but just com Ed with good energy and you’ll be well received just about anywhere
I feel so sorry for Good people facing all the problems when it comes
To dating in 2021!.
I love this video so much, and this guy is so freaking awesome and funny
Great interview another classic from BEJ Legend Ranzo.
I spoke to a group of 5 Asian women last year and ask them to honestly rate men for dating. They rated white men first because they associated them with money and being generous. Black men were rated 2nd. They liked the fact that black men were good at telling jokes and had strong body figures. Asian men were rated last. They perceived them to be short and boring.
So a black man with a lot of money would be really attractive for an Asian women overseas. (Sadly many Asian women here in the U.S . are being brainwashed and many have developed prejudices.)
I have a young black male friend who is visiting Vietnam. He is being treated like a king down there according to him and the videos and pics that he has sent back. I am starting to think that he may not come back here.
I find it disturbing when I hear stories like the 'women in certain Asian countries 'love' black men. It seems they are making assumptions. Let's hope these women like the black men for who they actually are and not just because they're black. Also not all blacks will fit the expected stereotypes.
@@MichaelWilliams-mo1vv ikr. And I wonder if Japanese men feel the same about black woman as well?
We need to hear from your friend in vietnam and his stories
this was a great interview. you kept it real!
Yeah, Japan has a hip-hop/house dance culture of its own now. Still mainly influenced by the States of course.
Lolcthwy even have a dance hall and uk grime scene too 🇯🇲🇬🇧🇯🇵
@@johndolo9573 any names?
I never dated but I think I would set up a marriage agency over there.
"marriage agency" is that code for pimp?
My experience was that fundamentally (like interviewee implied) Japanese have more in common with the African diaspora than Europeans. Can see this in music, customs and many aspects of the culture. Recall a Japanese musician at a Zushi beach event commenting about the possible ancient links between Africa and Asia (Japan). The ripple thru the audience was interesting. And I took it as ppl pretentiously aping the West and getting things twisted. Don't get discouraged by the snobbish/aloof attitudes you may encounter in some urban areas. Visit the countryside or the smaller islands and you'll sense a warmer or more receptive attitude.
Not really, id say the culture is more like northern europe, outside the traditional dating. I live here in Japan from northern europe.
@@ronnie5329 You obviously didn't read my comment. Was not referring to superficial aspects of culture, or pretentious aping. More fundamentally in terms of core values, food culture, customs etc. Apart from materialistic trappings in some urban areas, didn't see how Kyushu, Okinawa etc mirrored N.Europe. But Japan isn't uniform despite the misconceptions. I'd concede that certain notions of say Norwegian interior life, may equate to Japanese 居心地がいい.
@@ThePharaohsCat Nah that's just not true. Little in common with the African diaspora, more so Eastern Europe/Poland/Nordic etc in the nationalism and the concept of a nation state. A bit convenient , and I am of Black descent to say they are like Africa, no way. Africa is generally tribalistic, a bit more individualistic not as complex of cuisine , usually prefer eating with hands (I enjoy this) not much in common.
Well all modern humans originated from East Africa, so there is that.
@@ronnie5329 I am black and totally agree with this perception.
Might be time to start lookin towards African countries. I ain't hearin too many complaints - from Black men or women.
Facts the motherland is calling and slot of countries in afrika is on the rise. Heading to Ghana in April for the first time.
@@shiapitt9490 Yeah, it's gon' take me a minute or two to tie up some loose ends here, but that's definately where I plan to end up.
Can't decide between Ghana, Rwanda, or Ethiopia yet, though. Still researchin'.
Happy journey, Sis.
@@ervin1jp I'm going with a friend with ghana. But I feel you soo many countries to choose from and I'm a guy lmao 😆 but thanks brother anyways.
@@shiapitt9490 Oh, I'm sorry my Brother. Yeah, but best wishes on your trip, though. And who knows, we may even cross paths over there one day.
Take care.
Neither. Black people over here in the U.S are dead!
He talks about white GI rapes but doesn’t mention that blacks also did rape, a whole group of them were killed by an angry mob and were tossed into a cave named Kurombo Gama.
Oh shit
What’s the story? How
Great that you let him talk! Great interview
Living in china .yea they are literally Chinese tv shows with on black theme stuff and style. There's even a rap battle show and everything is just black . People always think im cool or a rapper cuz im black .its alittle annoying cuz i have no black talent.
Dont sell your self short bro
Wait you live in China? How is it living in a communist country? Some ppl I know were asking if you could even leave China lol.
You guys are very smart and savvy. Y’all are so much more different than the black people I grew up,around. Wish y’all had been my friends growing up.
Your truths are highly appreciated!
Please write a book about this. The historical context should be chronicled the way you are explaining this.
Takuan Amaru has explained some this in his book: Gaikokujin
He's half and half of black and Japanese.
I been waiting for this do more interviews where there is this topic please.
This man is going to get so many splitters from sitting on the fence. He needs to speak his mind and stop trying to please everyone.
America is the most powerful nation on earth and so that power somewhat transcends to it's citizens.
The Fact of the matter, esp in the case of Asia is, if you are a Black Man or Woman Who is a Citizen of the United States(or even other so called western countries)......your "Americaness" to some extent can make up for the shortfalls of just being viewed as an ordinary Black person.
Chances are you are gonna be associated with Black American Culture which is adored in Asia...Things Like the NBA, Hip-Hop And other spheres of black culture which have created a positive stereotype about Black folk esp in Asia
Try being a Black man from little known 🇿🇼Zimbabwe, in Africa such as myself and you will realise that different black people from different parts of the world are not given equal reception. If you are Black and hail from any African country, you prolly gonna have it worse in Asia because to them all 1 Billion people on the African continet are all "poor and poverty stricken".....They consume so much of that negative and unbalanced coverage of Africa in the media, they automatically believe their source of Information concerning Africa(This is the same imagery about Africa that people in Europe, America, Australia and Arabia all get to see)
The hypocrisy of it all is we love to bash asians, and whites(not all of them)for their Anti-Black/Anti-African sentiments, when Black people(not all of them)who are not from Africa exhibit the Same Anti-Africaness towards black people who come from African countries
Anti-Blackness and Anti-Africaness are two different Animals
True
I plan to move to Japan in late 2021 or early 2022. I don't plan to date at all. Well, I'm not getting my hopes up anyways. I will try my very best to focus on me and growing in many different ways.
You asexual or gay which 1
@@KennethDJBIG Neither. Just plane ole heterosexual.
@@KennethDJBIG hahahahaha 😂 homeboy said what!? Let this queen be
@@kurtbertrand1333 I know, right... Like where did that come from? LOL. I was simply saying I realize the dating pool will be extremely small or non-existent there so I'm eliminating the expectation of meeting someone.
Godspeed shorty!
Thanks brotha for sharing this info. I always wonder why I had some Japanese woman interested in me and friends of mine. I love there culture there food the technology and of course the woman. But it makes sense because we as black men (most of us) do have an empathetic side when we see people that struggle like us....
WHAT A ROLE OF BULLSHIT.
nah they want the BBC!
This video was so fascinating. Thank you.
Original Japanese, Chinese and alot of Asia, original people were black to begin with.
Am looking forward to go to Japan coming next Feb... Been learning Japanese for 1½ yrs ☺️☺️
This is a great piece of history.
Fam said: "Not pulling any punches: "But white people came and did what white people do..."
No lies man
No lies!!!
Yep basically talked negatively about us and had them brainwashed I live here can't wait to leave at the end of the month it's a sh*thole. People are racist asf.
Japanese men tend to be more traditional while western women are more progressive. That’s the hang up for most of those relationships. Also black and white men are seen as more masculine compared to the native Japanese man.
Fascinating and enlightening. Thank you!!
This was nicely insightful, i learned quite a bit.
But now i wonder, asking as a Hispanic, what do the Japanese think about my culture from their perspective?
Seen a few videos where a lot of them are interested in hispanics. One called them the epitome of sexiness lol.
That spot is huge
Hmmmm...this is interesting. It actually makes me intrigued to move to Japan myself. It just seems so peaceful. Plus, I've always wondered how the dating life works for black men like myself in Japan.
Me too. Everyone keeps saying that the dating scene is good for BM, but I'm curious as well.
I really do think its generally better given women's openness there.
@@TheoCynical that's actually a good response. Didn't look at it like that.
Have you heard of international passport 🛂 on UA-cam
Western women in my opinion have it hard due to this new entitled mindset.
Exactly 💯💯💯
This was a great interview, very interesting and so well spoken! It's nice to hear a black males perspective. As a western woman actively dating in Japan. It's actually quite a mixed bag in my experience. I've been pursued, played, ghosted, lied to, loved and romanced. Perhaps it is tougher for black females as even Japanese females are said to have to be more aggressive towards Japanese men BUT it doesn't mean it's impossible.
Indeed the case, they (Japanese) dudes are not aggressive. I've been here 15 years and have had to really push some of my Japanese buddies to speak up in many facets of life.
Great video! Thank you! I've been wanting to travel to Japan 😊
Stationed in Japan on 3 occasions, NEVER had an issue dating while there... and have been married to my wife who’s Japanese for over 20 years. To me, the language barrier was not difficult to overcome as a majority of Japanese do speak some form of English as a second language... it’s just a matter if they want to speak to you.
The newer generations speak English more fluently these days. Conversational Japanese Is not hard to learn if you are willing. All in all love the place and the culture. And they have become more receptive to international dating and marriage in the last 30-40 years.... I mean you have to be really out in the boonies to experience any type of racism...
Semper fi I arrived back in 1985 Okinawa spent time all over THOSE WERE D DAYS BUBBLE
Don't chase chicks and stop caring about what they think. You don't have to be an asshole just be assertive and know what you want. And give only attention to chick that behave like a woman should féminine and respect with class.
I like this brother 👍🏽💪🏽
I have to go back to Japan!! I didn’t think about dating last time
@1:33 Everyone needs to remember that B-Boys and Hip Hop in general didn't come from a general Black diaspora but from Black Americans. BK movement is emulating Black American culture and don't forget it.
There's footage from the 50's of Nigerians break dancing before it was called break dancing in America. Black Americans are West Africans and maintained West African influences despite ADOS/FBA wanting to latch away from their roots.
@@chocolate91 Can you link it here? Sounds interesting. The turntable was created in Japan.
Agree. There are other black influences in Japan they seem to consume a variety. For example there is a reggae sub culture and they are really big into Jamaican dancehall.
Invaluable perspective!
5:00 I like this guy he was trying his best not to diss the military but tell it like it is. 😂
i know right!
I've been here for almost 5 years and I've only dated 1 Japanese man. I give up...I'm moving back home next year.
Why 😂
Dating in Japan 🇯🇵 is damn difficult 😓 as a 23yr old woman living in Japan, for 2yrs no Japanese guy has ever approach me😢
Why do you want to badly date Japanese men, look at your own race first. I think you would be more happier with you own race Believe me it's by experience.
@@animeninja2113 lol I “don’t badly want to” I’m just curious like are black women scary or why?
I female living in Japan for a year and 2 months, it's the culture and language barrier, if you don't speak Japanese it's actually tough to communication, anyway another point is that they are white washed and prefer white women any day over black women. And sorry for my language, their you know what is small below average. I have a Spanish from Spain who has been living here in Japan was married to a Japanese guy and has experience in dating in Japan said, Japanese men don't know how to treat women, don't expect them to be romantic, or remember anniversaries, or buy you flowers, hug or hold hands in public let alone kiss. I always advise black people men and women who come to Japan do your research first if you think you and your Japanese husband or boyfriend are going to be on the same page you are solely mistaken, Japanese people are nationalist, they don't really speak out on issues like discrimination or racisms or injustices so don't expect being defended by your partner, everything is swept under the rug. As I said have a lot of black friend in Japan that had and have Japanese wives, girlfriends , boyfriends and husbands, and dating outside our race always comes with consequences and headaches, especially in a society like Japan and other Asian countries were black is not really accepted, anyway I'm not discouraging you just saying is it worth a lifetime of trails and heartache, think about the kids you will bring in the world, what they will go through, ur husband will not fully comprehend he will be helpless, he won't be able to protect his kids from racism, discrimination or prejudice. This is why I tell people in serious interracial couples be full mentally, emotionally prepared, because raising interracial kids or being in a interracial family is no walk in the park. Anyway good luck with you Japanese guy hunting wish you all the best.😘
Because,they have Outlets..if u know what I mean
@@kingmaafa120 please elaborate, I don't understand
An informative interview.
@7:02 they are not intimidated in my opinion I think they refuse to put up with most western women’s attitudes which a lot of western men are getting on that same page too.
All western women don't have attitudes. You can't lump us all together. Also it seems you're pointing at black women. What if I said I don't date black men because they're all thugs and lazy? Very stereotypical right? Be careful in your word usage when referring to people, because we are all individuals and different.
@@kayserria I’m not pointing at black women dear. Is that what YOU think when YOU hear the word attitude...black women because I didn’t say anything about race. In fact out of all western women I respect my own the most any questions?
I agree and feminism is a huge part of the problem
Which I see has spread wide across Japan
@@coreym7237 You respect your own but in your comment you stated western women have attitudes, and western men are getting tired. Yes I also felt you were referring to black women and you know you were, but you said it in a roundabout way. Hate to burst your bubble, but there's not one thing I would want to ask you. It's not that detrimental dear.
@@kayserria He didn’t say black women! He clearly said western women. Responding that way doesn’t look good on you.
Getting stationed in yokota next year and i can’t wait!
There are Black women dating and married here. Cocoa In Japan is one lady on YT. There are other ladies that lived here who got married and then moved away after some years. Everyone is different. I will say this, Japanese men are no different than any other men. They all wanna get to "P" one way or another.😂 I encourage Black women to be wise in who they choose whether at home or abroad. Don't get caught up and used living abroad when you could have done that in your home country. Don't let these men play house with you and then marry someone else. ☕
@jay thomas What is BS about her advice?
@jay thomas They are.... No one is saying they are doing it in massive numbers, but it’s happening.
Depends on what you are looking for...you and find what you are looking for in any culture.
Yeah, after the '90s Japanese men become less and less travel abroad without business. The language barrier is a huge problem for dating.
Why since the 90s? Where's the source?
@@jacobsoto7228 Try Google Scholar.
That part about Americans raping and treating Japanese people poorly during rebuild was not true at all.
He lied?
AS A BLACK MAN, BBOY AND GOES TO JAPAN, i can confirm the tan and braids... weird and silly at times but if they dont fake funk and are just being in element, its a pass. i had great times hanging with dancers, especially Japanese that dance in Jamaican dancehall.
Dating wise, some women are cool and open but to dating, if you are not committing to a relationship then expect less. Though, it's always a process anywhere we go outside of America/Africa, we have a a harder setting versus other races. Don't be discourage to shoot your shot, just move on if you get rejected, there is a lot of great women/men in JP.
Communication is big too. so, if you barely know some to none and you're date knows barely English... that's gonna be a hard time unless both are really interested. English is some what a thing in JP, and sure... there are people that speak English, but most locals will know a third of English... almost like Spanish in America.
And please for the love of god, because I've seen foreigner that do, don't date someone for the sake of them being Japanese, don't be shallow ... That shits whack.
I'm really considering moving to Japan when I'm 30. I am a midwest black/italian, single with no children. Which city would be best to live/work/entertainment that you'd prefer? Thank you
There are a few. For starters, some of the popular ones are Tokyo, Nagoya, Osaka.
Always got the feeling I was good for fun, but not acceptable for a marriage. If that is changing that's awesome.
Wow did you just reveal yourself. No wonder you... nevermind.
Well, I'm hoping you find love wherever you are, man!
Sounds about right. Fun never to get married can't stand the lies.
Holy cow, that's really interesting about the Japanese seeking out the black GI's for help lol. Never looked at it that way. That's really changed my view on black people here in Japan. That said, its not good for foreigners to be in Japan, especially for bachelors and bachelorettes. Couples are ok.
Non western woman are more casual,calm, collected,mature,realistic,nicer,and traditional who wouldn’t wanna date and marry that?
Thats where you're wrong my son
Keep going bro, you ain't even cover half of it...
@SuperTillys Yes, and they're generally more romantic than Western Women. That's why I love Latinas. They take relationships seriously and they know how to treat a man.
Blame Western culture and society for that.
Basically Western Women need to step up if in Japan, be social bcuz they most likely will not . Its their "fear" of not being able to communicate or maybe relate
Love Japanese women! They are the best in my opinion!
あなたの人生に幸あれ！ そして、あなたは永続的な愛と幸福を見つけることができます！
Anata no jinsei ni kōare! Soshite, anata wa eizoku-tekina ai to kōfuku o mitsukeru koto ga dekimasu!.