Im currently going through the medical abortion & it’s literally making me so sad and terrified because I don’t want the abortion but I know it’s best for me in my situation:( bless all you women going through this
Yeee Yeee I’m just now seeing this, If you haven’t already told him I pray you figure out what’s best and what you want to do proceeding..this was my second abortion the first time was when I was 15 and I got the surgical procedure this time that it happened I decided on the pill because I thought it would be less traumatic but I was wrong. At least for me, everyone’s different but I wouldn’t not recommend the pill..yes the surgical procedure will not be painless but it happens in a matter of minutes and you don’t deal with all the bleeding that comes along with the pill I have still been spotting and I had taken the pill May 27th. Also depending how far along you are you have to realize you will be getting rid of the pregnancy on your own with the pill and so didn’t think it would be as hard as it was but it will change you and it’s difficult i’ve been dealing with nightmares and I’m not trying to scare you but I urge you to just do what’s best for you and in my case I didn’t know what was best for me I was scared and sad and a million other things. I pray you have strength during this time in your life !
this video actually made me cry I'm going through the same thing. I just want to say thank you for sharing such a personal topic, you have no idea the amount of respect I have for you because it takes courage, its easy to watch and judge like most people do. you make me feel secure in the decision I've made. thank you so much.
I’m so glad this video could give you some sort of reprieve. You are not alone and shouldn’t be made to feel shameful of your decision. I hope you are able to find peace and contentment with whatever you decide.
I got pregnant my freshman as well. I couldn't go through with getting abortion so I kept mines. We all make choices that we feel are best. The bottom line is no matter what option you choose it is still going to be a tough journey. There will still be nights you cry and nights you wonder but don't let that rob you of your peace. Glad you healed from it and have move forward.
I went through it for the first time yesterday. I'm 47. It's awful. I was in the hospital. They didn't prepare me for the pain. After the pill I went into so much pain I thought I was going to die. Sadly I did it because I couldn't afford the baby. My life will never b the same. I needed to tell someone. Thanks for your video. It helped a lot
@Carolina Stylez I hope it will happen for you too. I'm not sure that everything happens for a reason. I understand people believing it, personally I don't have that kinda of faith. I don't understand God but I'm certainly not mad at him. Thanks for being so kind. I don't talk about this event with anybody for various reasons. I really appreciate it and I'm sending blessings and love to you too. It means a lot
This comment section is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your stories. I don't feel so alone. This is a subject that makes you feel like you're the only one because nobody talks about it.
I also had a medication abortion it went pretty fast for me! I am a freshman in college and I was surprised that I was pregnant..but my boyfriend and I knew we weren't ready to be parents so we both decided this was the best for us. I do have my doubts but ultimately I want my future children to have both parents to be financially stable and ready I feel so much better hearing your story because I know I'm not alone
Are you sure about that? You may repent really bad! I'm very worried about you! My friend took the abortion pill and now she's totally destroyed and wants her baby back! Alternatives exist! PS Here's the UA-cam channel of a pro-life gynecologist. Please please consider what he says. ua-cam.com/users/drlile
@@agapelykos9624 Yes, im sure. It's been two days since I took the pill and my only regret was not taking it sooner. I feel bad I had to do this but unfortunately, this was my only/best alternative considering my circumstances. It's painful but the meds really help. I can't wait till this is over so I can resume my life
@@maryjanedelgado3736 So after I took the first pill I didn't bleed I just started to get mild cramps on and off. After I dissolved the 4 other pills between my gums is when the bleeding and intense pain started. The first 3-4 days were the worst for me. It's like a period with extra blood, extra cramps, and clotting. The pain would come in waves and it hurt so bad I didn't want to move. Also the antibiotics made me nauseous so I only ate soups or nothing at all. But as time went on things got easier! I got my appetite back and there was fewer cramps and clots. It's been over a week since I took the pills and I'm still bleeding but no more than an average period. I hope this helps!
Hi love!! Freshman year was horrible for all of us!!! I'm sorry we weren't all close enough to comfort you at that time!!! But I'm glad you shared your story!! You're helping so many people. Sending hugs and kisses your way.
I cried through this whole video. I’m having my abortion tomorrow and I haven’t talked to anybody except for my partner. Thank you for this, it felt like i was talking to a friend sharing their experience ❤️
@@Hhhrr656 hi! i’m a day after my abortion and it was honestly one of the hardest, painful yet necessary and reliving things i’ve ever had to do. if you want to talk about it don’t hesitate to reach out my insta is @raggedrookie ❤️
I really appreciate this. I'm currently going through the same thing. It is Truly the hardest and worst time of my life. Im filled with regret and sadness, I don't know how I'm going to be able to move past thing. Thank you again for being so brave.
Make the decision for yourself and keep your reasoning in mind anytime you begin to feel sadness or regret. No matter what you decide, remember you did what was best for you. I hope everything works out for the best. 💞
Very sad. I had a miscarriage at 6 werks and could already recognize my precious baby and felt its life inside me. My miscarriage shattered me. Abortion is murder . PERIOD
It is incredibly painful and the time period that it’s incredibly painful for varies with each woman. Thank you for posting this more women need to talk about this with each other
It is so refreshing to see a brave woman share the reality of a medical abortion. There is so much faulty information out there and even from "reliable" websites.
I’m 21 and recently got pregnant. When I first found out I had a feeling I was pregnant already so it didn’t come as a surprise when I took a test and it came out positive. I had symptoms like nausea & vomiting every single day, I couldn’t keep any of my food down while I was pregnant. It was a nightmare from beginning to end, I threw up multiple times through out my days & nights. I was also bedridden for a while due to pregnancy and I have to say I give more respect to women after going through all this. I already knew I was going to get an abortion so I didn’t rly think much of all this and had my mind set on everything already and didn’t think twice about anything. I was already super sick and bedridden from just being pregnant, when I finally decided to get an abortion I decided to go for the abortion pill method... I am going to say this is my 2nd day taking my 2nd dosage of the abortion pills and I have been experiencing the worst symptoms ever. I have never ever cramped as much and as hard as I did today... the pain that came with this was unbearable and was very unexpected, it caught me by surprise. I didn’t know what to do with myself being in so much pain, I didn’t know whether to cry or punch my stomach it was severe, severe pain... I’m also bleeding like sooo much when I stood up one time I went completely light headed and nearly fainted. Ladies the pain we endure during our lifetime is unfair and I give you all my respect. I have no idea how I would feel going a full 9 months of being pregnant... I had rly bad nausea and I can’t go anywhere without throwing. Idk if it’s because I’m a weak person but this has been HELL! And I am beyond ready to get my life back. This pregnancy was not in my agenda, it has beaten me to my core and swallowed me up into a hole. This has been the hardest thing I’ve ever been through and with no one to talk too or hold. Situations like this make me grateful for health when I get it back. I was only 5 weeks pregnant and endured the worst symptoms from pregnancy and the abortion pills. Tonight I have to take my 3rd and final abortion pills and I just hope those horrible, horrible cramps don’t come back again because it made me sooo nauseous I threw up twice from the pain. I don’t wish this on anyone not even my worst enemy. Sorry for long comment I needed to air out a little. I’m just glad I can go to UA-cam and watch girls go through similar situations as I am going through and it doesn’t feel as lonely like this.
Hi Emily, your symptoms sound very similar to mine. I'm 5 weeks and I'm in bed with pain most of the time. Im scheduled to take the first pill next week. I am also very set on my decision and my partner has been with me through the whole thing so its nice to not be doing this alone. I'm very scared about the pain. What you described is exactly what I'm terrified about. Do you have any suggestions to make it as smooth as possible. I wanna just feel normal again. Honestly, I don't know how someone can feel like this for 9 months. Nausea all day, light headed, unable to eat most things, smells are horrible, extremely tired, and at one point I had difficulty breathing. All of this only at 5 weeks, no thank you, even if I wanted the pregnancy I could not deal with feeling this horrible for so long.
I am so sorry you are currently going through this. It took me 2 days to finally feel like myself again after going through with the abortion. I recommend to intake THC IF you already do... it reallyyy helped out with my nausea almost instantly. Do yourself a favor by taking ibuprofen or whatever they prescribed for pain BEFORE you take the abortion pills. I really hope your abortion goes as smooth as possible... some girls experience slight cramping, others experience strong cramps & nausea it’s always different for everyone... I hope you are one of those girls that experience slight cramping, but like I said take pain meds BEFORE the abortion pill it’ll help out a lot with the pain & before you know it you’ll be back to normal & more grateful to be healthy again. :)) Good luck, stay strong 💋 this is a reposted comment... guess it never posted?!STAY STRONG GIRLY’S!
@@temyaherring1632 was it as painful as they say it is? Im going for it next week and i’m getting kinda scared after reading all these stories about how bad the pain was :(
This video is so needed... I felt so much for you and I am happy things are better for you now. I have such crazy respect watching this and seeing you speak on such an important topic that so many women go through silently. Thank you so much.
It’s comforting to hear someone else with conflicting feelings - knowing you don’t want it but still being depressed about having the abortion. It’s confusing and makes you question if the decision you make is what you really want. Super difficult choice because there are so many feelings involved.
Thank you so much... I know it was hard making this video, but honestly there are so many people going though the same thing. I feel like just listening to someone else's story helps and guides you through your hard times...
I could tell, even though you were smiling, that the experience wasn't easy to speak on. I hope you weren't hard on yourself by the decision. Sometimes we tend to listen to the inner voice that barrages within our psyche, the "you should have done this and not that" type stuff. Thank you for sharing your story. Much love.
it’s currently 1:44 in the morning & im watching these videos on medical abortions and people’s experience and let me say ive never been more scared in my life.. my boyfriend and i just aren’t ready but it’s the most responsible choice we could’ve made right now. im currently 7 weeks & 5 days, my fetus is the size of a blueberry.
Im sorry this is something you have to experience. Do what you need to do for you and your sanity. Meditate on it and become content with whatever decision you make. I hope everything works out for the best
Why does it take y'all getting pregnant and killing babies for no reason to start being careful. Be careful in the beginning and you probably won't have to worry about that. (Condoms break, but you DON'T have to have sex) Use protection every single time or don't have sex (100% effective)
Please people, before you comment watch the entire video and prepare yourself for an actual conversation. Throwing your opinions at me or only wanting to get your point across won't work on me. Also be sure that your comprehension skills are at least at an 8th grade level.
Hey is it possible for you to tell me how long after u took the pills before u actually passed out the fetus? And did u like actually feel it? Sorry for asking such a weird question
Ok thank you. Because Im actually going through the process now myself and even though everyone's body is different I want to know when to like look out for it
What they won't tell about these pills is how much WORSE they can be then the actual surgery. And they aren't always effective, I felt like I nearly was gonna lose my life with these pills.
I should've mentioned that they told me it was a possibility the pills wouldn't work. I was more worried about missing school and my family finding out so I just took the pills and went back to Virginia for school. Im sorry you had to experience that too.
Tanja Ta Am sorry what is name of the abortion pill am in college too and by badluck things have gone wrong I regret it o🙌🏼🙌🏼😭😭😭😢 SO PLEASE JUST I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF PILLS YOU USED AM IN CHINA HERE AND THINGS ARE ARE🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🤦🏼♀️🙇🏼♀️ please o and God will bless you
@@backtoblack2959 Because it is profitable there are not many doctors willing to do abortions. Pills are faster to dispense and they don't have to deal with the clean up. I am sure some women can psychological get them selves to take the pill but not have surgery because It's (naively) just a pill. Also abortion is a political/social sacrament for some and limiting any type of access to anyform of Abortion goes against the agenda safety isn't a priority.
Wow you are very brave for sharing such this personal story with us, thank you. I'm a guy but the way you described the story I almost felt like I was going through emotions with you. I imagined being very shocked, afraid, and just sick to my stomach of the unknown. This had to be a traumatizing experience for you but I'm glad you have healed and learned from the situation. This could definitely help someone else going to college as a freshman and maybe taking measures to prevent themselves from being put in a situation. :)
I’m currently going through it right now. I’ve never been so scared and terrified in my life. It’s very painful and i think i’m stressing my body out to the max.
Hi, I support women who are struggling post abortion. There is a huge stigma around the mental health effects after experiencing an abortion. If you find yourself in need of guidance/healing please contact us at www.exhalepostabortionhealing.weebly.com or exhalelifecoach@gmail.com.
Laying here at 1 AM watching videos about this because I’m nervous like everyone else. I’ve already had it done but it is very painful and draining. I opted for a medication abortion, and they sent me home with the pills themselves and pain meds. Girl, I did not mentally prepare myself for this at all, the pain is so much worse than period cramps, the amount of blood you lose is crazy and somewhat scary. I highly recommend preparing yourself to be in a lot of pain, and to be pretty high and drowsy from the pain meds. They’re starting to wear off for me, and instead of continuing to take them , I’m gonna switch to regular IB and hot water bottles. The hot water bottles are your best friend during this, stg.
@@ψυχή-τ7ξ thanks I guess? I actually am very depressed about getting rid of my kid, I was just trying to talk about my experience in case another girl my age has to do this as well. But I respect your opinion and I do wish I could’ve kept it.
@@nightinterludes1126 That person is the reason I implore you to be kind to yourself in this time, you already have people being evil as is. Ignore their words and continue to heal
I'm going on Tuesday.. I'm an anxious person as it is, I've had anxiety my entire life and one crazy situation will trigger my anxiety and I will just start pacing, throwing up, sweating crying and it doesn't stop until I get the problem solved. I've never been pregnant before, I was completely caught off guard when I didn't get my period and now I have been in complete panic for a day and a half, I have an apt scheduled for Tuesday morning it's Sunday night and I just want all of this to be over with. I'm so sick to my stomach I'm clamy I'm confused. I'm so so scared to take the pills. I pray for all the women in these comments and for you for making this video bc it really is helping girls like me. I'll continue to pray for all women, I have a new found respect for mothers (I always have) it just hits different now. We're not alone man🥺 if anyone sees this comment within the next few days PLEASE PLEASE comment back to me and give me tips for the pill I'm so scared for the bleeding and the pain. I just wish it was easier for us. I feel so ashamed and lost. I just want a bit of peace🥺
@@odbrittany Thankyou so much ❤️ it's night 3 and I'm still feeling the pains but I'm not in a constant state of panic🥺 your video comforted me though and I appreciate you for sharing your story! ❤️ i hope I can finish recovering and move on! Stay strong 💓
Hey honey. I’m going through this also and I also have terrible anxiety. Thank god I was able to make an appointment for next day. I’m doing clinic abortion since I heard it was less painful but I may switch over to pills. This is very very unexpected for me I’m just glad I caught it early
@@Maria.Aurelia hey girl! Sorry for the late response 🥺 I hope you're healing and found some peace. I actually ended up doing the surgical one too because i explained to them I bleed quite a bit and I did NOT want to end up in the hospital so I just did the surgical and it hurt but it was over with, if you ever need to talk I can give you my Instagram ❤️❤️ stay strong Edit: I think the anxiety comes from being so caught off guard and realizing what's going on, I disassociated for those 3 days I had to wait for my apt, I also caught it super early 🫶
I got pregnant as a sophomore in college. I had my baby (a son who’s 2 now) but these videos were soooooo helpful to me in making my decision when I first saw that positive test. I just knew my life was over lol. Everything turned out great for me but you have to do what is best for your own life. Thank you so much for sharing such a difficult topic bc women have to have info from all sides to make a decision like this.
Her baby cried in pain as it detached from her uterus and starved to death. I think it's horrific. The baby comes out and you see it. A mother who took a pill and starved her own flesh and blood. Yes. Think about it all beforehand. Causing your child's death is forever.
Hi beautiful, thank you for sharing your story. I will be taking the pill here in the next week, and I needed to see from a personal experience. You’re probably the biggest blessing I’ve seen since I found out. Bless your doggies because dogs are the best too 💕💕
I went through this on Valentine’s Day. 2 weeks later I don’t regret my decision but it does linger in the back of my head. Honestly the experience was the worst pain I had ever felt, surpassing the time I had appendicitis. Everyone is different. Me and my best friend went through it together as she was pregnant as well. She also had severe cramping but I’m pretty sure mine was worse than hers. It was difficult to breathe, hard to think, hard to move for ~10 hours. Literally felt like there was the weight of a car on my uterus. I don’t know how else to describe the severity of the cramps. The next day was so much better though. Only had a couple of cramps and they were very mild. I bled for exactly 8 days. I was only 3 weeks though.
Thank you for sharing. Hearing other peoples stories is so helpful in situations like these. The emotional and physical toll this takes can be overwhelming & it's always good to know you aren't alone.
Girl I searched this cause I’m going through it , I’m a freshman in college took a pregnancy test with my bf and it came out pregnant within seconds and then I take the second one minutes after and it came out positive as well
Natalie Castro Oh girl, I just saw this , well I knew that this was the choice I wanted to do so I went for it and did it all by myself because I’m still living with parents it was painful , but it is different for everyone , the pain was so bad that when it stopped I fell asleep and woke up stained everywhere with pain, did you end up doing anything by the way?
I really appreciate this video. I’ve just taken the first pill and I’m due to take the second one today. I’m already bleeding and I’m already in a lot of pain, I’m super scared, so I’m going through and watching other women.
@@oneofakind_ it was rough honestly. I did it at my friends place just in case I needed someone to take me to the hospital. The cramping hit me so hard that it put me to sleep. It pain only lasted for 3 hours tops. After that, it was heavy bleeding and period like cramps
@@eliromero3490 hey are u alright now? Can u pls suggest me some tips that you did to release the pain? And can you pls share your whole experience.. im just so nervousness 😭
@@ramsha0205 someone on here recommended diapers and honestly it was a life saver. I wore a pad with the diaper cause it was so much bleeding. I felt a lot of pain when I took the last set of pills. If you work, I suggest taking the day you take the last set of pills off and the next day. If you can, do it at a friends house or someone you can confide in just in case things go south. As for the pain, They give you a high dose of ibuprofen so that should help you out. I took the last set of pills on April 28th. I bled for maybe 2 weeks. And I recently started bleeding again on Jun 3rd and it hasn’t stopped. It’s not too much, it’s like a light period with no cramps. You might bleed from 6-8 weeks after it has passed so don’t be alarmed. They give you a packet explaining what to do and what to look out for. The pain did last me a few hours. I threw up the ibuprofen so it didn’t digest and the pain ended up putting me to sleep. But when I woke up the pregnancy had passed. I highly highly recommended diapers and pads. Let me know if you have any more questions. I’m more than happy to answer.
thank you for sharing your story. i’m sorry you went through this. this helped so many people, myself included. i believe i am making the right choice for myself as well. thank you again for sharing.
My first pregnancy in 2014 I found out it did not have a heartbeat I was 8 weeks.I was given an abortion pill to make it come out. I was soo hurt because I wanted my baby... I had my oldest almost 2yrs after that in 2016. In 2017 I miscarried 2 separate pregnancies at 8 weeks. In 2018 I had my youngest born with a heart defect but she is doing amazing. ( this baby was a surprise because I did not know I was pregnant and I was supposedly 4 and a half months not showing and had fully period I did not know how far along at the time when I felt something I wanted an abortion that I said no!! I can't she's to far along and I couldn't bare do that to her we didn't find out she had a heart defect till I was 7 months along they told me to abort her because she would die I immediately said no! She's now 3 and strong as ever!!. Now I'm pregnant 6 weeks and getting an abortion. And I'm sooo sad this baby was not planned and I have a health condition that can cause the baby to misscary or come out with complications. In order for me to have another it needs to be planned and I my health has to be good too. That is my reason for this choice its hurts so much it really does.. if I could have the baby I would! But I wouldn't want it to suffer. Me and my husband are so heart broken with this decision but it has to be done. I never wanted to go this route. I had an iud and took plan b but it somehow did not work. That is what shocked us most... You are not alone when it comes to abortion things happen for a reason.. our angels are watching over us. Many hugs to all of you.
I’m getting an abortion on Friday and I’m so scared. Knowing I’m not alone and watching this video has made me feel so much better. Thank you for sharing your story.
I had an arbortion few years ago wit a pill i got in trinidad not sure of the name but i took 2 for the first hour an another 2 within the next hour an i thank god i had a safe arbortion wit no pain until the nxt day which was slight
@FastFox Basel Qawasmi Are you an idiot.? LMAO. Does having a baby, and it starves cause your broke save the baby EITHER? NO. Abortion saves many children from suffering and ending up depressed, abused, starved, homeless. And when you find out you are pregnant late there may already be damages that are irreversible, Many woman can't carry children and will die if they try, leaving the child an orphan. There are a million and one reasons why abortions are necessary. Mind your penis and get out of this comment section.
Gurl my heart goes out to u. Like I was in the same position as u like two months back. My boyfriend and I had broken up for a week when I found out that I'm pregnant. Shit went down when I told him . life was hell during those times . I'm glad that's all over rynna.
This was such a helpful and important video. In my experience, I honestly thought that I could not get knocked up because I had sex with this one guy I was seeing so many times, yet I had never gotten pregnant. I actually thought my female parts were broken inside since I never came out pregnant. That is, not till one day when I started to feel strange and achy body symptoms, and my body's hormones started affecting me really bad. My period was acting strange and it was starting to wean off and came down extremely light and then dark brown. I kind of had my suspicions, but brushed them off attributing it to maybe I was just very late, or under major stress. After waiting a bit too long and feeling like major harmoneal shit, I decided to buy a pregnancy test from the dollar store to confront my doubtful fears. Sure enough I was 100% knocked Up! I was still in denial thinking that maybe the test was fake because it came from the dollar store or was inaccurate. So I made an appointment n went to my gynecologist and yup, she confirmed that I really was prego! I know for a fact that I could not keep my mini-child because the guy I was messing around with, was definitely not somebody that I wanted to stay with. Not to mention that I was not financially stable at all. I just had to make the immediate choice to go thru with an abortion. I went for the medical abortion. Took three different pills and waited. Within 20 minutes, hell begun. For me, it was the worst painful experience of my life! Before I knew it, I was sitting on the toilet trying to pass an small embryo blood clot. It was pure pain and torture, that this girl never wants to experience again!! Ladies, As much as we feel guilty for having to make this tough decision, it is basically up to us and only us! No one has the right to tell us if we should keep it or not. Only you know in the long run problems you may have raising a child, or why it's not the right time to have a child. Many factors come into play whether it's financial, emotional, physical, or any kind of circumstances. I 100% support any females who make that decision to terminate a pregnancy for their own rightful reasons. Much love and understanding to you ladies going through this tough time 💘💘💘
@@leethya8485 I'm not sure if you meant what kind of pills did I take, but I had to go to an abortion clinic to get them. Doctor there prescribed three different pills for me to go and purchase. I went and got them from the Walgreens pharmacy. I also purchased a heating pad, lots of water and bought the pain killer pills for the after effects of the abortion he prescribed to me as well.
Let us not normalize our wicked ways it is not hypocrisy to correct someone not to fall in the same sin we had been committed.🙏😞🤲🏻 I beg you not to fall into this scheme. Whatever the reason I am telling you 😔😭🙏🤲🏻 Ibeg you not to do it. we all can easily justify things when we what to lead our ways please you are precious like the life you carry into your womb 😞
Girl omg this is almost my exact situation 🤦🏽♀️ except my partner is an amazing guy and at first thought ofc I wanted to terminate and I’m not in any way financially ready for a child but as time passed waiting for my doctors appointment I started having second thoughts and this is the most difficult decision I’ve ever made in my entire life and it’s hard and I just feel so alone and I just feel like I’ll make the wrong decision.. my brain and my heart are always fighting each other but this helped me a lot thank you for sharing your story❤️❤️
Hi Britt!! I just came across this.. it helped a lot I had my abortion on Sunday and it is the worst pain I have ever felt in my entire life...I'm still pushing with the pains tho I hope it ends soon
I gotten an abortion when I was 20. I was living with my boyfriend at the time and wasn’t on birth control. Me and my bf had just gotten back together after breaking up. And I felt betrayed with what he did during the break up and other stuff as well. So I was really scared about being pregnant at a young age. I’m in college and wanted to finish my degree. My goal is to have my own career and a house, be married then have a baby. So since I was no where near that I decided to have an abortion. Till this day I’m very hurt about it. Me and the supposed to be dad aren’t together anymore which hurts even more. It makes me realize that I probably made the right decision. Especially since the dad broke up with me afterwards when we both made the decision to do so. I do sometimes think I should’ve kept the baby, my baby.. but I already made the decision. I would just say really think about keeping the baby. I made a selfish decision. And now I believe God puts a baby in you for a reason 💞
I have the pills right now and I'm nervous. When I went to the clinic and got the ultrasound I had a sack but it was empty. It was written that I had no yolk. So hopefully I see no embryo and that its not as bad
12:30 ... I respect you for going through this and sharing your story Queen👑 Your Crown is still perfectly placed on your head, now continue to shine☀️
I have a daughter I had when I was 19. I am pregnant now however the baby has many many issues that could actually cause me to get very ill as well. I made the choice to have a medical abortion it's the hardest decision I've ever had to make I go in soon for the procedure. Watching so many others doing well a medical abortion helps a lot but I still hold so much guilt and heartache.
Im sorry you have to go through this. Remind yourself that this is the best option for the situation you've been put in. I hope you find peace and the ability to get through.
Wildly Brittish I just wanted to say how grateful I am that you shared your story. I went through with my medical abortion with so much support from family friends and my doctors. Without this video I honestly do not think I would have been able to do it. Sharing a story makes others know they are not alone.
Annie 53 Hi Annie 53. I just was wondering how you are doing. I saw your post today. Idk why but lately I’ve been watching a lot of people sharing their stories about their experiences with abortion. I just prayed for you and hope that God gives you peace in your heart no matter what decision you make. He loves you so much. Nothing can separate you from His love: not even a choice you have to make that you might regret. Jesus knows your heart and He has your life already planned. Give Him your heart; let Him help you. He will guide you and direct your path.
I’m going through this now … I would of never took the pill if I knew it would of first and foremost come with cramps like this ….. none of the meds work … I feel like I’m on my death bed … it’s worst than actually having a baby … on top of seeing the actual baby come out … seeing the arms , the head … no one told me this. I was very creeped out … I’ll never have another abortion after experiencing this
I'm 19 right now, and I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant. It's been 8 days from when I was supposed to get it. My period is very consistent so ik something's wrong. I took a test this morning, and it came up positive. I've only been dating my bf for a few months. I'm so scared to tell my mom. I do want an abortion, but now I'm rethinking the pill. I'm terrified right now and I felt like I need to find stories so I feel a little better 😟 Thank you for sharing your experience
I got pregnant recently and decided to terminate for many reasons... I mostly felt stupid for allowing it to happen. My husband came in me when I was fertile as hell... yet somehow I believed we wouldn't get pregnant. We were sloppy for years and got overly confident we'd be ok. Nope. Found out I was pregnant when I missed my period. Panic set in asap and I knew I was going to end it. I kept telling my husband "WHY didn't I just get the plan B?" I used the suction method. The pill scares me.
I'm 5 weeks pregnant and I'm going to get aborted surgically. I'm 20 and I feel like I've a career to make and become stable financially. We're strong women and nothing can stop us from achieving our goals even with a lil baby! It's a crazy phase of my life. I'm sure I'll get through it. Sending love to all the women out there❤️
If you're anti-choice please move along. Watching videos that go against your morals is insane. & I cannot be bullied into submission or guilt. You will be blocked if you harass anyone in my comments.
life is more than sex and killing children sis. God is the Judge. Ending a life means blood on your hands and you and others need to repent. Praying for you ladies. Sex is responsibility not a license to kill. May you all get to know the living God--Jesus Christ.
@@leslieblanco3536 OR you could mind the business of what directly impacts your life. Monitor your vagina. You clearly ignored everything in the comment you’re replying to
It took me a min to find this video again. about 2 years ago I watched this video because I was in the same situation as' a freshman in college and I had just got pregnant. I watched this video when I was looking to find some sort of community for what I was going through. I'm glad I found this video when I needed it' it helped me so much' its honestly a core memory I have when I was going through it. I appreciate you sharing your story because you made me feel I can too.
Im going to be 5 weeks when I have my appt next week... I have a son but I still live at home, I made a stupid mistake with my sons father, and I ended up getting pregnant.. it’s the hardest choice for me but it is best for me. Prayers and love to you all.
Hey . I’m going through the same . I have a 20 month old daughter and I made a mistake with her father and now I’m like 5 weeks and days pregnant . I’m thinking about doing the pill but I am so scared. And Is the part when the fetus passes through that is going to fuck my head up! 😣💔
Life and babies are NEVER a mistake! Please, give those little lives a chance! ****** They are already babies, not simple clumps of cells. In fact, science _does_ prove that fetuses are human beings.
So sorry you had to go through this. My gf is going through this painful experience right now :( and I'm not able to be with her currently.. because we are in a LDR. I keep praying everyday for her health and the peace of our child. We were kind of aware of the pain and trauma she and also i would have to go through.. she was so scared and didn't have much money and support in her city to perform a surgical abortion. So she chose to go for medical.. Took the second pill today. She was in terrible pain the entire day. She's very alone without any frnds and a mom who is very verbally abusive and stress inducing, i met her when i went to her place. Her mom kind of liked me as a person, so i just told her to take care of her, we didn't tell her the truth yet. But she doubts obviously. :( I hope everything works out without any need for surgery or more medications, because i can't go back to her so soon. If she needs me, f*k it I'll risk everything and go be there. But i hope she doesn't need me :( Im on vdo call with her at all times and even a slight sound or a text and I'm up and consoling her. She's not in a sad state of mind atleast, but i can't stop thinking... Why did she have to go through this terrible experience alone :( i want to be there for her. Anyone reading this... Please pray for her successful abortion and speedy recovery.
Thank you for sharing your story! I am getting one tomorrow and all I’ve done is watch videos about others experiences and their emotions to just prepare myself so thank you x
Taylor Wilson am sorry wat is the pill name PLEASE I THINK BY BADLUCK SOMEONE HAS FALLEN AS A VICTIM PLEASE 🙇🏼♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🤦🏼♀️😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢 just the name please
I didn't diss u for your choices but here s my story...i was 40.. married. .. already had 2 boys and was diabetic. The son before this pregnancy weighed 10 pounds five ounces. I knew i was in for a rough ride and i wanted an abortion. I went so far as to drive to the clinic but when i got in there it was a terrible place. They had security and locking mechanisms on the doors like a jail and security gaurds present. To make matters worse it stank like a slaughterhouse which is pretty much what it was to me. Being the only grown woman there was even worse....it seemed like i was surrounded by a group if 16 and 17 year olds some if whom we're in tears. I went alone. When they called my name i apologized to the receptionist and walked out. Seven months and a couple if thousand shots of insulin later i gave birth to a ten pound 15 ounce baby girl who is now 21.. i thought i knew myself but when push came to shove i found i didn't know myself as well as u thought i did....
That's your experience, I see no diss in sight. I'm glad you had the outcome that you did. That's just not how my experience was, which is why our outcomes are different.
I'm currently 7 weeks pregnant. I found out at 5 weeks, my parents have been pressuring me to get an abortion. My bf and I have been together for 5 years, we're in a great place rn and we were excited until my parents reaction. I thought that because my mom had me when she was 18 that she would understand but she doesn't want this cause it's too much for her to handle wtc etc. I'm in senior year of college, but my bf doesn't have a job. He has been trying to find one but bc of the pandemic, it's been hard in our country. We're gonna have to face a huge economic crisis veey soon and I just feel like I have no other option. My bf's family have been very supportive and they're excited and I'm just torn because, even though this pregnancy wasn't planned we were looking forward to it. And we wanted to work as hard as we could to be able to go through this bit the fact that my family's been pressuring me and doesn't even consider me having a baby, I just feel torn. I don't know what I should do bc I can't please everyone. I know this has tp be about me. I'd have the baby but I can't support it financially on my own. And my bf's situation only makes it worse... I was holding on to hope that he'd get a job and I could go against my parents and his income would cover the baby's expenses but the clock is ticking and I feel like I have no choice... (in my country we can only have abortions until the 10th week) I know I'm gonna be completely ruined afterwards because I feel like I've been pressured into making this decision instead of doing what I really wanted... I'm gonna break his parents heart and my heart because I have no support from my family...
You should do what you feel is best for you. You sound like keeping the baby is what you want, do that. Never let anyone pressure you into something you don't want, especially something that has such a huge impact on your life. Forget pleasing everyone, please yourself and hold onto those who support your decision. There's nothing worse than doing something you don't want because it'll naw at you forever.
No because I hadn't felt any symptoms before taking the test then all of a sudden I was throwing up every single day, I can't eat nothing. My work was telling me I couldn't keep calling out. Like this shit is horrible
Recently had an abortion & I feel so guilty about it & I wish I wouldn’t have. I still support abortion but ladies please be 100% sure on your decision once it’s done it’s done.
@@odbrittany thank u love u tooooo I was tlkin to this dude that tried to play me n we knew each other since teenhood n we was jst tlkin not in a relationship but he tried to play me dating he not sure its his kno good damn well we wuz up under each other's noses only for 2mnths str8 smfh
I had the medical abortion today I’m literally laying here in so much pain contractions and blood clots coming out 😩 i don’t know what to do it hurts so much
I had an abortion. I was newly off birth control because my doctor told me to not be on it.. because I had failed eye surgery and have suffered with vision complications for years. I see double vision in dim light and am suffering from corneal neuralgia. Pregnancy puts me at risk to get corneal ectasia (go blind/ permanent vision loss and need cornea transplant ) I am only 22 and couldn’t take that risk. It has absolutely devestated me and made me depressed but I just know in my heart I did the best thing for myself and my life. I couldn’t be a parent and go blind and relearn my entire life with a newborn. One day, I will either adopt or I will take the risk if I ever feel it’s worth it. I often wonder if I had a missed miscarriage, though. All my pregnancy symptoms disappeared, I had severe cramping pain in intervals for the week prior to my abortion. It’s been hell but I am fighting.
I had an abortion but had surgery. I didn’t feel anything I was slightly sedated. I was scared but it didn’t go bad for me. I’m looking at this rn in a current pregnancy scare. I’m not sure if I’m pregnant just seeing how the pill went for you. I read bad things also at the time that’s why I opted for the surgery
I wish there was a way to connect young women dealing with unintended pregnancies to the older women who waited too long or just can't conceive, because I have to believe that there are many of us who would financially support a young lady through her pregnancy and arrange to legally adopt the baby. Private adoptions are one of the only ways to be able to adopt in a reasonable timeframe. Many women like me would do anything to have the gift of motherhood, but the adoption and foster systems are stacked against us. There really are not any babies or even young children available for adoption in my area in the U.S. If anyone reading this knows of a resource that connects adoptive parents to pregnant women and girls, please let me know. So far, my attempts to navigate this have been futile.
I’m currently about to get an abortion and I’m so scared but I don’t think I’m ready for another baby right now nor do my boyfriend. I found out today I was pregnant
I was Stepping to my 18, so basically 17, I got to know that I was pregnant. Trust me, I love kids so much like I always think Of myself as a mother of a daughter. Finding myself in a situation where I wanted to keep my child or not was terrible. I was a high school student back then so basically to afford the well-being of my child and also a secure future for mine would be too expensive as I had no source of earning from my end. I had a discussion with my Partner( at present My Ex) about what to do and honestly, we thought of a run-way plan but we weren't sure, so for the sake of our child and ours, we made our decision and am sorry I just can't spell that word in words...it hurts too much. The moment I saw my baby out of my body, like in my own bathroom, I can't say in words how terrified I was, I was crying, screaming silently...literally had no words...thank u for sharing your story dear. Because of You I don't feel like being the only one!
Thank you for this video. I just found out I was pregnant at home pregnancy test. Me and my partner are not ready for it. I wasn’t planning on having a baby anytime soon. I want to get the abortion pill done. Im just nervous about the process too. I was also crying for a while today. Its really hard to talk to people about abortions.
I definitely needed this video . 💕 thanks so much for helping girls like me . I have my abortion in a week and I don’t wanna do it .. but it’s best for me as well
I have a scheduled abortion tomorrow and I already have 4 kids. I can’t stop crying and looking at my other kids wondering if this is something I should do.. I need a support system because I am losing my mind. I never believed in abortions, that’s why I have 4 kids now but having 5 will take away so much from the kids I already have plus it’s with a man I’m not even dating💔 this is the hardest decision of my life🙏🏾
My partner has way way too much trauma and bitterness to be a good partner to me. Not a bad guy but does not know how to have a decent healthy relationship and I have given up hope on forcing it. He wants the baby so bad and is 100% against abortion which makes this so hard because I’d have to sneak and do it if I did. I just don’t know what to do😞
It is your body, you are the one that will have to carry it and experience all the changes that come with it. You and the child will be tied to him forever. Just make sure that whatever decision you make, it’s the best one for you. It’s the one you can live with. I hope everything works out for the best for you.
I have a partner who has a lot of trauma and bitterness as well. When I was pregnant he begged me to keep the baby. After I gave birth he was barely around. I was broken and confused for months. I’ll never carry a child with a man who isn’t capable of real love again.
Condom broke, used plan b and still two weeks later I get positive results. Today I’m terrified, I would have never wanted to be in this situation and it’s horrible. My appointment is in june 14 :(
Im not sure how it works now but when I took the pill they couldn’t give me an estimate for when I would pass the embryo. It took my body about 5-6 days to complete the process
HOLY BIBLE- 18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. 21 Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
I am about 4 weeks now with a baby. An my situation I don’t know what to do I already have 2 kids an was on the pill an missed a pill an my bf an I are not even close to ready for another baby. An I’m 31 now:( an I had an abortion 5 years ago . An regret . But now I’m in a loving relationship. But he doesn’t have a green card here in America
I truly commend you for sharing this video. Just by the # of views, u can see how many people you are helping. There aren't many videos like this on YT, and sometimes we come searching for ANYBODY that has been thru what we have when those close to us either won't understand or don't know what we're experiencing. 😘
Brittany's Room so true! I know I didn't understand until I experienced it. And exactly like you said, I was mad at myself for putting myself in the situation to feel like I had to make that choice. I struggle everyday with trying to forgive myself for that alone.
Brittany's Room thank you for responding I never thought you would! I’m most likely keeping the baby but my boyfriend and I can’t communicate at the moment which makes it somewhat difficukt
I have two beautiful babies, a 5year old and a 10month old. I lost twin boys at 23weeks in 2019. I suffered awfully bad with Hyperemesis. I’m 24 and honestly I’m so happy I came across this. You have no idea. You’re so strong girl. A huge congratulations on your baby! ❤️✨
“It wasn’t that I regretted my decision, I regretted that I put myself in that situation” whew!
A selfish and shameless killer.
I regret both.
@@millier9658 Imagine how the baby you killed feels
I understand
I understand ❤
Im currently going through the medical abortion & it’s literally making me so sad and terrified because I don’t want the abortion but I know it’s best for me in my situation:( bless all you women going through this
Rest and meditate 🙏🏾
I want to do that too but I’ve heard so many people saying it’s so painful I’m too scared and idk what to do I haven’t even told my bf
How many weeks were you?
Yeee Yeee I’m just now seeing this, If you haven’t already told him I pray you figure out what’s best and what you want to do proceeding..this was my second abortion the first time was when I was 15 and I got the surgical procedure this time that it happened I decided on the pill because I thought it would be less traumatic but I was wrong. At least for me, everyone’s different but I wouldn’t not recommend the pill..yes the surgical procedure will not be painless but it happens in a matter of minutes and you don’t deal with all the bleeding that comes along with the pill I have still been spotting and I had taken the pill May 27th. Also depending how far along you are you have to realize you will be getting rid of the pregnancy on your own with the pill and so didn’t think it would be as hard as it was but it will change you and it’s difficult i’ve been dealing with nightmares and I’m not trying to scare you but I urge you to just do what’s best for you and in my case I didn’t know what was best for me I was scared and sad and a million other things. I pray you have strength during this time in your life !
Denisse B I was 10 weeks :/
Sex isn’t even worth all the things us women go thru. In my opinion. You are so courageous. ❤
this video actually made me cry I'm going through the same thing. I just want to say thank you for sharing such a personal topic, you have no idea the amount of respect I have for you because it takes courage, its easy to watch and judge like most people do. you make me feel secure in the decision I've made. thank you so much.
I’m so glad this video could give you some sort of reprieve. You are not alone and shouldn’t be made to feel shameful of your decision. I hope you are able to find peace and contentment with whatever you decide.
Jesus loves you unconditionally and forgives❤️❤️❤️
@@lianakovalchuk3444 if you repent, He forgives. If you don’t you will perish
Shameless killer.
You're a monster, You murdered a baby (Your own child)
I got pregnant my freshman as well. I couldn't go through with getting abortion so I kept mines. We all make choices that we feel are best. The bottom line is no matter what option you choose it is still going to be a tough journey. There will still be nights you cry and nights you wonder but don't let that rob you of your peace. Glad you healed from it and have move forward.
I went through it for the first time yesterday. I'm 47. It's awful. I was in the hospital. They didn't prepare me for the pain. After the pill I went into so much pain I thought I was going to die. Sadly I did it because I couldn't afford the baby. My life will never b the same. I needed to tell someone. Thanks for your video. It helped a lot
@Carolina Stylez I hope it will happen for you too. I'm not sure that everything happens for a reason. I understand people believing it, personally I don't have that kinda of faith. I don't understand God but I'm certainly not mad at him. Thanks for being so kind. I don't talk about this event with anybody for various reasons. I really appreciate it and I'm sending blessings and love to you too. It means a lot
this is the kind of positivity you need. You are not looking down on people who made a different decision than you did, and that is so great
@Morgan All truth and sterilization
Ik ima have to make it up to myself but I’m not ready mentally or physically I been staying positive about it
This comment section is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your stories. I don't feel so alone. This is a subject that makes you feel like you're the only one because nobody talks about it.
I also had a medication abortion it went pretty fast for me! I am a freshman in college and I was surprised that I was pregnant..but my boyfriend and I knew we weren't ready to be parents so we both decided this was the best for us. I do have my doubts but ultimately I want my future children to have both parents to be financially stable and ready I feel so much better hearing your story because I know I'm not alone
Kayla vaughn What were your symptoms?
Was it as painful as most women say?
BossLady Hoffmann YESS it’s extremely painful... never again
Kayla vaughn please what is the name of your abortion pill you used PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢 PLEASE
Thank you... 4 years later and your video still managed to give me a little piece of mind
I’m glad this video could help, even if only a little. Remember to be kind to yourself and allow yourself time to heal.
Are you sure about that? You may repent really bad!
I'm very worried about you!
My friend took the abortion pill and now she's totally destroyed and wants her baby back!
Alternatives exist!
PS Here's the UA-cam channel of a pro-life gynecologist. Please please consider what he says.
ua-cam.com/users/drlile
@@agapelykos9624 Yes, im sure. It's been two days since I took the pill and my only regret was not taking it sooner. I feel bad I had to do this but unfortunately, this was my only/best alternative considering my circumstances. It's painful but the meds really help. I can't wait till this is over so I can resume my life
@@BeBeautifulxoxo I’m going through this , can you reply and tell me how the pain was , what you went through after you took the pills? Thank you
@@maryjanedelgado3736 So after I took the first pill I didn't bleed I just started to get mild cramps on and off. After I dissolved the 4 other pills between my gums is when the bleeding and intense pain started. The first 3-4 days were the worst for me. It's like a period with extra blood, extra cramps, and clotting. The pain would come in waves and it hurt so bad I didn't want to move. Also the antibiotics made me nauseous so I only ate soups or nothing at all. But as time went on things got easier! I got my appetite back and there was fewer cramps and clots. It's been over a week since I took the pills and I'm still bleeding but no more than an average period. I hope this helps!
Hi love!! Freshman year was horrible for all of us!!! I'm sorry we weren't all close enough to comfort you at that time!!! But I'm glad you shared your story!! You're helping so many people. Sending hugs and kisses your way.
I cried through this whole video. I’m having my abortion tomorrow and I haven’t talked to anybody except for my partner. Thank you for this, it felt like i was talking to a friend sharing their experience ❤️
I’m going through the same thing haven’t stopped crying yet I’m sending you positive vibes everything will be okay
I hope everything works out for the best. Give yourself time to heal mentally and physically
@@Hhhrr656 hi! i’m a day after my abortion and it was honestly one of the hardest, painful yet necessary and reliving things i’ve ever had to do. if you want to talk about it don’t hesitate to reach out my insta is @raggedrookie ❤️
@@Hhhrr656 i hope you’re doing okay as well! heating pad and ibuprofen!! they’re live savers
@@francescaklepatzky7449 did you do the pill
Its ALWAYS after taking the test ALL OF A SUDDEN all the symptoms wanna pop up 😂
Literally lol
dude forreal i started puking immediately after taking the test 😭
Like how does it even work like that, the mind is really a powerful tool
My symptoms actually went away when I found out. Maybe I blocked them out. Idk
Glad it's not just me!
I really appreciate this. I'm currently going through the same thing. It is Truly the hardest and worst time of my life. Im filled with regret and sadness, I don't know how I'm going to be able to move past thing.
Thank you again for being so brave.
Make the decision for yourself and keep your reasoning in mind anytime you begin to feel sadness or regret. No matter what you decide, remember you did what was best for you.
I hope everything works out for the best. 💞
i dont think killing a baby is brave....choosing life would've been brave. Praying for you girls though. CHoose wisely.
Leslie Blanco that’s easy to say for you, they have their own situations and circumstances
@@ForeverAlwayys3313 the moment you make the decision to have sex is the moment you knowingly risk getting pregnant. Dont be dumb.
Very sad. I had a miscarriage at 6 werks and could already recognize my precious baby and felt its life inside me. My miscarriage shattered me. Abortion is murder . PERIOD
Thank you for sharing your story..
I totally agree, I regret putting myself in the situation of getting pregnant..
Me too
@@ReenaBINA Shameless killers.
Me too
You should also regret killing an innocent human being. Ask for forgiveness from God❤
@@nubian5811 awww I feel so sorry for YOU ugly!
It is incredibly painful and the time period that it’s incredibly painful for varies with each woman. Thank you for posting this more women need to talk about this with each other
It is so refreshing to see a brave woman share the reality of a medical abortion. There is so much faulty information out there and even from "reliable" websites.
Not brave to me. Brave is being a responsible adult and preventing pregnancy and having a baby that you created. Taking a pill is not brave.
I’m 21 and recently got pregnant. When I first found out I had a feeling I was pregnant already so it didn’t come as a surprise when I took a test and it came out positive. I had symptoms like nausea & vomiting every single day, I couldn’t keep any of my food down while I was pregnant. It was a nightmare from beginning to end, I threw up multiple times through out my days & nights. I was also bedridden for a while due to pregnancy and I have to say I give more respect to women after going through all this. I already knew I was going to get an abortion so I didn’t rly think much of all this and had my mind set on everything already and didn’t think twice about anything. I was already super sick and bedridden from just being pregnant, when I finally decided to get an abortion I decided to go for the abortion pill method... I am going to say this is my 2nd day taking my 2nd dosage of the abortion pills and I have been experiencing the worst symptoms ever. I have never ever cramped as much and as hard as I did today... the pain that came with this was unbearable and was very unexpected, it caught me by surprise. I didn’t know what to do with myself being in so much pain, I didn’t know whether to cry or punch my stomach it was severe, severe pain... I’m also bleeding like sooo much when I stood up one time I went completely light headed and nearly fainted. Ladies the pain we endure during our lifetime is unfair and I give you all my respect. I have no idea how I would feel going a full 9 months of being pregnant... I had rly bad nausea and I can’t go anywhere without throwing. Idk if it’s because I’m a weak person but this has been HELL! And I am beyond ready to get my life back. This pregnancy was not in my agenda, it has beaten me to my core and swallowed me up into a hole. This has been the hardest thing I’ve ever been through and with no one to talk too or hold. Situations like this make me grateful for health when I get it back. I was only 5 weeks pregnant and endured the worst symptoms from pregnancy and the abortion pills. Tonight I have to take my 3rd and final abortion pills and I just hope those horrible, horrible cramps don’t come back again because it made me sooo nauseous I threw up twice from the pain. I don’t wish this on anyone not even my worst enemy. Sorry for long comment I needed to air out a little. I’m just glad I can go to UA-cam and watch girls go through similar situations as I am going through and it doesn’t feel as lonely like this.
Hi Emily, your symptoms sound very similar to mine. I'm 5 weeks and I'm in bed with pain most of the time. Im scheduled to take the first pill next week. I am also very set on my decision and my partner has been with me through the whole thing so its nice to not be doing this alone. I'm very scared about the pain. What you described is exactly what I'm terrified about. Do you have any suggestions to make it as smooth as possible. I wanna just feel normal again. Honestly, I don't know how someone can feel like this for 9 months. Nausea all day, light headed, unable to eat most things, smells are horrible, extremely tired, and at one point I had difficulty breathing. All of this only at 5 weeks, no thank you, even if I wanted the pregnancy I could not deal with feeling this horrible for so long.
Thank you for sharing .. I have mine next week super scared.
I am so sorry you are currently going through this. It took me 2 days to finally feel like myself again after going through with the abortion. I recommend to intake THC IF you already do... it reallyyy helped out with my nausea almost instantly. Do yourself a favor by taking ibuprofen or whatever they prescribed for pain BEFORE you take the abortion pills. I really hope your abortion goes as smooth as possible... some girls experience slight cramping, others experience strong cramps & nausea it’s always different for everyone... I hope you are one of those girls that experience slight cramping, but like I said take pain meds BEFORE the abortion pill it’ll help out a lot with the pain & before you know it you’ll be back to normal & more grateful to be healthy again. :)) Good luck, stay strong 💋 this is a reposted comment... guess it never posted?!STAY STRONG GIRLY’S!
I’m really scared my appointment to get the pills is next week and i’m scared
@@temyaherring1632 was it as painful as they say it is? Im going for it next week and i’m getting kinda scared after reading all these stories about how bad the pain was :(
This video is so needed... I felt so much for you and I am happy things are better for you now. I have such crazy respect watching this and seeing you speak on such an important topic that so many women go through silently. Thank you so much.
It’s comforting to hear someone else with conflicting feelings - knowing you don’t want it but still being depressed about having the abortion. It’s confusing and makes you question if the decision you make is what you really want. Super difficult choice because there are so many feelings involved.
Sooo many feelings, just have to weighs out your reasons for either choice. Some reasons weigh much heavier than others
Thank you so much... I know it was hard making this video, but honestly there are so many people going though the same thing. I feel like just listening to someone else's story helps and guides you through your hard times...
I needed this. Thank you.
I could tell, even though you were smiling, that the experience wasn't easy to speak on. I hope you weren't hard on yourself by the decision. Sometimes we tend to listen to the inner voice that barrages within our psyche, the "you should have done this and not that" type stuff. Thank you for sharing your story. Much love.
A selfish and shameless killer.
it’s currently 1:44 in the morning & im watching these videos on medical abortions and people’s experience and let me say ive never been more scared in my life.. my boyfriend and i just aren’t ready but it’s the most responsible choice we could’ve made right now. im currently 7 weeks & 5 days, my fetus is the size of a blueberry.
Im sorry this is something you have to experience. Do what you need to do for you and your sanity. Meditate on it and become content with whatever decision you make. I hope everything works out for the best
im in your exact position today, down to how far along and everything. my appointment is tomorrow at 1 and im so emotional and horrified honestly.
A year later I’m doing the same damn thing at 1:41 am
This is me rn down to the days ugh!! I hope you got thru it bc I’m so broken rn
How is everyone doing ??
After my experience I feel the same way with being super careful, I havent had sex SINCE, which was 2 years ago
Hey
That’s the smartest way! Abstinence!
I hope you've recovered from that
Sad
Why does it take y'all getting pregnant and killing babies for no reason to start being careful. Be careful in the beginning and you probably won't have to worry about that. (Condoms break, but you DON'T have to have sex) Use protection every single time or don't have sex (100% effective)
"Can Yall STOP !! " (😂) That was the comedic relief that this video needed ☮ .
Please people, before you comment watch the entire video and prepare yourself for an actual conversation. Throwing your opinions at me or only wanting to get your point across won't work on me. Also be sure that your comprehension skills are at least at an 8th grade level.
Hey is it possible for you to tell me how long after u took the pills before u actually passed out the fetus? And did u like actually feel it? Sorry for asking such a weird question
Not weird at all. It took be about 5 days to pass the fetus and I felt every inch of it. It came out while I was in the shower.
Ok thank you. Because Im actually going through the process now myself and even though everyone's body is different I want to know when to like look out for it
@@shericeperry6128 You'll know. Your body will let you know. I hope you are able to get through this peacefully.
Brittany's Room how did you come back from the depression?
What they won't tell about these pills is how much WORSE they can be then the actual surgery. And they aren't always effective, I felt like I nearly was gonna lose my life with these pills.
I should've mentioned that they told me it was a possibility the pills wouldn't work. I was more worried about missing school and my family finding out so I just took the pills and went back to Virginia for school.
Im sorry you had to experience that too.
Tanja Ta Am sorry what is name of the abortion pill am in college too and by badluck things have gone wrong I regret it o🙌🏼🙌🏼😭😭😭😢 SO PLEASE JUST I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF PILLS YOU USED AM IN CHINA HERE AND THINGS ARE ARE🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🤦🏼♀️🙇🏼♀️ please o and God will bless you
Many women have died from it
@@nickyb2u yes, I wonder why are they still an option when they're so dangerous to use
@@backtoblack2959 Because it is profitable there are not many doctors willing to do abortions. Pills are faster to dispense and they don't have to deal with the clean up. I am sure some women can psychological get them selves to take the pill but not have surgery because It's (naively) just a pill. Also abortion is a political/social sacrament for some and limiting any type of access to anyform of Abortion goes against the agenda safety isn't a priority.
Wow you are very brave for sharing such this personal story with us, thank you. I'm a guy but the way you described the story I almost felt like I was going through emotions with you. I imagined being very shocked, afraid, and just sick to my stomach of the unknown. This had to be a traumatizing experience for you but I'm glad you have healed and learned from the situation. This could definitely help someone else going to college as a freshman and maybe taking measures to prevent themselves from being put in a situation. :)
You made a mistake like we all do. And you did what YOU felt was right. Don't beat yourself up about it.
@@lucialucero6458 get a life🙄
@@lucialucero6458 Get. A. Life.
@@lucialucero6458 dang this fool is everywhere
I’m currently going through it right now. I’ve never been so scared and terrified in my life. It’s very painful and i think i’m stressing my body out to the max.
Take deep breaths and try to clear your mind.
Hi, I support women who are struggling post abortion. There is a huge stigma around the mental health effects after experiencing an abortion. If you find yourself in need of guidance/healing please contact us at www.exhalepostabortionhealing.weebly.com or exhalelifecoach@gmail.com.
How did your experience go??? Like too much blood???? I’m terrified for mine
@@meghanrsls I didn’t bleed much at all but it’s different for everyone! I was very surprised but i had really really bad cramping for hours.
@@kayli6228 thank you for that insight!!! How did you deal with the pain from the cramps??
Laying here at 1 AM watching videos about this because I’m nervous like everyone else. I’ve already had it done but it is very painful and draining. I opted for a medication abortion, and they sent me home with the pills themselves and pain meds. Girl, I did not mentally prepare myself for this at all, the pain is so much worse than period cramps, the amount of blood you lose is crazy and somewhat scary. I highly recommend preparing yourself to be in a lot of pain, and to be pretty high and drowsy from the pain meds. They’re starting to wear off for me, and instead of continuing to take them , I’m gonna switch to regular IB and hot water bottles. The hot water bottles are your best friend during this, stg.
A warm bath may help as well. Be kind to yourself during this process.
@@ψυχή-τ7ξ thanks I guess? I actually am very depressed about getting rid of my kid, I was just trying to talk about my experience in case another girl my age has to do this as well. But I respect your opinion and I do wish I could’ve kept it.
@@nightinterludes1126 That person is the reason I implore you to be kind to yourself in this time, you already have people being evil as is. Ignore their words and continue to heal
@@nightinterludes1126 Shameless killer.
I'm going on Tuesday.. I'm an anxious person as it is, I've had anxiety my entire life and one crazy situation will trigger my anxiety and I will just start pacing, throwing up, sweating crying and it doesn't stop until I get the problem solved. I've never been pregnant before, I was completely caught off guard when I didn't get my period and now I have been in complete panic for a day and a half, I have an apt scheduled for Tuesday morning it's Sunday night and I just want all of this to be over with. I'm so sick to my stomach I'm clamy I'm confused. I'm so so scared to take the pills. I pray for all the women in these comments and for you for making this video bc it really is helping girls like me. I'll continue to pray for all women, I have a new found respect for mothers (I always have) it just hits different now. We're not alone man🥺 if anyone sees this comment within the next few days PLEASE PLEASE comment back to me and give me tips for the pill I'm so scared for the bleeding and the pain. I just wish it was easier for us. I feel so ashamed and lost. I just want a bit of peace🥺
I’m sorry you are going through this. Meditate, draw, do whatever you need to calm your nerves. Take the pain meds, rest, and be kind to yourself.
@@odbrittany Thankyou so much ❤️ it's night 3 and I'm still feeling the pains but I'm not in a constant state of panic🥺 your video comforted me though and I appreciate you for sharing your story! ❤️ i hope I can finish recovering and move on! Stay strong 💓
Hey honey. I’m going through this also and I also have terrible anxiety. Thank god I was able to make an appointment for next day. I’m doing clinic abortion since I heard it was less painful but I may switch over to pills. This is very very unexpected for me I’m just glad I caught it early
@@Maria.Aurelia hey girl! Sorry for the late response 🥺 I hope you're healing and found some peace. I actually ended up doing the surgical one too because i explained to them I bleed quite a bit and I did NOT want to end up in the hospital so I just did the surgical and it hurt but it was over with, if you ever need to talk I can give you my Instagram ❤️❤️ stay strong
Edit: I think the anxiety comes from being so caught off guard and realizing what's going on, I disassociated for those 3 days I had to wait for my apt, I also caught it super early 🫶
Thank you so much for sharing. Currently in same situation. The worst thing I’ve ever had to deal with mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Jesus loves you ❤️
What did you decide to do?
The easy way out. Selfish and shameless killer.
I got pregnant as a sophomore in college. I had my baby (a son who’s 2 now) but these videos were soooooo helpful to me in making my decision when I first saw that positive test. I just knew my life was over lol. Everything turned out great for me but you have to do what is best for your own life. Thank you so much for sharing such a difficult topic bc women have to have info from all sides to make a decision like this.
Her baby cried in pain as it detached from her uterus and starved to death. I think it's horrific. The baby comes out and you see it. A mother who took a pill and starved her own flesh and blood. Yes. Think about it all beforehand. Causing your child's death is forever.
@@Nina-hk7ub what if it can cause the mothers death?
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 that's a incredibly tough call to make. I think there are very few such cases. I'd need more info to offer an opinion.
@@Nina-hk7ub good 😸
@@Nina-hk7ub omg were you there?
Hi beautiful, thank you for sharing your story. I will be taking the pill here in the next week, and I needed to see from a personal experience. You’re probably the biggest blessing I’ve seen since I found out. Bless your doggies because dogs are the best too 💕💕
Thank you for watching and listening, I hope everything works out for the best. Remember to be kind to yourself
How did it go?
Shameless killer.
I went through this on Valentine’s Day. 2 weeks later I don’t regret my decision but it does linger in the back of my head. Honestly the experience was the worst pain I had ever felt, surpassing the time I had appendicitis. Everyone is different. Me and my best friend went through it together as she was pregnant as well. She also had severe cramping but I’m pretty sure mine was worse than hers. It was difficult to breathe, hard to think, hard to move for ~10 hours. Literally felt like there was the weight of a car on my uterus. I don’t know how else to describe the severity of the cramps. The next day was so much better though. Only had a couple of cramps and they were very mild. I bled for exactly 8 days. I was only 3 weeks though.
Thank you for sharing. Hearing other peoples stories is so helpful in situations like these. The emotional and physical toll this takes can be overwhelming & it's always good to know you aren't alone.
Ugh I’m six weeks and my appointment is next week. I’m so scared🤦🏾♀️
@@PinkVelvetCouch It's okay to feel fear, as long as you are certain of your decision for you. I hope everything goes well
I’ve called everywhere and they said u couldn’t get the pill until at least 6 weeks . How did u do it at 3 weeks ??
Y G ??
Girl I searched this cause I’m going through it , I’m a freshman in college took a pregnancy test with my bf and it came out pregnant within seconds and then I take the second one minutes after and it came out positive as well
Looking at them tests in disbelief was insane. There was no suspense, they immediately showed results
@@odbrittany I'm getting the pill, feel like it's the best choice for me. I'm still in disbelief , like this is really happening.
@@kimberlyramirez3881 It makes you put alot into perspective
Kimberly Ramirez do you mind me asking how did the pull experience go for you? I’m about to go through this
Natalie Castro Oh girl, I just saw this , well I knew that this was the choice I wanted to do so I went for it and did it all by myself because I’m still living with parents it was painful , but it is different for everyone , the pain was so bad that when it stopped I fell asleep and woke up stained everywhere with pain, did you end up doing anything by the way?
I really appreciate this video. I’ve just taken the first pill and I’m due to take the second one today. I’m already bleeding and I’m already in a lot of pain, I’m super scared, so I’m going through and watching other women.
How was it? How long did you bleed for? My appointment is in 2 days
@@eliromero3490 how was your experience,
@@oneofakind_ it was rough honestly. I did it at my friends place just in case I needed someone to take me to the hospital. The cramping hit me so hard that it put me to sleep. It pain only lasted for 3 hours tops. After that, it was heavy bleeding and period like cramps
@@eliromero3490 hey are u alright now? Can u pls suggest me some tips that you did to release the pain? And can you pls share your whole experience.. im just so nervousness 😭
@@ramsha0205 someone on here recommended diapers and honestly it was a life saver. I wore a pad with the diaper cause it was so much bleeding. I felt a lot of pain when I took the last set of pills. If you work, I suggest taking the day you take the last set of pills off and the next day. If you can, do it at a friends house or someone you can confide in just in case things go south. As for the pain, They give you a high dose of ibuprofen so that should help you out.
I took the last set of pills on April 28th. I bled for maybe 2 weeks. And I recently started bleeding again on Jun 3rd and it hasn’t stopped. It’s not too much, it’s like a light period with no cramps. You might bleed from 6-8 weeks after it has passed so don’t be alarmed. They give you a packet explaining what to do and what to look out for.
The pain did last me a few hours. I threw up the ibuprofen so it didn’t digest and the pain ended up putting me to sleep. But when I woke up the pregnancy had passed. I highly highly recommended diapers and pads.
Let me know if you have any more questions. I’m more than happy to answer.
I know y’all hear them dogs 😂
amira smith 🤣🤣
thank you for sharing your story. i’m sorry you went through this. this helped so many people, myself included. i believe i am making the right choice for myself as well. thank you again for sharing.
I’m considering it. I never thought I’ll be here, but omg 😓
Right same....but my appt tmr lol..too late🤣
My first pregnancy in 2014 I found out it did not have a heartbeat I was 8 weeks.I was given an abortion pill to make it come out. I was soo hurt because I wanted my baby... I had my oldest almost 2yrs after that in 2016.
In 2017 I miscarried 2 separate pregnancies at 8 weeks.
In 2018 I had my youngest born with a heart defect but she is doing amazing. ( this baby was a surprise because I did not know I was pregnant and I was supposedly 4 and a half months not showing and had fully period I did not know how far along at the time when I felt something I wanted an abortion that I said no!! I can't she's to far along and I couldn't bare do that to her we didn't find out she had a heart defect till I was 7 months along they told me to abort her because she would die I immediately said no! She's now 3 and strong as ever!!.
Now I'm pregnant 6 weeks and getting an abortion. And I'm sooo sad this baby was not planned and I have a health condition that can cause the baby to misscary or come out with complications. In order for me to have another it needs to be planned and I my health has to be good too. That is my reason for this choice its hurts so much it really does.. if I could have the baby I would! But I wouldn't want it to suffer. Me and my husband are so heart broken with this decision but it has to be done. I never wanted to go this route. I had an iud and took plan b but it somehow did not work. That is what shocked us most...
You are not alone when it comes to abortion things happen for a reason.. our angels are watching over us. Many hugs to all of you.
I’m getting an abortion on Friday and I’m so scared. Knowing I’m not alone and watching this video has made me feel so much better. Thank you for sharing your story.
@Sabina García how was it
@Gabi how was it?
@@josiecortez384 I actually was not able to get it done that day. They rescheduled me for this Thursday.
@Sabina García hey girl how was the process? Did u get the medical one? How many weeks were you?
@@誠-f9c lowlife
I had an arbortion few years ago wit a pill i got in trinidad not sure of the name but i took 2 for the first hour an another 2 within the next hour an i thank god i had a safe arbortion wit no pain until the nxt day which was slight
How weeks of your pregency when you did abortion?
How far along were U when U aborted ur baby?! How much did U have to pay?!
@FastFox Basel Qawasmi Are you an idiot.? LMAO. Does having a baby, and it starves cause your broke save the baby EITHER? NO. Abortion saves many children from suffering and ending up depressed, abused, starved, homeless. And when you find out you are pregnant late there may already be damages that are irreversible, Many woman can't carry children and will die if they try, leaving the child an orphan. There are a million and one reasons why abortions are necessary. Mind your penis and get out of this comment section.
You so brave your video is still getting watched three years later 😩
I don't feel brave but thank you. My comment section is about to get real interesting since I am currently pregnant though
@@dovelyz5496 yes yes
I’m really grateful that you posted this. I really needed this, I resonate with your experience so much. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for watching and listening
Gurl my heart goes out to u. Like I was in the same position as u like two months back. My boyfriend and I had broken up for a week when I found out that I'm pregnant. Shit went down when I told him . life was hell during those times . I'm glad that's all over rynna.
This was such a helpful and important video. In my experience, I honestly thought that I could not get knocked up because I had sex with this one guy I was seeing so many times, yet I had never gotten pregnant. I actually thought my female parts were broken inside since I never came out pregnant. That is, not till one day when I started to feel strange and achy body symptoms, and my body's hormones started affecting me really bad. My period was acting strange and it was starting to wean off and came down extremely light and then dark brown. I kind of had my suspicions, but brushed them off attributing it to maybe I was just very late, or under major stress. After waiting a bit too long and feeling like major harmoneal shit, I decided to buy a pregnancy test from the dollar store to confront my doubtful fears. Sure enough I was 100% knocked Up! I was still in denial thinking that maybe the test was fake because it came from the dollar store or was inaccurate. So I made an appointment n went to my gynecologist and yup, she confirmed that I really was prego! I know for a fact that I could not keep my mini-child because the guy I was messing around with, was definitely not somebody that I wanted to stay with. Not to mention that I was not financially stable at all. I just had to make the immediate choice to go thru with an abortion. I went for the medical abortion. Took three different pills and waited. Within 20 minutes, hell begun. For me, it was the worst painful experience of my life! Before I knew it, I was sitting on the toilet trying to pass an small embryo blood clot. It was pure pain and torture, that this girl never wants to experience again!! Ladies, As much as we feel guilty for having to make this tough decision, it is basically up to us and only us! No one has the right to tell us if we should keep it or not. Only you know in the long run problems you may have raising a child, or why it's not the right time to have a child. Many factors come into play whether it's financial, emotional, physical, or any kind of circumstances. I 100% support any females who make that decision to terminate a pregnancy for their own rightful reasons. Much love and understanding to you ladies going through this tough time
💘💘💘
what the pilll
@@leethya8485 I'm not sure if you meant what kind of pills did I take, but I had to go to an abortion clinic to get them. Doctor there prescribed three different pills for me to go and purchase. I went and got them from the Walgreens pharmacy. I also purchased a heating pad, lots of water and bought the pain killer pills for the after effects of the abortion he prescribed to me as well.
Let us not normalize our wicked ways it is not hypocrisy to correct someone not to fall in the same sin we had been committed.🙏😞🤲🏻 I beg you not to fall into this scheme.
Whatever the reason I am telling you 😔😭🙏🤲🏻 Ibeg you not to do it. we all can easily justify things when we what to lead our ways please you are precious like the life you carry into your womb 😞
Girl omg this is almost my exact situation 🤦🏽♀️ except my partner is an amazing guy and at first thought ofc I wanted to terminate and I’m not in any way financially ready for a child but as time passed waiting for my doctors appointment I started having second thoughts and this is the most difficult decision I’ve ever made in my entire life and it’s hard and I just feel so alone and I just feel like I’ll make the wrong decision.. my brain and my heart are always fighting each other but this helped me a lot thank you for sharing your story❤️❤️
@@marieruiz1547 Shameless killer.
Hi Britt!! I just came across this.. it helped a lot I had my abortion on Sunday and it is the worst pain I have ever felt in my entire life...I'm still pushing with the pains tho I hope it ends soon
Wishing you a speedy recovery. Just be kind to yourself through this process
@@odbrittany Thank you so much...I'm thriving
I gotten an abortion when I was 20. I was living with my boyfriend at the time and wasn’t on birth control. Me and my bf had just gotten back together after breaking up. And I felt betrayed with what he did during the break up and other stuff as well. So I was really scared about being pregnant at a young age. I’m in college and wanted to finish my degree. My goal is to have my own career and a house, be married then have a baby. So since I was no where near that I decided to have an abortion. Till this day I’m very hurt about it. Me and the supposed to be dad aren’t together anymore which hurts even more. It makes me realize that I probably made the right decision. Especially since the dad broke up with me afterwards when we both made the decision to do so. I do sometimes think I should’ve kept the baby, my baby.. but I already made the decision. I would just say really think about keeping the baby. I made a selfish decision. And now I believe God puts a baby in you for a reason 💞
Thank you so much for sharing your story.. you have no idea how helpful knowing someone else has been there is to the rest of us.
I have the pills right now and I'm nervous. When I went to the clinic and got the ultrasound I had a sack but it was empty. It was written that I had no yolk. So hopefully I see no embryo and that its not as bad
If there's anything left behind they usually go in to "scrape" it or let it pass on its own. Sending positive energy your way. ❤️❤️
Wildly Brittish Thanks lovely ❤
How much did it cost
My insurance covered it as an emergency room visit so I had a copay of $50
Please where did you get the pill
12:30 ... I respect you for going through this and sharing your story Queen👑 Your Crown is still perfectly placed on your head, now continue to shine☀️
Thank you hunny 🙏🏾
I have a daughter I had when I was 19. I am pregnant now however the baby has many many issues that could actually cause me to get very ill as well. I made the choice to have a medical abortion it's the hardest decision I've ever had to make I go in soon for the procedure. Watching so many others doing well a medical abortion helps a lot but I still hold so much guilt and heartache.
Im sorry you have to go through this. Remind yourself that this is the best option for the situation you've been put in. I hope you find peace and the ability to get through.
Wildly Brittish I just wanted to say how grateful I am that you shared your story. I went through with my medical abortion with so much support from family friends and my doctors. Without this video I honestly do not think I would have been able to do it. Sharing a story makes others know they are not alone.
Wow, I'm happy things worked out for you. A good support system and the knowledge that you aren't alone can do wonders on a tough situation.
Annie 53 Hi Annie 53. I just was wondering how you are doing. I saw your post today. Idk why but lately I’ve been watching a lot of people sharing their stories about their experiences with abortion. I just prayed for you and hope that God gives you peace in your heart no matter what decision you make. He loves you so much. Nothing can separate you from His love: not even a choice you have to make that you might regret. Jesus knows your heart and He has your life already planned. Give Him your heart; let Him help you. He will guide you and direct your path.
Annie 53 fuck u for getting an abortion that’s a living child u could’ve chose adoption your a messed up human
I’m going through this now … I would of never took the pill if I knew it would of first and foremost come with cramps like this ….. none of the meds work … I feel like I’m on my death bed … it’s worst than actually having a baby … on top of seeing the actual baby come out … seeing the arms , the head … no one told me this. I was very creeped out … I’ll never have another abortion after experiencing this
How far along were you if you don’t mind me asking?
WTF
HOW FAR
I'm 19 right now, and I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant. It's been 8 days from when I was supposed to get it. My period is very consistent so ik something's wrong. I took a test this morning, and it came up positive. I've only been dating my bf for a few months. I'm so scared to tell my mom. I do want an abortion, but now I'm rethinking the pill. I'm terrified right now and I felt like I need to find stories so I feel a little better 😟 Thank you for sharing your experience
Hey girl . Im literally in the same position as you . What did you decide ? I also dont want to get an abortion
@@dezzboo how much was it?
@@dezzboo thank you! i’m scaredddd, how was the aftermath of it?
I got pregnant recently and decided to terminate for many reasons... I mostly felt stupid for allowing it to happen. My husband came in me when I was fertile as hell... yet somehow I believed we wouldn't get pregnant. We were sloppy for years and got overly confident we'd be ok. Nope. Found out I was pregnant when I missed my period. Panic set in asap and I knew I was going to end it.
I kept telling my husband "WHY didn't I just get the plan B?"
I used the suction method. The pill scares me.
Omg i really really needed to see this hear this 😢 Thank you Soo much i was really freaking Out im a lil bit calmer now
I hope everything works out
Hope so too
Thank you for posting this
Shameless killers.
I'm 5 weeks pregnant and I'm going to get aborted surgically. I'm 20 and I feel like I've a career to make and become stable financially. We're strong women and nothing can stop us from achieving our goals even with a lil baby! It's a crazy phase of my life. I'm sure I'll get through it. Sending love to all the women out there❤️
@@laurenmorgan881 stfu
How was the process? Was it painful to get it aborted surgically ? Did you bleed for a long time after?❤️🙏🏽
We’re you sick with the surgical?
@@laurenmorgan881 how about you have them kids dam u here complaining tf ...
@@empressstharly yes please make her
Thank you for making a video like this, not many people do, but it needs to be said, and it's extremely helpful and appreciated ❤️
If you're anti-choice please move along. Watching videos that go against your morals is insane. & I cannot be bullied into submission or guilt. You will be blocked if you harass anyone in my comments.
life is more than sex and killing children sis. God is the Judge. Ending a life means blood on your hands and you and others need to repent. Praying for you ladies. Sex is responsibility not a license to kill. May you all get to know the living God--Jesus Christ.
@@leslieblanco3536 OR you could mind the business of what directly impacts your life. Monitor your vagina. You clearly ignored everything in the comment you’re replying to
@@odbrittany life is more than sex and killing children. You will be judged sis.
@@lovepower4899 You deduced life to that, not me. And I am judged daily, with comments like yours. What's that suppose to mean to me?
@@lovepower4899 Stop shoving religion into real life situations
It took me a min to find this video again. about 2 years ago I watched this video because I was in the same situation as' a freshman in college and I had just got pregnant. I watched this video when I was looking to find some sort of community for what I was going through. I'm glad I found this video when I needed it' it helped me so much' its honestly a core memory I have when I was going through it. I appreciate you sharing your story because you made me feel I can too.
Im so happy you found comfort here. Thank you for listening.
Im going to be 5 weeks when I have my appt next week... I have a son but I still live at home, I made a stupid mistake with my sons father, and I ended up getting pregnant.. it’s the hardest choice for me but it is best for me. Prayers and love to you all.
Hey . I’m going through the same . I have a 20 month old daughter and I made a mistake with her father and now I’m like 5 weeks and days pregnant . I’m thinking about doing the pill but I am so scared. And Is the part when the fetus passes through that is going to fuck my head up! 😣💔
Life and babies are NEVER a mistake! Please, give those little lives a chance!
******
They are already babies, not simple clumps of cells. In fact, science _does_ prove that fetuses are human beings.
So sorry you had to go through this. My gf is going through this painful experience right now :( and I'm not able to be with her currently.. because we are in a LDR. I keep praying everyday for her health and the peace of our child.
We were kind of aware of the pain and trauma she and also i would have to go through.. she was so scared and didn't have much money and support in her city to perform a surgical abortion. So she chose to go for medical..
Took the second pill today. She was in terrible pain the entire day. She's very alone without any frnds and a mom who is very verbally abusive and stress inducing, i met her when i went to her place. Her mom kind of liked me as a person, so i just told her to take care of her, we didn't tell her the truth yet. But she doubts obviously. :(
I hope everything works out without any need for surgery or more medications, because i can't go back to her so soon. If she needs me, f*k it I'll risk everything and go be there. But i hope she doesn't need me :(
Im on vdo call with her at all times and even a slight sound or a text and I'm up and consoling her. She's not in a sad state of mind atleast, but i can't stop thinking... Why did she have to go through this terrible experience alone :( i want to be there for her.
Anyone reading this... Please pray for her successful abortion and speedy recovery.
Continue to give her your support, remind her to be kind to herself. Praying for a speedy recovery
Thank you for sharing your story!
I am getting one tomorrow and all I’ve done is watch videos about others experiences and their emotions to just prepare myself so thank you x
I'm so glad you found this helpful. Wishing you a speedy recovery, physically & mentally.
Taylor Wilson am sorry wat is the pill name PLEASE I THINK BY BADLUCK SOMEONE HAS FALLEN AS A VICTIM PLEASE 🙇🏼♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🤦🏼♀️😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢 just the name please
How was the experience?
I didn't diss u for your choices but here s my story...i was 40.. married. .. already had 2 boys and was diabetic. The son before this pregnancy weighed 10 pounds five ounces. I knew i was in for a rough ride and i wanted an abortion. I went so far as to drive to the clinic but when i got in there it was a terrible place. They had security and locking mechanisms on the doors like a jail and security gaurds present. To make matters worse it stank like a slaughterhouse which is pretty much what it was to me. Being the only grown woman there was even worse....it seemed like i was surrounded by a group if 16 and 17 year olds some if whom we're in tears. I went alone. When they called my name i apologized to the receptionist and walked out. Seven months and a couple if thousand shots of insulin later i gave birth to a ten pound 15 ounce baby girl who is now 21.. i thought i knew myself but when push came to shove i found i didn't know myself as well as u thought i did....
That's your experience, I see no diss in sight. I'm glad you had the outcome that you did. That's just not how my experience was, which is why our outcomes are different.
I'm currently 7 weeks pregnant. I found out at 5 weeks, my parents have been pressuring me to get an abortion. My bf and I have been together for 5 years, we're in a great place rn and we were excited until my parents reaction. I thought that because my mom had me when she was 18 that she would understand but she doesn't want this cause it's too much for her to handle wtc etc. I'm in senior year of college, but my bf doesn't have a job. He has been trying to find one but bc of the pandemic, it's been hard in our country. We're gonna have to face a huge economic crisis veey soon and I just feel like I have no other option. My bf's family have been very supportive and they're excited and I'm just torn because, even though this pregnancy wasn't planned we were looking forward to it. And we wanted to work as hard as we could to be able to go through this bit the fact that my family's been pressuring me and doesn't even consider me having a baby, I just feel torn. I don't know what I should do bc I can't please everyone. I know this has tp be about me. I'd have the baby but I can't support it financially on my own. And my bf's situation only makes it worse... I was holding on to hope that he'd get a job and I could go against my parents and his income would cover the baby's expenses but the clock is ticking and I feel like I have no choice... (in my country we can only have abortions until the 10th week) I know I'm gonna be completely ruined afterwards because I feel like I've been pressured into making this decision instead of doing what I really wanted... I'm gonna break his parents heart and my heart because I have no support from my family...
You should do what you feel is best for you. You sound like keeping the baby is what you want, do that. Never let anyone pressure you into something you don't want, especially something that has such a huge impact on your life. Forget pleasing everyone, please yourself and hold onto those who support your decision. There's nothing worse than doing something you don't want because it'll naw at you forever.
No because I hadn't felt any symptoms before taking the test then all of a sudden I was throwing up every single day, I can't eat nothing. My work was telling me I couldn't keep calling out. Like this shit is horrible
Recently had an abortion & I feel so guilty about it & I wish I wouldn’t have. I still support abortion but ladies please be 100% sure on your decision once it’s done it’s done.
I’m sorry this was your experience. You are absolutely right, this is such a hard decision and you must be sure.
U n I situation wit bby dad n our decision was the exact same n my regrets are the exact same im so sorry Lord jesus
With time, I hope you heal from it.
@@odbrittany thank u love u tooooo I was tlkin to this dude that tried to play me n we knew each other since teenhood n we was jst tlkin not in a relationship but he tried to play me dating he not sure its his kno good damn well we wuz up under each other's noses only for 2mnths str8 smfh
Smh wow, sorry you had to deal with someone like that
@@odbrittany thank u I'm mad I even put myself in that position smh Im buggin n he played me
God bless u baby...wishing u nothing but love.
Thank You☺️
I had the medical abortion today I’m literally laying here in so much pain contractions and blood clots coming out 😩 i don’t know what to do it hurts so much
I hope you got through it. 🥺
how are you doing now
Did you take pain meds?
I’m so scared for mine holy shit
I’m bout to take mines at this moment 😩😩 scared
I had an abortion. I was newly off birth control because my doctor told me to not be on it.. because I had failed eye surgery and have suffered with vision complications for years. I see double vision in dim light and am suffering from corneal neuralgia. Pregnancy puts me at risk to get corneal ectasia (go blind/ permanent vision loss and need cornea transplant )
I am only 22 and couldn’t take that risk. It has absolutely devestated me and made me depressed but I just know in my heart I did the best thing for myself and my life. I couldn’t be a parent and go blind and relearn my entire life with a newborn. One day, I will either adopt or I will take the risk if I ever feel it’s worth it.
I often wonder if I had a missed miscarriage, though. All my pregnancy symptoms disappeared, I had severe cramping pain in intervals for the week prior to my abortion.
It’s been hell but I am fighting.
I had an abortion but had surgery. I didn’t feel anything I was slightly sedated. I was scared but it didn’t go bad for me. I’m looking at this rn in a current pregnancy scare. I’m not sure if I’m pregnant just seeing how the pill went for you. I read bad things also at the time that’s why I opted for the surgery
Were you under local anesthesia or general anesthesia?
Truth is truth ❤️💯.... I'm scared of how painful this will be for me. No support, no money.... He wouldn't buy me no pads
I wish there was a way to connect young women dealing with unintended pregnancies to the older women who waited too long or just can't conceive, because I have to believe that there are many of us who would financially support a young lady through her pregnancy and arrange to legally adopt the baby. Private adoptions are one of the only ways to be able to adopt in a reasonable timeframe. Many women like me would do anything to have the gift of motherhood, but the adoption and foster systems are stacked against us. There really are not any babies or even young children available for adoption in my area in the U.S. If anyone reading this knows of a resource that connects adoptive parents to pregnant women and girls, please let me know. So far, my attempts to navigate this have been futile.
I’m currently about to get an abortion and I’m so scared but I don’t think I’m ready for another baby right now nor do my boyfriend. I found out today I was pregnant
Shameless killer.
This was so relatable
I was Stepping to my 18, so basically 17, I got to know that I was pregnant. Trust me, I love kids so much like I always think Of myself as a mother of a daughter. Finding myself in a situation where I wanted to keep my child or not was terrible. I was a high school student back then so basically to afford the well-being of my child and also a secure future for mine would be too expensive as I had no source of earning from my end. I had a discussion with my Partner( at present My Ex) about what to do and honestly, we thought of a run-way plan but we weren't sure, so for the sake of our child and ours, we made our decision and am sorry I just can't spell that word in words...it hurts too much. The moment I saw my baby out of my body, like in my own bathroom, I can't say in words how terrified I was, I was crying, screaming silently...literally had no words...thank u for sharing your story dear. Because of You I don't feel like being the only one!
Im sorry this is something you had to experience. Im glad you found this video useful and hope you can continue to heal.
@@odbrittany It means a lot dear❤🫂
Thank you for this video. I just found out I was pregnant at home pregnancy test. Me and my partner are not ready for it. I wasn’t planning on having a baby anytime soon. I want to get the abortion pill done. Im just nervous about the process too. I was also crying for a while today. Its really hard to talk to people about abortions.
It really is, if you need someone to talk/vent to my DM's are always open
@@odbrittany hello Brittany
@FastFox Basel Qawasmi rape or incest isn’t a justifiable excuse to kill an innocent human being.
wait how long did the pain last? and how long did you bleed? thanks so much for sharing this sensitive trauma to us..really helping us women!
I definitely needed this video . 💕 thanks so much for helping girls like me . I have my abortion in a week and I don’t wanna do it .. but it’s best for me as well
Thank you for listening, always do whats best for you.I hope everything works out for the best.
Hope you’re doing well 💜💚
Hope you’re doing well 💜💚
I really thought the sound from the dogs were from construction 😂
I have a scheduled abortion tomorrow and I already have 4 kids. I can’t stop crying and looking at my other kids wondering if this is something I should do.. I need a support system because I am losing my mind. I never believed in abortions, that’s why I have 4 kids now but having 5 will take away so much from the kids I already have plus it’s with a man I’m not even dating💔 this is the hardest decision of my life🙏🏾
Im so sorry I'm late in seeing this. I hope everything went well and you are healing, no matter what decision you made.
my love, the pain is not explainable
Hi I'm super late to this one but, thank you for making this. I feel less alone because of you. I can't stress how much that helps
I'm glad this could help. Remember to be gentle with yourself.
My partner has way way too much trauma and bitterness to be a good partner to me. Not a bad guy but does not know how to have a decent healthy relationship and I have given up hope on forcing it. He wants the baby so bad and is 100% against abortion which makes this so hard because I’d have to sneak and do it if I did. I just don’t know what to do😞
It is your body, you are the one that will have to carry it and experience all the changes that come with it. You and the child will be tied to him forever. Just make sure that whatever decision you make, it’s the best one for you. It’s the one you can live with. I hope everything works out for the best for you.
I have a partner who has a lot of trauma and bitterness as well. When I was pregnant he begged me to keep the baby. After I gave birth he was barely around. I was broken and confused for months. I’ll never carry a child with a man who isn’t capable of real love again.
Condom broke, used plan b and still two weeks later I get positive results. Today I’m terrified, I would have never wanted to be in this situation and it’s horrible. My appointment is in june 14 :(
🥺 wow....needed this.
When did you feel bad to normal ? Do u think I could go to work about a day after ? The pill
About 2-3 days. The day after, the contractions were worse.
So it really took a full week to complete the abortion? I’m confused. I thought the MA happens within 2 days?
Im not sure how it works now but when I took the pill they couldn’t give me an estimate for when I would pass the embryo. It took my body about 5-6 days to complete the process
Oh wow. I know that had to be hard to endure 😔
@@odbrittany what's the name of the pills?
@@odbrittany how long did you bleed after passing embryo ?
@@Tracilyneshia about 2 weeks
HOLY BIBLE- 18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. 21 Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.
I see this quote everywhere what does it mean in this context I need to know.
Lol this the wrong audience
I am about 4 weeks now with a baby. An my situation I don’t know what to do I already have 2 kids an was on the pill an missed a pill an my bf an I are not even close to ready for another baby. An I’m 31 now:( an I had an abortion 5 years ago . An regret . But now I’m in a loving relationship. But he doesn’t have a green card here in America
Thank you so much for telling your story 🙂 I'm going through this situation right now! You just made me feel so much better
Shameless killer.
Im currently waiting for my appointment date to get the pill and im terrified of the pain People keep saying you have. UGH
how did it go?🥺
How was the pain? I get the medication tomorrow and I’m very nervous about the pain.
They say it’s like giving birth
you are a strong woman!!
I truly commend you for sharing this video. Just by the # of views, u can see how many people you are helping. There aren't many videos like this on YT, and sometimes we come searching for ANYBODY that has been thru what we have when those close to us either won't understand or don't know what we're experiencing. 😘
🙌🏾 & so many will never understand this feeling
Brittany's Room so true! I know I didn't understand until I experienced it. And exactly like you said, I was mad at myself for putting myself in the situation to feel like I had to make that choice. I struggle everyday with trying to forgive myself for that alone.
I’m currently 17 and 3 months pregnant, everyone is pushing me to have an abortion and I don’t know what to do
What do YOU want to do? What decision would you be most comfortable with? (neglect everyone else's opinion)
Ann -- is too late .. 3 months is a baby .. give him in adoption that’s really an alive baby
Brittany's Room thank you for responding I never thought you would! I’m most likely keeping the baby but my boyfriend and I can’t communicate at the moment which makes it somewhat difficukt
@@Ann-uh1bf Im happy for you! Things'll work out.
Keep your baby and be blessed.
APPLE AND SILVA!!! 😂❤️
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Brittany's Room NBC strggi
I have two beautiful babies, a 5year old and a 10month old. I lost twin boys at 23weeks in 2019. I suffered awfully bad with Hyperemesis. I’m 24 and honestly I’m so happy I came across this. You have no idea. You’re so strong girl.
A huge congratulations on your baby! ❤️✨
Thank you hunny
Did you suffer with hyperemesis in all your pregnancies