Love Marriage Vs Parents | Raj Shamani
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mostly muslim guy !!!!
what a fuck ideology in hinduism
akkkkkk thoooo
JAI BHIM JAI MIM
Totally agree…if it doesn’t work out you don’t hold someone else accountable.
I can guarantee there will be flood of comments saying going against family is horrendous . But man if u have seen a little bit of both of marriages . You can easily say it's lot easy marrying against family then living a dreadful life all the time cursing ur life is hell .
But yeah maturity is needed in both the Cases. You can't do that at in ur early 20s
@@yuvrajaryan7005 that is true for both arrange or love marriage
I thing one shouldn't marry before 25
Definitely !!! And if you knew your family would never allow a love marriage then why the heck are you wasting someone elses time 🥴
100% Agreed
Sometimes your family allows u to choose whomever u want but u just can't find Mr. right & have to settle with Mr. Whatever. I was bought up in a metro city & moved to a small town. In my community i cant find educated modern guys. So no option but to marry illiterate guy
Her children will be luckiest to have a supportive mom ❤
Also if you marry someone against your will just to please your parents, you will never be able to do justice to that person and as a result that person will suffer for no fault of theirs
I don't understand why parents disagree for person you like and why they want you to marry strangers
Fetish.
Ya u should see Sardha case
@@anushkapathak3360 just because of one person can you really speak for rest of these billions of people stop being stupid and keep being in your nice girl syndrome
@@anushkapathak3360 arrange mee aise cases nhi hote kya🤣
Accidents sb jagah hote hai
Religion , caste , inter state, status, moreover we gave you birth so we own you, according to society a parent is only successful in their parenting if a girl marries the person they selected....
I have seen so many cases were when someone say I want to marry this person.. Which is not the parents selection.. Parents say if u go with ur love I will die.. Like.. Emotional controlling.. And they are forced to get married to someone else.
Right
Same with me 😢
True same happening with me ,also my father is a drinks
It's currently happening to me and it's pathetic. The choice between l9ve and parents..I cannot explain it in words
To the people who suffer.. I will say.. Staying with manipulation and possessiveness is never a good path whether it's your partner or parents. Rest is your choice.
In India ..this doesn't work for one big reason ... people don't take their own responsibility..and stand by there own decision...if you take one there is price to pay
True. Mine left me too
according to we humans we are not mature to choice our partner and marrying by our own choice is just wrong but marrying with a stranger and having sex in first night even when you dont know what kind of person he/she is , is ok
Strange indian logic🤔
i know right
You should marry for love...But a love with "no" Compromises... Like no change of religion ,social status or belief system... Then I'd believe it's true love... But maa baap ka izzat bhi bachh jaaye aur woh Maan jaayein toh best hai...
Isn't it toxic ki baccha apna khusi khud se dundhne lagta hai toh maa baap ka izzat jane lagta hai.🙂
@@shrsandilya8344 Aisa hai naa ki society boycotts the parents if daughters marry out of caste or religion... n worse if a Hindu girl marries a Muslim man.. They have to constantly hear taunts.. So they either have to grow a thick skin or not bother about society... Its a tough decision to take.
Lgta h jese India me intercaste/ inter religion ek crime hai
Even same caste me bhi crime hi hai, parents nhi mante
My parents didn't allow me to go for love marriage.. They did beat me n forced me to forget him.... Later on the guy also left as he had his commitments n he got married to someone else. Now my parents hv thought that they will allow my brother for love marriage. This has hurt me a lot.. How can they say abt him doing love marriage when they made my life miserable? I m helpless n I can't do anything. I can't be sad anymore cuz of this.. I hv suffered a lot... A lot... How do I ignore this n move ahead in life... Someone plz help me... Plz suggest me something...
@legaldiaries9279 i know this hurts u so much.. Bt things have happened already.... Its really hard to move on... Bt u have to... Atleast u have a ur life... Now on do wht u want to do... There so many independent individuals in the world chasing their dreams.... Be a independent individual... Independent individual means to stand alone and work for urself... Its doesnt mean to hurt anybody as u dont care....we should not behave badly to anybody as we get from another individuals.
Just leave the place and if you are stable having a job, u can clear ur mind by getting out the family, atleast for a certain period of time.. Its of no use to blame anyone now.. Choose ur path carefully...!!
@@sowmyamohanan2338true.
First forgive them and let me make myself clear doesn't mean you forget that happened to you what they did to you no
But you learened a lesson that you should think about yourself first love yourself sooooo much more anybody would love you
If you are stable move out
If not take some time think how you wana live your life and then plan silently and make yourself capable even it's a small job r whatever then move out work for yourself
Hey just change your perspective , think that you guys weren't meant for each other. God has his own plans for you, you may find someone who is really worth it❤And will not leave you no matter what ❤I will pray for u to find the right person ❤ Be happy queen❤
Ha jab emotional blackmail krte h na parents jab pta chalta h....bc caste system itna ghatiya h is desh m .....
Me ldki hu hmari to caste bhi same hai bas ladka same gotra ka hai aur dur ghar hai ldke ka me depression me hu suicidal thoughts aati hai bhot paresan hu Mann krta hai mar jau ,life jina bhot muskil ho gyi hai
I agree caste system bhot ghatiya hai is desh ka 😭😭😭
Tumhe logo ne to bnya hai caste system 'sharma' brahmin😂
I'm dalit btw! I belongs to upper middle class family (lived in a delhi), both the parents in the govt services highly educated and she belongs to lower middle class (Brahmin) we met in Delhi University college we had 7 years of relationship from college days but due this fucking caste system by brahmins, God doesn't create this system. their parents didn't allow even I'm earning very decent amount and belongs to very good family but they didn't allow we try 2 years almost but her family didn't allow to marry me at the end they married forcely by someone. End of the love story😢
Ryt bro
@@lovelyvats6926, Haan ghatiya to hai, lekin yeh cast system Desh ka nahi balki Hindu religion ka hai.
Arrange mareiage is not actually a marriage its a certificate to do anything with girl, certificate given by both families
Some arrange marriage are forced but not all arrange marriages are for those boy/girl who are shy introvert and didn't have any relationship.if you have committed relationship try hard to get marry him and her because of you didn't try you may have to marry another man or women and u have to hide your past so this is unfair for another counter party.because may be he or she try to find their first relationship in arrange marriage and expect same from their future spouse
Bkwas hai indian parenting. bacha apne opinion ya dil ki bat bhi nhi kr skta because parents ne already believe kr rkha hai hum sahi hai. Talking to them is like beating head in wall. This happens at my home, my parents are probably the last people I would ever seek help from in my bad time because first they will shame me & I m depressed because of them today
I understand 😢r u guy or girl?
Same with me I'm depressed due to parent , thinking of killing myself
I can totally relate
Yes 😢
True Af 💯💯
My family told do whatever u want but find a good person dont bring headache to all... I come from a very conservative family.. india is changing very fast..
I hope so. My heart was broken by an Indian man. I am a western woman who is Muslim. His family are conservative Hindus. It breaks my heart that they could not accept me. It is hard from my perspective to think they love their children when they take away the people they love. It is something I cannot imagine doing to my dog even. I think his family are "good" people because of how they raised such a man of character. So it's confusing that they can discriminate so easily against someone different from them. It's something I can't comprehend.
I love her....mam....i luv u from the bottom of my heart.......what a brave lady............salute to you........
Now the problem lies in the fact that your highly emotional love fades with sad realities of life. Then you think everything is horrible.
Same can happen for someone your family chose for u
@@niharikaA7412 when expectations are not very high then there are lesser issues.
@@AjayKumar-uj4fw that's why you should chose for yourself instead of going for what other feels right for you and expectations are not bad you know your worth you know what you deserve and that's what you go for
if couple having job and knowledge about life then going against family is ok because after years famliy will accept you
Family should be having a reason to reject. May be ur choice sucks and ur not mature enough to understand tay
🙏 dil ka baat 💯 .... Har lover or gf bf ek dusre ko kadar karo . Ek bar kho Diya tooo kabhi nahin milega... Har ek problem ka against fight karo dono milkar etc
As a woman, I truly agree to her words and she is a true woman 😊
At least person should mature and take decision carefully if you are a kid and taking this decision then you spoil your life. First have a carrier then choose because if you fail then you have something which will protect you being a looser in your own eyes...
If you marry at age above 25 to 28 you can marry your own choice since you are mature but if you are at age of say 19 20 marry acc to family or don't marry for some time
Well said 🔥
Ya my bf shravan he is not a Kashmiri guy and my friends told me why you like non Kashmiri guy . I feel my heart is so broken . This video helped me 😢
Your friends don't understand your feelings... don't listen to them and made yourself sad
JAI MAA PARASHAKTI 🙏🕉️🙏🚩🙏🙏
Wise words.
First of all tell me what is the concept and purpose of arranged marriage even today ??
Promoting or encouraging caste system , clases(like brahmin , Sudra ,etc ) differentiation, dowry , same standard intact like rich to rich and poor to poor ,etc
And people say arranged marriage is good coz there is low divorce rate !!
Society is not developing coz mentality of people ar shamelss !!
Remember Narrow mind mentality includes arranged marriage also as the factor !!
And wat is open minded ? Oyo hotels😅
Respect 🫡 💯
well said..
I agree
And I did it also for the same reason
I would do the same. I agree with her.
When you open your school
What if they r forcing you to marry a guy and you also have noone else to go against the family for ? 😣
Vo bhi aapki personal choice. Mentally ready nhi ho, ya career ambitions hai. Aapki khushi Honi chahiye
Get a job and get out of your family house
First ask what is love ??? What exactly is this love??? And what exactly is this marriage??
U should take time,see both and then decide, ultimately u decide but with a reason to give to ur parents.....parents know their kids more than anyone else
This is not true in every case.not every parent understand their child
Ladke mostly jaldi move on karke shadi parents k hisaab s kar lete hai.😢
Yr hum 11 th me mile the... Wo canada chala gya 12rh baad mujhe bheja nhi ... 5 saal long distance tha or bdia se nikal gya time
...
Ab ghrwale ni maan rhe yr.... Kya kru m. 🥺
Inter religion h wo sikh m Hindu
Develope good relations with all
Im going through this😢
🎉❤
family support is very important in practical relationship
No, only in toxic co-dependent families. If the family withdraws support like this, they don't love you anyway. Be strong.
Why ? Are you not that mature to handle your marriage without anyone support.
@@vishalthakur3944true
@@vishalthakur3944family is always needed in life. When life gets hard tats when one realises the value of family n support.
how to get out of toxic relationship
Mine left me yesterday because her family won't accept me. Hardest break up ever.
Lgbt here.
According to me try to convience your parents and if they will not convience then you can live without marriage by anyone because just like everyone, my parents did everything for me and I will try to convience them if they will not support me then I will definitely live single as simple as that
By the way if you marry your favourite girl/boy you may be not happy that you are saying that you will be happy when they will come to your life
Right
I don't agree
Geet theory answer✨💯🫀
Sab gyaan dediya par question ka answer kaha hai maadeem jii 😆
Bol to rahi hey ki jis sey payar kartye ho us sey saadi karigey
Yes i know but who gave you life i think your parents that means first of all you have to complete your parents choice
Hey baghbaan baccha 25 26 kabhi gaya tab bhi parents uski life ka decision leytye hey ye kaha ki acchi baat Hui yrr parents to Saadi kara key mar jaaigey or jhelna baccho ko perta hey
You should go and listen to the acharya prasant ..
It sounds good to say
I will merry the person I love
But without the support of family life is hard👍
For ex
I know a friend of my father who did a intercast love marriage and girl father disowned her and now he died living behind a wife and 2 girls and now their is nobody to support their family
So family is important 🙏
Families should support their children
@@vivek8580 yes
It's so hard to choose between one of them
It's valid for upper caste persons😢😢
Pr bhai abhi tumhari video dekhi thi usme tum keh rhe the ki love is choice every time u make . why don't people make choice which keep family happy as well
Vo raaj keh raha tha
Because marriage is for you and you are going spend your rest of your life with that person not your family ofcourse family happiness does matter but sometimes they do become selfish and have this mentality when they didn't even consider that other person is also a human and have dreams of living life in a certain way at that time one should do what their heart desires.
But obvio
But that person would agree to marry someone else😂😂
😢
Pta nhi…i choosed my parents…im happy now bt wht if?
You are happy leaving ur love?
@@random__human yes i am
@@nishuraghav6283 why how please tell me as well
@@random__human don’t expect and keep flowing then u get the best
@@nishuraghav6283is ur lover happy tht ur leaving!?.... Or were there some agreements when starting relation like... "Whatever happens i will leave you if my family doesnt accept you"... Kinda things!?
Shadi ni karni chye
Now who would want to marry this one, don’t even want to think of love .. eww
Sasta Atif Aslam
marry ur family choice they see totally responsible
Nice girl syndrome girl
Kab tak
and after sometime in life a turning point comes where if your love marriage faces issues ..... then what will you do ??? u can't face your family after that ... coz it was your choice
no problem, earn money live your life, much better than living on someone else's wish
Bhai, zindagi jhnd ho jati h don't do love marriage, you can't either walk out or be in the relationship it get that worst, my advice is don't marry at all. Neither love or arranged.
I would marry by my parents. choice....❤
2 mhine living m reh k dekhlo... answer mil jyga
What if it is intercast like hindu-muslim,christian-hindu intercaste marriages don't succeed so going against family is not right all time love is in fairytales not in real
PARENTS ARE NOT GOD
If it doesn't workout then dont go to parents house stay on street
But not everyone likes you😢
Old Average feminist women
She didn't say anything wrong
you manuwaadi people
Mere wali ko mene bahut mushkil se fsaya tha yrrr or phr usne mujh pr bharosa krke mere pe yaqeen kr liya or me uska yaqeen ni Tod skta yrr...agr. Ek din baat na ho toh vo pure din roti hai or blkl nhi reh pati mere bina lekin meri ammi mna krti hai rista krwane ko usse kehti hai uski height km hai ye vo...halanki uski puri family ki Haan hai or me uska itna aadi ho chuka hu ke me uske bina apni life imagine bhi ni kr skta or sch me vo bahut bahut bahut jyada pyaar krti hai mere...agr meri ammi ne vha Mera rista na kra or uska kahi orr ho gya toh mee sbko barbaad kr dunga🥺🥺😞😞😞💔💔💔💔💔me use kisi or k sath soch bhi ni skta...use bhi maar dunga or khud bhi mrr jaunga🥺😞😞💔
Ho gyi aap dono ki shadi??
Your not a women ,who thinks about parents
Bhai dahej ni milega😅😅
I am not agree my parents given so much so much sacrifice I can't give up the love of 22 for the love of 2 years. Pyaar tu dubara ho jayega but mom and dad will not be found. I don't want to make them sad.
Pyara doobara hojayega aisa kaisa pyaar hai??
Tb tmhe pyar ni hua hoga kabi
Lol...men ll b men...
bhai sab kehne ki baatein hai, move on itna easily nhi hoga.
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That's the reason they say never take advice from s women.
Never marry someone because of love .
Love comes and goes. Love is not constant .
Marry always someone who cares for you ..and who understands who you are and how you are as a man.
Marry younger women with no past to secure your future i advice to all men.
Love comes with care .. and always care for each other love will be there . The care you starts not caring for each other. Love will be gone slowly slowly.
Hahahah beta
Predator boar
Chuslim spotted, opinion rejected
Wtf 😂
He said marry younger woman so he married to his own sister she is young enough not to have a past 😭 what a great predator bro
Ye Kab mregi
😂😂😂
This woman is selfish.....
hum log ladke hai hamara duty banti hai parents ki responsibility lena. Ye cheez har religion may common hai. Middle class ladko ki shaddi naukri dekh kar hoti hai aur pyar berozgari may.
To tu peda hi apne ghar valo ka dhyan rakhne k lie hua hai kya aur responsibility Lene ka matlab ye nhi hai u can't chose for yourself taking responsibility of your family and choosing your life partner both are completely different thungs
Exactly sala ladka hi suffer krega ....idhar jae to dikkat udhar jae to dikkat
Exllent comment
In my opinion i will marry with someone that my parents choose for me because i know i can't get anyone to marry on my own🥲🙃😅
Don't be negative 😉 in life one person is there with someone 100% god made for each other
hum log ladke hai hamara duty banti hai parents ki responsibility lena. Ye cheez har religion may common hai. Middle class ladko ki shaddi naukri dekh kar hoti hai aur pyar berozgari may.
@@sagarsinghparmar1214bhai kya sahi baat boli hai .