Why do people join cults? - Janja Lalich

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  • @jkerman5113
    @jkerman5113 6 років тому +11303

    Also, cults never refer to themselves as a cult. No, we're just a friendly congregation, a group of people. But never a cult.

    • @Tony333Aye
      @Tony333Aye 5 років тому +222

      @@Daisy-kg4ho I'm pretty sure they are joking tho

    • @Daisy-kg4ho
      @Daisy-kg4ho 5 років тому +34

      Ayy lmao Yeah we are, but I mean at this point how are we not a cult.

    • @Tony333Aye
      @Tony333Aye 5 років тому +29

      @@Daisy-kg4ho wait, your with them?

    • @mrpellagra2730
      @mrpellagra2730 5 років тому +151

      @@Daisy-kg4ho I am sure that is a joke cu...Wait, wtf...

    • @purestyle8857
      @purestyle8857 5 років тому +10

      Um, duh?

  • @HPTeguh
    @HPTeguh 4 роки тому +6500

    "Believing in something should not come at the cost of your family and friends" true 100%

    • @FOY43
      @FOY43 4 роки тому +41

      What about political beliefs?

    • @HPTeguh
      @HPTeguh 4 роки тому +215

      @@FOY43 in my opinion. This is especially applied to political beliefs

    • @hedgie9823
      @hedgie9823 4 роки тому +94

      Another good one is "people who don't want you to think are not your friends" or something like that

    • @badape5802
      @badape5802 4 роки тому +6

      True for you, my friend

    • @jodyguilbeaux8225
      @jodyguilbeaux8225 4 роки тому +2

      exactly

  • @adelleambrose
    @adelleambrose 4 роки тому +8689

    I was born into a cult and was part of it for the first almost 15.5 years of my life. I've only been out of it for almost a couple of years. I'm still trying to retrain my brain from purging what I was taught there. Cults are dangerous, toxic places. Everyone should be informed. Informative video, thank you.

    • @dani-nc6px
      @dani-nc6px 4 роки тому +408

      I recently saw a mini movie on youtube called "mind control made easy". It's terrifyingly accurate. It's phrased as a guide but I think it's an accurate video on what to avoid and red flags of a group. So happy you're safe from that cult. You're very strong. Good luck and best wishes

    • @keystrokes2516
      @keystrokes2516 4 роки тому +22

      I wanna join one it sounds p cool

    • @saumya7612
      @saumya7612 4 роки тому +416

      @@keystrokes2516 Don't! It's not cool and you will end up getting manipulated into things you can't imagine rn. You might never be the same again. Even if it's not a very damaging cult, it's gonna take up unnecessary space in your head and distract you from important things. There's no need of a cult to anyone unless.

    • @asher-360
      @asher-360 4 роки тому +72

      Saumya Honestly, are cults _ever_ positive? 5:05

    • @Ritualwellbeing
      @Ritualwellbeing 4 роки тому +146

      Same here, from the time I was 2 until 15, but I left and never looked back. My sister unfortunately never had that chance and she is still in it and most likely will be for the rest of her life. It's all conditioning, brainwashing, fear mongering, and isolation. Glad you got out.

  • @TheIGITnBLUE
    @TheIGITnBLUE 3 роки тому +1578

    DO not underestimate how tenacious these people can be. I never joined a cult, but I was hounded before by a cult to the point of having stalkers and death threats.
    Be careful people.

    • @Susieq26754
      @Susieq26754 2 роки тому +22

      Fear of man will prove to be a snare, whoever trusts in the Lord Jesus Christ will remain safe. Proverbs 29:25

    • @Susieq26754
      @Susieq26754 2 роки тому +9

      Psalm 15:50 Call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.

    • @Susieq26754
      @Susieq26754 2 роки тому +7

      Isaiah 41:10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

    • @CrystalSkies_9
      @CrystalSkies_9 2 роки тому +77

      @@Susieq26754 dude why do you keep posting these stuff?

    • @redblushinrose
      @redblushinrose 2 роки тому +84

      @@CrystalSkies_9 the cult found him

  • @NokthulaMadondo
    @NokthulaMadondo 5 років тому +9590

    I just feel sorry for the kids being dragged into this madness.

    • @dominic2123
      @dominic2123 4 роки тому +318

      Nokthula Madondo Religions. They don’t give the children the right to decide for themselves. Obviously as they get older, they get to decide. However, by then, they have years of connection which is hard to part with. Not to mention their friends and family. Looking at you, Christianity, Islam, etc. I don’t see a logical reason as to why people are NOT agnostic. Clownery.

    • @sacauntos2056
      @sacauntos2056 4 роки тому +82

      @@dominic2123 Nobody forces you to chose your religion.

    • @forestreee
      @forestreee 4 роки тому +318

      Pablo Nicolas many, many people are blackmailed, mostly by close people like parents and close relatives, into being into a particular religion. Since birth, at least here in India, one is taught that his or her religion is the best in the world. If I were not in a diverse city like Mumbai and did not have access to the internet, I'm pretty sure I would have become one who thinks people who eat non veg are bad and you should never marry someone outside your caste(I don't believe in such things, but this was literally the propaganda I have heard. Luckily my parents never believed in this) but imagine those kids who were never exposed to the world. I bet many people would stop taking medicines if they found that certain medications are made using animal products.
      Basically, in many places children are so filled with propaganda and emotional abuse that although legally one can leave his religion, one will have to leave his close ones. It really toils on you emotionally and without some close friends or someone who can support you in your move, one can easily enter into depression.

    • @pepper4632
      @pepper4632 4 роки тому +4

      Nokthula Madondo Thanks

    • @pynman9170
      @pynman9170 4 роки тому +34

      @@dominic2123 What is cult like with Christianity? I can see islam but Christianity dude..... come on

  • @eisa_6185
    @eisa_6185 4 роки тому +2116

    I learnt in psychology that we follow orders and sometimes don’t feel bad for taking them even if it’s a cruel thing we’re ordered to do bc we don’t feel we’re responsible for them.

    • @blauwbeer556
      @blauwbeer556 4 роки тому +33

      there was this expirament which a person would ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨shock¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨ another person if they get something wrong, even when they were ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨unresponsive¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨

    • @chiggywiggy524
      @chiggywiggy524 4 роки тому +5

      That cow is cute though in your profile pic. Does it has a name?

    • @merro2867
      @merro2867 4 роки тому +30

      @@blauwbeer556 is it Milgram's study on Obedience?

    • @Star_faring
      @Star_faring 4 роки тому +22

      @@merro2867 I think it is called Authority Bias.

    • @stephenkaylor4311
      @stephenkaylor4311 4 роки тому +5

      Protocol and ethics - to keep a job.

  • @ishan1789
    @ishan1789 5 років тому +3824

    Criteria of a cult:
    1. Founder(s) has/have more advantages than the rest of the members
    2. Severe punishment for leaving it (death is a prime example)
    3. Discourages critical thinking and criticism often punishing those who criticize the cult

    • @theinternetpolice2078
      @theinternetpolice2078 5 років тому +151

      Sounds like North Korea.

    • @deeplysuperficial1637
      @deeplysuperficial1637 5 років тому +231

      sounds like the original catholic church

    • @kiselapavlaka7652
      @kiselapavlaka7652 5 років тому +45

      @@theinternetpolice2078 North Korea is not as bad as american propaganda lends you to believe. I have been there and it is not as bad as they tell you, they have their personal space, activities and overall freedom inside the country. Problem is that there IS little media freedom to criticize the gouverment. Though it is very hard to actually get inside the country, once i was inside i kinda felt relaxed as I saw that the place is not what outside tells you.

    • @manlamp7531
      @manlamp7531 5 років тому +4

      You dont die from leaving a cult...

    • @ishan1789
      @ishan1789 5 років тому +18

      @@manlamp7531 You do realize that a cult consists of members...right?

  • @Shuang_Shuang
    @Shuang_Shuang 3 роки тому +1084

    It's often left out of the story that the people in Jonestown were forced to drink the poison by guards pointing firearms at them... Many knew they were gonna die and didn't want to, but they felt they had no choice, which they really didn't.

    • @g.anthonybenjamin281
      @g.anthonybenjamin281 3 роки тому +30

      Exactly

    • @bbrake
      @bbrake 3 роки тому +6

      If you read "Stories From Jonestown," the picture it paints (by former members AKA survivors) is more complex and less clear. As a cult, many people WERE very indoctrinated, and they had done practice runs of the "White Night" (sans the arsenic). It had become ritualized, a known way to make something normalized A couple of the survivors were really freaked out by the bodies having been arranged, as that was not known to be a part of it... Point is, "armed guards" were only one part of it. It's not like any of the bodies had bullet holes in them. Even among the people still in the US, one family locked themselves in their home and drank the poison, and Jones's sons were very active in STOPPING more deaths. Sadly they couldn't reach the Jonestown residents. Crazy stuff, man...

    • @mso1ps4
      @mso1ps4 2 роки тому

      The majority weren't forced. The children were administered poison by their parents and willfully took it afterwards. Armed guards were present, but they were not at gunpoint. Perhaps the last few who paniced were threatened. They literally had late-night mass suicide training sessions.

    • @official-obama
      @official-obama 2 роки тому +18

      Woah... That's bad...

    • @kylestefan5983
      @kylestefan5983 Рік тому

      Which is a terrible shame especially since it’s become such a thing as “don’t drink the kool aid” as a reference to mass suicide when it should be remembered as mass murder. Those who didn’t drink the poison were shot

  • @imlistening1137
    @imlistening1137 4 роки тому +10435

    This video should be shown every year to students in grades 7-12.

    • @kevinteabagamee2020
      @kevinteabagamee2020 4 роки тому +832

      Holy frick yes, kids need to learn to judge to world for themselves cause at that age everybody is doing the thinking for them and they wouldn’t know the difference between a language arts lesson and an indoctrination camp.

    • @imlistening1137
      @imlistening1137 4 роки тому +517

      @@taliesinhalliday teaching children what a cult is, would be indoctrinating them? I don't follow you.

    • @DiXtionRap
      @DiXtionRap 4 роки тому +549

      @@taliesinhalliday how is telling kids what a cult is leftwing? The video is an unbiased, non-politcal explanation of the characteristics of a cult, not an ideological position or talking point.

    • @dionysus06
      @dionysus06 4 роки тому +78

      Pardon me, _Greg is not a cult_

    • @selahanany5645
      @selahanany5645 4 роки тому +69

      this is very good in theory, but in practice repeating the same thing every year only numbs kids to it.

  • @ingwarlothbrok7187
    @ingwarlothbrok7187 6 років тому +2466

    If you don't think for yourself, somebody will do the thinking for you.

    • @p.r.9982
      @p.r.9982 6 років тому +57

      Yes I agree. But we should also remain humble about our ability to see clearly, all of us have rough seasons, which weaken us. We are especially vulnerable in rough times, losses (death), breakups, painful life transitions, divorces etc. Even I as an independent thinker, I got duped during that time. But within a couple of months I figured out what I had gotten into. Thankfully I didn't "join" them (membership) but playing the game until you can plan your exit is vital, because these looney tunes follow and abuse you. Please have compassion for those who fall for this. :)

    • @bighands69
      @bighands69 6 років тому +13

      Cults work because there are a number of people in a society that have lower IQ.

    • @p.r.9982
      @p.r.9982 6 років тому +34

      Very educated and smart people are in cults. I used to think like you until I was trapped in one. I met extremely smart people there. People are sucked into cults when they meet recruiters at vulnerable moments in their lives (jobloss, family issues/divorce, traumas etc).

    • @19869babygirl
      @19869babygirl 6 років тому

      Ultimate Warrior great insight!

    • @sleepn_on_me2473
      @sleepn_on_me2473 6 років тому +1

      @@p.r.9982 im going through a VERY hard time right now.... but never would i succumb to such self centered ideologies

  • @peronkop
    @peronkop 7 років тому +8664

    No cult member will ever admit they belong to a cult.

    • @uncleadolf2300
      @uncleadolf2300 7 років тому +278

      Like the fanatical devotees of the great and almighty flying spaghetti monster.

    • @cheezdoodls5084
      @cheezdoodls5084 7 років тому +3

      peronkop M E Y E R I S M

    • @blubber608
      @blubber608 7 років тому +62

      Muhammad saws war pädophil na und? Atheism isn't a religion by the definition of a religion.

    • @TheDorkShop
      @TheDorkShop 7 років тому +9

      the members of the first pastafarian cult of denver admit that they belong to a cult

    • @fortifiedemo3953
      @fortifiedemo3953 7 років тому +4

      Kikimakashi Fire funny

  • @NjVV-ub7qn
    @NjVV-ub7qn 3 роки тому +96

    So, apparently my family was in a cult before I was born and I heard the story from my sisters. It sounded really horrific and creepy. They would hold prayer sessions at our house and have at turn hundreds of people in the living room. They would all eat and feed each other from 1 big plate and the worst part is the children were forced to be a part of this! My sister didn’t want to be fed by strange people she didn’t know but she was scolded for refusing. It’s honestly really weird.

  • @michaelg4024
    @michaelg4024 3 роки тому +2988

    This video hits really close to home. I grew up in a cult and it has inflicted a lot of psychological problems for me even up until today, years after I left the cult. The cult has robbed me of a chance for having a normal childhood and a proper education. The cult has broken my family apart and leaving me with a strained relationship towards my family. They still spout the cult's propaganda at me and pressures me to rejoin them. I know that they are victims as well, but I don't think I can ever forgive my parents for subjecting me to what I went through. Thank you TED-Ed for making this video and I hope more people could see this video and be educated towards cults and how they work.

    • @SashaTheShibaInu
      @SashaTheShibaInu 3 роки тому +2

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    • @mehmetefe4224
      @mehmetefe4224 3 роки тому +46

      Buddy, you was act so strong. Thats really amazing. keep going like me... like us

    • @sophieaugustine3884
      @sophieaugustine3884 3 роки тому +22

      I am SO sorry you have to deal with that. It cuts deep and absolutely is terrible. Best of luck ♥️

    • @acardinalconsideration824
      @acardinalconsideration824 3 роки тому +25

      I hope you’re doing better nowadays, you’re an incredibly strong person, I can’t even imagine how horrific that must’ve been for you

    • @1221-o7e
      @1221-o7e 3 роки тому +13

      Let me guess, christianity?

  • @dkssudgktpady
    @dkssudgktpady 4 роки тому +1617

    in south korea, there's a cult called shincheonji
    and this is one of their recruitment method
    first, cult member tell to his(or her) co-worker who believe ghost or destiny that he(or she) will have car accident while he driving
    second, another cult member follow that co-worker and make car accident on purpose
    third, co-worker is now wondering how that cult member predict the car accident and ask how he knows that
    fourth, cult member bring his co-worker to the cult church and preach to him
    and finally, that co-worker become new member of cult

    • @izzamind
      @izzamind 4 роки тому +174

      1 member of that cult is responsible for a sudden rise of covid19 within the cluster of the same cult.

    • @franyeliquijada8036
      @franyeliquijada8036 4 роки тому +31

      Dude what

    • @CBRN-115
      @CBRN-115 4 роки тому +132

      @@izzamind yep that is correct. They are basically terrorists because they ACTIVELY spread COVID-19

    • @justapersonontheinternet1515
      @justapersonontheinternet1515 4 роки тому +88

      This is why I always get the logical side of things, I never believe in stuff like that, whoever is reading this, never believe in stuff like this, always come up with a reasonable explanation, even if it is completely wrong.

    • @FancyLines
      @FancyLines 4 роки тому +26

      This is messed up.

  • @Milestonemonger
    @Milestonemonger 5 років тому +2088

    Whether it's a Cult, a club, a team, or ISIS, it all stems from the need to belong.

    • @missmoxie9188
      @missmoxie9188 5 років тому +5

      Yes

    • @missmoxie9188
      @missmoxie9188 5 років тому +12

      Zol z the words share a Latin root

    • @auroraborealis3357
      @auroraborealis3357 5 років тому +3

      100% accurate

    • @harlowitter3060
      @harlowitter3060 5 років тому +18

      True, only cults just want to separate and control people, and most clubs are easier to leave if you want to than ISIS or cults.

    • @tree6835
      @tree6835 5 років тому +20

      In my own experience, that's not actually true. I was in a religious cult, and devotion to what they thought was religious truth drove them (at least, much more significantly than a need to belong). However, I also think many of them used religious dogma to justify and rationalize their actions, instead of fundamentally motivating them, and so what fundamentally drove them may not have been religious devotion, but something else, such as a need to belong -- although, if we are to talk of fundamental human drives, just from my own observations of people in the cult, it felt more like a need for meaning or a need to rebel against the Christianity they were raised in (and have been disappointed with) that drove them to do the horrible things they did.

  • @Tenfoldoncesaid
    @Tenfoldoncesaid Рік тому +32

    Heart goes out to any friends or family of those in a cult. Keep being there for them and pressing in

  • @yoghurtstripper
    @yoghurtstripper 5 років тому +950

    When you said it's like a pyramid scheme, I remembered the time when I was invited to one. The new "members" or at least the ones invited were separated. We were seated at least 2-3 members apart, some of them were in uniform so you would know they were already a member, but some were not. During the speech of the founders, they encourage you to shout something while clapping when the founder said a certain word. Noticeably, people who were not members would not do that but people beside us would so they were trying to get us to do them. They we're trapping us as well. They wouldn' let us leave, people were blocking the doorways and people beside us will try to talk to us like "Oh wow this is such an amazing group" "you have to stay" or "It will get better, you have to be patient". I was still a student at this time and I was very annoyed because I still had school tomorrow and it was getting really late but they kept telling us that school will not do anything for us, that they just take our money and leave us hanging after we graduate. Also that we should join them so we can be successful like them. They would also tell stories about how they stole a bit of their parents money to invest and now they're rich so it's okay to steal because its for the better future, and I was like WHAT? I started to visibly and vocally turn against them because things they said before technically isn't bad but this time they were encouraging us to do crime. I mean speaking up in the hall was very dangerous but I don't think they would do anything in front new recruits. They were trying to get me to talk to them quietly in a corner but when I saw one of the new members getting to leave, I told them I will leave with that person because we live in the same neighborhood and it's not safe for a girl like me to go home alone. They let me leave with that person and oof I'm glad I got out of that safe.

    • @trungduong4040
      @trungduong4040 4 роки тому +127

      Wow, that's such a horrible experience. Glad you found a way to get out.

    • @sasha-jy5wn
      @sasha-jy5wn 4 роки тому +85

      that's terrifying and i cant imagine how some of the recuits who didnt get out feel now

    • @zad_rasera
      @zad_rasera 4 роки тому +51

      That is really creepy.

    • @PoojaYadav-it6os
      @PoojaYadav-it6os 4 роки тому +26

      Was it possible to call the cops?

    • @chickentail7108
      @chickentail7108 4 роки тому +1

      Pooja Yadav 🏄🏿‍♀️

  • @JacksG13
    @JacksG13 4 роки тому +2959

    "Cults cut you off from your family and friends." My dude, I was born 2nd generation in a cult. The only people I knew growing up were members. Running away to leave the cult is exactly what cut me off from everything I had ever known.

    • @ipapergrey6654
      @ipapergrey6654 3 роки тому +345

      I hope you were able to find a better life outside the cult

    • @invurret9533
      @invurret9533 3 роки тому +12

      Same

    • @EmilyOswego
      @EmilyOswego 3 роки тому +229

      True, but even within a cult, they can cut you off by "stationing" you somewhere else away from family just to make you feel isolated and dependent on the people they choose. Still, I'm always blown away by the courage of those who leave. That must have been extremely difficult.

    • @穎娜
      @穎娜 3 роки тому +9

      It must be very uneasy for you.

    • @785jrtasanG
      @785jrtasanG 3 роки тому +6

      Go back and join the lunacy

  • @davidkonevky7372
    @davidkonevky7372 4 роки тому +1264

    Honestly after seeing Midsommar, I got very intrigued at how easily we can be manipulated into cults, it just shows a lot of ourselves and how far people can go for affection and a community to rely on

    • @wavybxby0
      @wavybxby0 4 роки тому +11

      Omg yes!

    • @junebug115
      @junebug115 3 роки тому +12

      same! I got interested because of Midsommar.

    • @gfslight
      @gfslight 3 роки тому +15

      Midsommar gives a good example of how some indoctrination can work. There's a very good video on this from Acolytes of Horror which tells how not only did Dani feel that she won something, but how most people who watch the film believe it to be a happy ending. That is exactly how cults work.
      But most cults are more sneaky that Midsommar, though the factors are there.

    • @rainydaze1313
      @rainydaze1313 3 роки тому +20

      I don’t understand why people feel that way about the film at all. I would have left as soon as the suicide ritual happened, it was horrific, & would never want to be around people like that.

    • @wafercrackerjack880
      @wafercrackerjack880 2 роки тому

      @@rainydaze1313 You also don't understand how a mentally ill person go berserk when in a psycopathic episode and kill other people. You not understanding is a sign of lack of empathy or intellectually capacity. You have no idea how to put yourself in the shoes of another.
      Or you just want to feel superior and say "If I was that person, I'd know better".
      I am inclined to believe you are the second one.
      Try to remember that people are different, we all experience this world differently. Being closed minded does not do you any good.

  • @Estee.Ar.6869
    @Estee.Ar.6869 Рік тому +24

    Thank you TED-Ed for educating the public about cults. I was in the Jehovah's Witnesses cult.

  • @legallyrequired
    @legallyrequired 4 роки тому +1220

    Thank you so much for not writing Jonestown as a mass suicide. I always get so frustrated when people say it was suicide and not a mass murder.

    • @drobertjordan
      @drobertjordan 3 роки тому +29

      Wow, this reply really opens up my eyes to the proper perspective. Thanks.

    • @ck-1649
      @ck-1649 3 роки тому +1

      Hey look I helped us reached 420 on likes

    • @youwhat.
      @youwhat. 2 роки тому +48

      It was both. Many were on board (def enough to qualify as a mass suicide to me) but many were also murdered.

    • @legallyrequired
      @legallyrequired 2 роки тому +5

      @@youwhat. I fully think it was a mass murder. He manipulated these people into ending their lives by telling them people were coming to kill them. Mothers fed their babies poison out of syringes forced down their throats. In the audio recording of the murder you can hear the cries of children slowly stop, the protests of family members seize to a halt as dogs stop barking and the only thing left is the sound of an empty forest and a single gunshot. Its horrible, and its not suicide.

    • @youwhat.
      @youwhat. 2 роки тому +17

      @@legallyrequired there were definitely those murdered but also those who believed it. People for centuries have committed suicide for ideologies and fanatical beliefs, this is no different just because it's recent. I know it probably hurts to think about but some people really did kill themselves thinking it was for the best. I'm not saying most but a substantial amount.

  • @YouGotDucked
    @YouGotDucked 5 років тому +5230

    "the law can stop dangerous cults"
    also the law: *accepts bribes to leave cults open*

    • @a.person1805
      @a.person1805 5 років тому +215

      Hey, it said can. Not will.
      Now gimme _money_.

    • @sisatici155
      @sisatici155 4 роки тому +54

      I don't think accepting bribe is legal

    • @SpinningTurtle66
      @SpinningTurtle66 4 роки тому +32

      sisatici No scheiße

    • @ekulgar
      @ekulgar 4 роки тому +25

      @Aika Papa uhh no?

    • @grantno308
      @grantno308 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/LDPjq0bVvLg-CsRJAwnbgg.html

  • @vivienyeung8043
    @vivienyeung8043 4 роки тому +754

    Unfortunately, abusive relationships work in similar ways too. Except the beliefs arent' reinforced by multiple people, which makes you question whether you are sane or not.

    • @dougvanwickler4142
      @dougvanwickler4142 4 роки тому +47

      Great comment. Narcissistic personalities are very toxic to relationships, and narcissism would appear to be a huge component behind cult leadership

    • @kayakat1869
      @kayakat1869 4 роки тому +5

      Yes! My friend was in one, and it hit many points on the BITE model.

    • @blauwbeer556
      @blauwbeer556 4 роки тому +3

      this comment makes me think that society it self is a giant cult and then i thought that of a scene where a person just says ¨i am not crazy, you are crazy¨ which made me smile :)
      wait where was i? oh yeah society....yeah it is not cult but thank you for making me smile.

    • @stephenkaylor4311
      @stephenkaylor4311 4 роки тому +2

      First - a controlled environment, then beliefs!

    • @stephenkaylor4311
      @stephenkaylor4311 4 роки тому

      @o. t. Rap Music?

  • @dyannatodd2270
    @dyannatodd2270 3 роки тому +38

    For such a serious topic, the art style in this one is beautiful!

  • @LegoEngineer003
    @LegoEngineer003 4 роки тому +4170

    “We could make a religion out of this”
    -bill wurtz

    • @longliveskydney
      @longliveskydney 4 роки тому +193

      "no, don't"

    • @thefricking5407
      @thefricking5407 4 роки тому +59

      Text below me will become a religion

    • @勝-r1t
      @勝-r1t 4 роки тому +139

      *You only eat cheese and drink orange juice*

    • @holyinquisition8854
      @holyinquisition8854 4 роки тому +11

      i kinda hate this meme, tbh. I know it's a joke but you can start great disaster with a joke.

    • @AlexGameOver_13
      @AlexGameOver_13 4 роки тому +59

      @@勝-r1t GOD HAS SPOKEN TO THIS PERSON

  • @thebohemianserb2114
    @thebohemianserb2114 4 роки тому +798

    I grew up in a cult. It is difficult to risk that kind of stability and friendship that only cults its seems can achieve for freedom of thought and conscience. When I left I never expected to have really good friends again and I was extremely lonely. The normal culture is less willing to make instant and reliable friends, that's true, but if you're there don't give up.

    • @taidepods
      @taidepods 4 роки тому +22

      I hope you're ok now!!

    • @stephenkaylor4311
      @stephenkaylor4311 4 роки тому +5

      Aesthetic training in Laughter Yoga classes or group rehearsals with the Suzuki School of Violin - are good ways to both improve yourself and bond with others!

    • @abanoubnakhla1453
      @abanoubnakhla1453 3 роки тому +5

      What was the cults name?

    • @Malaima
      @Malaima 3 роки тому +2

      exactly. so relate. can we private message?

    • @genie1699
      @genie1699 3 роки тому +1

      I feel the same exact way. :(

  • @popcorncolonel726
    @popcorncolonel726 4 роки тому +5726

    My mom: You should join a club! It’s a great way to make friends!
    Me:

    • @Yorick257
      @Yorick257 4 роки тому +115

      Sounds like a cult!

    • @kl1934
      @kl1934 4 роки тому +109

      It's an early access cult!

    • @sacraficioyee2565
      @sacraficioyee2565 4 роки тому +45

      Thats what i was thinking when my mom told me to go to drinking rehabilitation

    • @HaHa-gg9dl
      @HaHa-gg9dl 4 роки тому +67

      @@sacraficioyee2565 Yo, if you're an alcoholic you should actually attempt to stop yo!

    • @sacraficioyee2565
      @sacraficioyee2565 4 роки тому +32

      @@HaHa-gg9dl nah just makin a joke in poor taste (:

  • @LegoLordPro
    @LegoLordPro Рік тому +43

    This surprisingly applies very well with today's internet influencers as well. Not all of them, but most tend to have this type of cult habit to them. Have any of you noticed this?

  • @PaperParade
    @PaperParade 5 років тому +478

    I just wanna come back to this video and give a big thank you--it helped me to realize that I had been in a cult after all and was major in helping me get closure and understanding from the abuse I went through.

  • @GizmoMaltese
    @GizmoMaltese 5 років тому +486

    I was in a cult for a few years. I was lonely and withdrawn. The cult helped me to socialize and genuinely helped to improve my life. But it wanted everything. All of my time, my money and wanted to choose who I marry. When I saw how they arranged marriages of some members I knew I had to leave. It was hard leaving. So many good people there.

    • @rolandjosef7961
      @rolandjosef7961 5 років тому +1

      Were you in a Moonies Church?

    • @chrisjamuelroman308
      @chrisjamuelroman308 4 роки тому +4

      I guess thats an INC you’re referring to? does it? 🤔

    • @coldsphagett8910
      @coldsphagett8910 4 роки тому +4

      @@chrisjamuelroman308 not really. Im born as an inc and it never made us feel like a cult and we dont really have those extremist ideals that tells us everything that we do. Tho i cant say for some of the old geezers lol

    • @franyeliquijada8036
      @franyeliquijada8036 4 роки тому +3

      This is exactly what is happening to me right now, I'm so happy I found the way out

    • @safahasan486
      @safahasan486 4 роки тому +5

      Aszwarte ziel Muslim countries? Not really, just countries that have a lot of poverty or just very specific ideals of how marriage should be. Arranged marriages as a blanket term is your parents (or religious authority, extended family, community etc.) finding a bunch of people who you could marry and then you choose who you like best. Yes, sometimes some people don’t have a choice and are forced maybe at a young age but those are usually in poor countries where people live shorter lives and so have to get married earlier. Arranged marriages aren’t religious centric but are common in lots of cultures. My parents were an arranged marriage actually and they both had a choice it’s just the group that they chose from was chosen by their parents.

  • @claramatt13
    @claramatt13 3 роки тому +427

    I had a friend who was part of a religious cult. I saw what that did to him, how it shaped his life, his beliefs, and his behaviour. It was terrible watching him and his family in this controlled and isolated life. I wanted him to be happy, something that I knew he couldn’t do. Thank you Ted Ed, for bringing awareness of the terrible things that cults can do.

    • @emilyapricot1313
      @emilyapricot1313 2 роки тому +16

      It’s hard to know what to do when you see a friend or family member going down this path. My experience teaches me you can’t argue with someone who is convinced. I guess all you can really do is keep a safe distance and be there for them if they want out.

    • @agathalorenzo4224
      @agathalorenzo4224 2 роки тому

      mega church (evangelical) is the biggest cult in usa

    • @JESUSISLORD.........
      @JESUSISLORD......... Рік тому

      Unlike cults, where they ask to pay money.. something in return; to give you something back.. no, the bible is free. Free for anybody, search up in UA-cam, you can download it, it's for free.. why? Because of love.. God bless.

    • @JESUSISLORD.........
      @JESUSISLORD......... Рік тому

      This cult thingy, is the exact reason that there are denominations..

  • @jayneking8340
    @jayneking8340 Рік тому +14

    I HIGHLY recommend showing this simple video to your family and church's youth group.

    • @thwguywithwisdom4028
      @thwguywithwisdom4028 5 місяців тому +1

      Yes, but they wouldn't even know, they are in a cult too

    • @jayneking8340
      @jayneking8340 5 місяців тому

      @@thwguywithwisdom4028 Perhaps this video and other information like it could help them awaken.

  • @občutljiva
    @občutljiva 4 роки тому +3925

    "they drank the cool-aid" is such an interesting phrase.

  • @yash.0119
    @yash.0119 4 роки тому +406

    The psychology behind this is fascinating. I can see parallels between being surrounded by religion and being part of a cult as a child. Both engulf the child in an ideology that makes it very hard for them to question it - which eventually leads to psychological stunting as stated in the video.

    • @calebmurray4438
      @calebmurray4438 4 роки тому +36

      I don’t know about other religions but as a born and raised Christian we are encouraged to be inquisitive and pastors often take questions from both adults and youth and do sermons on them.

    • @GlowingAmberRaiinYTT
      @GlowingAmberRaiinYTT 3 роки тому +2

      @@calebmurray4438 same with my cousin. Me? I don’t have a religion.

    • @izehsy6715
      @izehsy6715 3 роки тому +18

      Most religions require the independent investigation of truth. An amazing example of this is the Baha'i religion where the independent investigation of truth is one of the 12 fundamentals of the religion.

    • @whathappenswhenyouclosethe6084
      @whathappenswhenyouclosethe6084 3 роки тому +18

      I am a muslim borned kid, I definetely can agree to your statement.

    • @salmahasgar6928
      @salmahasgar6928 2 роки тому +13

      @@whathappenswhenyouclosethe6084 I was also born to Muslims. This video reminded me a lot of my childhood and early Islam.

  • @thatonesound2211
    @thatonesound2211 5 років тому +188

    "I’ve been involved in a number of cults both as a leader and a follower. You have more fun as a follower but you make more money as a leader." Creed bratton

    • @dariadaria9255
      @dariadaria9255 4 роки тому +1

      Haha

    • @GalahadFranco
      @GalahadFranco 4 роки тому

      I was looking for this comment. Thank you!

    • @izzamind
      @izzamind 4 роки тому

      How to bookmark this comment?

    • @sahidcm
      @sahidcm 4 роки тому

      @@izzamind take a screenshot

  • @alkizarthewise77
    @alkizarthewise77 3 роки тому +25

    Excellent video - it is missing musicians and politicians in their ability to coerce and persuade cult like followers. This is is huge right now and should certainly be added to the content of this excellent expose. Keep up the great work - Cheers~

  • @TheMormonInformant
    @TheMormonInformant 7 років тому +1420

    I've been involved in a number of cults, both as a leader and a follower. You have more fun as a follower, but you make more money as a leader.
    -Creed Bratton

    • @FalconFastest123
      @FalconFastest123 7 років тому +19

      I hope you aren't calling Mormons a cult, Mormon Informant. The leaders make ZERO money. Numerous audits from within and without the church confirm that.

    • @wenigmehl
      @wenigmehl 7 років тому +53

      +Lucas Johnson Who gives a shite?

    • @lh2446
      @lh2446 7 років тому +28

      Lucas Johnson you do know that the 12 do get payed from the church right?

    • @nelsonnoname001
      @nelsonnoname001 7 років тому +55

      Mormons - biggest mainstream cult

    • @TheMormonInformant
      @TheMormonInformant 7 років тому +54

      Lucas, the leadership receives a "base living allowance" of $120,000, plus heath care benefits, free cars, and book royalties. www.sltrib.com/lifestyle/faith/4800350-155/how-much-do-top-mormon-leaders

  • @A_Muzik
    @A_Muzik 4 роки тому +269

    I was in a pseudo-Buddhist cult for four years. The practice itself was Mahayana Buddhist, howbeit the cult was more about the leader than Buddhism. Along with the empty promises that were not realized when I gave of time and money, the heavy focus on the leader was just too much for me. I left and I feel sorry for anyone who was born into the cult.

  • @JenniferElliott1
    @JenniferElliott1 7 років тому +73

    At 5:50 "Believing in something should not come at the cost of your family and friends and if someone tell you to sacrifice your relationships or morality for the greater good. They're mostly likely exploiting you for their own." I like that comment!
    Very informative video! Thank you! :)

    • @saber-seathearn82
      @saber-seathearn82 5 років тому +1

      Jenny Snaps one of the best quotes I have here in a while

  • @iheartjongseong
    @iheartjongseong 2 роки тому +56

    Thank you for clarifying that not all religious people are cults. 😭💞

    • @bjornconchobar7546
      @bjornconchobar7546 Рік тому +2

      Same thing.. just different labels

    • @Caroleonus
      @Caroleonus Рік тому +9

      @@bjornconchobar7546 not at all. Non-cultish religious movements don't involve ostracising you from family and friends and making your entire identity revolve around it, and also encourage individual believers to think for themselves, come to their own conclusions and find their own place in the belief system - and will have no qualms about letting you leave.

    • @KyleGD
      @KyleGD Рік тому

      very true. i had time to think whether being a catholic or completely atheist, nonetheless it was going to be my OWN CHOICE, nobody ever gave me those to choose but me.@@Caroleonus

    • @morbillionaire2785
      @morbillionaire2785 Рік тому +2

      @@Caroleonus and cultish religion dont encourage thier followers to question thier because of cognitive dissonace
      Cultish people blindly follow thier faith even if it is bad for the progressive society

  • @melissacooper4282
    @melissacooper4282 6 років тому +584

    My father never avoids the Jehovah's Witnesses when they come. He points out something that's obviously not what they believe but it's in the bible. The result is that they leave in disgust and never come back.

  • @juanbautistabadano3847
    @juanbautistabadano3847 4 роки тому +168

    I felt so identified. Wasted a whole year of my life devoting myself to a guru called “Mooji”, which led me to distancing myself from family and friends. I was lucky to have people who cared about me to drag me out from that hole.

    • @HetThakkar809
      @HetThakkar809 4 роки тому +15

      Glad you found your way out

    • @SoSo-ww8wi
      @SoSo-ww8wi 4 роки тому

      No Now, Mooji isn't like that.

    • @SoSo-ww8wi
      @SoSo-ww8wi 4 роки тому

      @s 97 I listen to him and don't feel like that....... I'm say he either misinterpreted everything or he is punishing himself.

    • @aienne80yearsago46
      @aienne80yearsago46 4 роки тому +13

      I'm glad that you're out.

    • @jasminen6680
      @jasminen6680 4 роки тому +3

      Oh Dang!! I liked what I heard from him. I stumbled upon him listening to Dandapani and couldn't find the video again because I didn't know his name. I just searched Mooji for Reference to what you were talking about and I am SHOCKED! I had no idea.

  • @dragon67849
    @dragon67849 4 роки тому +202

    This is so accurate that it actually physically hurts me. Because literally everyone around me is so blind to see it and I can't help them see it.

    • @tagalaseimonlorenzom.11hum79
      @tagalaseimonlorenzom.11hum79 3 роки тому +1

      Same thoughts here

    • @nomadsteve5297
      @nomadsteve5297 3 роки тому +3

      But it may be you that’s wrong and everyone around you are correct 🤔

    • @dragon67849
      @dragon67849 3 роки тому +28

      @@nomadsteve5297 perhaps but that would only be the case if they were unable to verify the claim instead of unwilling. Most of the time it's the latter. Otherwise you'd have a point.

    • @megan7258
      @megan7258 3 роки тому

      they think IM crazy

    • @dragon67849
      @dragon67849 3 роки тому +4

      @@dymaxion3988 It's insulting to think I don't know that already you know? I get you're trying to help. But don't. Not all help is wanted and some certainly not needed. This falls in both categories if you're curious

  • @PoseidonXIII
    @PoseidonXIII 2 роки тому +8

    In their own twisted way cults really show the power of social and spiritual connections. That we all deeply desire to be loved, connect with others, and be given a purpose. These desires drive so many aspects of our lives that it makes sense why one could exploit them for personal gain.

    • @Ψυχήμίασμα
      @Ψυχήμίασμα 2 роки тому +1

      Which is why I could never be part of a cult. I have zero desire to be loved (by random strangers) or to connect with other humans, lol. As an strong INTJ, if I get invited to a party, I'd be dismantling everyone's BS in my outside voice after I'd been there for about 5 minutes, let alone a cult. I'm only still at my company because they pay me. Couldn't be happier since COVID forced everyone to work remote. It's like heaven. All the time, all by myself. I mean there are the spouse and kids, and those are enough of a handful....and they don't bug me when I'm in my batcave.

  • @D20000
    @D20000 4 роки тому +327

    cults are going to be a big problem in the future with people becoming more and more isolated & lonely.

    • @hiltonm.cardoso340
      @hiltonm.cardoso340 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly what I think

    • @D20000
      @D20000 3 роки тому +17

      Teachers allready have a hardjob but they should be thaught to observe and notice signs of isolation & loneliness so help can be provided at a time before something drastic happens. Seems like a good idea to me to prevent instead of cure. In my opinion it should be presented as if it's the choice of the person/student x (x=sexual identitity) what's the best thing to do. I don't know if this is ethical..

    • @ravenlake9873
      @ravenlake9873 3 роки тому

      They already are. I joined a cult online.

    • @soslothful
      @soslothful 3 роки тому

      Why do you think people more isolated and lonely?

    • @ravenlake9873
      @ravenlake9873 3 роки тому +8

      @@soslothful It's country dependent but in the US at least it's proven fact. Study after study shows less community participation, more isolation, etc. It's partly because of job trends forcing people to work longer and longer hours and relocate more often, making it harder to set down roots-- in decades past you'd have multiple generations in the same area, that's much less true now. Add to that the breakdown of institutions like churches, voluntary associations like Rotary, and the rise of the internet. People are moving more, going out less, and most of the ways our ancestors connected are just increasingly less likely to be present or meaningful, especially to younger people. Trend lines have been moving in this direction for a while, unfortunately, and show no signs of abating. (Source: I've been employed writing scientific abstracts for about 20 years. I get a good look at broad trends like this through my work. It's a good rabbit hole, if you want to follow it w/google. Very sobering.)

  • @AlexBallMusic
    @AlexBallMusic 7 років тому +251

    I joined the Blue Öyster Cult.
    I struggled not to fear the reaper, but kept quiet to avoid being rebuked. In the end, after many failed attempts to be like the wind and the sun and the rain, I left that Cult behind.

    • @niklashansen5432
      @niklashansen5432 7 років тому +17

      You failed because your cowbell belief was weak! "And I sayeth unto thee, more cowbell. The bell-ends shall inherit the world."

    • @AlexBallMusic
      @AlexBallMusic 7 років тому +19

      They said "come forth and receive eternal life". But I came fifth and only got a George Foreman grill.

    • @GodsPrettiestPrincess
      @GodsPrettiestPrincess 7 років тому +8

      What...

    • @AlexBallMusic
      @AlexBallMusic 7 років тому +2

      Gamer With Many Names Search Blue Oyster Cult - The Reaper.

    • @connorblack99
      @connorblack99 7 років тому

      👏👏👏

  • @alexanderjakubsen2198
    @alexanderjakubsen2198 6 років тому +579

    "It was Flavor Aid, dammit!" Should be the Kool-Aid marketing slogan.

  • @duthebestlion
    @duthebestlion 2 роки тому +7

    This channel is excellent as it covers a wide range of valuable topics. I did not expect to see this topic here. I had seen a cult on campus before. He fits in many criteria described in the video. It is better to be alone than be manipulated. If we don´t feel comfortable, something should be wrong. Trust our gut feeling and leave ASAP.

  • @hw5062
    @hw5062 4 роки тому +2896

    I love how nobody talks about how jehovah witnesses is a cult/pyramid scheme

  • @kartofun7672
    @kartofun7672 5 років тому +482

    “When somebody tells you you to sacrifice your relationships for the greater good” *Tau empire intensifies*

    • @heliosorion2063
      @heliosorion2063 5 років тому +22

      /\
      |
      |
      Yes Commisar,This Heresy Right here..

    • @kartofun7672
      @kartofun7672 5 років тому +5

      Helios Orion fools! Accept the greater good!

    • @heliosorion2063
      @heliosorion2063 5 років тому +6

      @@kartofun7672
      Me on the Radio*
      yes copy that...so..uhh...wait..did you say exterminatus?

    • @kartofun7672
      @kartofun7672 5 років тому +2

      Helios Orion which army are you playing? (I am playing IG and have one scrapbuilt ork buggy😆)

    • @Historywithapharoah
      @Historywithapharoah 5 років тому +1

      So if you're friends with a psychopath?

  • @dreamscapeai7
    @dreamscapeai7 7 років тому +814

    I just love the animation.

    • @fatherhoxton674
      @fatherhoxton674 7 років тому +49

      A lot of the comments are talking about cults someone is appreciating the animation
      Thanks for the likes

    • @marleymcintyre1230
      @marleymcintyre1230 7 років тому +10

      I love that this is the only thing you mention 😂😂

  • @johngalt5166
    @johngalt5166 Рік тому +12

    As a very religious man (who is currently in seminary) my fiancé (then girlfriend) was approached by cult recruiters and went to “Bible Studies” with them for a while, before she was “granted” membership me and her figured out something was amiss.
    The primary difference between a genuine Protestant denomination and a cult is their structure, a normal Christian denomination usually has a pastor or congregation/deacons and deaconesses running the group, where a cult usually has a top down structure wherein a charismatic leader instructs members as to exactly how to act.
    I should also add that a genuine church usually wont try to infiltrate your personal life and break you off from reality, and hopefully instead would inspire a wholistic Christian lifestyle and encourage community bonding between both you and your community as well as the Church community.

  • @rashad862
    @rashad862 7 років тому +108

    "Believing in something should not come at the cost of your family and friends, and if someone tells you to sacrifice your relationships or morality for the greater good, they're most likely exploiting you for their own."

    • @anthonybowman3423
      @anthonybowman3423 6 років тому +3

      That's why, if your friends and family all believe you should be part of a cult, you should. Believing you should leave shouldn't come at the cost of family and friends. If other people are telling you that the morality you've developed growing up in that cult is something you should sacrifice to be part of society, tell them to go eat a lemon. Isn't it weird how words that SEEM helpful often don't mean anything and can actually make things worse? Weird.

    • @thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527
      @thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527 6 років тому +1

      Anthony Bowman That's because you took them out of context. If you actually watch the video and listen to those words in conjunction with the animation, it becomes clear that they're saying not to join cults because they encourage social separation and immorality.

    • @sonofhibbs4425
      @sonofhibbs4425 6 років тому

      The little red haired girl from across the street... No, actually Anthony was not taking it out of context, but something called flipping, which is to show how perception is always different from another view. That's not taking it out of context. And he's absolutely right to do it, because I think society will find out in a few years, just how much this is used and how it polarizes groups, to fight against each other- its still a type of cult force no matter who does it!!
      Same with this concept of "extremism"... it can't really be defined, just like 'beauty' ... its in the eye of the beholder. The whole concept of freedom of religion can also be the same as freedom from religion.

  • @mathapelongwepe2652
    @mathapelongwepe2652 4 роки тому +165

    UA-cam seriously needs a mentioning feature so we can tag people who need to see this

  • @제규형
    @제규형 3 роки тому +101

    The weirdest part of a cult is how they say they aren't really a cult. Even if every evidence points out to it. It's like how the alcoholics and drug addicts they aren't addicted to the stuff they do. Thanks for such an interesting video and hope to see more.

  • @salmanisrar3772
    @salmanisrar3772 2 роки тому +5

    Steven Hassan's BITE model to judge the cult-ality of a group is a really useful tool.

  • @mayleenamffoh7774
    @mayleenamffoh7774 4 роки тому +246

    Having my daughter who’s in grade 6 watch this as part of her home schooling. 👍🏼 Thank You!

    • @Chamelionroses
      @Chamelionroses 4 роки тому +2

      I have kids too and try to show all sorts of things to discuss. I showed about Myles Power MMS bleach conartist cure all stuff to my kid in 5th grade. However I hope to show and discuss more in the summer.

    • @ixlnxs
      @ixlnxs 3 роки тому +24

      Home schooling? That sounds cultish...

    • @alexandraboenig7205
      @alexandraboenig7205 3 роки тому +37

      @@ixlnxs I'm homeschooled and I absolutely agree 100%. My parents won't even let me go to public school and I've asked for years. They're also religious, I'm athiest and they think I'm just doing that to be against them

    • @jonathanrichardson7969
      @jonathanrichardson7969 3 роки тому +2

      Why are you homeschooling her? Is it to protect her from, as the video says 'the world'?

    • @split5887
      @split5887 3 роки тому +5

      @@jonathanrichardson7969 covid bruh

  • @dileepkumar-td6xv
    @dileepkumar-td6xv 3 роки тому +714

    Being in india i can very well relate to this. Cult leaders are so famous here-people like sadhguru and baba ramdev have millions of followers . I hope one day my people regain their common sense !!

    • @ungaaatioo2359
      @ungaaatioo2359 3 роки тому +23

      Wait sadhuguru has now a cult?

    • @made2trick
      @made2trick 3 роки тому +41

      @@ungaaatioo2359 apparently anything you yourself aren't subscribed to is a cult? What a joke

    • @ungaaatioo2359
      @ungaaatioo2359 3 роки тому +23

      @@made2trick i just asked. I dont watch him daily that's why. No need to snap. I am just curious

    • @made2trick
      @made2trick 3 роки тому +14

      @@ungaaatioo2359 haha i replied it to you instead of the other guy. i was defending you

    • @swdrre-upload5423
      @swdrre-upload5423 3 роки тому +64

      How is someone like sadhguru who encourage skeptical thinking and have been interviewed by many major institution and famous scientist being a cult leaders? I guess you're one of Joe catholic's friends

  • @sharvahalde1264
    @sharvahalde1264 5 років тому +144

    Ted ed always manages to answer the most subconscious questions perfectly....☺️

  • @grifter84
    @grifter84 3 роки тому +11

    It really depresses me when I think about how much nearly all cults follow the same patterns. Read about enough of them and the stories start becoming maddeningly predictable. The playbook is so well established, you don't have to be particularly clever or creative to become a cult leader. All it requires is that you have no conscience.

  • @sapster3546
    @sapster3546 4 роки тому +364

    "You get fun as a follower. But make more money as a leader"
    - Creed The office

    • @hamzac.4555
      @hamzac.4555 3 роки тому +3

      thank you for quoting creed hahaha

    • @angrynoodletwentyfive6463
      @angrynoodletwentyfive6463 3 роки тому

      kinda suggests he wasn't actually part of a cult and thought it was more of a game XD

  • @Snakeyes244
    @Snakeyes244 7 років тому +770

    The moral: Think for yourself

    • @andreaspoppe3906
      @andreaspoppe3906 6 років тому +14

      Snakeyes244 but thats so harddd

    • @ericaceae
      @ericaceae 6 років тому +1

      that’s what Daria Morgendorffer’s all for

    • @wolfizee6516
      @wolfizee6516 6 років тому

      me-e-e-e-eh

    • @DaL33T5
      @DaL33T5 6 років тому +34

      And most importantly, NEVER assume you can't be fooled.

    • @lohitjagarapu9351
      @lohitjagarapu9351 6 років тому

      RIP Religion (jk y'all)

  • @Matt10670
    @Matt10670 4 роки тому +501

    Religion: Here are the steps for salvation/enlightenment/happiness. The rules are all written down and we all have to follow them from the leader down to new members.
    Cult: I, the Great Leader, will tell you each step as you give more money and work for me. Also, I change the rules constantly and I don't have to follow them because I said so, but if you give me enough money I will make an exception for you.

    • @Geniusignotus
      @Geniusignotus 4 роки тому +17

      Potato potaato

    • @themorningping9075
      @themorningping9075 4 роки тому +23

      potato
      Poisonous potato

    • @Geniusignotus
      @Geniusignotus 4 роки тому +10

      @@themorningping9075 in this case both are poisonous

    • @themorningping9075
      @themorningping9075 4 роки тому +12

      Unknown Genius I’m just going to stop before this evolves into a flame war

    • @themorningping9075
      @themorningping9075 4 роки тому +11

      Unknown Genius Have a nice day calling religion poison

  • @disco_depression
    @disco_depression 3 роки тому +30

    As someone who found out I was being recruited into a cult this hits hard. Imagining all the things I could've ended up as.

  • @vnleao
    @vnleao 7 років тому +658

    For all of you folks throwing around the label "cult" to whichever organization or culture you don't agree with (like "religion is a cult!") I beg of you to realize an actual cult is so much worse. The cult-like system is seen in MANY PLACES because narcissistic individuals are MANY PLACES, but that doesn't mean each and every place actually crosses the threshold and qualifies as a true cult. Just because you don't agree with stereotypes of certain groups doesn't mean the reality fits your assumptions. I strongly encourage you, as someone who HAS survived a cult, to look into what a true cult actually entails before you throw around that term so lightly. Cult survivors like myself struggle to be taken seriously because people use the term so flippantly and struggle to believe how horrible it actually can be unless it involves something "tangible" like suicide, murder, sexual abuse, etc. So please, take it seriously, or you yourself are just drinking the koolaid of misinformation and comfortable ignorance.

    • @hafsaxo0604
      @hafsaxo0604 7 років тому +24

      PreposterousWorld thank you!

    • @thefabulouskitten7204
      @thefabulouskitten7204 7 років тому +53

      Finally someone in the comment section with a brain for once

    • @e.d.e.8137
      @e.d.e.8137 7 років тому +21

      Preposterous-Great post and I am glad you are out, you are a survivor.

    • @cringycontent5052
      @cringycontent5052 7 років тому +30

      PreposterousWorld finally, someone who isnt some wannabe edgy kid

    • @ainamaree
      @ainamaree 7 років тому +1

      thank you!

  • @doodernaut
    @doodernaut 4 роки тому +211

    wish i could have the first 22 years of my life back.

  • @HolyKoolaid
    @HolyKoolaid 7 років тому +2399

    DON'T DRINK THE KOOLAID!!! Never drink the Koolaid!

    • @jayyyzeee6409
      @jayyyzeee6409 7 років тому +64

      OHHH....YEAHHH! I MEAN OHHH...NOOOO!!

    • @xDmankilla113x
      @xDmankilla113x 7 років тому +36

      Holy Koolaid but it was flavor-aid which is basically generic Koolaid lolxD

    • @jamespereira8077
      @jamespereira8077 7 років тому +4

      Holy Koolaid Haha

    • @nandinhocunha440
      @nandinhocunha440 7 років тому +6

      Holy Koolaid can the black people drink it?

    • @jon87386
      @jon87386 7 років тому +3

      Better dump my stock in koolaid before it goes under...

  • @wanderingIvy67
    @wanderingIvy67 8 місяців тому +2

    Im in the long process of deprogramming from so called Christianity. Its been a long road but it's wonderful to awaken to real truth.

  • @teagannam
    @teagannam 5 років тому +2837

    Got a tiktok ad before the vid
    *whispers: tiktok is a cult*

  • @durpddurke4633
    @durpddurke4633 7 років тому +2245

    This is exactly how I joined a fandom

  • @DamzOrDMAKK
    @DamzOrDMAKK 4 роки тому +30

    Basically my experience at First Love "Church" . So grateful I woke up. If you needed a sign this is it friend.

    • @JonKrueger
      @JonKrueger 4 роки тому +1

      Now that you "woke up" how does the world look different?

  • @daisydaisy28
    @daisydaisy28 Рік тому +7

    my friend is in cult and seeing how it affacts her life is the most heart breaking feeling. but i can't do anything because they are a well known "church" in korea so the worst thing to do is argue against them. i hope there is miracle..

  • @kixotical6992
    @kixotical6992 5 років тому +1226

    Them: they drank the kool-aid
    Me: *_finally gets that camp camp reference_*

    • @tworfling
      @tworfling 5 років тому +14

      SAME

    • @cinnabard955
      @cinnabard955 4 роки тому +11

      Me: finally gets the John Cozart reference

    • @chocolatechip1806
      @chocolatechip1806 4 роки тому +2

      kixotical LEGIT THO

    • @calscal
      @calscal 4 роки тому +3

      God that brought me back-

    • @wonderface7131
      @wonderface7131 4 роки тому +2

      I just finished watched watching that lmao

  • @plolsteg7705
    @plolsteg7705 5 років тому +3936

    “Some cults are political”
    Stalin: *coughs in the background*

    • @dankmemelord629
      @dankmemelord629 5 років тому +61

      That's both the alt-left and alt-right lol

    • @meowtherainbowx4163
      @meowtherainbowx4163 5 років тому +106

      Authoritarianism in general becomes very cult-like. In fact, politics is pretty cult-like in general when it comes to each party or each politician’s most die-hard fans. There are levels to it, though, and only in totalitarian dictatorships does it become as controlling as a stereotypical cult.

    • @Steveleecomedy
      @Steveleecomedy 5 років тому +53

      Donald Trump...

    • @jamesisaac7684
      @jamesisaac7684 5 років тому +45

      Can Trump supporter be considered a cult?

    • @DrWhom
      @DrWhom 5 років тому +9

      Brexit.

  • @hatemkamel6039
    @hatemkamel6039 4 роки тому +19

    A good group of people is one that encourages you to branch out and learn about the world around you, not isolate you. Simple way to know if you are in a toxic relationship/group

  • @ItsTantor
    @ItsTantor 2 роки тому +4

    Crazy how much of this can be attributed to a fandom 😮

  • @tree6835
    @tree6835 5 років тому +11

    I was in a cult for a year, and I have to say, the part about "cognitive dissonance" and how it stunts you psychologically was spot on. It was by articulating the truth that I eventually found the strength to leave. Also, the part about how cognitive dissonance denies children normal developmental milestones breaks my heart, as there were some children in the cult I was in, and I can't imagine how difficult it will be for them when they grow up. It's either continue living with an ideology that destroys them psychologically, or get rejected by their family, friends, and literally everyone they knew growing up. Talk about a rock and a hard place.

  • @astrid1870
    @astrid1870 7 років тому +1680

    This whole video is basically about Scientology without using the word Scientology

    • @danielmethner6847
      @danielmethner6847 7 років тому +167

      Or jehovahs witnesses ... or other cults

    • @PrinceJJGoated
      @PrinceJJGoated 7 років тому +142

      Daniel Methner or basically every faith-based religion

    • @LiatKolink
      @LiatKolink 7 років тому +37

      Everything is batman I thought about Trump supporters, instead.

    • @sarcastic8965
      @sarcastic8965 7 років тому +3

      I thought it was about Haruhiism

    • @NoU-jc4kq
      @NoU-jc4kq 7 років тому +1

      Everything is batman Yay Logic

  • @dennistay3173
    @dennistay3173 3 роки тому +48

    Considering what has been happening for the past few years, even before Covid-19, this video is more relevant than ever.

    • @minispirit
      @minispirit 3 роки тому +4

      We know what you are talking about.

    • @KompadoodleLEL
      @KompadoodleLEL 3 роки тому

      @@minispirit i dont

    • @tonymp
      @tonymp 3 роки тому

      @@KompadoodleLEL The modern GOP

  • @Charlotte_Sloss
    @Charlotte_Sloss 10 місяців тому +4

    I’m autistic and have a special interest in cults, resulting in my friends and I investigate a nearby, dangerous like all other cults, and scary cult in our town. We are definitely in danger and starting to regret doing this but I can back this video up 100%. We have started taken extreme precautions but one of my friends and I are in more danger than the rest. That’s just a fragment of our story, stay safe and take precautions.

    • @Arbor-k1n
      @Arbor-k1n 4 місяці тому

      Stay safe

    • @ElanieBellanieArt
      @ElanieBellanieArt 2 місяці тому

      be careful

    • @thewiggler2327
      @thewiggler2327 2 місяці тому

      This is late, but if it is possible in any way - back out. A special interest isn't worth endangering yourself for. I know how important special interests are - I'm autistic - , but I also grew up in a cult and I can promise this isn't worth it.

  • @sleepparalysiscat7239
    @sleepparalysiscat7239 5 років тому +350

    0:50 “Not just the men, but the women and children too!”
    Anakin Skywalker

    • @shady8045
      @shady8045 5 років тому

      Agustin Jr Madrigal lol

    • @jojodaniels6131
      @jojodaniels6131 5 років тому +4

      only the elite will get it

    • @Funkoh
      @Funkoh 5 років тому

      Were losing anakin!

  • @sgracesful
    @sgracesful 7 років тому +106

    I was raised in very cultlike conditions. Christian Fundamentalism may not be a cult with one current "leader", but it's devotion to the Bible as the ultimate authority (and pastors' and teachers' interpretations of the Scripture) made it extremely reminiscent of a cult. Earlier this month I realised that I have been free for a year. Never before in my life have I experienced real joy and happiness and freedom. Stay cult free, friends.

    • @ZombieChimpanzee
      @ZombieChimpanzee 6 років тому +13

      I think any religion can be taken to cult level severity. the concept of religion edges pretty close in some ways to cultism.

    • @pablo9234
      @pablo9234 6 років тому +2

      carl depends of how represive he religion is

    • @semiautothanoscar9612
      @semiautothanoscar9612 6 років тому

      Jesus Cant Exploit Because You Know. He's Dead or to some Extent Doesnt exist

    • @bvgaboo3572
      @bvgaboo3572 6 років тому

      Same here. Mormonism.

    • @bvgaboo3572
      @bvgaboo3572 6 років тому

      @Friend of Jesus777 20 it is. cesletter.org breaks it down with facts.

  • @Acidfrog475
    @Acidfrog475 4 роки тому +107

    No matter how many times I hear the story of Jonestown, I always get chills. It and Heaven's gate are terrifying examples of what can happen to you if you get trapped in a cult.

    • @stephenkaylor4311
      @stephenkaylor4311 4 роки тому

      28 with Heaven's Gate!

    • @Yakkymania
      @Yakkymania 2 роки тому

      i don’t think heavens gate was as bad as jonestown. not even close.

    • @Acidfrog475
      @Acidfrog475 2 роки тому +3

      @@Yakkymania Can we just agree that both were bad and call it a day?

    • @Yakkymania
      @Yakkymania 2 роки тому +1

      @@Acidfrog475 yup, they were both bad. i can agree with that.

    • @reb5335
      @reb5335 2 роки тому +1

      Actually, it's interesting to compare them. Not saying one was worst than the other, but there's a striking difference between them. People in Jonestown were forced to commit suicide, while people in Heaven's Gate genuinely believed that they would be taken by the UFOs, so their deaths were voluntary. Either way, I agree, these two are horrible examples of what can happen in cults.

  • @ramirovazquez2282
    @ramirovazquez2282 3 роки тому +13

    "I've been involved with a number of cults, both as a leader and as a follower. You have more fun as a follower but you make more money as a leader."
    -Creed Bratton

    • @KompadoodleLEL
      @KompadoodleLEL 3 роки тому +1

      haha i was just watching the office before this

  • @certifiedstar
    @certifiedstar 3 роки тому +572

    I remember my mom was forced to be a Jehovah’s Witness, and they even brought in a whole translator for her since she couldn’t speak English at the time but my father declined because we’re not interested.
    Thank god for my father for being there with my mother.

    • @Korn_Flaek
      @Korn_Flaek 3 роки тому +36

      1. You are not saying how that makes JWs a cult
      2. If your mother was being forced, then it was the fault of the enforcer, not JWs...JWs dont come to the door with a threat or bribe in an attempt to make you feel deprived of options aside from becoming a member
      3. It is always a conscious choice with 100% transparency where necessary and JWs have nothing to gain or achieve by gaining members except fulfilling the commission given by God as stated in the bible as everything done within them is voluntary both in monetary donations and labor with no required minimum (you could literally go years and never give a cent out your pocket that you personally dont want to basically)
      4. JWs always encourage making beliefs your own and reject the idea of serving God for the pleasing of anyone besides God, if you dont desire to live for God then you dont have to and no one will force you or will be allowed to force you
      5. Even the "leaders" don't make money from their position...they have jobs and personal lives and families they manage
      I could keep going on and on but if ur going to suggest that JWs are a cult then at least know how they work and what a cult is before you go slinging a hateful connotation like that

    • @reviewmyread4460
      @reviewmyread4460 3 роки тому +137

      @@Korn_Flaek I think the most important differentiation is that JW’s will shun relatives and even their own children who choose to not be JW’s. And yes, Disfellowshipping is shunning.
      Questioning interpretation of scriptures by the governing body members, which defines their ever-changing doctrine is not allowed. Depending on how loud you are about your disagreements can get you labeled as an “apostate.”
      Their leaders (the governing body members) do not have jobs besides making their monthly videos and showing up to court depositions because of their worldwide mishandling of child abuse cases.
      I was a born-in, baptized JW for 10 years. 2 years as MS being considered for an elder position.
      It’s a cult. Please rewatch the video.

    • @Korn_Flaek
      @Korn_Flaek 3 роки тому +14

      @@reviewmyread4460 hm lets see:
      1: exaggerating truths to make something harmless look way more awful than what it really is (check)
      2: Outright lying after telling exaggerated truths to make the lie more trustworthy (check)
      3: Lies/ exaggerates about history with JWs to bolster claims to make both the lie and the exaggerated truth more believable (check)
      Ah, seems everything is in order here.

    • @Korn_Flaek
      @Korn_Flaek 3 роки тому +4

      @@reviewmyread4460 and also the fact that you are deliberately twisting the truth and saying things YOU KNOW are lies in an effort to manipulate me and anyone else who happens to read your comment is exactly why i wont engage in any further conversation with you. perish alone apostate lol.

    • @reviewmyread4460
      @reviewmyread4460 3 роки тому +64

      @@Korn_Flaek could you specify? What did I lie/exaggerate about? If I’m wrong then I’ll admit it and apologize.

  • @perisaizidanehanapi7931
    @perisaizidanehanapi7931 4 роки тому +238

    "Believing in something sholdn't come at the cost of your family and friends"
    Well, I guess many political ideology can be categorized as cults then.

    • @perisaizidanehanapi7931
      @perisaizidanehanapi7931 4 роки тому +1

      @Revolutionary Man wdy mean?

    • @metaparalysis3441
      @metaparalysis3441 4 роки тому +1

      @@perisaizidanehanapi7931 your a revolutionary man what'd you do

    • @perisaizidanehanapi7931
      @perisaizidanehanapi7931 4 роки тому +1

      @@metaparalysis3441 in simple english please

    • @gammarayneutrino8413
      @gammarayneutrino8413 4 роки тому +3

      @@perisaizidanehanapi7931
      I think they are saying "What have you done?"
      Also I agree, politics in general is so unhealthy

    • @perisaizidanehanapi7931
      @perisaizidanehanapi7931 4 роки тому +3

      @@gammarayneutrino8413 what's unhealthy isn't the practice itself, but also the public discourse.

  • @cptkilgore
    @cptkilgore 5 років тому +113

    Three things all "deadly" cults have in common: Isolation, Exhausting Sermons, and Fear.

    • @Phoebe-ji1zl
      @Phoebe-ji1zl 5 років тому

      spot on.

    • @merangreen
      @merangreen 4 роки тому +5

      Which, sadly enough, pretty well describes the current political system in the United States.

    • @ijustwanttosleepnow
      @ijustwanttosleepnow 4 роки тому

      Lack of self-determination.

  • @DouglasSoaresVicente
    @DouglasSoaresVicente 3 роки тому +1

    Please translate this video to every language in the world. We need this.

  • @liahonarebutar5785
    @liahonarebutar5785 7 років тому +686

    whoa ted-ed uploaded a video of a question i had in my mind just minutes ago

    • @triciaannedeguzman7460
      @triciaannedeguzman7460 7 років тому +3

      buponki 1230 same here. I was watching about the manson family earlier.

    • @arisoda7497
      @arisoda7497 7 років тому +2

      buponki 1230 wtf me too! this can't be coincidence, there must be some global consciousness. Created by God

    • @cristinedemesapanek366
      @cristinedemesapanek366 7 років тому +1

      Tricia Anne De Guzman Mine is not cult related though, Jeffrey Dahmer haha

    • @irun_mon
      @irun_mon 7 років тому

      Happened to me twice before, this channel is magic :D

    • @cristinedemesapanek366
      @cristinedemesapanek366 7 років тому

      Tricia Anne De Guzman im from pateros manila!

  • @dennysdonuts4918
    @dennysdonuts4918 4 роки тому +119

    I always feel so horrified thinking of the people who didn't drink the koolaid, like those taking a nap or out for a walk at the time, or just actually surviving the poison, and coming back to find 909 bodies in place of all those people.

    • @Malaima
      @Malaima 3 роки тому +12

      wow, hadn't thought of this. what horror. - But really people do join cults for... loneliness I think. And in the espoir of finding like-minded people and support... And look how it gets you. The world is such a lonely place...

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc Рік тому +9

      They didn't get a choice. They didn't sleep through it. Armed guards rounded up everyone in the entire camp complex and forced them to watch their families die so that they wouldn't resist as much when it was their turn.

  • @beck0251
    @beck0251 7 років тому +20

    I find it hilarious that the people in the comments bashing religion completely ignore the fact that TED ed literally touches on the topic and shows the differences between religion and cults in the video.

    • @AyubuKK
      @AyubuKK 6 років тому

      Beck0251 IKR.

  • @justamrcreeper6467
    @justamrcreeper6467 Рік тому +3

    With the news of the SBSI cult in the Philippines now being investigated by the Senate, UA-cam really recommended this video at the best time. Thanks YT algorithm for giving me a reason to share this.

    • @javenbautista5678
      @javenbautista5678 Рік тому

      One of the biggest cult organization in the world also exist here in the Philippines... They are so powerful even politicians want their endorsement. Their founder proclaimed himself as a messenger of God. Forcing their members to donate 10 percent of their salary or income.... They hate Roman Catholics so much, they using propaganda againts Catholics, I knew it because I had friends belong in that religion.

  • @szczypior2714
    @szczypior2714 4 роки тому +79

    4:40 that sounds exactly like what my nun does.
    She also tells us that it is a sin to criticize or not agree with the pope.

    • @chromafire120
      @chromafire120 4 роки тому +34

      Szczypior Is the nun Catholic? If she is, then that’s false information. I know a lot of Catholics that encourage critical thinking, theological study, and thorough understanding of doctrines. We can absolutely question/criticize the Pope if he were doing something contrary to the faith.

    • @szczypior2714
      @szczypior2714 4 роки тому +16

      @@chromafire120 I didn't say that's what all nuns do, I said that's what *my* nun does.
      And yes, she is Catholic.

    • @lan6139
      @lan6139 4 роки тому +13

      Ah yes, the medieval era

    • @ninguem3910
      @ninguem3910 4 роки тому +10

      That’s simply not true. The infaliability of the pope extends just to certain matters of doctrine. That’s comproved by the fact that there were popes who were condemned of heresy and even excommunicated.

    • @Julyrubio
      @Julyrubio 4 роки тому +1

      Some branches of Catholicism fit the criteria for a cult.

  • @LightningShiva1
    @LightningShiva1 4 роки тому +2941

    Introverts watching this video knowing that they will never join a cult : *I see this as an absolute win*

    • @neliasoares6217
      @neliasoares6217 4 роки тому +56

      How did you read my mind?

    • @blablabla6975
      @blablabla6975 4 роки тому +345

      Nah many introverts are easy targets for these cults, if they ever get in contact that is

    • @LightningShiva1
      @LightningShiva1 4 роки тому +12

      @@AgoraSage oo, what hpnd dude

    • @stephenkaylor4311
      @stephenkaylor4311 4 роки тому +13

      I also learned about what Janja Lalich spotlights as " Cognitive Dissonance. " Ie., that when someone keeps compromising to coercion - this makes it more difficult to find truthful judgement!

    • @viporal7898
      @viporal7898 4 роки тому +104

      There's a difference between introversion and being a complete social outcast

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 4 роки тому +130

    If a religion or group discourages its members from doing independant research about the religion other than whats on their official website or in their books, or has to explain on their website why its not a cult then that should set alarm bells ringing.
    Any sort of truth should stand up to questions and no one should be scared of being shown information, the information about the religion is either true or its not, but being scared of looking in to it tells you something, it tells you about it being a high control group or cult.
    Remember a cult doesnt just have one leader and a small amount of members, it can have 10 million members and have many men at the top who are making decisions and claiming to know what god wants.....
    and remember... no one who is in a cult actually thinks they are in one even if they would recognise that cults do exist, they wont see theirs as being one. Only years later if they leave can they see clearly, often when they have done thorough research and thought in to it all by fact checking their own literature.

    • @michellecelle5008
      @michellecelle5008 4 роки тому +7

      I keep clicking on this video just to come back to this comment. I was already PIMO when I watched this video (If you know this term, I'm sure you can guess which cult I was/am in considering that you speak as if you too were in it) but this comment just brought everything together in my mind. I have to still stay at home, but I have been talking to my PIMI parents about it recently. I just wanted you to know that comments like this will help some people see the light. Especially since you kept it vague, respectful, and did not attack any specific cult. The persecution complex in some cults can deter them from logical conclusions.

    • @justmadeit2
      @justmadeit2 4 роки тому +13

      @@michellecelle5008 Hi Michelle, I appreciate your comment and what you have said. I've never actually been a member of that organisation, however I do have siblings who joined at seperate times as adults (late teens and 20s) My older sister got disfellowshipped for leaving her husband and marrying someone else who she's still with. As she has never returned to the religion she is being shunned by my other sister who is still in the organisation. Shes not spoke to her in over 17 years because of the shunning policy. Our family is divided.
      Because of that I've done a lot of thorough research in to the organisation to understand it all, from its start in the 1800s to the false predictions including looking at their own material and looking at material up to the present day on their own website and broadcasting channel
      I feel that many good people within the organisation/group are being mislead the more ive learned about how the hierarchy operates, how it claims to speak for god in how it interprets scripture and how it comes up with 'new light' when it chooses, often at times when the 'old light' was a theory/prediction that didn't come to pass!
      66 books make up the bible of course(old and new testament) and it can be interpreted in many different ways by cherry picking scriptures etc, some out of context, to make a seemingly convincing narrative. I'm not religious myself although don't consider myself an atheist either, I just don't follow any religion or particular holy book but I respect that people can get strength from their beliefs.
      Belief is a powerful thing, it can have a big hold over people regardless of how much 'truth' it may or may not contain. Healthy fear can save our lives(like the fear of not stepping out in to a busy road or getting in to a lions cage, but unnecessary fear can ruin someone's life and I see high control groups/cults as using fear and guilt over their members to control their minds at times, it happens slowly but effectively through repetition of fearful ideas etc

    • @Janice-d-witnessing
      @Janice-d-witnessing 4 роки тому +6

      @@justmadeit2 well said! I'm sorry you have family who are still in the org and who have been so hurt by them. That is really tough. :(
      I've never been one of them, but my heart really breaks for them and it's become a focus of my own ministry, both witnessing to them and helping those who are waking up to find their own ground to stand on.

    • @drakeronealecastillo-panla1336
      @drakeronealecastillo-panla1336 4 роки тому +1

      @@justmadeit2 Is that the JW?

    • @michellecelle5008
      @michellecelle5008 4 роки тому +5

      @@justmadeit2 yeah the organization really is just a bunch of misled good people that think they're doing the right thing. After voicing my opinions, I was almost kicked out and my family is already turning against me. oh well. I will just lay low and then allow them to shun me when I get enough money to leave. The org knows that family and friends are usually one's biggest weakness and they make sure to take that away from you when you leave.

  • @tzipporamiller
    @tzipporamiller Рік тому +15

    Thank you for this video! I am working on learning about cults to help a family member and trying to connect to as many cult survivors as possible to understand their mindset of when they were indoctrinated

  • @Iamafafr
    @Iamafafr 7 років тому +187

    "families can help you get out of a cult" Then how I'm I gonna get out of a cult if your family is with the cult then?

    • @princessnature1
      @princessnature1 7 років тому +20

      Just Drinking Tea : I guess through ones realization.

    • @TheThedisliker
      @TheThedisliker 7 років тому +5

      Just do it

    • @MissyRose94
      @MissyRose94 7 років тому +9

      I'll come get you! Once I get a car... and learn to drive... and- nvm. I'll buy you a bus ticket.

    • @119winters5
      @119winters5 7 років тому +1

      Just Drinking Tea gimme date and location, I'm ready to lock n load tactical mode

    • @jameskkm
      @jameskkm 7 років тому +1

      Then let your friends help you.

  • @MayMay10212
    @MayMay10212 4 роки тому +2053

    If you disagree with what this video says,
    Then you're in a cult

    • @ph19r97
      @ph19r97 4 роки тому +32

      Probably .
      It's so said to see people been manobrated

    • @theibis3173
      @theibis3173 4 роки тому +5

      And I oop-

    • @swiftsloth4370
      @swiftsloth4370 4 роки тому +20

      Or you have a different definition of what a cult is. I have a similar definition, for example, but I don't think a cult has to directly control/exert authority over your daily life to still be a cult.

    • @SurrealExposure12
      @SurrealExposure12 4 роки тому +5

      @@swiftsloth4370 elaborate please. (Genuinely) I'm interested to know more

    • @g-4642
      @g-4642 4 роки тому +5

      @@swiftsloth4370 youre in a cult

  • @sporkles7427
    @sporkles7427 5 років тому +118

    I grew up in a cult. This all sadly rings a very familiar bell...

    • @merangreen
      @merangreen 4 роки тому +9

      Ditto. Although luckily for me my mom got out and took my sibling and I with her by the time I was 11. I shudder to think how much worse it could have been, had that not happened.

  • @mickavoidant4780
    @mickavoidant4780 2 роки тому +6

    I was thrown out of a cult for being 'rebellious'. All I did was stick up for myself. My then girlfriend was angry at me for leaving and tried to pressure me into going back. It didn't work.