Should it be the one choosing to leave the marriage to tell, or the one leaving the house? I don't want the divorce, but might need to be the one that moves out. This breaks my heart, but it feels like insisting on staying in the house might not be a good thing to do.
What about in situations of abuse where one parent has to leave without the abuser knowing? What to tell the kids about why you took them without being negative??
Its not easy to not say anything bad about the other guy as you should tell ur kids the truth. The father was a cheater and we have ethics in marriage… just be strong in front of kids and be emotionally v v loving to them. I am sure they would understand ur pain for sure.
There’s no good way- why would you think the spouse who is leaving could be this kind and able to put the kids first? They wouldn’t be leaving if that were true
Agree. Divorcing is a shame and is a failure of the spouses, families, and society. There will never be a good way for this, as it should never happen.
@@Naan795 Absolutely. You can’t force somebody to stay and it only takes one person to ruin the relationship and the family. There is somebody who’s being selfish
This was so helpful thank you ❤
What great advice for a terrible and hard situation.
"I'm not going to answer your questions for you" is great advice for when one spouse isn't showing up properly for it.
I’m proud of you Kimberly! I’ve been so curious where your were in the process of that phd!
Thank you. Really appreciate.
It was such an insightful podcast.
Very helpful and insightful.
Thank you. ❤
(side note) nice live edge table!
helpful but didn't say much about what to communicate to kids when you are the parent wanting reconciliation
I’d be curios if you found anything? I’m wanting to reconcile
Should it be the one choosing to leave the marriage to tell, or the one leaving the house? I don't want the divorce, but might need to be the one that moves out. This breaks my heart, but it feels like insisting on staying in the house might not be a good thing to do.
Hope you and your kids are doing well brother.
What about in situations of abuse where one parent has to leave without the abuser knowing? What to tell the kids about why you took them without being negative??
Reality is that the Children will always have Negative perception towards the leaving parent.
Not in all cases. All kids and marriages are different.
Its not easy to not say anything bad about the other guy as you should tell ur kids the truth. The father was a cheater and we have ethics in marriage… just be strong in front of kids and be emotionally v v loving to them. I am sure they would understand ur pain for sure.
There’s no good way- why would you think the spouse who is leaving could be this kind and able to put the kids first? They wouldn’t be leaving if that were true
The last part tho 👍🏻
Agree. Divorcing is a shame and is a failure of the spouses, families, and society. There will never be a good way for this, as it should never happen.
@@Naan795 Absolutely. You can’t force somebody to stay and it only takes one person to ruin the relationship and the family. There is somebody who’s being selfish
Very true
You're generalizing. Not all situations are the same. Every situation is unique.