Yeah F the sister and F the father. The father dug a nice hole for himself, losing op and golden sister. Good you have your uncle walking down the aisle. I was literally yelling have your uncle walk you down the aisle. I was also yelling that the father got the golden sister to walk down the aisle. But may not have that chance. Live a happier, successful life, create your own family and etc. You don't need them and they don't want you.
I'm so sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with your family. It’s heartbreaking when loved ones don’t recognize our worth. You deserve a joyful wedding day surrounded by those who support you. Take care of yourself and know that you are deserving of happiness and love.
Even if you changed your wedding date, chances are, your sister would then change the date of her housewarming party to the new date if your wedding. She just wouldn't be able to handle you getting a little attention!
You should ask your uncle to move away with you. It seems as he truly cares about you. I think it was ridiculous of your father to ask you to change your wedding date when you made all the plans and then your sister decided to have her housewarming party on the same day. Her party's date could have been changed easily. Hope you have a long happy life.
I have 3 siblings. We never fought. Parents llive happily together, never divorced. Everyone has since married and we are all doing well. Guess I'm a member of a really weird family - according to all I read here.
Get a brother, uncle, grandfather to walk you down the aisle. Forget dad and sister. Or you could walk down the aisle with the groom as I did. Problem solved.
The father would pass this treatment to the grandchildren. I have seen this in my family. For their sake: Break off. This was a power move of her sister and her father. Capitulating would only excacerbrate the situation.
It would have been great for OP to tell dad that she really would change the wedding date IF... he paid for everything -- then collect the money and have the wedding on the originally planned date! OP's uncle would be so willing to walk OP down the aisle.
Great story. I agree with op. I wouldn't talk to either one of those toxic family members either. Family doesn't equal friends. They are so stupid they probably don't realize why op is so mad.
Just be glad you got your uncle there for you and I believe I got your dad get older and your sister gets older too they will probably try to have different lifestyle and I bet your father will try to come back in your life try to make stuff up and say he misses you and s*** but I think you should always take care of and be there for the ones who have been there for you
Don't change the date, tell everyone the truth that your sister made her house warming party on the same day so they both blew you off for her. Let the chips fall where they may.
Why do people like op stand up for themselves!!! Stick up to others. It doesn’t make you a bad person it shows that you are strong and won’t let others bully you no matter who they are
Even if she would have moved the date the father and the sister would have found a way to ruin it. Her sister knew when the wedding date was and had her party anyway.
My brother refuses to have my back. This includes when I was dealing with cancer back in 05 - 06. He actually was planning my funeral. He actually ordered my man to buy me a dress to be buried in. There were other instances too. But to make it short, I had to cut him out of my life for being toxic. He was the golden child due to his gender and the fact that our brother had passed on a year and one week before Jerkface's birth. Me, being a 'mere' female and born on the spectrum wasn't good enough for my parents and him.
The idea of rainbow babies is based on the hidden reality of how common miscarriages are but it’s too devastating to discuss. I couldn’t imagine being this needy to a love never known like from her sister FFS
What? Her father had pretty much the same issu like OP with her sister.. Except his brother may not be spoiled and yet he can'T she the almost same thing with his daughters?
OP was an idiot for telling them about the wedding and expecting them to care about her. Women stop letting people treat you like a doormat family or not.
Get a brother, uncle, grandfather to walk you down the aisle. Forget dad and sister. Or you could walk down the aisle with the groom as I did. Problem solved.
Yeah F the sister and F the father.
The father dug a nice hole for himself, losing op and golden sister.
Good you have your uncle walking down the aisle. I was literally yelling have your uncle walk you down the aisle.
I was also yelling that the father got the golden sister to walk down the aisle. But may not have that chance.
Live a happier, successful life, create your own family and etc.
You don't need them and they don't want you.
*Even when life gets tough, knowing your family is behind you makes all the difference.*
I'm so sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with your family. It’s heartbreaking when loved ones don’t recognize our worth. You deserve a joyful wedding day surrounded by those who support you. Take care of yourself and know that you are deserving of happiness and love.
Even if you changed your wedding date, chances are, your sister would then change the date of her housewarming party to the new date if your wedding. She just wouldn't be able to handle you getting a little attention!
Or shew would announce a (fake) pregnancy or some other BS on OP's wedding
Anything to ruin it!
OP dodged a bullet by not having her sister at the wedding - she would have pulled some bs move to spoil it.
You should ask your uncle to move away with you. It seems as he truly cares about you. I think it was ridiculous of your father to ask you to change your wedding date when you made all the plans and then your sister decided to have her housewarming party on the same day. Her party's date could have been changed easily. Hope you have a long happy life.
He's just reading AI-created stories people upload on reddit.
I have 3 siblings. We never fought. Parents llive happily together, never divorced. Everyone has since married and we are all doing well. Guess I'm a member of a really weird family - according to all I read here.
Meaning you have a Brady Bunch family. Super rare to find.
Get a brother, uncle, grandfather to walk you down the aisle. Forget dad and sister. Or you could walk down the aisle with the groom as I did. Problem solved.
The father would pass this treatment to the grandchildren. I have seen this in my family. For their sake: Break off. This was a power move of her sister and her father. Capitulating would only excacerbrate the situation.
It would have been great for OP to tell dad that she really would change the wedding date IF... he paid for everything -- then collect the money and have the wedding on the originally planned date! OP's uncle would be so willing to walk OP down the aisle.
Great story. I agree with op. I wouldn't talk to either one of those toxic family members either. Family doesn't equal friends. They are so stupid they probably don't realize why op is so mad.
Just be glad you got your uncle there for you and I believe I got your dad get older and your sister gets older too they will probably try to have different lifestyle and I bet your father will try to come back in your life try to make stuff up and say he misses you and s*** but I think you should always take care of and be there for the ones who have been there for you
Don't change the date, tell everyone the truth that your sister made her house warming party on the same day so they both blew you off for her. Let the chips fall where they may.
Ditch the father and sister.
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You shouldn’t have taken the money, that was your only mistake.
Nope not all siblings are nice! Do not allow them at your wedding they don't deserve it!
Get your uncle to walk you down the aisle
Why do people like op stand up for themselves!!! Stick up to others. It doesn’t make you a bad person it shows that you are strong and won’t let others bully you no matter who they are
Even if she would have moved the date the father and the sister would have found a way to ruin it. Her sister knew when the wedding date was and had her party anyway.
My brother refuses to have my back. This includes when I was dealing with cancer back in 05 - 06. He actually was planning my funeral. He actually ordered my man to buy me a dress to be buried in. There were other instances too. But to make it short, I had to cut him out of my life for being toxic.
He was the golden child due to his gender and the fact that our brother had passed on a year and one week before Jerkface's birth. Me, being a 'mere' female and born on the spectrum wasn't good enough for my parents and him.
The idea of rainbow babies is based on the hidden reality of how common miscarriages are but it’s too devastating to discuss.
I couldn’t imagine being this needy to a love never known like from her sister FFS
As well as those babies that die during infancy. The child after that are also considered rainbow babies as well.
So changing the date of a wedding is no big deal, but changing the date of a housewarming isn't? Dang. Nice to see where your priorities lie.
What? Her father had pretty much the same issu like OP with her sister.. Except his brother may not be spoiled and yet he can'T she the almost same thing with his daughters?
Why that lady eating them pancakes 6:20 looked geeked up?
She looks happy ! Not all is loaners are geeks .
@trudypegg437 huh? Geeked up means a person who is high
From start to finish with the updates, there was only repetitive crap. This story is not even worthy of a paragraph of 5 lines of YT comment section.
OP was an idiot for telling them about the wedding and expecting them to care about her. Women stop letting people treat you like a doormat family or not.
Sure /s Because you think you can keep a wedding secret when direct family is involved ...how cute
@@robertx8020 Genius, some families have deliberately kept wedding info from toxic relatives. It can be done.
They would’ve found out some how and crash her wedding.
Get a brother, uncle, grandfather to walk you down the aisle. Forget dad and sister. Or you could walk down the aisle with the groom as I did. Problem solved.
Op doesn’t have a brother.