I very much can’t relate to the dating issues here while being a BIPOC; but from hearing about it from friends and online…. it is very discouraging. As a plus size woman… I used to get a lot of unfavorable messages about that on Tinder. I always wondered why they would “match” with me just to say some mean shit about my weight. 🙄🙄
@@許許-c2j ahh, I forgot to mention. I’m not interested in organizing events but thanks again for sharing ! it was really interesting and I can share this idea with someone else 😊
Yes, it is HARDER and you must be EXTREMELY CAREFUL if you are a woman looking for a boyfriend. There are FREAKS in every country, of every race and MANY are very smart when it comes to meeting a woman. BE very careful, ladies.
I lived in Japan for ten years while in the military and it was great. You don't see a lot of sistas there, unless they are in the military. Have you considered taking a train to Tokyo for the weekend and then going back home on Sunday. If you met someone there and vibes, he would probably be more willing to come and see you. I know this post is late..
@@LifewithTedra Yes, I think if you go with the mindset to just have a good time, you won't be disappointed. I think it might be easier for someone to travel to come see you if they have already met you (even for a short time) and the two of you "vibed". Anyway, enjoy Japan and make the most of it!
I had one guy ask me if I could I find a babysitter to fly to Tokyo to DTF with him. I was like are you freaking serious?!? He legit wanted me to leave my daughter in a Kyushu to fly up to Tokyo, on my own coin, just to hook up with him.
@@shiina8543 I can’t believe that happened 😮 . I promise the guys in Tokyo are different! You must always go to them cos they in “Tokyo” . The audacity!
I very much can’t relate to the dating issues here while being a BIPOC; but from hearing about it from friends and online…. it is very discouraging. As a plus size woman… I used to get a lot of unfavorable messages about that on Tinder. I always wondered why they would “match” with me just to say some mean shit about my weight. 🙄🙄
Omg that’s awful 😡 I can’t believe people did that! I sorry that happened. People are such jerks sometimes 😔
Wow, that’s so interesting 😮 I’ve never heard of that before
@@許許-c2j ahh, I forgot to mention. I’m not interested in organizing events but thanks again for sharing ! it was really interesting and I can share this idea with someone else 😊
@@許許-c2j I would think Korea's beauty standard is stricter, no? At least that's what I've gleaned from way too many hours of UA-cam :P
I don’t know why but your comments keep deleting I can see what you typed to Nicole but you might have to type it again 😭
Ms. Be careful a lot of people on Tinder and Bumble are no good narcissists. Please watch out for the no-good guy named Michael Anthony Thomas.
Lmfao the picture of places killed me. Catfishing with them edits for real.
Exactly !!!!
Thanks for the video! Also, are you from the Caribbean by any chance? You sound like an Islander too lol
I am! 😊🇦🇬
@@LifewithTedra No way, I'm Antiguan too!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🤩🤩🤩🤩
Are you my cousinnn? Ahahaha 🤣
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Dont worry you will find a good japanese guy in the future. Just need to make the first move lol.
Lol, thank you! I refuse 🙅🏽♀️🤣 bahaha
@@LifewithTedra lol
Try meet up application
What part of the caribbean are you from?
Antigua 🇦🇬🇦🇬
Hey. Where did you move to Japan from?
USA
I watch u from Canada
Eyyyy! Big up ya self 😊
Are you studying there?
No, I’m working as an English teacher 👩🏽🏫
I want to visit Japan can I have your WhatsApp number you look beautiful am from Nigeria
So did u go on any dates?
Sadly 😭 but just one
I’m Antiguan 🇦🇬
I don’t know why but ur comment keeps getting deleted 😭 I didn’t see the full thing
You should try africa, u should get more hit there.
It seems way harder dating now, than when our parents were doing so. Crazy.
Facts!!!!!
But many reasons contribute to this
Yes, it is HARDER and you must be EXTREMELY CAREFUL if you are a woman looking for a boyfriend. There are FREAKS in every country, of every race and MANY are very smart when it comes to meeting a woman. BE very careful, ladies.
Yes bc your mammy settled
Get your mans queen. More than one 🤣🤣🤣
I lived in Japan for ten years while in the military and it was great. You don't see a lot of sistas there, unless they are in the military. Have you considered taking a train to Tokyo for the weekend and then going back home on Sunday. If you met someone there and vibes, he would probably be more willing to come and see you. I know this post is late..
Wow! 10 years 😳 I’ll take your advice but I’ll go to mostly enjoy myself cos it’s pricey to go often 🤧
@@LifewithTedra Yes, I think if you go with the mindset to just have a good time, you won't be disappointed. I think it might be easier for someone to travel to come see you if they have already met you (even for a short time) and the two of you "vibed". Anyway, enjoy Japan and make the most of it!
I will! Thank you 😊
Gal, you are beautiful and you'll find an amazing boyfriend, 😄😄risk it baby girl go to Tokyo for a date 😏dating street isn't safe ha
Thanks babes! 😭 maybe when things get better I’ll risk it 😂
It's very hard these days to find love, and a honorable women.
Good luck!
Gurl, I’m having the exact same thing where I live in Kyushu. It’s even more difficult because I’m a single mom as well.
Good luck 🍀
What do we even do at this point?
Good luck to you tooo ! ❤️
I had one guy ask me if I could I find a babysitter to fly to Tokyo to DTF with him. I was like are you freaking serious?!? He legit wanted me to leave my daughter in a Kyushu to fly up to Tokyo, on my own coin, just to hook up with him.
@@shiina8543 I can’t believe that happened 😮 . I promise the guys in Tokyo are different! You must always go to them cos they in “Tokyo” . The audacity!
What app do you use?
@@LifewithTedra I use Pairs and another site call Omiai
not Shaggy with the cobbwebs (DEAAAADDDD)
Girl 😭 it’s rough out here!
Am I Nigeria am planning to visit Japan I have my money I just want invitation or work visa you look beautiful thanks ❤
I saw this video right when i needed it i was super curious!
That’s funny ok Cupid I made must my good friend there but haven’t try anything else plus dating sucks lol
If you’re in Japan I feel like bumble is the best go but I totally agree…dating does suck 😭
Hi iv got a visa to Japan.
Please can you gimme your email so I can meet you
Am a Nigerian I want to be visit Japan or work visa I need ur help I have my money with me