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@@UriosEditz, You said Mike is "WAY better than David"... Did you watch the whole series? Did you see how Mike behaved for the longest time about a certain topic? And does the "Precious" ring a bell? David wouldn't have acted like that.
Some people say this show has outdated stuff like Ross being like that, but if you think about it they always make fun of that mindset at the end, implying that they're not really ok with being like that, but since it was common at that time they created characters that are that way.
Ross was toxic. And it's not even a matter of the episode being outdated, because those attitudes were outdated at the time it first aired. Sandy was amazing at his job. As hard as it is for parents to find good childcare, Ross throwing it away is appalling.
I don’t think it’s cool for Ross to act the way he did, but let’s not pretend it’s that common to see guy nannies. I wouldn’t assume they are gay, but I would wonder if they’re a pedo tho.
Absolutely. David and Phoebe click on a whole other level. It's a beautiful relationship that should've been explored unto itself, not just as a prop for the Phoebe and Mike story. I like Mike, because Paul Rudd is adorable, having seen the entire series, my opinion is David is more worthy than Mike. I like Mike, but there are a couple of things he does that taints him in my eyes and makes him less worthy. Some of Mike's behavior is not okay... if you've seen the whole series, think "Precious."
I liked David and Phoebe as a couple when they met, but I think she sort of outgrew him. 😞 They were both kind of shy and sweet before but Phoebe become much more confident and brazen as the years went on. Besides, even though it was never filmed, there is the chance of that missing scene explaining that David was actually in a mental institution for most of the time he was gone, seeing as how Minsk is not in Russia and it would be pretty weird to live there for nearly a decade and still not know that. . .
Also, Hank Azaria was in the show "Mad About You" with Lisa Kudrow aka Phoebe. "Mad About You" started before "Friends" and was on the same network. Lisa's character on the show was Ursula, Phoebe's twin. Hank is at least the third "Mad About You" cast member to appear on "Friends."
Hank Azaria was the Guatemalan houseboy in _The Birdcage_ with Robin Williams and Nathan Lane (from _The Lion King_ )... one of the funniest characters ever ever.
Yeah, Ross is very cringe in this episode but at least it has a teaching moment in the end, the story being a time capsule of the 'old' mindset of the late 90's / early 2000's. And thankfully Joey also saves this ep, being the perfect foil for Ross' insecurities.
@@Nikki-oe7gr Thank you! I get so annoyed with these people defending Ross because it was a different time. Yes, some things in Friends wouldn't fly anymore, but Ross' behavior wasn't accepted back then either. Luckily, the other characters called him out on it.
It’s like you miss the whole point of the episode. It’s shining a light on Ross’ character flaw - Sandy is great at his job but Ross can’t handle it because he’s insecure. The speech at the end where he sobs about being a real boy is just *chefs kiss* and still so relevant!
People hate Ross, but they totally forget that ending scene, where we get to know why he is the way he is. We expect others to be accepting of us, but we never accept them ourselves.
To be fair, there's a difference between (1) understanding why a person became a jerk and (2) accepting that same person even if he continues to be a jerk. Ross may have cried, but still didn't bother un-firing Sandy.
Ross has literally been the worst character since episode one lmao, the way he treats people especially women he dates is appalling in every way and it’s not even funny at times 😭😭 my bf has literally pointed out times it looks like he’s about to hit Rachel during disagreements which I’ve never noticed before and it’s only made me hate him more lol
@@wifflewaffle5006it's even more funny that Ross gets angry at Rachel had triggered you more than when Rachel herself had hurt Ross and ruined his other relationships. Some women like to pull out the gender privilege card, when a man gets mad at them. It's ridiculous that demanding men should remain silent and tolerant for women unconditionally.
A little side note, Hank Azaria, aka David, was in the show "Mad About You" with Lisa Kudrow aka Phoebe. "Mad About You" started before "Friends" and was on the same network. Lisa's character on the show was Ursula, Phoebe's twin. Hank is at least the third "Mad About You" cast member to appear on "Friends." As for the plot of the Phoebe/Mike/David triangle, I'm waiting for you to get to a certain episode in the final season before I can comment fully about all of this, but even though I like Mike, because Paul Rudd is adorable, having seen the entire series, my opinion is David is more worthy than Mike. I like Mike, but there are a couple of things he does that taints him in my eyes and makes him less worthy.
"I wouldn't pick up a phone call from Monica at that hour" If she's your wife, you kind of have to. Someone could've died or something. It turns out it's not the case, but I (and most wives with me, I guess) would be pissed if someone died and my husband didn't pick up the phone. If it turns out no one is dying (like in this case), I'd be pissed at them for calling at an ungodly hour though 🤣 And yes, Mike is so much better than David. He's too late, bye boy!
I like David for Phoebe because he is as quirky as Phoebe. - Edit - Plus I think they match better physically. Height. And Paul Rudd looks too young for her.
I ship David and Phoebe more than Mike and Phoebe, not be cause of height or age, but because of things make does that makes Mike unworthy. If you've seen the whole series, think of the thing Phoebe really wants, but for the longest time he refuses to give her, even if it means losing her, and think of "Precious." Those two things taint Mike in my eyes. Going back to season 1, David was willing to give up going to Minsk to be with Phoebe even though they'd known each other a very short time. David's devotion to Phoebe is just stronger than Mike's. And yeah, I love David's quirkiness.
I couldn't WAIT to watch this one with you, knowing your commentary would send me howling with laughter. You did not disappoint! Thank you. I needed this today. You are SO much fun!
as a StarWars fan every time i see this episode with "sandy" it just reminds me of Kanan Jarrus from Rebels , (because Freddie was the voice actor for Kanan) 🥲
Sorry but this doesn't sit well with me. Phoebe literally kissed another man and no one says anything about this. Ross makes a fuss about his nanny and the whole comment section is about it (I know he's wrong). Why does no one say anything about Phoebe? I love Phoebe and Ross but there is always hatred towards Ross and almost never towards the other characters
Ross kinda does have a point... typically the only men who want to spend that much time alone with strangers' children are fans of the playground. 😬 Sure, Sandy was written to be a great nanny to make Ross look like an idiot, but in the real world, you have to be careful about who you let around your kids.
No, Ross doesn't have a point. He's a sexist pig and this is arguably his worst episode. If a male nanny is credentialed with good references, there's no problem. And a manny is less likely to run off with or cheat with the husband. If you think male nannies are mostly in it to abuse children, that says more about YOU.
Worse than Ross was right, I would not leave my baby daughter with a man (I'm afraid even with a woman) because I'm afraid of mistreatment or even worse.
The fear of abuse would've been a more realistic, understandable story line. The whole Sandy is too sensitive, in other words, too caring about the well-being of a baby, is just appalling.
Hence why background checks exist. Though as a nanny myself I understand the fear. On the opposite end, I worry about running into bigoted parents (I'm queer), so this episode doesn't help those fears.
Wow!, haven’t looked at your channel in a while, so love your hair!. Dude, you look like should be eating an egg white omelette and avacado toast on a sidewalk diner in ocean beach, California. A real cutie!.
@@Vale9118Most of the time when someone says this they mean, “my humor has not aged well” or, “this came out before I was born and I have been told it is not funny anymore”. 😇
i wouldn't let a male babysitting my daughter either, if my child is a boy it's ok but never my daughter it's just inappropriate. But again it's ross people is hating on him for every little thing, phoebe literally cheated on mike and yet "ROSS IS SALTY" Is in the title 🙄
Bro if you’re insinuating that a male nanny would be a pedo, the gender of the baby doesn’t really matter to them.. fucked up people be weird regardless.
I liked to consider myself a sensitive guy. But I’m gonna have to go with Ross in this episode, for me anyway, as a man it’s deeply uncomfortable interacting with another man who is far more sensitive than I am. “There is sensitive, and there’s too sensitive.” 😂
Ross might have been really annoying this episode but I think it was worth the ending of it bc you get to understand a little bit more of this crazy masculine toxic side of him. Idk it makes him more complex than the other friends characters besides pheobe
Oh man this episode. Love Ross but this is his worst episode imo. He was just being so annoying and unreasonable; the man is taking great care of your child but you're mad because he's a man 😐. Kind of upset that Rachel let Ross get his way with that excuse that he's "uncomfortable", if there was any time for her to stand her ground, that was it 😭. Don't like how this episode was resolved because even though Ross' behavior is "explained", the man was still fired. Also, I do like David but Mike is superior to me. He just matches better with Phoebe.
Edit: LMFAO I've created the WW3 in the reply section XD, here's the comment that started it all: Phoebe literally CHEATED on Mike Funny how everyone hates Ross for everything but no one cares about his feelings in the end of this episode they always bash him but when he reveals why he is the way he is ppl doesnt care Everyone hates Ross in this ep BUT no one talks about how Phoebe literally cheats on Mike, ppl ALWAYS hates on Ross for the whole Break thing and ppl say he cheated on Rachel even tho he didnt, but now here Phoebe gave her key to Mike and went in a town with David her ex WHILE she still is with Mike and he even saw that as he walked in... But ofc no one talks about this, and when someone says "Phoebe cheated on Mike" ppl always defend her saying she didnt (I follow some friends page on Fbook and they do some pools, in one of their polls was "Ross cheated on Rachel? Yes No" more than 80% voted YES, then another poll was "Phoebe cheated on Mike" almost 100% was NO) also I'm probably the only one who didnt find anything wrong with Ross' reaction in this ep, when I watched for the 1st time I actually agreed with him so when I found out everyone hates Ross in this episode I got shock, I wouldn't trust a male many to take care of my daughter either, idk I'm a little bit similar to Ross
I think it’s somehow worse that this episode was the 200th episode. Like… for such a huge milestone, the episode wasn’t very special (number 100 was Phoebe giving birth!) and none of the characters were particularly strong. Monica and Rachel were the least offensive overall, but didn’t really stand out that much. Chandler’s insecurity storyline was sort of funny, but I feel like they didn’t do too well with it. Joey paying for preschool level lessons with the puppets was too much of a dumb guy caricature to be enjoyable or believable. Ross was obviously too dickish. Phoebe had cheated. And the play fight between Mike and David was just embarrassing. While I don’t necessarily find this episode to be the worst, it’s definitely one of the low points for me.
Back when I watched the show, I actually liked Ross as a character. I didn't even know about the whole "Ross is an asshole" internet trend, we didn't have social media back then. THIS episode, however, made me hate him profoundly. As a man who had a really rough time growing up for not conforming to classic masculinity (I think that's what made me like Ross as a character back then, he was an example of a man who didn't fit the "masculine" mold of the time, and he turned out okay (or at least I thought so back then in my 18 yo head). That episode, however, shattered every good opinions I had on him. I remember being VERY mad at the episode, saying he betrayed everything he SHOULD stand up for. In the end, he's just the everyday nerd - he VALUES toxic/classic masculinity but he just CAN'T perform it well. I stopped liking Ross with this episode, Sandy is 1000x the man Ross will never be. And in hindsight, it's a good thing I did - rewatching the show in my late 30s made me realize what an obnoxious DICK he was the whole time.
I already hated Ross as a person, but this is the episode where the nail hit the coffin. His argument was solely based on his views of (toxic) masculinity. And knowing how his dad is, it makes no sense why he'd think this way. I guess we saw a glimpse of this when Ben wanted to play with Barbies but trying to belittle Sandy just cuz he's good with babies and pursue this as a career. Honestly, just throw him away cuz he is straight-up trash.
The way his dad treated him actually makes perfect sense for why Ross behaved the way he did. Ross was basically taught that a man being feminine is wrong by his dad. Ross had a bunch of feminine qualities that his dad belittled him for, so he basically got all that from his dad. Not trying to justify Ross, but this is what happens when parents suck at their job.
Did u even watched the end of the episode? Lmao, while u say "Ross is trash throw him away" Joe loves him and already put him on the top of best character once in season 6
Toxic masculinity again. Damn, woman, stop with this men hate already. It’s weird when men dominate the programmers world, but its not ok when women dominate the teaching world, nursing jobs and etc? Double standards much? That’s why I don’t like over sensitive people too. And I don’t like left wing people from the usa(i’m not from An English speakingcountry.) (and I don’t like the right, if I’m being honest, but they are just too religious which I’m not). But lefties are soooo sensitive, so offended by everything, they are just not fun. They are constantly whining, complaining, everything is “toxic masculinity”, men are baaaad, and etc. stop whining already dammit. Ross doesn’t like sensitive people and thinks it’s weird. Yes, he’s wrong, but that’s how he was brought up. Take the joke and stop whining. Or maybe find some real problems in your world to complain about. I can invite you to my country, you can look what we struggle with.
Give Ross a break, he explains at the end why he is uncomfortable in that situation and it’s very well portrayed… the only word you can say these days is toxic to everything like you don’t have flaws and feelings 😂😂
You got very angry in the full patreon reaction. Getting angry at fictional (non-existent) characters sounds more like a case for therapy tbh (than Ross not crying) Please, it’s actually worrying.
I don't know why people are so angry at Ross. Yes, he is an asshole in this ep, but let's be real, most people wouldn't hire a man to watch their kids.
Ross could be wrong, but being honest, this nanny is creepy, if this would have happened in real life, we would think that this guy love too much kiss and who knows what more
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It makes sense that Joey would get along with sandy. He doesn't have the same insecurities like Ross does.
Or maybe he's as dumb as Sandy
No way is Mike better than David. LOL sorry, have to disagree there.
Fairs, I find David overrated😅
Mike is WAY better than David
@@UriosEditz right? i really don't get why some people even like david
@@UriosEditz, You said Mike is "WAY better than David"... Did you watch the whole series? Did you see how Mike behaved for the longest time about a certain topic? And does the "Precious" ring a bell? David wouldn't have acted like that.
@@Nikki-oe7gr bruh Mike did one mistake. And ? How many mistakes did Phoebe ? David is annoying, unfunny and boring.
Ross making it really hard for me to like him in this episode...
Why? Because he does not feel confortable letting a man alone with his daughter... yeah, Ross is so mean 🙄
@@mariramos9982 Sandy's great with Emma and Ross said it himself but he still got fired
You should react to 'Episodes' after Friends
"If you were bigger you'd hit me huh"
Joey knew about Ant-man all along lol.
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Well done
"Just because his bonding with his kid more than ross is" lol what a burn
When did he say that?
👏
@@girlsalways9131 12:41
Some people say this show has outdated stuff like Ross being like that, but if you think about it they always make fun of that mindset at the end, implying that they're not really ok with being like that, but since it was common at that time they created characters that are that way.
How could Monica make such a rookie mistake and tell Chandler someone was the most hilarious man ever
Chandler hasn't been funny since season 5
@@pieexpo140 Chandler is funny all seasons.
@@pieexpo140 he was in S8 and 10
@@pieexpo140HERETIC
This was actually a deceptively deep episode.
ross was so mad this ep for no reason like 😭
Most eps then 😂
npc.
I kind of hate Ross in this episode for how mean he is to Sandy. He's just so sweet and obviously great at his job.
I mean, you're supposed to
I loved Sandy 😭😭😭
at least Ross realizes his flaw and the show addresses it, as opposed to being just a throw-away joke
Ross was toxic. And it's not even a matter of the episode being outdated, because those attitudes were outdated at the time it first aired. Sandy was amazing at his job. As hard as it is for parents to find good childcare, Ross throwing it away is appalling.
I don’t think it’s cool for Ross to act the way he did, but let’s not pretend it’s that common to see guy nannies. I wouldn’t assume they are gay, but I would wonder if they’re a pedo tho.
Maybe I'm the only one here but I will feel more confortable letting my daughter with a woman than a man, sorry. I'm with Ross
Same
Sandy was amazinnggg and Joeyyyy 😂🤣😍😍😍
David is actually a better fit with Pheobe than Mike. Their personalities mesh better.
Absolutely. David and Phoebe click on a whole other level. It's a beautiful relationship that should've been explored unto itself, not just as a prop for the Phoebe and Mike story. I like Mike, because Paul Rudd is adorable, having seen the entire series, my opinion is David is more worthy than Mike. I like Mike, but there are a couple of things he does that taints him in my eyes and makes him less worthy. Some of Mike's behavior is not okay... if you've seen the whole series, think "Precious."
Exactly
100%
I liked David and Phoebe as a couple when they met, but I think she sort of outgrew him. 😞 They were both kind of shy and sweet before but Phoebe become much more confident and brazen as the years went on.
Besides, even though it was never filmed, there is the chance of that missing scene explaining that David was actually in a mental institution for most of the time he was gone, seeing as how Minsk is not in Russia and it would be pretty weird to live there for nearly a decade and still not know that. . .
You do know that David is Hank Azaria, right? He’s voiced like every supporting characters voice in The Simpsons!
Tbh not alot of people recognise him
Also, Hank Azaria was in the show "Mad About You" with Lisa Kudrow aka Phoebe. "Mad About You" started before "Friends" and was on the same network. Lisa's character on the show was Ursula, Phoebe's twin. Hank is at least the third "Mad About You" cast member to appear on "Friends."
@@Nikki-oe7gr Did he play a different character?
Hank Azaria was the Guatemalan houseboy in _The Birdcage_ with Robin Williams and Nathan Lane (from _The Lion King_ )... one of the funniest characters ever ever.
Yeah, Ross is very cringe in this episode but at least it has a teaching moment in the end, the story being a time capsule of the 'old' mindset of the late 90's / early 2000's. And thankfully Joey also saves this ep, being the perfect foil for Ross' insecurities.
I watched this episode when it originally aired in late-2002, and that wasn't the accepted mindset. Ross was just as appalling then.
@@Nikki-oe7gr Thank you! I get so annoyed with these people defending Ross because it was a different time. Yes, some things in Friends wouldn't fly anymore, but Ross' behavior wasn't accepted back then either. Luckily, the other characters called him out on it.
It’s like you miss the whole point of the episode. It’s shining a light on Ross’ character flaw - Sandy is great at his job but Ross can’t handle it because he’s insecure. The speech at the end where he sobs about being a real boy is just *chefs kiss* and still so relevant!
Not that old, sadly. STILL so many men toxically impugning this behavior, and awful women are starting to get in on it too.
That's the difference between a Man and a boy, unfortunately in this generation whiny boys are most welcomed than tough Men.
People hate Ross, but they totally forget that ending scene, where we get to know why he is the way he is. We expect others to be accepting of us, but we never accept them ourselves.
To be fair, there's a difference between (1) understanding why a person became a jerk and (2) accepting that same person even if he continues to be a jerk. Ross may have cried, but still didn't bother un-firing Sandy.
Ross has literally been the worst character since episode one lmao, the way he treats people especially women he dates is appalling in every way and it’s not even funny at times
😭😭 my bf has literally pointed out times it looks like he’s about to hit Rachel during disagreements which I’ve never noticed before and it’s only made me hate him more lol
@@wifflewaffle5006 How much have you been traumatised by a fictional character lol
We know why he feels the way he feels. Doesn't mean we excuse his unacceptable behavior.
@@wifflewaffle5006it's even more funny that Ross gets angry at Rachel had triggered you more than when Rachel herself had hurt Ross and ruined his other relationships.
Some women like to pull out the gender privilege card, when a man gets mad at them. It's ridiculous that demanding men should remain silent and tolerant for women unconditionally.
A little side note, Hank Azaria, aka David, was in the show "Mad About You" with Lisa Kudrow aka Phoebe. "Mad About You" started before "Friends" and was on the same network. Lisa's character on the show was Ursula, Phoebe's twin. Hank is at least the third "Mad About You" cast member to appear on "Friends." As for the plot of the Phoebe/Mike/David triangle, I'm waiting for you to get to a certain episode in the final season before I can comment fully about all of this, but even though I like Mike, because Paul Rudd is adorable, having seen the entire series, my opinion is David is more worthy than Mike. I like Mike, but there are a couple of things he does that taints him in my eyes and makes him less worthy.
being a good father is definetely not ross thing, he showed that in that episode.
ross is horrible human being all around lol seriously he's the only character with faaaaaaaaaaaar more cons than pros
@@kingmadridi8125 no
@@kingmadridi8125 yeah sure ahahahahahah
What the heck are you talking about 😂
I felt a bit bad for him here 21:13 but he did something alike. Like father like son. When Ben had a barbie, he couldn't stand it
Apparently Tom Hanks was originally cast to play the part of Sandy, but couldn't make it in time for filming so they had to recast
That would’ve been cool! Freddie is great though
12:00 I think you get the answer by the end of the episode 😆 . It's childhood trauma manifesting itself.
"I wouldn't pick up a phone call from Monica at that hour"
If she's your wife, you kind of have to. Someone could've died or something. It turns out it's not the case, but I (and most wives with me, I guess) would be pissed if someone died and my husband didn't pick up the phone. If it turns out no one is dying (like in this case), I'd be pissed at them for calling at an ungodly hour though 🤣
And yes, Mike is so much better than David. He's too late, bye boy!
Great episode 😂😂
Aw I wish they kept him he was great
I like David for Phoebe because he is as quirky as Phoebe. - Edit - Plus I think they match better physically. Height. And Paul Rudd looks too young for her.
In all fairness, Paul Rudd looks about 15 to 20 years younger than he is… pretty much all the time!
I ship David and Phoebe more than Mike and Phoebe, not be cause of height or age, but because of things make does that makes Mike unworthy. If you've seen the whole series, think of the thing Phoebe really wants, but for the longest time he refuses to give her, even if it means losing her, and think of "Precious." Those two things taint Mike in my eyes. Going back to season 1, David was willing to give up going to Minsk to be with Phoebe even though they'd known each other a very short time. David's devotion to Phoebe is just stronger than Mike's. And yeah, I love David's quirkiness.
@@Nikki-oe7gr if he had devotion he would have been with her since season 1 so apparently no.
He's sweet & all but Does anyone else find Sandy a lil creepy as well?
i still don't care what anyone says , I LOVE ROSS
I absolutely adore him
Same, he cracks me up 😂
Exactly. People are too sensitive.
ok
I couldn't WAIT to watch this one with you, knowing your commentary would send me howling with laughter. You did not disappoint! Thank you. I needed this today. You are SO much fun!
One of my fav episodes 😆
This is one of my most hated episodes, LOL. It was so frustrating how Ross got his way.
It's probably one of the only episodes where i actually find Ross annoying
One
@@joshranimal2292 i have more than just one haha.
@@joshranimal2292 yeah thx
one? lmfao
@@JohnjOcampo then you have zero taste in humour😂
That's the first 30+ min episode
as a StarWars fan every time i see this episode with "sandy" it just reminds me of Kanan Jarrus from Rebels , (because Freddie was the voice actor for Kanan) 🥲
This episode is so funny!!! Ross is great
I know right?? I love Ross
@@niiitjeeneeman3903 I don't think Ross is great, but David sure is.
Sorry but this doesn't sit well with me. Phoebe literally kissed another man and no one says anything about this. Ross makes a fuss about his nanny and the whole comment section is about it (I know he's wrong). Why does no one say anything about Phoebe? I love Phoebe and Ross but there is always hatred towards Ross and almost never towards the other characters
YESS phoebe is a bad friend but people look past it bc it’s “savage and funny” but nobody would ACTUALLY want her as a friend with how blunt she is
But Mike and Phoebe were not exclusive.?
I hate Ross in this episode
I hated Ross’s reaction to the Nanny
I’m with you on David… never see the appeal.
Poor Sandy tho, I liked him so much
I am on loop watching this playlist 😆😂
Mike >>>>>>>>>> David
Ross kinda does have a point... typically the only men who want to spend that much time alone with strangers' children are fans of the playground. 😬 Sure, Sandy was written to be a great nanny to make Ross look like an idiot, but in the real world, you have to be careful about who you let around your kids.
No, Ross doesn't have a point. He's a sexist pig and this is arguably his worst episode. If a male nanny is credentialed with good references, there's no problem. And a manny is less likely to run off with or cheat with the husband. If you think male nannies are mostly in it to abuse children, that says more about YOU.
he had credentials to back him up. dont act like ross was being wary for his kid, he was just being a sexist mf
Exactly, today is so easy to call Ross toxic, but the most of abuse to kids are from men. Ross was wrong but he had a point
I guess I'm in the minority but Mike >>>>> David. David was alright for a bit but long term Mike is so much better for Pheobe.
Worse than Ross was right, I would not leave my baby daughter with a man (I'm afraid even with a woman) because I'm afraid of mistreatment or even worse.
exactly
but ross wasn’t saying this- he was hating on sandy bc he’s a sensitive man/a nanny. that’s just backwards.
Same here, I would ever trust someone to clean my house when I'm not home
The fear of abuse would've been a more realistic, understandable story line. The whole Sandy is too sensitive, in other words, too caring about the well-being of a baby, is just appalling.
Hence why background checks exist.
Though as a nanny myself I understand the fear. On the opposite end, I worry about running into bigoted parents (I'm queer), so this episode doesn't help those fears.
imo this whole ross' attitude about sandy being a male nanny just reflects how the society was back in the day
And too many now bizarrely want to regress to. Just look at the most recent comments.
Hank Anzara is great!!! SIMPSONS!!! NIGHT AT MUSEUM 2, MYSTERY MEN AND MORE!!😅😅
you need to watch I KNOW WHAT YOU DID LAST SUMMER
Wow!, haven’t looked at your channel in a while, so love your hair!. Dude, you look like should be eating an egg white omelette and avacado toast on a sidewalk diner in ocean beach, California. A real cutie!.
This is one of those eps that doesnt age well lol
Why not, it’s great
@@Vale9118Most of the time when someone says this they mean, “my humor has not aged well” or, “this came out before I was born and I have been told it is not funny anymore”. 😇
Obviously Ross is in the wrong but to be honest I did find Sandy a little creepy
But forreal
False
i wouldn't let a male babysitting my daughter either, if my child is a boy it's ok but never my daughter it's just inappropriate. But again it's ross people is hating on him for every little thing, phoebe literally cheated on mike and yet "ROSS IS SALTY" Is in the title 🙄
What I put as the title is noooot that deep bro😭the name of the episode is literally the one with the manny, check yourself
Bro if you’re insinuating that a male nanny would be a pedo, the gender of the baby doesn’t really matter to them.. fucked up people be weird regardless.
Ok. Say you don't let a male babysit your daughter. That means you don't let a female babysit your son?
Earlyyyy ✨
What is the name of the pan music ?
Freddie was on Scooby doo of course
Nah tbf Ross IS a good father
He is to be fair, when we see it😅
When was the last time we even saw Ben? I don't think we even see him at any point in the rest of the series
@@MysticClaws100 bruh we just didn't see Ben in the last two seasons AND he was still mentionned
@@UriosEditz when was he mentioned? Plus, since Emma's born, Ross doesn't spend any time with his son anymore
that's a reach
I liked to consider myself a sensitive guy. But I’m gonna have to go with Ross in this episode, for me anyway, as a man it’s deeply uncomfortable interacting with another man who is far more sensitive than I am. “There is sensitive, and there’s too sensitive.” 😂
and why is that?
Ross might have been really annoying this episode but I think it was worth the ending of it bc you get to understand a little bit more of this crazy masculine toxic side of him. Idk it makes him more complex than the other friends characters besides pheobe
It would've helped if he actually became nicer to Sandy in the end. Like Chandler evolving from a guy who used to have commitment issues.
One of the reasons why Ross is my least favorite character in the show.
Oh man this episode. Love Ross but this is his worst episode imo. He was just being so annoying and unreasonable; the man is taking great care of your child but you're mad because he's a man 😐. Kind of upset that Rachel let Ross get his way with that excuse that he's "uncomfortable", if there was any time for her to stand her ground, that was it 😭. Don't like how this episode was resolved because even though Ross' behavior is "explained", the man was still fired.
Also, I do like David but Mike is superior to me. He just matches better with Phoebe.
Ross was 100% correct. It’s weird.
Why is it weird? And a genuine reason, not a "that's a woman's job"
Absolutely hated Ross in this episode. Kinda felt outta character tbh.
His behavior is definitely in character. Remember how he acted when Ben played with a Barbie?
First episode where i am not on Ross side
The FIRST, wow, impressive
The first? Omg... I've been more against Ross than on his side hahahaha
My guy was supporting Ross wanting to fuck his cousin haha
Ffs😭😭
First? Even when he hit on his cousin?
Edit: LMFAO I've created the WW3 in the reply section XD, here's the comment that started it all:
Phoebe literally CHEATED on Mike
Funny how everyone hates Ross for everything but no one cares about his feelings in the end of this episode they always bash him but when he reveals why he is the way he is ppl doesnt care
Everyone hates Ross in this ep BUT no one talks about how Phoebe literally cheats on Mike, ppl ALWAYS hates on Ross for the whole Break thing and ppl say he cheated on Rachel even tho he didnt, but now here Phoebe gave her key to Mike and went in a town with David her ex WHILE she still is with Mike and he even saw that as he walked in... But ofc no one talks about this, and when someone says "Phoebe cheated on Mike" ppl always defend her saying she didnt (I follow some friends page on Fbook and they do some pools, in one of their polls was "Ross cheated on Rachel? Yes No" more than 80% voted YES, then another poll was "Phoebe cheated on Mike" almost 100% was NO) also
I'm probably the only one who didnt find anything wrong with Ross' reaction in this ep, when I watched for the 1st time I actually agreed with him so when I found out everyone hates Ross in this episode I got shock, I wouldn't trust a male many to take care of my daughter either, idk I'm a little bit similar to Ross
Sorry for the typos
people are usually pretty harsh on ross
I personally couldn’t disagree more on all counts, but I understand where you are coming from.
I don't personally think that it's good to not trust males in jobs like that, i mean, why can't they ?
exactly, I agree
I think it’s somehow worse that this episode was the 200th episode. Like… for such a huge milestone, the episode wasn’t very special (number 100 was Phoebe giving birth!) and none of the characters were particularly strong. Monica and Rachel were the least offensive overall, but didn’t really stand out that much. Chandler’s insecurity storyline was sort of funny, but I feel like they didn’t do too well with it. Joey paying for preschool level lessons with the puppets was too much of a dumb guy caricature to be enjoyable or believable. Ross was obviously too dickish. Phoebe had cheated. And the play fight between Mike and David was just embarrassing. While I don’t necessarily find this episode to be the worst, it’s definitely one of the low points for me.
It was 20 bucks, relax.
Certainly a better #200 than a certain _other_ one I could name...
Back when I watched the show, I actually liked Ross as a character. I didn't even know about the whole "Ross is an asshole" internet trend, we didn't have social media back then. THIS episode, however, made me hate him profoundly. As a man who had a really rough time growing up for not conforming to classic masculinity (I think that's what made me like Ross as a character back then, he was an example of a man who didn't fit the "masculine" mold of the time, and he turned out okay (or at least I thought so back then in my 18 yo head).
That episode, however, shattered every good opinions I had on him. I remember being VERY mad at the episode, saying he betrayed everything he SHOULD stand up for. In the end, he's just the everyday nerd - he VALUES toxic/classic masculinity but he just CAN'T perform it well. I stopped liking Ross with this episode, Sandy is 1000x the man Ross will never be. And in hindsight, it's a good thing I did - rewatching the show in my late 30s made me realize what an obnoxious DICK he was the whole time.
This is the only EP I really got the ross hate
One of those épisodes that did NOT age well lol
I hate Ross.
I already hated Ross as a person, but this is the episode where the nail hit the coffin. His argument was solely based on his views of (toxic) masculinity. And knowing how his dad is, it makes no sense why he'd think this way. I guess we saw a glimpse of this when Ben wanted to play with Barbies but trying to belittle Sandy just cuz he's good with babies and pursue this as a career. Honestly, just throw him away cuz he is straight-up trash.
Yeah, the episode makes it clear that Ross is in the wrong.
The way his dad treated him actually makes perfect sense for why Ross behaved the way he did. Ross was basically taught that a man being feminine is wrong by his dad. Ross had a bunch of feminine qualities that his dad belittled him for, so he basically got all that from his dad. Not trying to justify Ross, but this is what happens when parents suck at their job.
Did u even watched the end of the episode? Lmao, while u say "Ross is trash throw him away" Joe loves him and already put him on the top of best character once in season 6
Toxic masculinity again. Damn, woman, stop with this men hate already. It’s weird when men dominate the programmers world, but its not ok when women dominate the teaching world, nursing jobs and etc? Double standards much? That’s why I don’t like over sensitive people too. And I don’t like left wing people from the usa(i’m not from
An English speakingcountry.) (and I don’t like the right, if I’m being honest, but they are just too religious which I’m not). But lefties are soooo sensitive, so offended by everything, they are just not fun. They are constantly whining, complaining, everything is “toxic masculinity”, men are baaaad, and etc. stop whining already dammit. Ross doesn’t like sensitive people and thinks it’s weird. Yes, he’s wrong, but that’s how he was brought up. Take the joke and stop whining. Or maybe find some real problems in your world to complain about. I can invite you to my country, you can look what we struggle with.
@@tmm4195 Ross became the same when he couldn't stand Ben having a barbie
Give Ross a break, he explains at the end why he is uncomfortable in that situation and it’s very well portrayed… the only word you can say these days is toxic to everything like you don’t have flaws and feelings 😂😂
no
You got very angry in the full patreon reaction.
Getting angry at fictional (non-existent) characters sounds more like a case for therapy tbh (than Ross not crying)
Please, it’s actually worrying.
Do you have any idea how condescending you come across in all of your comments?
classic SDE right here
I don't know why people are so angry at Ross. Yes, he is an asshole in this ep, but let's be real, most people wouldn't hire a man to watch their kids.
Why not?
Exactly.
Well I would. Why wouldn't I?
And even more, WHAT REASON IS THERE to not hire a man to watch my kids?
@@AlexSkylarkPeople consistently operate from dated and sexist models of "all men are predators".
I forgot how much I hate Ross in this episode!!!!
Ross could be wrong, but being honest, this nanny is creepy, if this would have happened in real life, we would think that this guy love too much kiss and who knows what more
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Wouldn't think that at all.
Are you also going to react to the Friends reunion? Cause you definitely should👍