Social Media Ruined Our Lives

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
  • Its sad to see what social media has become and many people cant even go one day without it
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  • @ChitsnChatswithBambi
    @ChitsnChatswithBambi 4 місяці тому +98

    This channel is therapy

    • @AZP.99
      @AZP.99 3 місяці тому

      Yesmam

    • @Sandmann629
      @Sandmann629 3 місяці тому

      no it's not. go to a real professional. stop taking shortcuts. stop thinking you're doing something by coming here. dude specifically says what he knows will put people in that EXACT mindset. you keep coming here, I guarantee you'll be here next week. and the week after. and the month after. some people have already been here for months, and that's what he wants.
      therapy is therapy. this is shit you can find in a self-help book. it's addictive in its own way.

    • @ChitsnChatswithBambi
      @ChitsnChatswithBambi 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Sandmann629 that's your problem.

    • @michelafiglur
      @michelafiglur 3 місяці тому +8

      @@Sandmann629Well youtube is FREE and this video is FREE, the real world is expensive, some people aren’t in the position to buy a self help book or talk to a therapist. The internet was literally made to spread information more widely and for less cost, and you are shaming people for using their resources when they may not have other ones? Hope this helps🥰

    • @Dredami-bw1pu
      @Dredami-bw1pu 29 днів тому

      @@Sandmann629 yo do me a favor. Hold this L

  • @AZP.99
    @AZP.99 4 місяці тому +85

    Yeah it’s good to stay productive instead of lose ourselves in our social media, I make sure to kinda set up a bucket list in my mind to finish things for me to be satisfied with what I’ve done.
    Edit: Holy crap this feels like the most likes I’ve gotten from posting a simple youtube comment! Yall tysm for all this, I rlly do appreciate this alot, it truly means alot to me and I hope yall keep striving and thriving off in life. Peace, respect, and love yall 🙏 ❤️ ✊ ☀️

    • @Kais4sight
      @Kais4sight 4 місяці тому +6

      I stopped using Instagram, reddit months ago, and now I quit using Facebook as well and only use it to see updates and announcement from my uni. I'm better without social media

    • @AZP.99
      @AZP.99 4 місяці тому +4

      @@Kais4sight Sounds great man, tysm for sharing this frfr 🔥 ✌️

    • @ameershivprasad
      @ameershivprasad 3 місяці тому +1

      Conway pfp tuff 🙏🗣️

    • @AZP.99
      @AZP.99 Місяць тому

      @@ameershivprasad lmao it’s actually Westside Gunn pfp but he tuff as frick too ong 👊

    • @AZP.99
      @AZP.99 Місяць тому

      @@Kais4sight Yeah the internet can be good and bad, it’s got W’s and L’s, sadly The W’s can be pretty hidden nowadays it feels.

  • @hesatthegoddess
    @hesatthegoddess 4 місяці тому +53

    This is so true. Sadly, people won't see the damage until it's too late.

  • @itskitty808
    @itskitty808 2 місяці тому +4

    The way I see it, social media is junk food for your brain. I got off of social media because it was starting ro ruin my life.

  • @mj-ku6qp
    @mj-ku6qp 4 місяці тому +11

    I feel like the days where social media wasn’t as toxic as it is now was a better time.

    • @ItsNyam
      @ItsNyam 3 місяці тому +4

      True, social media isn’t really the problem; it’s the people using it

  • @psiconautatricolor3310
    @psiconautatricolor3310 4 місяці тому +27

    I feel the exact same way as you. This is facts we are being manipulated every day. I used to think that this things dont affect us but we are getting lost. Im trying so hard to use less social media every day is a battle
    Big love from South America
    Sorry my english is not that good

  • @algirdasltu1389
    @algirdasltu1389 3 місяці тому +6

    Time to lock in and get some of my shit together over summer. Half my grades were either barely passing or just in the middle, Been skipping the gym lately, scrolling shorts and overall spiraling back

  • @DeerestAshe
    @DeerestAshe 4 місяці тому +5

    I stopped main lining social media years ago and I’ve been happier ever since, It does nothing but Rob you of the joys already in your life.

  • @Viprincess16
    @Viprincess16 3 місяці тому +11

    This is the perfect time for me to see this, i have been struggling with mental health lately and couldn’t figure out what the problem was but earlier today i realized i spend way too much time on my phone especially on instagram and tiktok. I got back into journaling recently and was going to write about how i think i should take a week away from it and this is definitely a sign hearing you say i should, you’re videos are really eye opening to me i’ve learned a lot from you, thank you ❤️

    • @dannnyyW
      @dannnyyW 3 місяці тому +2

      I started spending less time on social media for some quite of time and yesterday I decided to go a week without it I’m feeling free tbh .

    • @Sandmann629
      @Sandmann629 3 місяці тому

      youtube is social media btw you're literally forming a parasocial relationship and reading and posting comments

    • @Sandmann629
      @Sandmann629 3 місяці тому

      @@dannnyyWbro "yesterday you decided to go a week without it" and one day after you're already back on it commenting and socializing

    • @Sandmann629
      @Sandmann629 3 місяці тому

      @@dannnyyWShimon will say anything it takes to keep you coming back here without even realizing you're doing it.

  • @finesse6332
    @finesse6332 4 місяці тому +7

    You honestly are the most underrated UA-camr out there, like fr thank you for helping me try to find peace of mind. Blessess 🙏🏾

  • @Lachuga
    @Lachuga 2 місяці тому +1

    I haven’t had Instagram or TikTok or anything for yearsssss now and I swear the difference it’s made in my life is insane, but it is kind of sad because then you look at everyone around you consumed by it, n ppl look at u different because you’re not caught up with all the new trends etc like 😭 all my friends tell me im like an old lady lmaooo

  • @jvyyyy222
    @jvyyyy222 3 місяці тому +2

    You remind me a lot of my Uncle. The way you carry yourself and explain things and the values and ideas you hold remind me of him so much and he’s one of the biggest inspirations in my life right now

  • @MalikDawson-jz4ng
    @MalikDawson-jz4ng 4 місяці тому +9

    Yo big bro could you do a vid on jealousy or overcoming jealousy please 🙏🏾?

  • @fet0logy
    @fet0logy 4 місяці тому +9

    I won't get on social media till 13.06 (except for your new videos). Will keep yall updated everyday.
    Day 1. I'm going cool with no social media BUT. I started to spend a little bit more time at the kitchen (tryna get something to chew, lol), and found myself wanting to listen to more music (usually I don't listen to music a lot). I think thats the procrastination remains , but it wasn't a big deal for me. I did some of my university depths and feel good about it. I still don't have a lot on my mind, because even that I refused to listen to music, I still have some choruses going through my head 24/7. Ready for day 2, wich is today. Will keep yall updated, gang
    Day2. More meaningful thoughts and more time to do stuff I needed to do. Also I meditated for 10 minutes because I really had nothing else to do. Continued reading the book that I started reading a long time ago, I did like 5-7 pages but Im still going good. Watched your new video about feeling lonely at the top of perfomance and went on a good 4-5h walk with my friend where we discussed all of that social media quitting.
    Day3. (Tryna type less) No social media BUT I spent hours trying to find what to play. I didn't even want anything to play, I was just searching for something interesting, I didn't like it but I couldn't stop, it was like social media alternative. On day 4 I will add 2 more rules. 1: No games, 2: No scrolling for games in steam or anywhere else. Other parts of the day went cool.
    Day4 (next will be 12.06). I went to Instagram, because my old friend wanted to reach me for long (Yes, I dind't delete social media, I just don't go there for no reason). We chated for like 20-30 minutes and that's all of the social media experience I got. On this day I understood that social media stopped me from going deep into thinking about my real problems/traumas. I bought a book that will help me with some psyhological things, so yeah, I'm only starting my journey.
    Day ??? (it's 08.06). I quitted all social media except youtube (no YT shorts still), and I didn't know that this would be a big deal. I just replaced everything for youtube. I didn't even know it was social media (there's no dm here, that's my number 1 define of social media). So yeah. UA-cam kinda messes up all the challenge, but I still use my phone and pc less so I think it's not a big deal

    • @fet0logy
      @fet0logy 3 місяці тому

      day 1 update

    • @fet0logy
      @fet0logy 3 місяці тому

      day 2 update

    • @fet0logy
      @fet0logy 3 місяці тому

      day 3 update

    • @fet0logy
      @fet0logy 3 місяці тому

      day 4 update

    • @fet0logy
      @fet0logy 3 місяці тому

      Day.. 9 I guess? (it's June 8) update

  • @R-G71
    @R-G71 Місяць тому

    From Gaza , From the genocide❤ Thanks for your videos . I am learning English via your videos
    Thank you ❤

  • @JazlynMeikle
    @JazlynMeikle 4 місяці тому +2

    I lost my phone recently and before hand i was trying to get off all the socials but i just kept coming back and now im like why does it matter. im so much less stressed and feel so much more real like you said so i dont plan on getting on socials ever again and im getting an old flip phone to stay in touch with people i cant see physically which is a good tip to anyone trying to do the same thing. Thanks for the peace of mind Shimon

  • @buntben6710
    @buntben6710 4 місяці тому +8

    man, I just wanna thank you cause you have been a great motivation for me in the past 3-4 months

  • @ilysnb
    @ilysnb 4 місяці тому +2

    yes, this. social media so tactfully corrupts us in a way that we don't notice the damage until it's already too late. it becomes so difficult to break that cycle of insecurity, and even though I've quit social media several months ago I still very much feel its effects.

    • @Sandmann629
      @Sandmann629 3 місяці тому

      youtube is social media. you replaced one for another. you're forming a parasocial relationship with someone you only know thru a screen, you're reading posts and commenting, you're literally on social media right now. Shimon has you fooled into thinking his channel is good for you but it's literally just sucking you in here instead of letting someone else sink their claws into you, which he won't stand for. He says anything to get you guys coming here not realizing that he's just as bad as the things he's telling you not to indulge in. cult shit. he loves you. he cares for you. this is a safe place for you. you're a FAMILY. join the TRIBE. join us. join him. he's your FAMILY. you can trust him. he's FAMILY. leave that other stuff behind. do what he says. do what the leader of your FAMILY says.
      this ain't your family. you need actual therapy, not youtube videos. please get help, don't get indoctrinated.

  • @psiconautatricolor3310
    @psiconautatricolor3310 4 місяці тому +3

    We need more people like you thank you for this 🙏
    We need to keep fighting

  • @Bruno-Bittar
    @Bruno-Bittar 4 місяці тому +2

    You're an angel 😇. Absolutely amazing 👏

  • @hotshotoncrocs9768
    @hotshotoncrocs9768 3 місяці тому +1

    Congrats on the massive success Shimon! Crazy how you went from roughly 10- 360k subscribers within 6-7 months. Continue your grind i love you bro!

  • @kevinminor5823
    @kevinminor5823 3 місяці тому +1

    Blessings to you my man

  • @mestayno
    @mestayno 4 місяці тому

    thank you for mentioning relatable memes as negative influence!! Shimon you would be an amazing psychologist. You seem like a kind hearted strong minded person.

  • @JasminAbigail-gi1fd
    @JasminAbigail-gi1fd 3 місяці тому +8

    Ive always been on this shit........telling my parents lets get together more....lets chill n be a family but erbody on their social media n life just feels dull...... sometimes you just need time together but then people don't wanna do that..i wish society could go back to how it was when it was fun.

  • @jvyyyy222
    @jvyyyy222 3 місяці тому

    Bro I wanna say thank you so much. This is only the second video I’ve watched on your channel and it’s really helping me out to start clearing my mind and to develop good and healthy habits like quitting porn or staying off social media for extended amounts of time. You speak the truth and I love hearing the truth, even if it’s bad. Much love brother

  • @BIGNasty-lw7qj
    @BIGNasty-lw7qj 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks bro for thr motivation ❤

  • @TXMXTXEX
    @TXMXTXEX 3 місяці тому +1

    For the last two days I didn’t have access to my phone. It was a great time. I often heard without your phone you feel like a kid again and I tried to do it on my own but it didn’t work out. But now. I tell you, don’t use your phone for anything but messaging, some informative videos, googling and maybe for listening to music.

  • @Alexis-ce4pq
    @Alexis-ce4pq 3 місяці тому

    Tired of the stress to check my phone every 2 seconds to see if a got a notification, post something just to get some attention, fck all that, I really needed to hear this, thanks man:)

  • @dagger-lmao2386
    @dagger-lmao2386 4 місяці тому +1

    Perfect timing u the goat fr

  • @stanleywilliams8713
    @stanleywilliams8713 3 місяці тому

    Your voice along with the soothing music goes so well together, no homo. I jus wanted to say i fw your content heavy

  • @castner7768
    @castner7768 4 місяці тому

    Yo man, I just deleted it due to affecting my relationship, but man your videos have been help me so much. I’m on a break right now learning and helping myself before I can go back. I hurt her too much and need help so kudos man. I appreciate your help

  • @benjamintucker5311
    @benjamintucker5311 3 місяці тому +1

    Appreciate your video brother ✌️🙂

  • @Uncommony
    @Uncommony 3 місяці тому

    Social media, mainstream media, Ai and virtual reality are big concerns, furthering technology but reversing humanity. How ironic! Stay Uncommon!

  • @amyzhu5187
    @amyzhu5187 4 місяці тому

    Social media is poison…. I limited myself to discord, snap and youtube. Thats all my media to other people (messages and basics).

  • @Anonymousrm2
    @Anonymousrm2 3 місяці тому +3

    This 👆. I'm hellbent on improving my mental health, I've uninstalled all SM apps besides YT, I've started working out more, I've started reading more, I've started fishing, and I want to start hiking with some buddies. We need to make leaving social media a trend, stop this BS and reconnect with reality

    • @HhbvhVhbvg
      @HhbvhVhbvg Місяць тому

      Keep it going brother

  • @enlightlos
    @enlightlos 2 місяці тому

    thank you shimon ❤️

  • @goddessK888
    @goddessK888 4 місяці тому

    Love this thank you 🙏🏽 ✝️🤍

  • @DarrelWong王业凯
    @DarrelWong王业凯 3 місяці тому

    your voice is a therapy session bro

  • @360MediaHux
    @360MediaHux 4 місяці тому

    Since the day I subscribed I have never missed your video.... Thanks man 👍

  • @Ludzter
    @Ludzter 3 місяці тому

    Man u are such a great person!

  • @szymonmalin2811
    @szymonmalin2811 4 місяці тому

    Content is so good recently. What mic do u use ?

  • @vo1d364
    @vo1d364 4 місяці тому +1

    Ay that's why I stopped using it because it seemed so hyponotizing or magnetic to use. You could sit there and consume content, but it isn't going to benefit anyone just going to put you down some more.

  • @lazyoutsider35
    @lazyoutsider35 4 місяці тому

    Fun i literally deleted it yesterday 😂
    The main reason i was hesitant was cuz of a girl.
    I've known her for YEARS we ended up going to different high schools. And now a year after graduation we started getting into it.
    We both decided to stop, there honestly was no issue, very truthfully nothing was wrong. But i still want her, she has my number too do it ain't all bad, i think i need to cool it before trying again tho

  • @NotTongo_
    @NotTongo_ 3 місяці тому

    I love your talks.

  • @AyonBales
    @AyonBales 4 місяці тому +1

    ...aand once again Staay positive ❤❤❤

  • @VerbatimDraculara
    @VerbatimDraculara 2 місяці тому

    What’s the name of music in the background??
    Btw your vidoes are really good. They help me a lot. Never delete those.

  • @rytiksas6556
    @rytiksas6556 3 місяці тому

    I know its off topic, but tomorrow im graduating high school and im feeling really sad. But I dont want last day of my highschool to be sad but I dont know what to do. Can you give me any tips on this

  • @acidiearts
    @acidiearts 4 місяці тому

    What's the name of the background music?
    It's so soothing. I love ur videos also ❤️

  • @adrianmikel
    @adrianmikel 3 місяці тому

    I only two successful social media breaks one in February-March and May-June of last year for a month for both of them. The second one was supposed to be from May-August ( 3 months ) since I was on summer break from college but when June came I kept deleting and redownloading it and every since then that’s what been doing every time I try to do a break.
    Social media is addictive because I would redownload it and remember there is nothing interesting going on and I’m like why I’m scrolling what I’m looking for? I didn’t know scrolling became a mechanism until I seen another video of a dude saying he would scroll through other apps like his email like he does social media.
    I don’t want to completely leave social media however I need to repair my relationship with it bc it’s had a good aspect but it’s been boring and I remember the cycle of I’m on it and then I’m bored.

  • @Morsec-wayne
    @Morsec-wayne 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey man, I accept your challenge

  • @shivalite2156
    @shivalite2156 4 місяці тому +1

    you could use other background music 😅 the tribe is on the rise ❤‍🔥

  • @Luka_Animations_YT
    @Luka_Animations_YT 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m ngl it has man it has

  • @setetrio2434
    @setetrio2434 3 місяці тому

    Thank you.

  • @ChiomaAkpa-rd9mf
    @ChiomaAkpa-rd9mf 3 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @dubsflick642
    @dubsflick642 4 місяці тому

    ive done it for 6 months

  • @thewalters694
    @thewalters694 4 місяці тому

    Whats the name of the song G? Love your videos btw

  • @tshepisomaboko3673
    @tshepisomaboko3673 4 місяці тому

    The time of healing

  • @selfimprovement1011
    @selfimprovement1011 3 місяці тому

    Can you recommend any strategies for adapting to new situations?"

  • @jadencesaunooke
    @jadencesaunooke 2 місяці тому

    I know this has nothing to do with the video but where did you get that jacket

  • @addisondinh8053
    @addisondinh8053 4 місяці тому

    Can u pls show us how to do ur background music I want to know how to play that

  • @camneutral
    @camneutral 4 місяці тому +4

    Hit me up for some new background music fam! Let’s work.

  • @Iaintshort_urjust.tall.786
    @Iaintshort_urjust.tall.786 4 місяці тому +1

    I lit download ur videos and listen to it on my walks...peace washes over me and lit gets u off it pitty party and dig deeper.
    Lit my fyp tryna show me couple goals jst cos I'm single. KlickBaittte 😑

  • @Hongkonggg
    @Hongkonggg 3 місяці тому

    Is it true what they say abt corn if you stop fapping you will get muscle grow?

  • @dontgomia304
    @dontgomia304 4 місяці тому

    Deleted ts last week i might go with ts till summer break over

  • @christopheruzumaki9390
    @christopheruzumaki9390 4 місяці тому

    my brother what is the name of the background song??

  • @emmanuelolaosebikan8211
    @emmanuelolaosebikan8211 3 місяці тому

    Can I've your playlist

  • @Mrm-2102
    @Mrm-2102 4 місяці тому

    💯

  • @popbucket
    @popbucket 4 місяці тому

    I need help guys
    So basically me and my friends went to a party the other week that one of my old friends was hosting. Now my friends and her friends are sort of combined into a new group and I really like one of the girls and I already somewhat know her a little bit but I just need help, Some nights we text quite a bit but sometimes we just don't really message. We were all at the beach yesterday and me and this girl i like were playing arcade games together and having fun but she hasn't really spoken to me that much since. Please help, I don't want to appear clingy by keep messaging her ya know. What do I do?

  • @coleblast6237
    @coleblast6237 3 місяці тому

    👍

  • @poikacurrie1786
    @poikacurrie1786 4 місяці тому

    facts

  • @indecay8756
    @indecay8756 4 місяці тому

    what about youtube tho?

  • @kaliyahcastro479
    @kaliyahcastro479 2 місяці тому

    I just delete tiktok and instagram, trying to get my bf to do the same

  • @ImageMagaba
    @ImageMagaba 4 місяці тому

    Type shiii🖐️🙂‍↕️

  • @dusky.mp3
    @dusky.mp3 4 місяці тому +1

    Sigma ohio skibidi fantum tax kai cenat grimace shake rizzler

  • @brycenanderson7476
    @brycenanderson7476 4 місяці тому

    I’m first 👍

  • @aangela6678
    @aangela6678 4 місяці тому

    Stop it. Get some help.

  • @ZYROR2
    @ZYROR2 4 місяці тому +2

    Yo bro can I have a chat with u ?

  • @lizabashkova
    @lizabashkova 4 місяці тому +2

    Real

  • @Illuminqted
    @Illuminqted 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the help. You should definitely keep doing these types of videos because they're helping lots of people