SIR, THE WISDOM YOU EXUDE IS OH SO intellectually STIMULATING & PROFOUNDLY HELPFUL THAT YOU DESERVEDLY HAVE MY DEEP GRATITUDE. THE WAY YOU SERVE HUMANITY IS INSPIRING
The 3 levels of listening: internal (thinking about what you're going to say next), focused (active listening), and global (beyond listening, understanding the unspoken parts of the conversation). The third level is worth seeking. It's like "becoming one" in the discussion!! ❤
Yes, my therapist brought this to my attention when he said, " I feel disconnected." His experience of our interaction and my resistance to his experience and our conversation through it helped me to realize that I had totally dissociated from the present moment in which we were both encased.
I know a few people who practice this naturally and are not at all into spirituality or esoteric or anything like that. They really listen, and say things that cut right to the essence and it's so wholesome 😊 they are respectfull, just 'get it' and also are not afraid to say things that need to be heard. Sometimes it can shake and wake up a group conversation thats mostly unconscious. My dad was like that, I loved it. When he passed so many people came, from all walks of life, he really touched them and made them (or their essence perhaps?) feel seen / connected ❤
Dearest Eckhart, thank you for sharing, very true all you said. Important to bring oneself back to center when conversing with others. Today, i am sharing experience that occured central time at 11:00 a.m. Triple alignment occured in space and time, it is amazing gift to humanity from highest consciousness of creator. Pure love and light, this cosmic alignment will affect everyone, feeling of something new and different about self and life over time. It is good and beautiful ❤️😊
So profound. Working on stepping up the listening game. Sometimes what is not said can say more than what is said, so listening beyond the words makes so much sense.
Dear Eckhart, thank you so much for Being clear and approachable. Your videos are so very supportive and inspiring. The more I keep on trying to accept your unassuming and valuable advice the more I start to experience the pure truth of wisdom that you are sharing. It appears as a miracle to me. 🙏
Glad to see this topic and looking forward to watching this episode! I feel like my ability to stay present in conversations has decreased over time and it’s not due to my intention. I have a feeling that my phone in the fast pace of information in society has a lot to do with it. Always love a dose of wisdom from Tolle to bring me back to the Now!
I need to learn this desperately! 😂 Not easy when you´re emotionally invested and it´s a very personal issue. Focus on the breath is a verder good tip... gonna try that. 😊
Basically ... you need to work at raising your conscious awareness of the physical part of you - which is really the other component of what is commonly known as 'mind'. We experience ourselves as 'mind' in a 'body' simply because we pay little attention of the fleshy components of our being. We're largely out of touch with it and therefore unaware of the effect of it in our interactions. But it's all you. Being present in a conversation means staying in touch with your 'physical' being while also marshalling thoughts you can express to someone else. It takes practice. Alexander teacher.
Can I ask the E.T video producers to tone down the 'ding' at the beginning of each video? Or even replace it with something more soothing? It's quite ear piercing.....and whenever I fall asleep listening to Eckhart, that ding wakes me up again. Thank you!
Being in total presence during a conversation with people is a necessary skill we must learn because if we are not present we can get lost in thought, confused, and even angry with the situation. I used to find it so difficult to talk to people who were not present whilst speaking because what they were talking about did not make any sense after they finished. Therefore it's very hard to aid or respond to them in any constructive way. I also found in unconscious people that when it's my turn to speak they're not really listening to what I'm saying and are just waiting for me to finish so they can carry on speaking about themselves and their lives again. But thanks to Eckhart I have learned to listen to those kinds of people without being annoyed, judgemental, and more importantly, not correcting them whenever they are wrong. Thanks for teaching me this life skill Eckhart.
TIP: I find it can help greatly if one via wording, points out that ideas are not personal. For example the statement "Its surprising to hear that you agree with one of my ideas", it implies identification with the ideas that this person presented. Ideas are not personal just because you happen to present the idea today, ideas exist in a space of ideas, they belong to no-one. So instead of asking someone to "defend your viewpoint" (Which implies identification with the idea), instead ask someone for example "What evidence have you found to suggest that THIS IDEA might be true?" (For example the idea of "more collective transport and less cars, would be better"). This wording might cause the human to dis-identify from the idea. And thus have more objectivity and less defensiveness about it. Cause they dont subconsciously believe that they are defending a part of themselves.
This not listening was pointed out to me by family members who were kind enough to point it out ...I wasn't even aware of my inner conversation goings on while they were speaking....WOW ❤ I recommend helping each other out with this because just SAYING: YOU'RE NOT LISTENENING DOESN'T SINK IN ...WE NEED A BIT OF AN EXPLANATION SO WE CAN GRASP THIS PRESCIOUS POSITIVE TRUTH TO HELP US TRULY COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY❤
When two people are present a rational conversation is enjoyed by both parties regardless of whether they agree or disagree with each other. When two egos exchange inflexible conditioned opinions confrontation and bad feeling is inevitable. In the words of of Frankie Goes To Hollywood " when two egos go to war" 🙏🙏🙏🙏
It's easier to practice presence while listening or watching TV or video. It takes more effort to be present while talking. One can start listening to their own voice while talking. It takes time.
Thank you!! That’s was so helpful and something I definitely struggle with!!! lol so easy to be present when you are alone, but when speaking I have found I lose myself a lot. So again Thank you for ❤
I have been practicing all the practices suggested by Eckhart, but remaining present during interaction is not yet achieved. This is the most difficult task. But Thank you Eckhart for these immensely powerful techniques. ❤
I am with you. I still find myself being lost in the words and waking up to awareness mid argument like Eckart described. It is good to know that waking up to presence is part of the process of presence and hopefully with more practice we will be in that state more often.
Can anyone tell me something? I have been reading The Power of Now for a few days and also practicing the teachings of this book, and something happened to me. Like, for 15 to 20 minutes, I felt like that I have actually accessed or cracked what Eckhart was saying. I was actually living in the present for 15 to 20 minutes. I felt extremely relaxed, and I could hear the silences under the noises. I've never felt like that. It felt very weird, but also very good. But it lasted for only 15 to 20 minutes, and then it went away. And after that, something happened. I was just resting, just lying on my bed. And I had a feeling like vertigo. So, I'm confused. Is it possible that after you feel something like that, like an awakening experience, can your body feel different?
I have found some awakened folks appear to use it for the world and some seem to use it for unconditional love. Ie. Not manipulation. Could you explain this? Like the essence of being for love versus labeling witchcraft and hidden things...control... Also, is telepathy reserved for awakened people? Would love for you to touch on these . Funny, when I asked a question before a video just manifested into my feed with the answer!
is it possible to attend to your words , you are not your body AND you are not your mind , so let that which attends , attend either to your body or your words , words would be next level dude , what is the distinction between attending and awareness and memory dude
Hoarders are a great example of someone that is identifying their egoic self thru objects. Trying to help someone declutter their hoarding situation is such a strange manifestation of the ego. They seem possessed by their mental position in spite of knowing intuitively it doesn’t make any sense. It’s an identity they created that’s attached to things to validate their mantras. Interesting & peculiar how diluted the ego develops 🤨
How can I sense the presence within the other person when I'm speaking to my sadistic narcissist dad who feels like an empty husk of a human without feelings?
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $155,000 every three months and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah❤️🙌🏾
Same here, I met Elizabeth Ann Larson last year for the first time at a conference in Manchester, after then my family changed for good. God bless Elizabeth
I keep working on that but last time i lost it while facing a false accusation. I had the calm to notice while being angry i was a little haooy to be abe to come back to myself faster than before.
With respect, Eckhart, you have a blind spot in your understanding of the human condition. There is an enormous splinter in heart of the body-mind of most human beings in the West today - early childhood neglect and its impact on right-brain development, which is the source of the “sense of lack” and “overwhelm” that persist in human beings. I’m not denying that discovering true nature is the eventuality, but not before repairing the right-brain through coregulation with an empathetic other. There’s a reason why non-dual teachings are not gaining traction in the population, because while you are providing some measure of empathetic coregulation for your students, it is inadequate and may be causing as much harm as good. You had a difficult childhood and are using the misinformed concept of a “pain body” to explain away the reality of emotional dysregulation born of right-brain impairment. I suspect most religions, including non-dual teachings, were born out the childhood developmental problems that humans have historically experienced. Now we finally have the science to help guide humanity. We both know that the truth can never be spoken, and that you are driven to attempt to speak it is, ultimately, misguided. The truth is naturally “heard” if the brain is not experiencing the “noise” of a dysregulated brain. Please watch and read all the content of the psychoanalyst Erica Komisar and also the research of Dr. Allan Schore. Love
That's because this topic he's speaking about is not on the subject of healing the, what I call the emotional-body. And, he actually do not have a specific healing process for what he calls, the pain body.
Dear Eckhart, I just want you to know how much I appreciate your videos! Thank you so much for all you do in helping people find presence
Reminds me of a quote I just heard . Most people listen to respond, when we should listen to understand.
SIR, THE WISDOM YOU EXUDE IS OH SO intellectually STIMULATING & PROFOUNDLY HELPFUL THAT YOU DESERVEDLY HAVE MY DEEP GRATITUDE. THE WAY YOU SERVE HUMANITY IS INSPIRING
By far one of the most important and challenging skills.
I keep coming back to Ekharts wisdom when Its time for a reset.
Thank you for sharing this video.
The 3 levels of listening: internal (thinking about what you're going to say next), focused (active listening), and global (beyond listening, understanding the unspoken parts of the conversation). The third level is worth seeking. It's like "becoming one" in the discussion!! ❤
Thank you, Eckhart. You simplified a very complicated thing for me in more ways than one. You usually do. Thanks for all you do. Namaste 🙏.
Yes, my therapist brought this to my attention when he said, " I feel disconnected." His experience of our interaction and my resistance to his experience and our conversation through it helped me to realize that I had totally dissociated from the present moment in which we were both encased.
I know a few people who practice this naturally and are not at all into spirituality or esoteric or anything like that. They really listen, and say things that cut right to the essence and it's so wholesome 😊 they are respectfull, just 'get it' and also are not afraid to say things that need to be heard. Sometimes it can shake and wake up a group conversation thats mostly unconscious. My dad was like that, I loved it. When he passed so many people came, from all walks of life, he really touched them and made them (or their essence perhaps?) feel seen / connected ❤
Dearest Eckhart, thank you for sharing, very true all you said. Important to bring oneself back to center when conversing with others. Today, i am sharing experience that occured central time at 11:00 a.m. Triple alignment occured in space and time, it is amazing gift to humanity from highest consciousness of creator. Pure love and light, this cosmic alignment will affect everyone, feeling of something new and different about self and life over time. It is good and beautiful ❤️😊
So profound. Working on stepping up the listening game. Sometimes what is not said can say more than what is said, so listening beyond the words makes so much sense.
Dear Eckhart, thank you so much for Being clear and approachable. Your videos are so very supportive and inspiring. The more I keep on trying to accept your unassuming and valuable advice the more I start to experience the pure truth of wisdom that you are sharing. It appears as a miracle to me. 🙏
Respected Eckhart Tolle sir.... kindly bless my Eclipse Meditations. Gratitude
Glad to see this topic and looking forward to watching this episode! I feel like my ability to stay present in conversations has decreased over time and it’s not due to my intention. I have a feeling that my phone in the fast pace of information in society has a lot to do with it. Always love a dose of wisdom from Tolle to bring me back to the Now!
It is helpful indeed dear Eckhardt .. God Bless you .. Thankyou 🙏❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this timely teaching, Eckhart. Peace and love. ☮💌
Thank you Eckhart, for the many years of sharing your wisdom, and calm presence 🙏🏾✨♥️
I agree my post humans are challenging.😊
Challenging those that are not fully awakened. May I add..
This is great prctical advice. Thank you, Eckhart!
I need to learn this desperately! 😂 Not easy when you´re emotionally invested and it´s a very personal issue. Focus on the breath is a verder good tip... gonna try that. 😊
Basically ... you need to work at raising your conscious awareness of the physical part of you - which is really the other component of what is commonly known as 'mind'. We experience ourselves as 'mind' in a 'body' simply because we pay little attention of the fleshy components of our being. We're largely out of touch with it and therefore unaware of the effect of it in our interactions. But it's all you. Being present in a conversation means staying in touch with your 'physical' being while also marshalling thoughts you can express to someone else. It takes practice.
Alexander teacher.
Can I ask the E.T video producers to tone down the 'ding' at the beginning of each video? Or even replace it with something more soothing? It's quite ear piercing.....and whenever I fall asleep listening to Eckhart, that ding wakes me up again. Thank you!
Nice and comforting
Being in total presence during a conversation with people is a necessary skill we must learn because if we are not present we can get lost in thought, confused, and even angry with the situation. I used to find it so difficult to talk to people who were not present whilst speaking because what they were talking about did not make any sense after they finished. Therefore it's very hard to aid or respond to them in any constructive way. I also found in unconscious people that when it's my turn to speak they're not really listening to what I'm saying and are just waiting for me to finish so they can carry on speaking about themselves and their lives again. But thanks to Eckhart I have learned to listen to those kinds of people without being annoyed, judgemental, and more importantly, not correcting them whenever they are wrong. Thanks for teaching me this life skill Eckhart.
Yes I too have experienced what you described. It’s somewhat ignorant and can be very annoying but we live and learn.
@@terencehennegan1439We certainly do Terence, and learning this life skill benefits us greatly!
Yep
One thing not mentioned is when they are annoyed and even aggressive with you despite this.
The unconscious people you speak of, are prob 90% of people. Be patient.
This is brilliant.
Súper útil!!! Muchísimas gracias!!!🙏🤍💛🧡❤️🩷💜💙🩵💚🤎🩶
Gratitude 🤲 With Appreciation.
TIP: I find it can help greatly if one via wording, points out that ideas are not personal.
For example the statement "Its surprising to hear that you agree with one of my ideas", it implies identification with the ideas that this person presented. Ideas are not personal just because you happen to present the idea today, ideas exist in a space of ideas, they belong to no-one. So instead of asking someone to "defend your viewpoint" (Which implies identification with the idea), instead ask someone for example "What evidence have you found to suggest that THIS IDEA might be true?" (For example the idea of "more collective transport and less cars, would be better"). This wording might cause the human to dis-identify from the idea. And thus have more objectivity and less defensiveness about it. Cause they dont subconsciously believe that they are defending a part of themselves.
This not listening was pointed out to me by family members who were kind enough to point it out ...I wasn't even aware of my inner conversation goings on while they were speaking....WOW ❤
I recommend helping each other out with this because just SAYING: YOU'RE NOT LISTENENING DOESN'T SINK IN ...WE NEED A BIT OF AN EXPLANATION SO WE CAN GRASP THIS PRESCIOUS POSITIVE TRUTH TO HELP US TRULY COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY❤
Presence while alternating between listening (hard) and talking (harder!) is like learning to swim 🏊 and also breathe 🧘♂️
Great way to put it! I chuckled inside
A kako smo to uspevali u maminom stomaku🤔🤣
Very well said. 👌🏽
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Try to speak other languages which u don’t t know. U can easily be present. 😂
Hello Family!
❤I wish I could have used presence recently, it happened of course after the event . However this practice I will hope will align in the moment 😊😂
Always delivering beautiful messages, thank you Eckhart Tolle!!!
When two people are present a rational conversation is enjoyed by both parties regardless of whether they agree or disagree with each other. When two egos exchange inflexible conditioned opinions confrontation and bad feeling is inevitable. In the words of of Frankie Goes To Hollywood " when two egos go to war" 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, I hope to see you in Basel next week ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
It's easier to practice presence while listening or watching TV or video. It takes more effort to be present while talking. One can start listening to their own voice while talking. It takes time.
Rumi said; "Beyond wright or wrong there is a place where we can meet.
Thank you!! That’s was so helpful and something I definitely struggle with!!! lol so easy to be present when you are alone, but when speaking I have found I lose myself a lot. So again Thank you for ❤
I have been practicing all the practices suggested by Eckhart, but remaining present during interaction is not yet achieved. This is the most difficult task. But Thank you Eckhart for these immensely powerful techniques. ❤
I am with you. I still find myself being lost in the words and waking up to awareness mid argument like Eckart described. It is good to know that waking up to presence is part of the process of presence and hopefully with more practice we will be in that state more often.
Wooohooo
Thanks Eckhart! 💜
I call this not listening ,amazingly true,they do not understand this.
Can anyone tell me something? I have been reading The Power of Now for a few days and also practicing the teachings of this book, and something happened to me. Like, for 15 to 20 minutes, I felt like that I have actually accessed or cracked what Eckhart was saying. I was actually living in the present for 15 to 20 minutes. I felt extremely relaxed, and I could hear the silences under the noises. I've never felt like that. It felt very weird, but also very good. But it lasted for only 15 to 20 minutes, and then it went away. And after that, something happened. I was just resting, just lying on my bed. And I had a feeling like vertigo. So, I'm confused. Is it possible that after you feel something like that, like an awakening experience, can your body feel different?
I have found some awakened folks appear to use it for the world and some seem to use it for unconditional love. Ie. Not manipulation. Could you explain this? Like the essence of being for love versus labeling witchcraft and hidden things...control...
Also, is telepathy reserved for awakened people? Would love for you to touch on these . Funny, when I asked a question before a video just manifested into my feed with the answer!
Thank you Master 🙏🏼
This is emmensly helpful Eckhart. Thank you!
Many thanks!
Thank you.
I've been experiencing lost presence 😂❤toot toot
is it possible to attend to your words , you are not your body AND you are not your mind , so let that which attends , attend either to your body or your words , words would be next level dude , what is the distinction between attending and awareness and memory dude
Lütfen türkçe altyazı seçeneği ekleyin.
Lütfen...❤❤❤
THANK YOU ECKHART JUST WHAT I NEEDED CONFIRMED ❤❤❤❤
Keep coming back
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감사합니다 사랑합니다 선생님 🙏 🌎 🩵
Thankyou😊🙏💚
Lütfen türkçe altyazı seçeneği ekleyin.
Lütfen...
Gurdjieff also called it "self remembering". So many have seen. Sometimes words used are similar but not always. Whatever is useful is good.
Thank you
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Thank you ❤
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Hi
That's a keeper.
Hoarders are a great example of someone that is identifying their egoic self thru objects. Trying to help someone declutter their hoarding situation is such a strange manifestation of the ego. They seem possessed by their mental position in spite of knowing intuitively it doesn’t make any sense. It’s an identity they created that’s attached to things to validate their mantras. Interesting & peculiar how diluted the ego develops 🤨
Thank you for sharing ❤
Lütfen türkçe altyazı seçeneği ekleyin.
Lütfen......
Extremely helpful ! Thank you! ❤
beautifully expressed !!!!
Yes😊 after 30+ yrs as a priest
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Thank you for sharing dear Eckhart 🙏👍
آیا شما میدانید کتابهای شما در ایران هم چاپ شده و در ایران هم از آموزه های معنوی شما استفاده میشود
Thanks a lot
How can I sense the presence within the other person when I'm speaking to my sadistic narcissist dad who feels like an empty husk of a human without feelings?
superb
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Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $155,000 every three months and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah❤️🙌🏾
That sounds Good, I hope you won't mind telling me how to go about making that much??
Thanks to Ms. Elizabeth Ann Larson
Wow I'm just shocked you mentioned (Elizabeth Ann Larson) I thought I'm the only one trading with her.
I'm surprised that this name is being mentioned here, I stumbled upon one of her clients testimony on CNBC news last week.
Same here, I met Elizabeth Ann Larson last year for the first time at a conference in Manchester, after then my family changed for good. God bless Elizabeth
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Gratitude, 🎉Dearest Eckhart 👏💖💕🙏
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I could have said that but in my voice lol my dad has a cough et
I keep working on that but last time i lost it while facing a false accusation. I had the calm to notice while being angry i was a little haooy to be abe to come back to myself faster than before.
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DEEEEEP 😉
this is a tough one for me, it can be hard to stay present when people test you and push boundaries.
staying present talking to our unconscious parents or spouses will be the biggest challenge 😂😂
It's better to keep quiet if one has nothing beautiful to say
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When you talk are you able to remember your own presence?🙏🏼
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speeding up the Eckhart videos as the video editor does is a complete contradiction to all the Eckhart techings
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With respect, Eckhart, you have a blind spot in your understanding of the human condition. There is an enormous splinter in heart of the body-mind of most human beings in the West today - early childhood neglect and its impact on right-brain development, which is the source of the “sense of lack” and “overwhelm” that persist in human beings. I’m not denying that discovering true nature is the eventuality, but not before repairing the right-brain through coregulation with an empathetic other. There’s a reason why non-dual teachings are not gaining traction in the population, because while you are providing some measure of empathetic coregulation for your students, it is inadequate and may be causing as much harm as good. You had a difficult childhood and are using the misinformed concept of a “pain body” to explain away the reality of emotional dysregulation born of right-brain impairment. I suspect most religions, including non-dual teachings, were born out the childhood developmental problems that humans have historically experienced. Now we finally have the science to help guide humanity. We both know that the truth can never be spoken, and that you are driven to attempt to speak it is, ultimately, misguided. The truth is naturally “heard” if the brain is not experiencing the “noise” of a dysregulated brain. Please watch and read all the content of the psychoanalyst Erica Komisar and also the research of Dr. Allan Schore. Love
That's because this topic he's speaking about is not on the subject of healing the, what I call the emotional-body. And, he actually do not have a specific healing process for what he calls, the pain body.
Israel
You will never know yourself .. that’s a self too
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the people who operate Eckhart Tolle’s youtube channel are obnoxious
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Great advice 😊
Thank you
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