Just because he asked her doesnt mean that she will feel comfortable/safe revealing the truth, he could react violently, she is living in his house, she has no independence or external support to take that kind of risk, its easy for him to be blinded by his heart break and not understand why she did the only thing she could do. He later realised and things improved.
Maa aap kyu nahi samjhti apna pyar ko bhulana muskil hai aaplog ke zid ke karan teen zindgi Barbados ho rhi fir v koye khush nahi hai dam ghut raha hai😢kaash aap samjh pate
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When we had these types of movies and these types of climaxes both men and women understood what love is and also the importance of marriage...now it's just a rope which can be worn at any time and removed at any time.
Now when I see this scene I see so much of male dominance and arrogance …. Dragging her the way he did … like she is some animal !!! Not cool . It’s not like he ddnt know how an arranged marriage set up works and how little say a woman with no financial Independence from a joint family has . I used to love this character earlier …. Now I see it with a different light …. Of course later he becomes sensitive to her …. But this scene and the first night scene wherein he doesn’t think her consent in love making matters show a little bit of male privilege for sure
Wrong, she ruined his life, he already expressed to her he cant tolerate lie, there is nothing male dominance in this. She hurted him emotionally so much, she broke him, why aren't you taking about that? Is it your Female Ego!!!! Emotional torture he went through is nothing for you? What do you expect a man to be, hurt him emotionally, break him and if he does something like in this scene then curse him of male dominance? Understand his situation, he didnt kick her, he didnt slap her, he didnt pulled her with hair.. he took her out of the house forcefully... but few people will look at this as male dominance, totally ignoring his feelings and thoughts. Modern feminism is a scam, stay away from it and come to reality... The resilience that Ajay's displayed is beyond imagination, his character is so gentle.. as per me his role is best in the movie.. you keep crying on feminism.
@@sushil1111 the very fact that u got personal and directing your venom at me instead of keeping ur views neutral just shows your own ego … pls go spew ur negativity elsewhere - not interested in discussion with u
@@Emdee1234 lol you run away from discussion when you dont have answers, keep living in fake and illusioned world.. all the best..i just showed you mirror and you found it ugly .. what can i do in this?
Agar Ajay Devgan ne Aish ko thappad maarta toh keh sakte the ki usne galat kia aur uske gharwale bhi use maarte taane dete uske gharwalo ko bulake unki bejatti karte Aish ko ghar se bhaga dete tab keh sakte the ki Ajay ne dominance dikhai hai par yahan to Aisa kuch bhi nhi kia Ajay ne jisse pyar karke shadi ki woh hi dhokebaaz nikli usko to bewakuf bnaya hi Aish ne uske gharwalo ko bhi pagal bna dia to aise main Ajay ko kitna dukh hua hoga woh jispe guzarti hai woh hi smjh sakta hai
@@MonikaSharma-ij3sdpast me affair tha na... To shadi k baad letter padh k muskura kyu rahi h..... Aur avitak usne shadi ko mana hi nai to affair past nai present me v continue h... To pooja karega kya aisi biwi ka jo use chune nai deti h par asiq ka khat padh rahi h sasural me
Some movies are so stupid, Even if what she did was wrong by not telling him that she loves someone else, the way he is treating her I don't understand why she lived with such a toxic person, he did not clearly love her if he can do that, no Love justify this behaviour.
@@Pixelpulse447 oh please Liar or not violence is not the solution. Is that what you do at your home if someone argues with you, do you choose violence. Also many women and even men are forced to marry each other, that does not give the right to anyone to resort to violence. If you can differentiate between violence and argument, I am sorry you never learnt to peacefully solve problems in a family. Men or women no one has any right to use physical force.
Agar Ajay Devgan ne Aish ko thappad maarta toh keh sakte the ki usne galat kia aur uske gharwale bhi use maarte taane dete uske gharwalo ko bulake unki bejatti karte Aish ko ghar se bhaga dete tab keh sakte the ki Ajay ne dominance dikhai hai par yahan to Aisa kuch bhi nhi kia Ajay ne jisse pyar karke shadi ki woh hi dhokebaaz nikli usko to bewakuf bnaya hi Aish ne uske gharwalo ko bhi pagal bna dia to aise main Ajay ko kitna dukh hua hoga woh jispe guzarti hai woh hi smjh sakta hai
Galti is ladki ki nahi hai iske maa baap ki hai jinhone iski shaadi kisi Stranger se kara di...or log dosh ladke ko de rahe hai...arey bhai mana ki ajay sir ne jis tarah behave kiya aishwarya ma'am ke saath wo galat hai..par ladki k maa baap ki zid me or ladki pyaar ki nautanki me zindagi toh ajay sir ki bhi khrab hui na...please its a request to both boys and girls please don't marry such people's jinka pehle kisi aur se pyaar reh chuka hai...whether it's a boy or a girl...mere friend ne bhi yehi glti ki thi....aaj uski life kharab hogyi hai....please be single and wait for the right person and do not carry someone else's emotional baggage from past...
Balraaj is a true lover thats why he accepted his wife with all her flaws, jo mard such me apni wife ki respect krta hoga vo apni wife ki sbi kmiyo k sath use respect krega
This movie was ridiculous! Made me so angry. She was literally killing herself and dying to be with her love but then stayed with her husband over her true love. Made me throw up! There was no point in all of it if she was going to be a major flake.
No. It has a moral. She was dying to be with her love but the fact that her beloved was not dying that enough to be with her and made no effort to be in touch with her opened her eyes to see that her husband was doing everything to make her happy and this is exactly the definition of true love.
Does anyone else gets a feeling that the mother also lost her love and got forced in a marriage to someone else , that’s why she is able to tell her daughter her pain is futile . She is not angry at her daughter rather at the situation and their collective helplessness
@@_chapternumberone_8782 women in certain households are conditioned to listen and to obey and men are conditioned to order and expect to be obeyed . It takes generations and ages to break such a conditioning and culture . It wouldn’t be surprising that once Nandini returned to Vanraj , he would become another version of the same kind of male , giving love but not freedom
@@Emdee1234 no you just cannot compare Vanraj to other men. Vanraj was more perfect than Salman's character. He loved her enough to let her go, not only that, despite being married, he helped her to find her love travelling from city to city. Not even a man who is modern and good would do that. But Vanraj did and seeing his unconditional love is what made Nandini fall for him
@@Emdee1234 idk what more you expect of men. Yes male dominance existed in the past but vanraj doesn't possess even an ounce of that. You really think if Vanraj was like that, he would let Nandini go??? He would have beaten her up. The most he did was he got angry. Any man/woman who gets to know the woman/man he/she loved and married lied to him/her and didn't like him/her and loves someone else. Thats betrayal right there. Still he helped her
Ladies defending Nandini and being outranged at her husbands reaction, stop embarrassing yourselves plz. As women, we should admit that Nandini was wrong. It's quite obvious she is wrong and immature. Not denying trauma, etc. But she brought it on herself. Please don't absolve her of accountability. Her husband, who you are calling egotistical and abusive, literally helped her find her love because he couldn't stand to see her in pain. Are you denying he's a human being? Should a man be some kind of robot and have no feelings when being cheated on? He is able to kill her with one punch. But he is a real man. He would never harm her, because he loves her with the love of a commited HUSBAND not a temporary love affair. If you've never been loved by a real man, just say so. A real man will do anything to make his love happy, he will stand for her against the world, even against his own heart. As is shown in this movie. As Nandini learns.
@@liblib1815 first this movie was made in 1999 , and this movie literally showed that we should no force to love , thats why vanraj making her to meet her love
BALRAJ behaviour cannot be justified ,Its violence ,He should get annoyed upon his father in law ,forced marriage is hell ,its film but sometimes people influence from such stupid things...
Ye kia keh rahi he iski maan zeberdasti shadi kerwao aur phir zemadaryan nebao bkwas he sub . is movie ka end bhth bhth galth ta muhabbath ki thuheen hui he Is movie me
Aisi ldkiyo k karan hi vanraaj jaise ldko ki life kharab hoti hai. Jb usse itna pyar tha ki vo kisi aur ko accept nhi kr pati to shaadi hi nhi karni chahiye thi. baap ke ijjjat ka to maan rakh liya but dusre ki life aur ijjjat ki dhajjiya uda di . Same on these type of girls..
Haan toh uski kya galti hai isme? Agar woh baap ke against jaa kar Sameer se shaadi kar leti tab bhi usey selfish hi bolte na tum? Ab jabarjasti emotional blackmail karke uski Vanraj se shaadi karwaadi tab bhi you're blaming the girl? When will you change your misogynistic mentality? It's her parents' fault, their selfishness. Average indian parents!!!!!!
Aishwarya's acting is superb.
2:08 what a acting✨
Payar karne se sirf taklif ho milta h 😢
Ryt expectations kills
Sach kha
Ajay devgn sir jaisa koi nhi acting kar sakta
he was just imitating what salman did to aishwarya in real life
4:27 what a acting Ajay sir🔥
Best scne this movie ajay sir ki
Maa ki baatein kitni sahi hai , har ladki ko samajhna chahiye
Jabardasti bhi usi maa ne ki
Kaise log apne hi bachho ke khushiyan chhin lete han 😢😢😢😢
Ajya devgan acting ❤❤❤
What a great acting ajay devgan👍
Just because he asked her doesnt mean that she will feel comfortable/safe revealing the truth, he could react violently, she is living in his house, she has no independence or external support to take that kind of risk, its easy for him to be blinded by his heart break and not understand why she did the only thing she could do. He later realised and things improved.
If she loves someone, she should have courage to deny marrying someone else at first place. And now if she agreed to marry then she should accept him.
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Jisse sachhe dil se pyr hota h sirf wahi dikhta h fir samne wala kitna q na achha ho 😢
Bitthal kaka is culprit 😂
Heart Touching Scene ❤️💕❤️💕
Zaberdasti ki shaadi
Maa aap kyu nahi samjhti apna pyar ko bhulana muskil hai aaplog ke zid ke karan teen zindgi Barbados ho rhi fir v koye khush nahi hai dam ghut raha hai😢kaash aap samjh pate
Itna pyar bharosha k baad v love marriage kyu tut jata h fir....kv khud maa baap bano khud samjh jaoge k maa baap ayisa kyu karte h
Exactly @@ashishmahakur8490
सब बकवास है शादी जिसमें लोग सच्चा प्यार किसी और से करते है और शादी किसी और से |
Qqtuddvdfgaax grffdsdsc❤ satu
Aawww. Zassgvgc❤ yg see ex gf RSS yg❤zewec ku de yg v yg vj in
❤h see we see RSS srs yg g yg vj
❤Wer di c gf gf g Co b yg❤
Dil de chuke Sanam
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Natu Kaka was the root cause of all mess in this movie wtf
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Literally my mother when watched this movie she said me that why did he has to give her those letters after the marriage 😂😂😂
Sawdhaan India =Crime Patrol= Hum Dil de chuke Sanam
Super hit
Nattu kaka jb phle dene se dr gye the to shadi ke baad dene ka kya fayda
U right
Bitthal naam h nattu kaka nhi
When we had these types of movies and these types of climaxes both men and women understood what love is and also the importance of marriage...now it's just a rope which can be worn at any time and removed at any time.
yes bcz husbands bully wives so no need to stay in such marriage
Bitthal kaka Nattu kaka😢
One of the best and classic movie of bollywood
Main bnne wali hu nandni guys 😂
Ek do ya char sal m pr bnugi jrur....😂
Sahi hai❤❤
Now when I see this scene I see so much of male dominance and arrogance …. Dragging her the way he did … like she is some animal !!! Not cool . It’s not like he ddnt know how an arranged marriage set up works and how little say a woman with no financial Independence from a joint family has . I used to love this character earlier …. Now I see it with a different light …. Of course later he becomes sensitive to her …. But this scene and the first night scene wherein he doesn’t think her consent in love making matters show a little bit of male privilege for sure
True
Wrong, she ruined his life, he already expressed to her he cant tolerate lie, there is nothing male dominance in this. She hurted him emotionally so much, she broke him, why aren't you taking about that? Is it your Female Ego!!!! Emotional torture he went through is nothing for you? What do you expect a man to be, hurt him emotionally, break him and if he does something like in this scene then curse him of male dominance? Understand his situation, he didnt kick her, he didnt slap her, he didnt pulled her with hair.. he took her out of the house forcefully... but few people will look at this as male dominance, totally ignoring his feelings and thoughts. Modern feminism is a scam, stay away from it and come to reality... The resilience that Ajay's displayed is beyond imagination, his character is so gentle.. as per me his role is best in the movie.. you keep crying on feminism.
@@sushil1111 the very fact that u got personal and directing your venom at me instead of keeping ur views neutral just shows your own ego … pls go spew ur negativity elsewhere - not interested in discussion with u
@@Emdee1234 lol you run away from discussion when you dont have answers, keep living in fake and illusioned world.. all the best..i just showed you mirror and you found it ugly .. what can i do in this?
@@Emdee1234 his male ego is hurt, that's why he got personal.
Agar Ajay Devgan ne Aish ko thappad maarta toh keh sakte the ki usne galat kia aur uske gharwale bhi use maarte taane dete uske gharwalo ko bulake unki bejatti karte Aish ko ghar se bhaga dete tab keh sakte the ki Ajay ne dominance dikhai hai par yahan to Aisa kuch bhi nhi kia Ajay ne jisse pyar karke shadi ki woh hi dhokebaaz nikli usko to bewakuf bnaya hi Aish ne uske gharwalo ko bhi pagal bna dia to aise main Ajay ko kitna dukh hua hoga woh jispe guzarti hai woh hi smjh sakta hai
Nattu kaka done his job😂😂
Agr ladke ka affair ho past m...to ladke ko ghr se bhar nikalna chahie Matlab ya zindagi se bhar?
Zindagi se bahr 🤣😂😅
@@MonikaSharma-ij3sdpast me affair tha na... To shadi k baad letter padh k muskura kyu rahi h..... Aur avitak usne shadi ko mana hi nai to affair past nai present me v continue h... To pooja karega kya aisi biwi ka jo use chune nai deti h par asiq ka khat padh rahi h sasural me
Orat hi orat ki dushman hoti h
Nattu kaka did anyone notice him
Jhut bardasht nhi hai mujhe....haha....comedy circus ki yad aa gai
Wow nice love story ❤😊
Some movies are so stupid, Even if what she did was wrong by not telling him that she loves someone else, the way he is treating her I don't understand why she lived with such a toxic person, he did not clearly love her if he can do that, no Love justify this behaviour.
@@Pixelpulse447 you mean it's right to drag someone like this forcefully
@@Pixelpulse447 oh please Liar or not violence is not the solution. Is that what you do at your home if someone argues with you, do you choose violence. Also many women and even men are forced to marry each other, that does not give the right to anyone to resort to violence. If you can differentiate between violence and argument, I am sorry you never learnt to peacefully solve problems in a family. Men or women no one has any right to use physical force.
Agar Ajay Devgan ne Aish ko thappad maarta toh keh sakte the ki usne galat kia aur uske gharwale bhi use maarte taane dete uske gharwalo ko bulake unki bejatti karte Aish ko ghar se bhaga dete tab keh sakte the ki Ajay ne dominance dikhai hai par yahan to Aisa kuch bhi nhi kia Ajay ne jisse pyar karke shadi ki woh hi dhokebaaz nikli usko to bewakuf bnaya hi Aish ne uske gharwalo ko bhi pagal bna dia to aise main Ajay ko kitna dukh hua hoga woh jispe guzarti hai woh hi smjh sakta hai
@@Lazynailz yaha baat sukh ki nhi violence ki hai
@@vartikajain3128 it's not violence did he slap her? NOPE
Did he beat her? NOPE
What did he do he just dragged her forcefully cos he was so angry
Omg ye sb scene tha ky 😮
Iss duniya m pta nhi kitni nadani bnni hogi😢 iss samaj ke piche
Iss duniya m na jane kitne vanjag bhi hoge ..
But balraaj koi ni ban pata koi 100 m sy 1-2 hi hogy
ye to galt he
Hahi kaha
😢😢you right
Galti is ladki ki nahi hai iske maa baap ki hai jinhone iski shaadi kisi Stranger se kara di...or log dosh ladke ko de rahe hai...arey bhai mana ki ajay sir ne jis tarah behave kiya aishwarya ma'am ke saath wo galat hai..par ladki k maa baap ki zid me or ladki pyaar ki nautanki me zindagi toh ajay sir ki bhi khrab hui na...please its a request to both boys and girls please don't marry such people's jinka pehle kisi aur se pyaar reh chuka hai...whether it's a boy or a girl...mere friend ne bhi yehi glti ki thi....aaj uski life kharab hogyi hai....please be single and wait for the right person and do not carry someone else's emotional baggage from past...
Galti sameer ki hai he didn’t even tried once.
@@vertika_29 Indeed..
40/35
Iloveyou mooly❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Thanks to all.... for your time and consideration
Even I don't like Salman's over acting
Balraaj is a true lover thats why he accepted his wife with all her flaws, jo mard such me apni wife ki respect krta hoga vo apni wife ki sbi kmiyo k sath use respect krega
Nattu kaka yha 🥺🥺
Hehe uske baad acttiing h😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
Movie name
Ham dil de chuke sanam
Chiti toh n bhejta ta semeer😢😮
This movie was ridiculous! Made me so angry. She was literally killing herself and dying to be with her love but then stayed with her husband over her true love. Made me throw up! There was no point in all of it if she was going to be a major flake.
Very true ,bahut bakwas script ,such films create nuisance
That's true. It's the most impractical and unrealistic movie ever!!!
Ya I'm totally agree with u
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No. It has a moral. She was dying to be with her love but the fact that her beloved was not dying that enough to be with her and made no effort to be in touch with her opened her eyes to see that her husband was doing everything to make her happy and this is exactly the definition of true love.
Same here 😢😢😢😢😢
Does anyone else gets a feeling that the mother also lost her love and got forced in a marriage to someone else , that’s why she is able to tell her daughter her pain is futile . She is not angry at her daughter rather at the situation and their collective helplessness
yea but she doesnt protect her daughter either. the mother is definitely part of the problem.
@@_chapternumberone_8782 women in certain households are conditioned to listen and to obey and men are conditioned to order and expect to be obeyed . It takes generations and ages to break such a conditioning and culture . It wouldn’t be surprising that once Nandini returned to Vanraj , he would become another version of the same kind of male , giving love but not freedom
@@Emdee1234 no you just cannot compare Vanraj to other men. Vanraj was more perfect than Salman's character. He loved her enough to let her go, not only that, despite being married, he helped her to find her love travelling from city to city. Not even a man who is modern and good would do that. But Vanraj did and seeing his unconditional love is what made Nandini fall for him
@@Emdee1234 idk what more you expect of men. Yes male dominance existed in the past but vanraj doesn't possess even an ounce of that. You really think if Vanraj was like that, he would let Nandini go??? He would have beaten her up. The most he did was he got angry. Any man/woman who gets to know the woman/man he/she loved and married lied to him/her and didn't like him/her and loves someone else. Thats betrayal right there. Still he helped her
@@_chapternumberone_8782 she protected her and ajay is way more better then salman in the movie and parents know better then the ashiq😂😊
Nandini's parents are the culprits.
Fact: you cant separate womens acting and reality
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Aishwarya Rai ke pehli movies pura ki pura phalthu movies hothe the. Sirf uski beauty keliye movie dekhte the log.
Ladies defending Nandini and being outranged at her husbands reaction, stop embarrassing yourselves plz. As women, we should admit that Nandini was wrong. It's quite obvious she is wrong and immature. Not denying trauma, etc. But she brought it on herself. Please don't absolve her of accountability. Her husband, who you are calling egotistical and abusive, literally helped her find her love because he couldn't stand to see her in pain. Are you denying he's a human being? Should a man be some kind of robot and have no feelings when being cheated on? He is able to kill her with one punch. But he is a real man. He would never harm her, because he loves her with the love of a commited HUSBAND not a temporary love affair. If you've never been loved by a real man, just say so. A real man will do anything to make his love happy, he will stand for her against the world, even against his own heart. As is shown in this movie. As Nandini learns.
अच्छा कीया😂👏💯👀🤣🤣जान शूठी🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏
Old fashioned movie. conservative mindset.
Whats old fashioned about it?
@@Pixelpulse447 Forcing someone to love someone even if you love someone else. This was totally wrong in the first place.
@@liblib1815 first this movie was made in 1999 , and this movie literally showed that we should no force to love , thats why vanraj making her to meet her love
@@Pixelpulse447 that’s why I said old fashioned!
@@liblib1815very real
Kya name h movie ka
hum dil de chuke sanam
BALRAJ behaviour cannot be justified ,Its violence ,He should get annoyed upon his father in law ,forced marriage is hell ,its film but sometimes people influence from such stupid things...
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Chaloooo😅😅😅😅😅
yahi horaha hai
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Forced merriage should ban 😮
All fault of parent's... just hate it
Natuu kaka 😢😢
N ye toh n tha m sure 😂
😅😅😅😅same
par kea jha oupa sade korbana chea but larkeka larka ka jjevon bar bad hota ha
Balraj😂
Pyar ke dukh me ash prda ku khichdi layi
I don't like ashwariya acting
Even I don't like Salman's over acting
Title dalne wale type logo se bhagwan chat karne se bachaye.
😊😊m
Family planning. Boring rescuers
Natu kaka
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Aishwarya bad acting skills 😢
❤❤❤❤❤❤pahlay is film main beauty queen ❤❤❤❤❤ madhuri dixit thi
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Ye kia keh rahi he iski maan zeberdasti shadi kerwao aur phir zemadaryan nebao bkwas he sub . is movie ka end bhth bhth galth ta muhabbath ki thuheen hui he Is movie me
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Don't watch this movie! It is a disaster!
Phalthu movie
Aishwarya Rai is SO overrated as an actress. Very irritating to watch her.
Aisi ldkiyo k karan hi vanraaj jaise ldko ki life kharab hoti hai. Jb usse itna pyar tha ki vo kisi aur ko accept nhi kr pati to shaadi hi nhi karni chahiye thi. baap ke ijjjat ka to maan rakh liya but dusre ki life aur ijjjat ki dhajjiya uda di . Same on these type of girls..
Haan toh uski kya galti hai isme? Agar woh baap ke against jaa kar Sameer se shaadi kar leti tab bhi usey selfish hi bolte na tum?
Ab jabarjasti emotional blackmail karke uski Vanraj se shaadi karwaadi tab bhi you're blaming the girl?
When will you change your misogynistic mentality? It's her parents' fault, their selfishness. Average indian parents!!!!!!
Valraj jaise ladke effort kyu nhi lagate n love marriage kyu nhi krte h?
@@astitv-d1bhaag jana chaheye tha ghar se fir .. kisi aur ki life kyu kharab ki
@@astitv-d1 Bhag jati mar jati jahar kha leti ....kuet me kud jati ...ase pyar krne walo mar jaaye to duniya ko fark nahi pDta
Chumit😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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