Why is she still there? The reason he has the kids is to skip paying child support. He was mincing on the kids care. He enjoyed her support. The poor kids are suffering and they will miss the stepmom.
I know his children personally. They miss out on nothing. Their mom is an amazing mother and provider. She left his abusing a$$ for all the same reasons. They want for nothing because she puts them first.
I don’t get when women brag about not dating men for money or what they can do but then in the same breath talk about how frustrated and stressed they are because of financial issues… make it make sense 🤔
Dude might have been attractive in his prime.. but his prime has ended. So I’m tryna figure out what’s peeking her interest .. because it’s definitely not how he moves through life.
Just like many couples come here with the wrong spouse to divorce, ie. Man is married but he and the lady he brought to DC can’t get married…. Because he still married…. But they engaged… 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Divorce Court is using this platform to help before the couple marries. In the past, Judge Lynn Toler started the same Before Your Vows. If the couple is demonstrating their true love she gives the couple the license back. If not, she tears it up.
Funny how he didn’t want to buy the house, but didn’t hesitate to move himself and his kids in. She should've kicked him out when he didn’t help with the house repairs. The kids have a great adult example in her, but a horid example of adulting in him. 19:01 😢
I know his children and their mother personally. SHE is an amazing mother, provider, and role model. She has fostered the relationship with Kayla, but don't be misguided, their mother is their provider, protector, and champion.
YES!!! All this acts of this and acts of that… when you love each other, you communicate… you both try to please each other. I promise society makes EVERYTHING soooooo complicated.
Not sure how you put up with that for 5 years. Even 3 years was way too long. We teach people how to treat us. Glad you wised up better late than never.
This ran its course. She didn’t want to have financial conversations because she didn’t really like him. She was insecure at first and got the musician she wanted and the dream was better than the reality to him. It’s no way she went from not paying during dating to being the main spender. She lost weight and got a new outlook and he is content with here he is in life.
Why do these people come to court. Why not just get out of the relationship, if they aren't married. Do they need a court order or protection. These men want someone to take care of them. HE USED HER!! SHE WAS FOOLISH!! SO MANY WOMEN GET CAUGHT IN THIS TRAP AND UNFINISHED MANY NEVER LEAVE OR IF THEY DO.WITH THEIR LIFE NOT BEING DAMAGED THEY HAVE HELP. THIS IS ANOTHER TYPE OF CONTROL AND ACTUAL ABUSE.
Well, she is going to have to buy the box because he won't. Everything is hers, so no boxes necessary.....Oh yeah, the kids may need a box for the clothes from Walmart. Yes, she needs to play a few of Beyonce's songs.😏😏😏
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Note to all women: DO not move a man into your home do not give a man ANY MONEY and never become a mother to another man's children!! ever. Last but not least never ever be with a man who has no job or makes alot less money than you!!!
His kids need clothes and he wanted to invest money the government sent for them. Since he pays for very little he should already have hefty investments. He's not looking for a better job.let thus dude GO!
He didn't want to breakup with her he was just gonna treat her bad until she left him. She has everything, what does she need him for? Nothing! He let her take care of the bills and his kids, so he could cheat.
He’s talking to a woman 20 years his senior because he’s looking for the next woman to take care of him. He doesn’t have any plans to get it together. He wants things to stay exactly the way they are.
She’s was trying to make a home for him and his children and paying the price for house, kids, and him! It’s good that their breaking up, she deserves better than him, User, Cheater, stingy, oh girl let him go! I’m sorry for the children because they have to turn to another women, their paying the price, so sad
A woman should never let a man move in with her....and a man that don't have himself together should not even think about talking to a woman or be in a relationship! imo
So glad she dumped him! Love at the end when they were leaving and she said get your things and get out because it’s over he didn’t even try to argue 😂
This guy is a user he's using her as a mom, maid and covers the bills. He's got the kids to avoid paying child support. He's lazy and has no motivation. The fact that he spoke to someone that much older than him shows what a grimy opportunist he is he'd probably use her the same way. She needs to get rid of him ASAP. Change locks.
Can people from the USA clarify this for me? Is it difficult for unmarried couples to separate that they need to go to “court” like legally married ones? Can’t they just move to a different apartment/house?
Hmmmm...... If the kids stayed in her home im thinking he had custody of his kids..... Im wondering if theres more to this story. What im hearing though is that financially they were never compatible. Im not sure why she took on the motherly role. Its kinda like what men do when they see lois lane and they try to be superman but in reverse. They shouldve just only been friends instead. He dont seem like a bad dude just not rea 19:48 dy for a relationship. He really need to get his life together.
I know their mother. The children were only there when he had visitation. Their mother has primary custody for OBVIOUS reasons. Their mother is an amazing mother, human, provider, and protector!
He doesn’t even like her to be sitting up in her 🏡 chillin and reaping the benefits of a wife, made and step mom. Triflin! Get your 🪴 and get to steppin stimulus check shawty
She’s just as much to blame IMO She used him too to pay ( however much less than her that he paid ) for her house which he does not own or have any rights to. Smh Now, she wants a man that’s a “provider.”? She may miss some qualities in this man when she moves on … I don’t appreciate this lady’s attitude. It takes two to tango. She put her own self in this situation and now she’s kicking out the children?!
if you noticed she said she paid for his children's clothes. She never said she paid the mortgage alone. And, she never said he didn't work. They both may be better off without each other.
This lady was trying to create her idea family of her dreams- not including what guy thought or actually brought to the table. It's easy to see that this guy checked out of this relationship a long time ago. I was impressed that he actually knew of the book about love languages, and they were not communicating effectively. She never noticed that he wasn't interested in HVAC. It was just her plan to increase the income once the money she was getting from her father was no longer available. He likes his job & is comfortable there. No one told her to choose a guy who didn't meet her income requirements. You get the guy that you choose.
She needs to let him and his children go !
I agree with you she should have been gone
Go where?
I agreeeeee and 31 is not old
@@1LocWonderThat’s for him to figure out
@@1LocWonderWhere she isn't being used!!!
This dude is strange, he is a deadbeat no emotion no drive just walking through life blind…..
He High!!!!!!!
@@wandahose5551 you’re allowed to be in a courtroom high? Like as the plantiff or defendant?
@@hiddenjocelyn1088they come to court like that.
"We are homeowners." Lady, you didn't need to come to DC. You need to start the eviction process.
He is not honest. He is playing games. He wants to play around, but keep her financial support.
She was wasting her youth and her money...Run and live your life girl...Reality will kick in when he's a single dad and broke 😅
Fssss She needs to Run 🏃♀️
He has way too many excuses.
They both do 💯
If she marries him , she will regret it !
Most Def
I agree 💯👍
GIRL!! 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU
Why is she still there? The reason he has the kids is to skip paying child support. He was mincing on the kids care.
He enjoyed her support.
The poor kids are suffering and they will miss the stepmom.
I know his children personally. They miss out on nothing. Their mom is an amazing mother and provider. She left his abusing a$$ for all the same reasons.
They want for nothing because she puts them first.
LADIES, she prayed for a sign, he literally gave her the sign and shes still in divorce court!!!🤣😅 Do better
He gonna cry when he get in the car 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I don’t get when women brag about not dating men for money or what they can do but then in the same breath talk about how frustrated and stressed they are because of financial issues… make it make sense 🤔
Exactly, don’t nobody want a grown child
That used to be my belief...but...
💯
Gaslighting and narcissism because nobody would say anything If he was paying all the bills
Those are two different things.
Dude might have been attractive in his prime.. but his prime has ended. So I’m tryna figure out what’s peeking her interest .. because it’s definitely not how he moves through life.
He’s her type
The kids came with him.
He’s only 35🤦🏻♀️
Yeah his silence says he knows it's Over it's been over....
Dude put the L in loser
Thank you.
This is Divorce Court, but they're not married. So what are two miserable engaged people doing here? 🤔🤦♀️
Just like many couples come here with the wrong spouse to divorce, ie. Man is married but he and the lady he brought to DC can’t get married…. Because he still married…. But they engaged… 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@bryanbeeman5256: Right!? How can a woman be engaged to another woman's husband? 🤦♀️🤷♀️
Divorce Court is using this platform to help before the couple marries.
In the past, Judge Lynn Toler started the same Before Your Vows. If the couple is demonstrating their true love she gives the couple the license back. If not, she tears it up.
I hope they are breaking up after the show.
@@leopardmoorerAlways a fan of those “BYV”episodes.
Damn dude, you lost a good one. Shawty was taking care of your 3 children. Too much weed
Naw! He got comfortable
Glad she leaving he is a BUM!!
When she said she prayed. That was me i didn't listen and it got worse. When I listened my life got better
Funny how he didn’t want to buy the house, but didn’t hesitate to move himself and his kids in. She should've kicked him out when he didn’t help with the house repairs. The kids have a great adult example in her, but a horid example of adulting in him. 19:01 😢
I know his children and their mother personally. SHE is an amazing mother, provider, and role model. She has fostered the relationship with Kayla, but don't be misguided, their mother is their provider, protector, and champion.
She wants to be a baby mother???? Oh my.... he is so slow...all he does is smoke and cheat...smh
He too slow to cheat
There’s is only one love language,!! LOVE each other !!!!!
YES!!! All this acts of this and acts of that… when you love each other, you communicate… you both try to please each other. I promise society makes EVERYTHING soooooo complicated.
Something about him being that calm makes me uncomfortable
Not sure how you put up with that for 5 years. Even 3 years was way too long. We teach people how to treat us. Glad you wised up better late than never.
Sad part is it took her so long to see how she was being used but she finally did. Good for her 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This woman has the luxury of being free to do whatever she wants!
I feel bad for the kids, but they ALL need to go.
His children are well taken care of by their mother, who provides very well for them.
I worry about her safety.
This ran its course. She didn’t want to have financial conversations because she didn’t really like him. She was insecure at first and got the musician she wanted and the dream was better than the reality to him. It’s no way she went from not paying during dating to being the main spender. She lost weight and got a new outlook and he is content with here he is in life.
I hope she is safe. Deadbeats can become dangerous men when their women kick them out.
They sure can cuz they know their life about to suck
He is a crybaby. 😑
I feel so bad for the kids
His expression is definitely think he is ego tripping. Lady let him go!!
Why do these people come to court. Why not just get out of the relationship, if they aren't married.
Do they need a court order or protection.
These men want someone to take care of them.
HE USED HER!! SHE WAS FOOLISH!! SO MANY WOMEN GET CAUGHT IN THIS TRAP AND UNFINISHED MANY NEVER LEAVE OR IF THEY DO.WITH THEIR LIFE NOT BEING DAMAGED THEY HAVE HELP.
THIS IS ANOTHER TYPE OF CONTROL AND ACTUAL ABUSE.
He’s a BUM! Get him out of your house. He messed up a good thing especially for the children cause I’m sure she loves them.
📦📦💨 Everything he owns in a box to the left 👈🏽
Well, she is going to have to buy the box because he won't. Everything is hers, so no boxes necessary.....Oh yeah, the kids may need a box for the clothes from Walmart. Yes, she needs to play a few of Beyonce's songs.😏😏😏
The defendant is shifty he even talks as if he controls her.
She,unfortunately.got caught in a trap.
You have to admit, this guy did kick back and let her do a whole Lotta stuff. I never did any woman I dated like that. Much less my wife.
she should not walk but run away from him
THE WAY HE WALKED DOWN THAT HALL SILENT LIKE THAT ,, WOULD SCARE ME
she said she didn't want to talk about it any more....what else was there for him to say? he wasn't gonna beg her🤣🤣🤣🤣
What is this dude talking about money for the kids should be spent in the kids when they have a need.
A big user indeed. Hope she follows through and stop wasting her money 💰
Guess he'd better "Call Tyrone-Erykah Badu" and she's doing more for "Your Child" '- Mary J. Blige. This "Woman Is Fed Up - R. Kelly".
I’d be surprised if she stays gone. If not, she’s off to get the next musician
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Note to all women: DO not move a man into your home do not give a man ANY MONEY and never become a mother to another man's children!! ever. Last but not least never ever be with a man who has no job or makes alot less money than you!!!
Anyone have the link for the show that she was a witness on??
RUN!!! he wants you around because you carry the burden and help with HIS kids! You are selling yourself short if you stay with him
Girl cut ya losses yall not married no kids leave!!!!
I agreeeeee
She can do better !! Walk away now !
all of this could be avoided if the important conversations were had BEFORE the relationship........not years later.
Do any married couples come on here anymore?
So, if he calls another woman his soulmate, why is she on DC??? They aren't married. Some woman are so desperate
His kids need clothes and he wanted to invest money the government sent for them. Since he pays for very little he should already have hefty investments. He's not looking for a better job.let thus dude GO!
Excuses excuses excuses sirrrr
Just say Bye!
He didn't want to breakup with her he was just gonna treat her bad until she left him. She has everything, what does she need him for? Nothing! He let her take care of the bills and his kids, so he could cheat.
They are strange...
This couple is past strange he doesn't deserve her Ashley stay too long
Judge Star is on point!
He’s talking to a woman 20 years his senior because he’s looking for the next woman to take care of him. He doesn’t have any plans to get it together. He wants things to stay exactly the way they are.
She’s was trying to make a home for him and his children and paying the price for house, kids, and him! It’s good that their breaking up, she deserves better than him, User, Cheater, stingy, oh girl let him go! I’m sorry for the children because they have to turn to another women, their paying the price, so sad
A woman should never let a man move in with her....and a man that don't have himself together should not even think about talking to a woman or be in a relationship! imo
So glad she dumped him! Love at the end when they were leaving and she said get your things and get out because it’s over he didn’t even try to argue 😂
Track star mode activate 🏃🏼♀️➡️🏃🏼♀️➡️🏃🏼♀️➡️
She a runner she a track starrr 😂
God answered her prayer. We should all seek God in such times of need, to ask for guidance. God hears and answers. ❤️
Get Out!!
How ya gonna smoke pot when you have 3 kids and pay a third of the entire bill??? Youd have more money if you'd stop buying pot!!! Wtf ..
DC there needs to be a separate show for these unmarried folk. I’m sicka dem being on here!
What episode was she on previously?
That’s what I’m searching for… following this comment…
This guy is a user he's using her as a mom, maid and covers the bills. He's got the kids to avoid paying child support. He's lazy and has no motivation. The fact that he spoke to someone that much older than him shows what a grimy opportunist he is he'd probably use her the same way.
She needs to get rid of him ASAP. Change locks.
He’s a bum God gave her the answer she needed expeditiously and she still questioned it
Leave him start over, you deserve better, life, man, everything 😅
Starr, cannot do divorce cases because she isn't a judge
She is the judge on this show.
Fake show@@DeloresSimpson-go7yf
Can people from the USA clarify this for me? Is it difficult for unmarried couples to separate that they need to go to “court” like legally married ones? Can’t they just move to a different apartment/house?
I liked this one, this was a really good case.
I c I’m not tha only one that loves yo show , u have great ah point of view ✅
Let that L go !!
And your children
Can’t forget the three kids.
She was her before hmm I don’t recognize her what episode was she in
Open & Shut!! Wow. This was taped probably 6mos ago. I wonder how she's doing? We need follow up!!
I don't blame him for not wanting to stop smoking weed, but have a drive😂😂😂😂
I’m not understanding why you want a kid with him and you’re taking care of him and his 3 kids 🙄 fix it Jesus
Judge keeps it real
When a women’s fed up it’s done or vise versa when a man is fed up as well
Lady need or little help tell him boy byeeeeeeee 👏👏👏😎😎
Yayyyyy , I made it early ❤️
I've heard enough. Lady, leave.
I think the judge is bias
Hmmmm...... If the kids stayed in her home im thinking he had custody of his kids..... Im wondering if theres more to this story. What im hearing though is that financially they were never compatible. Im not sure why she took on the motherly role. Its kinda like what men do when they see lois lane and they try to be superman but in reverse. They shouldve just only been friends instead. He dont seem like a bad dude just not rea 19:48 dy for a relationship. He really need to get his life together.
I know their mother. The children were only there when he had visitation. Their mother has primary custody for OBVIOUS reasons.
Their mother is an amazing mother, human, provider, and protector!
Agreed
He doesn’t even like her to be sitting up in her 🏡 chillin and reaping the benefits of a wife, made and step mom. Triflin! Get your 🪴 and get to steppin stimulus check shawty
She’s just as much to blame IMO She used him too to pay ( however much less than her that he paid ) for her house which he does not own or have any rights to. Smh Now, she wants a man that’s a “provider.”? She may miss some qualities in this man when she moves on … I don’t appreciate this lady’s attitude. It takes two to tango. She put her own self in this situation and now she’s kicking out the children?!
& also I’ve seen mostly all episodes with Star; Which one was she a witness on??
If she doesn’t run with out looking back. She got the sign from God on what she prayed about. I would have been done after that.
if you noticed she said she paid for his children's clothes. She never said she paid the mortgage alone. And, she never said he didn't work.
They both may be better off without each other.
If the roles were reversed, I wonder what the judge would have said
Her prayers were answered, she just ignored the answers.
Another hookup drama. Keep it folks, very appalling.
She's a very beautiful woman.she doesn't deserve that crap. And he shows no love or respect to her.
This lady was trying to create her idea family of her dreams- not including what guy thought or actually brought to the table. It's easy to see that this guy checked out of this relationship a long time ago. I was impressed that he actually knew of the book about love languages, and they were not communicating effectively. She never noticed that he wasn't interested in HVAC. It was just her plan to increase the income once the money she was getting from her father was no longer available. He likes his job & is comfortable there. No one told her to choose a guy who didn't meet her income requirements. You get the guy that you choose.
Girl u deserve better. He should stay single n take care of his kids
Them ST Louie girls are beautiful 🥰
Wasting her time
BTW… weed is one of the most motivational un-aliving pharmaceutical out there