I love that y acknowledged that it wasn’t about promoting the relationship it’s about the awareness people be so simple minded talking this isn’t my goals that’s the point they wnated y’all to see it’s not a good look ashanti has been dealing with that for years when she was young every song is about broken love she’s amazing Joyner is a genius also lyrical!! I’m here for there relationship if it’s real cause those kissing scenes was reality tv lol
How can you come back to help someone heal? Healing is self induced. Toxic-codependent relationship of any kind... never work. They are meant to help us grow. Many blessings everyone
Ashanti is the true Definition a Black does not crack her Fashion killed the game...................... .. Mr. JOYER is such a deep artist huge fan Deep Lyrics
No disrespect but toxic love is no love.Love is good when it's pure.Dont think abuse is love it's lust that only hurts you more,trust in the Lord for your mate.
I respect ur point of view and all.. In life ur gonna go through somethings we all Suffern from some kind of trauma..So it's best to have knowledge of self to understand who you are as a person.heal people heal people hurt people hurt people think on that tho..
I know this is a reference to Ashanti sister’s relationship with slow bucks. He was very abusive and they were engaged and she got pregnant and lost the baby. Slow bucks ass should be in jail 😩 Such a good video because a lot of people are going through this rn and Ashanti was able to see her sister go through it.
My daughter's mom dedicate me this song, i can relate so much.. never take life or that special one for granted.. they can be here today and gone tomorrow i pray she get better and stays in this world for a lifetime.. i love that girl so much she blessed me for the rest of my life with a princess.. all prayers needed🙏, fuck cancer💯
The Fact That This Video Shows Exactly What I Just Went Through, Literally Everything . & The Lyrics Explains Us Soo Much 😞 I Cried All Over Again At The Cop Scene Cause Just 2 Weeks Ago I Had To Put Him In Jail Cause This Last Fight Was Just Too Bad 🤧 Damn This Hits Home For Me 💯
Banana Brianna hate to say but I can relate with this song because I’m the man In This scenario and I ruined it being selfish wish I would have done better she deserved better
Sending you a hug and shoulder from sc god will pull threw all this pain sorry that your going threw this but you are a jewel and you deserve the love and respect..
I’m so proud of my Black women stating they DONT want this type of relationship. I’m so proud of y’all , y’all waking up and knowing y’all self worth . I’m here for it !! 🥰✊🏾💕 but Ashanti LOOKS 🔥🔥🔥
Wow! This video is 🔥! The feeling was deep. Lucas is definitely killing the game and he's giving all types of Zaddy vibes..And Ashanti never gets old! She was amazing in this joint!
Yess this song is fire 🔥 ❤️❤️👅 make me thing about my ex that passed away in 2013 shit we was fire 🔥. I still never founded anyone else like him and and this song Reminds me of him thank you so much for putting this song out
It’s not about being toxic. It’s about 2 people who all they know is hurt cause of their past. When they have good times they try to enjoy those times the most
Such a great video. Man that hits home for so many people doesn’t it? It’s not how a good relationship should be but that doesn’t change so many people are stuck in this type. So sad. Your partner should be your best friend with none of the crazy drama. This video was true and not just about sex and bullshit like most videos are all about nowadays.
Ashanti looks so cute throughout the whole video! Love is definitely hell! This is such real life.. Sad but true! The things we love can be bad for us 😪. Toxic is not what it is
Love Ashanti, n Joyner Lucas is dope, you know Lucas is Eminem inspired. However the video depicts a toxic relationship and couples should learn to recognize them, n run from them.
That was the point of the video to show how bad it gets in these kinda relationships check ashantis background always dv awareness since day one rain on me
Facts. This type of struggle love gon have you in yo 40s and 50s bitter and regretting all the years and wasting your youth on..We will never get our youth back. Im good!!
I loved this mv!! The acting and the subject matter pulled me into the story right away. And of course you look Gorgeous Sis...... I think the mv will pull great numbers.
A song like this should be #1 worldwide. Everyone knows that kind of love where you love someone so much but determined to not love anyone else. No matter the bad days the good one overpowered it. ❤️❤️❤️
Psalm 139:13-18 13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. 15 My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place in, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. 16 Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. 17 How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them! 18 Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand- when I awake, I am still with you.
Love the message of the song . We must learn self love. My ex boyfriend who I dated at the age of 20 grabbed me by my right arm. He didn't like what I was saying although he was intoxicated with alcohol. I knew it was wrong. I walked away from the relationship.
Powerful toxic love......😫 So glad I never had relationships like this but you can def feel the passion in this video & the lyrics! Ashanti lookin like she never ages.🥰🥰
Ashanti so pretty ❤️👑❤️👑
Very fine
Always pretty 👌
Yes She is
Yes she is gorgeous
Really is
Ashanti serving looks throughout the whole video 😍🔥 Just wish she actually had a verse on this track 😩😭
Right!
Me too I was waiting for it and it never came dammit
Facts!!
Yes!! Agreed.
Is that her in the background vocals?It doesn’t sound like her but it could
"And we never learned self love. So we been there for each other when no one else was" 💔 i felt that
Danielle Hernandez 🙏🏽🔖🎐
!!!
Ashanti’s stylist went off
Yes Jonathan did
Lucas on his thing too
PERIOD
I love every look! Get it Ashanti!
I was just thinking. She looks really good in this.
Toxic relationships are tiring and too much depression/stress. I can't be with someone, who sees nothing wrong with putting their hands on me.
💜🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💜🙏🏼 I'm Blessed it's over
Exactly!
It’s very draining
Right?? That ish not cute
right i been thru it it aint fun at all
Love that Ashanti keeps “Domestic Violences” topic in every project . A reminder that violence comes in every form. Even under the guise of “Love”
I love that y acknowledged that it wasn’t about promoting the relationship it’s about the awareness people be so simple minded talking this isn’t my goals that’s the point they wnated y’all to see it’s not a good look ashanti has been dealing with that for years when she was young every song is about broken love she’s amazing Joyner is a genius also lyrical!! I’m here for there relationship if it’s real cause those kissing scenes was reality tv lol
"Like we under a spell, when we hurt each other we come back to help each other heal" Damn... this song....💯💯
How can you come back to help someone heal? Healing is self induced. Toxic-codependent relationship of any kind... never work. They are meant to help us grow. Many blessings everyone
It’s life
Ashanti is almost 40 years old and out here looking no more than 25! Beautiful!
I think she is more than 40
Like for real...Dang she still look good...
She’s 43
Ashanti is the true Definition a Black does not crack her Fashion killed the game......................
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Mr. JOYER is such a deep artist huge fan Deep Lyrics
Shaminka Cargile Ashanti Pequot too love
Yes much better than whan Danielle cohn was trying to do on vm.tiktok.com/ZMJAwPeha/
Yes hunny
Facts
Who the chick that singing the end
Love Ashanti, 😍 They need to turn this into a movie!!! 🎥 I've watched this 5 times already!! 👀👀
Facts so did I! Im hooked on this video now im watching reaction videos
Me too
Nat SaidThat facts
@@shani97y75 Right!! I don't usually watch reaction videos but I'm on my 5th one. lol.
Yeeeesss!!!
I like how she came back and kept her NATURAL BODY! She not letting Hollyweird change her.
Her curves are reals?
Yep
Hollyweird😂😂
No disrespect but toxic love is no love.Love is good when it's pure.Dont think abuse is love it's lust that only hurts you more,trust in the Lord for your mate.
Cindy say it again please!
Say it louder
Fact
I respect ur point of view and all.. In life ur gonna go through somethings we all Suffern from some kind of trauma..So it's best to have knowledge of self to understand who you are as a person.heal people heal people hurt people hurt people think on that tho..
Love is kind and gentle not hurt or rushed
They have great chemistry
Exactly definitely see it
Yessssssss
They are in a relationship no acting here.
The acting...especially the fight scene...great work. Everything looked real.
It is real day a real couple
The acting in this was so realistic I love the effort 💪🏽
Maybe they are together but if you go look at her jump offs with Ja Rule that looks like chemistry as well. She is a natural. For sure.
Wow, this was so rich, captivating and powerful.
Yasss but this is some toxic shit 😫love hate relationship 😂❤️
Too toxic. We are off of this!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Rain on me 2.0 😁
Lmao omg yes. I just like them together without the violence 😂😂
Right I was saying the same thing, I’ll pass on this type of love 🤦🏽♀️ cause that’s not love at all🙌🏽
Ladies this is not love...toxic 😥. Two people that need to heal and grow mentally.
True
who would’ve known this collab was needed
Thats not love...Love is not toxic or abusive...Love is kind...love is peace...love is beautiful...Thats dysfunction
Can someone count HOW MANY GD LOOKS ASHANTI blessed our eyes with in this video , please? 🙏🏻🙏🙏🏾
I know this is a reference to Ashanti sister’s relationship with slow bucks. He was very abusive and they were engaged and she got pregnant and lost the baby. Slow bucks ass should be in jail 😩 Such a good video because a lot of people are going through this rn and Ashanti was able to see her sister go through it.
That’s who I thought about too . He should be in jail
I didnt know that!!!!!!! 😵😵😵😵😵😵😵😵😵
She lost her baby because of him?????
@@shi0shi0luv yes 😩
@@ShaniceXO26 its so awful 😥😥😥😥😥
I see chemistry Ashanti I love the song ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
OSCARS NEED TO BE GIVEN!! I just want a series, movie or something😍
Babeee!!! Ashanti serving looks PERIODT🙌🏽🌹🔥🔥🔥I LOVE THIS SONG
Ashanti is beautiful! Inside & out & musical genius 😍
Ashanti getting down 😍😍😍😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
They have good on screen chemistry! I felt like I was watching a movie!💯
This collab is 🔥🔥🔥
My new obsession they look so good together ugh 😩
Damn this song fireeee but if yall together yall could have said that
It's nobody's business...
@@igetthatgoodjugg 😅😅
Zakaria Accolla Right!
Why Ashanti slayed every look though?! 😍😍😭
Mannnn listen Ashanti still looks good this women don't age. Over there looking like day 1
Rap version of foolish and rain and me together!
It really is
I love Libra girls. She's 40 but still better than most of the girls at 20.
She how old!?
@@Thankfulforairinmylungs She was born in 1980. That means she's 40. Source wiki.
She 39
@@Chyntxl what's the difference?
@Loka congrats!
My daughter's mom dedicate me this song, i can relate so much.. never take life or that special one for granted.. they can be here today and gone tomorrow i pray she get better and stays in this world for a lifetime.. i love that girl so much she blessed me for the rest of my life with a princess.. all prayers needed🙏, fuck cancer💯
OMG!! Ashanti!! We need an album from you!!! We've been waiting for it!!!!
Ashanti has crazy chemistry with him... 🦋😭💯
She was the best pick for this video his video always be the best so underrated 👑👑👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
The Fact That This Video Shows Exactly What I Just Went Through, Literally Everything . & The Lyrics Explains Us Soo Much 😞 I Cried All Over Again At The Cop Scene Cause Just 2 Weeks Ago I Had To Put Him In Jail Cause This Last Fight Was Just Too Bad 🤧 Damn This Hits Home For Me 💯
Sorry your going through it right now
LogicWorldz Sad To Say But It’s Life 💔 In This World , We Experience Pain Either Physically or Emotionally Sometimes Both 💔😒
Banana Brianna hate to say but I can relate with this song because I’m the man In This scenario and I ruined it being selfish wish I would have done better she deserved better
Sending you a hug and shoulder from sc god will pull threw all this pain sorry that your going threw this but you are a jewel and you deserve the love and respect..
You are gorgeous. Please dont waste to much time or energy on someone who might be toxic.
This the down stage of a relationship and if you can get through this stage your inseparable.............Relationships aren’t always perfect.
No
This video was def made to show that dv relations aren’t a good look at all lol def don’t wanna start out or finish like this at all
So are they a thing because this acting is WAAAAYYY too real?
I believe so
oh shit foreel thats her man go ashanti he a cutie
Right
I was thinking the same thing I can’t even focus on the video cause I’m trying to search and see if they are real couple cause this ish look real lol
I was thinking the same cuz when has she been the type to be kissing like that in a video?
I fell in love with this song fr it makes me cry
Ashanti has never left the early 2000’s with arguing with her man in the music video while music is playing lol
Jae Paul IN SLOW MOTION SOMETIMES TOO
Jae Paul Don’t do her like that..😅
@Jae Paul what's ur point.... Maybe she doesn't want children, but maybe she does....
Ashanti actually has a son with Nelly
@@lovelyli1305 Bish where????
*Who this dude, I’m loving the chemistry.*
He's really great joyner lucas💯
Ashanti just had like ten different wigs 😍😍😍 fye af period I just love it 😍😍
She looks good in every scene 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I’m so proud of my Black women stating they DONT want this type of relationship. I’m so proud of y’all , y’all waking up and knowing y’all self worth . I’m here for it !! 🥰✊🏾💕 but Ashanti LOOKS 🔥🔥🔥
If she’s not my favorite singer then I don’t know who else? She’s a goddess.
I love you Ashanti❤️
I love Ashanti!! #team Libra!! Can't wait for Libra season...
Yesss me tooo 10/6
Great video Ashanti!! Watching in 2024!! You are so beautiful and Joyner is very handsome. The chemistry is through the roof frfr girl!!
It just a video relax she married to Nelly now
Can we get a remix with an Ashanti verse😉
Ashanti you're so lovely and beautiful. ❤🌻🌹🌹🌻❤
This what every Joyner and Ashanti fan needed. Period! 💪
Y’all look GOOD together 😍
🧢
Wow! This video is 🔥! The feeling was deep. Lucas is definitely killing the game and he's giving all types of Zaddy vibes..And Ashanti never gets old! She was amazing in this joint!
DEEP....Dysfunctionality acknowledged! Love vs abuse. Know the difference.
Yess this song is fire 🔥 ❤️❤️👅 make me thing about my ex that passed away in 2013 shit we was fire 🔥. I still never founded anyone else like him and and this song Reminds me of him thank you so much for putting this song out
Ashanti is always looking beautiful forever young i Love her lifestyle
Love seeing Ashanti in a different light. More please.
Yes keep making music ! We love you and you are lookin amazing !!
You can’t glamourise this kinda of relationship for a song or anything. Toxic and unhealthy . Lord help us . Just say where together Period.
I have watched this at least 1,000 times now!
Ashanti fine fine! This a dope ass video! It’s the lyrics and video for me!❤️
It’s not about being toxic. It’s about 2 people who all they know is hurt cause of their past. When they have good times they try to enjoy those times the most
Ashanti is goals💕👑!
ASHANTI KILLEN ALL THE LOOKS 🔥🔥🔥DEF LOVIN THIS SONG💜💜💚💚
Such a great video. Man that hits home for so many people doesn’t it? It’s not how a good relationship should be but that doesn’t change so many people are stuck in this type. So sad. Your partner should be your best friend with none of the crazy drama. This video was true and not just about sex and bullshit like most videos are all about nowadays.
Ashanti is soooo pretty and I love her and this was a great video 😍
Ashanti looks so cute throughout the whole video! Love is definitely hell! This is such real life.. Sad but true! The things we love can be bad for us 😪. Toxic is not what it is
Love Ashanti, n Joyner Lucas is dope, you know Lucas is Eminem inspired. However the video depicts a toxic relationship and couples should learn to recognize them, n run from them.
That was the point of the video to show how bad it gets in these kinda relationships check ashantis background always dv awareness since day one rain on me
Umm this is no relationship goals of mine.. I want peace in my life!!
Well text back one of them “safe” niggaz u keep in yo phone. Every female got at least 2-3 “good guys” they ignore for the jokers.
Facts. This type of struggle love gon have you in yo 40s and 50s bitter and regretting all the years and wasting your youth on..We will never get our youth back. Im good!!
Mike Prestige my boyfriend brings me peace 🙌🏾 lol
Jasmine Michelle I bet you won’t check his phone...
Creole Cee girl yesss!!! I don’t need no extra stress in my life
I am so in love with this song, my new favorite🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ashanti is Beautiful!!❤😍
I dunno y'all but I'm getting "365 Days" vibe in here.. Ashanti's blonde hair and that grab neck scene..
Lol just seen that movie on Netflix
😂.
That glow up though!!!🤩🔥🔥❤
This song is fiyah!!!! Ashanti is so gorgeous, always kept it sexy
I loved this mv!!
The acting and the subject matter pulled me
into the story right away. And of course you look
Gorgeous Sis...... I think the mv will pull great numbers.
ASHANTI👑👑👑🌟🌟🌟❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏😍
Been there done that aint goin back. You can have that shxt. Struggle love is promoted heavy 😒
Ashanti you did that girl... Love the video you guys are a beautiful couple. 💕
Yasss Toxicity give the relationship nothing 🔥🤐
Definitely a movie! Joyner Lucas always come through. Ashanti giving ‘Foolish’ vibes. I love it
Aww 🥰🥰🥰🥰 I'm loving this 💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘
A song like this should be #1 worldwide. Everyone knows that kind of love where you love someone so much but determined to not love anyone else. No matter the bad days the good one overpowered it. ❤️❤️❤️
You look so beautiful Ashanti 😍
Psalm 139:13-18
13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place in, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them!
18 Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand- when I awake, I am still with you.
Great collaboration!!✨💛
Ashanti got that swaGG ❤️
When it applies to u on so many different levels 💯
That was a whole mood !!!! LADIES LOVE YOUR SELF MORE THAN EVER !!! ASHANTI THANK YOU🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌹🌹🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Damn they look good together
Can I just say Ashanti Slayed every look 👀 in this video like got damn 🔥💯💅🏽💋
I’m tryna understand why this isn’t at 1mil yet ❣️
It is two million plus upon Joyner lucas channel.
dynamic I seen that 🤦🏽♀️ why not over here toooo
@@syreniteelomax8878 Now I understand you better.n I agree with you.
Right like wtf
Love this video. Ashanti is beyond beautiful ❤️
Love the message of the song . We must learn self love. My ex boyfriend who I dated at the age of 20 grabbed me by my right arm. He didn't like what I was saying although he was intoxicated with alcohol. I knew it was wrong. I walked away from the relationship.
I'm feeling the hell out this song 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡 reminds me of my old love story 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
My mom named me after you cause your one of her favorite singers ❤️
Powerful toxic love......😫 So glad I never had relationships like this but you can def feel the passion in this video & the lyrics! Ashanti lookin like she never ages.🥰🥰
*Ashan* I don’t age or need to *ti*
😍 she looks stunning and sounds like it too