So many heterosexual people out here trying to prove that creep right. If you compare your partner to a parent or treat them like a parent, you need therapy, not a partner.
@@commandercorl1544 I'd argue it's all good if it's talked through, healthy and consented by all people included. If it's just mindlessly repeating old, stereotypical patterns tho.. then it doesn't sound healthy to me.
As the father of a four-year-old I must inform you that “Little Miss believe in traditional marriage”is in fact “Little Miss helpful“ who is characterised by sticking her nose in where it’s not wanted, interfering in situations that she’s not qualified to have an opinion on and generally making the world around her worse.
@@squeaktheswan2007 when Mr tall shoelaces come undone she ends up giving him a concussion and sealing his mouth closed with stickingplaster. When Mr happy has the measles and she pops round to do the housework for him his kitchen ends up destroyed and he ends up waist deep in a lake
The one with the babies who are apparently going to be married one day just reminds me of all the times growing up that the adults in my life gushed about how I was definitely going to end up with either one of my two best friends who I've known since we were about 3. Now we're all in our late 20s and it turns out Friend #1 is very happily married to my cousin and they have a baby together, Friend #2 is aro/ace, I'm bi/ace (and transmasc) with no current interest in being in a relationship with anyone and the one time me and Friend #2 actually brought up the possibility of dating each other when we were teenagers, we both immediately agreed it would be much too weird because it felt like we were more like siblings. Moral of the story: shipping babies/infants is weird as hell and it almost certainly won't work out so just...don't.
Fun Fact: It's actually very unlikely that you are going to fall in love with your Sandbox friends. (it's a saying in German, I don't know if it's also a thing in English. It just means that you know each other since you were playing in the sandbox together as toddlers) Like you said, you were like siblings because you were growing up like siblings. It's to make sure that you don't fall in love with a relative and do incest. So yeah, it would be against mother nature to marry your best sandbox friend.
@@schokoloko2092 Not sure if that's a term in English, but it's an excellent phrase! We should keep up our tradition of the English language and steal more things from German. We probably won't just straight up use "SandkastenFreund" though.
I've been shipped with a few people in my life, and none of them were guys. I'm very gay. I think the first was when I was in preschool or kindergarten by older people, and the rest was more recently by my classmates.
I wasn't shipped infant-to-infant, thankfully, but the mother of a guy I knew in high school was sure he and I would tie the knot eventually. We didn't really get along, but we were two of the most intellectually curious people in our class so we talked sometimes for the exercise. He was as dubious as I was about the marriage thing. I dodged the whole thing by moving cross-country. Been married for over 34 years to a man who is far more my kind of human. My classmate and I reconnected briefly over the Classmates website. He tried marriage. Failed spectacularly. And still a politically right-wing and atheist piece of work. I went from Catholic to Pagan with a couple of stops along the way and from MA Democrat to leftist. I dodged a hail of bullets, and so did he.
My 3yo daughter was proposed by her friend (also a girl). They began dacing "like on Cinderella" and said they were getting married. We thought it was cute, they obviously don't know what a marriage is and were just imitating the movie. But we had 2 really upset grandparents in the room. I kept wandering if they would be equally upset if it was a boy and a girl.
Like I love my partner they have helped me through tough times by being there and I am there for him to. I could never say I hate him he is one of the best people in my life.
The word spouse has always been strange to me, it reminds me of a wet spider that's kinda just gone limp with emberessment from being knocked down the water spout before getting back up again.
@@HeckingHampter Straight men are very homoerotic at times (I'll expand on that if you wish) but I don't think the mlm community or I want to accept them as gay men.
I want an adult sized version of that future hooters girl shirt... just to clarify i am a 30 YO burly hairy man... just love making straights cringe xD
You could find a large pink t-shirt and either get it custom printed or use fabric paint to reproduce the design. Because if you wore it and met a transphobic, fundamentalist type who took it literally their self-righteous brain would short circuit.
The sending pictures of her husband leaving garbage around reminds me of my mom and her friend. My dad sadly passed away just under a year ago, and though my moms friends husband is verbally abusive, so valid to need to talk about that, she complained without wondering about how my mom was feeling, as someone who doesn't even have the chance to complain about the one she loves anymore.
@@Weird_One_ the "dm on telegram" thing is a spambot looking to steal your payment info, so just report it and then ignore it! sometimes they also use instagram i think eta: sorry for your loss, op (sorry, not sure what else to say)
@@Zenflower54 I've started going to the "about" tab of scammer's channel and reporting them for impersonation. THEN coming back to report the individual post for either spam or misinformation.
As a Chrisitan, it really upsets me when I see and hear other Christians being transphobic and homophobic; how are we showing God's love to everyone and discriminating and hating others for somethings not under their control. It just doesn't make sense to me, especially as I have many close friends that are LGBTQIA+, and am part of the community myself, it just baffles me how people who claim to do things in Jesus' name, can be so stubbornly ignorant and scorn and exclude others just for something that doesn't impact them
Nope, the straights continually go out of their way to show how very not OK they remain. I'm SO glad Jamie is here to help us laugh our way through the muck and mire! Yay Jamie. Nice new ring addition, Jamie! Congrats again on your wedding
@kshamwhizzle The question, "Are The Straights™ Ok?" is basically asking The Straights™, collectively, "Are you okay? You seem miserable, like something is wrong, even though you like members of the opposite sex and have no laws or politicians or religions attacking you for that. So why do you treat your relationships like hostage-situations? Are you okay? Is everything alright?" It's not about, "Teh Str8 Are Awful!", or even, "Str8 People Doing Awful Things." It's more, "The way you are broadcasting to the world what it means to be cis-heterosexual does not model healthy behavior."
Why do I feel like the father who bought the "future hooters girl" onesie /the guy who gifts it to his friend(s) is gonna be the same individual that posts a photo on Facebook with his rifle and his teen daughter threatening to destroy whoever comes near his precious princess.
The town I live in held its first ever pride event last month. The local cathedral were there in support of the event, with representatives including clergy. It gives me hope for the future.
I've actually seen ads for that blanket company, some of them are neat because they just show like a million people sharing a single blanket on a sofa or whatever. I also see ads for the blanket talking about blanket hoarders and blanket forts. Made me tempted to buy one except they're expensive and I'm fairly sure I'd get sick of it really quickly.
If my husband's mother had a sign like that in her house I would have read it, looked right at her and said, Right, then. I'm leaving, you can keep him. Lol
The assumption that your MIL will be an enemy is so sad (though i know it’s all too often true). My MIL was wonderful & i miss her every day. Stupid cancer
I always find the church group trying to wear hunny's shoes/boots hilarious. That tells me most are short and don't have to hunt for shoes. I'm 5'11" and wear size 12½ women's/11 men's (43 Eur), which unfortunately is also the same size as a majority of the men in my area. 😂 I abhore clothes shopping, straight to the men's section every time!
O, yes! Me too! Shoes are an absolute nightmare (Aus size 11/Euro 43) and also 5'11" - currently with more 'curves' than I'm happy with, so too 'hippy' for the fellas section. But being 'busty' as well, the men's large size sections are a joy for cheaper cotton t-shirts! A pity when you like clothes, but we don't fit within the 'standard' for 'nice' women's clothes 🙄 Physically, I take after my father, and HE, takes after his GRANDMOTHER! So, for the not-tiny, not-size-8, women out there? You really aren't alone! 💜💜💜
@@coolest1254 sorry to bother you, but what do you mean by sick? Sick has been made in many different ways, and sometimes is used negatively, but did you mean sick as in epic? Again, I'm just asking.
As someone who is religious and Biromantic it just really ticks me off when people try using the Bible as a valid argument. “Man shall not sleep with boy!” “No Karen. No. That’s against p3d0phil3s.”
5:54 um sir I would love a blanket that big! I could roll up like a burrito and still have room for my cat to have her own space. Easy solution to the bed thing ( 6:06 ) sleep on the floor 😊
Seeing the young girl "future Hooters girl" shirt filled me with primal rage. The fucking last thing you should think of in regards to a young girl is that she'll make a good Hooters girl. If your thought process when seeing an 8 year old is "I can't wait till she's older so I can see her in short shorts" then I've got a bike chain and and some strong words for you.
I have that ridiculously huge blanket and it's awesome for sharing on the couch. There's enough of it that there's very little negotiating to figure out how to get each person covered. Plus it's square so there's no "long" side. And when it's crumpled up in a pile the dog still claims all of it. He's 10 pounds. WTF Tiny Dog.
I love your channel. After the exhaustion of Thanksgiving, I fell asleep to you listening you. My husband walked in and had zero problems. He he wanted to know more.
My childhood best friend and I decided we were going to be married, and at the time we both identified as girls. We had several pretend weddings. I still didn’t realize I liked girls until like high school despite having a clear memory of wishing I were gay because girls were so pretty and I liked them lol
What's wild about the Lettuce Blanket is, without reading the caption, my interpretation of the image was the guy being upset he couldn't have sex bc his wife had fallen asleep so far away from him. Which is a horrifying first thought to come up there 😐
11:48 🤢 same people who'd probably cry about The Gays™ being groomers also the shoes one is dumb because you can turn it around and say a man can't even fit into a woman's shoes lmao
A few friends of mine have a pet theory about the guys who seem to regret and resent marriage: what if many of them are aro? And they're just pressured by society to marry and reproduce.
Good video as always. Needed a laugh today, one of my best friends told be she doesn't support same sex attraction and guess what I am! I didn't realise how much that hurt at the time and its just settling in now... but this video cheered me up a bit :) thank you and hope you're having a lovely day
She doesn't support ...? Is anyone asking HER to be attracted to women? I'm so sorry she hurt you like that, I suppose it didn't occur to her that it's none of her damn business 🙄 WHY do people constantly feel the need to hurt others by imposing their own beliefs as 'gospel?' I hope you find the validation and acceptance you deserve as much in your RL, as you will here 💜💜💜
8:26 i'm pretty sure the last line is 'yes he bought me this shirt', i've seen similar ones, some include 'im the property of an awesome husband' and some are for a parent to buy to a child but its all 'this person is my property and i will hurt you if you get close to them without my approval'
The shoe thing is a good thing for teaching young children that adults have more responsibility and stuff, but like not for spouses, that's just stupid.
I think what’s happening is many straight people are emotionally immature and aren’t comfortable handling situations in a way that makes them vulnerable. These relationships sound like they have a lot of tension, and joking about it seems to be a coping mechanism that works well enough.
No we’re probably not okay. Please send help. Btw, I’m speaking in general, not about myself. . I’m not homophobic or transphobic. I’m an ally. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
I feel like the second one (wife, best friend, mom, bully) could work and be fine in a kink sense. Like, this guy is into humiliation, so she jokingly teases and 'bullies' him, but always checks in that she isn't going too far. And she's mommy and dommes him by taking on a pretend motherly role, but he has full agency in his day-to-day life.
I've seen baby photos of myself wearing a brown and mustard coloured onesie, and I always thought that was as bad as baby clothes come. The Hooters onesies are way worse.
“I get that these are jokes. I just don’t find them funny.” YES. Being autistic, everyone assumes if I don’t laugh at a joke, it must be because I don’t get it 😒 like, no. Racists and sexists just aren’t funny.
“Are the straights okay?” Me with a protractor stuck around my ankle because I thought it would be cool to wear as an anklet in the middle of physics but it hurts and I can’t get it off and now my foot is turning blue: Pls help
So hear me out on this one - the "Man-birthday" card would be a very good card for an FTM celebrating their first birthday after they come out as trans. I know it's not what they mean with it, but it would still be a bit funny to use it that way
Hi, I have no idea how many people will see this, but there is a User called Dusty Gania who has made it a point to go around and constantly post negative comments about how hateful the LGBTQ+ community is on multiple Queer-Positive creator's videos. This is apparently their hobby. If you see this person doing so, please just ignore them, or report them for spam or something. Do not engage, don't feed the trolls.
9:00 that's an interesting one for teaching logic in a philosophy course lmao 1) If her son was to date someone, it would be because they liked eachother. 2) Anything her son's dates do to him, she will do to them. 3) She will never like her son's dates. Conclusion: Her son cannot logically date. Now, if one premise was incorrect above, this could change. If only he needed to like the person, he would never be able to date anyone who liked him, for example.
For those asking about The Handmaid's Tale: It's a piece of speculative fiction where, after the US suffers a second civil war, the nation of Gilead is formed. Its a conservative hellscape in which fertile women are enslaved if they're deemed "Fallen" (usually as a result of divorce or sex outside marriage etc.) You can probably hazard a guess as to what that slavery entails. 😬
I was going through my elementary school yearbook a few weeks ago and this sweet girl I remember WAS WEARING A FUTURE HOOTERS GIRL SHIRT. SHE WAS A PRESCHOOLER?? I WANTED TO CRY 😭
Oooohhh the babies are gonna be married frustrates me to know end!!! I work with infants and the jokes when one child hugs or kisses the child of another gender. "Dad won't like that" "ooooooo, is she your girlfriend?" These comments were coming from co-workers and parents alike. And just.... they are 5 months stooop
congrats on the wedding! :) btw u've been really helpful being a younger trans person (i use he/they) and u've been my source for memes and tiktoks or like tips
okay, as an “I want all the pets” person I have a problem with the whole “moved on and adopted a dog” thing. pets don’t replace human relationships. I foster to allow myself more pets than I can afford but not all at the same time and that’s a BIG RED FLAG. want your dog because you want a dog, not because you are replacing a child or intimate partner because we don’t want you to bring the animal back because you replaced that animal with the human relationship you wanted-exceptions made for financial difficulties that aren’t based on replacement, we’re working on a new model to accommodate that and keep your pet with you but aren’t there yet; exceptions also made for animals that had a reactivity to small children unknown until your child was the age that trigger that aversion. (in either exception; please give the shelter as much info as possible-we know surrender can be devastating, but the more info we have, the better we can set the animal up for success in a new home.) again: pets aren’t spouses or children. they are a separate kind of relationship:
I'm constantly stealing his shoes they are too big but come in handy when just wanna do quick errand or chore especially in the cold I can keep wool socks on & still be warm & cozy.
"Is there a bed large enough for this?" asks the British guy who has never seen an Alaska King bed...I refer you to Lawrence Brown's Lost In the Pond channel.
If you haven't read/watched it they're photographed against a wall from which people are hanged for small acts of rebellion such as talking in a certain way and are surrounded by Handmaidens (women enslaved to be raped, serve the Commanders and have children to rebuild society). The book is commentary about what would happen if the extreme end of misogyny was the norm, featuring a lot of execution, rape, trauma and a surprisingly good story. But yeah... maybe not tasteful for a wedding.
Every day I wake up and thank the gods that I'm queer. Like can you imagine, imposing your sexuality on babies?? Because no, Karen, it's not que gays that do that. It's always the straight.
Milk comes from mother cows and is a product of female exploitation, not because the cows were given traditionally female names but because female cows are used and exploited for their reproductive organs (while male cows are sold for their flesh and a huge percentage of male babies made unalive and thrown into bins because they are useless to the dairy industry). Dairy is a feminist issue. Read 'The S3xual Politics of Meat', it's fascinating and eye-opening.
As a straight male it is disturbing to see lists of "manly" things that don't include being a giid person in any way! Also the staggering amount of obvious pedophilia is disgusting. A school girl isn't a woman. And dressing her up like a child is still gross.
The baby one where they said the babies were getting married when they grew up happened with me and a family friend. 14 years later and I'm Aromantic/Asexual .-.
The baby clothes are disgusting, but the thing that’s frustrating me most having a 3 month old niece? She’s got more pockets on her clothes than her mum.
Oh my gosh 😂 the jealousy is real why does everyone have pockets but not grown women who I’m pretty sure NEED those dang pockets 😂 we got so much stuff to carry around
Of all the clothing demographics one would want to have pockets for, a young child of the age that half chewed vanilla wafers and Lego blocks are equally treasured and delicious is near the peak.
I'd say it is more like Crusader Kings 3. Huge part of the game is arranging marriages for political gain, as you play as a dynasty of rulers. The game can be a bit weird, not going to lie.
The whole "I hate my spouse" thing makes me want to gag, but it simultaneously makes me wonder if some of these people in straight marriages are unaware/closeted non-cishet people. Perhaps they were victims of hetero/amatonormativity themselves, thinking they had to/being forced to marry someone of the opposite sex, but they don't actually love the person they're with. My dad thinks this could have happened to his mom, who he suspects was aro/ace despite getting married to his dad, because they fought a lot and she didn't seem very happy in her life or her relationship. Food for thought I guess.
I don't think that this is the case. My mom and dad hate each others even to this day. They were "lucky" because when they got together, divorce or separation was not stigmatized anymore so they did not have to live the rest of their lives together. I don't think that my mom is aro/ace or lesbian (I rather suspect that she might be bi, though I never asked her clearly and I don't want to "force her" into an identity). In the case of my father, it's harder to tell since I never saw him in a relationship. So, TL;DR : I think that the "I hate my spouse" trope has more to do with the mental state of a generation that lived when divorce and/or separation was illegal.
@@GThe-su9kl And in some conservative communities, there is still a lot of stigma around divorce. I imagine there being quite a few people stuck in unhappy marriages who only stay together because they fear being completely rejected by everyone they know, and that breeds resentment. On the other hand, I bet there's lots of people who are happily married who repeat these jokes simply because they've heard them so often, like they don't even think about it.
@@GThe-su9kl Perhaps both are true. Straight (or "straight") people forced to get into relationships when they're not ready ("settle down") but feeling like they can't get out of it later (because divorce was/is stigmatized). Or (queer) people encouraged to get into relationships they don't want to avoid family/community issues and feeling trapped because divorce would complicate their social atmosphere. The latter could apply to straight people too I'm sure.
One of the biggest lgbq rights defendor I met, was a granny that spent all her time and money at church. For her, love is love and she would defend it. A lovely and kind lady.
My cousin just got married, and his wedding included: sermons about marriage being the greatest importance and between a man and a woman; vows for his wife to submit, serve, and obey him; and her father's speech about her purity as a prize for her husband. Oh and the wedding was their first kiss. Can't believe this shi still happens... 😰🤢
That was exactly how my sister's wedding was. I had always tried to explain to my non-religious husband how weird growing up in a very conservative religion was. He really understood only when he attended my sister's wedding. My sister and her husband are now brainwashing my little niece to believe the most precious thing about her is her virginity.
@@ShilgenVens I find it ironic you call what there doing brainwashing but you would be happy for her to have your beliefs shoved down her throat as you try to do to everyone. The lack of self awareness is hilarious
Some people may only want romantic relationships, and being an asexual lesbian would be not wanting sex, but still wanting romatic relationships with women
10:05 My mom had a take that flipped this idea on its head: The women can wear the men's shoes in an emergency. The reverse cannot be said. Which, if you think about it, could be used as a metaphor, at least for how society treats men. While it's getting better, not enough men are taught the stereotypically "feminine" homemaking skills, like cooking, cleaning, basic sewing for clothing repair, etc. Edit: Said talking instead of taught somehow
One time in Iceland, all the women had an organized strike and everything quickly descended into chaos because the men didn't know how to cook, clean, take care of kids etc. It's now one of the most gender-equal countries in the world. Maybe if other countries tried that, things would improve?
One one hand you are expected to be the provider, the protector, the leader and the teacher, on the other you are considered weak if you talk about trauma or mental health because you have to be STRONG. And if you're """"feminine""" like having makeup or nail art or even long hair or wear too slim of a jean or idk what other bs, then you're either gay and submissive and you do the dishes and you cook and so on because that's considered feminine. It's mind-blowing how deep these stereotypes are implanted into our brains. Just look at the way people react to dads picking up their kids at school vs mums. It should be just a normal thing but it's always "so great" and "your wife must be glad you have enough time" and so on. It's really depressing for everyone.
Unless they're a chef, or a clothing designer, and have taken on some formerly menial, ''female'' role and elevated it miraculously into an artform using the power of their genitalia. Which is not something I want to think about in connection with hot stoves or scissors. I like your mum's take on it too, too many men still struggle to fulfil the more traditional ''female'' role of cooking, cleaning and caring, for themselves in some cases, much less a family.
My feet are so fucking tiny, my boyfriend couldn't even leave the house without falling, with my shoes on. But so would most other women. So am I a loser now to them, because I have small feet, and most of the shoes are way too big for me?
My father was the one who taught me how to sew a button back on and to hem my own pants. And I learned how to cook from helping out both of my parents, as well as from watching my grandparents. And my mom made me and my brothers vacuum our rooms and clean the bathroom as part of our chores. Yes, that included cleaning the toilet. Taught us to be self-sufficient, as well as teaching us how to clean up after ourselves.
@@Weird_One_ If a youtuber says a “you won (blank)! Contact me on (blank)!” Or something like that it will pretty much never be the actual creator it’s really a scam
1:59 A lot of the okay straights marriage t-shirts were stuff along the lines of "Another player has joined the server" "Now playing Team Mode" "Achievement Unlocked: Marriage" cute stuff like that. I always hated the game over ones, they were just ridiculous.
"Being religious doesn't mean that you can't be LGBT+ accepting" I mean, yeah, I'm a Christian, and I'm also proudly bisexual, demisexual and genderfae. When I first came out as bi, this channel really helped me to embrace that part of myself. It was a hard journey, especially with friends in high school that forced me further into the closet. It's always nice to look back and remember how far I've come. Thank you, Jamie, as always.
Hello fellow queer Christian! Still figuring myself out, but for now I’ve figured out I am pansexual, demisexual, and maybe genderfluid? I go by she/they. 😊 What is genderfae?
@@Ann963 Hey, that's really cool, nice to meet you! Genderfae is an identity under the genderfluid umbrella which means your gender is fluid between feminine and non-binary genders.
Honestly wish that I could have just stayed Christian like you guys, but the church me and my parents were in was basically a cult and ruined religion completely for me. I could have avoided an extistential crisis if they weren’t bigoted, conservative assholes. Glad you guys are in a better situation and can still find meaning in religion. (Leaving was necessary though, current me would never have existed without that church. Once you’re athiest, it’s basically optimistic nihilism or bust, pretty much.)
@@unapologeticallylizzy you honestly just sound very confused. This gender identity stuff is not supported in the Bible. Not sure who your pastor is or where you're getting your teaching, but I strongly recommend you go somewhere else.
As an autistic person, I find comfort in the trans community. The feeling of society being intolerant of the fact that people can experience life differently really resonates with my own experiences. I too feel like what I looked like at birth does not accurately portray how I feel inside, and I’ve faced intolerance when “coming out” about my autism to new people, so I’m able to have a great amount of empathy for this community. It’s always fascinated me how the autism and lgbt+ communities are such natural allies. Also, my autism makes my communication style a bit blunt, so apologies if I phrased anything insensitivity. I’m posting this comment with the intent of being supportive and positive ❤
This explains a lot about my experience. I'm autistic and have ADHD among other things. I'm not straight, and I lean towards androgyny, but I think I feel more solidarity with the LGBTQ community through lived experience than shared alternative sexuality/alternative gender to sex presentation.
Honestly the lgbtq+ community has taken what everyone else would just consider "rejects" and gave them a chance for a happy life. For example furrys (and no, not the furrys from "THAT" side of the fandom.. we dont support them) and autistic individuals all somehow end up in this community, and I'm not mad about it. I'm glad they have this community as a safe space.
Totaly get you, autistic peolle and trans people face a lot of the same struggles like being patanoid about how we present ouraelfs to not get misunderstood, to pass, not getting rejected, we get hate for sonething we cant change, just for who we are...... I just made the experience, that trans people tend to be not very judgmental, as long as you do not go after them, its a positive interaction for them, which is sad, but takes of pressure to preforme being perfectly normal to a t. In adition, there is a massiv overlap between autists and lgbt+ especially when it comes to ace and genderqueer. It is a match made in heaven
the way he smiled while talking abt having just been married is absolutely phenomenal, best of luck in yet everything to come within your marriage jamie and shaaba
Every time someone compares a romantic/sexual partner to a parent, Freud's ghost becomes more powerful
So many heterosexual people out here trying to prove that creep right. If you compare your partner to a parent or treat them like a parent, you need therapy, not a partner.
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I was always curious about that. Doesn't the same happen with the terms "mommy" and "daddy"?
@@commandercorl1544 I'd argue it's all good if it's talked through, healthy and consented by all people included.
If it's just mindlessly repeating old, stereotypical patterns tho.. then it doesn't sound healthy to me.
@@Lea-im3wr Agreed.
As the father of a four-year-old I must inform you that “Little Miss believe in traditional marriage”is in fact “Little Miss helpful“ who is characterised by sticking her nose in where it’s not wanted, interfering in situations that she’s not qualified to have an opinion on and generally making the world around her worse.
So she's not helpful at all?
Kind of sounds like me and I'm 32 😜
I can't help but find that very fitting.
Pahahaha, that _is_ fitting!
Almost accidental ally material!
@@squeaktheswan2007 when Mr tall shoelaces come undone she ends up giving him a concussion and sealing his mouth closed with stickingplaster. When Mr happy has the measles and she pops round to do the housework for him his kitchen ends up destroyed and he ends up waist deep in a lake
I would unironically get my trans masc friend the man birthday card
No because as a trans man I would actually love that and find it hilarious (you should do it)
@@YeehawRockerr I might actually like that too lol 😂 ( But without the beer Lol)
It could be fun for a T-versary as well!!
Yeah I would want that card if it didn't have beer.
If one of my friends gave me that card on the anniversary of me coming out, I'd be so happy
The one with the babies who are apparently going to be married one day just reminds me of all the times growing up that the adults in my life gushed about how I was definitely going to end up with either one of my two best friends who I've known since we were about 3. Now we're all in our late 20s and it turns out Friend #1 is very happily married to my cousin and they have a baby together, Friend #2 is aro/ace, I'm bi/ace (and transmasc) with no current interest in being in a relationship with anyone and the one time me and Friend #2 actually brought up the possibility of dating each other when we were teenagers, we both immediately agreed it would be much too weird because it felt like we were more like siblings.
Moral of the story: shipping babies/infants is weird as hell and it almost certainly won't work out so just...don't.
Fun Fact:
It's actually very unlikely that you are going to fall in love with your Sandbox friends. (it's a saying in German, I don't know if it's also a thing in English. It just means that you know each other since you were playing in the sandbox together as toddlers)
Like you said, you were like siblings because you were growing up like siblings.
It's to make sure that you don't fall in love with a relative and do incest.
So yeah, it would be against mother nature to marry your best sandbox friend.
@@schokoloko2092 Not sure if that's a term in English, but it's an excellent phrase! We should keep up our tradition of the English language and steal more things from German. We probably won't just straight up use "SandkastenFreund" though.
I've been shipped with a few people in my life, and none of them were guys. I'm very gay. I think the first was when I was in preschool or kindergarten by older people, and the rest was more recently by my classmates.
I wasn't shipped infant-to-infant, thankfully, but the mother of a guy I knew in high school was sure he and I would tie the knot eventually. We didn't really get along, but we were two of the most intellectually curious people in our class so we talked sometimes for the exercise. He was as dubious as I was about the marriage thing. I dodged the whole thing by moving cross-country. Been married for over 34 years to a man who is far more my kind of human. My classmate and I reconnected briefly over the Classmates website. He tried marriage. Failed spectacularly. And still a politically right-wing and atheist piece of work. I went from Catholic to Pagan with a couple of stops along the way and from MA Democrat to leftist. I dodged a hail of bullets, and so did he.
Hello fellow bi ace friend! 🍰 have this cake :)
My 3yo daughter was proposed by her friend (also a girl). They began dacing "like on Cinderella" and said they were getting married. We thought it was cute, they
obviously don't know what a marriage is and were just imitating the movie.
But we had 2 really upset grandparents in the room. I kept wandering if they would be equally upset if it was a boy and a girl.
Jamie has raised a brilliant point: Why is hating one’s partner or spouse a personality trait?
Like I love my partner they have helped me through tough times by being there and I am there for him to. I could never say I hate him he is one of the best people in my life.
I forget who said this, but a lot of these people, if they were not born in an era with such heavy social pressure to marry, would have been incells.
The word spouse has always been strange to me, it reminds me of a wet spider that's kinda just gone limp with emberessment from being knocked down the water spout before getting back up again.
Fr, aren't straight men supposed to *love* women?
@@HeckingHampter Straight men are very homoerotic at times (I'll expand on that if you wish) but I don't think the mlm community or I want to accept them as gay men.
I want an adult sized version of that future hooters girl shirt... just to clarify i am a 30 YO burly hairy man... just love making straights cringe xD
You could find a large pink t-shirt and either get it custom printed or use fabric paint to reproduce the design.
Because if you wore it and met a transphobic, fundamentalist type who took it literally their self-righteous brain would short circuit.
Respect 👍🏻
@@samarnadra ahh dam you're right! better make sure my bear belly is on show!
@@TheAngelChaz I'd fucking pay to see the homophobes' reactions xp
I’m 2 months late but still wanted to say I AM SO HERE FOR THIS 🥰
Idk I think the man birthday card could be really nice to celebrate a trans man's transition anniversary
I’m almost positive that that’s a scam. I got one too. Please don’t trust it.
The sending pictures of her husband leaving garbage around reminds me of my mom and her friend. My dad sadly passed away just under a year ago, and though my moms friends husband is verbally abusive, so valid to need to talk about that, she complained without wondering about how my mom was feeling, as someone who doesn't even have the chance to complain about the one she loves anymore.
I’m almost positive that that’s a scam. I got one too. Please don’t trust it.
@@Weird_One_ the "dm on telegram" thing is a spambot looking to steal your payment info, so just report it and then ignore it! sometimes they also use instagram i think
eta: sorry for your loss, op (sorry, not sure what else to say)
@@Weird_One_ yep I was able to report them so hopefully they stop
@@Zenflower54 I've started going to the "about" tab of scammer's channel and reporting them for impersonation.
THEN coming back to report the individual post for either spam or misinformation.
As a Chrisitan, it really upsets me when I see and hear other Christians being transphobic and homophobic; how are we showing God's love to everyone and discriminating and hating others for somethings not under their control. It just doesn't make sense to me, especially as I have many close friends that are LGBTQIA+, and am part of the community myself, it just baffles me how people who claim to do things in Jesus' name, can be so stubbornly ignorant and scorn and exclude others just for something that doesn't impact them
exactly!
It is a disgrace when people abuse religion to hurt others actively going against everuyhing their religion should stand for
Nope, the straights continually go out of their way to show how very not OK they remain. I'm SO glad Jamie is here to help us laugh our way through the muck and mire! Yay Jamie. Nice new ring addition, Jamie! Congrats again on your wedding
@kshamwhizzle The question, "Are The Straights™ Ok?" is basically asking The Straights™, collectively, "Are you okay? You seem miserable, like something is wrong, even though you like members of the opposite sex and have no laws or politicians or religions attacking you for that. So why do you treat your relationships like hostage-situations? Are you okay? Is everything alright?"
It's not about, "Teh Str8 Are Awful!", or even, "Str8 People Doing Awful Things." It's more, "The way you are broadcasting to the world what it means to be cis-heterosexual does not model healthy behavior."
Why do I feel like the father who bought the "future hooters girl" onesie /the guy who gifts it to his friend(s) is gonna be the same individual that posts a photo on Facebook with his rifle and his teen daughter threatening to destroy whoever comes near his precious princess.
ok but I think the "happy man-birthday" one would be funny to give to a trans guy on the anniversary of his coming out or starting t or something
Daily reminder!
❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You are valid and amazing just the way you are!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Thank you💖💙🤍💙💖
Thank you! Earlier I felt really bad about everything and this is just wholesome and thoughtful. Thank you for spreading love! 💙💗🤍💗💙
Thank you❤🧡💗🤍
Thanks! 💗💜💙
@@dustygania2425 not you again.
I say this as respectful as I can; stop tainting Jamie's channel with your ignorance!
The town I live in held its first ever pride event last month. The local cathedral were there in support of the event, with representatives including clergy. It gives me hope for the future.
I've actually seen ads for that blanket company, some of them are neat because they just show like a million people sharing a single blanket on a sofa or whatever. I also see ads for the blanket talking about blanket hoarders and blanket forts. Made me tempted to buy one except they're expensive and I'm fairly sure I'd get sick of it really quickly.
Washing it is probably a nightmare.
If my husband's mother had a sign like that in her house I would have read it, looked right at her and said,
Right, then. I'm leaving, you can keep him. Lol
The assumption that your MIL will be an enemy is so sad (though i know it’s all too often true). My MIL was wonderful & i miss her every day. Stupid cancer
I always find the church group trying to wear hunny's shoes/boots hilarious. That tells me most are short and don't have to hunt for shoes. I'm 5'11" and wear size 12½ women's/11 men's (43 Eur), which unfortunately is also the same size as a majority of the men in my area. 😂 I abhore clothes shopping, straight to the men's section every time!
O, yes! Me too! Shoes are an absolute nightmare (Aus size 11/Euro 43) and also 5'11" - currently with more 'curves' than I'm happy with, so too 'hippy' for the fellas section.
But being 'busty' as well, the men's large size sections are a joy for cheaper cotton t-shirts!
A pity when you like clothes, but we don't fit within the 'standard' for 'nice' women's clothes 🙄
Physically, I take after my father, and HE, takes after his GRANDMOTHER! So, for the not-tiny, not-size-8, women out there?
You really aren't alone! 💜💜💜
That dead end one reminded me of a wedding cake I saw that was a *goth* design and it had
Everyone knows that how much stress and responsibility a person can take is determined by how big their feet are...
1:02 I would get this for someone’s transition anniversary
are trans-iversaries an actual thing?? that sounds sick as shit!
@@coolest1254 sorry to bother you, but what do you mean by sick? Sick has been made in many different ways, and sometimes is used negatively, but did you mean sick as in epic? Again, I'm just asking.
@@thegirlofmanyfandoms99 it's alright, i understand'' didn't mean to come off that way, what i was trying to say was it sounds awesome :D
would buy man-birthday card for a trans-masc friend to celebrate their coming out day 😂
6:29 There was this pair of Celebrity Exes and when they had their respective children, people started shipping them. That’s gross.
As someone who is religious and Biromantic it just really ticks me off when people try using the Bible as a valid argument.
“Man shall not sleep with boy!”
“No Karen. No. That’s against p3d0phil3s.”
5:54 um sir I would love a blanket that big! I could roll up like a burrito and still have room for my cat to have her own space.
Easy solution to the bed thing ( 6:06 ) sleep on the floor 😊
My parents definitely have the "mother/son" vibe, and my mom was shook when I told her that she shouldn't treat her husband like a child
This sadly rarely ends nice
2:55 Am I the only person who thinks this guy is Aroace in principle?
Seeing the young girl "future Hooters girl" shirt filled me with primal rage. The fucking last thing you should think of in regards to a young girl is that she'll make a good Hooters girl.
If your thought process when seeing an 8 year old is "I can't wait till she's older so I can see her in short shorts" then I've got a bike chain and and some strong words for you.
I have that ridiculously huge blanket and it's awesome for sharing on the couch. There's enough of it that there's very little negotiating to figure out how to get each person covered. Plus it's square so there's no "long" side. And when it's crumpled up in a pile the dog still claims all of it. He's 10 pounds. WTF Tiny Dog.
I am mildly concerned for the relationships of the people who make these! 😵💫
10:29
Lettuce
Bacon
Green pepper
Queso
I'm probably a weirdo, but that doesn't sound like a bad sandwich.
honestly yeah
I love your channel. After the exhaustion of Thanksgiving, I fell asleep to you listening you. My husband walked in and had zero problems. He he wanted to know more.
the “cow issue” may not be about misogyny, but it is about oppression of those who are considered “lesser” than us.
Toilet seat down AND lid down. I live with numerous cats. I don't need to live with soggy ones.
My childhood best friend and I decided we were going to be married, and at the time we both identified as girls. We had several pretend weddings. I still didn’t realize I liked girls until like high school despite having a clear memory of wishing I were gay because girls were so pretty and I liked them lol
That rule sign though... what in the Oedipus complex?!
Those straights are definitely not ok.
Hello! I hope you are doing great Jammi! Thanks for making videos. Your videos helped me to realize I was aroace and a trans guy!
I don't think anyone is okay these days
What's wild about the Lettuce Blanket is, without reading the caption, my interpretation of the image was the guy being upset he couldn't have sex bc his wife had fallen asleep so far away from him. Which is a horrifying first thought to come up there 😐
11:48 🤢 same people who'd probably cry about The Gays™ being groomers
also the shoes one is dumb because you can turn it around and say a man can't even fit into a woman's shoes lmao
"The Gays™ " I can't 💀
A few friends of mine have a pet theory about the guys who seem to regret and resent marriage: what if many of them are aro? And they're just pressured by society to marry and reproduce.
Good video as always. Needed a laugh today, one of my best friends told be she doesn't support same sex attraction and guess what I am! I didn't realise how much that hurt at the time and its just settling in now... but this video cheered me up a bit :) thank you and hope you're having a lovely day
She doesn't support ...?
Is anyone asking HER to be attracted to women?
I'm so sorry she hurt you like that, I suppose it didn't occur to her that it's none of her damn business 🙄
WHY do people constantly feel the need to hurt others by imposing their own beliefs as 'gospel?'
I hope you find the validation and acceptance you deserve as much in your RL, as you will here 💜💜💜
8:59 “whatever you do to him, i’ll do to you” uhhhh, i don’t think they thought of every circumstance here….. 😶
🤨
I want a blanket that big.... blanket fort!
8:26 i'm pretty sure the last line is 'yes he bought me this shirt', i've seen similar ones, some include 'im the property of an awesome husband' and some are for a parent to buy to a child but its all 'this person is my property and i will hurt you if you get close to them without my approval'
The shoe thing is a good thing for teaching young children that adults have more responsibility and stuff, but like not for spouses, that's just stupid.
I know an even shorter fairytale: once upon a time there was a beautiful plant. Then it was given to me. The end.
A good sequel “i watered it” the end
Nah, I would problably forget that and then it would die haha
I think what’s happening is many straight people are emotionally immature and aren’t comfortable handling situations in a way that makes them vulnerable. These relationships sound like they have a lot of tension, and joking about it seems to be a coping mechanism that works well enough.
I think people that have self confidence issues find some external way to validate themselves.
This is surprisingly wholesome. Ty
No we’re probably not okay. Please send help.
Btw, I’m speaking in general, not about myself. . I’m not homophobic or transphobic. I’m an ally. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
I feel like the second one (wife, best friend, mom, bully) could work and be fine in a kink sense. Like, this guy is into humiliation, so she jokingly teases and 'bullies' him, but always checks in that she isn't going too far. And she's mommy and dommes him by taking on a pretend motherly role, but he has full agency in his day-to-day life.
I've seen baby photos of myself wearing a brown and mustard coloured onesie, and I always thought that was as bad as baby clothes come. The Hooters onesies are way worse.
“I get that these are jokes. I just don’t find them funny.” YES. Being autistic, everyone assumes if I don’t laugh at a joke, it must be because I don’t get it 😒 like, no. Racists and sexists just aren’t funny.
i have the same shoe size as my bf. so that experiment would be lost on me. also i wouldn't be in a religious meeting anyway😅
“Are the straights okay?”
Me with a protractor stuck around my ankle because I thought it would be cool to wear as an anklet in the middle of physics but it hurts and I can’t get it off and now my foot is turning blue: Pls help
6:20 are they medieval royalty?
So hear me out on this one - the "Man-birthday" card would be a very good card for an FTM celebrating their first birthday after they come out as trans.
I know it's not what they mean with it, but it would still be a bit funny to use it that way
I agree, and apparently many others in these comments do too.
I love how sincerely Jamie explained the subway joke to me. I don't know why but its making me laugh so hard xD
Jamie: No one actually wants a blanket that big
Me: ummm-
they’re too misogynistic to be okay
The one where the mother threatens the partner of her son gives me reaaaaallly creepy vibes...
Cishet people be like "gender is just to do with what's in your pants" but also gender EVERYTHING 😅🙄
The only acceptable definition of a "man birthday" is to celebrate the day you finished your FTM transition.
Hi, I have no idea how many people will see this, but there is a User called Dusty Gania who has made it a point to go around and constantly post negative comments about how hateful the LGBTQ+ community is on multiple Queer-Positive creator's videos. This is apparently their hobby.
If you see this person doing so, please just ignore them, or report them for spam or something. Do not engage, don't feed the trolls.
I think dusty is on their 7th account now, they just won’t stop
9:00 that's an interesting one for teaching logic in a philosophy course lmao
1) If her son was to date someone, it would be because they liked eachother.
2) Anything her son's dates do to him, she will do to them.
3) She will never like her son's dates.
Conclusion: Her son cannot logically date.
Now, if one premise was incorrect above, this could change. If only he needed to like the person, he would never be able to date anyone who liked him, for example.
For those asking about The Handmaid's Tale:
It's a piece of speculative fiction where, after the US suffers a second civil war, the nation of Gilead is formed. Its a conservative hellscape in which fertile women are enslaved if they're deemed "Fallen" (usually as a result of divorce or sex outside marriage etc.)
You can probably hazard a guess as to what that slavery entails. 😬
I was going through my elementary school yearbook a few weeks ago and this sweet girl I remember WAS WEARING A FUTURE HOOTERS GIRL SHIRT. SHE WAS A PRESCHOOLER?? I WANTED TO CRY 😭
i am having garlic bread right now and i am living the life
11:53 I'm a boob man too, but I suspect, they mean something different by that than me, a trans guy.
Brilliant username 😁
Your name seems very threatening
Jamie looks so cute I want to give him a big fat hug ❤
No idea why this was in my recommendeds… so I watched. As a straight dude I’m solo, I’m alright, and I agreed with everything this dude said.
6:30 I want a blanket this big. I don't have a partner, I just really want a huge blanket
What if their husband had small shoes? What dose the church exercise say about that? That he is not worthy for her?
I once had a man ask me on the second or third night whether I wanted children. The relationship was short.
Oooohhh the babies are gonna be married frustrates me to know end!!!
I work with infants and the jokes when one child hugs or kisses the child of another gender. "Dad won't like that" "ooooooo, is she your girlfriend?" These comments were coming from co-workers and parents alike. And just.... they are 5 months stooop
congrats on the wedding! :) btw u've been really helpful being a younger trans person (i use he/they) and u've been my source for memes and tiktoks or like tips
okay, as an “I want all the pets” person I have a problem with the whole “moved on and adopted a dog” thing. pets don’t replace human relationships. I foster to allow myself more pets than I can afford but not all at the same time and that’s a BIG RED FLAG. want your dog because you want a dog, not because you are replacing a child or intimate partner because we don’t want you to bring the animal back because you replaced that animal with the human relationship you wanted-exceptions made for financial difficulties that aren’t based on replacement, we’re working on a new model to accommodate that and keep your pet with you but aren’t there yet; exceptions also made for animals that had a reactivity to small children unknown until your child was the age that trigger that aversion. (in either exception; please give the shelter as much info as possible-we know surrender can be devastating, but the more info we have, the better we can set the animal up for success in a new home.) again: pets aren’t spouses or children. they are a separate kind of relationship:
There IS a bed big enough for that blanket! It's called an Alaskan King and it's 108x108!
I'm constantly stealing his shoes they are too big but come in handy when just wanna do quick errand or chore especially in the cold I can keep wool socks on & still be warm & cozy.
"Is there a bed large enough for this?" asks the British guy who has never seen an Alaska King bed...I refer you to Lawrence Brown's Lost In the Pond channel.
can someone explain why the handmaid's tale thing was bad plz
If you haven't read/watched it they're photographed against a wall from which people are hanged for small acts of rebellion such as talking in a certain way and are surrounded by Handmaidens (women enslaved to be raped, serve the Commanders and have children to rebuild society). The book is commentary about what would happen if the extreme end of misogyny was the norm, featuring a lot of execution, rape, trauma and a surprisingly good story. But yeah... maybe not tasteful for a wedding.
Every day I wake up and thank the gods that I'm queer. Like can you imagine, imposing your sexuality on babies?? Because no, Karen, it's not que gays that do that. It's always the straight.
Please. Stop the generalization of straights...
@@grantwilliams2571 No.
@@TrollDecker I'm cishet and literally on your side...
Congratulations on (finally ^^') getting married, Jamie !!
Milk comes from mother cows and is a product of female exploitation, not because the cows were given traditionally female names but because female cows are used and exploited for their reproductive organs (while male cows are sold for their flesh and a huge percentage of male babies made unalive and thrown into bins because they are useless to the dairy industry). Dairy is a feminist issue. Read 'The S3xual Politics of Meat', it's fascinating and eye-opening.
As a straight male it is disturbing to see lists of "manly" things that don't include being a giid person in any way! Also the staggering amount of obvious pedophilia is disgusting. A school girl isn't a woman. And dressing her up like a child is still gross.
The baby one where they said the babies were getting married when they grew up happened with me and a family friend. 14 years later and I'm Aromantic/Asexual .-.
The baby clothes are disgusting, but the thing that’s frustrating me most having a 3 month old niece? She’s got more pockets on her clothes than her mum.
Oh my gosh 😂 the jealousy is real why does everyone have pockets but not grown women who I’m pretty sure NEED those dang pockets 😂 we got so much stuff to carry around
And my dad wonders why I take his clothes.
I once complimented my niece on her dress and she said, 'Thanks, it has pockets!' I was actually jealous.
Hashtag stop fake pockets!
Of all the clothing demographics one would want to have pockets for, a young child of the age that half chewed vanilla wafers and Lego blocks are equally treasured and delicious is near the peak.
"These babies will marry each other one day!" What is this, the Sims 4? (Great video as always, commentary is top-tier!)
I'd say it is more like Crusader Kings 3. Huge part of the game is arranging marriages for political gain, as you play as a dynasty of rulers. The game can be a bit weird, not going to lie.
I'm a straight simmer and I would nevah. 😆
Sims 4 be like, "these babies will marry each other TODAY."
I mean if they were medieval nobility or very conservative Indians, it would make sense ...
Yes, I'm talking about arranged marriage.
I am using this video as my background noise while playing the Sims 4 so you aren't wrong lol
It's always "Are the straights okay", never "Are the gays okay?" like bitch, of course I'm not, I fell up a flight of stairs
I’m sorry, you fell UP them?
a whole flight of stairs?
@@todd203 don't underestimate my idiocy
@@typicalmango5323 there were like two of them, and I fell up both lmao
@@YourLocalNirvanaFan Or your gravity, it would seem.
The whole "I hate my spouse" thing makes me want to gag, but it simultaneously makes me wonder if some of these people in straight marriages are unaware/closeted non-cishet people. Perhaps they were victims of hetero/amatonormativity themselves, thinking they had to/being forced to marry someone of the opposite sex, but they don't actually love the person they're with. My dad thinks this could have happened to his mom, who he suspects was aro/ace despite getting married to his dad, because they fought a lot and she didn't seem very happy in her life or her relationship. Food for thought I guess.
I don't think that this is the case. My mom and dad hate each others even to this day. They were "lucky" because when they got together, divorce or separation was not stigmatized anymore so they did not have to live the rest of their lives together. I don't think that my mom is aro/ace or lesbian (I rather suspect that she might be bi, though I never asked her clearly and I don't want to "force her" into an identity). In the case of my father, it's harder to tell since I never saw him in a relationship.
So, TL;DR : I think that the "I hate my spouse" trope has more to do with the mental state of a generation that lived when divorce and/or separation was illegal.
@@GThe-su9kl And in some conservative communities, there is still a lot of stigma around divorce. I imagine there being quite a few people stuck in unhappy marriages who only stay together because they fear being completely rejected by everyone they know, and that breeds resentment.
On the other hand, I bet there's lots of people who are happily married who repeat these jokes simply because they've heard them so often, like they don't even think about it.
@@GThe-su9kl Perhaps both are true. Straight (or "straight") people forced to get into relationships when they're not ready ("settle down") but feeling like they can't get out of it later (because divorce was/is stigmatized). Or (queer) people encouraged to get into relationships they don't want to avoid family/community issues and feeling trapped because divorce would complicate their social atmosphere. The latter could apply to straight people too I'm sure.
@@therinlucas1931 Perhaps.
Commenting cuz this was such a well rounded thread, and I loved all sides of the spectrum
One of the biggest lgbq rights defendor I met, was a granny that spent all her time and money at church. For her, love is love and she would defend it. A lovely and kind lady.
She sounds like someone wholesome af
This is the woman I aspire to be
You mean LGBTQ
@@katphish30 well, I don't know her stand on the T so I didn't mention it.
@@melh7909 If she doesn't support all the letters she's not an ally
My cousin just got married, and his wedding included: sermons about marriage being the greatest importance and between a man and a woman; vows for his wife to submit, serve, and obey him; and her father's speech about her purity as a prize for her husband. Oh and the wedding was their first kiss. Can't believe this shi still happens... 😰🤢
i just puked in my mouth
Sorry for your cousin, but I feel this mariage won't last that long.
That was exactly how my sister's wedding was. I had always tried to explain to my non-religious husband how weird growing up in a very conservative religion was. He really understood only when he attended my sister's wedding. My sister and her husband are now brainwashing my little niece to believe the most precious thing about her is her virginity.
@@ShilgenVens I find it ironic you call what there doing brainwashing but you would be happy for her to have your beliefs shoved down her throat as you try to do to everyone. The lack of self awareness is hilarious
@@ShilgenVens God I'm so sorry - I always wished I could 'protect' my cousins from the bs their parents taught them (they were ALSO homeschooled) :(
Every day I am so tremendously grateful to be an asexual lesbian
How would that even work?
Some people may only want romantic relationships, and being an asexual lesbian would be not wanting sex, but still wanting romatic relationships with women
@@gnawzonbonez Asexual means you're not attracted to anyone. If you want a relationship without sex that's fine but that doesn't mean you're asexual
@@soposh5673 No it doesn't, that's aromantic
@@tidepodpadthai2633 They keep changing the words. This is so confusing
10:05 My mom had a take that flipped this idea on its head: The women can wear the men's shoes in an emergency. The reverse cannot be said. Which, if you think about it, could be used as a metaphor, at least for how society treats men. While it's getting better, not enough men are taught the stereotypically "feminine" homemaking skills, like cooking, cleaning, basic sewing for clothing repair, etc.
Edit: Said talking instead of taught somehow
One time in Iceland, all the women had an organized strike and everything quickly descended into chaos because the men didn't know how to cook, clean, take care of kids etc. It's now one of the most gender-equal countries in the world. Maybe if other countries tried that, things would improve?
One one hand you are expected to be the provider, the protector, the leader and the teacher, on the other you are considered weak if you talk about trauma or mental health because you have to be STRONG.
And if you're """"feminine""" like having makeup or nail art or even long hair or wear too slim of a jean or idk what other bs, then you're either gay and submissive and you do the dishes and you cook and so on because that's considered feminine.
It's mind-blowing how deep these stereotypes are implanted into our brains. Just look at the way people react to dads picking up their kids at school vs mums. It should be just a normal thing but it's always "so great" and "your wife must be glad you have enough time" and so on. It's really depressing for everyone.
Unless they're a chef, or a clothing designer, and have taken on some formerly menial, ''female'' role and elevated it miraculously into an artform using the power of their genitalia. Which is not something I want to think about in connection with hot stoves or scissors. I like your mum's take on it too, too many men still struggle to fulfil the more traditional ''female'' role of cooking, cleaning and caring, for themselves in some cases, much less a family.
My feet are so fucking tiny, my boyfriend couldn't even leave the house without falling, with my shoes on. But so would most other women.
So am I a loser now to them, because I have small feet, and most of the shoes are way too big for me?
My father was the one who taught me how to sew a button back on and to hem my own pants. And I learned how to cook from helping out both of my parents, as well as from watching my grandparents. And my mom made me and my brothers vacuum our rooms and clean the bathroom as part of our chores. Yes, that included cleaning the toilet. Taught us to be self-sufficient, as well as teaching us how to clean up after ourselves.
I feel like having a "man birthday" could be a wholesome trans thing
I’m almost positive that that’s a scam. I got one too. Please don’t trust it.
@@Weird_One_ yep, any message that says "contact me on telegram" is spam. Report them as spam and eventually UA-cam will catch on. 👍
@@Weird_One_ If a youtuber says a “you won (blank)! Contact me on (blank)!” Or something like that it will pretty much never be the actual creator it’s really a scam
Yeah, that'd be fun
@@Weird_One_ "almost" positive? lmao are you guys fucking stupid?
The "I'm a boob man" baby onesie is so funny to me because "boob man" sounds like something funny a trans guy would call himself as a joke😭😭. 11:48
No because i have called myself that💀
Okay but also consider an actual man made out of actual boobs.
Dang.....
Sounds like something my friend would call himself, I'm too dysforic to ever call myself that though
@@EdelweissConfederacy :(
@@argoxnautilus what's the sad face for? Sorry if I said something wrong
1:59 A lot of the okay straights marriage t-shirts were stuff along the lines of "Another player has joined the server" "Now playing Team Mode" "Achievement Unlocked: Marriage" cute stuff like that. I always hated the game over ones, they were just ridiculous.
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Okay, my favourite out of those has to be "Now playing Team Mode".
@@SilverAceOfSpades Loving your pfp!
"Being religious doesn't mean that you can't be LGBT+ accepting" I mean, yeah, I'm a Christian, and I'm also proudly bisexual, demisexual and genderfae.
When I first came out as bi, this channel really helped me to embrace that part of myself. It was a hard journey, especially with friends in high school that forced me further into the closet. It's always nice to look back and remember how far I've come.
Thank you, Jamie, as always.
Hello fellow queer Christian! Still figuring myself out, but for now I’ve figured out I am pansexual, demisexual, and maybe genderfluid? I go by she/they. 😊 What is genderfae?
@@Ann963 Hey, that's really cool, nice to meet you! Genderfae is an identity under the genderfluid umbrella which means your gender is fluid between feminine and non-binary genders.
Honestly wish that I could have just stayed Christian like you guys, but the church me and my parents were in was basically a cult and ruined religion completely for me. I could have avoided an extistential crisis if they weren’t bigoted, conservative assholes. Glad you guys are in a better situation and can still find meaning in religion. (Leaving was necessary though, current me would never have existed without that church. Once you’re athiest, it’s basically optimistic nihilism or bust, pretty much.)
@@unapologeticallylizzy you honestly just sound very confused. This gender identity stuff is not supported in the Bible. Not sure who your pastor is or where you're getting your teaching, but I strongly recommend you go somewhere else.
@@zoesolanki961 if your religion is about spreading love, why do you choose to spread hate?
As an autistic person, I find comfort in the trans community. The feeling of society being intolerant of the fact that people can experience life differently really resonates with my own experiences. I too feel like what I looked like at birth does not accurately portray how I feel inside, and I’ve faced intolerance when “coming out” about my autism to new people, so I’m able to have a great amount of empathy for this community. It’s always fascinated me how the autism and lgbt+ communities are such natural allies. Also, my autism makes my communication style a bit blunt, so apologies if I phrased anything insensitivity. I’m posting this comment with the intent of being supportive and positive ❤
And you did well, imo.😁
This explains a lot about my experience. I'm autistic and have ADHD among other things. I'm not straight, and I lean towards androgyny, but I think I feel more solidarity with the LGBTQ community through lived experience than shared alternative sexuality/alternative gender to sex presentation.
There is some research to say there is a huge overlap between autistic people and gender diversity
Honestly the lgbtq+ community has taken what everyone else would just consider "rejects" and gave them a chance for a happy life. For example furrys (and no, not the furrys from "THAT" side of the fandom.. we dont support them) and autistic individuals all somehow end up in this community, and I'm not mad about it. I'm glad they have this community as a safe space.
Totaly get you, autistic peolle and trans people face a lot of the same struggles like being patanoid about how we present ouraelfs to not get misunderstood, to pass, not getting rejected, we get hate for sonething we cant change, just for who we are...... I just made the experience, that trans people tend to be not very judgmental, as long as you do not go after them, its a positive interaction for them, which is sad, but takes of pressure to preforme being perfectly normal to a t. In adition, there is a massiv overlap between autists and lgbt+ especially when it comes to ace and genderqueer. It is a match made in heaven
the way he smiled while talking abt having just been married is absolutely phenomenal, best of luck in yet everything to come within your marriage jamie and shaaba
Jamie telling us in every video "I just got married :) :) :)" is my favourite thing right now tbh