Congrats... you've realized that loneliness negatively impacts men & women. Its bad for everyone. Instead of realizing your part in this suffering, youd rather point out that men suffer too. Also Kevin didnt die alone, man died with a thick latina woman. R.I.P.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. You can’t imagine how many guys contact me when they lose their high paying job and their wife files for divorce a few months later. Stay safe. Stay single. Great video!
@@apolindjouokep because men are meant to be independent, the providers and protectors. A man feels demasculated when a woman can provide thats why they then cheat with the hoe who they can protect and provide for lol
They dont want equality 😅 They want superiority. Go watch "Its complicated" youtube channel and check the street interviews. And no dont come with the "he is cherry picking", because he aint, he shows women that proves my statement wrong too, but majority wants superiority .
@@nr1NPC I don't need to go watch the video because I already agree with your statement. As a woman myself, I find it absolutely crazy that women have such strong financial goals for themselves but yet expect their partner to reach their equivalent or more but refuse to be the breadwinner of the relationship. Tit for tat at the end of the day! If I could earn more money then my partner then that would mean I could finally release him of his financial burdens a little and be able to treat him as well as he has treated me. I've always paid my way and no matter how much money I have or don't have, that's what I should do. Some women today are insanely uninformed about finances.
Ding ding ding we have a winner. This is something "some women" can't wrap their brains around: If you have two groups that date each other; and one group doesn't really benefit from being well-off, while the other very much does, OF COURSE the latter group is going to earn substantially more on average.
@@vincemack2042 there is nothing wrong with women wanting to pursue a career, y’all act like women are not allowed to have goals and aspirations apart from just poppin our babies 🤦🏽♀️
@@iren5792 And where did I say that there was? lmao. You are talking to the wrong person about that one. The fact that you even said this shows yall are still oblivious to what the issue is.
Its because women live in a delusional world where they believe they can have everything they want without taking in the responsibility of what that brings. They dont think. Thats why im glad men virtually control everything and are in charge of the most important stuff like architecture.
I'm alone but not lonely. However I don't think I have much to offer anyone rn so I'm not looking. Only thing I'd be bringing to the table rn is negativity and mental health issues 😂. I'm a hot mess and I do not want to put that on anyone.
37 here and dipped out of the cesspit that is the dating world, I'm lonely but content...especially when these sorts of examples in the video keep popping up.
She: "Society is patriarchal! Men get paid more than women for the same job!" Also She: "If he doesn't make more money than me, then I'm not dating him!" 😅🤷♂
at 30+ shes definitely been ran through and have all kinds of baggage and trauma. spent her 20s riding the cock carousel in her prime. now you have worked hard in your 20s and you are in your prime or about to reach there.theres no plus to committing to them, dont let shaming tactics work on you marriage today is pointless and risky
Does no one date to find love anymore? Something I just thought of, is what Preach said in a video once. He said at some point his wife was making more money than him and supporting them financially until he found his footing financially. Bringing it up because this whole bullshit about “dating down” means nothing. Peoples financial statuses are constantly changing, women shouldn’t focus on money so much, focus on what kind of man he is because eventually he could be making more than you and you could miss out on something great because you’re too busy looking at what’s currently in his bank account. Something to think about. Edit: Clearly from the comments my comment went right above some peoples head so let me get into details (yes I have time 🤣) what I was trying to explain was that at some point Preach is wife was making more than him, imagine if she had that mind set and decided not to marry him because of that simply fact, she would have missed out on a good marriage (now I don’t know them personally, so I don’t no the ins and outs of their marriage but they’re still married and seem to be doing well) and look how well he is currently doing. Financial status is constantly changing, you could have a great job and shit could change, redundancy, illness, Covid, promotions, a new and better job & the list goes on. So with that being said women, people in general shouldn’t focus too much on what’s in someone’s bank account because it could change, for the better or for the worse (we always hope better) and focus more on the person, there attributes, values, goals, etc. Invest and commit to a person that will treat you well and is good to you (I’m NOT talking about materialistic things), your values align, etc and your relationship will grow & flourish. That is all ✌🏾
Did he say she was supporting them financially or just making more than him and that made him wanna up his game? Idk maybe we're thinking of something completely different
Your point makes no sense..the gender pay gap is about women and men doing the same job..oprah and her man can't complain about the gender pay gap because they aren't doing the same job...
She: "Society is patriarchal! Men get paid more than women for the same job!" Also She: "If he doesn't make more money than me, then I'm not dating him!"
@@z0twFr, fuckin idiots. They wanna have their cake and eat it too. Then they get in their late 40s and their biological clocks stop and they can’t have kids anymore. All the while, men get better with age and could have a kid at any point in his life. Bitches don’t think ahead.
@@kyndread71 Also he has to be educated so if he is an oil rig worker making 150k and she's making 120k it's not good enough. Oh and he also has to lean to left. But then also be masculine which are traits people on the right must be. Oh and he also needs to 6ft, oh and he also needs to be white. Here in Canada we're bringing 1million immigrants a year (not including the people they'll sponsor) because the birth rate is dropping so far. We only have 40 million people here so that's like 2.5% population increase a year from outside. Western women's entitlement is literally going to destroy nations.
Women then: "We want better pay, the gender pay gap is bad." Women now: "Why would I date down and be with someone that makes less money than me?" You can't make a homebuilder out of a gold digger
I dated a woman for several years. Was with her when she started college and gave her my spare key to my house. Later on, we discovered that she had a debilitating health issue for the rest of her life. I stuck with her and gave my support the entire time. When she graduated and started making more money than I, she bought her own condo but never gave me a spare key. She gradually turned to her best friend for support on her health issue. In the middle of this, I also discovered that I had health issues, and that's when I realized why she went to her best friend for support on hers. She was preparing to break up with me because I believed that she did not want to support me with mine. So, I was making less than her, no spare house key for me, and had a major health setback. I came to the conclusion that she wanted to "date up" and probably cheated on me before the unofficial breakup.
I just find it PERFECT that she's clearly angry as shit but says NOTHING because she KNOWS these guys are making perfect, logical sense that isn't flawed. It's just a beautiful sight lol
I see allot of women like her with that demeanor, I don't even have to hear them talk. It's the energy they give off by the way they carry themselves. She says she can do bad all by herself. I say good because even as pretty, and successful as she looks, I can't see too many clear headed, decent hearted men being happy with her over a long period of time regardless of how they're living.
@@shansalesman10 she'd probably be very happy with a WM. She needs to get away from that legacy of BM failure and unreliability that has made her so frustrated and independent.
I think the primary difference is in the ideals of how either sex was raised with. When men make the money, they’re doing it for their family. It was OUR(the families) money. Now that roles are switching and women are making more, it’s MY money(the woman’s). So revolted by the idea of supporting someone else financially, that they call it dating down. I think it’s just mind boggling to dudes to see because they didn’t even consider the idea of thinking they were settling or dating down.
She was so proud of that piece, cause she wrote that herself, and was pissed to see it can tore apart so easily. She thought that she was making herself and women seem sympathetic but ended up looking petty and demanding.
Exactly. She stood there. All done up. Standing tall with heels on, she had this poorly thought out piece ready for prime time. She was gonna drop a feminist bomb on em... I stead she dropped the ball. Literally one question ruined the entire thing. Backfired, and made her look incredibly petty. She knew the second he asked was men paying for everything before "Dating down"? She fucked up royally. This was awesome
I have to be honest as someone who coaches and guides women this is one of the biggest issues I have with them. It's the old mindset mixed with the new rules. I have to burst many bubbles and get them to see how much stress they put on their men and expect them to create miracles. I even had to check my own child before on needing to check her boyfriend's mental health instead of "i need him to get his shit together"..maybe check why he is falling apart...but glad you guys posted this..great topic!
This was actually beautiful and am guessing your older lol because no young woman is able too think outside the story she has in her head very few can.
Its all expectations and me me me. Common human decency is lost to so many people but its systematic and advocated for anf accepted by women. Its even touted as some personal virtue. You are a goddess and its your right, its your duty to all women and yourself to demand, !demand! men ( your men, the rest are thirsty, grapy, slaves for validation and food and simp orbiter duties.) are 110% perfect. Dont date ugly guys. Dont date broke boys, don’t accept small d energy! You Are inflTing guys abd thus doing a diservice to women as a general by not putting them in their grovelling place. For men its generally seen as a vice, immoral, destructive and dangerous. Not saying guys don’t do it, but its not deemed acceptable. By society or even other men mostly ( though I have to say the message in the manosphere for men to have standards for themselves and not allow themselves to be walked over or be mistreated by a woman or anyone, I find is a good one) The apparent intrinsic desire for strong masculinity in a strong female world has manifested in the most absurd expressions. Women seemingly begging to be mistreated as some valueless piece of meat. Only an exceptionally high value guy would not see her as some goddess so if he pays her no attention, if he treats her like some sort of inflatable ragdoll in bed, if he doesn’t really care about her, those must be signs of his value, a.k.a. why that dismissive bad boy Chad is having a field day out here. The general desire to be actually violently mistreated in the bedroom is a matter of mystery to me but if you look at any female romance novel (The female equivalent to porn) like Fifty Shades of Grey you will see this common through thread of Domination especially in the bedroom. Though there are some exceptions like the Notebook from nicholas sparks *Which makes me wonder how do you approach this bad boy and physical violence in the bedroom narrative with your daughter?* Especially the physical violence in the bedroom part has me all sorts of fascinated And worried, because if I like somebody I don’t really feel like full on punching them in the face. Its krass to me to be shamed for this a being vanilla or boring or an outright *ussy! Combined with the amount of clips I have seen of women praising and requesting being actually punched or slapped or choked It has me like 😵💫😵😵💫
I think it's because we're living in a time where everyone critical thinking is failing hard. Most people are a part of a hivemind whether they realize it or not and choose to shut down anyone for having a different opinion or belief
When I met my husband I made more than him. I didn't think anything of it. Now I'm a stay at home mom & he makes over twice what I was making. We are best friends & I definitely dated up because his character, morals, & work ethic were all there when we met.
Not true. We both agreed when we met that I would stay home while our children are young. This meant that he had to make more money. I sacrificed my career & invested my resources/networking into helping him achieve success. I knew he could do it & he did. If he ever fell on hard times I would continue to back him. There is a such thing as love you know.
When we date at a lower income it's "Taking care of her" When she makes more money it's "Dating down" And you wonder why more and more men are choosing to stay single, women gotta check their attitudes
@@EvolianTiger it's hard to say that about all men because there's millions of men. I'm sure some just aren't being chosen, others just aren't bothering, and some people just want to be alone.
That’s facts. When people experience issues they should ALWAYS take the active approach. As a dude, when I wasn’t getting any action, I never said to myself “man these bitches gotta get on my level and recognize a real one blah blah blah” that shit is passive as hell and only women are allowed to say some goofy shit. Everyone has to adapt to the game period. What’s going to happen is if women don’t check their egos is the top dudes are going to get ALL the women, because women can’t get off their high horse.
As a man who has tried dating as both a low income earner and a high income income earner. I can attest. Low income = desperate and dateless, high meant I had many many more options. I didn’t get any smarter, more charismatic, better looking, funnier, more confident or taller. I have even asked many of my dates and even my current wife. Would you have gone out with me if I wasn’t earning what I am. Some don’t like that question but with some coaxing will all admit it. The financial security was a big draw card. As much as women say they want to be independent… they all want to be looked after by their man.
Its called laziness so we (women in general, I'm one of the minority that don't see men as walking wallets) can use you after not working. Whats sad is your wife essentially told you that, should you lose your job you're GOING to lose her too. Listen.
All Women are gold diggers, some say it overtly, some beat around the bush by saying I want the ambition Etc. At the end of the day every women is gold digger, I am not mad at this at all. Just stating the facts, I just want you know make you next move by knowing this fact ! 😊
@@patricew.4010 depends, there is a difference in whom you would start to date and whom you would stay commited to if you already are in a relationship with, at least because of the sunken ship fallacy - but also because memories with a person, and already being accustomed to them is a huge benefit over dating a strangers again
@@mrpinify Another way to think about it is why would a woman risk her financial future and well being to get knocked up by a broke man when she could date a man with resources and suffer less if things don't work out. Not sure why men expect women who take on more risk and responsibility in relationships to risk it all just to be with them.
Y’all ever notice how wherever women talk about why they’re single, it can never be their fault or something they’re doing wrong, and It’s always men? It’s never mentioned how some of them pride themselves on being hardheaded, shallow, and difficult. Or the fact that they think they’re better than everyone cause they’re born a certain day. Or that they openly hate men cause TikTok tells them to for no reason, really. Nah, that can’t be it. Impossible. 😒
Yeah, i've been noticed this. I haven't heard once of a woman being honest that she made a mistake in the relationship or whatever but I have heard guys owning up to it. If they say anything it's typically the guys fault.
@@outlaster3431 We shouldn't care but I personally think it's hard when guys are getting dragged on every type of media on every single issue related to women.
@Dank Waifu dude, mix up where you are finding women. Start looking in places where you would expect your type of significant other to be. It can be a library, a farmers market, a volunteer group, a club, etc. You will find women who want to party at bars, and you will find women who value kindness at pet shelters. Get out there and explore. You can even do some good for your community if you do it right brother. The greatest thing to remember is that no matter what, you will be ok. Be bold, and be you. You got this 👌
A millionaire guy would date and marry an extremely attractive woman, who works at McDonald’s, in a heartbeat. A millionaire woman would NEVER marry a guy working at McDonald’s, no matter how attractive he is. Men don’t care about you money, you aren’t dating down.
@@flowerfreedom7168 That's hardly the same, the original point is a 29 year old male millionaire would marry an attractive 29 year old mcdonalds worker. The opposite does not apply and you know it.
@@flowerfreedom7168maybe, but if they are older that means they're used goods, so they aren't willing to pay for the younger men out of the kindness of their hearts, they just have no other choice..
I would never want to be in a relationship with anyone who thought I was less worthy as a person because I made less money than them. It's the mark of someone who is incredibly shallow.
@BishopXLR It will go over zero mens heads who have seen Spider-Man or have any concept of the quote "With great power comes great responsibility" And yes they shirk responsibilities while demanding more power, which exclusively comes from men giving it to them out of pure benevolence and misplaced "respect". I think it's time we stopped respecting women's wishes.
its funny because if you talked to me 10 years ago i would be jumping on the idea of dating, but after what i saw from a lot of women, i honestly just avoid them in general, I keep my distance from them and live my life doing my own thing which brings me a lot of happiness. So, i am glad that i didn't become one of these broken men who were gullible and got screwed over.
Woman 1: women are too "good" and we don't want to "date down" Woman 2: what if men are just too insecure and don't want to "date up"? It's a lose-lose for men we have here bec it's always framed as our fault.
Not true, any rich woman will find a lot of lower income men wanting to date them. That's just an excuse they make up that men are "scared" of their money. Naw, many men would be happy if a woman spoiled them and paid for everything why would they be scared of that? lol.
& that’s how you know that our mentality are completely different fam. I’ll leave a girl without even looking back if I sense that type of energy from you. A piece of advice for guys, don’t get mad, don’t argue, cause you just can’t change certain women. Move on to the next & to the next until you find someone that floats in the same river as you
Men benefit being single and married, women only benefit when married Of course this is if you marry based on values, morals, life goals, compatibility on all fronts, etc
My Mom had a High School diploma. She came to the U.S. mainland from Puerto Rico during the depression and had to work in a sweat shop. My Dad had to drop out of school after the eighth grade. He went to work in the sugar cane fields to help his widowed Mom and five siblings. They met in N.Y.C. at a party for soldiers returning from WW11. My Dad looked sharp in a uniform and they married. Although some of my Mom's relatives looked down on him they carried on. My Dad worked as a janitor for the post office. Such provided many benefits, including paid medical and sick leave and paid vacations. Her sister was working her way through college. She married a struggling student. My Dad loaned him money so he could continue his education. He ultimately became a dentist and gave us free dental care. My Dad retired debt free and bought his retirement home in Florida cash. They stayed married for over 60 years. I was blessed to come from a heritage of folk who valued character over a paycheck.
The problem with dating is that they're not dates, they're interviews. Dates are supposed to be fun and at times spontaneous depending on the type of person you are and are dating. It's just getting to know someone and going with the flow
If you are a tall handsome dude, I promise you the dates are going to be fun. She's sitting there smiling and twirling her hair. It's the average guys who are going to face the inquisition.
Perpetual children who claim there more mature than men, with this constant need for fun and happiness,fellas understand when dealing with the modern female she's a liability and just another child you have to take care of basically. Smh
If you don’t wanna date down, that’s cool but don’t act like you can’t find men on your “level.” There are men making that money, but those men don’t want you lol
Right that’s something a lot of people don’t seem to acknowledge, it’s hard to want to support and be there for someone who probably won’t do the same for you.
"dating down" being said on national tv tells you all you need to know about modern women. I bet she gets awards aminstead of cancelled for saying that
I do believe you're right about men are dropping out of college and a higher rate or not even attending, but you have to keep in mind. A lot of the colleges are changing in an aspect which is unappealing for young men. Instead of just completing their career paths and going on to making their money when comes to their lives, they're being told they have to take classes which are unbeneficial and don't help them in their career paths.
Men like myself are who you're talking about. But keep in mind that men like myself switch gears and go into skilled trades because that's where the money is, for men at least. Women sure aren't filling the skilled trades. The problem men like myself run into with modern women is that they look down on Blue Collar guys even though we are making as much if not more money than they are. Blue Collar jobs to them is peasant work on the social status scale. It's more important to them that their man keep up appearances by being in a career that requires them to wear business attire to work. They're fancy worthless degrees have polluted their minds to make them think they deserve a certain kind of guy. What continued to fail to understand is that men do not value or judge women based on their career prestige or income. Btw I am college educated so intellectually I'm still on their level in that regard as well as being skilled so actually I could be considered superior to them based on their standards.
I'm in my late 30s, 6 figure income, 6ft tall, no kids, and in decent shape for my age. I am what a lot of these women claim to want. I wouldn't even consider casually dating women who have these kinds of nasty attitudes.
I make around 120k as a senior graphic designer and as soon as a woman says “I want a man that makes 500k-1M, or “how much money you make” I already know you’re sex only just like the girls on the video is, and dying alone doesn’t sound too funny to say, these standards are crazy nowadays
I'm early 30s and same, hell I play guitar piano, violin, I cook and sew, and I JUST learned this lesson lol they come in so correct but within a year it's just a hellscape of manipulation and entitlement
When you have a good job and look as attractive as she does it’s less likely that her standards are too high but more likely that her attitude is trash. There’s had to have been people that met her standards, but because they do meet those standards they have other options and don’t need to put up with an attitude like that. Judging by her reaction to what they had to say, I can only imagine how exhausting it must be to deal with a “my way or the highway” kind of person for a long period of time
Great take. And yeah the men who meet her criteria definitely have other options but they don't set high standards for them like she does. They can easily find a great girlfriend who doesn't have a stank attitude.
I think so too, a toxic attitude can kill an prospects of a relationship and worse still it can be hard for them to realise that maybe they are the problem.
Not necessarily, her standards are dumb..you either search for a partner( which has nothing to do with money)or for a sponsor(which has nothing to do with love)
@@ahdesloake4752 true, but they are the symptom. You have to look at what causes this: fatherless homes, broken homes, no male role models to teach them self respect. If a generation of men are raised by single mothers, don't be surprised when they turn out simps.
TRANSLATION: “We won’t admit we were duped by feminism and the financial success we have reached is no marker on the fulfillment we receive in life…nor does it dictate the quality of a man’s character…so to date “down” financially will disturb the the fact that the way we value ourselves has so much to do with our careers…and little to do with our characters and that’s just …y’know …ALOT” 🥴🤧
Not necessarily. If there's not a huge difference in income, dating a man that makes less than you is possible. As long as he doesn't have any hang ups about it. Finances are a part of marriage, it's immature to believe otherwise. Even if these women didn't accomplish anything, it still wouldn't change the divorce rate. Which was high (initiated by men) long before women started initiating them more often. Character and finances matter. All people place value in accomplishments. Wanting someone with good character that is goal-oriented and shares the same values as you do is not unrealistic. Especially if you don't limit yourself to one race. Even good people with right character can be incompatible. Understand feminism alone is not the only factor that contributes to partnership issues.
Hold ppl to the same standards . Don’t break ur back for an adult. Remember no one would provide for u bc ur a man. Keep the same energy get up ⬆️ there . Women can provide for themselves and help around with bills there not useless just physically less capable in a general sense
@@klopcodez he didn't say he was a monk he said he was waiting to PROVIDE for a woman worth it. You can have sex while waiting for someone worth having a long term relationship but you can also not and that's probably even better for long term mental health and lifestyle.
I make more than my boyfriend. But that doesn't mean he isn't responsible. He is the best partner I can ever imagine. These women need a reality check.
It’s crazy how high the standards are, to the point that very few could even reach. I chose to be with my current man of 6 years not because of how much money he had, but because of who he is as a person. We were both close to homelessness when we met each other, but we grew to love each other’s personalities and goals we have for life. Now we live together and are slowly working our way towards getting a house and starting a family. Money can buy so many things, but not the experiences I’ve had with him over the years. Some days he tells me he wishes he had enough to spoil me, but I always have to remind him that he’s spoiled me enough without having to spend a single penny. I’d honestly feel extremely ashamed if I ever thought it was okay to shame anyone, especially my husband, for how little they were making. Any sort of devastating life situation could happen and I don’t think most women understand that. You want to be with someone that’s going to stick by you through the literal toughest of times, not when it’s just convenient.
Personally I think the issue is materialism and the consumerism that breeds it. Everyone is a brand and their purchases in the various markets, the "dating marketplace" included, must reflect it.
I was raised with Caribbean parents that were into equality. That's why my mom made more because she had more of a career and vision for it vs a few jobs my dad would do and neither was threatened by that. He still calls her the smart one out of the two. They were and are friends first, he was upfront on what he could offer and vice versa. So I definitely want to end up with someone realistic like how my parents are so I don't deal with this bs.
@@afrosamourai400 they were taught the old way in faith so I can see why it's not shown as much or seen as much. Before people had more of a north american view on the world, it definitely was more common in the Caribbean for people to act the way my parents do.
@@awakenow7147 thank you. I love them for how they are. My family friends and friends follow the same way so it is definitely possible to find this in another person. It's just bizarre that they only show a weird power dynamic in media all the time when it doesn't need to be like that for everyone.
@@kaylastraker-trotman Glad to hear that you know other people who are also following a more fair life path. And indeed, the media seems to focus very intently on promoting a certain lifestyle among people, and it seems to create a lot of confusion. My family is of Filipino background, and I grew up in a neighborhood that was largely Mexican. Almost everyone I grew up around is very confused right now. Both cultures come from a "machismo" patriarch mindset, where the man is the breadwinner. But because they are also American, and heavily influenced by modern trends, the young generation want equality...and yet they don't. Its an odd situation for people who are caught up between the two cultures, so I'm glad there are people who are working it out.
Being alone and lonely are not the same. Being lonely can drive you to do irrational decisions and bad choices. Being alone is a found sense to enjoy yourself in your own skin. You are not alone if you have friends and family. Most people confuse loneliness as being without a partner. Loneliness is a state of mind.
Loneliness be dangerous like Doing Nothing and saying you will dang regret it and alone where you can get to know your true self and Make friends that will help and last for a long time
@@ARealPersonNotABot being alone is unhealthy for everyone .. you may be able to cope, esp as a man .. but it's unnatural and antihuman. Stop lying to yourself and be honest with your sadness and anger, it's justified. Try and maybe find an actual catholic church community, even if you're not religious and maybe try and surround yourself with ppl who care about deeper things than materialism and social media clout, but good luck .. its hard. Humanity is being intentionally wiped out, so this is why you can feel the decline in your soul; disassociation and lack of connection
If you only date up, it's not so hard to realize that other women do too, and that you're all competing for the top sliver of men, especially as you advance in your careers and what is considered "up" becomes more narrow. The biggest problem is the hubris of us women, because we think those top men should all be interested in us, above those other women, and we are hurt and enraged when they're not.
Wise and well put indeed. Such hubris to expect the richer man to want you due to your high income. While most of these high income ladies are unpleasant as hell. Hope young women learn to listen and take from people like you. Best wishes on your journey of life.
Overtime as there's more men making less then women, I really do think it's just gonna give the few men who do and make a lot more power then they already do. That's if they don't adapt and change that mentality.
This is it. Imagine competing for 5% of the pool, then being butthurt when he's going through the top 80% of women LMFAO... I work out with a guy like that, it's not even his 'career' he's just fk good looking. Every women and I mean young or the old ladies that come through for those spin classes are gawking at this dude. Ya'll are digging your own graves at this point.
@@champ7139 Dude it isn't about money, it is all about looks. I know guys who are delivery drivers for UPS that are living a life you woudn't imagine (dating wise) I know a guy at my gym who's every woman's type. Money is only a requirement when the dude's 5'4.
As a lonely guy growing up, I knew a bunch of beautiful girls I never had a chance with and there was nothing as infuriating has hearing these words "I wish I could just be by myself". i'm like "you think you do, until you don't"
at 30+ shes definitely been ran through and have all kinds of baggage and trauma. spent her 20s riding the cock carousel in her prime. now you have worked hard in your 20s and you are in your prime or about to reach there.theres no plus to committing to them, dont let shaming tactics work on you marriage today is pointless and risky
I’m so happy someone else is saying this. True equality is taking the good WITH the bad! Otherwise you don’t want equality, you want a system where you can only benefit from.
I'm a female doctor. I can't remember how many patients come to the hospital alone, concious and not. Some people were taken by their neighbours 3 days after the first symptoms. Some people were so close to die. Some died and found a week later. All of my friends decided to get married after seeing how many patients suffer alone. Loneliness isn't just a state or feeling, it comes with many costs. If women now can say they date down, men should be able to say date down too. Equality
I think we should just throw away this whole "dating down" shit. I'm equal with the people i'm in relationship with regardless of income. I date to find someone i love and care for, that i would like to spend my life with sharing good experiences and creating great memories. To be my partner in crime if you will. For whatever reason there is a movement of women who think relationships are built around money and i almost feel bad for them because there never going to know love. They are going to forcing themselves into relationships with people they can't stand and think its normal as long as he makes good money. Blows my mind even more, because with women being able to go to school and get good jobs dating a rich man doesn't feel like a requirement anymore and while are economy isn't great we aren't going through a great depression. Hell even during the great depression when people were actually eating boots they were still look for love more then wealth.
This whole “dying alone” thing is ridiculous. Most married women will die alone given the difference in life expectancy. The real problem described here is the lack of community and the social isolation in modern society.
My better half is a well trained female doc in one of the top 3 paying specialties. When we first met she said I'm better educated and make more money than you. Are you OK with that. She didn't say it to be mean, she found many men insecure over it. After seeing 30 patients a day signing them out on the EMR she comes home and makes me dinner. She is amazing, kind, caring and sweet. She hates hospital consults BTW. lol If your on staff sometimes you have to do them.
@@oddbod4442 u probably take my comment on different direction. Preach talked about loneliness, so I give an example of loneliness and the possibility of dying alone. It's scary to see decomposed bodies here and there, I hope you will never experience having deadly pain and nobody's there to help you.
They swear they're equal. They swear they didn't need a provider. Now they're eating their words. The funny thing is, this has nothing to do with love 😂 having a family, yes, but they CAN find a man who gives them an amazing relationship but they are immediately blocked by the delusional thought of having a man make money
@@TomikaKelly A woman is never the prize, a man is on every level, he provides the seed, the provision and the protection, as well as leadership and guidance. Man has always been the prize
*My mother worked in family law for 45 years.* Something once rare became common place. Women calling in saying they just got *engaged* but instead of asking for a lawyer for a marriage contract and legal counseling, the woman calling, just engaged, wanted to know HOW MUCH SHE COULD GET IN A DIVORCE. This went from annual, to bi annual, to monthly, to weekly. Check the stats in divorce men. Avoid marriage. Until no fault divorce is abolished.
Your husband is pimping you. He gets to live a lifestyle he can’t afford on his own because he sent you to school instead of bettering himself to be a provider. You’re his work horse and cash cow. Are you going to continue to go to work and outearn him once you get pregnant?
"I don't think there's anything wrong with hoping that there's someone either on your level or higher than you." - imagine if a man said that about men looking for mates.
If men said that then watch all these women come out and complain and say "stop making women feel like they need to be perfect for them to date you. That's not realistic" it'll be he's limiting his dating pool and everything. But that's the double standard, women can demand Steve Rogers(with the super soldier serum) but don't want Steve Rogers(before the super soldier serum)
I’m 46 married with children. All the “bad bitches” I knew made fun of my “submission” are alone and wishing they had a family now. They all refused to date men who “weren’t on their level”
I'm 31 and been married for a decade. The women that laughed at me, made fun of my submission, said I should get an abortion when I got pregnant quickly after marriage are all now divorced or still single. They can't figure out what they did wrong, but they still make fun of me if we cross paths.
Being single doesn't bother me too much. Does get lonely sometimes, but looking around at the broken relationships everywhere reminds me its really just not worth it.
It’s better to be single and alone than to be in a relationship and feel alone. A great relationship is fantastic but man if you find a diamond, hold on. WORK to make it work long term. Otherwise focus on yourself and goals and take care.
Scared to try. U don't need to enter or stay in bad relationships. There are great ones out there and u will regret it when ur old if u don't roll the dice
was out on the town some months ago with friends where we started talking to a group of other girls. all of the guys but one dude got together with the girls in the group because the one he tried talking to more or less told him "he looks to cheap to hook up with" end of the night she couldn't find anyone to go with so she went over to the dude for some. "ill have sex with you out of pity", he just looked at her with a straight face and told her "sorry i don't do leftovers"
The culture shock i got frm readings this….??????? She’d sleep with someone just cause???? I’m so confused, she made sex seem equivalent to a hand shake ew
My sister is a surgeon and my brother in law is a cop and she didn't marry down. He's an asset for her and their children. He's a strong and kind man, dedicated to his family.
Judging by the money they bring into the household, she definitely married down. But luckily there are more aspects to marriage than the monetary value.
AMEN! Thank you for sharing. People need to HEAR this. Real gold. So many people can get a "good job" but a heart of gold, loyalty and dedication etc to a family, is not always so common. I would say the same, that dedication character etc is higher currency than money itself, because money does not buy character of a man you gotta live with day in and day out affecting your family!
What happened to wanting a man who has HIGH character, morals, ethics and integrity? What happened to wanting a man who is pious, a GOOD man, a man of honor, a man that's respected by his peers and his community. How did we commodify what was once sacred?
That is an excellent question. Superficial things have become the primary focus, putting character and the like by the wayside. When women are given the "I can change him" philosophy, and that's emphasized, that's one of a few starting points. What usually happens, is the good guy becoming the bad boy. The bad boy rarely becomes the good guy.
I think women figured out that a man like that doesn't exist and gave up looking for it. Check all these red pill channels, are any of them advocating for this kind of character building? No. It's all about making money and sticking in as many females as possible. They want to check women but won't check their own brothers for lying, cheating and not taking care of their kids.
Interesting that supposedly men are known for being shallow yet women don't want to "date down" and don't even consider things like personality, interests and values first.
men are shallow for looks, women are shallow for money/status. Both are shallow just in different ways. Obviously this does not apply to all men and women though
I remember once talking with an older coworker of mine. I don't know what she did in her younger years but she was saying she regretted not getting married and having children because she was lonely basically. It was just her, her cats, and I believe she had a housemate but even with that they aren't obligated to be your friend. The older you get it gets rough out here, a lot of their friends/loved ones die, you don't have children to call and have no one to pass anything down to. Its real out here and hopefully women wake up before their clock runs out.
One girl i dated once came over to my house a few days or weeks later and it was clear she was there for sex and I obliged her. Little did she know that I had an elective procedure that redered me sterile but I didn't feel the need to tell her till later, keep reading. I saw where she lived and I obviously was dating down and she had multiple children by different men and it was clear that she was having kids for the child support in hindsight. She tried to imply that she was pregnant a month later and I told her that ,"It wasn't me" and how I knew. I never heard from her again. I was making 6 figures at that time. Insist on always dating up and you will be treated like the lower staus that you are.
@@ashleyalexander7388 Roulette as in pregnancy or STD's? Homie said he was sterile so I'm guessing you just mean STD's... Which hearing of her promiscuous lifestyle would be a fair risk.
So when you found out that this woman had kids with multiple partners and how she lived, you suddenly realized that you were dating down??? Or...if you knowingly dating down because you knew that she has extra baggage, why even choose a woman with all that baggage??? Sounds like your story is bs or you just don't know how to pick an appropriate date.
Just here to tell everybody that this whole movement has been funded and enabled by the elites, aka the farmers.. And farmers favour females. The female herd is easier to manage, males are much harder to regiment. We are the cattle. For decades they have been domesticating the human male and imprisoning those who can’t be, and now they even got them castrating themselves off the back off this domesticating ideology
As a Baby Boomer colleague at work once put it, "when men were the main breadwinners and more educated, we were taught to respect and cherish woman we were lucky enough to have like or love us. No woman was beneath a man! Now that it's flipped and women are the ones starting to make more money and get a higher education...any man who isn't at par isn't worth shit! Be happy if you are already married. Being single today sucks!" He told us this around 8 years ago! His words still ring true.
Wouldn’t this make men pursue higher education and cause them to aim even higher financially ? This isn’t meant as an attack, I’m actually curious to know anyones thoughts. I personally believe if general men still out earn the majority of women in the work force because the jobs or careers most women have aren’t in fields that pay six figures or even seven figures.
@@Divinia93 Wage gap is a hoax. There is nothing that you can't earn that a man can earn. There's only certain jobs women won't/can't(physically) do and certain jobs men won't do.
Men are dying alone, men are the majority in nursing homes. Kevin died alone.
Congrats... you've realized that loneliness negatively impacts men & women. Its bad for everyone. Instead of realizing your part in this suffering, youd rather point out that men suffer too.
Also Kevin didnt die alone, man died with a thick latina woman. R.I.P.
Remember this comment when you're 20 years older with 7 cats wondering where did all the good men go
that most definitely isn't the truth. Women make up 70% of all nursing home residents lol
You got a source for that?
This is a lie a simple google search will tell u that there are more women in nursing homes. Please learn to research read and get your facts right
Personally I am grateful for women like this that openly flaunt their double-standard. Makes them easier to avoid when everyone knows who they are.
Even better when they buy a dog and end up alone
@@flameshoter6in 2030 will see it more than ever
True
@@flameshoter6 that poor dog tho
Exactly
They call it "dating down" while men just call it "dating" since the beginning of time. Eat your own equality.
They want someone at their level, but they cant find it. Maybe they're not at the level they think they are, lol.
@@travisspaulding2222 ❗️❗️❗️
Then they say we're oppressive either way.
Yup, well at least they're going to be more sugar mommas, city Bois up.
True story
Experienced divorce lawyer here. You can’t imagine how many guys contact me when they lose their high paying job and their wife files for divorce a few months later. Stay safe. Stay single. Great video!
Is it true that when women get a boob job it's a sign she's about to bounce out of the marraige?
In the words of the late rapper Takeoff - Married the money the B word wasnt ready -
That’s a damn shame.
All women are gold diggers, only men love idealistically. men have to accept that, its biology
Oh I can. My own mother worked in family law for 45 years. When your mom tells you marriage law is rigged against men, YOU LISTEN.
"I am a strong, independent woman. What can you offer me?"
"My Condolences"
Have you ever seen a man saying "i'm independent" ?
Never 😅
You'll have to get in the end of the line. Sorry. It's our time.
Strong independent women means not wife material!!
@@apolindjouokep because men are meant to be independent, the providers and protectors. A man feels demasculated when a woman can provide thats why they then cheat with the hoe who they can protect and provide for lol
Wahmyn just don't understand the simple meaning of independent.
Men making less money
Women most affected.
Men making more money.
Inequality!!! Patriachy!!! Pay Gaaap!
😑 Can’t win
HAHAHAH
Barz
haha lol!
😂
'The future is female... then pay the bills' Absolutely howling! Damn accurate!
They dont want equality 😅
They want superiority.
Go watch "Its complicated" youtube channel and check the street interviews.
And no dont come with the "he is cherry picking", because he aint, he shows women that proves my statement wrong too, but majority wants superiority .
@@nr1NPC I don't need to go watch the video because I already agree with your statement. As a woman myself, I find it absolutely crazy that women have such strong financial goals for themselves but yet expect their partner to reach their equivalent or more but refuse to be the breadwinner of the relationship. Tit for tat at the end of the day! If I could earn more money then my partner then that would mean I could finally release him of his financial burdens a little and be able to treat him as well as he has treated me. I've always paid my way and no matter how much money I have or don't have, that's what I should do. Some women today are insanely uninformed about finances.
Factssss
Yep.
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some women: "Wage gap is real"
also some women: "I cant find a man who makes as much as I do"
Women: as a woman I dont get the same opportunities as men.
Same women: women are the most educated most achieving and out here getting these jobs
Ding ding ding we have a winner.
This is something "some women" can't wrap their brains around: If you have two groups that date each other; and one group doesn't really benefit from being well-off, while the other very much does, OF COURSE the latter group is going to earn substantially more on average.
These women either simply want men who are way above them and don’t want them.. or their standards are UNBELIEVABLY high or a mix of both..
The cognitive dissonance is hilarious. We make more money so we can't date you! WAAAAAAAAAAA Wage gap! We don't make as much money as CEOS do!
Dont make sense does it?
Men: Dated "down" for all of eternity, called "Breadwinners"
Women: Now needing to date "down", called "settling"
People will say it’s because men are the providers, it’s been like that for thousands of years. Lol
@moonknight4053 and women decided to change that...
@@moonknight4053 Women have provided too. Men hunted. Women gathered. Now, modern Western women are generally entitled, disloyal, and lazy.
@@vincemack2042 there is nothing wrong with women wanting to pursue a career, y’all act like women are not allowed to have goals and aspirations apart from just poppin our babies 🤦🏽♀️
@@iren5792 And where did I say that there was? lmao. You are talking to the wrong person about that one. The fact that you even said this shows yall are still oblivious to what the issue is.
The black lady’s face when the guy brought up :” oh the ladies got money but they don’t wanna pay for the stuff or even half “ says it all
I could never date someone that screams petiness like her
Its because women live in a delusional world where they believe they can have everything they want without taking in the responsibility of what that brings. They dont think. Thats why im glad men virtually control everything and are in charge of the most important stuff like architecture.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz Hmmmm... Scandinavia huh? I might have to go visit that place.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz that is plenty places outside of America not just Scandinavia
@@PennyWise-eu9nz ??¿???? How is it in Scandinavia???🧐🧐
This is just the classic "Women want traditional men but they're not traditional themselves."
Nope.
USA does not know what traditional is
@@TheAlien_in_your_backyard 💯
Yep. I've heard countless women say "I'm traditional," which just means they expect a traditional man.
Solution: Leave America.
"Loneliness is very lonely". As stupid as that sounds, he's so right. 3 years and going for me
Try 25
I'm alone but not lonely. However I don't think I have much to offer anyone rn so I'm not looking. Only thing I'd be bringing to the table rn is negativity and mental health issues 😂. I'm a hot mess and I do not want to put that on anyone.
Welp
Just turned 31 still alone
37 here and dipped out of the cesspit that is the dating world, I'm lonely but content...especially when these sorts of examples in the video keep popping up.
She: "Society is patriarchal! Men get paid more than women for the same job!"
Also She: "If he doesn't make more money than me, then I'm not dating him!"
😅🤷♂
Trust that all women do NOT feel that way. It's abhorrent.
Women act like children, and should be treated the same as children. They are incapable of logical consistency.
at 30+ shes definitely been ran through and have all kinds of baggage and trauma. spent her 20s riding the cock carousel in her prime. now you have worked hard in your 20s and you are in your prime or about to reach there.theres no plus to committing to them, dont let shaming tactics work on you
marriage today is pointless and risky
i mean...close enough though. am i wrong?@@lorrilewis2178
Make that make sense
Does no one date to find love anymore?
Something I just thought of, is what Preach said in a video once. He said at some point his wife was making more money than him and supporting them financially until he found his footing financially. Bringing it up because this whole bullshit about “dating down” means nothing. Peoples financial statuses are constantly changing, women shouldn’t focus on money so much, focus on what kind of man he is because eventually he could be making more than you and you could miss out on something great because you’re too busy looking at what’s currently in his bank account. Something to think about.
Edit: Clearly from the comments my comment went right above some peoples head so let me get into details (yes I have time 🤣) what I was trying to explain was that at some point Preach is wife was making more than him, imagine if she had that mind set and decided not to marry him because of that simply fact, she would have missed out on a good marriage (now I don’t know them personally, so I don’t no the ins and outs of their marriage but they’re still married and seem to be doing well) and look how well he is currently doing. Financial status is constantly changing, you could have a great job and shit could change, redundancy, illness, Covid, promotions, a new and better job & the list goes on. So with that being said women, people in general shouldn’t focus too much on what’s in someone’s bank account because it could change, for the better or for the worse (we always hope better) and focus more on the person, there attributes, values, goals, etc. Invest and commit to a person that will treat you well and is good to you (I’m NOT talking about materialistic things), your values align, etc and your relationship will grow & flourish. That is all ✌🏾
no.. we only date for the gram now cuz
Exactly. Who gives a fuck if who makes more money... I want a woman i actually enjoy being with. Don't care if she make more than me or not.
FACTS I’ve BEEEEEEEN saying this smh 🤦🏽♀️ 😂
Did he say she was supporting them financially or just making more than him and that made him wanna up his game? Idk maybe we're thinking of something completely different
I know, I just want a man who actually loves me.
These women: “We can’t find men that make more than us”
Also these women: “The gender pay gap is real! Women make less for the same work!”
Make it make sense and the white woman never said they make more did she
Your point makes no sense..the gender pay gap is about women and men doing the same job..oprah and her man can't complain about the gender pay gap because they aren't doing the same job...
@@afrosamourai400 bro bro bro...shhhhhh
@@afrosamourai400 Shhh, stop making sense.
I think there should be lenience if it’s a relatively easy job
Women: “Equal pay, equal rights!”
Also women: “Where all the rich men at?”
She: "Society is patriarchal! Men get paid more than women for the same job!"
Also She: "If he doesn't make more money than me, then I'm not dating him!"
@@kyndread71 LOL
Modern Western women are generally gold-digging idiots.
Go monk or go East, Gents.
Thanks feminism!
@@z0twFr, fuckin idiots. They wanna have their cake and eat it too. Then they get in their late 40s and their biological clocks stop and they can’t have kids anymore. All the while, men get better with age and could have a kid at any point in his life. Bitches don’t think ahead.
@@kyndread71 Also he has to be educated so if he is an oil rig worker making 150k and she's making 120k it's not good enough. Oh and he also has to lean to left. But then also be masculine which are traits people on the right must be. Oh and he also needs to 6ft, oh and he also needs to be white. Here in Canada we're bringing 1million immigrants a year (not including the people they'll sponsor) because the birth rate is dropping so far. We only have 40 million people here so that's like 2.5% population increase a year from outside. Western women's entitlement is literally going to destroy nations.
That brother put her in check.
Women then: "We want better pay, the gender pay gap is bad."
Women now: "Why would I date down and be with someone that makes less money than me?"
You can't make a homebuilder out of a gold digger
This is also related to the age gap they came up with as well, like women haven't been attracted to older men since the beginning of time.
Dude you need to engrave that in gold
Lol Western culture can't even define what a woman is...
Goddamn that is a bar
So crazy…want equal pay so they can go date someone who would spend all their earnings on them, seems that pay gap should be established once more
I dated a woman for several years. Was with her when she started college and gave her my spare key to my house. Later on, we discovered that she had a debilitating health issue for the rest of her life. I stuck with her and gave my support the entire time. When she graduated and started making more money than I, she bought her own condo but never gave me a spare key. She gradually turned to her best friend for support on her health issue. In the middle of this, I also discovered that I had health issues, and that's when I realized why she went to her best friend for support on hers. She was preparing to break up with me because I believed that she did not want to support me with mine. So, I was making less than her, no spare house key for me, and had a major health setback. I came to the conclusion that she wanted to "date up" and probably cheated on me before the unofficial breakup.
My Condolences brother.
@Dheeman Rajkhowa I'm good brother, thanks.
Hypergamy is real...
@@NderituNduhiu it comes with the territory, my friend.
Atlanta you're aware of the reality.
I just find it PERFECT that she's clearly angry as shit but says NOTHING because she KNOWS these guys are making perfect, logical sense that isn't flawed. It's just a beautiful sight lol
She was pissed lol!! But couldn't say nothing to contradict the logic...double L!!
Why do YOU have to write STUFF in caps like that to MAKE your point come across? You sound RATCHET
I see allot of women like her with that demeanor, I don't even have to hear them talk. It's the energy they give off by the way they carry themselves. She says she can do bad all by herself. I say good because even as pretty, and successful as she looks, I can't see too many clear headed, decent hearted men being happy with her over a long period of time regardless of how they're living.
@@shansalesman10 a lot*. Learn the difference
@@shansalesman10 she'd probably be very happy with a WM. She needs to get away from that legacy of BM failure and unreliability that has made her so frustrated and independent.
I think the primary difference is in the ideals of how either sex was raised with. When men make the money, they’re doing it for their family. It was OUR(the families) money. Now that roles are switching and women are making more, it’s MY money(the woman’s). So revolted by the idea of supporting someone else financially, that they call it dating down.
I think it’s just mind boggling to dudes to see because they didn’t even consider the idea of thinking they were settling or dating down.
Women to other women “NEVER SETTLE!! NEVER DATE DOWN!!”
Those same women to men - “ DATE DOWN!!”
😂😂😂
They live in cognitive dissonance
Idk how dumb you would have to be to be genuinely bluepilled nowadays
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The stupidity is high in these streets lmfao...
WOMEN ☕️.
She was so proud of that piece, cause she wrote that herself, and was pissed to see it can tore apart so easily. She thought that she was making herself and women seem sympathetic but ended up looking petty and demanding.
And delusional.
"I did that!"
Exactly. She stood there. All done up. Standing tall with heels on, she had this poorly thought out piece ready for prime time. She was gonna drop a feminist bomb on em... I stead she dropped the ball. Literally one question ruined the entire thing. Backfired, and made her look incredibly petty. She knew the second he asked was men paying for everything before "Dating down"? She fucked up royally. This was awesome
She played herself...lol...i can do bad by my own yeah you can!!!
She got absolutely destroyed is what happened.
I have to be honest as someone who coaches and guides women this is one of the biggest issues I have with them. It's the old mindset mixed with the new rules. I have to burst many bubbles and get them to see how much stress they put on their men and expect them to create miracles. I even had to check my own child before on needing to check her boyfriend's mental health instead of "i need him to get his shit together"..maybe check why he is falling apart...but glad you guys posted this..great topic!
This was actually beautiful and am guessing your older lol because no young woman is able too think outside the story she has in her head very few can.
You hit it on the head old school mindset mixed with new rules, and expecting miracles
Amen to you queen. Keep raising them right!!!!
Its all expectations and me me me.
Common human decency is lost to so many people but its systematic and advocated for anf accepted by women. Its even touted as some personal virtue. You are a goddess and its your right, its your duty to all women and yourself to demand, !demand! men ( your men, the rest are thirsty, grapy, slaves for validation and food and simp orbiter duties.) are 110% perfect. Dont date ugly guys. Dont date broke boys, don’t accept small d energy! You Are inflTing guys abd thus doing a diservice to women as a general by not putting them in their grovelling place.
For men its generally seen as a vice, immoral, destructive and dangerous. Not saying guys don’t do it, but its not deemed acceptable. By society or even other men mostly ( though I have to say the message in the manosphere for men to have standards for themselves and not allow themselves to be walked over or be mistreated by a woman or anyone, I find is a good one)
The apparent intrinsic desire for strong masculinity in a strong female world has manifested in the most absurd expressions. Women seemingly begging to be mistreated as some valueless piece of meat.
Only an exceptionally high value guy would not see her as some goddess so if he pays her no attention, if he treats her like some sort of inflatable ragdoll in bed, if he doesn’t really care about her, those must be signs of his value, a.k.a. why that dismissive bad boy Chad is having a field day out here.
The general desire to be actually violently mistreated in the bedroom is a matter of mystery to me but if you look at any female romance novel (The female equivalent to porn) like Fifty Shades of Grey you will see this common through thread of Domination especially in the bedroom. Though there are some exceptions like the Notebook from nicholas sparks
*Which makes me wonder how do you approach this bad boy and physical violence in the bedroom narrative with your daughter?*
Especially the physical violence in the bedroom part has me all sorts of fascinated And worried, because if I like somebody I don’t really feel like full on punching them in the face. Its krass to me to be shamed for this a being vanilla or boring or an outright *ussy!
Combined with the amount of clips I have seen of women praising and requesting being actually punched or slapped or choked
It has me like 😵💫😵😵💫
A question i have. Its near the bottom of my long comment
Please notice the brother has a wedding ban on. He’s married. Talking real good
Yes Preach.
Equal rights, equal responsabilities.
Why is it so hard to grasp?
Because they're still holding out to that stupid conservative ideal of the man doing everything.
I think it's because we're living in a time where everyone critical thinking is failing hard. Most people are a part of a hivemind whether they realize it or not and choose to shut down anyone for having a different opinion or belief
They don't want the part that's not fun. They only want privileges
"responsibility" is the hard part, we have two or three generations of people that hate the word along with accountability.
@@genodedemon5109 When you say 'they' you sound like you're generalizing that ALL women are incorrigible, irresponsible, entitled twats.
When I met my husband I made more than him. I didn't think anything of it. Now I'm a stay at home mom & he makes over twice what I was making. We are best friends & I definitely dated up because his character, morals, & work ethic were all there when we met.
Of course you thought something of it. If he hadn’t eventually started making more money you’d be out. You’re basically proving the point.
Not true. We both agreed when we met that I would stay home while our children are young. This meant that he had to make more money. I sacrificed my career & invested my resources/networking into helping him achieve success. I knew he could do it & he did. If he ever fell on hard times I would continue to back him. There is a such thing as love you know.
@@coltonsmith3724 bro, you don't know her and you are trying to act like you know her values?
@@afrosamourai400 women dont date down. Accept facts.
@@afrosamourai400 women dont date down. Accept facts.
When we date at a lower income it's "Taking care of her"
When she makes more money it's "Dating down"
And you wonder why more and more men are choosing to stay single, women gotta check their attitudes
It's all about the take and not about the give.
Men aren't choosing to stay single, you're just not being chosen lol
@@EvolianTiger No the statistics are very clear. Women are finding themselves extremely unhappy and men are refusing to enter relationships.
@@EvolianTiger it's hard to say that about all men because there's millions of men. I'm sure some just aren't being chosen, others just aren't bothering, and some people just want to be alone.
That’s facts. When people experience issues they should ALWAYS take the active approach. As a dude, when I wasn’t getting any action, I never said to myself “man these bitches gotta get on my level and recognize a real one blah blah blah” that shit is passive as hell and only women are allowed to say some goofy shit. Everyone has to adapt to the game period. What’s going to happen is if women don’t check their egos is the top dudes are going to get ALL the women, because women can’t get off their high horse.
As a man who has tried dating as both a low income earner and a high income income earner. I can attest. Low income = desperate and dateless, high meant I had many many more options.
I didn’t get any smarter, more charismatic, better looking, funnier, more confident or taller.
I have even asked many of my dates and even my current wife. Would you have gone out with me if I wasn’t earning what I am. Some don’t like that question but with some coaxing will all admit it. The financial security was a big draw card.
As much as women say they want to be independent… they all want to be looked after by their man.
Its called laziness so we (women in general, I'm one of the minority that don't see men as walking wallets) can use you after not working. Whats sad is your wife essentially told you that, should you lose your job you're GOING to lose her too. Listen.
All Women are gold diggers, some say it overtly, some beat around the bush by saying I want the ambition Etc. At the end of the day every women is gold digger, I am not mad at this at all. Just stating the facts, I just want you know make you next move by knowing this fact ! 😊
@@patricew.4010 depends, there is a difference in whom you would start to date and whom you would stay commited to if you already are in a relationship with, at least because of the sunken ship fallacy - but also because memories with a person, and already being accustomed to them is a huge benefit over dating a strangers again
@@mrpinify Another way to think about it is why would a woman risk her financial future and well being to get knocked up by a broke man when she could date a man with resources and suffer less if things don't work out. Not sure why men expect women who take on more risk and responsibility in relationships to risk it all just to be with them.
@@saffylllama5609How on earth do they take on more risk and responsibility if men are paying for EVERYTHING 😂😂😂
We live in a society where men have to be financially stable to date broke women. 🗿...THIS IS A SICKNESS!
Exactly!!!
A SICKNEEEESSSSS!
@@25BDominique2021 Aba is that you? 🤭. Yeah definitely a sickness crazy ass women with their weird requirements
We do not want it ooo🤣🤣🤣
Get away from here!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I heard "This is a sickness'" in Aba's African voice. 😆😁😂
Y’all ever notice how wherever women talk about why they’re single, it can never be their fault or something they’re doing wrong, and It’s always men? It’s never mentioned how some of them pride themselves on being hardheaded, shallow, and difficult. Or the fact that they think they’re better than everyone cause they’re born a certain day. Or that they openly hate men cause TikTok tells them to for no reason, really. Nah, that can’t be it. Impossible. 😒
i dont think we have to care about their complaints , they arent actually entitled to a relationship
Yeah, i've been noticed this. I haven't heard once of a woman being honest that she made a mistake in the relationship or whatever but I have heard guys owning up to it. If they say anything it's typically the guys fault.
@@outlaster3431 We shouldn't care but I personally think it's hard when guys are getting dragged on every type of media on every single issue related to women.
@Dank Waifu dude, mix up where you are finding women. Start looking in places where you would expect your type of significant other to be. It can be a library, a farmers market, a volunteer group, a club, etc. You will find women who want to party at bars, and you will find women who value kindness at pet shelters. Get out there and explore. You can even do some good for your community if you do it right brother. The greatest thing to remember is that no matter what, you will be ok. Be bold, and be you. You got this 👌
They'll cut off their nose to spite their face.
A millionaire guy would date and marry an extremely attractive woman, who works at McDonald’s, in a heartbeat.
A millionaire woman would NEVER marry a guy working at McDonald’s, no matter how attractive he is.
Men don’t care about you money, you aren’t dating down.
Not true they’re plenty of older women that pay for younger food looking men to be with them money is power man or woman .
@@flowerfreedom7168"plenty" based on what exactly
@@BeanieDoggerson They exist, heck sometimes the woman is even a celebrity. But yeah, they are far far far from being the majority...
@@flowerfreedom7168 That's hardly the same, the original point is a 29 year old male millionaire would marry an attractive 29 year old mcdonalds worker. The opposite does not apply and you know it.
@@flowerfreedom7168maybe, but if they are older that means they're used goods, so they aren't willing to pay for the younger men out of the kindness of their hearts, they just have no other choice..
Equal rights, equal responsibilities. 🤷🏻♀️
Thats not fair. Im special, and i deserve it all
*manifests success into reality via crystals*
😂😂 equality oh man them bills be getting bigger and I’ll just be the stay at home Dad lol
Thats not faiiiiirrrrrrr
women have rights?
@@cheefqueef6494 unfortunately
I would never want to be in a relationship with anyone who thought I was less worthy as a person because I made less money than them. It's the mark of someone who is incredibly shallow.
Not only shallow but with no values...
Okay, Luke. Would you date a fat woman?
@@cjo4210 yes.
@@cjo4210 would a fat woman date a fat man?
Truly
This really is a case where women got more power but missed the whole more responcibility part
They need to go see Spiderman immediately.
@@rinnegan111 oh nah bro, Spiderman's life: the struggles he has faced is too much bruh.
@@rinnegan111 this comment hits so many points, but will inevitably go over everyones heads
@BishopXLR It will go over zero mens heads who have seen Spider-Man or have any concept of the quote "With great power comes great responsibility"
And yes they shirk responsibilities while demanding more power, which exclusively comes from men giving it to them out of pure benevolence and misplaced "respect". I think it's time we stopped respecting women's wishes.
its funny because if you talked to me 10 years ago i would be jumping on the idea of dating, but after what i saw from a lot of women, i honestly just avoid them in general, I keep my distance from them and live my life doing my own thing which brings me a lot of happiness. So, i am glad that i didn't become one of these broken men who were gullible and got screwed over.
Woman 1: women are too "good" and we don't want to "date down"
Woman 2: what if men are just too insecure and don't want to "date up"?
It's a lose-lose for men we have here bec it's always framed as our fault.
Solution: Leave America
Not true, any rich woman will find a lot of lower income men wanting to date them. That's just an excuse they make up that men are "scared" of their money. Naw, many men would be happy if a woman spoiled them and paid for everything why would they be scared of that? lol.
Proving women are crazy 😧
and THAT'S the real story
& that’s how you know that our mentality are completely different fam. I’ll leave a girl without even looking back if I sense that type of energy from you. A piece of advice for guys, don’t get mad, don’t argue, cause you just can’t change certain women. Move on to the next & to the next until you find someone that floats in the same river as you
Bro that BEEF PATTY LOOKING GOOODDDD
Right, smacking like nobody business lol
@@CrysTheCelestialGemini exactlyyyy! Makes me miss the jamican/soul food near me!
🤣🤣🤣
@@Mr.man712 You nuh have juicy beef patty a foreign?
Facts.
I've said it before and I'll say it again:
*Being single reeeeeeeaaaaally isn't as bad as people make it out to be.*
For a male.
It's a blessing nowadays.
Men benefit being single and married, women only benefit when married
Of course this is if you marry based on values, morals, life goals, compatibility on all fronts, etc
@@Divinia93 until marriage laws change. Men don’t benefit from marriage at all actually,
Men only benefit from marriage if a prenup is signed before it.
My Mom had a High School diploma. She came to the U.S. mainland from Puerto Rico during the depression and had to work in a sweat shop. My Dad had to drop out of school after the eighth grade. He went to work in the sugar cane fields to help his widowed Mom and five siblings. They met in N.Y.C. at a party for soldiers returning from WW11. My Dad looked sharp in a uniform and they married. Although some of my Mom's relatives looked down on him they carried on. My Dad worked as a janitor for the post office. Such provided many benefits, including paid medical and sick leave and paid vacations. Her sister was working her way through college. She married a struggling student. My Dad loaned him money so he could continue his education. He ultimately became a dentist and gave us free dental care. My Dad retired debt free and bought his retirement home in Florida cash. They stayed married for over 60 years. I was blessed to come from a heritage of folk who valued character over a paycheck.
The problem with dating is that they're not dates, they're interviews. Dates are supposed to be fun and at times spontaneous depending on the type of person you are and are dating. It's just getting to know someone and going with the flow
You speaking facts
If you are a tall handsome dude, I promise you the dates are going to be fun. She's sitting there smiling and twirling her hair. It's the average guys who are going to face the inquisition.
@@rosihantu1 😂😂😂😂
Dates are just ways to not settle. To experience it all and end up with no one.
Perpetual children who claim there more mature than men, with this constant need for fun and happiness,fellas understand when dealing with the modern female she's a liability and just another child you have to take care of basically. Smh
If you don’t wanna date down, that’s cool but don’t act like you can’t find men on your “level.”
There are men making that money, but those men don’t want you lol
Her: I want to be equal to you.
Also her: now that I’m equal, I want someone better than you.
Facts
Pretty much sums up women.. CONFUSED
@@dreday77764 you as well... confused... why? Coz you paint everyone with the same brush.
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Feminists: We don't want equality. We want privilege.
We call those hit it and quit it girls..
Imagine just trying to find someone you love where you share the same values and support each other.
that's crazzy, get out of town, shut the front door
crazy talk
Maybe this was possible thirty years ago, but I’m pretty sure that ship has now sailed
Let me ask the council of the „get the bag!“
The bag council says „no“
i was raised to think like this and forced to update my software to the reality of the world
Dating down... if thats the case then what hell have men being doing this whole time..
Men do not want equal partners. That is why they date down.
Dating down
@@angelicbeast5298women: nOoOo pAtrIarChY
Nah.. men just care about other shit.
For men that had no problem providing for women, just hearing women say stuff like this pisses us off. It also makes us feel that we were played.
Right that’s something a lot of people don’t seem to acknowledge, it’s hard to want to support and be there for someone who probably won’t do the same for you.
Facts
you were played. Dont feel, think about it
We were played ! And we have to make sure the next generations of men won't be
That's because we were played. We were....
"dating down" being said on national tv tells you all you need to know about modern women. I bet she gets awards aminstead of cancelled for saying that
They’re just bitter about the fact that outearning men means they can’t take advantage of their finances anymore 🤷♂️
"Men can't find good jobs, women hardest hit."
Get a trade and make a job
Literally spells out how 99% of women think… EVERYTHING is about them and it is so exhausting
@@Nic-xr1og listen other me (we got the same name lmao) it's more like 99% online but 60% or 55% in the real world mah g
" Women are the primary victims of war"
@@Nic-xr1og once you realize lack of empathy for men is there for evolutionary reason it starts to make alot more sense
I do believe you're right about men are dropping out of college and a higher rate or not even attending, but you have to keep in mind. A lot of the colleges are changing in an aspect which is unappealing for young men. Instead of just completing their career paths and going on to making their money when comes to their lives, they're being told they have to take classes which are unbeneficial and don't help them in their career paths.
Men like myself are who you're talking about. But keep in mind that men like myself switch gears and go into skilled trades because that's where the money is, for men at least. Women sure aren't filling the skilled trades. The problem men like myself run into with modern women is that they look down on Blue Collar guys even though we are making as much if not more money than they are. Blue Collar jobs to them is peasant work on the social status scale. It's more important to them that their man keep up appearances by being in a career that requires them to wear business attire to work. They're fancy worthless degrees have polluted their minds to make them think they deserve a certain kind of guy. What continued to fail to understand is that men do not value or judge women based on their career prestige or income.
Btw I am college educated so intellectually I'm still on their level in that regard as well as being skilled so actually I could be considered superior to them based on their standards.
Most are starting to go to the trades school
Colleges have made it quite clear they don’t want men.
Her money is her money and his money is her money
Male reporters were on the same shit 🤣. This transcends race
🤣
"Buy a dog and die alone" fucking took me out bro holy shit. Good edit.
A message from these lonely women's sons: please, find someone... We can't keep filling your emotional void.
Sheesh! 💯
Wow a talking dog
I think Daniel Meckler is probably right; a lot of women treat sons as surrogate partners.
It's called emotional incest.
This is such a big fact.
She said I can do bad by myself well men can do good by themselves
The words coming out of their mouths say equality, but their actions say preferential treatment…
that’s exactly what it is
I'm in my late 30s, 6 figure income, 6ft tall, no kids, and in decent shape for my age. I am what a lot of these women claim to want. I wouldn't even consider casually dating women who have these kinds of nasty attitudes.
It's unbelievable how many guys lack the self-respect you have. Don't ever give in, it's not worth it bro.
I make around 120k as a senior graphic designer and as soon as a woman says “I want a man that makes 500k-1M, or “how much money you make” I already know you’re sex only just like the girls on the video is, and dying alone doesn’t sound too funny to say, these standards are crazy nowadays
I'm early 30s and same, hell I play guitar piano, violin, I cook and sew, and I JUST learned this lesson lol they come in so correct but within a year it's just a hellscape of manipulation and entitlement
I don’t know many women making that much. Just because these women are going to college, doesn’t mean they’re making more.
Keep your self-respect man. You deserve a good partner.
5:56 Did that WT man just clean off his hands 🤔 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When you have a good job and look as attractive as she does it’s less likely that her standards are too high but more likely that her attitude is trash. There’s had to have been people that met her standards, but because they do meet those standards they have other options and don’t need to put up with an attitude like that. Judging by her reaction to what they had to say, I can only imagine how exhausting it must be to deal with a “my way or the highway” kind of person for a long period of time
This 100% she's obviously super toxic.
Facts,the men she wants don't want her back
Great take. And yeah the men who meet her criteria definitely have other options but they don't set high standards for them like she does. They can easily find a great girlfriend who doesn't have a stank attitude.
I think so too, a toxic attitude can kill an prospects of a relationship and worse still it can be hard for them to realise that maybe they are the problem.
Not necessarily, her standards are dumb..you either search for a partner( which has nothing to do with money)or for a sponsor(which has nothing to do with love)
They say they wanna hold off on relationships but then get mad because they can't find relationships???
🤯
high value men don't grow on trees as kevin Samuels used to say lol
People are making dating way more complicated than it needs to be.
Let me correct that for you: women making dating …
Men are not the ones messing it up for everyone
Rather be happy alone than miserable with a conceited, coldhearted and manipulative female.
@@GenericUserName443 I mean all the dudes simpin ruined it for everyone
@@GenericUserName443 have you not seen the rise of the red pill community??? Men are just as shitty at dating as women…
@@ahdesloake4752 true, but they are the symptom. You have to look at what causes this: fatherless homes, broken homes, no male role models to teach them self respect. If a generation of men are raised by single mothers, don't be surprised when they turn out simps.
TRANSLATION: “We won’t admit we were duped by feminism and the financial success we have reached is no marker on the fulfillment we receive in life…nor does it dictate the quality of a man’s character…so to date “down” financially will disturb the the fact that the way we value ourselves has so much to do with our careers…and little to do with our characters and that’s just …y’know …ALOT” 🥴🤧
Preach
perfect analysis
so basically they only can value in other what they value in themselves: Status and money
Not necessarily. If there's not a huge difference in income, dating a man that makes less than you is possible. As long as he doesn't have any hang ups about it. Finances are a part of marriage, it's immature to believe otherwise. Even if these women didn't accomplish anything, it still wouldn't change the divorce rate. Which was high (initiated by men) long before women started initiating them more often. Character and finances matter. All people place value in accomplishments. Wanting someone with good character that is goal-oriented and shares the same values as you do is not unrealistic. Especially if you don't limit yourself to one race. Even good people with right character can be incompatible. Understand feminism alone is not the only factor that contributes to partnership issues.
Oh please shut up y'all call women golddiggers if they don't want to work and still have a problem when they choose to work, so desperate to be picked
@@OneTwo-yw4ij she's too dumb to understand
The black woman's face SCREAMS that didn't go the way she thought it would
I only provide for myself until I find a woman worth providing for.
Hold ppl to the same standards . Don’t break ur back for an adult. Remember no one would provide for u bc ur a man. Keep the same energy get up ⬆️ there . Women can provide for themselves and help around with bills there not useless just physically less capable in a general sense
While you wait chad is tearing the cheeks keep waiting
@@klopcodez oversease is the answer
@@klopcodez You see, that is a logical fallacy. If she is riding the carousel, she's not worth providing for.
@@klopcodez he didn't say he was a monk he said he was waiting to PROVIDE for a woman worth it. You can have sex while waiting for someone worth having a long term relationship but you can also not and that's probably even better for long term mental health and lifestyle.
Seeing Kevin Samuels be constantly proven to be right makes me so happy, the femcels literally laughed and celebrated when he died.
That shit was sickening. Women I thought to be upper echelon talked down on that brotha because he held them accountable. Bitches be crazy.
The King left us too soon
I miss that dude.
As most people should, he was an awful human.
@@FLdancer00 People like you are awful humans. So before you die, send out invitations for others to attend the celebration 🎉🎉🎉
I make more than my boyfriend. But that doesn't mean he isn't responsible. He is the best partner I can ever imagine. These women need a reality check.
You da best 🙌🏾🙌🏾✊🏾
Is the reality cheque more than 6 figures? If not then they are dating dooooõwn now 😒🤨
Money has nothing to do with love affection respect fidelity and life partners...this is supposed to be basic common sense.
You dropped this 👑
This is what you wanted! DEAL WITH IT! Love your content guys!
It’s crazy how high the standards are, to the point that very few could even reach. I chose to be with my current man of 6 years not because of how much money he had, but because of who he is as a person. We were both close to homelessness when we met each other, but we grew to love each other’s personalities and goals we have for life. Now we live together and are slowly working our way towards getting a house and starting a family.
Money can buy so many things, but not the experiences I’ve had with him over the years. Some days he tells me he wishes he had enough to spoil me, but I always have to remind him that he’s spoiled me enough without having to spend a single penny. I’d honestly feel extremely ashamed if I ever thought it was okay to shame anyone, especially my husband, for how little they were making. Any sort of devastating life situation could happen and I don’t think most women understand that. You want to be with someone that’s going to stick by you through the literal toughest of times, not when it’s just convenient.
Personally I think the issue is materialism and the consumerism that breeds it. Everyone is a brand and their purchases in the various markets, the "dating marketplace" included, must reflect it.
You sound like peak couple goals, glad you two found each other.
Rather be happy alone than miserable with a conceited, coldhearted and manipulative female.
@@NordicWildSoul ?
@@003mohamud i think it is clear. Instead of spending time with a bad woman, better off living without aforementioned woman.
I was raised with Caribbean parents that were into equality. That's why my mom made more because she had more of a career and vision for it vs a few jobs my dad would do and neither was threatened by that. He still calls her the smart one out of the two. They were and are friends first, he was upfront on what he could offer and vice versa. So I definitely want to end up with someone realistic like how my parents are so I don't deal with this bs.
Your parents' story gives me hope
These kind of parents are very rare specially in the black community..God bless them!
@@afrosamourai400 they were taught the old way in faith so I can see why it's not shown as much or seen as much. Before people had more of a north american view on the world, it definitely was more common in the Caribbean for people to act the way my parents do.
@@awakenow7147 thank you. I love them for how they are.
My family friends and friends follow the same way so it is definitely possible to find this in another person.
It's just bizarre that they only show a weird power dynamic in media all the time when it doesn't need to be like that for everyone.
@@kaylastraker-trotman Glad to hear that you know other people who are also following a more fair life path. And indeed, the media seems to focus very intently on promoting a certain lifestyle among people, and it seems to create a lot of confusion.
My family is of Filipino background, and I grew up in a neighborhood that was largely Mexican. Almost everyone I grew up around is very confused right now. Both cultures come from a "machismo" patriarch mindset, where the man is the breadwinner. But because they are also American, and heavily influenced by modern trends, the young generation want equality...and yet they don't.
Its an odd situation for people who are caught up between the two cultures, so I'm glad there are people who are working it out.
Being alone and lonely are not the same. Being lonely can drive you to do irrational decisions and bad choices. Being alone is a found sense to enjoy yourself in your own skin. You are not alone if you have friends and family. Most people confuse loneliness as being without a partner. Loneliness is a state of mind.
Word.
Cope
Loneliness be dangerous like Doing Nothing and saying you will dang regret it and alone where you can get to know your true self and Make friends that will help and last for a long time
@@cnote3598 Explain
@@ARealPersonNotABot being alone is unhealthy for everyone .. you may be able to cope, esp as a man .. but it's unnatural and antihuman. Stop lying to yourself and be honest with your sadness and anger, it's justified. Try and maybe find an actual catholic church community, even if you're not religious and maybe try and surround yourself with ppl who care about deeper things than materialism and social media clout, but good luck .. its hard. Humanity is being intentionally wiped out, so this is why you can feel the decline in your soul; disassociation and lack of connection
Bro most ladies have not known loneliness. Hits them after 40, cue the antidepressants. Thank you for a cool video. Unjani from South Africa
If you only date up, it's not so hard to realize that other women do too, and that you're all competing for the top sliver of men, especially as you advance in your careers and what is considered "up" becomes more narrow.
The biggest problem is the hubris of us women, because we think those top men should all be interested in us, above those other women, and we are hurt and enraged when they're not.
Wise and well put indeed. Such hubris to expect the richer man to want you due to your high income. While most of these high income ladies are unpleasant as hell. Hope young women learn to listen and take from people like you. Best wishes on your journey of life.
Overtime as there's more men making less then women, I really do think it's just gonna give the few men who do and make a lot more power then they already do. That's if they don't adapt and change that mentality.
Honestly this goes both ways.
This is it. Imagine competing for 5% of the pool, then being butthurt when he's going through the top 80% of women LMFAO... I work out with a guy like that, it's not even his 'career' he's just fk good looking. Every women and I mean young or the old ladies that come through for those spin classes are gawking at this dude. Ya'll are digging your own graves at this point.
@@champ7139 Dude it isn't about money, it is all about looks. I know guys who are delivery drivers for UPS that are living a life you woudn't imagine (dating wise) I know a guy at my gym who's every woman's type. Money is only a requirement when the dude's 5'4.
As a lonely guy growing up, I knew a bunch of beautiful girls I never had a chance with and there was nothing as infuriating has hearing these words "I wish I could just be by myself".
i'm like "you think you do, until you don't"
at 30+ shes definitely been ran through and have all kinds of baggage and trauma. spent her 20s riding the cock carousel in her prime. now you have worked hard in your 20s and you are in your prime or about to reach there.theres no plus to committing to them, dont let shaming tactics work on you
marriage today is pointless and risky
@@yourgrandpa2539Grandpa you’re projecting…not all women go through a hoe phase😂
I’m so happy someone else is saying this. True equality is taking the good WITH the bad! Otherwise you don’t want equality, you want a system where you can only benefit from.
And I see these four people here on the news in the ATL every day. This is classic and real.
I'm a female doctor. I can't remember how many patients come to the hospital alone, concious and not. Some people were taken by their neighbours 3 days after the first symptoms. Some people were so close to die. Some died and found a week later. All of my friends decided to get married after seeing how many patients suffer alone. Loneliness isn't just a state or feeling, it comes with many costs.
If women now can say they date down, men should be able to say date down too. Equality
I think we should just throw away this whole "dating down" shit. I'm equal with the people i'm in relationship with regardless of income. I date to find someone i love and care for, that i would like to spend my life with sharing good experiences and creating great memories. To be my partner in crime if you will. For whatever reason there is a movement of women who think relationships are built around money and i almost feel bad for them because there never going to know love. They are going to forcing themselves into relationships with people they can't stand and think its normal as long as he makes good money. Blows my mind even more, because with women being able to go to school and get good jobs dating a rich man doesn't feel like a requirement anymore and while are economy isn't great we aren't going through a great depression. Hell even during the great depression when people were actually eating boots they were still look for love more then wealth.
This whole “dying alone” thing is ridiculous. Most married women will die alone given the difference in life expectancy. The real problem described here is the lack of community and the social isolation in modern society.
My better half is a well trained female doc in one of the top 3 paying specialties. When we first met she said I'm better educated and make more money than you. Are you OK with that. She didn't say it to be mean, she found many men insecure over it. After seeing 30 patients a day signing them out on the EMR she comes home and makes me dinner. She is amazing, kind, caring and sweet. She hates hospital consults BTW. lol If your on staff sometimes you have to do them.
@@demon3203 yes dating down term is pretty disrespectful
@@oddbod4442 u probably take my comment on different direction. Preach talked about loneliness, so I give an example of loneliness and the possibility of dying alone. It's scary to see decomposed bodies here and there, I hope you will never experience having deadly pain and nobody's there to help you.
Every time they “date up” they force a man to date down
"With great power comes great responsibility........if you're a man."
Right??😅😅😅
They swear they're equal. They swear they didn't need a provider. Now they're eating their words. The funny thing is, this has nothing to do with love 😂 having a family, yes, but they CAN find a man who gives them an amazing relationship but they are immediately blocked by the delusional thought of having a man make money
It’s funny to see that these same women that are complaining about dating down actually want the man they want to date down 😂
I always use this point to destroy the dating down nonsense!! People are just stupid...
But those women are delusional. They think they a catch 😂
Hypocrisy is a terrible disease. Do not listen to what these modern 304 females say, just watch what they do.
They can want him but he will need to understand that THEY are the prize.
@@TomikaKelly A woman is never the prize, a man is on every level, he provides the seed, the provision and the protection, as well as leadership and guidance. Man has always been the prize
*My mother worked in family law for 45 years.* Something once rare became common place. Women calling in saying they just got *engaged* but instead of asking for a lawyer for a marriage contract and legal counseling, the woman calling, just engaged, wanted to know HOW MUCH SHE COULD GET IN A DIVORCE. This went from annual, to bi annual, to monthly, to weekly. Check the stats in divorce men. Avoid marriage. Until no fault divorce is abolished.
Bruh what? Really?
OH FUCK THATS SCARY
Duly noted.👌🏽👀
That's what's up
@@pauljohnagustin237 Griffith did nothing wrong btw
My husband supported me through grad school. He makes almost half what I did when starting my job. I could never imagine seeing that as dating down.
I could never see that being consider dating that either! He's supported you while you were going to school. That alone is hard to find these days.
Yet many women have left when they get to that grad school and think it’s a lot of money when I’m reality it’s just comfort and nothing else
That's a man with good character which is something a lot of females fail to look for.
YOU ARE DATING DOWN FINANCIALLY, DVMB CVNT.
Your husband is pimping you. He gets to live a lifestyle he can’t afford on his own because he sent you to school instead of bettering himself to be a provider. You’re his work horse and cash cow. Are you going to continue to go to work and outearn him once you get pregnant?
"I don't think there's anything wrong with hoping that there's someone either on your level or higher than you." - imagine if a man said that about men looking for mates.
If men said that then watch all these women come out and complain and say "stop making women feel like they need to be perfect for them to date you. That's not realistic" it'll be he's limiting his dating pool and everything. But that's the double standard, women can demand Steve Rogers(with the super soldier serum) but don't want Steve Rogers(before the super soldier serum)
I’m 46 married with children. All the “bad bitches” I knew made fun of my “submission” are alone and wishing they had a family now. They all refused to date men who “weren’t on their level”
Bad bishes end single...
They've got no forward thinking
@@afrosamourai400 Case in point: Amber Rose
I'm 31 and been married for a decade. The women that laughed at me, made fun of my submission, said I should get an abortion when I got pregnant quickly after marriage are all now divorced or still single. They can't figure out what they did wrong, but they still make fun of me if we cross paths.
@@kunya16 then they have learned nothing. What a shame.
Being single doesn't bother me too much. Does get lonely sometimes, but looking around at the broken relationships everywhere reminds me its really just not worth it.
It’s better to be single and alone than to be in a relationship and feel alone.
A great relationship is fantastic but man if you find a diamond, hold on. WORK to make it work long term. Otherwise focus on yourself and goals and take care.
@@Xarkom89 well fucking put! I'll definitely quote the first part of your comment in the future
Facts
Big facts bro good mindset to have
Scared to try. U don't need to enter or stay in bad relationships. There are great ones out there and u will regret it when ur old if u don't roll the dice
was out on the town some months ago with friends where we started talking to a group of other girls. all of the guys but one dude got together with the girls in the group because the one he tried talking to more or less told him "he looks to cheap to hook up with" end of the night she couldn't find anyone to go with so she went over to the dude for some. "ill have sex with you out of pity", he just looked at her with a straight face and told her "sorry i don't do leftovers"
She got what it's was coming. 👌🏽
Actually smarter move than hed thought. She could have easily spun that scenario to make him the bad guy if he wasn't satisfactory enough
That guy is street smart he did dodge one right there.
Cold...lmfao
The culture shock i got frm readings this….??????? She’d sleep with someone just cause???? I’m so confused, she made sex seem equivalent to a hand shake ew
She went to the SIGN Language instantly.. . but dude gut punched heer ass😂
My sister is a surgeon and my brother in law is a cop and she didn't marry down. He's an asset for her and their children. He's a strong and kind man, dedicated to his family.
Judging by the money they bring into the household, she definitely married down. But luckily there are more aspects to marriage than the monetary value.
@@oz_jones You're right.
AMEN! Thank you for sharing. People need to HEAR this. Real gold. So many people can get a "good job" but a heart of gold, loyalty and dedication etc to a family, is not always so common. I would say the same, that dedication character etc is higher currency than money itself, because money does not buy character of a man you gotta live with day in and day out affecting your family!
Cops in San Francisco get paid like Doctors. Depends on where you live.
Both those careers are filled with egos and god complexes. Im sure they have a lot in common
What happened to wanting a man who has HIGH character, morals, ethics and integrity? What happened to wanting a man who is pious, a GOOD man, a man of honor, a man that's respected by his peers and his community. How did we commodify what was once sacred?
That is an excellent question. Superficial things have become the primary focus, putting character and the like by the wayside. When women are given the "I can change him" philosophy, and that's emphasized, that's one of a few starting points.
What usually happens, is the good guy becoming the bad boy. The bad boy rarely becomes the good guy.
Because if the bae dont have that gucci bag you aint worth it
Nah fendi is more important
I think women figured out that a man like that doesn't exist and gave up looking for it.
Check all these red pill channels, are any of them advocating for this kind of character building? No.
It's all about making money and sticking in as many females as possible. They want to check women but won't check their own brothers for lying, cheating and not taking care of their kids.
Most Women never cared about all that
That woman just wanted to spout her bullshit and expected everyone to agree with her. When they don't she gets mad.
So she's a woman
"holding off on the baby making" where do you think that will get you?
Women want that Cinderella story, but they not willing to be the prince.
Interesting that supposedly men are known for being shallow yet women don't want to "date down" and don't even consider things like personality, interests and values first.
men are shallow for looks, women are shallow for money/status. Both are shallow just in different ways. Obviously this does not apply to all men and women though
@@karljones7976 why don’t we stop labeling everything as shallow altogether?
Well thanks for the chuckle but no, the way it goes is you gotta be a king, no one wants a fool man or women
@@ravenwhiteduck6460 I mean a lot of women chases bums, it's like your either a bad boy or a leprichaun with a pot of gold.
Talk is cheap
I remember once talking with an older coworker of mine. I don't know what she did in her younger years but she was saying she regretted not getting married and having children because she was lonely basically. It was just her, her cats, and I believe she had a housemate but even with that they aren't obligated to be your friend. The older you get it gets rough out here, a lot of their friends/loved ones die, you don't have children to call and have no one to pass anything down to. Its real out here and hopefully women wake up before their clock runs out.
They wake up only enough to blame men. Nothing is their fault.
A high value man would never ever marry that woman not a chance
One girl i dated once came over to my house a few days or weeks later and it was clear she was there for sex and I obliged her. Little did she know that I had an elective procedure that redered me sterile but I didn't feel the need to tell her till later, keep reading. I saw where she lived and I obviously was dating down and she had multiple children by different men and it was clear that she was having kids for the child support in hindsight. She tried to imply that she was pregnant a month later and I told her that ,"It wasn't me" and how I knew. I never heard from her again. I was making 6 figures at that time. Insist on always dating up and you will be treated like the lower staus that you are.
6 figures and not wrapping it up... you'll lose russian roulette eventually...
@@ashleyalexander7388 so true
@@ashleyalexander7388 Roulette as in pregnancy or STD's? Homie said he was sterile so I'm guessing you just mean STD's... Which hearing of her promiscuous lifestyle would be a fair risk.
This is great life lesson "insist on always dating up and you will be treated like the lower status you are"
So when you found out that this woman had kids with multiple partners and how she lived, you suddenly realized that you were dating down??? Or...if you knowingly dating down because you knew that she has extra baggage, why even choose a woman with all that baggage??? Sounds like your story is bs or you just don't know how to pick an appropriate date.
"Loneliness is very lonely."
"Value value."
I love these dudes I swear 😂
Just here to tell everybody that this whole movement has been funded and enabled by the elites, aka the farmers..
And farmers favour females. The female herd is easier to manage, males are much harder to regiment. We are the cattle. For decades they have been domesticating the human male and imprisoning those who can’t be, and now they even got them castrating themselves off the back off this domesticating ideology
As a Baby Boomer colleague at work once put it, "when men were the main breadwinners and more educated, we were taught to respect and cherish woman we were lucky enough to have like or love us. No woman was beneath a man! Now that it's flipped and women are the ones starting to make more money and get a higher education...any man who isn't at par isn't worth shit! Be happy if you are already married. Being single today sucks!" He told us this around 8 years ago! His words still ring true.
Wouldn’t this make men pursue higher education and cause them to aim even higher financially ?
This isn’t meant as an attack, I’m actually curious to know anyones thoughts.
I personally believe if general men still out earn the majority of women in the work force because the jobs or careers most women have aren’t in fields that pay six figures or even seven figures.
Yes and you boomers could legally beat your wives and they had no choice but to stay.
@@Divinia93 na coz guys dont really wanna compete with women financially
@@Divinia93 Most men don’t wanna compete with women at all. We just want y’all, if he insecure then he insecure, move on to a man that ain’t
@@Divinia93 Wage gap is a hoax. There is nothing that you can't earn that a man can earn. There's only certain jobs women won't/can't(physically) do and certain jobs men won't do.
The hand wipe is so clean off the slate!