This story hits home for me. My 92 year old mother has dementia also. It is so difficult to tell a grown woman that she should not cook or clean anymore because she may hurt herself. Some days she can’t remember who I am. Some days she forgets to eat. We constantly have to remind her to eat, and we have to make her bathe every 2 days. It’s the saddest thing because she curses us for making her bathe and helping her feed herself. But every day we are thankful to have one more day with her. A lot of days, we talk to her and she can’t hear us, and her vision is also blurred. Some days I just sit by her and talk to her about my childhood, and tell her I appreciate her for all the great memories. I know she can’t remember, and her brain cannot my words anymore, but I just say it so that I can get these words off my chest. 😢
Yes, I was very teary telling this sad story. Dementia is a very cruel disease. Thank you for sharing that you have a similar situation of your mom having dementia. Yes, 1 day at a time with your mom and continue to do your best to be there for her. Thanks for listening to this story.
It’s a very sad story . Tej yam no yuav tshwm sim rau peb ib nrab cov neeg laus es yog tau tej mi tub minyuam hlub peb ces yuav txhawj txog peb, yuav saib xyhuas peb os😭😭😭 hos yog peb cov minyuam tsis Txawj Xav tsis hlub peb ces yuav dhuav peb, yuav qias peb ces yuav muab peb pov tsev laus os peb tsoom hmoob.😭😭
The truth is that we hmoob were always selfish between the daughter and sons...that's why the son profited from the relatives. It's not the stepdaughter's fault, it's also your stupid son's fault, both of them. In life you have to love your children the same as everyone else, but we Hmoob think that life will end with your children. We Hmoob are those without shame of the reason of the world
Tu siab tshaj kuv mloog ces los2 kua muag kawg os
Yog kawg os. Zaj no tu siab tshaj li tiag.
This story hits home for me. My 92 year old mother has dementia also. It is so difficult to tell a grown woman that she should not cook or clean anymore because she may hurt herself. Some days she can’t remember who I am. Some days she forgets to eat. We constantly have to remind her to eat, and we have to make her bathe every 2 days. It’s the saddest thing because she curses us for making her bathe and helping her feed herself. But every day we are thankful to have one more day with her. A lot of days, we talk to her and she can’t hear us, and her vision is also blurred. Some days I just sit by her and talk to her about my childhood, and tell her I appreciate her for all the great memories. I know she can’t remember, and her brain cannot my words anymore, but I just say it so that I can get these words off my chest. 😢
Yes, I was very teary telling this sad story. Dementia is a very cruel disease. Thank you for sharing that you have a similar situation of your mom having dementia. Yes, 1 day at a time with your mom and continue to do your best to be there for her. Thanks for listening to this story.
Tus siab kawg.
Kuv mloog ces Kuv nim quaj2😭😭😭 os
Tu siab ua luaj li os..
It’s a very sad story . Tej yam no yuav tshwm sim rau peb ib nrab cov neeg laus es yog tau tej mi tub minyuam hlub peb ces yuav txhawj txog peb, yuav saib xyhuas peb os😭😭😭 hos yog peb cov minyuam tsis Txawj Xav tsis hlub peb ces yuav dhuav peb, yuav qias peb ces yuav muab peb pov tsev laus os peb tsoom hmoob.😭😭
It’s so sad😭😭😭😭😭😭
😢
Tus muam aw kuv ces tam sim no muaj ntsis hnov qauj li koj hais lawm ntag nawb neeg muaj mob thiab neeg laus ces yeej zoo li ntawm os mog
Koj kuj yog koj niam ib tug mi tub yam tsim nyog koj niam yug lawm MI tub zoo
Tus me phoojywg, kuv muaj ib leej niam zoo li koj niam thiab os. Koj piav koj niam ces ua rau kuv nco kuv niam kawg tjiab
The truth is that we hmoob were always selfish between the daughter and sons...that's why the son profited from the relatives. It's not the stepdaughter's fault, it's also your stupid son's fault, both of them. In life you have to love your children the same as everyone else, but we Hmoob think that life will end with your children. We Hmoob are those without shame of the reason of the world