Feminist mothers ADMIT they hate their infant sons. This is awful.
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I read a lot of insane things, but this one really disturbed me. I try to empathize usually, but like, I got nothin' here. Maybe mother nature has a way of kicking you where it hurts when you try to mess with her. ;D
These people are sick.
Just start but the title disturbes me
If a woman has such disdain for her child while in the womb, it is obvious she will carry those feelings throughout their upbringing. I feel sorry for the child, who will likely be robbed of a mother's love during his formative years. It is likely, he will be gender confused from the start to make him into "a girl" to suit the mother's preference. Or, he will be ignored, unloved and abused in some fashion. But, the silver lining may be that he grows up strong and independent. Who knows.
@UC1SGG_5jB4lFoV1G1MDE4rQ what happens when they transition the baby and have his member cut off and give him pills to chemically castrate him and make him a girl? Someone needs to call child services. We should really start a petition to have him removed from the home.
@UC1SGG_5jB4lFoV1G1MDE4rQ what happens when they transition the baby and have his member cut off and give him pills to chemically castrate him and make him a girl? Someone needs to call child services. We should really start a petition to have him removed from the home.
If she was so "traumatized" in life that she views her child that way then she shouldn't have a child to begin with.
I was thinking the clinic should have refused to cooperate with someone this mentally unstable.
@@cromaxthedarkangelglumiith5659 what exactly are you trying to say?
@@cromaxthedarkangelglumiith5659 i agree, yeah ofcourse all those things are wrong I'm just not understanding what exactly that has to do with her not being worthy of having a child to begin with. Sorry if it's obvious i just didn't understand lol
@@cromaxthedarkangelglumiith5659 ah i got ya 🤦 Sorry lol. You're absolutely right.
Whilst there should be psychological screening and general assessments made for those receiving IVF and donor embryos or eggs or sperm ... I'm sure they would have just claimed discrimination if they were refused "fertility treatment". Rights are so often called as the trump-card over responsibilities. And responsibilities are actually the true trump-card.
Somebody. PLEASE take this kid to a home that will love him unconditionally without probably being raised to believe he is a "problem".
I would gladly love the little guy unconditionally. I cannot have children of my own, so I would be elated with any child I could have no matter what! Women like this should not even be allowed near children! And things like this make me SO angry and break my heart in light of not being able to have a child of my own. 😢
I would love to take in a son. Sadly I'm single 24 college student. Almost done though
@@virginiavallek1654 college student? I don't know why but I think you can't have baby maybe because I think you will hate him(maybe even her)
@@user-ze5ic9ip4y why would u say that? I wouldn't do so right now because I know I wouldn't be able to afford a child by my self
@@user-ze5ic9ip4y the fact that you say "I don't know why" means you don't know and need to keep your mouth shut until you know. I have God children already who are BOTH daughter and son might as well be mine. Thankfully I'm not irresponsible enough to take in or have a child while not having a full time job (paid internships and part time) because I know I can't afford one on that salary. So until I graduate and get a good paying full time job I'm not bringing a child into this world or taking responsibility for one
I've been sexually abused by men and yet I've had NONE of these feelings towards my two sons. What is wrong with this woman. Get a grip lady 😑
You are a special kind of person, my heart goes out to you and your family
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I think the problem with these women is they let their past trauma and their hatred warp their perception and their sense of morality to the point that they can't understand or empathize with someone who is male. Hatred is an extremely powerful emotion, to the point that it can blind people to obvious conclusions or certain emotions when it comes to the subject of their hatred. Ultimately the only thing that can cure such hatred is understanding and unfortunately such people who feel this level of hatred don't want to understand.
I think it is pretty messed up that they have such a feeling over innocent boys ,no matter who hurt you ,what gender it is , it is nothing to do with innocent kids ,I can’t believe what they are actually saying ,this is only happening in the western world ,you will never heard from any mother anywhere in the world ,mothers in other countries around the world would die protecting their kids no matter if they are male or female ,never tho that some mothers in US has such feeling towards their kids .
Because by pure logic you arent rrsponsible for everything a woman did.
Like this monster who killed her 8wn babies by stuffing them in a freezer. Doesnt mean every woman is born like it nor with a tendancy to do so.
Same way neo feminist morons need to realize there is no abuse gene in men. You can raise a perfect gebtleman or just a decent human being with the power of paranting and loving your child.
People like this couple in the story should be legaly forbidden to have children. Asceven if they had or get a girl she will be raised with the same insanity. Thus carrying their disgusting views on.
My heart breaks for that poor little boy. They will "trans" him and he will grow up emotionally wrecked.
Very unlikely. Misandrist feminists are almost always TERFs and vice versa.
Something tells me they are after money from the clinic. If they were really so traumatized about having a boy they would have either ended the pregnancy or put the child up for adoption. They did neither.
Just makes me so discussed 🤡😭
I went through similar, my mom wanted a girl, my dad wanted a boy. They both "hated the opposite sex" and abused me for doing one gendered thing or another. Guess what I identify as 30 years later? Nonbinary.
@@DivineLightPaladin You know who you are stop buying into the game.
Ironically, mothers like this usually raise the exact men they hate. Read about the mothers of serial killers for examples
@K L Are you referring to Ed Kemper?
No but that would be victim blaming and how dare you assume a woman could do anything wrong????? (/s if it isnt clear)
Between home and school, 50% of boys have 100% female influence 😂 so yeah, easy to figure out why the boys grow up to be nasty bastards
Honestly, a crappy childhood is not an excuse for murder or rape, but ok.
@@alayahoward4222 nobody said it’s an excuse, it’s simply the reasoning behind the psychological side of things
That one woman, complains about sexism, is the most sexist person alive.
projection, the only tool of the woke left
Even more sexist that Roosh? I doubt it
@vonronken
Sure, have you heard of Roosh? He’s a former pick-up artist who is now an Orthodox Christian and who’s advocated for legalizing rape, restricting women’s right to vote, requiring women to dress modestly, etc
It’s not a woman. Female (maybe) but not a woman.
But don't you know? Sexism is prejudice plus power! lol
As a new mom of a beautiful boy, AND a rape survivor, these parents are insane. I get to raise my boy to respect women, respect all people and love the earth. What a great opportunity! I love him more than life! These "parents" make my heart so sad😭
Yeah yeah. You and every other woman is a rape victim apparently. So sick of hearing it. In my life, never once has a guy hit on me, said anything sexual to me, or whistled at me EVER. I'm married now. These things never happened to my friends either. The worst thing a guy ever did to a friend of mine in my life was ask her for pics of herself wearing her dress. How is it possible that I have such a different life from everyone else? How is it that everyone on the internet got raped while my lived experience and of those around me is totally different. Very frustrating.
@@adararelgnel2695 just because you don't know anyone who was raped doesn't mean no one gets to raped. Maybe you didn't go to enough college parties in your wild young days. Just because you haven't experienced something doesn't give you the right to shit on those who have.
Hopefully both of you and your family are safe and loved, along with everyone.
Um question....what does you being raped have anything to do with the subject at hand? Your beautiful son being introduced along with rape in a comments section is weird if not sick.
I dont want to sound like a toxic white male but, Atta Girl. 👍
One guy I dated had a “aggressively feminist” mother. She taught him that he was awful and it had destroyed him. I helped him a bit and when I realized it wasn’t healthy for me, I had to break it off with him. So yeah, these women are destroying their sons.
The thought of millions of kids like this flooding the future makes my skin crawl... They all deserve infinitely better. Hopefully the children of grounded and sane parents end up growing up into beacons of light and truth so bright that most can't help but acknowledge it.
Imagine these boys becoming men and trying to have relationships of their own… they will be unable to.
Yes it is better they birth daughters.
@@Pile55what???
@@Pile55k bro
As a daughter of someone who wanted a boy, and never bonded simply because I had the wrong chromosomes, my heart goes out to this child.
You didn't have the wrong chromosomes, it's them that had the wrong mentality to treat you like that.
@@SarahnatorX Thank you. I didn't know that as a child, but have healed as an adult. Plus my husband and I ended up having the boys he always wanted!
What's her hairstyle at 2:24
That’s sad. I can’t imagine doing that to any of my children.
Nothing like letting a child know from the beginning that they are unconditionally loved...
Right I'm sure with them two clearly "loving" parents he's going to turn out to be a great psychological study for some therapist. Poor little boy
I plan on spoiling the hell out of my sons seeing these horrible people
I bet dollars to donuts with lesbian parents, their son has since come out as either non binary or trans girl baby
@@lillianahunter1199 , I have a daughter, the oldest among the grandchildren, my little sister had 3 boys.my older sister had 1 girl. So together we made 5. Family dynamics are always tricky, I would take all the kinds of outdoor activities, to the lake, camping, rodeos, carnivals, my sisters always preferred shopping restaurants, ect. The qualifier is, do you love them, care for them? I do, I'd die for either of sisters, their children, my children, without a doubt. Take care, they grow up really fast.
So sad.
I actually developed a fear of men as a result of SA as a child, I was terrified of being left alone with a man. I remember feeling like a piece of meat or prey surrounded by predators. Its definitely not easy being scared of half the population. What actually cured my fear was when I stepped out of my comfort zone and actually talk to them and realise they dont all want to hurt me.
I’m so sorry. I certainly hope that you’re doing well and recovering.
I’m sorry to hear that too.
Incorporating your trauma into your personality by talking to men will help you in more ways than you can imagine. While I can’t speak for all men, as a man myself I can tell you this: those of us who have been raised properly (i.e., in stable nuclear homes, which thankfully is a large majority of men) know how to treat women as deferentially as we would the Queen, and there is nothing I respect more than a woman who knows how to defend herself and has huge plans for her life. Most of us do not ever wish to hurt anybody, only protect people.
I hope you are healing. Sorry to hear that
Have u met good men
She knows what it’s like to feel traumatised but has no problem giving trauma to her child. Lots of people love you little boy
When everything is "like being raped", it eventually loses any meaning when someone says they were raped. Just like racist, they're completely devaluing the word. Stop using words about terrible actions to encompass anything that hurts your feelings. You're hurting the people that actually suffer from these things.
People use it for everything nowadays. Literally had a customer tell me the company was “raping” people because he didn’t like our pricing
Even i think we have outrageous pricing at times, but they’re set by corporate and I can’t do anything. but like… raping is a bit strong when we offer people a month to think about it before we do any work for them
Exactly!
"When everyone's super...no one will be." - Syndrome
I’ve thought this for some time. We misuse powerful words until they have no meaning…
I just wonder how anyone could say it's like rape, it just doesn't make sense.
If a parent who thinks boys are awful raises a boy, I'm sure that boy will live up to her expectations.
Cannot fail expectations if there are none!!!!! Hell yeah!!!
@@fjparasite1172 I think the implication is that if you raise a boy with constant abuse he'll certainly be awful towards you. In this case I'd say she reaps what she sows.
@@AeneasGemini i get it. It was a joke.
My boys are my easy kids lol
I think he'll simply hurt all the time, and escape her as soon as he can.
I always wanted a boy until I got a daughter and now I can’t imagine my life without her. She is so much more than I expected or deserve.
My best friend and her husband agreed they'd have only one child. When she found out it was a boy she cried for three days. When he was born she loved him more than anything. 12 years later she's still madly in love with him and a great mother.
Lol ot doesnt matter
I asked my buddy one time if the was having a boy or a girl? He said, "I don't care, as long as it's healthy." That is the best answer for that question... ever.
Man that is a good response, but imagine a parent says ‘I want my child to be identified as: healthy’. That would be badass too
I feel bad for the child. Imagine getting to the age that you can read and having your birth being compared to “just like rape” just because you are male. These women are disgusting and are the last people who should have children based on their mentality, holy hell.
Nobody talking about the invisible male donor and how he might feel that his son is unwanted.
when my baby drinks from my breast i feel like i'm being raped.
Sad fact: If this little boy was removed from this couple, it would probably have an even more f'd up life in foster homes and CPS. That's the state of child protective services here in the US.
I feel sad for that 2 woman, who have no heart, no morals...just hate....that are realy poor beings!
Well, if she treats him bad, I expect there might be a murder suicide involving him and his parents.
My son is a product of assault. I chose him, and even when the doctor told me he'd be a boy, I never even associated those things. He's the reason I even began looking at men's struggles and taking them seriously. He's awesome, and I'm sorry but raising your child to feel apologetic about something they had no control over is a great way to create a deeply troubled adult who will be more likely to become the thing you feared. They should be banned from children and put on a watchlist
Thank you for this, have a good one 🙌
You are a very brave and amazing person. I hope you and your son have a very blessed life.
God bless you!
I just wanted to say, you're an absolutely amazing human being. Wow. ❤
You are a strong and amazing mother God bless u!
I’m a survivor and the mother of an amazing teenage boy. I have loved every minute of being his mom. He also happens to be one of the kindest most empathetic people I’ve ever known.
Raising make man Gentleman.
I am a Mom of all sons. I never had one ounce of trouble from them. I have always felt blessed! These women are horrible!
Don't you have a Guilt of having them?
I Mean you should be happy if you have daughter
My favorite part is the part where she believes a boy child wouldn't respect her the way a female child would. Ignoring the fact that whether your child respects you ultimately comes down to parenting, she's clearly never met a teenaged girl in her life.
If she continues this mentality and treats her son poorly, the he'll grow up to become the very "misogynist" that she thinks all men are. And I agree, teenage girls are a nightmare.
You nailed it!
My thoughts exactly! Shoot, she hasn’t met my sassy 5-year-old.
My thoughts exactly.
"She's clearly never met a teenaged girl in her life." Or she's looking at all girls (and women) through rose colored glasses, believing they can do nothing wrong and making all kinds of mental backflips to justify shitty behavior. It appears to become more and more common to point fingers and blame others when you fuck up, instead of owning up to the mistake, learn from it and do your best to not repeat it. One really easy example is media blaming "trolls" and "alt-right" if something gets criticized, especially if it's clear that the creators royally fucked up. If this was true the US would be the fucking Fourth Reich by now, and the rest of the world would be singing the trololo song in unison. It's kinda sad, and a bit morbidly hilarious.
I'm a man and my mother, a drunken woman with mental illness that she refused to get treatment for, abused me in multiple ways as a child, including sexually. I don't have kids of my own yet but I absolutely love my nieces and I would love to have a daughter. It isn't gender, race or nationality that makes someone evil but rather their own actions.
I think it's sad that people don't realise that women are equally capable of being evil in this way. With my mother people kept playing down her behaviour and making excuses for it, when they certainly would've been all over it if she had been a man.
In the end though, it's not right to be angry at women as a whole for this, not every woman has the same social bias and there are plenty out there who find it repugnant. Just because society in general is prejudiced, doesn't mean people should stop being judged as individuals
@rum runner. Amen! God bless and keep you safe Brother.
I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that, but it sounds like you came out the other end.
Well those 2 witches can put the baby up for adoption and adopt a girl instead !!
Just a genuine question, if you were to be been aborted would you feel like it would be much better than the trauma and hEll your guardian put through?
As a survivor of sexual abuse by men, I'm currently pregnant with a boy (due in Jan 2023) & I can't wait to hold him & do my best to raise him. He's innocent! My 4 year old daughter was conceived due to statutory rape (I was 16 & her bio dad was in his 30s). I love my babies so much❤️
This makes me really sad. Myself and 2 other cousins suffer from a genetic reproductive situation which rendered us all completely barren and childless despite all that medical science tried. We all longed for children and have none. I would have loved A baby whatever the sex. These people are terrible!
I agree. And in cases like this there is always adoption.
Many children thrown away by unloving parents needing but love and family.
I was raped by my child’s father and it took years of therapy and working through the trauma to not feel triggered. Never once did I see my son as my attacker, he was my miracle. Just because someone broke you , it doesn’t mean you will stay broken but you have to do the work.
What a missed opportunity to heal your relationship with men by raising a good little man.
You are a true hero and stronger than most people could ever dream of being. Your son is so fortunate to have you. Bless you and your son❤
Wow...a person is a person in their own right, no matter who the father or mother is. Utmost respect for you.
Same. So much love to you and your son ❤ from me and mine.
I have so much admiration and respect for your decision and the journey you have taken. God bless you.
My faith was restored
A problem when adults think they can purchase a child manufactured to their specifications. Children should not be merchandised this way.
When I was in school about 15 years ago, the term for this seemed to be "designer babies".
Why not? Kids have been sexualized for 30 years and no one has tried to stop that yet.
I would rather be merchandised so I would be wanted and treaded as some thing of worth instead of being treaded like a worthless sack of skin...
Merchandise lol!
@@finferrime8953 no you dont. those kids go through literal hell in those things. we need to stop these people.
When we found out we were having a boy, I cried. Not because I didn't want him, but because my heart broke for the struggles I saw laid out before his innocent little life. He will be painted as the devil and treated badly for things that are not his fault. I had to prepare myself to be strong enough to raise a boy into a man in this climate. A boy/man who doesn't hate himself.
As a gay woman myself I grew up assuming I would never have children, no matter how much I love kids and I just kind of accepted it. Even now that I've heard of IVF, even though it would be technically possible, it seems wrong. I'm not sad about it, just accepting. These women are older than me and their attitude is that of a narcissistic desire to control something that never even used to exist (picking and choosing the sex of your child!) and as a science is still in its infancy. They just have no idea how lucky they are to even have a child. Not a clue. We are living in a society of ungrateful brats with serious first world problems. If I'm ever feeling down I just remind myself I'm not being forced into marriage with a man or being stoned to death. We are so lucky in the western world and yet so many people refuse to see how lucky they are.
That’s true all of it.
Having said that, somewhere it’s evil to be a lesbian and still want to have kids… life isn’t working that way.
Human sperm banks should close as there is no shortage of fresh “deposits”.
Being a lesbian means you opted out men and the only natural way of procreation isn’t an option for you.
If humanity needs to die out because of your party denies the truth then be it.
You can’t hide the truth! Lgbtq people aren’t born but rather made by propaganda from the lowest ages of the childhood.
In my humble opinion, people are becoming childlike. Not taking responsibility, screaming unduly, always complaining and selfishly living in a world where only they exist. The antithesis of a mature person.
There is a genuine sense of screaming like an infant going on here. As if they have some sort of arrested development. So immature that it's hard to believe they are adults.
Knuckles the Echidna once said "your world is filled with soft and undisciplined children"
Entitlement.
This is the end result of spending years and years telling a generation of people that nothing bad that happens to them is ever their fault.
We need hard times i guess.
One of the problem with parents these days is too many parents are trying to be their child's best friend instead of being there parent, I notice this with a lot of my friends with kids.
My sister always wanted a daughter.
As of right now - she's got *five* boys...yes - *FIVE!*
Guess what? She loves them all *unconditionally* because she's *not a garbage feminist.*
It gets more sinister, someone so focused on having a girl and being gay...they probably want a girl to sexually abuse.
My son has a friend who became a dad at 17. Now he's 28 and has 4 sons. They wanted to try for a girl after the first boy,, but no luck so far. They're thinking of one more, hoping for a girl, but regardless of the outcome that will be that. I asked them if they could afford it would they use a clinic to make sure it's a girl - they said no, whilst they'd like to have a girl, as long as the baby is healthy that would be enough.
I have five older brothers…
@@whatzittooya2943
I don't think that technically counts as a condition.
One of the more tragic stories I know of is a family who had four boys... and in later years, finally had their girl. Then the girl was killed when she was 19. 😢
One of the worst things I've ever seen on the internet was a short TikTok of a young pregnant woman saying she was on her way to the doctor to see if it was going to be a girl or an abortion. The included hashtag was "kill all men". That pretty much ended any shred of faith I had left in people. I am 54 years old and, if everything goes well, I'll be around for maybe another 25 years. Strangely, knowing that there is a limit to all of this for me and I'm not walking into it all with my whole life ahead of me is kinda comforting. I can't even begin to imagine what society is going to be like in 50 years to that baby boy, if he survives that long.
25 years? Life expectancy is waaay better now my friend, you can be around for another 50 easy… 💯💯💯
She shouldn't have kids
As a mum all I asked my doctor at their births was is he/she healthy. I had two beautiful boys who have both grown into good, caring men and we decided to stop there. Imagine my surprise when I went to the doctor with a ‘virus’ to be told I was pregnant again. My surprise was a beautiful girl who I’ll admit I am so glad to have. They are all in their forties now and it’s rare that we manage to get everyone together. Also I have five grandchildren two of which are boys!
I thought gender was a social construct and doesn't actually exist? I can't keep up anymore. 🤦
I fear for this child's future. All children's futures
If a lie doenst fit you, adjust the lie. Rinse and repeat till youre dug a hole so deep that you will rot in it.
Exactly right 🤣😂💀
They can't keep up either. In one voice they claim to champion women, then allow that to be taken by men. What a mess of their own creation as the must adhere to the ideology of woke and where it leads. No matter where. Apparently.
These folks are lesbian, not transgender. Usually Gay, Lesbian, Bi people that are cisgender (not trans) won't always have the same view of gender. In other words, LGBT people are not a monolith. 🙄 sorry i know you may not know this out of real ignorance but it's just a little annoying
@@FerEssence no its not ignorance I just enjoy sane, logical thinking. All those people who are LGB and promoting it are living in a low fantasy world. 🤷♂️ and those doctors and scientists that perpetuate this misinformation needs their licenses revoked.
Sooo, let's talk about self-fulfilling prophecy.
They don't want that boy (trust me, he can feel it)
They become mean and abusive to him
One day, during an argument, they even tell him "we wanted a girl anyway"
That boy is now broken, antisocial, full with self hatred and an unconscious belief that love equates to abuse
He is angry, self destructive, starts to subconsciously hate women
Either he ends up being an unstable nice guy with a love-hate contradiction towards women, or one day his inner rage comes out and he becomes a sex offender.
And now the "mothers" : "see? i knew it! men are rapists!"
Maybe he self deletes early. Maybe they force transition him. Maybe he becomes a deletion expert. The possibilities are endless and terrifying.
These days he might even Haye his maleness so much he may decide to go the MtF trans route. Poor boy.
What is the rate of abused daughters turning into murderers and rapists? The mother’s trauma is her problem to deal with, but the man’s trauma is also his problem to deal with (when he’s an adult), lmao. Why do some commenters tell women to get over their trauma, while telling men that it was their mother’s fault they turned out to be so messed up?
@@randdiamond8090 women just don’t tend to kill like that tho…we usually do so to gain something or with a reason not because we snap and go senseless. Female killers are more premeditated and thought our men don’t when they kill (differences in brains I’m thinking)
@@sarahscalpel561 So… you’re excusing men’s actions when they lose their minds and kill? But let’s go with only planned murder then: the number of male serial killers is still higher. Of course, it’s only their mother’s fault, how could we ever blame men for those numbers uwu.
I have no words.
I was blessed with a little girl and then a little boy. I had zero expectations - my only hope was that they were healthy. And if they weren't, I prayed that I could care for them no matter what. The bond I have is so different between the two genders and both are so incredibly special. Too many people on this planet do not deserve to hold the title of mother.
These people disgust me beyond description.
Edit: BTW I can't WAIT to raise a man. I can't wait to teach him strength, compassion, confidence, and leadership. I can't wait for him to take me on dates and teach him to be a gentleman with opening doors and paying for the meal. And I will teach him if he ever dates someone who has issues with these things - to RUN AWAY!
No need to teach him to PAY FOR MEALS or OPENING DOOR.. Men are not your servants.. Neither does doing all that makes anyone a GENTLEMAN.. You are no less than those weirdos mentioned in the videos.. You aren't worth raising a man.
12:05 "...these children will probably end up in therapy somewhere down the line." ... They may be better off avoiding therapy. I was raised by a women like the ones portrayed in this video. Absolutely hated me for being male, and used that to justify a wide range of abuse including physical. As a young adult, I went for trauma therapy. What I was instead treated for was misogyny, because, in short, this therapist believed a male thinking his mother is abusive is misogyny. The therapist actually got me apologizing to my mother for her abusiveness. Thank goodness I was later able to work out for myself that I wasn't responsible for my mother's actions when I was a child.
It’s depressing to witness people becoming more and more selfish. For these women, having a child has more to do with what _they_ want and not dedicating their own lives to the wellbeing of their children.
They should do a thorough test, if they're even capable of raising a child. Doubt they'll pass. Narcissistic, childish bone-heads.
These women will raise a terrible man and blame him for being a man. They never heard of labeling theory.
@@stevenswitzer5154 Hopefully when grows up he'll sue the clinic for selling him to these abusive "parents".
Maternal Narcissism is the most dangerous form of Narcissism too. They're probably gonna end up destroying this child Emotionally & Psychologically
Well, it's just what to expect.
Ofc the same people that see men as toxic and sexist would hate the idea of a male child
Just imagine growing up, and realizing one of your two moms sued a fertility clinic because you aren’t a girl.
How much is that gonna F up your world. Your parents wanted you, just not you like you are.
And hearing her quotes saying he raped her. He will hate himself and them.
So fucked up.
and im sure they wont let him forget about it every time he fucks up on something.
@@thefool8224 And even if he doesn't!
He's going to hurt himself 😭💔
Sydney, as a man from a family of seven children, which I had the honor of being the second oldest, I am joyful that woman like you exist in this topsy-turvy world. You are like diamonds shining out of coal.
My mother and all her friends were hoping I would be a girl when I was born, but my father said, “shh, William can here you.” However my mother continues to love me and my many siblings and 20 boy does not sound to bad.
If this would happen to daughter the entire world would scream saying it's misogynist
These people don't want children, they want clones of themselves
Once you start letting women have babies without any direct interaction from men, you end up with insane shit like this. What eats at these dumb nooches is the knowledge that they can not get what they want without a man's input.
They don't even want that!
They want BRAGGING RIGHTS!
You nailed it. If sci-fi cloning technologies were available and legal they would 100% want clones of themselves. Their narcissism is out of charts.
unfortunately some people want "followers" from their kids, not real human beings.
As a father I wanted a boy, I have 3 amazing daughters and can't imagine life without them! These women are beyond horrible, I can't understand that way of thinking.
They aren’t thinking. They don’t have the ability to think for themselves and to be honest I’m very sad for these little boys but these women would have made their lives so terrible.. I’m hating the feeling I have because it’s like a child was saved while being murdered somehow.. I hope your daughters understand what a wonderful thing it is to have a father
Make sure your daughters keep good company around them. It can take one or two friends with these kinds of viewpoints to start swaying their minds and then you won’t even recognize them.
I wanted a girl. When I found out I was having a boy, I said "EVEN BETTER!" 💕
Thank you all for the comments!
I have 4 daughters. I wouldn't change one single thing. Good job, dad.
She seriously needs therapy to address her unhealed trauma 🤦
...As well as the others on the subreddit who said they'd abort their baby boys. I think the trauma explains why there's so many viciously man-hating people like that nowadays
And I genuinely find it sad seeing so many American people who report experiencing sexual abuse in childhood, because it's such a messed up thing....
If you don’t like kids. Keep your pants up and don’t have them.
Social services needs to step in because she is going to hurt him, mentally and physically he is unsafe. Referring to the pedophiles and crazy feminists part: I have sons and these ‘women’ are crazy. If a woman acted this way toward one of them I would have a problem with it. My daughters are great and don’t have these crazy attitudes.
As if the social services people would take away the child of a lesbian couple lol
They are a protected class of people
Hate to say it but that might actually be worse for the little boy. We live in a world.
Theyll make the kid trans. 100% guarantee
I wonder if your sons and daughters say happen to them rape, would you believe them not crazy? I just ask. If my kids say happen to them, I will believe them away and call police.
As someone who just had her first child, a precious little boy, this makes me so sick. He's the light of my life and every little boy deserves to be that for their mothers. We gave our son a name that essentially means a Lion ready for Battle, and I truly believe he's going to have to live up to that one day and face some very hard times in his life. I don't know if it will be serious war, upheaval and destruction in our country, or what, but it's coming. And we plan on raising him to know his worth and strength as a man. Call it toxic if you will, but I truly believe masculinity in itself isn't. Toxic people are toxic, masculine or feminine.
Daaamn ! It taste like sugar to read it from a woman, moreover a new mom You are so right Life is tough but people like you make it lightful Wish the best life for your son and you all
Thank you, you have made my day much better.
My friend’s sister is a NICU nurse. She has 2 adopted young children. She loves her job. My dream as a mother is to raise twins boys or twin boy and girl , but I will be happy with whatever gender God blesses me with. Children are blessings- I love them. God bless the children 🙏🏾👼🏻👼🏼👼🏽👼🏾👼🏿
Thank you for being the kind of mother every woman should strive to become, (if they have the desire to become mothers).
I was raised only with brothers until I was nearly 12 years old and as such I have a much better grasp of how to raise a son than I do a daughter. I'm still not the most feminine woman. I would struggle helping a daughter with things like doing her hair and makeup, and I hate shopping, but I would try my hardest to get better at it and get into those activities for her sake.
I cannot imagine not loving a child simply because of how they were born. I'm pretty sure I'm infertile, (shit medical where I live so I haven't gotten any testing done, but 2 years of trying and no luck yet) but if I'm ever blessed enough to have a child you are damn right I'm going to love them unconditionally and do my best to raise them into a healthy, happy, properly functioning adult.
I do believe you are correct speaking of hardships coming in our not to distant future. It may not be war or famine, but trouble does seem to be brewing especially when you hear of stories like this one. These extreme feminists seem to forget that we absolutely need strong, confident, able bodied men in order to have a healthy, properly functioning society.
I cannot send enough love to you and your family. We desperately need more more parents like you in the world to help balance out some of this craziness.
TOXIC PROPLE ARE TOXIC 👏👏 Say it louder for the people in the back.
That literally broke my heart, what a poor child. I have a son and love him more than life itself and would give my life for him, if needed. These people are PURE EVIL.
This is just so sad. I'm pregnant and I find out the gender of my pudding person this week. The idea of someone hating their child because of their gender makes me want to cry. How could you carry a child inside you and then associate them with rapists because of something completely out of their control? I hope that kids ok.
As someone who actually got pregnant and had a child from rape, this story disgusts me. Are these women even mentally stable enough to be parents? And imagine being that poor little boy listening to all this. I'm shocked they didn't abort him or smother him or something.
As stated above, I was raped and got pregnant from it. I ultimately decided to keep the baby and that little boy (who is now 4) is my everything. I love him more than anything and don't even think about how he came to be or who his father is. Sure, it took me a little while to develope a bind with him all things considered but now we are inseperable. I couldn't imagine life without him.
As a side note, I hope you got yourself justice through your rapist’s going to jail. He should be on forced labor, and the money from that should go to you and the kid.
@Juan Ocampo What the hades kind of question is that?
I'm so sorry you experienced that. You are a strong lady.
@Juan Ocampo But why is it an honest question? What would make you even come to it? I highly doubt a woman who is raped cares less because the man is attractive. She was still put in a circumstance against her will which had a ripple effect on her body for the next 9 months. If she accepted the child its probably because its just a child who had no say in its own conception. Some women probably do pin the "sins of the father" onto their son, but most women are probably mentally stable enough to not do something that irrational. Evil is nurtured, not natured.
you are a woman with morals,compassion and maturity quite frankly really cool and great it must be hard to overcome that but you did it
Oh the fucking irony, as someone who grew up in a country where hating female infants are something people use to do (and some still do) this is just disheartening. Lets just admit that no matter gender, race, sex,sexuality, some humans are just awful
Asia?
@@holdencross5904 china i believe.
@@holdencross5904 yep
@@MrRedemption7 YEP
"gender, sex" - there is only one of those...
I've grown up with an incredible mother and two sisters (as well as an awesome brother and father), and because of the way my mom has loved me and raised me I respect her more than anyone in the world, and as a result respect women greatly. When a mother loves her son unconditionally, he will respect women. When a woman treats a man or young boy as inferior based solely on gender, that is when problems arise.
Imagine knowing that your parents hated you since even before your birth. This will be devastating for that kid, and many more who will be born into hate traps like this.
Lesbians should never ever have babies…
They opted out men. They made a choice, live with that.
We need to force our politicians eyes to open. To cancel the pride campaigns all over the world…
As someone who is roughly 9 months pregnant with a boy, this whole story pisses me off. I pray that baby boy ends up in a loving home.
To say that this couple isn’t fit to be parents of ANY child is an understatement.
Exactly they don’t deserve to be parents 😡
@@flobrez2470
I would only just barely trust them with potted plants ...
This is another reason why this needs to be regulated. And like the late George Carlin said who’d want to fuck them in the first place. I’m surprised that all the religious groups like the Southern Baptist convention doesn’t say anything about this. If this was a Muslim country this will not be tolerated at all and never would be happing.
Mom of two boys here 🥰I
wouldn’t change having sons for the world ! They are sooo loving , protective and it doesn’t matter how big they get ( mine tower over me now 21 and 13 ) the look of love in their eyes for you never changes and they will ALWAYS be your baby .
Love being a boy mom 💕
I wish you so much love , happiness and health to you and your baby boy
@@karl4792 Exactly!!! My son is 20. If I say "no matter how old you get...."
he says "I know. I'll always be your baby." And they are protective at an early age. When my son was about 5 he liked to pretend "the bad guys are coming" . So he would announce it, then say "get down Mom!" and he would shoot them with "finger guns". I love my son so much! He makes me proud every day!
If they want to talk about privilege, fine. Let’s talk about privilege. They had a baby through IVF and don’t want it because it’s a boy. There are literally millions of women who can’t physically have kids of their own that would be disgusted by the ingratitude of it all.
Not to mention that many of those women can't afford the luxury of IVF to have those wanted children.
Not to mention women who *CAN* have children but have lost a wanted, loved child to miscarriage or stillbirth.
@Ecard Ecardian Girls don't have a Y chromosome.
Also isn’t IVF like $100,000?
4 letter words that don't rhyme with mother
Fascinating, Sydney. Seeing this story, I would have called CPS IMMEDIATELY!!! How could this not be child abuse?
I'm adopted. My oldest child is my natural son, but my younger son is adopted (I adopted him when I married his mother). Along the way, I've also had three step-kids who I always treated as my kids, because ... my kids deserve to be loved no matter how they came into my family and my life ... these women you discussed are abominations! Wholely Molely!
That is so incredibly awful.. 😫 I thought we were having a girl just because my mom kept saying “you’re having a girl I know it..” & she’s pretty intuitive towards her daughter (myself) so I was pretty much convinced that I was & then they called me at work to tell me “it’s a boy!” I was happy but part of me felt guilty at first but once I told his daddy/ my Hubbs - he was soo happy & I realized I will love my baby no matter what! He’s the best blessing we could have ever received & I wouldn’t change a thing! & I’ve unfortunately been sa’d more than I’d like to admit from childhood to adulthood by getting something put in my drink etc. the list goes on & it’s trauma I have to constantly try & remind myself doesn’t define me but no way in hell do I compare my son to any of those pieces of shit. These women don’t sound like fit parents, honestly. The girl child would be just as traumatized, I’m sure they would find a reason to hold a grudge on that child too. 🤦♀️ Love your channel, Sydney 🙏
I’m embarrassed to be a lesbian
then don't be
It’s not a Lesbian thing, but rather a sociopath thing.
don't be. just be.
Speak louder, so they can hear in fear.
I think the "Lesbian" brand has shifted far away from you; so far that it would be more accurate to call you "homosexual" now. You are a homosexual woman. The political lesbians have lost the plot.
As a father of 3, 2 boys and a little girl, these people make me shake my head at their insanity. They are more than likely going to ruin this child. Wouldn't be surprised if the kid eventually self deletes himself later. Makes me both angry and sad thinking about it.
The self obsessed narcissism in these ladies is insane! Further proof that some people shouldn't be allowed to have children
Self deletion would be getting rid of their "problem" this is where serial killers come from! I hope they all get help and it doesn't come to any of it and that boy gets someone in his life that loves him so much.
They'll just force the boy to be trans and make him a her. And at the soonest chance possible, they'll pump him full of estrogen and cut off his genitals. All so they can finally have the "Girl" they wanted from the start.
Better watch out. These people love to become teachers so they can spread their mental diseases.
That baby needs to be taken into welfare care. He will not be ok where he is.
Take the boy from them, and NEVER let them have another child EVER.
My mother destroyed my family when I was 12. I dont give a shit what happens to her anymore. She will get no love from me unless she comes correct with an apology right off the bat. Until then I dont even want to hear about her.
This is so depressing, honestly. I feel bad for all the boys who their whole lives are told that they're oppressors and that they are entitled and basically treated like the scum of the earth. I think some criminals will be born out of such upbringing
Criminals? More like an army of Ted Bundy's...
@@highlyopinionated5611 Was thinking the same sort of thing.
Know how many dudes in prison came from single mother homes?.. Already there bud
ever seen the boys from brazil? this is like the recipe for little baby hitlers.
@@jwn5 Know how many school shooters come from 2 parent households? Because women aren't buying them guns, it's their fathers
I was molested for 8 years as a naturally born (and still) female. I did a lot of therapy and overcame those crippling side effects of that abuse. I don’t see my rapist in every man I meet. These people need mental help.
I'm sorry you went through it, but good for you for taking the steps to heal ❤️
I am sos sorry to hear that, I hope you are doing better ❤️
But you have common sense obviously. Those people dont.
Your knife sales pitch (using your Australian accent to mimic Crocodile Dundee) is gold!
I had 2 miscarriages, always wanted a son, it was my dream of taking care of a baby boy ;)..But if I ever had a daughter, I would love her just as much as I would love my son, there should be no differences..
This is what I want.
I am boy I also kinda hate Morden Feminist but it doesn't mean I will never had a Girl
I also wanted a Girl child just want to understand how my girl feels to be daddy princess.
@@green_hedger_68 exactly..
Well, my mom want to abort me because my dad doesn’t want a daughter, men get away with not wanting a daughter.
Imagine after he's grown and can read all about this. I feel so bad for this little guy 🥺
He will be fine.
@@poha4749 no he wont. knowing his mom subtly despises him
@@ah5721 he’ll know even without finding about this
@@poha4749 I doubt it
@@FirstNameLastName-tm4tg he wouldn't care.
*Imagine being raised by a mother you know hates you, they should allow someone to adopt the kid.*
there is a method for assuring this poor child is no longer with those two insanity laden *women*
but we will leave that unsaid....
Yep not good had a friend mom like this .... It end with her trying to kill time too
I'll do it. I have a two year old and a one year old. They'll get along famously.
Mother hates you
Get put up for adoption
Be adopted by Dave Rubin
I was raised by a Mother who hated me. Abuse by women is almost ignored by society. In fact it is supported and sometimes celebrated.
So no one’s recommending therapy? Not even the hospital she’s suing?
Thank you for doing the heavy lifting and summarizing the craziness for us! You rock! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
My wife had post partum pretty bad when she gave birth to my daughter and hit some pretty low points but NOT ONCE did she ever shy away or distance herself from our daughter or ever have any resentful feelings. She powered through regardless of how she was feeling and has been an amazing mother. She nor i could never understand the mindset of these two women. It kills me and makes my brain hurt.
PPD sucks so bad.
I hope your wife is recovering well from it.
See, at least she knew that how she was feeling was from an imbalance, and was a condition!!! These creeps refuse to see their condition!!! And I pray your wife found support and is through it!! My daughter suffers from PPMD and diet and supplements have been a game changer for her mental health🙏🏻
Your baby is so cute
Reads like you have an amazing wife. Bless y'all.
When I had my first baby I didn’t want anything to do with him. It made me sick when I touched him. But I still did it because I know he needed me. He’s 9 and I still have a hard time with contact but besides that I make sure to give him lots of love. PPD is really hard.
My mom was a hardcore feminist, and while she never said this quiet part out loud, her actions spoke much louder than words ever could.
did she hate you
I think this comes as an overcorrection to how society overvalues sons when they're born. In Third world countries boys are the saving grace while women are domesticated from birth for men to marry - the main issue is that this practice is so extreme that the men don't have to prove their worth, they can be a bum and get a submissive wife. The West has First World Nations that co-opts issues of the Third World to antagonizes and vilify boys because The West allows women more freedoms and ample time to notice certain biases that aren't in their favour. ie. Sometimes people are used to being given things and don't consider the reasons why Boys Scouts is for BOYS.
That's why they call them "mothers."
Feminism is both hatred of women and men.
Sadly it goes both ways as my mother was disappointed in me once she realized I was a tomboy and not a girly girl. All of that love and support went to my very girly little sister.
I was used as free childcare while my older brothers were never expected to change diapers or give up time with friends to help raise children that were not even mine. Of course I love my little siblings, but I should never have been out in that position.
I'm assuming the relationship you have with your mother is just as strained as the relationship I have with mine.
Actions do speak louder than words. My mother would never admit that she doesn't love me like some of my other siblings, but the way I was treated by her said it all.
Just watching this now, and I'm seriously worried with where this world is going to end up. I have a daughter and a son, they are both amazing (yep, the boy too) and I didn't have to do anything for him to be respectful, kind and trustworthy, other than be respectful, kind and trustworthy myself. These "creatures" should not be allowed to have offsprings at all as children learn by example.
8:51 What does she mean her husband is an exception?! but her possible future baby boy isnt?! How can you despise a little child because of its gender?! Your OWN child. These people are insane. They are doing the same thing that they blame men for doing towards women. I dont even have the words. Dont get me started on the abortion stuff. That is the most vile and evil thing I've seen in quite a while...
I was raped as a young teenager and I had a son first. I adore my son with every fiber of my being. The feeling of being pregnant with him is one of the most amazing feelings I've ever felt in my life and I pity this woman for being so woke that she can't enjoy the beauty of a child that she brought into this world
Bless you for your wonderful love.❤️❤️❤️
There's something satisfying about gaining a victory from disaster.
Bless you and your son.
I feel bad for you but changes can happen,bless you and your son
Thank you but don't feel bad for me. I have had set backs but I am the mother of two amazing humans. So for each situation that was negative all I need to do it look at them.
This is exactly how I was raised, by a feminist mother that openly expressed contempt for my crime of existing as male. Caused all sorts of problems in my early adulthood, and some that I still contend with today. It ain't easy.
You should get her to custody.
Sorry to hear that. I hope you don't repeat the trauma (as we all for our parents' imperfections).
Life is hard. Don’t make it harder. Be a good man. God loves you!!
Feminism itself is weaponized child abuse
Stay strong brother, and good luck on your healing journey.
if men that have been abused/assaulted/sexually assaulted etc said they’re uncomfortable with all women or wouldn’t want a daughter , they’d get sectioned.
I hope the social services are keeping an eye on those ones. This is seriously concerning.
I've tried to write a comment multiple times, but I can't string together enough words to express my utter RAGE at these scumbags. This is why I'm against IVF. Some people might genuinely use it for good, but hell, it's too much power in today's insane culture. Unborn children are now customizable characters that, if undesirable, can just be thrown away and never thought of again. I don't care how much trauma you've gone through; you don't get to treat a freaking LIVING BEING like that.
I've been there.
Writing and deleting, writing and deleting, and writing and deleting; but my words can never express how angry I am or whatever other emotions.
Agree, and sadly IVF will be abused in that manner more and more.
It's a godsend and a gateway for unscrupulous people to abuse all in one.
@@POIUYTREWQ62 or worse. You write it and youtube deletes it within a minute or so without you knowing its gone. I wouldn't know this happens if I hadn't refreshed a page once.
Kids have always been customizable, dont play coy.
@@Jes9119 - Happens to me on a regular basis. Apparently I'm the wrong "demographic": I'm not one of their Leftist cult garbage human peers.
So I copy every post I make, refresh to see if it's still there, and modify it until they stop deleting it. Even if I have to intentionally misspell words and use nothing but euphemisms.
This is really sad no wonder our society is collapsing .
Welcome to the apocalypse
I don't think this would be why it's collapsing
@@minagica People like you are the reason why feminism is scene as woman wanting to be more than men, Excuse me.
@@minagica It’s just the mindset of most people, I’d understand if somebody had a child but didn’t want or have a choice in its conception but to simply cast away a life before it even does anything is the act of depravity to me. Not every person is good but not every person is bad.
Welcome to a gynocentric social order, where chaos is the norm and collapse is unavoidable, only a matter of time
Rape and sexual assault has been thrown around so much by women I’m pretty sure they forgot what the definition is of those 2 things.
Calling that "just like rape" is a disrespect to people who have been raped.
So, when this woman gets old, and she needs someone to take care of her: DON'T YOU DARE CALL YOUR SON TO DO IT!
Her Son: "Mom, I booked you a "holiday" in Switzerland. You can choose between Exit and Dignitas."
@@aleisterlavey9716 Absolute gold! You win the internet today.
As a mother of a sweet and gentle 2 year old boy and another boy on the way, it's stories like these that deeply disturb me. This is one of the reasons I'm striving to have as many children as I can, to outbreeed these psychos.
Love this. I wish I could of done this, I’m 35 and only just blessed with my miracle baby after suffering 7 losses, it’s a little boy too 🥰. I still hope after this little blessing I can successfully have more before I’m too old. Children are the best things in the world.
Aash awesome, when you due? My sister is due with her second sea monkey, a baby boy. Her 3 year old daughter the WHOLE of last year talked about my sister having twins, and she wants them to be brothers. She named them, started "practicing" looking after them by carrying around bother her dolls. It was hilarious. Then just before Christmas she found out she was pregnant. But she was relieved to find out she wasn't having twins ( as my niece is a Hurricane) but we just found out, she is indeed having a boy, and we are so excited
unfortunately it doesn't work like that. I have six sisters. all but one are insane leftist SJW trans activists feminists. My oldest sister is transitioning her son.
Godspeed
Wish I knew how important it was for intelligent and kind people have large families. You go girl! Have as many as God will allow.
Stuff like this has been going on for a long time. Speaking as another unwanted child I feel so helplessly sad for those boys.
Thank you for this video! From deep down my hearth! Thank you.
"But feminism isn't about hating men!"
Actions speak louder than words.
Too bad the feminists are so clueless as to the fact that is exactly how they are perceived and I am a woman noticing that.
Neo-feminism sure is
There is a difference between feminism and misandry pretending to be feminism. The women Sydney talks about are clearly misandrists who think they are feminists.
@@sebastiansiodla5573 No, they're the real feminists and the others are useful idiots. Feminism is socialism for women and the basis for socialism is the demonizating of a group, in this case men. Feminism is man hating and always has been so.
4th wave feminism is. Disgusting.
This makes me so sad. My husband and I adopted a little boy and took him home from the hospital. We were so excited and lived our little boy. The mother changed her mind 2 weeks later and I had to hand my son over to her. I say my son because for two weeks I stayed up all hours of the night as he struggled to sleep at night without being held, fed him, consoled him and loved him all I could. I don't remember the next three months. The doctors told me I won't have a baby. Not even with IVF. I can sleep at night because the boy I once called my son was wanted and loved by his mother. I still miss him and I lost something irretrievable when I lost him. How can these women want to throw away their child? Every child deserves love, even if you didn't plan them. And they planned him, whether they think they did or not. If you want to know how men who can treat women like garbage are raised, look at how these women treat their son. You will find textbook replicas of this in the childhoods of many serial killers.
I am SO SORRY for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you've been put through...giving you a son and then taking him away...like returning a commodity to the store. There's something very wrong with the adoption process when such a thing is allowed to occur. I hope you'll be able to adopt again. I Have no doubt you'll be a wonderful, loving mother.
Im so sorry to hear this. An aunt of my husbands went through the same thing. She had gone through IVF and other treatments and had never had anything work. At Christmas she brought home a daughter named Rachel. Just after new years, the mother took her back. 6 months later they got their son, and it helped heal the wound. Although the family doesn't talk about her, and it was only in diaries i found out, my husband (would have been almost a year) and his brother (would have been 3) have named basically every pet Rachel, because subconsciously they loved their little cousin so much. The aunt appreciates it, and still thinks of her as her daughter.
That's terrible. There should be more checks and balances I think... a contract that legally prevents a biological mother from "changing her mind". If you are so readily willing to give up your baby and you do, you should lose all right to that baby. Adoption needs to be a serious matter. The fact that the biological mother clearly didn't even think about it long enough to know their own feelings on the matter and was still able to just give their kid away like that without any assurance that she wouldn't take her baby back, infuriates me to no end. If I could, I'd make it illegal. You give up guardianship of your child, you lose all privileges and rights to that child. Maybe then these women would actually think about it more. Maybe try and raise the baby for a couple weeks. If she had she would have been glad she didn't given her baby away... but here we are.
That's a thing? I can't even PSN refunds but they can take a baby back?
@@An.Unsought.Thought There's MANY considerations you are not making: the physical toll and hormones of child bearing, the money involved in adoption (many single women are pressured while in delicate states. ---and you expect someone who just went through bearing a child into this world to always make "the right" decision?
They say don't make any major financial decisions for 3 months after a death in the family, and that's just if you get an inheritance to spend.
And you expect a single woman likely guilted and pressured while under the influence of some of the most powerful hormones (and if in a hospital likely drugs also) known to man to make the life long decision of raising her own child or not over money (because that's always what it's about) and just "get it right"?
Stop it. Just sit down and really maybe think on it and grow a soul.
😂 “fight my ovaries!” I’m can’t breathe! As a mother of 5, I definitely feel like my kids will have the upper hand in a society that has no common sense.
That is a heavy cross to bear for that young man. I hope he beats the odds and makes something good of his life ...
Unacceptable. That child needs to be taken to a safe haven. Social services cannot in good conscience leave that baby in the care of this blatant misandrist.
Believe it or not, social services are so bad and outright abusive towards children that they are actually better off with these terrible "mothers". And that's saying something.
Social services is a joke, they won't do anything unless something actually happens to the child. It's sick.
And these are the mothers who will groom their children to "transition", for their own selfishness. "You could become a girl if you wanted, mommy would love you more and pay you more attention"....
That’s so awful 😢
Bruh stfu this barely ever happens, and when it does they get shunned and the child eventually chooses what’s right for themselves, don’t turn this into something else.
Sickening..but so true.
And ppl now are throwing around the word "Grooming" like its candy (I'm looking at you Twitter), its slowly losing its real meaning
@@fae1283 the person who made the comment you commented on is not wrong
Great video! It is a compassionate and reasonable take on this crazy situation with these women and their male phobia. They are unfit to be parents, and should seek psychiatric therapy.
Imagine being a boy growing up with parents like this and, somewhere along the way, realizing that you were not wanted by these parents. I can't even begin to imagine how devastating that would be. Your innocence wouldn't simply be lost; it would be _destroyed._ I can only hope that boys who suffer this kind of abuse find help and healing before it's too late.
I remember seeing a documentary many many years ago about women like this. One of the women in the documentary stood out the most because she was actually filmed sitting in front of her little boys proudly announcing that she didn't love them and that the day that they were born was the worst days of her life because she wanted a girl. She eventually did have a girl, but if I remember correctly she had 3 boys before her. The documentary also showed several clips of her playing princess with the little baby girl while completely ignoring her boys who were trying to get her attention. I remember that she set off a huge storm of resentment and a big discussion at the time. These days I feel like this would be considered okay by a lot of people and that's disgusting.
My own mother wasn't this extreme but she has told me that her dream was a girl so when she had my brothers she was really disappointed at first. When she then later found out that she was pregnant with me, she couldn't have been more excited to finally have the baby girl that she so badly wanted. Plot-twist? When I was born, during birth, I had apparently kicked her so hard in the ribs from the inside that she lost her breath and was in serious pain for a while afterwards. In that second I immediately lost my place as the "most wanted one" and instead became the least wanted one because by kicking her I had failed her even before being born. So even though I started out as her grand price-kid, I have since then never been able to get her love or approval or even come close to being as loved as my brothers are. "Black sheep" is putting it nicely. The way I see it, it's not necessarily a sex-thing, but these people have an idea in their heads of what their perfect baby is and the sex is only a small part of it. Whether they actually are the right sex or not doesn't matter in the long run because that child, like me, will have to spend their whole lives trying to live up to that image in the parent's head of what the perfect child is and if they fail they will be cast out like I was. It's narcissism, pure and simple. What saddens me is that this is something that would be looked down upon only a couple of years ago and now it is becoming more and more normalized. It's disgusting.
It's because of the ongoing misandry that labels itself feminism. It's pervaded the culture to the point where it's OK to berate a man if he screws up, but you're a monster if you hold a woman accountable for any screw up. The erasure of boys in school at the hands of mostly female teachers has basically outlawed horseplay, pretending your hands are guns, or any other form of kinetic imagination play in favor of a social emotional domain focused on the needs and preferences of the girls. It's led to a constant struggle session against 'toxic masculinity' while screaming misogyny if any toxic aspects of femininity are even mentioned. In short, men, particularly white heterosexual christian men are actively being disowned by western society, which is amazing given that most of those societies were built by the same group. I sincerely hope that whatever the post modernism of today is building is better than what came before it, but pessimistically believe that it will be far worse and will blame its failure on the very people it is trying to remove from daily life.
I'm sorry you had a.mother like that. I can relate. I appreciate how you refined the focus from the generic "feminist" to the type of person (ie narc) we need to be identifying as the problem.
Your experience is so similar to mine.
My mother had three boys before I came along and only stayed with my biological father as long as she did in order to try again and again for a girl.
She promised one of my older brothers and myself that she would never remarry nor have anymore children. Her not having more children was important to us as we were already attention starved, how can you give enough attention to 4 children while being a single parent who works full time? Who even promises something like that?
I ended up being a tomboy which is not what she was looking for in a daughter and after remarrying when I was 8 she started to have more babies. It didn't take long for me to become free childcare for her and even before my sister was born it was clear to me that I didn't matter like I once had.
My older brothers were rarely, if ever, expected to care for the younger children, however it was expected that I would have to give up time with my friends even if said activity had been planned for some time.
When I was bullied in school one of my bullies lived across the street from us and would torment me if I played in the front yard. This girl would put up signs in her windows saying horrible things about me while her parents were both at work so we kept our blinds shut and I never played outside. One of my brothers is schizophrenic and during that time was undiagnosed and very violent. My other brothers and I would stay in the one room that had a lock on it and bang on the ceiling with a broom handle to get mom's attention so she could stand guard while we ran to the bathroom.
I begged her to let me stay home, change schools, or go live with my grandparents but even after developing a stress rash all over my legs at age 10 she adamantly refused.
When my little sister started to get bullied years later, (no bully across the street, no violence inside the home at this point) she was allowed to stay home whenever she wanted and my mom let her change schools.
This hurt immensely, even moreso because I felt like I had to protect my mother and help her in any way I could from a very young age. When my opinions started to become different from hers our relationship got worse.
When one of my older brothers died suddenly and her friends didn't/couldn't understand the loss and pain I became her closest friend and her counselor as well as her main form of childcare.
After a little more than a year of this and dealing with my own grief I moved out suddenly one day without telling my family. I knew if I said anything about it they would try to get me to stay and use fear to do so and at that point I was on the verge of suicide.
Our relationship has never been the same. I don't think she consciously did any of these things, and the relationship she had with her mother was not a healthy one by any means, but the damage was done. It's even more strange because it seems like she blames me and my actions as a child and young adult to be the main cause of this rift.
I love my mother dearly, but it can be very hard sometimes to like her as a person. I don't know why she treated me this way and I will most likely never have any solid answers.
If I am lucky enough to have children I am going to do my absolute best to make sure they know that they are loved and that I am there to protect them, not the other way around.
Wow your mom must be one fkd up individual
at least she didn't brainwashed you. I am sorry you had to go through that no one deserves that. I hope you and your brothers are doing ok!
The parents proudly & loudly speaking about being that phobic & venomous towards men makes me seriously fearful for that poor child… it’s honestly horrifying to think of the future he faces with such deeply disturbed parents.
When you refer to them as parents...that's concerning. We live in a hyper-sexual society. This is the net result of preference over practicality.
If there's a lot of modern "birthing parents" with these values, I wonder how long it will be before the West has the reverse problem that China did with the all-male "One Child" policy....
Child protective services should be called
This legal case in the making sad situation is making me think due to the higher domestic violence rates among same sex couples that maybe they shouldn't be allowed to adopt or IVF.
@@MsWest-tf6xu whats even more coincidental, lesbians have the highest rate of DV out of all relationship types. This was a survey awhile ago where they asked 100 straight, 100 gay, and 100 lesbian couples. Lesbians reported the most DV issues.
I can`t believe the level of cruelty some people display, children need parents, they depend on them ...... does it matter if the kids are male or female?
*Levels of ingratitude I did not think possible until now*
Instead of using this experience to help get over her PTSD, she is digging her heels in and choosing hate. What a great mother...
PTSD.... that term used by feminists makes me vomit, when did they witness their mates pulped by tanks or mortars, did they have to engage in desperate hand to hand combat looking into someones eyes(who in better times could have been your friend ) as you end their life with a bayonet , f**king belittling men who paid the greatest price for freedom.
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PTSD is a condition of mind. Similarly to how a child can be terrified of a dark room whilst an adult is unphased, a person can experience PTSD from things you might not consider to be traumatizing. Also, similarly to how you would take care and show compassion to a child in fear of darkness, you should be understanding of other people's mental states. Telling someone that they are stupid for having PTSD isn't going to help them but comforting them will get them to trust you and with that trust you can guide them and help them heal.
@@myREALnameISiAM telling people that they have no idea of real suffering is something sorely lacking in our current social state.
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But you'll never get the point across if you are shouting-down your target audience. What society is lacking is LOVE(!)
right? like I would assume she's had some therapy and her therapist didn't help her understand that? this could be a golden opportunity for her to put positive-closure to her assault issues. This poor kid is doomed.
"Associating your innocent child with rape is gross, and then acting that feeling out towards them is gross" - And hopefully is illegal, so if one sees this, be sure to contact child protective services...
Are you advocating for thought crimes? I understand your sentiment, buy your argument is disturbing
@@Jake-bt3fc you are!!!
@@Jake-bt3fc these aren't thought crimes. you are not allowed to threaten and not allowed to abuse children. their comments violate both.
@@Jake-bt3fc No, I'm saying when the person has clearly made a statement ( publically no less! ) of actually HATING their own child, you should contact child protective services.
It's then up to child protective services to make a judgement call after an investigation. If it's clearly a loving home and not an abusive one, no foul, otherwise, the kid would, and should be taken away.
Who's rights are more important, the parents, or the children? I'll argue the children take priority, so the threshold to investigate abuse should be far lower.
Then again I'm from Norway, one of the countries with the strictest child wellfare laws in the world( to the point where most of the world hear horror stories about our child protective services), so I might be a bit biased. Can gurantee, Child protective Services would've taken that child away on (clearly legit) grounds of abuse.
@@aztekenen1 Threatening and abusing your children is already illegal. It's not a judge's business what the thoughts and associations in your head are.
They should never have the power to project thoughts in your head to use as evidence against you.
You’re pretty funny Sydney. I have to say you’re the one of 2 UA-camrs ads I actually will watch.