Daughters with great fathers absolutely hate to disappoint them. Any criticism is usually taken badly initially. They do always realize that they are loved beyond measure and both moms and dads want what’s best for them even if their approach isn’t ideal lol. It’s going to be ok ❤
Daughters are naturally more emotional. Their father's approval means everything to them. When they're young, they really can't tell the difference between you being angry FOR them or you being angry AT them. Hang in there. She adores you. If she didn't, she wouldn't care about your reactions to things.
I was INVISIBLE to both my parents, so you are a King Dad!!!!!! Stop worrying SILLY! She will appreciate you trying to make her a better golfer/person! Trust me, she will cherish these moments of you even caring!!!!🤴👸💞💞💞💞💞
My Dad 👨 never cared about me he's just a man in a photograph 📸 he never cared about me! I hated myself because of it ❗️I thought their was something wrong 😕 with me and that's why he hated me! But it was my Mom's fault she never allowed me to have a relationship with my Dad's family, and she didn't care about how it made me feel ❗️😭
Parenting is the hardest job you'll ever have. No matter what happens, remain supportive of your daughter & always provide encouragement. Don't criticize because it's the criticism that your daughter will always remember. If she plays well, fine. Point out the good aspects of her playing. If she plays badly, again, refer to the part of the game that she played well. "Honey, that shot you made on the 7th hole was amazing" is more encouraging & supportive than criticism or"you should have won". Focus on her strengths and keep telling her you love her and that you're so proud of her no matter what.
Awww Scott. Do not worry and don't forget she is in those teenage years....very difficult no matter how good of a parent you are. Bailey is growing up so fast seems it's hard to keep up. Just keep loving her as you do.
Yes, Dad, if she has a bad game, it’s up to you to point out her amazing skills to reassure her and to uplift her and tell her her her skills her positive attributes that’s your job as a parent not to stow your own feelings, but to bring her up and say it’s OK to have a bad day. Point out her strengths and you rise her up from that loss that is a job of a parent.put your negative feelings to yourself. Sidenote, sometimes teenage girls can I have attitudes, but you have to know the difference between a game loss in a little attitude. Always rise above with positivity.
Females are sensitive. It is important to think before you speak. Or just give a hug and don’t say anything at all. Pray and ask God to help you be more sensitive to your daughter. 😇 All of us get some of our parents character traits whether we like it or not….🤣
Scott...I have 2 daughters (teens) and George is right. Ease up and take it all more lightly, all will fall into place. (What am I doing giving advice? I learn by the minute also). They both LOVE CHACHI too ! GOD BLESS.
We're just from different times as older parents...to say, having a late in life child. My daughter will soon be 16..but I was born in 71...it was a very different time when we grew up compared to the last 15 years. In fact a whole lot of changes have happened in the last 3½ years. Kids now haven't the capacity to understand the world we came from..
lol about Scott’s dad always being right, I joke about men always thinking they’re right or knowing everything,my dad says but the difference is he does know everything. It’s inevitable we become some version of our parents but with their own identity. We do the best we can with what we know. 🇺🇸 Trump 2024!
Scott, as someone's daughter I can tell you, she won't be a copy of you. She looks like you yes but most likely she will be a mesh of both you and Renee. The best of both of you. Just do they best you can. You're raising her right. God is the only perfect parent and Adam & Eve still made mistakes. I still call my dad Daddy.
Scott I completely can relate with you!! My daughter treats me horrible and am needing a double lung transplant and she isn’t able to be my caretaker because of her ways. It’s crazy and hey mine is now expecting twin boys still living in my house with arms open but get treated bad. Physically it’s hard for me to get around and her excuse is mom it’s different cuz I’m pregnant with twins and I’m like well your moms dying( I didn’t say that part but it is the truth ). What would you do? I pay for everything even allow her rich boyfriend to sleep and stay free !!! I’m pulling my hair out literally here!!!! I love your channel btw!! Ty for being honest on these topics!!! Wendy in Virginia
Scott try not to beat yourself up too much! My daughter is so much like her Dad! He is the high strung one of us. My son who is also grown now is just like me. He is very laid back and doesn't get mad easily. I think kids are born the person that they are meant to be but they also learn things from us as parents that are really good things but also the bad behaviors. It is just in girls to be much more emotional.
The fact you are so sorry is going to resonate with her. But don't just be sorry, do better the next time. My dad would blow up and then say sorry --but. No buts just, "sorry, I really acted badly."
More proof of how completely different men and women are. I don't have daughters, but I have nieces. From about... 10 or so up they believe all men are idiots, you're the butt of every joke? You're the enemy. Made worse by the mother. Daddy/uncle/etc... is a joke. And we try to fix problems it upsets them cause they don't want it fixed. We get upset for them, it upsets them cause they think you're upset at them cause they're emotional and you end up apologizing. It's frustrating as hell.
Try to spend some one to one time and listen more than speak. Just let her know you are always there for her. It sounds like you are doing better than your father did. It least you can recognize it and than try ti fix it.
Daughters with great fathers absolutely hate to disappoint them. Any criticism is usually taken badly initially. They do always realize that they are loved beyond measure and both moms and dads want what’s best for them even if their approach isn’t ideal lol. It’s going to be ok ❤
Daughters are naturally more emotional. Their father's approval means everything to them. When they're young, they really can't tell the difference between you being angry FOR them or you being angry AT them. Hang in there. She adores you. If she didn't, she wouldn't care about your reactions to things.
I was INVISIBLE to both my parents, so you are a King Dad!!!!!! Stop worrying SILLY! She will appreciate you trying to make her a better golfer/person! Trust me, she will cherish these moments of you even caring!!!!🤴👸💞💞💞💞💞
Invisible here too. My sperm donor was psychologically mean and passive aggressive. Not to worry Scott you are an awesome father I am sure ❤
Daughter’s will always be “Daddy’s Girls” you can bet you life on that!❤️
My Dad 👨 never cared about me he's just a man in a photograph 📸 he never cared about me! I hated myself because of it ❗️I thought their was something wrong 😕 with me and that's why he hated me! But it was my Mom's fault she never allowed me to have a relationship with my Dad's family, and she didn't care about how it made me feel ❗️😭
@@stardustgirl2904 I’m so sorry that breaks my heart to hear that…
Parenting is the hardest job you'll ever have. No matter what happens, remain supportive of your daughter & always provide encouragement. Don't criticize because it's the criticism that your daughter will always remember. If she plays well, fine. Point out the good aspects of her playing. If she plays badly, again, refer to the part of the game that she played well. "Honey, that shot you made on the 7th hole was amazing" is more encouraging & supportive than criticism or"you should have won". Focus on her strengths and keep telling her you love her and that you're so proud of her no matter what.
Enjoy your time with your kids. They know how much you love them. You can’t fix everything but be there for them.
Awww Scott. Do not worry and don't forget she is in those teenage years....very difficult no matter how good of a parent you are. Bailey is growing up so fast seems it's hard to keep up. Just keep loving her as you do.
Scott your wife knows you are a great father! We all see that too😊 don’t beat yourself up! You are doing 👍
Love this
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Yes, Dad, if she has a bad game, it’s up to you to point out her amazing skills to reassure her and to uplift her and tell her her her skills her positive attributes that’s your job as a parent not to stow your own feelings, but to bring her up and say it’s OK to have a bad day. Point out her strengths and you rise her up from that loss that is a job of a parent.put your negative feelings to yourself. Sidenote, sometimes teenage girls can I have attitudes, but you have to know the difference between a game loss in a little attitude. Always rise above with positivity.
Females are sensitive. It is important to think before you speak. Or just give a hug and don’t say anything at all.
Pray and ask God to help you be more sensitive to your daughter. 😇
All of us get some of our parents character traits whether we like it or not….🤣
Good one fellas, and yes …you do the best you can….unfrigginconditionally
Scott...I have 2 daughters (teens) and George is right. Ease up and take it all more lightly, all will fall into place. (What am I doing giving advice? I learn by the minute also). They both LOVE CHACHI too ! GOD BLESS.
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We're just from different times as older parents...to say, having a late in life child. My daughter will soon be 16..but I was born in 71...it was a very different time when we grew up compared to the last 15 years. In fact a whole lot of changes have happened in the last 3½ years. Kids now haven't the capacity to understand the world we came from..
lol about Scott’s dad always being right, I joke about men always thinking they’re right or knowing everything,my dad says but the difference is he does know everything.
It’s inevitable we become some version of our parents but with their own identity.
We do the best we can with what we know.
🇺🇸 Trump 2024!
Scott, you should get with Richard Dreyfus . He’s made some amazing statements.
Scott, as someone's daughter I can tell you, she won't be a copy of you. She looks like you yes but most likely she will be a mesh of both you and Renee. The best of both of you. Just do they best you can. You're raising her right. God is the only perfect parent and Adam & Eve still made mistakes. I still call my dad Daddy.
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Scott I completely can relate with you!! My daughter treats me horrible and am needing a double lung transplant and she isn’t able to be my caretaker because of her ways. It’s crazy and hey mine is now expecting twin boys still living in my house with arms open but get treated bad. Physically it’s hard for me to get around and her excuse is mom it’s different cuz I’m pregnant with twins and I’m like well your moms dying( I didn’t say that part but it is the truth ). What would you do? I pay for everything even allow her rich boyfriend to sleep and stay free !!! I’m pulling my hair out literally here!!!! I love your channel btw!! Ty for being honest on these topics!!! Wendy in Virginia
Check out the guy and the other stories about something called fenbendazole it might be a chance good luck.
Loved this one! There isn't a book for parenting. GN Scott, Greg, and Mark.
Ms. Ted, I will pass your kind note on to Greg. -George
@@boredinsfv 🤣🤣🤣George not Greg....too many Margaritas last night! 🍹🤪-Sincerely Ms. Ted 😆
What happened to the sound?????????? doesnt sound like the other videos!! fix this!!
Todd, we hss as d a technical problem. Working on it.
Scott try not to beat yourself up too much! My daughter is so much like her Dad! He is the high strung one of us. My son who is also grown now is just like me. He is very laid back and doesn't get mad easily. I think kids are born the person that they are meant to be but they also learn things from us as parents that are really good things but also the bad behaviors. It is just in girls to be much more emotional.
The fact you are so sorry is going to resonate with her. But don't just be sorry, do better the next time. My dad would blow up and then say sorry --but. No buts just, "sorry, I really acted badly."
Your dad said sorry? I wish
@@chicagogrl2422 Sorry only means sorry if they mean it and change their behavior.
Children do not come with an instruction manual. Parenting is hard!
I thought the same, no manual.
Hey Chachi, TRUMP 2024!!!!!!!!!
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Your audio is always bad on your podcast, which is very hard to hear your conversations.
More proof of how completely different men and women are. I don't have daughters, but I have nieces. From about... 10 or so up they believe all men are idiots, you're the butt of every joke? You're the enemy. Made worse by the mother. Daddy/uncle/etc... is a joke. And we try to fix problems it upsets them cause they don't want it fixed. We get upset for them, it upsets them cause they think you're upset at them cause they're emotional and you end up apologizing. It's frustrating as hell.
Try to spend some one to one time and listen more than speak. Just let her know you are always there for her. It sounds like you are doing better than your father did. It least you can recognize it and than try ti fix it.
Bad sound
You are correct, we’re working on it.