How Women Shoot Their Shot

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  • @johnseb5856
    @johnseb5856 19 днів тому +375

    How women shoot their shot:
    -Walk past you.
    -Look at you.

    • @Woody2Times
      @Woody2Times 18 днів тому +46

      I learned the walk past you or be in your vicinity in college 😂😂 My Dad been tryna tell me nothing they do is coincidence

    • @MURDACIDEBOY
      @MURDACIDEBOY 17 днів тому +8

      @@johnseb5856 Depends on how they look at you. She could be looking at me thinking I'm someone familiar. I wouldn't go by this because that could cause women to be afraid to look at other people because they gonna think we think they are flirting everytime when she could've just been looking at someone to see if it was her cousin or something. Can't be too cocky about it lol

    • @johnseb5856
      @johnseb5856 17 днів тому +16

      @@MURDACIDEBOY well for me, if a woman uses weak 'game' like that I'll just do the same b.s. back to her. So even if she stared at me for another reason, my actions wouldn't hurt anything. And what you said, is also a reason I wouldn't approach a woman for doing those things. Looking and walking past is too vague and could mean anything.

    • @CryptoDepinXYO
      @CryptoDepinXYO 15 днів тому +1

      Very true

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 11 днів тому +2

      @@johnseb5856 depends on her level of insecurity and availability. Some women do that just to see what you do. Some just want your attention some will be open. If she is acting indifferent after eye 👀 you or walking past when you try to talk to her keep it pushing.

  • @smurf88
    @smurf88 22 дні тому +631

    In my experience, all they do is just look at you. Women are in some ways more socially awkward than men.

    • @elssjjr9596
      @elssjjr9596 21 день тому +105

      They are in pretty much every way more socially awkward than us. Especially when it comes to initiating romantic relationships

    • @BrooklynBum
      @BrooklynBum 21 день тому +1

      And they claim that they’re better communicators than men…

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 21 день тому +61

      True. But a woman can give a man a look and just want attention. You have to judge her actions. If you see her giving looks then when you talking to her she is real "meh" she just wanted to see if you desired her. If she is open though we'll there is the answer

    • @Mythoatissodry
      @Mythoatissodry 20 днів тому +12

      @@smurf88 disclaimer. Depends on how you look*

    • @Al-ph6gl
      @Al-ph6gl 20 днів тому +8

      It's an expectation. "U see me. So what's up?"

  • @OGTrollTroll8
    @OGTrollTroll8 22 дні тому +432

    No wonder they hate each other. They know what each other is subtly doing.

    • @CelltheGREAT
      @CelltheGREAT 22 дні тому +61

      Mega facts.

    • @MistaSmellGood
      @MistaSmellGood 21 день тому +10

      I work at a female dominated job, and man I can’t believe I didn’t make this connection before. It would explain a lot of the bs that happens at my job. It’s like covert warfare.

    • @Malitubee
      @Malitubee 21 день тому +18

      Facts

    • @adamkeller7749
      @adamkeller7749 21 день тому +62

      "Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy

    • @KeyMarco
      @KeyMarco 20 днів тому +11

      Comment of the year 🤣

  • @showbizgwoponese8855
    @showbizgwoponese8855 22 дні тому +221

    These be the same ones that act like they don't like u

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 21 день тому +30

      😂 man fr. That can be energy and time consuming

    • @showbizgwoponese8855
      @showbizgwoponese8855 21 день тому +8

      @banderas2000 factsss bro

    • @tre_4
      @tre_4 19 днів тому +14

      @@banderas2000, they love the ego boost

    • @BadbwoyKelly
      @BadbwoyKelly 13 днів тому +2

      Thank you. Everybody just focus on the obvious choosing signals.. like all the ones in this vid

    • @showbizgwoponese8855
      @showbizgwoponese8855 13 днів тому +3

      @@tre_4 they want u to chase them

  • @chriseatmon32
    @chriseatmon32 21 день тому +123

    Passed on so many opportunities with women because it took me a while to understand when a woman was shooting her shot. One thing I understand now is a woman typically won't try to strike conversations with a random guy.

    • @KBlade1
      @KBlade1 20 днів тому +33

      But at the same time, if you strike up a conversation with them, they'll decide they don't like you that much anymore. And they won't tell you that either. You'll find out later when you see her talking to a new guy. 😂Pain.

    • @S-Dogg77
      @S-Dogg77 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@KBlade1
      That'll suck🫣!

    • @standardofexcellence
      @standardofexcellence 7 днів тому +1

      Same here. I actually had my first crush and the one that got away unrequited while more attractive and better catches come along I was almost aloof to. It usually takes us dudes time to learn

    • @1CatSitter
      @1CatSitter 13 годин тому

      Yeh but then we’d have children by now…

  • @JermaineJones-h9g
    @JermaineJones-h9g 22 дні тому +281

    I had a woman eyeing me for a whole year and I never knew until she told me

  • @RPMaster71
    @RPMaster71 21 день тому +251

    Take it from a OG that's had his share of women.... PAY ATTENTION to these important clues they throw....(No particular order).
    #1, Body language #2, Eye contact #3, Proximity placement #4, Subtle compliments & #5, Conversation starters....catch any 2 of these at a minimal and it's damn near guaranteed she's choosing on you. Stay cool but don't freeze up when she's showing you she's hot...break that ice and exude confidence, NOT cockiness...you in there if you read those 5 signs correctly.
    💯
    Much respect to brother Rom for dropping true game and gentleman's creed.

    • @damnteflon4414
      @damnteflon4414 21 день тому +17

      @@RPMaster71 Had to screenshot this comment! Hit the nail on the head with this one👌🏿

    • @MattDaGamer21
      @MattDaGamer21 21 день тому +9

      Game OG appreciate your input 💯

    • @frankiesaenz9808
      @frankiesaenz9808 21 день тому +10

      @RPMaster71 I had to screenshot your words of wisdom sir. It makes so much sense. I know women work with hints if u don't catch it, it's your loss

    • @carlosr5577
      @carlosr5577 20 днів тому +2

      what if she shows all these signs but is married? and why would a woman show her husband intentionally? she wanted me to see him for what reason? she is already chasing but i keep my hands off of her which attracts her even more. why do girls who are attracted show or talk about their boyfriends, husbands etc?

    • @damnteflon4414
      @damnteflon4414 20 днів тому +8

      @carlosr5577 Could be 2 things:
      1. She likes the attention from you, but she doesn't want you to get too comfortable
      OR
      2. She's subtly tryna explore the shadow world with you

  • @Thinkableness
    @Thinkableness 22 дні тому +198

    They will put themselves in front of you like "Take me!" I wonder what's gong on in their head. You're right about the aggression too

    • @rugbyboy9964
      @rugbyboy9964 19 днів тому +14

      Yeah I realised week later. The chick that pressed her body up on me on the train to let others enter the carriage was doing it on purpose.
      I got mad at her cause there was only one person trying to get in the carriage whyy did she need too make that much space and touch me. Man wtffff

    • @Sigma77-n2u
      @Sigma77-n2u 16 днів тому +2

      @@Thinkableness yeah they usually will put themselves near you like at the gym

    • @ozonelayercake
      @ozonelayercake 14 днів тому

      @@rugbyboy9964 That's their way of doing a pp check

  • @abryepenez124
    @abryepenez124 21 день тому +63

    "A woman shooting her shot is not direct." Very well said!

    • @standardofexcellence
      @standardofexcellence 7 днів тому +2

      They use the backboard and magnets and rely on the refs for free throws so to speak

    • @abryepenez124
      @abryepenez124 7 днів тому +1

      Makes perfect sense! Thanks 4 this analogy.

  • @thelastmohican-k6x
    @thelastmohican-k6x 21 день тому +105

    you only know this stuff through experience. if you are not that good looking or attractive you will never get these signs from women. eyeing, staring, rubbing against you, dressing up, asking you questions, strutting up and down infront of you or bending over infront of you and pretending to do something, these are all subtle signs they want you. if you are in a group they want someone in that group and that person will know because she will give him quick glances
    this is the best youtube channel for game by far. kudos mr rom wills. you are the best

  • @herefrvr
    @herefrvr 21 день тому +86

    Man i fumbled some BADDIES not picking up the signs. They’ll ask you obvious ass questions just to break the ice. Just pay attention like unc said.

    • @MrXbox36022
      @MrXbox36022 17 днів тому +5

      Same, she use to try everyday but I thought she was just being nice

    • @MorganWeazy44
      @MorganWeazy44 17 днів тому +3

      i have it happen to me as well bro wish women could be more direct but that is just how things are

    • @1CatSitter
      @1CatSitter 12 годин тому

      Yeh but dude imagine how many kids we’d have

    • @MorganWeazy44
      @MorganWeazy44 7 годин тому

      @@1CatSitter thats why you gotta have self control

  • @Kabaselefh
    @Kabaselefh 21 день тому +110

    I had a girl walk straight and stood in front of me without saying anything, I was shocked and did not say anything and walked away 😂. I have been celibate for four years now.

    • @GloriousHustle
      @GloriousHustle 21 день тому +6

      😂😅 iykyk.. Shits wild mane

    • @finessegodkasey
      @finessegodkasey 19 днів тому +3

      Why did this happen to me at the club last week 😂😂😂

    • @Kabaselefh
      @Kabaselefh 18 днів тому +26

      @@finessegodkasey any woman that you don’t know and makes a bold move on you, should be cautious, some of them are sent by the devil.

    • @Woody2Times
      @Woody2Times 18 днів тому +1

      Voluntarily ??

    • @ozonelayercake
      @ozonelayercake 14 днів тому +2

      Had this happen to me at the gym a few times.. Like one time in a wide open space this girl placed herself like 3 ft in front of me to do lunges. I was the only person in that area prior. She had what looked like body art instead of leggings & was hot but that was a bit too hoe-ish for me lol

  • @MrXbox36022
    @MrXbox36022 20 днів тому +40

    I noticed that alot when i use to work at a store. They'll ask the craziest questions or will just hover around until you notice

    • @chillbro2275
      @chillbro2275 18 днів тому +4

      Yeah I was at a store with my wife on separate occasions in an area by myself. A nice looking woman hovered around, but I wasn’t about to say nothing. My wife tells me woman look at me all the time, but mostly don’t notice.

    • @Woody2Times
      @Woody2Times 18 днів тому

      @@chillbro2275😂 man I’m definitely bout to start going out in public with my pretty play cousin. See if she be W wingman

  • @damnteflon4414
    @damnteflon4414 21 день тому +74

    This might be one THE MOST IMPORTANT videos you dropped in a while. Awareness is a skill that ALL men can utilize. No matter your physique or charisma (yes, these play a factor). Figuring out which women are giving you subtle cues can save men a lot of time and energy. Go out and get yours!! Goodluck fellas👌🏿

    • @hermesalonso2310
      @hermesalonso2310 21 день тому +8

      @damnteflon4414 I agree with you 100% being aware of this is a big help, and this video I rank up there

    • @deandredewan2231
      @deandredewan2231 18 днів тому +2

      thank you my brotha and i definitely agree this is one of the most important videos he's ever made

  • @C.P101
    @C.P101 21 день тому +93

    Get in line behind this young lady at chipotle the other day, didn’t think anything of it. I notice her look my way a few times and figure Im on her radar. She pays her meal, walks to the exit and stood there a whole 2 minutes or so AFTER, until I started to approach to walk out myself. She Opens the door for me bushy tailed and bright eyed, smiles and thanks ME…for opening the door for…me? Had her tongue tied. Kept it pushing. Wasn’t my flavor of ‘ice cream’ so to speak 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @chad7694
      @chad7694 20 днів тому

      What flavour of ice cream was she 😂?

    • @JuniorNel21
      @JuniorNel21 20 днів тому +5

      Damn that stuff never ever happens to me. Granted, my flavor of ice cream is vanilla.. and those types never be like that, plus I'm a brutha, so they probably be scared.. oh well...

    • @PervySage723
      @PervySage723 19 днів тому +1

      ​@@JuniorNel21bro 😂 fr though that shi never happens

    • @free1622
      @free1622 19 днів тому +1

      Broadcasting the fumble as a noble thing. Different

    • @C.P101
      @C.P101 19 днів тому +11

      @@free1622 Fumble? the young lady chose and I didn't reciprocate as I didn't take interest in what was presented to me - My bad for...knowing what I like 🤔

  • @kingk.2547
    @kingk.2547 21 день тому +41

    I was at a concert it was dark but under the lights. When a person stepped into it you could see them. A woman saw me she stopped engaging. With the woman she spoke to. She completely faced me as I walked by. I ignored her walked outside lol. When I came back she did the same thing. Stopped talked turned towards me . I saw her reacting from the corner of my eye. I was focused on going outdoors. Crazy how she was holding a conversation. Mid convo she stopped . completely turned away from the convo. My walk attract women but only men mentioned. How I walk they claim I think I’m big. I am just not physically. I have a big dog mindset and energy. Women are great at being subtle. Once I learned to read body language. I was able to read ppl well

  • @TC1982-4
    @TC1982-4 21 день тому +81

    "You say you like green and all of a sudden she start wearing green and shit" 😂😂 Sounds just like my dad

  • @stuwilldoo7035
    @stuwilldoo7035 18 днів тому +14

    A lot of men will miss these in their early years, plainly due to the fact they were used to it when younger. I sure did. You live and learn. Just make sure u aint simpin and your work is reciprocated

  • @cj0986
    @cj0986 22 дні тому +56

    4:05
    I laughed bc I had a woman tell me this in fewer words recently.
    I’ve seen it all from direct and aggressive to subtle and passive.
    All have one thing in common, the woman basically saying “F your personal space im here now what”

    • @chillbro2275
      @chillbro2275 18 днів тому +4

      Yeah even my homegirl told me, she’ll dance around a guy who she wants to dance with, so he can see her. Made me think, if another guy who she is not interested in comes up trynna dance with her while she trying to get a dance with her target guy, then that other guy is gonna get dispatched quick! LoL I understand it if she has to be a little curt with that other guy

  • @phantomdreamer3801
    @phantomdreamer3801 22 дні тому +57

    I needed this one. I'm barely a quarter through and it puts into perspective sooo many chances I blew.

    • @exp1ghost10
      @exp1ghost10 22 дні тому +11

      Brother you never blew it if you never had possession 💯

  • @Jfdas123
    @Jfdas123 20 днів тому +33

    Had a cashier act like I was a coworker and hand me a piece of paper with her name and number and say “ this is your emp. Disc. Code right?” I gave it back and said I don’t work here. Another time when a girl who was in my college math class, half way through the semester asked for my number to be study buddies. I gave it to her but noticed she was an A+ student. Later she would always ask if I lived close so she could come over and study, I didn’t and would usually go to the gym after class so I never invited her over. She got so desperate she took me to an empty classroom to “study” and she kept saying sexual stuff but I ended up studying lol. Damn do I got plenty of these stories, The regret lingers longer than the rejection.

    • @celestialarmor695
      @celestialarmor695 17 днів тому +1

      That's good you blessed i get ignored get the phone number then get blocked laughed at 2 my face called ugly my pain and despair is very amusing to others

    • @frapemercenary8502
      @frapemercenary8502 7 днів тому +1

      @@celestialarmor695 But you keep going. Thats how you do it. ⚡️

    • @hermesalonso2310
      @hermesalonso2310 4 дні тому

      @celestialarmor695 is amusing to the idiots but you can turn it around,trust me

  • @epiorb
    @epiorb 21 день тому +43

    Everyday I’m moving through and just paying attention and even if I don’t instantly see them I will feel eyes on me or whatever their display of interest is. It brings this extra enjoyment to being conscious. From yoga class, to the coffee shop, to grocery. It’s just a blast to catch the vibes and do what I want with them.

    • @BlackLyran
      @BlackLyran 21 день тому +1

      🎯 🎯

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 21 день тому +3

      It's a great tool to put you present in the moment

    • @frapemercenary8502
      @frapemercenary8502 7 днів тому +2

      Same. Too many dudes ignore the thrill and instead focus on what could go wrong.

  • @HARDMODEKINGS
    @HARDMODEKINGS 21 день тому +26

    Great point about saving a lot of time and energy by learning to pay attention to the signs because women are always/often hunting.

  • @BurninVinyl
    @BurninVinyl 21 день тому +17

    Gazing like a rabbit blinded by lights of a car. That's their "Game".

  • @free9ondo
    @free9ondo 22 дні тому +53

    The women that are direct are my favorite kind, but they’re rare. I was sitting alone at the library studying for an exam when this bombshell asked to sit next to me. Took me like 2 minutes to realize she was shooting her shot. We hit it off and talked for nearly 2 hours. It didn’t last, but we started seeing each other a lot after that day.
    Then there’s some overly flirtatious girls. I was walking to one of my class lectures and this girl is doing the absolute most, batting eyelashes, flipping hair, walking in my path. She was cute, but I actually laughed in retrospect because of how ridiculous it looked in real time. I ain’t even wanna make a move after that I just kept it pushin

  • @raekwonbutler8483
    @raekwonbutler8483 22 дні тому +406

    Had a girl shoot her shot at the gym she literally just walked up on me & just stared at me we was like 5 ft apart the shit fuck me up I just was staring back back quiet ash I knew I fucked up when I did that

    • @MURDACIDEBOY
      @MURDACIDEBOY 22 дні тому +153

      No you did right. Normal adults would look and nod their head or say something but she must of had some issues going on up there lol. She was acting like a little 5 yr old around strangers

    • @raekwonbutler8483
      @raekwonbutler8483 22 дні тому +64

      @@MURDACIDEBOYthink she was shy bro when I saw her again she was just staring & blushin n shit

    • @MURDACIDEBOY
      @MURDACIDEBOY 22 дні тому +98

      @raekwonbutler8483 yea most likely and I realized that being shy gets you no where. No one can read minds but then again alot of women need you to hold their hands lol. Any woman that shot her shot at me TOLD me she was interested, I don't do signals thats immature

    • @jdilla4591
      @jdilla4591 22 дні тому +46

      @@raekwonbutler8483same thing happened at the grocery store seen these two latinas in the parking lot I parked my car and they were waiting next to there car but started walking inside at the Same time I did, one was shorter but thicker and cute face I went to get some organic orange juice was going to grab some bananas and they stopped infront of my path and was just staring at me no smiles or anything but just straight eyes 👀 😂I froze up and was confused but when I left the store I was like Danm she was shooting her shot 😒 lol

    • @carlosr5577
      @carlosr5577 22 дні тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @hermesalonso2310
    @hermesalonso2310 22 дні тому +32

    This is a very good topic and imo lots of men don't pick up on.this, not to brag but I read them but nowadays I see lots women doing this and they with their boyfriend or husband,not cool but these are different times

  • @007phokus
    @007phokus 20 днів тому +9

    My lady made the first move, been together for 3yrs now!

  • @finessegodkasey
    @finessegodkasey 19 днів тому +12

    27 years old this talk changed my whole view on life good lookS OG

  • @blacklion2432
    @blacklion2432 21 день тому +34

    I've been through this at one point and it's true they get furstatred to the point of pursuit. Some men need to learn how to maintain the power balance instead of jumping out the window and getting thirsty but the trick is to also be receptive and pro active when she goes out of her way to show interest. From their perspective she's done enough and the ball is in your court.

  • @spaceguapo7398
    @spaceguapo7398 22 дні тому +26

    Uncle Rom hope all is well! I’ve been having these kind of interactions at my gym lately. Been going 6 months around the same time, lost 35lbs so far. I noticed women who I have seen from the start of my journey stare more and get closer to me when I work out but won’t say anything lol this is conformation to shoot my shot with them. Peace and blessings as always

  • @rellconnects4695
    @rellconnects4695 21 день тому +31

    Recognize the openings women present without being thirsty or forcing plays that aren’t fitting the situation and timing

  • @brokeboijd6983
    @brokeboijd6983 22 дні тому +80

    Had a 47 year old at work technically shoot her shot but threw the age trick at me and bringing up her 29 year old daughter I’m 27 and I’m like what does that have to do with anything.

    • @Derek70388
      @Derek70388 21 день тому +13

      Plausible deniability

    • @willvandeusen7130
      @willvandeusen7130 20 днів тому +15

      Has nothing to do with anything lmfao

    • @pupusas975
      @pupusas975 16 днів тому +5

      She's trying to see if you're willing to mess with older women. Her bringing up her kids is her way of saying "I like you but am I too old for you?"

    • @brokeboijd6983
      @brokeboijd6983 8 днів тому

      @@Derek70388 😂😂😂😂

  • @NTEDOG561
    @NTEDOG561 21 день тому +73

    Bro this is this shit that keeps me up at night. There were moments now in hindsight were the girls were even hinting at Sex. Ugf i feel like a fkn dumbass 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @EmpireStateExpress01
      @EmpireStateExpress01 20 днів тому +3

      Same here

    • @hermesalonso2310
      @hermesalonso2310 19 днів тому +7

      @@NTEDOG561 everybody plays the fool, old skool record, we have all been there, the ones that got away

    • @g.3067
      @g.3067 17 днів тому +1

      Ok this is good. But what if the woman is hinting at sex but she’s not your type of lady? I’ve calmly denied her lots of times now

    • @gerardocarrillo2868
      @gerardocarrillo2868 16 днів тому +1

      I swear we’re idiots, bro

    • @hermesalonso2310
      @hermesalonso2310 15 днів тому +2

      @gerardocarrillo2868 dont beat yourself up. It is not worth it. You're going to be OK. You're learning it's all good

  • @ericbuchannon7382
    @ericbuchannon7382 13 днів тому +3

    Respect brother ✊🏾

  • @banksnicholson
    @banksnicholson 21 день тому +20

    This channel has helped me tremendously with identifying these things and dealing with relationships. Some great advice here. One question though, it’s hard to tell if a woman checking me out because she’s interested or if it’s just because of my size. When I’m at the bars I stand out in the crown at 6’8” and virtually everyone looks at me, so its hard to discern when a women is looking with interest or if its just cause im tall. I’ll definitely look more into body language from now on as well as proximity and if they are moving closer at all.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 22 дні тому +18

    This is some serious game

  • @MIKEDATRUTH618
    @MIKEDATRUTH618 15 днів тому +9

    I never knew I was attractive because I was overweight and dealt with depression etc etc … BUT as soon as I started getting in the gym taking care of myself….they will FLOAT to you like a river G all you gotta do is stay in yo masculinity and keep it cool like og said

    • @saiahbuul
      @saiahbuul День тому +1

      Currently been in gym for some months i get stares but idk if these girls like me fr it feels difficult to me idk why

    • @MIKEDATRUTH618
      @MIKEDATRUTH618 День тому

      @ if they looking you cooking bro 😎 just gotta work on social skills not really cold approach just having alcohol conversations can go a long way bro

  • @Mizrahim777
    @Mizrahim777 2 дні тому +1

    Always on point, Doc Rom 👌🏾 !!!!!

  • @lordshura9717
    @lordshura9717 19 днів тому +30

    I shot myself in the foot with so many women including chicks who I KNEW for a fact wanted me. I was so insecure about being a virgin back in high school that I never made a move.. that eventually bled into college and it took some chick from instagram damn near forcing herself on me to lose my V-Card back when I was 22.. I’m 32 now and I got a pretty chick on my arm at the moment but some of those insecurities still chirp in my mind every now and then..

  • @izz5946
    @izz5946 4 дні тому +2

    Mannn 😊 bringing me memories…. I’m in my early early 50’s …. I remember always being on super high alert 🚨 of any choosing signals.. eventually it became 2nd nature.. I almost forgot them days.. thanks for the reminder.. I’m still in alert .. but I just don’t get out as much these days…

  • @TrusttheJourney33
    @TrusttheJourney33 22 дні тому +12

    Unc, I’m glad to see you out here doing well and healthy! 🙏🏿

  • @Trazynn
    @Trazynn 21 день тому +19

    At a festival I had a girl in the crowd literally grab me and refuse to let go until her friends came over and apologised as she was high off her ass on drugs.

  • @Heavon1999
    @Heavon1999 7 днів тому +1

    I fw Uncle Rom this my guy. He haven’t lied yet

  • @javielbarber2110
    @javielbarber2110 21 день тому +20

    A very fine petite chinese middle aged lady was giving me signals at a Petco just recently. She sat next to me at the Vet and began conversing. I decided not to when she mentioned her husband. As much as i wanted to i respect myself and Brocode more. I dont want bad karma.

    • @rugbyboy9964
      @rugbyboy9964 19 днів тому +10

      This is the worst part, once you're able too see the signs. You see so many taken girls do it...

    • @juliustaylor9920
      @juliustaylor9920 2 дні тому

      Right, thou shall not commit adultery. The only reason why i stoppee.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 22 дні тому +15

    This is soooooooooooo true many times I don't pick up on it initially

  • @johncracker5217
    @johncracker5217 18 днів тому +3

    The dropping of the proverbial handkerchief, of course

  • @IWantMyVisionBack
    @IWantMyVisionBack 21 день тому +6

    The most direct is probably a woman asking me where I live, how far away I live or if I live alone. And these are out of the blue questions lol.

  • @Angelo-ki9gl
    @Angelo-ki9gl 21 день тому +7

    3:00 am here in cali, listening to this, before going to the gym and taking tht pre workout🔥🔥 lets get this work 🐺😤

  • @frankiesaenz9808
    @frankiesaenz9808 22 дні тому +30

    My man my thing is i dont want to come off as a creep if i advance towards her. Had a beautiful nurse started talking to me and asking what time i work till and even knew i was working for the outside company (that provides for the hospital) for a year. I was shocked, and talked to her for a minute. I need to get at her, your video made me feel that she shoot her shot at me. I need to spit game, screw rejection. I dont care

    • @Jayyy_Wav
      @Jayyy_Wav 21 день тому +20

      The feeling of not going for it numerous times is worse than getting rejected one time

    • @frankiesaenz9808
      @frankiesaenz9808 21 день тому +2

      @Jayyy_Wav You are so right perfectly said. I've had those many what ifs in my life, Not gonna do it anymore.

    • @Jayyy_Wav
      @Jayyy_Wav 21 день тому

      @@frankiesaenz9808 I’ll be waiting for that update! 👊🏻

    • @virginiawamaitha3860
      @virginiawamaitha3860 21 день тому +1

      go get her bruh

  • @Vallejoslapz23
    @Vallejoslapz23 3 дні тому +1

    Love your videos OG keep giving the game to the yn’s respect ❤️‍🔥

  • @rrnirv
    @rrnirv 21 день тому +9

    I really appreciate your content 💯 I didn’t have a male figure in my life growing up so a lot of stuff like this I have not been aware of

  • @kvon_rashad
    @kvon_rashad 21 день тому +22

    Just made a video on this a couple weeks ago. Most women won’t directly come up to you, BUT will make it Extremely easy for you.
    Had a woman at capital grill, with her ex boyfriend, go to the bathroom before I left and called me over to get my number. Some will be direct but Most will not.
    Find your tribe. Thanks uncle Rom🤝🏾

  • @SongmanKK
    @SongmanKK 9 днів тому +1

    Rom's videos have changed my mindset towards women, and my radar has heightened in detecting when a women likes me. Before, when a woman was checking me out, after I had a haircut, or was in good shape, I paid little attention to it. Nowadays, I can tell very quickly when a woman seems interested, and I always say hi to see what happens. And now I'm pursuing this pretty Jamaican woman, I had a feeling she liked me, and when I made a move on her, her response was far more positive than I expected, let's see where this goes.

  • @kwamd.1461
    @kwamd.1461 3 години тому

    This is factual. Women are indirect with their approach because of their nature. It is what it is. Paying attention is key🙇🏾‍♂️💯

  • @MauriceRumoan
    @MauriceRumoan 20 днів тому +2

    Brotherman Brotherman, you have shared very insightful information…coming from this Young man I’m grateful for your age sir‼️

  • @LylatSystem64
    @LylatSystem64 12 днів тому +4

    Thanks for the wisdom sir

  • @jeronronnunkoffunk4691
    @jeronronnunkoffunk4691 20 днів тому +4

    Brother Rom, 1st of all , glad to see you at it going strong 💪🏽. Man o man brother you are so right , and deep in my subconscious I’ve recognized that very thing happening to me. I ll be honest and transparent, I am pretty sure now looking back way too often , I’ve let ladies get away. Peace and blessings and continued good health to you brother !!🙏🏽✊🏾

  • @joealkanovski513
    @joealkanovski513 17 днів тому +3

    Looking back to my past expériences this is the most accurate game ive Heard someone out here in the dating tips videos

  • @PhilTheNeed
    @PhilTheNeed 15 днів тому +2

    OG you are telling the truth these young women Are the same 😂 and DO STAY AWAY FROM THE ONES WHO APPROACH YOU I had to learn the hard way…

  • @xavier32421
    @xavier32421 11 днів тому +2

    Rom out here, sharing insider secrets

  • @BeyondAIR15
    @BeyondAIR15 21 день тому +29

    Most of the time i just think they want the attention. Like validation and being noticed makes their self esteem go up. It's even worse now with these simps online complimenting everything about her but no response. But when you say something negative on that post that's all they see.

  • @aymenmiringue7463
    @aymenmiringue7463 20 днів тому +4

    Another Gem from the OG

  • @dsetgetatme
    @dsetgetatme 22 дні тому +36

    Had a few women at the job who would either directly or indirectly shoot their shot. One of the things in common was that those ladies were Hispanic that was attracted to black men. A couple of them had cute faces but were a lil chubby and the other was in decent shape. Ended up going out with all three of those ladies. So I know that is part of my tribe!

    • @tyree9834
      @tyree9834 22 дні тому +14

      You bring the soul food that they bring the Mexican or the Cuban food that’s a win-win💪🏿

    • @ishyameru6232
      @ishyameru6232 21 день тому

      Yup it’s always the Latinas

  • @yardknight4953
    @yardknight4953 21 день тому +11

    @4:02 hahahaha.
    That last part you said about aggressive women is so true. Months ago, this girl at work expressed she was interested. My mistake in being polite taking her number when she offered. I let her know I wasn't feeling her. She tried the friendship route but it was too annoying for me because it's clear it was some game to try to elevate it to more. I ended up blocking her.
    After that I remember coming out the men's room at work and guess who was out there leaning on the wall folded arms. Smh.

  • @CryptoDepinXYO
    @CryptoDepinXYO 15 днів тому +2

    Yep women would put themselves in a line of sight (choosing) and like you said “they gotta work for it" plain and simple

  • @1Atome
    @1Atome 21 день тому +10

    Picking up on these choosing signals 3 years later lol

  • @therealmicmountain
    @therealmicmountain 22 дні тому +13

    yeah man I missed out on my wife I was supposed to be with back in 2016 in Puerto Rico Airport because i didnt step to her and i was being standoffish ............I met a master astrologist who is so good he does reality tv readings now he told me a couple years ago that she was supposed to be my wife. Oh well we both lost out on that opportunity but he said Ill be with my last wife by 2026. This time I wont let her pass me by whoever she may be....I look forward to it I was told we gonna be happily married for a long time.

  • @BobbyJ529
    @BobbyJ529 12 днів тому +2

    yup, they will just look at you or put themselves in your vicinity. I noticed a few times that when I don't pay it any mind, if it's a place we see each other often, they'll come in with a friend and then they'll be more direct with the eye contact and smile. it's like they need their friend to hype them up or judge whether you're interested or not. Seems to be a young woman thing though. I've never seen an older woman need to call in backup like that. They are just direct from the start.

  • @Johnnycassshhhh
    @Johnnycassshhhh 19 днів тому +14

    I'm at the gym and I know they're getting in my view on purpose, and when my gym buddies start talking to me it seems like the women get even closer and in more abundance. I'll probably never approach a gym girl but some of them ask me how many sets I have left and if I'm using certain equipment (Most people would just wait for you to finish your set, instead of asking).. The best relationships I have had are with the girls that have approached me.

    • @tafferski
      @tafferski 11 днів тому

      Why not approach?

    • @Johnnycassshhhh
      @Johnnycassshhhh 11 днів тому

      @@tafferski It's a winning game if they approach me.

    • @tafferski
      @tafferski 11 днів тому

      @@Johnnycassshhhh Most women won't approach bro.

    • @Johnnycassshhhh
      @Johnnycassshhhh 10 днів тому

      @@tafferski That's fine by me. I'll approach at bars like I usually do.

  • @richardabongo6898
    @richardabongo6898 22 дні тому +16

    Aye y’all, get on RomTV he not playing on there fr.

    • @RandomFactVolt
      @RandomFactVolt 21 день тому +1

      What is the biggest reason to join, my issue is approaching and reading signals?

    • @richardabongo6898
      @richardabongo6898 21 день тому +1

      @ Well you have to build the confidence. Rom always talks body game but me personally I feel the best when I just get a haircut and put some cologne on. And on RomTV he has a series just for reading signals. On this UA-cam channel he kinda talks about the same general topics but approaches them from a different angle to get more knowledge get on there. But you have to build the courage to do something or else your just putting money in his pocket and waisting your own time

    • @RandomFactVolt
      @RandomFactVolt 21 день тому

      @@richardabongo6898 that's solid, I'll join up, thx. As you seem to be winning, can I ask - what do you say to the chances of building a bad reputation by approaching women who reject and them spreading the word you're a creep, or thirsty? I have no issue approaching based on signals but it takes very little to turn a woman off when close up.

    • @richardabongo6898
      @richardabongo6898 21 день тому +1

      @@RandomFactVolt I’ll give you an example of a signal so at my day job this stud looking woman was showing interest. She never spoke to me usually but one day as I’m going to break she held the door open for me and started talking to me about some nonsense. If a woman likes you it’s very obvious it’s just they are indirect you just have to ask yourself why is this woman around me?

    • @RandomFactVolt
      @RandomFactVolt 21 день тому

      @richardabongo6898 This happened to me today, started talking to a uni student who was secretly eyeing me. She beamed. But during the convo I sensed she was lukewarm. How do you know whether to give her your number?

  • @moonguy30
    @moonguy30 22 дні тому +10

    Oh, man. Reminds me of many times when I dealt with women and I didn’t shoot my shot after they shot their shot. I’m working on making more eye contact 👀 and being more observant of women so I know what kind of shot is being shot at me. YET☝️anotha great car video! Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!

    • @Rudmyster
      @Rudmyster 22 дні тому +7

      @@moonguy30 Don’t feel bad I miss them sometime as well women almost never want to be obvious and when we don’t approach they really feel bad or rejected this is why the sign is so subtle so that they can tell themselves they really didn’t want you anyway this is why they shoot it so lightly. Many times I don’t realize it until it’s past me by, if you are also a handsome guy and get this all the time like I do we pass most of them by I don’t have time anymore for someone I’m not very attracted to. The other problem is it’s hard to deal with more than one women, back in the day before all of this social media stuff I could juggle 3-4 now if I post anything it will start them stalking, man if I even get to many compliments from women on Social media I’ll get ghosted by the other women. It’s a bit crazy I have stories.

    • @nondscript1751
      @nondscript1751 21 день тому +5

      if u ever missed your shot, thank your lucky stars. you dont wanna be tying up with every sparkle in the eye . there are plenty meetings with destiny, all seem to depend on your choice

  • @therealmicmountain
    @therealmicmountain 22 дні тому +21

    Im used to being approached. But most of them dont prefer to approach you

  • @galacticdirt2925
    @galacticdirt2925 13 днів тому +1

    unc spitting facts🔥

  • @Richforever327
    @Richforever327 2 дні тому

    They give you effort that simple

  • @d2da206
    @d2da206 22 дні тому +11

    I call it the green light

  • @joeyalvarez98
    @joeyalvarez98 22 дні тому +6

    Thank you for this video Rom, I feel like you're answering a video question I ask a while back on a previous video. I ask you to make a video clarifying the different between female magnetizem and male electric attraction.
    Great video Rom!👍👍

  • @philipcarter8143
    @philipcarter8143 22 дні тому +14

    This video might be a sign. There is a new girl at one of my jobs. She older than me by a few years. And she is hella friendly and a bit touchy. I havent worked with her for that long but her doing that makes me think she shooting her shot but i aint used to that. This video might have come at the right time

    • @hermesalonso2310
      @hermesalonso2310 19 днів тому

      Good luck

    • @DMS4Three
      @DMS4Three 19 днів тому

      Be yourself king & be confident & she gone go!💡☑️

  • @72.Destin0
    @72.Destin0 21 день тому +18

    My 'tism is too strong to pick that up in the moment.

    • @americanbullets488
      @americanbullets488 17 днів тому

      Had me with this one 😂 you ain't got no time brother 💪

  • @life5501
    @life5501 21 день тому +12

    Happened to me in sophomore year of college(I go to a very diverse school). This fine Latina woman kept being in the same area as me just staring at me. She did this at least 4 times, 2 days a week. I never thought of it rom. Junior year she went poof and disappeared , Im still trying to find her my senior year. 😅

  • @mikingcutz1324
    @mikingcutz1324 22 дні тому +20

    As usual Rom os correct , I’ve been approached aggressively once but I was so used to being th me approacher I folded …shawty had to be in her 40’s and was definitely intoxicated she hit me with “ Hey handsome you wanna come home with me” and I just kept it pushin till this day I think about it

    • @Dazz9
      @Dazz9 22 дні тому +26

      In all fairness she was intoxicated so it's actually a good you didn't. It's a chance it come back and bite you. So, don't be to hard on yourself in that situation.

  • @LifeEntity
    @LifeEntity 21 день тому +10

    I've had older women approach me, never younger... Cougars will definitely cougar... After reading the contract, I got to bounce😅😅😅😅

  • @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots
    @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots 22 дні тому +93

    A tomboy woman with a realllly good persona and a husband who is awesome and a sweetheart son says she was personally conditioned to act first because they were told back in the day boys don’t like to initiate. Worst case is a conspiracy theory, best case is hidden truth. Don’t give up, kings OR queens!❤

    • @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots
      @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots 22 дні тому +1

      My dad would act on the element of the conspiracy theory with me and my older brother. Back when we were on vacation he claimed he would lie so we each would go do outdoor stuff. He fumbled the ball that poorly with that assumption. I hope you understand me, Rom.

    • @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots
      @Halo_Predator-IncredibleRobots 22 дні тому +1

      *lied to each of us about each other to the other bro

  • @EMMmaximino
    @EMMmaximino 8 днів тому +1

    i like your stories, remind me of the OG's i would chat with at the parks in nyc, no matter where i was if i sat to wait for someone or kill time I seemed to have something about me that ppl had to sit and tell me the memoirs.

  • @kingk.2547
    @kingk.2547 22 дні тому +16

    Won’t lie I be irritated with women I’m around. Regularly indirect tells me they’re interested. Instead of opening their mouth. Approaching feels good, shows confidence and dominance. Also telling a woman I know interested let’s go out . I know some women don’t show it. Some even are mean have a mug on their face. I came out the salon had fresh braids. Got the stitch braids the style. Nip always had I was in Wawa. A woman kept staring at me. We go outside to our cars. She still staring but had a mug on her face lol. I’m like she think I look good or have a problem

    • @garthyahudahandrews8504
      @garthyahudahandrews8504 22 дні тому +11

      Thats usually the case I purposely ignore most unless they are inviting a smiling and making it known they want my presence to many are energy vampires

  • @joemacch6284
    @joemacch6284 15 днів тому +1

    Totally agree Pay Attention and you would be surprised what is right in your face.

  • @tyree9834
    @tyree9834 22 дні тому +26

    My story I was picking up water cases from Walgreens a year ago, and I was practicing Body game so I’m in my tank top some old lady 58 to 65 say you’re so strong you got muscles 💪🏿 and another lady was checking me out smiling and waved at me while I was doing hip thrust then I was just walking today another lady from my old job ask do you still work at that company we used to work at I told her no, for some reason every woman I interacted with are BBW or thick girl with curves with big breast . another woman at this other park says she got a keep up with me because I walked too fast.

    • @Michael-rm1bx
      @Michael-rm1bx 22 дні тому +8

      In their eyes you probably look like a man who can handle them physically

    • @tyree9834
      @tyree9834 22 дні тому +3

      @@Michael-rm1bx to be honest all I do is kick boxing lift weights, take care of myself, watch anime, and cosplay. I mean, I got my hobbies. I don’t know. Maybe some of these women see some interest in me like an old lover they probably dated in their past.

    • @Michael-rm1bx
      @Michael-rm1bx 21 день тому +6

      @ by what you stated it seems like you’re living a fulfilling life on your terms and people pick up on that energy you emit, start to slip with it and see the change in behavior of others. Keep doing your thing man!

    • @ncpsurfgod6373
      @ncpsurfgod6373 21 день тому +5

      Yeah bro, don’t go for it. Stay single until Jesus sent you the right one. Enjoy your happiness and enjoy. Enjoy your peace, brother.

  • @HouseOfHuelle
    @HouseOfHuelle 22 дні тому +12

    Mannn this is all facts. Ever since I been on my game and going to the gym I’ve seen this girl put herself around me everywhere I go basically begging me to talk to her but I saw she had a kid. All respect to her. She’s cute but I can’t be what she needs. Is it even worth just saying what’s up or am i opened Pandora’s box?

    • @BrooklynBum
      @BrooklynBum 21 день тому +12

      Don’t play with fire. You’ll get burned

    • @Jon-ly6xe
      @Jon-ly6xe 20 днів тому

      Well if she's just tryna smash and you tryna do the same then go find out but if she on some I want something serious no games then you know what's up.

  • @pap4539
    @pap4539 20 днів тому +16

    Half the men who think they aren’t getting any signals at all in their life probably aren’t even recognizing what they’re getting. I know shit like this used to fly way above my head lol.
    That being said you gotta work on other things if you aren’t getting these signals or aren’t noticing them. When they’re happening all the time then it’s easier to pick up on and it starts to click better in your mind.

  • @AYYYEEEEYOOO
    @AYYYEEEEYOOO 6 годин тому

    This man is a father to these lost youth

  • @brianmorris2533
    @brianmorris2533 22 дні тому +27

    Shidddd my ex shot her shot at me directly but she was never bossy or anything like that very submissive with me, but she knew I wasn’t going for that bossy sh*t I know she had it in her though if she deals with a weak man

  • @thrilla72
    @thrilla72 21 день тому +5

    0:26 Hold on Uncle Rom!!! What did you see!? That pause was a...bah-donk!!! Kind of pause

  • @MartynCollins
    @MartynCollins 22 дні тому +4

    Instant classic Rom

  • @Rudmyster
    @Rudmyster 22 дні тому +33

    This past weekend I had 3 different women shoot their shot at me. I’ll give the 3. #1 I’m walking 3 women walking toward me they spot me they all stop linger until I got 6 feet away turned around and started walking in my direction slower so that I’d Cath up then one starts saying how she like to dress in all black they all 3 agree with her. I was in all black then as I passed they got quiet. #2 I’m sitting in the mall a women walks by me with a guy looked like just a gay cousin she looks at me and he turns and looks at me a few minutes later she comes back by alone and look me right in the eye smiles said hi then walked on window shopping slow. #3 four girls as I set walked by stopped right in front of me they acted like they didn’t see me they talked and acted like they didn’t know where they wanted to go then they walked off a few minutes later all 4 walk by and all 4 now looked right at me one walking slightly in front gave a smile and walked past then window shopped slow. This is how they do it. I’m a older guy but I look much younger two of the women looked to young for my liking and one just wasn’t my type they all looked good I’d say all 7-8- this happens to me all the time as you say when a man is Handsome Fit and mature we intimidate most women and this is the type of choosing signal we usually get. Sometime it’s hard to spot if they are nervous. I had one in the grocery store she she was dragging it the isle then when I walked by she crossed me twice as if it was an accident. She was my type but had a child so I passed. 3 neighbors in my Apt complex when they see me Walk by their door they come outside in dasie Dukes and just stand there so that I can get a good look.

    • @tyree9834
      @tyree9834 22 дні тому +4

      This is a nice story 💪🏿 keep winning, brother

    • @yourtakenetwork4974
      @yourtakenetwork4974 21 день тому +4

      Great examples big dog

    • @IshvaraGodCazimi
      @IshvaraGodCazimi 18 днів тому

      What is daisy dukes ?

    • @Rudmyster
      @Rudmyster 18 днів тому

      @ short shorts, Hot pants, cutoffs so short you can see her butt curve

    • @americanbullets488
      @americanbullets488 16 днів тому

      ​@@IshvaraGodCazimi they are short cut off jean shorts 💀

  • @Fear_God_and_Give_Him_Glory
    @Fear_God_and_Give_Him_Glory 21 день тому +2

    Thank You for this vital Information!!

  • @DonaldMilbourne-l6x
    @DonaldMilbourne-l6x 21 день тому +1

    I like this guy, he really makes sense.

  • @honestalgo
    @honestalgo 22 дні тому +17

    Had a girl eyeing me at the climbing gym. When drying my hands after machine wasn't working, somehow she was there at same time. Machine worked for her and she started laughing looked her dead in the eyes with a funny look. Then she started explaining how it's done. Throwing some teasing remarks, she opened me there but it was the eye contact and situation that allowed her.
    After walking away noticed her friend looking in anticipation like did she shoot her shot. Positioned at the bar, everything was setup for me and my mate to pick em up. They sure be hunting!

  • @jonathanvermillion7263
    @jonathanvermillion7263 19 днів тому +1

    Real knowledge king

  • @bakinsjralgorithm
    @bakinsjralgorithm 17 днів тому +2

    Thanks for this video. I'm a middle aged man. Now, I read the room. From what I see, women will get close as possible to you, alot of times they will bend over in front of you, they will even follow you through the store if interested. These would be "choosing" signals I suppose. It's not complicated per se you just have to pay close attention and "read the room"

  • @JamesMvula-g1q
    @JamesMvula-g1q 17 днів тому +1

    This is the name of the game.👊🏿