Pregnant Lady Wants To Leave Family, Learns A Lesson | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
- The way you treat your family indicates how you would treat other people. So, always be as humble as possible and let's make this society a happy place with good surroundings.
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Director: Pankaj Bijaraniya | @thesilversrayleigh
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AD:- Ayan, Aastha, Smriti Shrivastava
Script Writer: Piyush Sharma
Cinematographer: Himanshu Shrivastava
Editor: Vishal Singla | @wikki01
Head of Production: Sudhanshu Mishra
Production Assitant: Anjali Tomar
Head of Post Production: Anuj Ramatri
Social Media: Anjali Tanwar
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Actors:
Pragati
Shobna
Rajesh
Sachin
Problem is ..this kind of selfish girls get such a understanding in laws but want to break and separate the family but those girls who actually want to live with inlaws and be a part of big family get very bad and rude and uncompromising in laws and just to keep the family together they suffer their mental torture silently 😔
Sooooo true🥺 this video seems my family story. My bhabhi is exactly the same... brainwashed my brother....he believes in whatever evil she say about my mother ...she makes an issue of trivial things! Don't know how to tackle these kind of people... Narcissist she is😢
Very true!!! If i get this type of inlaws ...i will be the most happiest girl in this world...but here people are selfish
So truee
Very true
@@harinik1741 same here..
This shared story very rarely happens. Usually just opposite happens in the real scenario. However, I wish good mother in laws like this should be there in the society.
Yes
The question should not be about living together or separately. Bacause everyone's got different situations. The solution lies in not interfering into others' lives while also not hurting others' feelings. Now that doesn't mean you have to hurt your wife to please your parents and vice versa. A truly educatead and logical mindset can resolve such family issues.
My story is opposite of what you showed in the video... I was forced to go to work and do households even inspite of warning from doctor about my pregnancy complications, already had two miscarriages... My baby was premature and underweight. I struggled a lot after my baby was born all because of them ( husband and in laws) ..
Same here.. I had complications during my 9th month due to stress and work load.. and it continued even during my postpartum.. and even now.. not everyone gets good in laws..
If your in laws n husband cannot give you the support when you need them
Then I m sorry to say they r not your family
The question is not about good bahu or good in laws
It is about the intentions n if the people who live together actually care for each other
Yes same here
@@arpitadas3243 exactly family means good people n happy place home to live peacefully but it's totally opposite 😤
Sometimes i feel like how our mothers went through all this nonsense when they were carrying us they kept quiet n managed now inlaws say same during their time it was even hard now u have to handle this 😭
One thing which we're forgetting today is that none except our family can support us during times of distress. We might think that we can survive alone, but it's actually not true as we have to face unfavourable circumstances at one time or the other...
Yes very very true n well said indeed
no one will ever understand the importance of family until they loose it.
Not everyone's life is like a fairytale as shown in reel lives. Nuclear families now a days have become a trend, not just bcz the "selfish" daughter-in-law insists, but also bcz the struggles most of them faces in her in-law's house in real lives.
And to understand the values of family bonding, one does not necessarily needs to always be physically together, even the daughter-in- law is someone's daughter, and she loves her family equally inspite of living apart ! So, dont just portray a biased one-sided story, rather give a message of retaining the mental bonds inspite of having physical distances.
Best wishes.
you are totally correct
Wah bhai kaya soch hai 😆
Jis din aisi soch India ke logon ki bhi ho gayi na
Usi din se India ke 50% log bhi bachhe karna aur 50% Log Shadi karna hi chhod denge jaise USA me hota hai
Bahut maja aayega 😆.....
@@akii.t That will be great for India. The less children are born the better it is for controlling our population. We already have enough
This channel also has made a video on how in laws ill treated her daughter in law. You can watch that as well. Society basically has all form of people included. You can leave your precious comments there saying it is wonderful video and eye opener for in laws. This video is covering other part of society. This channel was never biased only for one particular stand. One must know before writing long paragraphs.
@@MayuD Yes dear, u are absolutely correct. Just one thing, I just expressed my views on specifically this video and its moral. What's the content of other videos should not affect our views on any specific video,right!? So, ya the content of this video is something bothered me, n I simply put forward my viewpoint.
But ya, I respect yours too!
Stubborn daughter in law trying to break a good family, there's a saying those who dig a pit for others will themselves fall into them.
Doesn't happen always... My uncle is so blessed that he has a great income( ex navy-gets 35-40k pension, has a bank job 30k, makes money from trading 25-30k = earning nearly 1 lakh) but doesn't respect his elder sister(my mom) and me, doesn't give my mother's share of property (still fighting in court for rights of property) and continues to cause troubles with quarrels and fights over every little things.. This has been going on for almost 20 years now.. Today my mom doesn't have a job I am not getting a job bcoz I have hearing disability.. Mom and I live separately from family.. on rent from moms years of hard earned savings.. Sometimes i too feel like i should end things by dying.. But dont want to.. Life is hard.. Karma doesn't care
Life is not that fair 🙂
@@Disci_Legacy I am sorry to hear about your situation, but ending life is not the solution, think about your mom once how she will go through if your not there. Keep fighting your cause and never give up on yourself.
@@arpandas8296 life is not fair to anyone in this world but we have to find our purpose and meaning because we have only one life on earth and have to make it count.
@@Disci_Legacy Never think about dying if you truly love your mother and if you had really gone through the life struggles with her..Just remember one thing, "This time will also pass". Everything in life happens for a reason, yes the pain is unbearable sometimes. Take care of yourself, your life is precious. All the words are based on my own life experience. Apologies if you feel hurted.🙏
Unfortunately the daughter-in-law had to learn the hard way how important family was. I have no doubt she learned her lesson. Very good story Nijo!!!
Yes very very true n well said indeed
But in reality nothing will happen with such types of selfish girl.. the always well in their bad plans
Jesus’ real mission to come to earth
Jesus says that he has come to destroy families by making family members hate each other. He has “come not to send peace, but a sword.” Matthew 10:34
Jesus says, “Don’t imagine that I came to bring peace on earth! No, rather a sword lf you love your father, mother, sister, brother, more than me, you are not worthy of being mine.
“The real beauty of this verse is that Jesus demands people truly love him more then they love their own family. I ask you how can we love someone that we can not see or interact with? Love is an emotion pertaining to physical existence not to faithful ideologies, yet God threatens you with death just because your love for your mother maybe stronger than your love for him. (Matthew 10:34)
Families will be torn apart because of Jesus. “Brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death.” (Matthew 10:21)
Jesus strongly approves of the law and the prophets. He hasn’t the slightest objection to the cruelties of the Old Testament. (Matthew 5:17)
@@soniatomar4688 it's better to ban marriages in India
@@jagrutibhat1384 😂😂😂😂
I stay away from in-laws .I have maid's and good neighbors and relatives around from both sides....all is good sometimes privacy is important or else we will never have positive energy at home....it is always good to set boundaries to overcome circumstance.
I agree
sometimes living separately isn't really a bad thing. I mean look at the positive side, you can do what u want, live as you want. this applies to both groups after separating. you both can meet up every weekend. Sometimes it works out for families and prevents them from breaking. we only see extreme ends where either daughter in law is bad or the mother-in-law is bad. most of the times it just compatibility issues and lifestyle problems
True
Truly said
Truly said facing so much of prblms...evn we can't go to movie also if we went also after returning home she will talk very rudely and can't see her face...want to stay all day home nd have to do all work that's it... daily crying when on weekends also she is not allow to go out
Soo true
There is no right style of living. Some prefer to live in joint while some in nuclear families. No matter the style, always remember that love and communication is important. Being there for one another is important.
There is always a way around which is different for every family. The key is to communicate to figure it out and implement it.
Sometimes, living nuclear for some time helps one introspect and figure things out... While in some cases, living together helps understand other aspects of living together and take decisions accordingly.
Instead of consider one bad and other good, just find out what's good for all of you in the family and do accordingly. 😊
After all, that's what being a FAMILY is all about! 😊💐
Why break a good thing when you have wonderful family who loves you by lying great message nijo sir
Thanks for spreading Positivity Nijo.. After I start watching ur videos my way of thinking has changed a lot i started to think and take every situation in a postive manner...My thought process also changed...I know Thank U was a very small word but Thank You so much for spreading Positivity always 🙏🙏🙏
He is actually spreading toxicity by showing people r so bad around us, which is not always true. His earlier videos were good.
Yes
Amazing video 👏 This made me so emotional. The mother in law here is just like my Mummy (mom in law). Mummy cares for me a lot ❤️ My hubby and I stay in a different city due to work and we miss home a lot. We feel happy whenever we go home.
Oh my god.... Such a great mother in law.. very hard to find these kind of in-laws.
Your team doing fantastic for Mankind through this Series.
Keep doing good work 👍👍👍
One thing everyone should understand, when a son get married and want separate home, let him go.
His age is enough to handle life.
If you don't trust, he can't handle life, don't marry him.
Pls think positive.
What about those parents who took care of him for years
In the old age every person want his /her son or daughter to always held their hand
@@amanbansal4475 what about the parents of the girl ? Didn't they raise their child too ?
@@amanbansal4475 then why are girls expected leave their parents after marriage and move into their husbands family?? If a girl is forced to leave then so should the boy. Living separately from parents doesn't have to mean cutting ties with them.
@@nerisalobo these terms and conditions should be placed before marriage.....first we say yes to everything saying we didn't have any choice.....and then play victim
@@learningamyth4698 as if before marriage the girl would know the true character and reality of the family she is getting married into? Every family pretends to be kind before marriage before the bride and her parents, the reality surfaces much later.
Congratulations to you and your team for the work you are upto..the awareness should be spread as much as possible
I saw ur channel for the first but i must say it was a great motivational lesson about the importance of not leaving a loving family for those who care to learn. Todays people in the quest of privacy & nuclear family dont realize what they have lost until its too late. Very great message Nijo. Hats off to u & ur team👏👏👏
But there's a question Nijo Sir. What a girl should do when her mother-in-law is trying to make distance between her son and his wife by continuously lying and manipulating the facts, and husband also takes side of her mother and without listening his wife, keep insulting her in front of all family members. And on the flip side, the whole family members keep blaming the daughter in law for breaking the family, just bcoz she speaks for her self respect, she calls a spade a spade, and don't know much about buttering and acting. Your reply is expected Sir.
Same what happened with my mom…..now my parents r divorced 🙄
Divorce that guy simple
1 baar divorce bol do sab thik ho jayenge and get a life
In most cases this happens .....men generally take their mother's side even if they are wrong
@@anandibanerjee4949 Taking mother's side is a different thing, but insulting your wife in front of whole family without any reason, doesn't make any sense.
Excellent... Thought provoking video... With lot of content... Useful for present generation.. and society... Thank you so much
Love gratitude and respect to your team...I like these short films so much...my grandmother died many years ago, still I miss her so much..When she was with us,our family was more happy....My family became nuclear family after her death ..so I would like to say, joint family means more happiness, love and secure feeling..
Such a nice family . When you have a loving and understanding family never break it .. Only when you have toxic people who want to see you fail in life … Enjoy your pain in silence, and show sympathy in Public.. Draw boundaries as you only have one life to live and achieve what you deserve…
God have blessed me with such nice in laws I wish every girl gets in laws like them, God bless them always
Family is imp, but when the same family is unsupportive its better to stay away.
I have few examples, wherein women had a tough time with inlaws, which affected mental & physical health. So at such times /situations, its better to not stay with such toxic people in family.
Anyone noticed? Evil MIL get kindest DIL.. And kindest MIL get most evil DIL...
Lucky homes where MIL DIL both r kind.
Absolutely right
Just like evil wife gets kindest husband
Ajeeb hai acchi bahu ko buri saas milti hai n buri bahu ko acchi saas☹️kash muje bi aisi achi caring family milta❤️
Great video.. Bahut badiya.. Thank u Nijo bhai & team
Actually ur videos gives good motivation n positivity but after all we are human some of the mistakes can not be forgotten nor forgiven
Mere to aasu hi aa gaye 👍 bhot acha laga aur mujhe bhi motivation mili ki sab ke saath hone se hi life acchi hoti h❤️
True character of a girl very good video hats off for the gutts ......
Cheeze kabhi bhi extreme nahi hoti, jaise tv serials mein dikayi jaati hai, galti dono side se ho sakti hai
VERY GOOD WORK 👍HELPING THE HUMANITY GREAT WORK DEAR 👍GOD BLESS YOU ALL ⚘💚⚘
Neither daughter in law nor mother in law will learn lesson because ultimately most of the cases son will bear the brunt of the issues, in least cases daughter in law also will face the brunt of in the family, the theme is mother in law n daughter in law should go hand in hand, also in some r most cases girls mother will be the real culprit she only teaches everything to the daughter before n after marriage, good episode.
Sachin k jagah mai hota th dekhne bhi ni jata....... The girl literally assassinated his character
Voi to the guy is chutiya bhaad m gye aise bhai aur bhabhi
Very right. But it's takes time to make them understand🙏🙏
God will be watching up above!
Whether parents in laws or sister in laws , brother in laws daughter in law or son in law breaks families, karma ALWAYS comes back!
Dont worry!
May not be immediately, time WILL tell!
God is ALWYS there!
God bless
I think people keep housemaids now practically.....but however the message is nice and true....really nice....
Good content, western culture is followed by youngsters these days forgetting our valuable Indian culture.
Wel done karma wins always
Really heart touching... We all should see this video
Maja aagya bhai family ko jodne ke liye kitni achhi kahani banai aap ki soch mahan he bhai 😃🙂😃😃😃👍👍👍
My parents are such nice in-laws, and so is my wife. Yet, my wife wanted nuclear for some time and they respected it. After she got pregnant, my wife talked my parents to be together and we are together ever since. Now my son is growing up with his grandparents. Surely there are fights and fun, but mostly peace.
Rare to see these type of mother in law
Luck also comes to those who have made themselves capable of that.
She separate a child from his mother & karma hits back at her..All the ladies should learn lesson from this video..don't hurt your parents.
No one is taking the son away from his family if he doesn't want to leave his family don't get married be a man and live ur live and stop being a mama boy and grow up and be a man.if girls can leave their family and live with her husband so should the guy
Why can't boys stay with their in-laws? Break the stereotypes.❤❤
If privacy is the issue, then it does apply to the man equally... No?
Why can't women make their own money,? Only21% women are in workforce in india
Then same in -laws will taunt him for living with them and can't even find a home for his own family 🤣🤣🤣
@@bund5872 Still among those 20% of them want there husband with 100% higher package.
@@bund5872you mean the girl has to earn to keep her parents with them?
Perfect real very common story by Nijo bhai
Privacy k chakker mai duniya apne parivaar ko tod k shant se rah to sakti hai per kabhi khush nhi rah sakte ....khushi to apno se hi hoti hai ...and bhagwan sab ko mere sasural jesa sasural de ...taaki sab ko sache parivaar ka sukh mile ❤️❤️ i love my family
So sweet story . And bad part of our indian society is .. all these lovely family bondness and happiness can be had only if u give birth to a son , so that he be with u always and u enjoy the pleasure to grow his son or daughter . If u had girls , what will they do after they send off the girl ? Thats all . They keep longing for these simple pleasures till they die .They wont have anyone to take care if they are sick . Priority is to be given to in laws . And still people justify this kind of sick society . It shd be mutual . We need both the side of families . Grandkids need both side of grandparents and vice versa . No one can relate to this story because this is just 0.1% of the very lucky population in india 😊
Superb story nijo👍
Why this video came in my notification today ??
My one good friend left her in-laws house with her husband and she was pregnant. After completing 5 months she admitted to hospital because of HighBP . And there was no growth of baby in last some weeks so doctor suggested to abort baby . During that process her BP goes High and her heart failed..
Today I m writing this comment but this incidence happened just before 5days ..
I was searching for answer that , why this happened to her ? She was very much good friend of mine..
But I think I got my answer .
In pregnancy there must be some elder woman with pregnant lady.. either MIL of mom or sister . Anyone .
If any lady is reading this please don't take any decision in anger
Nijo sir ji thank you so much
Great stories 👍
There's difference between reel life & real life. Every thing looks good in reel story, but in real life the things are different. One should never forget the pain but forgive the sinner.
by the way she did two crimes one breaking the family which can be forgiven but the second killing the child does she deserve forgiveness for that?
Aaditya, agree with you. First crime can be forgiven but for second crime, she should not be responsible for that. Because she never did the crime deliberately. Only mother can feel the loss. I hope you will understand the situation better than me.
@@shomenbanerjee9651 there was a bad intent as she never took the effort to realise the reason for her special treatment which means she was negligent at first so i would not be wrong to tell that the first crime as in the crime of killing the baby is unpardonable
I eagerly wait for the videos
Imagine getting heart from nijo sir
imagine
Do things that make people think you have a knack for winning."
Good example but lots of suffering in today's materialistic society relatives and even parent's can be the cause for trauma
It was really heart touching video
Toxic positivity. What is the message. They are not ready to take responsibility and the husband is used to be taken care by the rest of the members and the wife is like as if pregnancy is a severe disease. This is not a healthy family. They are back because of their selfish needs. If there is no understanding in the family, it is better to stay separate and meet on occasions and be happy. These videos are only showing that parents take care of you even after you are old enough to take your responsibility. There is nothing wrong in stay separate if you feel better and if you love to stay together that also good. But it should not be based on what society thinks.
I am thankful and grateful to God for blessing me with a wonderful and understanding husband and in laws. Thank you God.
Husband mistake is much bigger here as he didn't trust his mother & didn't understand situation. It's really hard for a mother to be alone at home anything can happen specially if husband is in job.
True.. Hv u eva thought abt wife mother?? Wat if she is the oly daughter
Aisi family sbko ni milti... Bahot km saas pregnancy mei Bahu ki help krti h kaam mei fir bhi ise alag hona tha ...
When a daughter leaves her parents and goes, no one has issues but accepts boy to be with his parents
Yes its true❤
What a story sir thanks a lot
Now a days 70% of married womens are like this only .. especially It guys not take staying with their family even not allowing their family to come home for 1 or 2 days also ..
Also there husbands are equally renspossible.
men have always been like this ..... separating girls from her parents
@@anandibanerjee4949 befitting reply
@@anandibanerjee4949 then you dont marry stay single and live with yours parents happily!!
@@life_skillsbypratik5706 Definitely. No sensible woman will want a man-child in her life . For me anyways marriage is an unnecessary trouble in life so not gonna do that anyways . I already live my dream life with my parents and I'm very happy
Sath rehne ka alag hi maza hota hai Am a working woman I can't imagine myself without my in-laws they look after both my kids .I have full time maid but i don't fully depend on her I feel less guilty to leave my child home because of my in laws. My brother in law is un married and does everything I tell him to do without any questions.
Gud story nijo
Sometimes, MILs are vicious; while on the others, DILs are wicked, too... Those DILs who can't afford to stay happily in their husband's family should better get married to any orphanage guy...
Why doesn't the guy marry an orphan woman instead or for a change move in to his wife's family and permanently live with his in laws?
@@nerisalobo So you want that a guy should become Ghar Janwai type and get treated by in-laws like a dog (as seen in the society)?? By the way, Orphan girl is a better option than becoming a doggy by settling as Ghar Janwai... :-D
@@Aayush21121992 so a guy shouldn't live with in laws because he shouldn't be treated like a dog, why doesn't this logic apply to woman who is made to act like a free full time maid by her in laws? A woman is supposed to consider her in laws as family and live with them but for a guy his wife's family is no less than just mere relatives equating to outsiders? A guy supposedly being treated like a 'dog' by his in laws is problematic but a woman being treated like a maid by her in laws is okay apparently. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
@@nerisalobo You seem to be searching for logic every where na... You want to challenge the rules of the society... Go ahead.. Then you must also try to change the rules of nature... Where you should also ask God to change his law where a man should give birth to a child instead of a woman giving birth to a child... And yeah, there are many families in India where DILs are treated as queens by the in laws and they also give equal love to them (I am not talking about those kameena families where DILs are not given respect), not something men in India can claim to be, where they are not allowed to speak on any matter in case they become Ghar Janwais.
@@Aayush21121992 who told you ghar Jamai's don't have a say at all? May be from the kind of society you belong because in my place they are given full respect. Your rules of nature was not able to stop women from becoming scholars, engineers, doctors in other words financially independent it were these evil patriarchal societal rules. A girl's parents also invest in her education just as a guys so that she can also provide for them in their old age but the minute she moves into her in laws that is the first thing they try to strip her off i.e. her financial independence and force her to become a maid to serve them instead, why the hell should that happen to any woman? And by chance even if they are allowed to work then who benefits from the income she earns? Not her parents for sure while they are the ones who have the first right on that money not the in laws. Also how does giving birth have anything to do with who should give up living with their parents? If I were to use this logic then a guy should be the one leaving his family and move into his wife's house because a pregnant woman and a mother would need her parents the most not her in laws who are always pressuring her into giving birth to a boy to take the so called clan forward. Another reason why this nonsense of expecting a woman having to leave her parents while the guy having the luxury of being with his family and relatives need to stop. Families where the DIL gets treated like a queen are rare, maximum of the Husband's family treat her like a maid only. Such kind of evil patriarchal traditions will have to go away. Moral of the story is just like how a guy doesn't want to be treated like a 'dog' by his in laws as a consequence of living with them similarly women also don't want to be treated like maid or take any other shit from their in laws besides being a subjugate to them.
Sometimes I really feel..... Such witch like daughter in laws should be with cunning mother in laws..... And with kind MILs...... Those innocent and good natured DILs.... But alas I can't do magic
True
You can't boast, do something you can do.
The problem is that when daughter in law is good mother in law isn't, when MIL is good DIL isn't as good as one should be..
its common now every where
Very nice and true.
I don't know why that lady forgive her son and daughter in law. Anybody who is facing same issue in real life, shouldn't forgive and shouldn't forget.
Yes u r ri8 but both are that mother's child, if she didn't forgive his son and daughter-in-law, then in this world no mother can forgive their child, and there will be no bond between Mother and son
Bhut badhiya kahani hai bhai 🥰👍
So sweet mother in law apni bahu se inte pyaar se baat kr rai he. But har mother in law ye pyaar nahi dikhati. Or har bahu is tarah ka jhut bol k alag nahi hona chahti. Har ghar me kisi bahu ko itna acche se baat or pyaar krne wale log nahi milte.
Great film 🌹🌹
Asi saas - MIL real life mein mil jayen jo itni caring n understanding hon to life kitni achi ho jaye 🤞 real life mein asi MIL hoti hain but bahut kam..
Too good
Good lesson 👍👍
Nice video sir..I love your videos.
Waah mentality of modern girl
Karma hits back.But the saddest thing is her unborn child had to pay for her sins.Keep karma record clear
Now I understand why some parents insist their children stay away from them after marriage.
Serves her right
This is the case mostly in these days...
Not sure when they will understand the importance of family...
You really take the real life scenarios man... Kudos...
A nuclear family isn't a fascination it's a necessity but it is subjective to different people 🎇
Very well said
Moral of the story is Jesi karni wesi bharni.
Excellent lesson
They forget their brother.....just one sorry need for him....
kash mujhe aise in- laws mile🥰
I want a mother-in-law like her
Family is great
OLDER PEOPLE ARE SCARED THAT SOMETHING MAY GO WRONG TO BAD NOT EVERYBODY GET'S IT 😿 OH RESPECT TO ALL LIVES
Most of the times it's just compatibility, standard and lifestyle issue
Sir,bahot,khoob,Allah, Ta'ala,Sab,bahu,ko,Hidayat,De,
Bahut sahi lesson mila isko bilkul sahi hua iske saath