I have failed every no-buy I've ever went on because I was using it to punish myself and I was thinking very black and white. This is so helpful, I wanna try again and be kinder to myself this time
I have done short term no buys and try to view them as a chance to use what I have instead of a punishment. Although usually they happen after I've don't a big birthday haul! So maybe kind of a punishment lol!!
If it's not a good time right now or if restricting is going to turn into a binge, it's totally cool to opt out! It's also ok if no-buys aren't for you. I do hope that whatever strategy you use in the future you can also be kind to yourself 💕
As a long time journaling person and someone who got out of a destructive habbit using journaling, if you want to journal about your journey of no-buy or buying habits or simply want a better coping mecanism, here's a couple of advice: -you don't need to buy a journal, if a bunch of loose sheets or memo pads is all you got, that's more than enough to start. Don't use journaling as an excuse to spend more. -don't journal everyday for no reason, you'll find it pointless and get discouraged. Only do it when it makes sense for you. -trackers only work for a small proportion of people who try them. They never worked for me, but something else did (see the next point) -try to replace a coping mecanism with another, in this case buying -> journaling. Everytime you really feel like buying, write. You can write about anything you want, it doesn't even have to do with the no-buy, it can be the lyrics of your favorite song if you can't think of anything and need a distraction. -pick your favorite pen/pencil or even crayons if that's your vibe, you don't need to buy a pilot whatever or a zebra something something. As long as you enjoy your writting tool so that it encourages you to use it. -if you do end up buying when you weren't supposed to, try to journal about the experience, about how it made you feel, why did you do it, what's the result of this spending, etc. Could be good, could be bad, what matters is making you write more and making you aware of your internal signals so you have more power over them and not the opposite.
Lol, I think I've been doing point 4 with crafting! Giving myself the dopamine hit from the novelty by turning the craft supplies and surplus items I already have lying around into something new for FREE!
Your "Don't use journaling as an excuse to spend more" of this comment really hit a chord with me. I did a very sobering calculation of the money I've spent on journaling (and its sibling planning) supplies in the last two years. Journaling started being a very useful tool to help manage my mental health, then in spiralled into a destructive cycle of spending both money and probably worse, time, on chasing all the journaling things - while not really doing much journaling itself.Same for planning: the money and time I spent on planning supplies had an inverse effect on the relaxation and productivity I get out of planning. My stationery stash is by no means as huge as some as I've seen online, but it's got out of control. I'm now systematically trying to use up all the things (or donate/sell them).
Yes! The other day I looked through my old journals and found one from 10 years ago where I wrote down what happened every day no matter what for like three months. Looking back, I was so busy writing things down that I didn’t analyze anything I was going through- not the best use of my time.
For those struggling no buying more things I encourage you to make it a game, it's been fun to me to use up things and see how new spaces clear up. My problem area tends to be hobbies/craft and stationary items.
Yes, absolutely!!! I also decided to start a "use it all" insta, not for likes or anything, but just to share my journey and keep track of used products.
I am exactly 2 weeks into my no buy journey! I've dealt with an on-and-off shopping addiction my whole life and finally got sick of it. Haven't bought a single piece of clothing in 2 weeks and I feel great :) your videos have been so helpful!
I did a no buy year in 2022. After taking inventory of my stuff, I made a list of 10 things I would not buy for the year. It was more about getting my over consumption under control. It was hard at first, but by month 2 it felt so freeing. Best of luck to you all.
I’m going on an “Online Shopping” no-buy. Pre-pandemic, I was never much of a shopper, but after Covid I got really sucked into shopping online. So from now until October, I’m not going to buy anything online. If I really want the item, I’m going to have to drag my butt into the store. I know that most of the time, boredom+stress is an online shopping trigger, but most of the time I won’t be SO bored as to want to walk into a store to buy something. So, I expect I will spend significantly less.
Same here before the pandemic I really never bought anything online. Now is something I'm so used to and like you said is out of boredom. I'm totally doing a no online buy august 😊
I have technically been on a no buy since January with just a couple of slip ups but then in June I went through a big trauma situation and lost half my income. I am still trying to come to grips with that and I have spent some money figuring out new ways to do things to make life easier for me. I was going to jump in on your no buy as a reinforcement to the one I’m on, but then you said if you have been through a trauma, this might not be the time for a no buy. I think you’re right. I’ve had an entire lifestyle adjustment while also having a significant handicap. Although I can no longer afford to spend anything on anything frivolous, I also have to accept that I have had to buy a few products to make life work with my handicap. I’m going to observe from the sidelines while trying my best not to spend any extra money and to cut down on the monies I do spend as that is going to be necessary anyway. But at least I won’t feel any pressure and I don’t need any pressure right now..
I think a replacement only no-buy August would be a good idea for me. I'm not an overspender, but I DO spend too much time browsing online and buying every new makeup item that catches my eye at the drugstore. It's something I do to make myself feel better. While my browsing and purchasing do not get in the way of my financial goals, it definitely is a waste of time. I do not need yet another new lipstick!
I am in for a No buy August! I am fortunate in that I have a nice income, and savings, and money isnt an issue, but I spend ... a lot on things I dont NEED. And I think about how much MORE we could save if I did this even only a few times a year. BUT I will give myself grace - I'm not perfect and I do fly back and forth across the country twice a month, so I do have needs that can pop up as I travel that many do not. But as I am ALSO on a 'year of decluttering' voyage... so for this no buy challenge, for every item I purchase that I DO NOT NEED... I have to get rid of THREE items (real items, not hair ties or thumb tacks LOL). Great idea Shawna!
💰 Shawna's questions for your successful No Buy project: 3:24 ⏰️ Is this the right *time* to give up your shopping coping mechanism? 6:06 ⚡️How much personal bandwidth and energy will you devote to the No Buy? 8:25 🛍 Start a No Buy with one product category! Consider these options: 27:13 11:57 👩🔬 Approach the No Buy as an experiment where mistakes are expected! 26:01 💵 You can have a successful No Buy and still spend money on exceptions!
I need to go on a no buy for candles and perfume for awhile I work at bath and body works so I can tend to have a problem… I am very much trying to not have a shopping addiction anymore so your videos have been rlly helping on making me see I have a problem 😭
@@sourcherry444 it’s my weak spot with shopping to I’m at around 300 candles that is insane 💀 and a lot of FFM as well those things take forever to go through so yeah I’m going to have to start pushing myself to go on a no buy when I am there 🤣
Can you make it a spot the difference game for yourself? Like you see something you like at work so you go home and go through what you have for the closest match, maybe testing a few scents/combinations over a few shifts by the end of which the novelty of the new scent has worn off and you've rediscovered one you have that you like
Omg wax melts and body care are my weaknesses as well! At this point I've got enough wax for several years 😅 Definitely cutting way back until I get a lot of it used up.
Mine is buying coffee out. I can only use the amount that's on the app and I cant reload it because that's where I spend the most money at. Also im not going to buy fast food for the month of August unless someone get it for me like my bf or parents
i dont think im going to do a no-buy but i think im going to try a no-new-projects month - i have a few different home projects that i want to complete, that i have all the supplies for! so im going to try and finish a project every week instead of getting excited about a new project, buying all the supplies, and abandoning it when i get just past the buy-new-things step! for accountability: skate storage, new bookshelf/office setup, bed frame, hallway painting
I’m in the process of doing this too! I wrote all my projects down and I’ve worked through a couple projects already. It’s honestly SO rewarding seeing my list *decrease* instead of a never-ending treadmill of new projects. Let’s go! 🙌🙌
Started a no-buy in March, and happy to say that I have kept at it. I started it because I had to move house, and got a new job that wouldn’t start until May (so two months without a pay check), I’m at a point where I don’t feel the need to buy most things (except replacing old shoes that ive had for 3+ years). It’s an exciting and rewarding experience, has helped me get my finances in order (def priority) but also helped me answer the question “why do I feel like buying sth?” I will definitely recommend!
I appreciated the comments on travel - I like the idea of doing a no-buy in August but I am traveling the first week and had already planned to buy a few things (a book and some yarn from local stores, as well as museum/event tickets). There's no reason I should discount the whole month and wait until September!
I will do the no buy. I don’t buy much but I think I need to focus on not browsing. Boredom for me is browsing to add to my wishlist or just to see what’s new. I will do a no buy/no browse.
Very relevant to me too!! I'm not doing a full no buy, but I'm starting my new budget and being planful in spending, starting in August! I'm excited to start this journey, good luck to you too. ❤
Doing No Buy July now,planning on continuing until end September when going to London- would rather spend money on the trip than unnecessary stuff right now! Enjoyed the video!
I found your content at JUST the right time. I've made bad financial decisions in the path and I'm determined to stop this shopping addiction. Whenever I feel and urge or I feel restless I put your videos on and they literally take me off the ledge. TYSM for your content! I will participate in no buy august as I'm starting a no buy year too. Thank you again for your much needed content.
I have a no buy life. Not my choice. I have a chronic illness and very little income but want to live independently. Its important to take time to look at your life as it exists right now, then decide where you have excess. When I cut down from full time to casual work, but found I was still buying clothes and make up at the rate needed for my full time job. Once I realised that that was for a life that no longer existed, I got focused on what I needed for living my current life. FYI I still have coats from my full time life and I quit that 12 years ago lol. I havent bought a new coat in 7 years. I do not miss it at all.
while my no-buy era has come out of need/major budget overhaul, something that really helps me is to keep a running list of stuff that i want but am not sure i want to spend the money on. i revisit that list maybe every other month (or whenever i add something to it) and prune off what was ultimately a temporary fixation. it gives me the space to not only really consider how that item will fit in my home, but if its something that i can see myself really getting use out of and enjoying. it also makes it really easy when someone asks me what i want for my birthday lol!
I would love to do a no buy, but I'm on a constant no buy and can't buy less. I don't need anything! I love to have what I have and adapting to new objects, incorporating them into my life ... that's stressful. I love the way you talk about this topic, it's so inspiring and relaxing to listen. Each time you put out a new video I'm beyond excited :)
I was so happy when I saw this. I think I’m gonna try this!! This month I went a little too crazy because I’m going back to school and I hadn’t bought anything all summer so I had a lot of makeup empty’s and no clothes. Ive also been extremely depressed and online shopping distracts me from life. I’ve been feeling really guilty about it, so this seems like it would be good for me.
July has been super expensive and I've overspent at every turn. Need to make a plan to get myself together for August and September and pay off the £600 I put on my credit card
Doing a no buy for makeup. I just bought a bunch of stuff for my birthday and it's kind of overwhelming to have all the new stuff and the desire to use the older stuff I already owned. I kind of do this shopping pause to allow time to enjoy what I have.
I've been no-buy-curious for awhile since getting into your videos and I think this is my sign! I've been doing no/low-buys in certain categories (yarn, candles, and makeup mostly) for a while now, but with recent (good) financial changes and an upcoming move I've been thinking about a more generalized no-buy so really reign in some other pieces.
I really love how you present this as flexible and to really consider if this is the right time or not. Of course we can always be more conscientious and aware of what we’re buying and whether it’s a need or not and whether we’re spending responsibly or not. But I do feel many people’s presentation of a no buy is very strict and with very few allowables. I tried to do one earlier this year and I did ok at first but I limited so many things that it felt kind of like a diet where I was like “I can have two tablespoons of creamer in my coffee and then no other sugar, no desserts or sweets, no processed food, no fried food, etc” and I’d do well for awhile and then eat something on the no list and then feel like a failure and have a hard time stopping. It was like that with shopping. I did great for a few weeks but then bought a little something and instead of learning from it or considering my constraints might be too much, I just quickly slid back into buying too much unnecessary crap. So I’m thinking a shorter no buy and more focused no buy list that’s aimed towards working on what my goals are and if I slip up, it’s ok, learn from it, and just continue on.
I'm in! I will spend on bills, groceries, and replacements only. I am also going to meal plan to try to use up pantry/freezer food I already have. It will be fun to follow along with you and others!
Hi Shawna! I saw an older video of yours about recommended reading and really liked it. Since you mentioned wanting to read more, maybe you could do another video of your recommended reading!
I’m on day 9 of my no buy. So proud of myself. 9 days doesn’t seem like a long time but usually I would purchase something (other than essentials) every single day
And my essentials are things like mortgage, car insurance/finance/gas, grocery. Basically the things that if I don’t pay, will be taken from me by the bank or if I don’t buy it I’ll die
I had just said to myself that I wanted to do a no buy in August as far as not buying anything that I need to live. This is mostly the category of clothing and craft supplies which I spend way too much on. I am going to challenge myself to use the craft stuff I already have and declutter the stuff that I never use or is just collecting dust. Thanks for the video that helps me guide me through it.
i dont buy random crap so it's not necessary to add to a no buy, but i will do a months-long no buy for clothes because that is my only thing i will over buy. so when i say "no buy," i really just mean i will not be buying clothes for x amount of time
I've been on a no buy still september 2023 when i lost my job. It was at that time out of necessity, but it has become a habit. I funneled what little i have toward my job hunt (i'm taking qualifications exam. In my country they are needed to work as a teacher) and i'm super happy to always find new ways to use what i already have from 7 years of abundance ^^ I've not bought any art supplies, clothes, stationery or books for a little over a year. I've however rediscover libraries and have acquired a very comfy pair of leather shoes and put to repair or mend a couple of older shoes and clothes ^^ it's actually really cool ❤ and i'm saving still a bit in order to take a couple of days vacationing during the winter ❤
I'm kinda on a no buy now, bc I need to get rid of my debts. Every time I was setting a specific timeline and terms, I failed. So this time I decided to concentrate on the goal, but not the restriction itself.
💛💛 Seeing others describe their previous attempts, I know I've done similar attempts to punish myself using a really rigid setup that would turn into shame when I would fail before. I won't be doing one anytime soon for particular categories, but I've been in an unlabeled no-buy for craft goods for a few months now (knit/crochet as a hobby for near 15 years, the knitting groups are full of photos of yarn stashes and I feel compelled to downsize what I have because I have taken up so much space at home with my yarn and needles). It isn't a punishment this time, it is simply "I should really find a use for everything I already have and actually finish those projects before buying something else, with exceptions for purchases where substituting with what I have genuinely isnt an option". When I no longer see yarn stashed away in four large piles across the house, I'll lift it (or if I am especially compelled for a special project, like baby blankets or large housewarming gifts), or if i use up my collection of illustration pens and alcohol markers I'll probably pick up more. Until then, I will probably continue to add to cart before abandoning it when I remind myself I have so much to finish already.
I love this video because it doesn't suggest that cutting out all unecessary expenses or going on an all-out no-buy is the only option. For me personally I've found that doing things to the extreme like cutting things out completely tends to always lead to a relapse into bad habits and sometimes even makes the problem worse. I've been focusing on slowing down, being more mindful of my actions and purchases in general and just making small adjustments as I go and I feel like this is going to be much more sustainable than a full-on no-buy in all aspects of my life (just the idea of that makes me feel panicky which is exactly the kind of mood that makes me want to buy things). I like that this video paints a no-buy as a positive thing rather than a punishment because I think that is a trap a lot of us fall into and I'm definitely taking inspiration from this in terms of being content and grateful even if I'm not planning a strict no-buy any time soon. Thank you for teaching mindfulness and knowing yourself rather than giving one-size-fits-all "solutions" and quick fixes, I've really found watching your videos helpful and inspiring.
I’m so glad this video found me, I’m doing a no-buy August too! I did one back in January (my version of “dry Jan” since I don’t drink 😅). I’ve been journaling for the last few weeks every night before I sleep to try to shake out some anxious thoughts and figure out where they stem from. What I found is that I thrift *a lot* as my “little treat” and tell myself it’s okay because it’s cheap and not creating demand for new things. However, I have a lot of “stuff” and while I’d like to declutter, I have a lot of guilt and eco anxiety about where the items go next (knowing that so much at thrift stores often doesn’t even make it to the racks! 😢). I want very much to break my overconsumption (even if it ~is~ secondhand) and start saving for the future so I’m hoping this is where that can start for me!
this is such an insightful video! super appreciate your compassionate perspective on no-buys, i’m really excited to try your tips. for a long time i’ve struggled with my spending because i too thought of no-buys as a form of punishment and i’d feel deprived. your content helps me soooo much ❤️
I went OFF THE RAILS buying from one of my favorite clothing brands this summer. I purchased SO MANY dresses. Yes they’re great quality and will last many years. But Did I need one of every style? No. 😔 I’m ashamed and am going to do a No (Clothes) Buy in august to feel like I have control again. I’ve already started it so will have an early start.
Im moving out for the first time on the first of august so august will be an expensive month for me😓 need everything from furniture to kitchen gadgets haha. Will hope to do a no-buy as soon as I have a stable living situation!!
I just did a no buy for makeup in June and July. I've technically "failed" because I bought replacements for things that I ran out of or am about to run out of. I was going to make the purchase once it was August but then ulta had a coupon for $20 off that was expiring before August. So I don't actually feel like i failed because it was an informed purchase I would have made in a week anyways.
have you seen creators like Kelly Gooch? she makes videos similar to these but still has products plugged into her youtube channel for commission. the hypocrisy is so strong
Thank you for considering all the facets of when a no buy is a good idea, and when it might add more stress to your life! Compassionate intention around these kinds of things is super important. We shan't shame ourselves in no buys!
Thanks for the video. I've been doing a no buy for a few months, but this month I made some purchases that really got me feeling regretful and guilty. Even though it was very needed stuff (mostly replacements because my cosmetic products are all ending at the same time for some reason), it's hard to find a balance and compromise yourself without being too radical.
I'm gonna do a no buy for August for cosmetics, because I have way too much stuff that I need to use up first. I've started my personal "shop my stash" challenge anyways, so this should be easy. The only thing I'm gonna repurchase is my cleansing oil to remove makeup, because this is an item I genuinely only repurchase once I run out of it and I always only own one bottle at once. Same goes for cotton swabs. Apart from that, I still have enough sunscreens, shampoo, conditioner, hair masks, leave-in treatments, face cleaners, toners, serums, moisturizers, body washes, soaps, scrubs and body lotions at home to not be in need of anything new for a while. Same goes for makeup, I have soo many lip balms, lip glosses, lip sticks, blushes and highlighters. And it's all very nice stuff. So I want to go through my collection, appreciate the things I already own and use them instead of going for the hunt for the next new shiny thing.
I’ve struggled with budgeting a little because whatever limit I set, I’ll worry that I won’t spend my allotted amount, and then something in my mind starts to spiral and I wind up spending more than I planned. I think you’re right- I should view budgeting as an experiment every month. I’m going to track my spending without judging myself.
omg i also decided i was doing a no buy august bc i have a big trip planned in september and wanted to save money for that. perfect timing for this video!
Gave me lot to think about. My last no but was a big fail 😫. I made decision to save money because I received a check I was not expecting and it’s a decent amount to go do something with like nice vacation. I’m really trying to get handle on spending and saving to have an actual budget I follow. So I’m taking these funds and setting up an emergency fund account. Allowing myself to pay off couple of small credit cards and cutting them up. The rest of this will be my emergency fund and August is “Budget” month set up a realistic budget and follow thru managing my finances vs a no spend but your the encouragement for me to do this ❤Thanks
@@shawnaripari yep 👍 and thank you for the encouragement and support for followers of your channel. I don’t feel alone trying to be a better consumer ❤️
Going on a no-buy for art supplies for the rest of the year (save for maybe paper/sketchbooks or canvases) and I'm going to heavy limit my spending on cosmetics for the rest of the year (like, giving myself a budget of $250 for the rest of the year for things aside from shampoo/conditioner/body wash)
Happy Sunday Shawna I'm doing a no buy August this year 😊 i got my budget binder together and started clipping receipts today since i went grocery shopping for the coming week after church. I'm even more excited seeing that I'm not the only one doing a no buy August!!❤
I have so many books, its a constant source of stress because i want to read them before i give them away or swap or sell them. And i keep coming across more and more books that i want to read. And they take up such a large amount of space in my flat. If i can not buy any more books and just try get through what i have that would be great.
I have been on an unintentional no buy for about 6 months now. My relapse will be a single fall candle and a cozy blanket to enjoy when the rain hits 😊
My 2024 no buy year has turned into a low buy year. The first 3 months went super well but then I broke the rules and bought clothes and kindle books, my two biggest problem areas. However, I have drastically reduced the amount of them that I buy. I think this year I bought 5 pieces of clothing so far. I would have bought a few items every month in the past. Regarding the kindle books I simply ran out of the light reads that I fly through. As regards household bits and bobs I haven’t bought anything, or jewellery and the make up skin care we’re all replacements. So I failed my no buy year, but I think I have rocked a low buy year instead.
i decided to go on a no buy or just buying very little after being a little irresponsible with my money. it’s going great so far and watching your videos really keeps me in the right mindset. i’m saving for a trip to japan in january with my boyfriend!
I'm really looking forward to starting a no buy in August 😊 I will be spending a lot on travel but I'll be cutting down on other categories like clothes
I have started a no bye on the 19. Juli. I have done no byes before for about 6 months and i have also failed alot, or done a long no bye period only to then when i finished bought way to much. This time isthe first time where i have written down what is allowed and what is not, because i know from experience that if i say my no bye is for clothes, then i dont bye clothes but then i start bying makeup or custom jewellery or sunglasses or, or,or😂. I hope that writing down what i can or cannot bye might help with that. And giving myself a budget of 100 swiss franks a month that i am allowed to bye what i have on my wishlist, some of those things kost more than 100 so i will have to wait months before i can bye them. I dont know how long it is going to be i hope atleast a year ❤
Sorry for my spelling i ment buy not bye, bye is my second name😂that is why it came up as an option and i was not paying attention😂. It is probably not the only spelling mistake, but that one bothered me❤❤❤
I missed the August no buy but are currently doing a September no buy.I love your idea of clothing and makeup challenges will definitely incorporate that into my no buy .I'm also doing a September glowup ( beauty, health and physical) so its definitely a September to remember 😊❤
I'm gonna do an August no-buy which is just a strategic thing for me as the friends I see the most will be traveling abroad and/or will be dead at work as it's "ghost month". Hoping to extend it to the next few months as well as I need to save money for a trip.
Oh how I wish this video existed in december of last year when I decided to do a year-long no-buy in 2024. Had to quit two months in because it had become a cherry on top of a pile of stress-inducing circumstances. Not to mention I have realized since then it had to be a way of punishing myself as, realisticly speaking, I don’t have a problem with shopping too much or overspending. What might be interesting, for me, as a person living my whole life in not-so-well-of country in Eastern Europe, I had to „translate” conditions of an idea of a no-buy I was presented by western, primarly North-American creators from yours realities to a version of „ours”, where even an extend of western Europe’s levels of living might be unattainable. But man, aren’t those images from social media blurring the reality…
I would like to thank you because of your videos i became more aware of my habits of over consumption I start looking around me and I realize that I was wasting my money and I don't need to buy more clothes or makeup or skin care i have a lot of things and most of them i don't use and all this happens because I saw one of your videos and another and I hope you continue to do your content because there a lot of people like me they need someone open their eyes and make them realise what they do to themselves think you so much for change my life God bless you 🧡🧡🧡🧡
Perfect timing, viewed on 7/31, secretly been avoiding this video because I need to do a no-buy but tbh don’t want to. Decided to do only my worst category, fast food/going out to eat. TY for this, love your videos. ❤
I’m diving in. At the end of August a Gargoyle makeup collection is coming out that I want - and I’m using that as my carrot hanging from the stick. I can wait and only get that.
I‘d like to do a „use it up“ and „get it done“ challenge. Also with books, fabrics and craft supplies in general. Maybe no new stuff in these categories unless I need a zipper to finish a skirt or something like this. Yes, being offline more would make it easier…
I'm doing a no buy August. My first no buy month and I'm so scared. Shopping is my go to for stress reduction, and I'm under a lot of stress right now. I hope I can do it 🙏
after trackig my spending for a few months i realized that just online shopping is the killer for me. so i want to try in august only buying things i pick up in real life and try and see if i can get into that habit after my online shopping took over during the pandemic. also with a full time job and a long commute simply finding time to shop in real life might be a bit harder. and also help me with my habbits. (that being said i still need to not buy any books in agusut just as a blanket rule my to read pile is out of hand and i read like 12 books a month and i already own a years worht of books even with reading at that pace so i really need to slow down on that. ) (though if my favourite band does release specific merch they have been teasing i am allowed to online shop for those. )
Last year, I read a book that was a year-long journey of a family (parents plus, I believe, two kids under the age of 12) on a no-buy. For an entire year. I don't remember the title, but it was an interesting read, and it was the first time I'd really given strong consideration to no-buy time periods. I was also deep into reading books like Junkyard Planet and Secondhand by Adam Minter (highly recommend, by the way), about the cycles of our over-consumption and where things go besides the dump. Other than my business expenses, I might give August a No-Buy try.
im gonna do no buy BNPL things. (affirm, afterpay) i think i could definitely do with a no buy makeup and/or clothes thing. those are my top. Also doordash delivery
I unsuccessfully tried to do a No Buy July and bought 3 clothing items 2 from Kit and Ace that just opened by the mall I work and I got skims shapewear after my coworkers were praising it and my only shapewear split. I’m giving myself a pass for that one but I could’ve bought it in August when I needed it. 😖
Whewww. I'm a teacher heading back to school in about a week and I'm gonna TRY my hardest not to buy things that I don't absolutely need. I can't do a total no buy because I know that's unrealistic for me right now, but I'm gonna try soooo hard not to blow $ on things I don't need!
I have failed every no-buy I've ever went on because I was using it to punish myself and I was thinking very black and white. This is so helpful, I wanna try again and be kinder to myself this time
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I have done short term no buys and try to view them as a chance to use what I have instead of a punishment. Although usually they happen after I've don't a big birthday haul! So maybe kind of a punishment lol!!
Start gradually. Maybe from a day, a week, a couple of weeks, month etc
If it's not a good time right now or if restricting is going to turn into a binge, it's totally cool to opt out! It's also ok if no-buys aren't for you. I do hope that whatever strategy you use in the future you can also be kind to yourself 💕
@@aesinamGreat suggestion! I've done it this way and it makes it a lot more manageable.
As a long time journaling person and someone who got out of a destructive habbit using journaling, if you want to journal about your journey of no-buy or buying habits or simply want a better coping mecanism, here's a couple of advice:
-you don't need to buy a journal, if a bunch of loose sheets or memo pads is all you got, that's more than enough to start. Don't use journaling as an excuse to spend more.
-don't journal everyday for no reason, you'll find it pointless and get discouraged. Only do it when it makes sense for you.
-trackers only work for a small proportion of people who try them. They never worked for me, but something else did (see the next point)
-try to replace a coping mecanism with another, in this case buying -> journaling. Everytime you really feel like buying, write. You can write about anything you want, it doesn't even have to do with the no-buy, it can be the lyrics of your favorite song if you can't think of anything and need a distraction.
-pick your favorite pen/pencil or even crayons if that's your vibe, you don't need to buy a pilot whatever or a zebra something something. As long as you enjoy your writting tool so that it encourages you to use it.
-if you do end up buying when you weren't supposed to, try to journal about the experience, about how it made you feel, why did you do it, what's the result of this spending, etc. Could be good, could be bad, what matters is making you write more and making you aware of your internal signals so you have more power over them and not the opposite.
this is an absolutely wonderful comment with great tips. Thanks so much for sharing!
This is AMAZING! Thank you! 💖
Lol, I think I've been doing point 4 with crafting! Giving myself the dopamine hit from the novelty by turning the craft supplies and surplus items I already have lying around into something new for FREE!
Your "Don't use journaling as an excuse to spend more" of this comment really hit a chord with me. I did a very sobering calculation of the money I've spent on journaling (and its sibling planning) supplies in the last two years. Journaling started being a very useful tool to help manage my mental health, then in spiralled into a destructive cycle of spending both money and probably worse, time, on chasing all the journaling things - while not really doing much journaling itself.Same for planning: the money and time I spent on planning supplies had an inverse effect on the relaxation and productivity I get out of planning. My stationery stash is by no means as huge as some as I've seen online, but it's got out of control. I'm now systematically trying to use up all the things (or donate/sell them).
Yes! The other day I looked through my old journals and found one from 10 years ago where I wrote down what happened every day no matter what for like three months. Looking back, I was so busy writing things down that I didn’t analyze anything I was going through- not the best use of my time.
For those struggling no buying more things I encourage you to make it a game, it's been fun to me to use up things and see how new spaces clear up. My problem area tends to be hobbies/craft and stationary items.
Yes, absolutely!!! I also decided to start a "use it all" insta, not for likes or anything, but just to share my journey and keep track of used products.
@@user-db5qy3yo6e that sounds like a great idea
Fabrics 😅
@@Siures do you make quilts?
@@CrisOnTheInternet From time to time. More clothes.
I am exactly 2 weeks into my no buy journey! I've dealt with an on-and-off shopping addiction my whole life and finally got sick of it. Haven't bought a single piece of clothing in 2 weeks and I feel great :) your videos have been so helpful!
congratulations on your success so far! I'm so glad my videos have been helping too
i’m gonna do a no buy august for clothing! that is my weakness. i need to chill tf out with buying clothes
Be careful you dont buy anything else instead...
I did a no buy year in 2022. After taking inventory of my stuff, I made a list of 10 things I would not buy for the year. It was more about getting my over consumption under control. It was hard at first, but by month 2 it felt so freeing. Best of luck to you all.
I like this 10 things list idea very much. I've been struggling with where to start and this will help. Thanks!
I’m going on an “Online Shopping” no-buy. Pre-pandemic, I was never much of a shopper, but after Covid I got really sucked into shopping online. So from now until October, I’m not going to buy anything online. If I really want the item, I’m going to have to drag my butt into the store. I know that most of the time, boredom+stress is an online shopping trigger, but most of the time I won’t be SO bored as to want to walk into a store to buy something. So, I expect I will spend significantly less.
Same here before the pandemic I really never bought anything online. Now is something I'm so used to and like you said is out of boredom. I'm totally doing a no online buy august 😊
oh this is very interesting! I'd love to know how this goes for you
Hi I'm on year 2 in not buying stationery, it was my weakness and I still have a lot.
I have technically been on a no buy since January with just a couple of slip ups but then in June I went through a big trauma situation and lost half my income. I am still trying to come to grips with that and I have spent some money figuring out new ways to do things to make life easier for me. I was going to jump in on your no buy as a reinforcement to the one I’m on, but then you said if you have been through a trauma, this might not be the time for a no buy. I think you’re right. I’ve had an entire lifestyle adjustment while also having a significant handicap. Although I can no longer afford to spend anything on anything frivolous, I also have to accept that I have had to buy a few products to make life work with my handicap. I’m going to observe from the sidelines while trying my best not to spend any extra money and to cut down on the monies I do spend as that is going to be necessary anyway. But at least I won’t feel any pressure and I don’t need any pressure right now..
I think a replacement only no-buy August would be a good idea for me. I'm not an overspender, but I DO spend too much time browsing online and buying every new makeup item that catches my eye at the drugstore. It's something I do to make myself feel better. While my browsing and purchasing do not get in the way of my financial goals, it definitely is a waste of time. I do not need yet another new lipstick!
I am in for a No buy August! I am fortunate in that I have a nice income, and savings, and money isnt an issue, but I spend ... a lot on things I dont NEED. And I think about how much MORE we could save if I did this even only a few times a year. BUT I will give myself grace - I'm not perfect and I do fly back and forth across the country twice a month, so I do have needs that can pop up as I travel that many do not. But as I am ALSO on a 'year of decluttering' voyage... so for this no buy challenge, for every item I purchase that I DO NOT NEED... I have to get rid of THREE items (real items, not hair ties or thumb tacks LOL). Great idea Shawna!
Needed this girl 😭💔 as a student and also office-supply-whore, August is a great opportunity for me to practice some restraint.
Same!! Sense I’m going back to school I bought a few to many things ☹️
I relate so hard to "office supply whore" I have an entire bookshelf devoted to notebooks!
💰 Shawna's questions for your successful No Buy project:
3:24 ⏰️ Is this the right *time* to give up your shopping coping mechanism?
6:06 ⚡️How much personal bandwidth and energy will you devote to the No Buy?
8:25 🛍 Start a No Buy with one product category! Consider these options: 27:13
11:57 👩🔬 Approach the No Buy as an experiment where mistakes are expected!
26:01 💵 You can have a successful No Buy and still spend money on exceptions!
I need to go on a no buy for candles and perfume for awhile I work at bath and body works so I can tend to have a problem… I am very much trying to not have a shopping addiction anymore so your videos have been rlly helping on making me see I have a problem 😭
omg same i work at bath and body works too and its definitely my weak spot with shopping 😭 i have wayyy too much body care and candles 😭
@@sourcherry444 it’s my weak spot with shopping to I’m at around 300 candles that is insane 💀 and a lot of FFM as well those things take forever to go through so yeah I’m going to have to start pushing myself to go on a no buy when I am there 🤣
Can you make it a spot the difference game for yourself? Like you see something you like at work so you go home and go through what you have for the closest match, maybe testing a few scents/combinations over a few shifts by the end of which the novelty of the new scent has worn off and you've rediscovered one you have that you like
Omg wax melts and body care are my weaknesses as well! At this point I've got enough wax for several years 😅 Definitely cutting way back until I get a lot of it used up.
Mine is buying coffee out. I can only use the amount that's on the app and I cant reload it because that's where I spend the most money at. Also im not going to buy fast food for the month of August unless someone get it for me like my bf or parents
i dont think im going to do a no-buy but i think im going to try a no-new-projects month - i have a few different home projects that i want to complete, that i have all the supplies for! so im going to try and finish a project every week instead of getting excited about a new project, buying all the supplies, and abandoning it when i get just past the buy-new-things step! for accountability: skate storage, new bookshelf/office setup, bed frame, hallway painting
I’m in the process of doing this too! I wrote all my projects down and I’ve worked through a couple projects already. It’s honestly SO rewarding seeing my list *decrease* instead of a never-ending treadmill of new projects. Let’s go! 🙌🙌
this is an awesome project! Thank yo for sharing
Started a no-buy in March, and happy to say that I have kept at it. I started it because I had to move house, and got a new job that wouldn’t start until May (so two months without a pay check), I’m at a point where I don’t feel the need to buy most things (except replacing old shoes that ive had for 3+ years).
It’s an exciting and rewarding experience, has helped me get my finances in order (def priority) but also helped me answer the question “why do I feel like buying sth?”
I will definitely recommend!
congrats on your success!
I appreciated the comments on travel - I like the idea of doing a no-buy in August but I am traveling the first week and had already planned to buy a few things (a book and some yarn from local stores, as well as museum/event tickets). There's no reason I should discount the whole month and wait until September!
I have issues buying books and, get this, I work at a library! My coworkers think I am super crazy for this 😂😂
I work at a thrift store and I can't stop buying stuff from there, so there's my no buy for August 😂
I will do the no buy. I don’t buy much but I think I need to focus on not browsing. Boredom for me is browsing to add to my wishlist or just to see what’s new. I will do a no buy/no browse.
I'm doing no buy august!! This video is so relevant to me right now!🎉
Yay! Happy to hear it
Very relevant to me too!! I'm not doing a full no buy, but I'm starting my new budget and being planful in spending, starting in August! I'm excited to start this journey, good luck to you too. ❤
Doing No Buy July now,planning on continuing until end September when going to London- would rather spend money on the trip than unnecessary stuff right now! Enjoyed the video!
I found your content at JUST the right time. I've made bad financial decisions in the path and I'm determined to stop this shopping addiction. Whenever I feel and urge or I feel restless I put your videos on and they literally take me off the ledge. TYSM for your content! I will participate in no buy august as I'm starting a no buy year too. Thank you again for your much needed content.
I have a no buy life. Not my choice. I have a chronic illness and very little income but want to live independently.
Its important to take time to look at your life as it exists right now, then decide where you have excess. When I cut down from full time to casual work, but found I was still buying clothes and make up at the rate needed for my full time job. Once I realised that that was for a life that no longer existed, I got focused on what I needed for living my current life. FYI I still have coats from my full time life and I quit that 12 years ago lol. I havent bought a new coat in 7 years. I do not miss it at all.
while my no-buy era has come out of need/major budget overhaul, something that really helps me is to keep a running list of stuff that i want but am not sure i want to spend the money on. i revisit that list maybe every other month (or whenever i add something to it) and prune off what was ultimately a temporary fixation. it gives me the space to not only really consider how that item will fit in my home, but if its something that i can see myself really getting use out of and enjoying. it also makes it really easy when someone asks me what i want for my birthday lol!
July was a heavy spend month with a lot of bills and Prime Day. I'm here for this.
I am down. I been spending out of pure boredom. I am off in the summers and shopping occupied my time.
I would love to do a no buy, but I'm on a constant no buy and can't buy less. I don't need anything! I love to have what I have and adapting to new objects, incorporating them into my life ... that's stressful. I love the way you talk about this topic, it's so inspiring and relaxing to listen. Each time you put out a new video I'm beyond excited :)
I was so happy when I saw this. I think I’m gonna try this!! This month I went a little too crazy because I’m going back to school and I hadn’t bought anything all summer so I had a lot of makeup empty’s and no clothes. Ive also been extremely depressed and online shopping distracts me from life. I’ve been feeling really guilty about it, so this seems like it would be good for me.
I had a no buy clothing phase. I was very proud. Then I noticed all my money went into plants.... My addiction just shifted, I wasnt managing it.
July has been super expensive and I've overspent at every turn. Need to make a plan to get myself together for August and September and pay off the £600 I put on my credit card
Doing a no buy for makeup. I just bought a bunch of stuff for my birthday and it's kind of overwhelming to have all the new stuff and the desire to use the older stuff I already owned. I kind of do this shopping pause to allow time to enjoy what I have.
I've been no-buy-curious for awhile since getting into your videos and I think this is my sign! I've been doing no/low-buys in certain categories (yarn, candles, and makeup mostly) for a while now, but with recent (good) financial changes and an upcoming move I've been thinking about a more generalized no-buy so really reign in some other pieces.
I really love how you present this as flexible and to really consider if this is the right time or not. Of course we can always be more conscientious and aware of what we’re buying and whether it’s a need or not and whether we’re spending responsibly or not. But I do feel many people’s presentation of a no buy is very strict and with very few allowables. I tried to do one earlier this year and I did ok at first but I limited so many things that it felt kind of like a diet where I was like “I can have two tablespoons of creamer in my coffee and then no other sugar, no desserts or sweets, no processed food, no fried food, etc” and I’d do well for awhile and then eat something on the no list and then feel like a failure and have a hard time stopping. It was like that with shopping. I did great for a few weeks but then bought a little something and instead of learning from it or considering my constraints might be too much, I just quickly slid back into buying too much unnecessary crap. So I’m thinking a shorter no buy and more focused no buy list that’s aimed towards working on what my goals are and if I slip up, it’s ok, learn from it, and just continue on.
Thanks Shawna! Going to start a no buy of houseplants - my favorite hobby.
I'm in! I will spend on bills, groceries, and replacements only. I am also going to meal plan to try to use up pantry/freezer food I already have. It will be fun to follow along with you and others!
Hi Shawna! I saw an older video of yours about recommended reading and really liked it. Since you mentioned wanting to read more, maybe you could do another video of your recommended reading!
I was already planning on doing a no buy for August and this video solidified that decision!
Glad to have you on board Michelle!
I appreciate your channel so much!
I’m on day 9 of my no buy. So proud of myself. 9 days doesn’t seem like a long time but usually I would purchase something (other than essentials) every single day
And my essentials are things like mortgage, car insurance/finance/gas, grocery.
Basically the things that if I don’t pay, will be taken from me by the bank or if I don’t buy it I’ll die
congratulations on your success so far 💕so proud of you for this accomplishment
I had just said to myself that I wanted to do a no buy in August as far as not buying anything that I need to live. This is mostly the category of clothing and craft supplies which I spend way too much on. I am going to challenge myself to use the craft stuff I already have and declutter the stuff that I never use or is just collecting dust. Thanks for the video that helps me guide me through it.
i dont buy random crap so it's not necessary to add to a no buy, but i will do a months-long no buy for clothes because that is my only thing i will over buy. so when i say "no buy," i really just mean i will not be buying clothes for x amount of time
I've been on a no buy still september 2023 when i lost my job. It was at that time out of necessity, but it has become a habit. I funneled what little i have toward my job hunt (i'm taking qualifications exam. In my country they are needed to work as a teacher) and i'm super happy to always find new ways to use what i already have from 7 years of abundance ^^
I've not bought any art supplies, clothes, stationery or books for a little over a year. I've however rediscover libraries and have acquired a very comfy pair of leather shoes and put to repair or mend a couple of older shoes and clothes ^^ it's actually really cool ❤ and i'm saving still a bit in order to take a couple of days vacationing during the winter ❤
I can't do a no buy because it's my wedding Anniversary month! We go out to eat and spoil each other, lol!!
I'm kinda on a no buy now, bc I need to get rid of my debts. Every time I was setting a specific timeline and terms, I failed. So this time I decided to concentrate on the goal, but not the restriction itself.
I absolutely love this approach and that it's tailored to you. Congrats on your debt repayment!
💛💛 Seeing others describe their previous attempts, I know I've done similar attempts to punish myself using a really rigid setup that would turn into shame when I would fail before.
I won't be doing one anytime soon for particular categories, but I've been in an unlabeled no-buy for craft goods for a few months now (knit/crochet as a hobby for near 15 years, the knitting groups are full of photos of yarn stashes and I feel compelled to downsize what I have because I have taken up so much space at home with my yarn and needles). It isn't a punishment this time, it is simply "I should really find a use for everything I already have and actually finish those projects before buying something else, with exceptions for purchases where substituting with what I have genuinely isnt an option".
When I no longer see yarn stashed away in four large piles across the house, I'll lift it (or if I am especially compelled for a special project, like baby blankets or large housewarming gifts), or if i use up my collection of illustration pens and alcohol markers I'll probably pick up more. Until then, I will probably continue to add to cart before abandoning it when I remind myself I have so much to finish already.
You have such wonderful self-awareness. Thanks so much for sharing your experience with us!
definitely the most realistic and healthy perspective i've stumbled upon regarding no buys
I’ll for sure be joining you in the August no buy!! I’m stoked 🙌🏻
I love this video because it doesn't suggest that cutting out all unecessary expenses or going on an all-out no-buy is the only option. For me personally I've found that doing things to the extreme like cutting things out completely tends to always lead to a relapse into bad habits and sometimes even makes the problem worse. I've been focusing on slowing down, being more mindful of my actions and purchases in general and just making small adjustments as I go and I feel like this is going to be much more sustainable than a full-on no-buy in all aspects of my life (just the idea of that makes me feel panicky which is exactly the kind of mood that makes me want to buy things). I like that this video paints a no-buy as a positive thing rather than a punishment because I think that is a trap a lot of us fall into and I'm definitely taking inspiration from this in terms of being content and grateful even if I'm not planning a strict no-buy any time soon. Thank you for teaching mindfulness and knowing yourself rather than giving one-size-fits-all "solutions" and quick fixes, I've really found watching your videos helpful and inspiring.
I’ve just been thinking about a no buy august, and your video popped up 😂
I’m so glad this video found me, I’m doing a no-buy August too! I did one back in January (my version of “dry Jan” since I don’t drink 😅). I’ve been journaling for the last few weeks every night before I sleep to try to shake out some anxious thoughts and figure out where they stem from. What I found is that I thrift *a lot* as my “little treat” and tell myself it’s okay because it’s cheap and not creating demand for new things. However, I have a lot of “stuff” and while I’d like to declutter, I have a lot of guilt and eco anxiety about where the items go next (knowing that so much at thrift stores often doesn’t even make it to the racks! 😢). I want very much to break my overconsumption (even if it ~is~ secondhand) and start saving for the future so I’m hoping this is where that can start for me!
this is such an insightful video! super appreciate your compassionate perspective on no-buys, i’m really excited to try your tips. for a long time i’ve struggled with my spending because i too thought of no-buys as a form of punishment and i’d feel deprived. your content helps me soooo much ❤️
I went OFF THE RAILS buying from one of my favorite clothing brands this summer. I purchased SO MANY dresses. Yes they’re great quality and will last many years. But Did I need one of every style? No. 😔 I’m ashamed and am going to do a No (Clothes) Buy in august to feel like I have control again. I’ve already started it so will have an early start.
YOU GOT THIS. I believe in you!
@@shawnariparithank you 🥺 your channel helps so much 💖
Im moving out for the first time on the first of august so august will be an expensive month for me😓 need everything from furniture to kitchen gadgets haha. Will hope to do a no-buy as soon as I have a stable living situation!!
A low buy is honestly an everyday thing, but refocusing on it as a goal teaches you very interesting lessons.
I just did a no buy for makeup in June and July. I've technically "failed" because I bought replacements for things that I ran out of or am about to run out of. I was going to make the purchase once it was August but then ulta had a coupon for $20 off that was expiring before August. So I don't actually feel like i failed because it was an informed purchase I would have made in a week anyways.
have you seen creators like Kelly Gooch? she makes videos similar to these but still has products plugged into her youtube channel for commission. the hypocrisy is so strong
Ridiculous
She drew me in with her declutters and lost me with the let’s try all this new makeup. It felt like whiplash going through her channel
Thank you for considering all the facets of when a no buy is a good idea, and when it might add more stress to your life! Compassionate intention around these kinds of things is super important. We shan't shame ourselves in no buys!
Thanks for the video. I've been doing a no buy for a few months, but this month I made some purchases that really got me feeling regretful and guilty. Even though it was very needed stuff (mostly replacements because my cosmetic products are all ending at the same time for some reason), it's hard to find a balance and compromise yourself without being too radical.
I'm gonna do a no buy for August for cosmetics, because I have way too much stuff that I need to use up first. I've started my personal "shop my stash" challenge anyways, so this should be easy. The only thing I'm gonna repurchase is my cleansing oil to remove makeup, because this is an item I genuinely only repurchase once I run out of it and I always only own one bottle at once. Same goes for cotton swabs.
Apart from that, I still have enough sunscreens, shampoo, conditioner, hair masks, leave-in treatments, face cleaners, toners, serums, moisturizers, body washes, soaps, scrubs and body lotions at home to not be in need of anything new for a while. Same goes for makeup, I have soo many lip balms, lip glosses, lip sticks, blushes and highlighters. And it's all very nice stuff. So I want to go through my collection, appreciate the things I already own and use them instead of going for the hunt for the next new shiny thing.
This is awesome! Your shop my stash challenge sounds so fun ☺
I’ve struggled with budgeting a little because whatever limit I set, I’ll worry that I won’t spend my allotted amount, and then something in my mind starts to spiral and I wind up spending more than I planned. I think you’re right- I should view budgeting as an experiment every month. I’m going to track my spending without judging myself.
omg i also decided i was doing a no buy august bc i have a big trip planned in september and wanted to save money for that. perfect timing for this video!
Gave me lot to think about. My last no but was a big fail 😫. I made decision to save money because I received a check I was not expecting and it’s a decent amount to go do something with like nice vacation. I’m really trying to get handle on spending and saving to have an actual budget I follow. So I’m taking these funds and setting up an emergency fund account. Allowing myself to pay off couple of small credit cards and cutting them up. The rest of this will be my emergency fund and August is “Budget” month set up a realistic budget and follow thru managing my finances vs a no spend but your the encouragement for me to do this ❤Thanks
Congratulations on paying off your credit cards and setting up an emergency fund! These are huge accomplishments and I hope you're proud 💕
@@shawnaripari yep 👍 and thank you for the encouragement and support for followers of your channel. I don’t feel alone trying to be a better consumer ❤️
Loved the video. I’m looking into starting a no buy in August. Thank you for the tips.
Going on a no-buy for art supplies for the rest of the year (save for maybe paper/sketchbooks or canvases) and I'm going to heavy limit my spending on cosmetics for the rest of the year (like, giving myself a budget of $250 for the rest of the year for things aside from shampoo/conditioner/body wash)
Happy Sunday Shawna I'm doing a no buy August this year 😊 i got my budget binder together and started clipping receipts today since i went grocery shopping for the coming week after church. I'm even more excited seeing that I'm not the only one doing a no buy August!!❤
I am on a no-buy but realizing I need to put less pressure on myself. I will be modifying my rules to allow some exceptions.
I have so many books, its a constant source of stress because i want to read them before i give them away or swap or sell them. And i keep coming across more and more books that i want to read. And they take up such a large amount of space in my flat. If i can not buy any more books and just try get through what i have that would be great.
I have been on an unintentional no buy for about 6 months now. My relapse will be a single fall candle and a cozy blanket to enjoy when the rain hits 😊
"oh, I need food"
NOPE, NOT ALLOWED. hahaha wtf
I think people were confused as to how one would not buy anything and also meet basic daily needs. I definitely get it if you're new to the space!
I needed this so much I HAD to take notes. Maybe this time I will succeed (= don’t feel sh*tty about myself) a no buy month.
I’m going on a makeup and fast food no buy! Thanks for the inspo! ❤
My 2024 no buy year has turned into a low buy year. The first 3 months went super well but then I broke the rules and bought clothes and kindle books, my two biggest problem areas. However, I have drastically reduced the amount of them that I buy. I think this year I bought 5 pieces of clothing so far. I would have bought a few items every month in the past. Regarding the kindle books I simply ran out of the light reads that I fly through. As regards household bits and bobs I haven’t bought anything, or jewellery and the make up skin care we’re all replacements. So I failed my no buy year, but I think I have rocked a low buy year instead.
I'm in! I will do no buy august with you! Now I will watch the video 😂
i decided to go on a no buy or just buying very little after being a little irresponsible with my money. it’s going great so far and watching your videos really keeps me in the right mindset. i’m saving for a trip to japan in january with my boyfriend!
I'm really looking forward to starting a no buy in August 😊 I will be spending a lot on travel but I'll be cutting down on other categories like clothes
I have started a no bye on the 19. Juli. I have done no byes before for about 6 months and i have also failed alot, or done a long no bye period only to then when i finished bought way to much. This time isthe first time where i have written down what is allowed and what is not, because i know from experience that if i say my no bye is for clothes, then i dont bye clothes but then i start bying makeup or custom jewellery or sunglasses or, or,or😂. I hope that writing down what i can or cannot bye might help with that. And giving myself a budget of 100 swiss franks a month that i am allowed to bye what i have on my wishlist, some of those things kost more than 100 so i will have to wait months before i can bye them. I dont know how long it is going to be i hope atleast a year ❤
Sorry for my spelling i ment buy not bye, bye is my second name😂that is why it came up as an option and i was not paying attention😂. It is probably not the only spelling mistake, but that one bothered me❤❤❤
I missed the August no buy but are currently doing a September no buy.I love your idea of clothing and makeup challenges will definitely incorporate that into my no buy .I'm also doing a September glowup ( beauty, health and physical) so its definitely a September to remember 😊❤
I'm gonna do an August no-buy which is just a strategic thing for me as the friends I see the most will be traveling abroad and/or will be dead at work as it's "ghost month". Hoping to extend it to the next few months as well as I need to save money for a trip.
Oh how I wish this video existed in december of last year when I decided to do a year-long no-buy in 2024. Had to quit two months in because it had become a cherry on top of a pile of stress-inducing circumstances. Not to mention I have realized since then it had to be a way of punishing myself as, realisticly speaking, I don’t have a problem with shopping too much or overspending. What might be interesting, for me, as a person living my whole life in not-so-well-of country in Eastern Europe, I had to „translate” conditions of an idea of a no-buy I was presented by western, primarly North-American creators from yours realities to a version of „ours”, where even an extend of western Europe’s levels of living might be unattainable. But man, aren’t those images from social media blurring the reality…
I would like to thank you because of your videos i became more aware of my habits of over consumption I start looking around me and I realize that I was wasting my money and I don't need to buy more clothes or makeup or skin care i have a lot of things and most of them i don't use and all this happens because I saw one of your videos and another and I hope you continue to do your content because there a lot of people like me they need someone open their eyes and make them realise what they do to themselves think you so much for change my life God bless you 🧡🧡🧡🧡
Perfect timing, viewed on 7/31, secretly been avoiding this video because I need to do a no-buy but tbh don’t want to. Decided to do only my worst category, fast food/going out to eat. TY for this, love your videos. ❤
I’m convinced you know what’s going on in my life bc I already planned that in August, imma go on a no buy 🤣
I’m diving in. At the end of August a Gargoyle makeup collection is coming out that I want - and I’m using that as my carrot hanging from the stick. I can wait and only get that.
I needed this video ❤️. I’ve also been reading less 😢. Can’t wait to implement your tips
I‘d like to do a „use it up“ and „get it done“ challenge. Also with books, fabrics and craft supplies in general. Maybe no new stuff in these categories unless I need a zipper to finish a skirt or something like this. Yes, being offline more would make it easier…
I'm doing a no buy August. My first no buy month and I'm so scared. Shopping is my go to for stress reduction, and I'm under a lot of stress right now. I hope I can do it 🙏
after trackig my spending for a few months i realized that just online shopping is the killer for me. so i want to try in august only buying things i pick up in real life and try and see if i can get into that habit after my online shopping took over during the pandemic. also with a full time job and a long commute simply finding time to shop in real life might be a bit harder. and also help me with my habbits. (that being said i still need to not buy any books in agusut just as a blanket rule my to read pile is out of hand and i read like 12 books a month and i already own a years worht of books even with reading at that pace so i really need to slow down on that. ) (though if my favourite band does release specific merch they have been teasing i am allowed to online shop for those. )
Last year, I read a book that was a year-long journey of a family (parents plus, I believe, two kids under the age of 12) on a no-buy. For an entire year. I don't remember the title, but it was an interesting read, and it was the first time I'd really given strong consideration to no-buy time periods. I was also deep into reading books like Junkyard Planet and Secondhand by Adam Minter (highly recommend, by the way), about the cycles of our over-consumption and where things go besides the dump. Other than my business expenses, I might give August a No-Buy try.
im gonna do no buy BNPL things. (affirm, afterpay) i think i could definitely do with a no buy makeup and/or clothes thing. those are my top. Also doordash delivery
I was doing so well on my no buy on certain things and low buy on most things, but this month I failed so bad 😢😢😢😢😢
Trying to be back on track again.
I am doing a no buy in august (and beyond) so I will definitely be happy about any no buy related videos like this! (:
I'm on a no buy year.
I'm new here and I am doing a no buy in September Next month is my birthday and I know I'm going to spending money.
I unsuccessfully tried to do a No Buy July and bought 3 clothing items 2 from Kit and Ace that just opened by the mall I work and I got skims shapewear after my coworkers were praising it and my only shapewear split. I’m giving myself a pass for that one but I could’ve bought it in August when I needed it. 😖
I usually do no buy every month other than food , then I sell stuff on marketplace just to feel better
I do financial fasting for a month 3 times a year. It saves me a fortune. We only pay utilities, car gas and mortgage..nothing else
I am going to do my essentials list and not to buy anything more.
Whewww. I'm a teacher heading back to school in about a week and I'm gonna TRY my hardest not to buy things that I don't absolutely need. I can't do a total no buy because I know that's unrealistic for me right now, but I'm gonna try soooo hard not to blow $ on things I don't need!
I'll be rooting for you!
I’ve been on a no-buy for make up and I haven’t bought one eyeshadow pallet all year!! 🥳🥳
congratulations!!