My take-home: Avoid compromising the sources of your glory, the center that keeps you on fulcrum in whatever case. Your center is that assuredness that you are aligned with God.
I have been left by guys because of my high standards, not that I didn't feel anything for them but i couldn't compromise my values that have kept me just to satisfy some temporary emotions. So yes I support this ,keep yourself. It hurts but it protects you
It doesn't hurt sis. It only hurts when you have done all the compromising and still get dumped. But if you never compromised your standards, you are the winner and you should be happy for it. The guy on the other hand is the loser.
When you interview sb with marriage in view, you examine the person whole scale and with long term repercussions in mind👌 Benjamin is out here saving lives!
I can't get enough of benja videos show ur are such a blessed gem who have decided to share free educational with us iam glad and humbled,,, I appreciate you both
We need part 2 of this! Another thing what do you say about kissing and romancing generally in a relationship yet you are a Christian? Cause that can another door for sex if you are not self controlled. Thank you Benjamin for sharing us!
I was the goat that was untied in campus bt I thank God it was not too late to go back on track. I think it's important to teach the young people the implications of every direction they take instead of instilling fear . There should be a very impactful way of educating the young people of dangers of premarital sex.. thank you for the show today..God bless
These people are just a blessing to my life❤.. Am 22 n still a virgin, will wait till marriage. For the time being, lemme focus on bulding my self, and my career. N recommending all my girl friends to watch follow n subscribe
You look around social media it's all relationships...the youth have been desensitized to the divinity of sex... that's why mental health issues are on the rise...watoto tumejirusha kwa vitu hatuwezi...😅😅😅
hi Mwekali and Benjamin, you asked us to post what conversations you would like... how about how to choose a partner? us christians are told God has to tell you, but what if you use your gut and signs like if he is ready to wait and have sex after marriage? because not many men are willing to do that and some of us are not 100% sure when God speaks, sometimes we think it's just our gut or our own desires, or desperation like the biological clock
You two are so nice together when doing interviews....Ski Benjamin Zulu you are so wise.......I always use your nuggets for my day to day life and I'm looking forward to teach my daughter your wisdom.....You are blessed...Keep on teaching us more.....
Benjamin Zulu. Me I have a burning questions. 1. In courtship what is value and respect in a realtionship and give me examples. 2.In courtship are you supposed to do house chores when dating or in courtship?
I met a guy of my agemate n he was like i wanna marry a God fearing lady coz am Godfearing too n about a wk i asked if abt having intimacy with me bofere marriage n he was like yes we must do sex for stronger bonding n am like u said having sex before marriage is for stronger bond,,,,,i couldn't stand so dear girlfriends never lower ur standards for a stupid boy calling himself a man bt maintain high standards n principles until u meet the right person.
"It's possible you're selling on credit and the borrower will never pay." 😂 Well said, Papa
My take-home: Avoid compromising the sources of your glory, the center that keeps you on fulcrum in whatever case. Your center is that assuredness that you are aligned with God.
"You're unpacking before you arrive."♥️
I have been left by guys because of my high standards, not that I didn't feel anything for them but i couldn't compromise my values that have kept me just to satisfy some temporary emotions. So yes I support this ,keep yourself. It hurts but it protects you
It doesn't hurt sis. It only hurts when you have done all the compromising and still get dumped. But if you never compromised your standards, you are the winner and you should be happy for it. The guy on the other hand is the loser.
@@isebi7592keep living in denial instead of facing reality.
I wish all youth could listen to this ! Only God can reward Benjamin Zulu . He deserves a trophy 🏆.
I'm glad I've listened to this before I indulge....thank you for the wise words...I have more reasons to wait now.
"Avoid compromising the sources of your glory."
I don't know what pipo who haven't subscribed mostly ladies in 20s r waiting for thanks for the msg Benjamin watching from ug
The nose and sometimes it doesn't go back 😂🤣... That cracked me!
When you interview sb with marriage in view, you examine the person whole scale and with long term repercussions in mind👌
Benjamin is out here saving lives!
Goats that have been untied😂😂😂😂😂. Asante saana for the continous teachings...very insightful and spike self reflection
I can't get enough of benja videos show ur are such a blessed gem who have decided to share free educational with us iam glad and humbled,,, I appreciate you both
We need part 2 of this! Another thing what do you say about kissing and romancing generally in a relationship yet you are a Christian? Cause that can another door for sex if you are not self controlled. Thank you Benjamin for sharing us!
I was the goat that was untied in campus bt I thank God it was not too late to go back on track. I think it's important to teach the young people the implications of every direction they take instead of instilling fear . There should be a very impactful way of educating the young people of dangers of premarital sex.. thank you for the show today..God bless
@@crimsonite1524 you must be a perfect human being
@@crimsonite1524 that is true I agree with you..it all goes down to personal decisions now
These people are just a blessing to my life❤.. Am 22 n still a virgin, will wait till marriage. For the time being, lemme focus on bulding my self, and my career.
N recommending all my girl friends to watch follow n subscribe
You look around social media it's all relationships...the youth have been desensitized to the divinity of sex... that's why mental health issues are on the rise...watoto tumejirusha kwa vitu hatuwezi...😅😅😅
I just love listening to you Benjamin every now and then. This is soo powerful. Thanks for this great advice.
hi Mwekali and Benjamin, you asked us to post what conversations you would like... how about how to choose a partner? us christians are told God has to tell you, but what if you use your gut and signs like if he is ready to wait and have sex after marriage? because not many men are willing to do that and some of us are not 100% sure when God speaks, sometimes we think it's just our gut or our own desires, or desperation like the biological clock
Great talk Benjamin and Mwikali. Very educative. Credit and nonpayment! Free roaminh 🐐!!
Wowwww the values we live by,this is a deal breaker
very very true Benjamin!!! Thanks for your powerful teachings.
"Some people are not dating you to marry you." Note to all girls...
Favourite❤, I don't regret being a virgin @23 I know when the right time comes it will happen am patient
I’m 25❤️😅God will definitely come through for us🙏🏽
@@nompumelelonsibande6856 True
You two are so nice together when doing interviews....Ski Benjamin Zulu you are so wise.......I always use your nuggets for my day to day life and I'm looking forward to teach my daughter your wisdom.....You are blessed...Keep on teaching us more.....
Another favorite... Thank you for speaking facts Sir
Great perspective as always, mwalimu.
Thanks, I'm in a position now to direct my girls
You just assured me on a direction almost falling..............
Powerful conversations
Thanks much... this was edifying
Avoid compromising the sources of your glory the center that keeps you on fulcrum in whatever case.
Awakening content
You're unpacking before you arrive..
Benjamin Zulu. Me I have a burning questions.
1. In courtship what is value and respect in a realtionship and give me examples.
2.In courtship are you supposed to do house chores when dating or in courtship?
Nice suit benjamin
The truth 🙌 💯
Are you sure this was 30 minutes....mbona fupi jamani
Me watching this after I've slipped😂😂😢
Wow 🙌
Tuned
I met a guy of my agemate n he was like i wanna marry a God fearing lady coz am Godfearing too n about a wk i asked if abt having intimacy with me bofere marriage n he was like yes we must do sex for stronger bonding n am like u said having sex before marriage is for stronger bond,,,,,i couldn't stand so dear girlfriends never lower ur standards for a stupid boy calling himself a man bt maintain high standards n principles until u meet the right person.
Wow😂
Weeeh
Great perspective as always, mwalimu.