Our Surrogacy Story | Dustin and Burton | Raising Buffaloes
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- Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
- Our surrogacy story! My husband and I have always been an open book to help others who aspire to grow their families. When you see same-sex parents, its people's natural curiosity to wonder what the path they used to start their family. It's important to remember that even straight couples go through various journeys to create a family as well. There are many ways to create a family by foster care, adoption, and surrogacy and fertility aid. We know this process can feel overwhelming, so along with our story, we will be sharing about the @1in4app who sponsored this video / 1in4app . We know a ton about surrogacy, but we wanted to equip you with a resource for any path you may take. It’s filled with community stories, discussion blogs, and resources to help you no matter what your journey may be. We all make families differently, but our common goal remains the same; creating a family.
Meet our family. We are Dustin and Burton, gay dads, and proud parents of our twins, Stone and Holland Buffaloe. We created our family vlog, "Raising Buffaloes," as a resource for all. We are an All American Family, who happen to be gay parents through surrogacy. On our channel, you will see videos of our family adventures and grasp what it's like to raise kids in the south as a gay couple. Our dad vlog captures our parenting and fatherhood journey, but you'll find much more. We open up about our coming out journey, relationship and marriage tips, and how to live life with a little more laughter. We use our voice to shed light and awareness to the LGBTQ+ community, gay rights equality, and opening eyes to others. Family has many definitions, and this is ours. We hope you subscribe and follow along our journey of raising our little Buffaloes.
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I am a 75 year old gay man who grew up in a different world. How blessed we are to have wonderful, bright, thoughtful men like you become parents. Those children are blessed and you make all the naysayers and bigots seem so irrevelant and out of synch with the goodness on earth.
What a lovely thing to say.
Beautifully said Felix.
Your family is wonderful
Amazing and well said! ❤️
I am 73 and live in NC. Yes, it was a different world indeed, beset with fear and uncertainty. BUT aren’t we fortunate to be living still?
As a 70 y/o who fought for gay rights back in the day, it fills my heart to hear your story. It also makes me proud to watch you interact with your children. You are model parents no matter the orientation. You two are awesome!
thank you so much! very sweet message. thanks for fighting for our rights!
Where are our gay grandads in the middle east?! Sometimes I doubt there are old gay men 😢
@@QueerCapricorn6572 because they are afraid to admit it even to themselves( sorry for the mistakes I wrote through the translator)
As a young passionate 18-year old young gay man, my dream is to adopt 2 children with a lovely sportive husband. to hear your stories gives me so much hope
I would like to have two children too. However, i am still single now
These guys have it down. I have 2 little girls and just to let you know you don't have to be married to have children. I understand the desire to have a partner but you can do it alone. A few suggestions, Adoptuskids, The Bear foundation and Social Services are all great ways to go. Good luck. it is a process but it is worth it. For me, I am married to a woman but I support you guys and wish you well. God bless and good luck.
My bf (19) and I (21) want to have kids in our future too. But I have always wanted kids
Well you can share me your insta id cause i am also like you n i do have same motive as yours we can talk who knows if we two started liking each other
I am also 18 year old gay and I want pure loving husband and babies
Dustin looks at Burton with so much love.. I love these two guys.they are so amazing.. please don't ever go apart from each other..
I really wish your children all the best in life. Me and my wife are asexual,our daughter was born via IVF. Today she's majoring in astrophysics at MIT.This proves that LGBTQ parents are as capable as heterosexual ones.
Of course. I have a master degree and I have strong values even more than many str8 couples.
Are you crazy
The best option is to have a sex with a woman / easy cheep / two men husband and husband / a child is mother and father
My wife says it's ok for me to be in love with you guys. When you talk about your family I started crying because I understand the love you have for each other. Be excellent to each other!
I went the adoption route. My son is the best 💖
love this so much! how old is he?
I’m in my 40’s he’s 22 years old. He grew up to be an amazing young man, doesn’t see color, active in rights, polite. Was scary 20 years ago but so worth the fight. Love you guys💖. I’m in the process to adopt again this time thru Foster, as we’ve done foster care for years.
Jamie Scott I so want the opportunity of being a dad as well
❤❤
Ken Chambers
Hi ken
this is so beautiful. I want to be a surrogate so badly. I think giving someone a baby is the biggest joy and gift they'll ever receive. I'm so glad yall got to experience the joy of a child!!!! so happy for yall!
I had no idea how complicated Dustin and Burton’s process was. It must have taken a huge amount of patience and prayer. But God gave them two gorgeous kids.
GOD' is not apart of this. This is lust and very selfish 😢...a child should have a mother and father....They need to repent and forsake SIN ⚖️,when it's time they will understand this is not natural.
Sending infinite love to both of u from India ...you both are such an adorable couple may God bless you ...💕💕💕
In India gay life is too much difficult
@@psharma4063 yes but it all depends family , acceptance all by yourself and yeah inner circle.
@@psharma4063 pplpppppppppp
@@psharma4063 Well, it's difficult almost everywhere. But, I hope and pray everyone gets love and care.🙂❤️🙏
@@psharma4063 Its like log kya kahenge society kya kahegi🙂
'dont rush the process' speaks volume to me.... That is how our manifestation comes into existence
You guys have a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your story. My husband and I adopted two and a half years ago. Our son has brought his Papa and Dad so much joy!
Thank you so much!
Dustin u have a saudi guy look&humor and every time u make Burton laugh I just laugh to lol! we need more of u 2
It doesn’t matter the parents are gay or lesbian it matters about how is the parents are..the kids are so lucky to have such a beautiful parents like both of u..i have grown up in a country where loving someone is still punishment & opening up about gay/lesbian is so far to talk
Are u from Bangladesh
@Towfig Himel so sad to hear this!!!
So long as there is more love in the world who cares what or who you love.
south asia 🥺
@@ehsanulhaque4314 yes
@@ronnasurmon1656 no u r wrong..yes it seems unnatural bt think sometime a mother & a father also can't do upbringing their child so well like the way these guys doing..look how beautifuly their kids growing well.. They didn’t learned abt fighting,hatred or seperating..bt normal parents sometimes can't do like this..it depens how u are if u r bad ur family wont last long & if u r a good hearted person ur family will love u a lot like they r living..i hope u understand 😇
At only 15-years old and still basically a minor, this gives me a lot of hope to my dream family, I plan to have a husband and kids of my own, so thanks for this! ❤❤❤ God bless your family 🌈 💗 👨👨👧👦
You should consider yourself lucky, it's not too late for you to step off this path. You can still be normal and live a moral, satisfying life.
@@BotBoy-un3pz how abt you mind your own business and not tell me what to do with my own life, I already have parents who don’t agree with it and I don’t need some stranger on the internet telling me the same thing 💀🖐🏻
@@BotBoy-un3pztouche
@@wild.raccoons❤ exactly
Have just started watching your content and am really impressed how you are spreading such a positive vibe. My civil partner (soon to be husband) and I went the surrogacy route to start our family, although illegal here in Switzerland. Due to the distance, we teamed up with a great agency in Minneapolis who held our hands and walked us through the process (health insurance etc as non US citizens is not so simple) and had the most amazing experience- We can only echo what you guys are saying. James has been the most amazing gift and we are hopeful he’ll get a brother or sister in a year or two. The biggest shout out has to go to the amazing gestational carriers and surrogates and their families who make our family dreams possible. But thank you guys for spreading the hope.
You are the 2 most charming Dads and it is passed on the your children which will grow up as 2 kind hearted beautiful adults one day.
12:40 they are making a sentence together like they think the same thing and feel exactly the same about things wow amazing connection ♥️
I am so happy that you've found each other so early in your adult life that you guys were able to plan early and work on it to start a family. Thank you for sharing the story. What a beautiful family you've built! You guys will be my inspiration as a gay man starting his 30s with the dream of becoming a dad soon.
Amazing how similar our process was to yours!!! We did go one extra step and did a DNA test right away, to find out who’s was who’s biologically and then we adopted the one who wasn’t ours, as an extra layer of protection since we are planning on living in a different country, and you never know what their laws may be. We weren’t going to tell anyone who’s was who’s... but then it became very obvious as they look like mini versions of each of us! But like you said, they are both ours and we will always treat them that way!! Thank you for sharing your story!!❤️💙
we thought we were going to have to do that, but the laws changed while we were in the hospital! we were one of the first same-sex couples in our state to both be on the birth certificate. congratulations on your family! :)
Dustin & Burton - Raising Buffaloes I had a feeling the laws might have changed!! Ours were born in 2011 and things were still a little unclear... so glad to hear it’s gotten easier!!😉
GOD' didn't make this to be like this it's selfish and it's ❤️🔥 lust...the children should have a mother and father. Repentance is needed for the transformation of y'all minds. Since they didn't see fit to acknowledge GOD' he turned them over to the lie....He gave them a Reprobate mind. I pray y'all turn to Jesus Christ for strength so that you become born again in the truth of GOD 🙏🏽
Lady kid are being beaten and rapped daily and you worry about childern with two loving parents go somewhere im a conservative myself in most ways but not with love as love is none of the governments or others business my daughter is gay and I could not be prouder so why watch stuff to only be hateful best of luck to both families in this conservation and do not worry about people like this
I have 3 yr old b/g twins myself. I went through IVF and wow, that first ultrasound is wild. Twins can be so frustrating and so rewarding. Thanks for sharing your story! Beautiful family. ❤️
Thank you for this! My husband and I are going to start looking into options after Covid-19 eases (hopefully soonish), so this was a lot of help before we dive in.
best of luck! that's so exciting!
Bst of luck guyz😍🤗
Happiness comming your way!!! 😁💜
All the best
Can it be a mixture of both sperms?
Your story makes me cry. One hears so many stories about how difficult it can be, even now, for GLBT folk to have children (or even to keep the children they have!) that it warms my heart to see a happy story like yours. One thing is for sure--your children will always know that you would have done anything to be their parents, and would do anything for them now.
I Love that you're not trying to raise your kids gender neutral, you're letting your daughter be a girl..much respect for you as parents
What a powerful story and journey. For many of us that dreamed about something like this, I can really have joy that you made it happen in your lives. Amazing enough you answered all of my questions. Thanks for advocating. Thanks for your honesty and sharing your family with all of us.
You two are amazing as Dad's and husbands. Enjoy each moment with your kiddos as they grow up so fast.
best dads in the world.i love you .Best wishes for your family.Be happy:)
I'm just turning 20 and this made me so hopeful of my future
I admire you so muchh💕 You are sure an example about how families are built by love and not by blood! Keep changing the world 😍😍
After watching it my eyes fills with Happy tears.....a heart touching journey......#AmazingMemories #Blessed
why do I feel like I have to comment on every one of your videos? your videos are inspiring and refreshing. Im currently binge watching all your videos. Im so in love with this family. you guys are authentic, its beautiful to see. You guys are truly my friends in my head.
Wow, thank you!
What a beautiful story! I just found your channel today and have binge-watched your videos. I am a single gay dad who fostered and adopted my now 5-year-old son. It is so inspiring to hear your story and see your lovely family.
I hope you guys know how lucky and blessed you were throughout this process - and look at your prize! Have to admit that I got a little choked up when you mentioned that you found your gestational carrier. That kind of generosity is surreal and powerful - especially in a not-so-supportive-LGBTQ state. The gift this woman, her husband, and kids moved me!
We agree!
My one and only nephew was a gift also. My brother and his wife couldn't get pregnant. My brothers best friend knew a young girl that wanted to have her baby, but for my brother and his wife. He's came day one. A month early, but perfect and he's been a blessing from God and her. As I've gotten older as a gay Male I wished I had one child too. You know you bless me with your blog. Ty God bless your family always
Such a touching story..... Kids are the best blessings .... Ur blessed with twins 💙💗 because ur indeed beautiful person with a beautiful soul. ... God bless ur family .....🥰💗
Kids are a blessing but how are the been brought into the world both by women and men coming together and both doing they part joinly
GOD' didn't bless this and won't until they repent....they are going to be judged by God for their actions raising kids in this perversion 😢
Such a heartwarming video ❤️❤️ u guys were so patient and liable during this tumultuous process.U cherished every moment together👬, ur story just melted my heart♥️.I must say u both r very responsible Father's👏👏.Love & respect from 🇮🇳.
How wonderful, thanks for sharing your stories. I have 3 kids from a marriage in my youth, the best parts of my life full of precious memories. You are so blessed.
❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I’m a social worker in UK and worked in adoption and now fostering. Your story was amazing and just goes to show what children need are loving, supportive and nurturing parents like yourselves. Whatever form a family is made us by, children need loving homes. God Bless you both and your wonderful children.
Thank you so much!
You made me cry. (in a good way) I broke up with my long term partner last year, I am 36, and I want kids. I'm scared that I won't find someone, but this made me smile, and gave me hope. Thank you.
Delay is not denial. You have a partner somewhere it’s just a matter of Time. It is well
Why in bloody Hell would anyone give this inspiring, instructional video the 'thumb's down'? Obviously, self-centred, obsessed religious zealots [mostly Yanks]. They get my 'thumb's down' for their rank stupidity. Dustin and Burton are an inspiration, and for that reason they earn my love and support. Best wishes from Australia.
Mate I am also from Australia and I have absolutely no doubt Dustin and Burton are great parents..no doubt at all ..My big concern about same sex parenting is that the children grow up missing one of their natural parents. In this instance their mums.. Whilst many families are missing mum or dad because of broken relationships or other reason its quite different when mum or dad is left out deliberately . Two great dads yes but nothing can replace the love and nurture of mum.
The question I always ask is this .. is that fair on the children?? But let me reiterate I am sure these two guys are loving and committed dads and that is huge in any childs life and I absolutely wish them all the best .
@@jallancam5503 Well, mate, if you had watched all of their videos you would have noted that their surrogate mum has visited on several occasions, including the twins birthday, holidays, etc. So, I can't agree with or relate to your rather inaccurate comments.
This is so sweet ❤️❤️❤️ I randomly came across this video an Im crying tears of joy 😭 this world is so special when you hear about moments like this
Thanks for sharing this beautiful story ! I am from the Dominican Republic and I am so happy to be able to have my family. ❤️ thanks again
You are both such precious 💕 souls
& Your story & those babies...
Been crying all afternoon...
Magical blessings to ALL of you
In 2022.. 🥳🎉
Thank you Tess, hats is so sweet of you to say! Much love to you!
Tbh.... Its a blessing to live freely with one you love...may you have all the happiness in your life ...❤ such a sweet family ..💕
Que lindooooo 😍 love your story! Hope one day I could have mine with my husband 😭😍
Thanks for you guys sharing your surrogacy experience, me and my husband also want to have our own kids.
This got me emotional more than a couple of times... Especially the video at the end... Oh my heart....❤❤❤❤❤
And thank you for the message that it doesn't matter whose sperm or egg it is... The baby is yours.... Whether you're going for adoption or surrogacy.... ❤❤❤
My husband and I are much older and sadly did not have this opportunity. You are lucky to be able to do so. Thank you for sharing your story and helping those who want to be Dads.
Thanks for watching!
i love this. im pushing mid thirties and have always been interested in this process. i may have to do it alone and im personally, very ok and happy with that. its amazing to see and hear you guys speak of your journey
My heart was warmed listening to your story . It's so beautiful and emotional 🥺❤️ . Y'all have a beautiful and amazing family .
You guys are just beautiful and so is your family. You're an inspiration to everyone with a heart that beats. I wish nothing but the best for both of you and for your two adorable children!
Wow, your story really inspires me, it's like I still can't process how that much happiness is possible, because being gay is hard. But your story is amazing, you have a beautiful family and you guys are fighters. Congrats on everything! and thank you for setting an example and being role models, for breaking stereotypes and showing the world how a healthy and happy gay couple can have a healthy and happy family. I'm really happy for you, keep on! :) Greetings from Ecuador. God Bless You :)
Oh man, I moved to NC years ago with my fiance. I'm job hunting because we are finally debt free and ready to go back into debt to build our family.
Thanks for sharing your story. It's so important to have a great team to help you create your family. There are so many decisions to make..it truly takes a village!
it does!!
SUCH A POSITIVE VIEW. WAITED A LONG TIME TO SEE A STORY LIKE YOURS! MUCH LOVE
What a tremendous adventure you've shared to bring those babies home to you - it's completely amazing and awesome! And, to see the kids now today - so healthy, happy and full of childhood mischief!! 💝
I feel so blessed that FB popped this video onto my home page today, if you could just see my beaming smiles at you both! 😍 Thanks for making and sharing your family's story! ❤️
God really blessed these children with loving parents
one of my dreams is to have children, but i don't know where to start, i'm 19 my parents don't accept me, i'm still in the closet, at the end
I admire the strength of you, I love your family
kerlon trust me, it does get better. ❤️
All the best. May you have a better future 😊
It all takes time. #You are still so young. First goal: find a stable relationship. After that you can come out of the closet and move out and marry and AFTER all that, think about children. :) Good luck
You'll eventually get there. Find your strength to out to your parents and let things follow..
You are so lucky to have each other and two beautiful children.
So inspiring story.. i hope one day someone will accept me also for being who i am..
What a great story...you are so very blessed. Continued Love and happiness to you and your FAMILY!
Amazing story. So heartwarming. Could not be happier for both of you! You guys deserve all you have in life. And you're both awesome dads 😊
I am three minutes into the video and something about them makes my heart melt. I can’t put my finger on it.
A Very Touching & Beautiful Story!
Listening To Your Story Filled My Eyes With Tears Of Joy & Happjness For Both Of You, Going Through All Those Process, It Really Shows How Much You Both Love Each Other & Brings You Closer Together To Be Wonderful Dads To Your Children.
Bless Your Hearts!
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I also finally became a happy mother thanks to the Surrogate mother and Feskov clinic in Ukraine. Can't thank them enough!
wow what a journey guys!! this family is the best family wohooo 💖💖
Love the cool cow painting. You guys are too cute with each other hoping all of you have a healthy long wonderful life with each other. You guy's deserve it 😁💚💙💜
their eyebrows are on point though
I am gay, I'll be in my 30s this year, I wish I could have a child to love, cherish to take care of me when I am getting old.😓 I hope that day will come!
Your story is so inspiring. I thank UA-cam for recommending this. It brought smile and hope! L❤VE frrom the Philippines😊❤🇵🇭
wow, that's amazing. So so emotional. I'm very happy for you guys❤
Masha Allah your whole story was exciting.i was afraid at water broke early part.so happy for you.Please keep posting these positive videos.
I just found you guys on youtube and I am so lucky and glad that I did! You are wonderful parents and awesome human beings!
I have 2 son's that's very acceptance.. because they we're 2 and 5 when I meet the love of my life...
OMG YESSS! I've been waiting for this video! This gives me hope and encouragement when I start my family with my bf in a few years! Our story is a little different because we are in an interracial relationship, and while we both want our DNA in our kids, we want our kids to be mixed (for obvious reasons) lol so we will need to have two different egg donors.
amazing!
Not unfortunately it will be a happy journey trust me...lots of love for you 🥰
😢 a child should have a mother and father. GOD' is not apart of this this is lust you should repent for the sake of those kids and turn to Jesus Christ 😭🙏🏽
Why in Hell would anyone give this informative, inspiring video the thumbs down? There are some truly hateful people out there.
You guys are too cool. I agree with everything Fred Manus previously said. I am a senior myself and lived in a very different time. I am so happy for the new generation and sad for those of us who did not have the freedoms of today.
I can not stop looking at Burton
I love this story. It realizes me that life is everything. If I would be given a chance to undergo this kind of process, I’d love to. But, I really have to wait for the right guy.
It's really good that society gives such opportunity. And the rout to get a child is less important than parents' responsibility for kid to raise him happy person.
Love this story! I am a gc in NC and love hearing others stories especially from the ips perspective💗
your story gave me hope🥺♥️
CONGRATULATIONS BELATED! Burton, boy I can tell a bit of a southern drawl! Greetings from Minnesota!
I live in country, where having kids is imposible for gay man couples(or even single man).. and i'm so happy for both of you, that you can have family and live life you want :)
Wonderful. It's nice to have this kind of visibility and information. It gives me hope (and I am sure many others) for the future.
Glad it was helpful!
Amazing stories! The family you have certainly is an inspiration for me,and a lot of same-sex couple. Again,thanks for sharing your story!
Congratulations! You guys deserve to be happy ❤❤❤
Very informative, helpful & inspiring. All the best to your beautiful family! 💙
I’m so happy that you guys share you this amazing part of your lifes, you inspire me to achieve my dreams and expectations one day and to look forward too, thank you for being who you are and sharing it to the world that needs it, love you take care💙✨
Our pleasure!
Y’all Inspire me so much, I can’t wait to found a husband and have kids, I hope I will found a husband one day, I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair I’m 31, I had a boyfriend all high school from 04 to 09 after high school his parents found out we were gay and stopped us from talking, I love y’all much! Y’all are cute Husbands together, y’all are so Hilarious and funny
Hope you find him soon someday.
@@AMohamedAsif I hope so
I think the eyes say it all, if you know what I mean. Incredible story. The kids sure love their Dads.
Thank you for sharing this amazing story. Much love to your entire family!
I always feel Holland looks like Burton while Stone looks like Dustin. Now I know why. Both are beautiful kids 😍
I'm so sorry if you offended by this.
No way the little girl looks like Dustin.
What a wonderful story! Blessings to your family!
What a great story- you guys are the best. Just recently started watching your videos, you make being a gay family and raising children look so easy. You truly are an inspiration to other male couples looking to have family life. You obviously love your children and that is eminently visible during your story
Gestational surrogate here for a gay (male) couple and I love hearing stories from the other side. It's been such an amazing learning experience. Thanks for sharing your story!
This is a beautiful story! 😊
Such a cute and lovely story... Really you're very very luckiest men I have ever seen... All the best for your family's bright and colourful future... With lots of love❤️❤️😘😘😘
Thank you for this encouraging video I am not gay but me and my partner always supports gay couple and can t imagine how happy you were to have those lovely children. We want to adopt with my partner even our families are against it you give us hope and so much support and positive energy. I just want to thank you for all your videos you have a lovely family.
Amazing story. Handsome couple. Adorable children. Beautiful family. 💜🖤❤️💛🧡💚💙 Much Love from South Africa🇿🇦
🥺🥺 me right now after watchnggg! Thank you so much for sharing this!
You are so welcome! and thank you for following along!