Dan's TMS Success Story Pelvic Pain, Pudendal Neuralgia, Neuropathy, Insomnia, Leg and Foot Pain

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  • @caliborn6884
    @caliborn6884 6 днів тому +26

    I’m not surprised Dan got well. With his sense of humor and his ability to laugh, he was bound to get to the other side. 😊

  • @susann2103-g9o
    @susann2103-g9o 4 дні тому +7

    This success story is very empowering - so honest - so much humor - and the key sentences for me: "Part of the syndrome is looking outside of yourself when you really need to find the healing inside yourself!" - "Recovery is NOT about neutralizing the symptoms! Recovery is about overcoming the fear!" Thank you to BOTH of you, This is coming from Germany!

  • @kateking3953
    @kateking3953 6 днів тому +15

    What a sweet man. He's a perfect example of how we all differently go the route we go to
    get to where we get to. There's no instant fix, medically or mindbody. It's a process.

    • @kateking3953
      @kateking3953 6 днів тому +6

      And....so many of us struggle with self-esteem and hiding from who we are. The truth is we did the best we could pretty much 100% of the time, and if we failed it's not because we were bad people, but because life is often hard and we don't know how to manage situations for the best outcomes. It's important to recognise we don't need to be ashamed if we failed.

    • @katherinedoherty8823
      @katherinedoherty8823 5 днів тому

      sometimes things still haunt us from what we did or which happened to us when we were quite young and never got closure for. we decided not to think about it at the time etc and pushed it down. We thought we released it , even tried to,,but maybe it’s still there? I’ve had dreams about a person from my past. I didn’t ask for these dreams . It just started happening ..strange! and it’s happened quite a few times😮

    • @kateking3953
      @kateking3953 5 днів тому +1

      @@katherinedoherty8823 I think we all carry baggage from our lives, and we all have guilts, griefs, shames, regrets. It would be unnatural not to. Some people may be better as disregarding or denying them, but it would be entirely wrong to presume the unconscious/subconscious isnt aware of them. I don't think there can be healing of any sort without acknowledgement of where we've been emotionally. I don't mean hand wringing, hair tearing, breast beating. But we didn't get to a point of distress ouside the context of our lives, but within it. Acceptance and self-forgiveness and recognition that we did what we could at the time allow us to move forward.

  • @richardcerniglia8417
    @richardcerniglia8417 6 днів тому +9

    Stop looking outside your body for a solution! Love that term Dan used.

  • @opyop3992
    @opyop3992 5 днів тому +11

    No ass pain here, but the comedy and insight make this story my new favorite. Thanks, Dans!

  • @kikistill3758
    @kikistill3758 16 годин тому

    A very significant message at 58-102 minute of this interview regarding thoughts, emotions, sensations and resulting symptoms. Thank you Dan for sharing your story with us.

  • @B737Matt
    @B737Matt 5 днів тому +5

    I am also dealing with pelvic pain as a man at a similar age to Dan. Such a great interview and ai identify and relate so much to his sorry…it really mirrors mine. I really like how he said he was in some discomfort during the interview. I think we get caught up that me must be 100% all the time to be ‘healed’, yet we have to look at our progress, and then any symptoms now with the lens of compassion and comfort….not fear.

  • @erichollinshead
    @erichollinshead 5 днів тому +9

    Binary thinking is a product of anxiety, I've never heard that before. I notice an increase in symptoms when I'm trying to live in a good or bad mindset. All is just what is happening. No labels. Letting go and reminding my brain that life is a little bit of everything. This video has continued to inspire me to keep going. Thank you Dan from Los Angeles and Dan from PainFreeYou.

    • @macijane236
      @macijane236 3 дні тому

      Love this story. Both Dans!!
      ❤❤❤

  • @Weirduniverse2
    @Weirduniverse2 5 днів тому +6

    a gem of an interview !!

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 6 днів тому +14

    Great successtory and good vibes between the 2 Dan’s!
    Really enjoyed listening !
    It strikes me how recovered people can laugh so loud about what has been a tremendous struggle but I guess it’s because the joy of being at the other side is unlimited !
    Thanks for sharing your journey Dan nr 1 and Dan nr 2: thanks again for all the time and energy you put in these recordings ❤🙏

  • @lalanellie8396
    @lalanellie8396 4 дні тому +6

    We place too much emphasis on getting out of pain! This has been me for fourteen years. I decided to let that pressure go and practice self compassion (weird for me) and to learn how to be ok despite symptoms. Really, this is the only way! Thanks Dans 😊

  • @imagine4free
    @imagine4free 6 днів тому +17

    OMG this is my exact story!!! I am so grateful for this Dan and Dan! I haven't watched PFY in months but my TMS has returned big time this week and I come on and this! Amazing. Dan, I went through the same exact thing down to the Calmoseptine! Then I sprained my ankle and the tingling and foot pain started! I am very grateful to hear this today!

  • @nicecook12
    @nicecook12 2 дні тому +2

    I am also dealing with pelvic pain. I enjoyed the interview, It’s all about fear and self compassion because we are doing the best we can and that is ok.
    I am goint to start working on gratitude which helps to be aware that we are blessed even with pain.
    Thanks so much for the interview, so glad he is much better now, one day eventually we will get there. All the best to everybody on this journey 🙌🏻

  • @anjakersten
    @anjakersten 5 днів тому +7

    Gosh, I loved that interview so much! That was so much fun and there were so many things I could relate to. Thank you Dan & Dan. Yes, I've come to similar conclusions, slowing down and self compassion. I think it's for sure good to look at the coping mechanisms, which don't serve me...

  • @stayred77
    @stayred77 6 днів тому +11

    Great interview! Dan really did an amazing job of putting into words what is involved in this journey we go through. I'm currently at about the same place on my own journey. I have days with barely any symptoms and some with more symptoms. But it no longer rules my life because I understand it now. And I'm dealing with the root cause as uncomfortable as it is I had to address the reasons why my pudendal neuralgia began. The only way out is through. I've had to take a hard look at myself and the way I've treated myself and how I've lived my life up until this point. Once I accepted this was TMS and stopped fighting myself things became so much better.

  • @stressfreelife24
    @stressfreelife24 5 днів тому +4

    So comforting to hear Dan's story, as my own 2 year journey through nearly the same symptoms is finally winding down. I wish that I had the sense of humor Dan has during the journey. It would have helped me progress faster. I cannot imagine how many others are out there suffering through this experience and they don't know Dan/Dan are out there to help start the healing process.

  • @rlabarbera
    @rlabarbera 6 днів тому +6

    SO thrilled to see you here Dan! I was always looking forward to this day! Such a powerful testimony, explained with wit and brilliance! 💎I'm especially looking forward to watching a comedic screen adaptation of your story and the tms journey with a colorful cast of characters!🤩

  • @computerfastrepair
    @computerfastrepair 5 днів тому +3

    DB aka dan buglio the man. Period!

  • @marieleak8731
    @marieleak8731 5 днів тому +3

    Wow, what an amazing success story. L.A. Dan you are so real and funny. Thank you both Dan's. Two amazing men. 🤗♥🥰

  • @NexusCapital
    @NexusCapital 5 днів тому +4

    I had this pain, went to a clinic in Oregon that electrocuted my ass to shrink my “internal hemorrhoids” the whole 9 yards. What actually fixed me was finding a UA-cam channel that had this simple pelvic floor stretching routine for men. Literally fixed me within a few days of doing it morning and night. I think so much of this stuff is TMS but don’t rule out some physical therapy solutions either, I know I felt relief immediately and didn’t even believe it was going to work so the placebo wasn’t much of a factor imo. Great video thanks for sharing.

    • @pattyboucetta1897
      @pattyboucetta1897 5 днів тому +2

      Been looking for a story of someone who overcame hemorrhoids…I also have butt pressure..

    • @NexusCapital
      @NexusCapital 5 днів тому

      @@pattyboucetta1897If you suspect it is pelvic floor dysfunction and not hemorrhoids I suggest finding a pelvic floor release stretching routine on UA-cam and trying it for a week morning and night. Nothing really to lose if it doesn’t help. My theory was just that and if it helped even 10% I knew I was on to something. Godspeed.

    • @theshilhuette8964
      @theshilhuette8964 4 дні тому

      Can you post that stretching link?

  • @jnnemsky
    @jnnemsky 4 дні тому +1

    “ Being free of this fear” wow so so so true! ❤

  • @bethmulligan1
    @bethmulligan1 5 днів тому +4

    This was an outstanding interview, AND, Dan (LA) began with my exact story with many other overlaps. I really realted to how scared and lost I felt if I didn't have some kind of treatment lined up that week.
    I think his main take always are so simple and kind. Dan B you were obviously enjoying this , and he articulated your concepts in his own way but so in alignment with you.
    I will go back to this for sure. I'm very grateful for the time you take to recor and post there. I mean REALLY!!!!

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  5 днів тому

      yeah, this was a super fun interview.

  • @AnitaPerrine
    @AnitaPerrine 3 дні тому +1

    Dan from LA…you are so articulate and a great communicator. So much talent! I kept thinking… is this guy a TV professional ? Wow! Good job.
    From Dan B…”Freak out less” is my mantra that you stress and it helps a lot after 20 years of pain and big Dizzy feelings.
    Thank you both

  • @tominnc315
    @tominnc315 5 днів тому +3

    Awesome. My ocd s are coping mechanisms ( working out) researching my ph obsessive looping thoughts, so much here i relate to. Im getting closer. I know it. Thanks Dan s! For me the key is “belief”

  • @DeluxeGroupie
    @DeluxeGroupie 6 днів тому +3

    Thank you for mentioning the risk of focusing too much on the mindbody stuff after dropping the physical stuff. I think that's were I am at the moment. First mindbody work helped me lots and within a couple of weeks to feel like 80 % better. Then anxiety and really dark thoughts came up, which were scary and brought symptoms back up, although I knew it could happen on the way. I was eventually able to get over it by convincing myself that those thoughts and feelings don't automatically mean they will harm the progress I had made. Some days ago the next thing came up: I've always been easily overwhelmed in life and of course that's stressful, so I thought it would be a good idea to try and work on that. And now I have thoughts like: "If I can't manage to learn better strategies so that I don't percive pretty much every possible situation in my life as stressfull...will I ever be able to heal from my mindbody symptoms?" I understand now that's just a new symptom. Oh my... the brain really will try everything to keep you on guard. Hilarious!

  • @chrissylap
    @chrissylap 5 днів тому +3

    Congrats on your success Dan! Thank you for sharing your story! you are awesome!! relate to you so much!

  • @shelcruz9942
    @shelcruz9942 6 днів тому +2

    The sense of humor had to have helped you recover also 😂. I have a lot to the same issues, different story but this was helpful. Thanks so much for being brave and sharing.

  • @bethcarter5031
    @bethcarter5031 6 днів тому +4

    Oh my goodness you are sharing my story in so many ways! To these two Dans I want to say thank you. You have given me the ability to decide to go to my grandson’s wrestling match in an hour. I have not been able to sit for almost 4 years without pain but I AM going to be ok! I know this is my brain doing what it thinks is best for me to protect me from danger. Do not sit. Your butt and back are going to be in the most pain ever! Liar!

    • @bethcarter5031
      @bethcarter5031 5 днів тому +3

      I just got home from my grandsons wrestling match. I survived! My biggest pain triggers are when I sit and/or stand in a stationary position. My back and “lady parts” flair. I endured 3.5 hours with moderate level of pain but I practiced self talk and affirming messages that I would be ok. I also refrained from verbalizing any comments of pain to anyone. Those gym bleachers were hard! People all around me we’re talking about how miserable sitting for them was and they had “normal brains” 😂😂 and butts. I had to stand up and walk away so I didn’t let their comments get into my already hypersensitive mind. I walked around and practiced my breathing and talking out loud safe and kind comments to myself. I have to admit I couldn’t wait to leave but I was able to watch Finley participate in his first wrestling match. Oh yeah, he was the last kid to wrestle. Go figure😊. I am now being kind to myself with the reward of laying on my comfortable bed watching the rest of this video and I am having zero pain in my back or private parts. I get so much comfort listening to success stories like Dan’s. I know that one day I won’t have to listen to others stories but right now it sure feels good!

  • @Bobbystringsfannibbles
    @Bobbystringsfannibbles 6 днів тому +5

    So very helpful!
    Thank you for being humble and hilarious 👏
    At 42 I’ve realized humor is the highest spiritual level imo.
    Bravo Dan and Dan.
    Life is so ridiculous really. Where did we come from and where are we going? What happens next is anybody’s guess. We really are cosmic jokes and remembering to enjoy this moment and chuckle at our stories while connecting is everything 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  6 днів тому +2

      Yes, Yes, Yes. Humor. Love it.

  • @sherylmarshall1444
    @sherylmarshall1444 5 днів тому +2

    Thanks you Dan and Dan!! I loved listening to Dan’s story! You have a therapeutic voice , you speak with authority but also mildness/kindness. You seemly like a wonderful person so glad things are going well ! You inspire me ❤

  • @JessicaS-nf8v
    @JessicaS-nf8v 5 днів тому +2

    Thanks Dan. I really resonated with just about everything you said. About going nonstop, self loathing, and just always being a people pleaser. Sadly, getting such symptoms is the ONLY way we would listen to our bodies... You're such an inspiration!

  • @ryanfrance2518
    @ryanfrance2518 5 днів тому +2

    Absolutely fantastic Dan from LA. Thank you for sharing. So much resonating for me. Love the sequence of events from thoughts, to emotions, to feelings in the body - makes total sense. Thanks As always Dan Buglio, you’re the best 👍🏻

  • @luiscrespo9902
    @luiscrespo9902 5 днів тому +3

    Dan from LA, thank you so much for sharing your story. It's so, so helpful to all of us going through the TMS journey. God Bless You! Continue to get well and stay well. Dan B, thank you for giving people like Dan a platform to share their stories with "our community."

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  5 днів тому

      Thanks for watching! It was our pleasure.

  • @melissaellzey7550
    @melissaellzey7550 4 дні тому +1

    Wonderful interview! Lots of great insight and loved the humor!! Thanks, Dan, for your story!

  • @michelefinizio6520
    @michelefinizio6520 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you so much for an awesome podcast love your sense of humor and honesty yes the biggest win is overcoming the fear of the symptoms that is Victory

  • @clarearrowsmith1358
    @clarearrowsmith1358 5 днів тому +2

    Loved this so much and it really resonated for me

  • @michellemoore9030
    @michellemoore9030 6 днів тому +3

    Great interview Dan & Dan. The ‘loop & OCD behaviour’ is so real. I can resonate with that part of my journey

  • @1STBUCKLEY
    @1STBUCKLEY 6 днів тому +7

    Thank you both for sharing 🙏

  • @Mamoo777
    @Mamoo777 4 дні тому +1

    Omgosh I can relate so much to his story.
    Wow, thank you!

  • @katherinedoherty8823
    @katherinedoherty8823 5 днів тому +2

    Yes yes, thank you to both Dans for this very inspirational story .. What a great personality and sense of humor Dan has … to be able to find humor in his situation! and as I wrote above, I’m hoping to find someone to encourage me like that and help me find the tools to rid myself of this throbbing butt pain.
    thanks again for posting this !

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  5 днів тому

      You have this video and steps that I teach daily. Don't wish for some person to help you. You have what you need.

  • @clintsturgill7087
    @clintsturgill7087 6 днів тому +3

    This was awesome! Thank you!

  • @julieoberhauser4241
    @julieoberhauser4241 5 днів тому +1

    One of my favorite success stories! Thank you!❤

  • @rosiem143
    @rosiem143 6 днів тому +2

    Thanks for your self awareness and candid story!

  • @ShibbysVideos
    @ShibbysVideos 6 днів тому +3

    Thank you both so much! ✨

  • @daveh7038
    @daveh7038 6 днів тому +6

    Not evolved but created by a God that cares for us.😊

  • @luanndavison
    @luanndavison 4 дні тому +1

    So great!!!

  • @computerfastrepair
    @computerfastrepair 6 днів тому +2

    Love the interviews

  • @TOSUnbound
    @TOSUnbound 6 днів тому +2

    It’s interesting seeing Dan talk about all the same conclusions I came to with a foundation of Mindbody instead of a universal model. (Physical and mental)

  • @Lenneke8422-b3t
    @Lenneke8422-b3t 6 днів тому +1

    Great succes story 👍😊🎉 Dan and Dan ❤ thank you so much ♥️🙏

  • @placeboast
    @placeboast 4 дні тому +1

    This is so funny and inspiring and really helpful. Thank you so much Dan form Los Angeles!!! :)

  • @WTK880
    @WTK880 5 днів тому +1

    Great interview

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 3 дні тому

    I also feel that the symptoms are less about danger, but the brain/subconscious stopping me from doing things/exercising, moving on after divorce, being my true self and not just a Mom.

  • @Marie-tu8dd
    @Marie-tu8dd 6 днів тому +7

    I’m convinced that pudendal neuralgia is solely a mind body syndrome. There was a study done where researchers had autopsies done on 13 female cadavers and found that all of them had pudendal nerve entrapment (PNE) but none of them ever reported any pelvic/pudendal pain when they were alive. I believe PNE is another form of a normal abnormality as we age just like the disks in our back.

    • @BrittJoshua24-15
      @BrittJoshua24-15 5 днів тому +2

      Thank you for this as i struggle with this. Going to try Mind Body.

  • @billywray4524
    @billywray4524 6 днів тому +4

    nice interview. dan adds humor to it but i am sure it was painfull

  • @veronicaaguayo5580
    @veronicaaguayo5580 22 години тому

    How inspiring! How can we contact Dan from Los Angeles! I have a few questions and would love to follow his amazing journey and hopeful energy! 😊

  • @cathyglascock1370
    @cathyglascock1370 3 дні тому

    Love his comedic talent. So entertaining!
    Reminded of a book title….. “When Nothing Works Try Doing Nothing” by Dr. Frank Kinslow.

  • @computerfastrepair
    @computerfastrepair 6 днів тому +6

    You have have 20 businesses, be rich or poor have 20 kids ..but if your mind is not right or have TMS , none of it means shyt ..the only thing your focused on is pains and anxiety .. thats the biggest challenge ever...its you vs You!

  • @swgeek4310
    @swgeek4310 4 дні тому

    This story is almost identical to mine!

  • @katherinedoherty8823
    @katherinedoherty8823 5 днів тому +1

    Yes a video well worth watching again . I would like to hear more details of what his butt pain felt like and compare it to mine. Then if it was similar I could think if Dan could overcome it via TMS strategies maybe I could too😢 He probably didn’t get into detail about the pain symptoms and side effects of pudendal neuralgia / pelvic floor dysfunction and medication side effects because he didn’t want to trigger anyone -as humans in pain are quite impressionable . But in this case it would help.😊

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  5 днів тому +1

      You don't need an EXACT match to be able to recover. Have you done the assessments? IsThisTMS.com - What did they say? If it says TMS, then you can get better too. A graphic description of how he felt is not needed. Be sure to do both the assessments. Pain test and FIT.

  • @shaneboswell9872
    @shaneboswell9872 6 днів тому +1

    I like that JCM and Steven King thing! I remember now hearing that a while ago before all this! Thank you! I do feel so much better when I am doing nog what I love!!! Thanks to you both! And hang in there everyone!

  • @ChristelHendrickx-w4t
    @ChristelHendrickx-w4t 5 днів тому +3

    I also have a pain in the ass 😂 wonderfull interview ! Picked up a lot of helpfull stuf thank you both !

  • @angelavindigni5866
    @angelavindigni5866 4 дні тому +1

    Do you have this testimony in written form? Thx.

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  4 дні тому

      UA-cam will show the transcript when viewed on a computer. Look for the Transcript button/link below the video. You may be able to copy and paste it into a document. But we do not publish our videos in written form.

  • @MikiZeen
    @MikiZeen 6 днів тому +1

    Great interview. Groetjes from the PN capital of the world 😅😅😂 Amsterdam: city where nobody slows down when it comes to riding a bike 🚴🚴🚴

  • @desireebattles9336
    @desireebattles9336 6 днів тому +1

    This really resonated with me, I been having teeth issues ever since I had an implant, I been back to my dentist 3 times about it not feeling right, then I went to another dentist for 2nd opinion, tons of xrays later they all say it's fine, WTF is my brain doing to me, this TMS stuff isn't rocket science but I have such a hard time grasping it wen the pain is so real, this sucks, I won't give up tho, I am determined to get it right one day ❤

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  6 днів тому +1

      The brain isn't doing anything TO you. It is operating on misinformation and fear. Correct the misinformation to dial down the fear. Know your mouth is fine.

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 5 днів тому +1

    Steve Ozanich’s book says hemorrhoids are literally showing that life is a pain in the a##.

  • @santsu8392
    @santsu8392 День тому

    I still didn't understand what his symptoms were. I know I have this dull burning pain in my rectum comes and goes different time in the day. Internal hemorrhoids causing blood in stool if I strain too much.

  • @NEChristo
    @NEChristo 5 днів тому +1

    Excellent interview. I appreciate the willingness to be vulnerable and brutally honest. Yeah I think taking pictures of your butthole every day may be a little OCD since ya asked 🤣 Thank you to both Dans for this!

  • @WordsBloom
    @WordsBloom 6 днів тому +3

    🎵
    There was an old lady who swallowed a fly,
    I don't know why she swallowed a fly,
    I guess she'll die.
    There was an old lady who swallowed a spider
    That wiggled and jiggled and tickled inside her,
    She swallowed the spider to catch the fly,
    I don't know why she swallowed a fly,
    I guess she'll die.
    There was an old lady who swallowed bird
    How absurd to swallow a bird....
    etc
    etc.
    🎵

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 6 днів тому +2

      Hahaha I loved this❤

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 4 дні тому

    Afte following this work for years, I still can’t get to which emotions are not being tended to.. I know we technically don’t need to know, but with one symptom after another- I think unless I tend to these (because obviously they are strong) that I can’t move forward

  • @888FreshwaterJesusdeChrist
    @888FreshwaterJesusdeChrist 5 днів тому +1

    Dan, mentioned the laying on of hands. Jesus commissioned those (believers) to "lay hands" on the sick and they (the sick) shall Recover. Don't try, but Trust.

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 5 днів тому +1

    Does Dan the interviewee have a UA-cam or instagram?

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  5 днів тому +2

      No - he's a private person and not a coach. But he dropped lots of nuggets of wisdom in this interview. Watch it again and take notes.

    • @pattyboucetta1897
      @pattyboucetta1897 5 днів тому

      @ yes I definitely will. Lots of wisdom!

  • @pattyboucetta1897
    @pattyboucetta1897 5 днів тому +3

    Vaccinated?? Nooooo!

  • @franciscocorrea6568
    @franciscocorrea6568 3 дні тому

    With all due respect i really didn't enjoy this Recovery story. It was anti climactic. It felt like he was in a hurry to just do a recovery story. I feel these kind of stories do more harm than good. I want to hear people that have recover from their symptoms not halfway.

    • @AnitaPerrine
      @AnitaPerrine 3 дні тому

      @@franciscocorrea6568 that need for 100% holds you captive! Go live!

  • @davidless57
    @davidless57 5 днів тому +1

    Wow, your experience is very similar to mine, but I call it…golf ball up the ass syndrome. I’ve always been a competitive cyclist road and off road. The proctologist said I should never ride again. Long story short it’s my best brain therapy for tms pain when it rears its ugly head from time to time and I don’t mean physical theory either!
    If I don’t ride for at least 1.5 to 2 hours every other day my brain is a mess. Thanks for sharing your journey.

  • @katherinedoherty8823
    @katherinedoherty8823 5 днів тому +2

    Yes a video well worth watching again . I would like to hear more details of what his butt pain felt like and compare it to mine. Then if it was similar I could think if Dan could overcome it via TMS strategies maybe I could too😢 He probably didn’t get into detail about the pain symptoms and side effects of pudendal neuralgia / pelvic floor dysfunction and medication side effects because he didn’t want to trigger anyone -as humans in pain are quite impressionable . But in this case it would help.😊

    • @davidless57
      @davidless57 5 днів тому

      I call mine… golf ball up my ass syndrome, lol