THINGS WHTE PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT BLCK NATURAL HAIR...| Thee Mademoiselle ♔

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  • @TheeMademoiselle
    @TheeMademoiselle  5 років тому +3026

    Whewwww chillllllle too many White people are so clueless about our hair lols so sad!
    Instagram: @TheeMlle

    • @naefromnj6605
      @naefromnj6605 5 років тому +52

      Me and you both had the same reaction when she said that packaged hair part🤣at the exact same time💀 love ya sis❣

    • @ripples2.0
      @ripples2.0 5 років тому +28

      I went and started watching the other episodes, and the things these white people say got me face palming 😂 I like this series

    • @beni9766
      @beni9766 5 років тому +28

      Ik right and white people can't just assume about black people hair

    • @niacoats7366
      @niacoats7366 5 років тому +23

      Blondie got me fucked up she can catch these 👊

    • @duttydimples
      @duttydimples 5 років тому +10

      Thee Mademoiselle
      I used to be one of them 😂😂

  • @체리-n9l
    @체리-n9l 5 років тому +4917

    "Don't you shampoo your hair everyday?" No sis because I like having hair on my head thanks

  • @jo-annmahaka
    @jo-annmahaka 5 років тому +5231

    Meanwhile I’m in Africa and my hair is braided and I CAN AFFORD packaged hair and more....🇿🇦🇿🇼. 👸🏿🙅🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️.

    • @zem1093
      @zem1093 5 років тому +58

      Same

    • @giseleornellankieeyenga3147
      @giseleornellankieeyenga3147 5 років тому +25

      Preach!!!

    • @YUH-ro8et
      @YUH-ro8et 5 років тому +24

      🇿🇼🇿🇼

    • @dont_harsh_my_mellow
      @dont_harsh_my_mellow 5 років тому +72

      zem 10 it’s bc in America we only ever see Africa in the media and it’s only ever shown as a third world country filled with starvation and disease and poverty. Even though most folks don’t realize that most of Africa isn’t like that at all. That would be very much like the equivalent of filming the poorer parts of states like Alabama and Georgia and saying they are how all of America is all the time.

    • @1thinkboss
      @1thinkboss 5 років тому +65

      They dont want people n america to know how rich Africa is.

  • @snatchedtoafrica194
    @snatchedtoafrica194 5 років тому +5880

    in africa they actually have electricity,water,devices,and money im sure they can buy hair....😐🤚🏽

    • @brooklynrose2092
      @brooklynrose2092 5 років тому +265

      ᏢᎬᎡᏆᎾᎠᎢ

    • @bambix4173
      @bambix4173 5 років тому +709

      some dont even buy hair. they do their own natural hair.

    • @snatchedtoafrica194
      @snatchedtoafrica194 5 років тому +117

      mr.suicide :3 RIGHT

    • @jaylamarie333
      @jaylamarie333 5 років тому +57

      JHOPEEEEEE

    • @shygxrl
      @shygxrl 5 років тому +15

      there are called jokes. get over it you snowflake

  • @jhaceparson6804
    @jhaceparson6804 4 роки тому +611

    Once someone told me I couldn't be a princess because my hair is curly, I decided I was a queen instead

  • @5uki266
    @5uki266 5 років тому +4499

    When i had my braids in this guy came up to me and said ' *who's hair did you steal this time?* ....
    Yea he got smacked.

    • @kareiaran
      @kareiaran 5 років тому +626

      I would’ve looked him in the eyes and said, “well, not the hair from the stolen land we stand on”🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @4ssh4t
      @4ssh4t 5 років тому +99

      namedarmybyBTS and I oop- 😂

    • @haloindia5934
      @haloindia5934 5 років тому +150

      So glad you smacked him

    • @arsigermay168
      @arsigermay168 5 років тому +84

      That’s what he deserve😡😡😂😂😂

    • @landan7626
      @landan7626 5 років тому +16

      r/thisreallyhappened

  • @gr3yb4lls
    @gr3yb4lls 5 років тому +1526

    This black boy said to me "why do you keep wearing braids, just wear your natural hair", I tried to educate him about african hair and he didn't want to hear none of it.😑

    • @milkfangg
      @milkfangg 5 років тому +176

      Lol , he shouldn't have asked the question if he didn't wanna listen to the answer?💁😌

    • @Elligons
      @Elligons 5 років тому +126

      That's just basic men telling women what to do with their bodies.

    • @kishanpatel6993
      @kishanpatel6993 5 років тому +16

      Elligons hair and things about the body you are referring to are very different we all have hair we all have a say

    • @Nunu_bear
      @Nunu_bear 5 років тому +31

      @@Elligons this is why i hate being a girl, because of girls like this pretending all men are bad.

    • @packeiraboyce7858
      @packeiraboyce7858 5 років тому +6

      Sunny I stopped trying 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @katefrancinethbauleth2500
    @katefrancinethbauleth2500 5 років тому +1797

    Oh,and women in Africa can afford packaged hair,a lot of it even👀

    • @natura5778
      @natura5778 5 років тому +118

      A lot more too if white ppl didn't come by and start sucking up all of our valuables SMFH

    • @713-v8y
      @713-v8y 5 років тому +57

      they dont even need it. they have long hair already

    • @macquechol8148
      @macquechol8148 5 років тому +6

      @@713-v8y oml. its a protective style

    • @cookiesandrainbows3322
      @cookiesandrainbows3322 5 років тому +29

      Literally the dumbest shit ever wtf💀

    • @abrokecollegestudent3507
      @abrokecollegestudent3507 5 років тому +20

      It is not that expensive. Also, we can grow our own hair and braid that. Da fuck.

  • @mabrurahmed3304
    @mabrurahmed3304 4 роки тому +412

    "don't touch a black girl's hair"?
    Bruh don't touch anyone's hair!!that's creepy!!! Keep your hands to yourself!!!

    • @chillfactory9000
      @chillfactory9000 4 роки тому +67

      If you wouldn't touch a white persons hair, don't touch a black persons.

    • @shadowcat311
      @shadowcat311 4 роки тому +8

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @sarcasticnotsad5155
      @sarcasticnotsad5155 4 роки тому +8

      People started asking to touch my hair because I snapped at them when they did it out of nowhere 😆

    • @SevenTailedWolf72
      @SevenTailedWolf72 4 роки тому +5

      Is it bad that I like when people touch my hair? LoL

    • @jaitsadi-gee
      @jaitsadi-gee 4 роки тому +7

      @@SevenTailedWolf72 No. It's your choice. My bae can touch my hair all day (and all night), and I don't mind. As a matter of fact, he's ONE of the reasons I stopped cutting it. ;)

  • @boneappletea5890
    @boneappletea5890 5 років тому +2707

    Personally as a white person i don’t like being ignorant so I really like content like yours is very helpful so thanks

    • @boneappletea5890
      @boneappletea5890 5 років тому +151

      Soso Lydia swear you’re trying to educate people but they are so ignorant they can’t even listen and you are basically talking to thin air

    • @itsmeyallnope8305
      @itsmeyallnope8305 5 років тому +16

      Listening to her can make you lose brain cells.

    • @boneappletea5890
      @boneappletea5890 5 років тому +9

      it's me yall nope listening to who?

    • @princessk9748
      @princessk9748 5 років тому +7

      nope she's educated tho.... so.......

    • @mgirlstar5066
      @mgirlstar5066 5 років тому +7

      Ooh is that Aristotle and Dante in your profile pic

  • @amberb8379
    @amberb8379 5 років тому +1489

    I got my hair braided and this girl really said “can I unbraided it...I’ll Rebraid it so it’ll be the same” 😒

    • @sisiclaude2392
      @sisiclaude2392 5 років тому +116

      Amber B lol 😂😂 I would’ve said something slick

    • @lovelylleah3289
      @lovelylleah3289 5 років тому +51

      Amber B 💀💀💀💀the same happens to me

    • @FirstnameLastname-ht5tr
      @FirstnameLastname-ht5tr 5 років тому +19

      If there my friend I'll let them cause I don't really mind if it's my friends

    • @constancesanders8466
      @constancesanders8466 5 років тому +9

      😂😂😂👊🏾

    • @theeGamborette
      @theeGamborette 5 років тому +142

      i would say "can i rip of your hair off? I can glue it on after, it will DEFFINANTLY look the same". That will make em' run

  • @paranormal7174
    @paranormal7174 5 років тому +1545

    If I had a dollar for every “ is that it real hair” when it is I would be RICH AF

    • @thatnigerianbeauty5065
      @thatnigerianbeauty5065 5 років тому +53

      Omg. It happens to me all the time. I do my braids myself with different colors and I work at a grocery store. Most if my customers keep asking me "is that your real hair?" "How long did it take you?" "Do you wash your braids?" "How did you get three different colors in there?. It's tiring af. I don't have to sit you down and explain to you. Just compliment the hair if you like it and move on

    • @ayanahaygood6613
      @ayanahaygood6613 5 років тому +2

      KawaiiPixel Gacha for real

    • @courtney2702
      @courtney2702 5 років тому

      KawaiiPixel Gacha I would not even need to work or go to school

    • @zeheirayasharahla8090
      @zeheirayasharahla8090 5 років тому

      KawaiiPixel Gacha I swear 🥰💯

    • @yalondahardaway5050
      @yalondahardaway5050 5 років тому

      Me too

  • @danib1421
    @danib1421 4 роки тому +1836

    If someone touches my hair without permission I touch there hair. Yes this is a petting zoo we both in it.

    • @gemineelmore9180
      @gemineelmore9180 4 роки тому +62

      Hilarious

    • @cz538
      @cz538 4 роки тому +35

      Yesss

    • @LitMusicYT
      @LitMusicYT 4 роки тому +15

      I'm a give u a slap in the face.

    • @stephanie4337
      @stephanie4337 4 роки тому +58

      😂 I never thought to do this. I normally grab the person arm/hand and throw it off.

    • @cyanidesidesalad
      @cyanidesidesalad 4 роки тому +2

      😂 ong

  • @cupcakeangel365
    @cupcakeangel365 5 років тому +1689

    When I was in high school (mostly white)
    White person: so you sew in your weave?
    Me: Yes
    White person: into your head?
    Me: no through braids
    White person: 🤯🧐

    • @temi8212
      @temi8212 5 років тому +59

      cupcakeangel365 omg u have *no* idea

    • @nimat-lahbalogun9809
      @nimat-lahbalogun9809 5 років тому +145

      cupcakeangel365 I'm wearing weave right now and this happened as well. People also asked if it's a wig then PULLED IT. Like get your crusty hands off my hair

    • @lulufool
      @lulufool 5 років тому +17

      well if i don't understand i question, im sorry if that is inconvenient

    • @trynafindada
      @trynafindada 5 років тому +6

      cupcakeangel365 it really be like that💀

    • @trynafindada
      @trynafindada 5 років тому +28

      “Is THat YoUr ReAl HAiR” bitch..

  • @yos33tdr3ams
    @yos33tdr3ams 5 років тому +472

    DON'T touch anyone's hair without permission
    PERIODT
    (EDIT: Armies EVERYWHERE 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜)

    • @wiktoriasuchanska2584
      @wiktoriasuchanska2584 5 років тому +8

      Armyy

    • @yos33tdr3ams
      @yos33tdr3ams 5 років тому +7

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

    • @allisonrose9186
      @allisonrose9186 5 років тому +8

      Omg armmyyyy

    • @chloecharlton9704
      @chloecharlton9704 5 років тому +9

      There was this one girl in my class who would touch me and my friends hair all the time so I called her a colonizer. I was 10.

    • @rose-a-bleu4281
      @rose-a-bleu4281 5 років тому

      Azucar슈가 sorry I don’t speak thotinese😂👌

  • @bernicethiga23
    @bernicethiga23 5 років тому +889

    one time I wore my natural hair to school and this one white kid came up to me and asked “how does your hair grow out of your scalp like that” .... I legit got up and walked away

    • @User-xk3nw
      @User-xk3nw 5 років тому +114

      If somebody doesn't know something don't shame them, educate them. Nobody would learn anything without asking questions, including you and me

    • @soph3378
      @soph3378 5 років тому +157

      @Abidjanaise And you know they keep making that "educate" excuse, like damn how many times do people have to educate you on same topic over and over again. The internet is right there.

    • @skepticaljoy9351
      @skepticaljoy9351 5 років тому +4

      Lmao😂😂 you gotta be kidding me

    • @Five2_
      @Five2_ 5 років тому +8

      I would be stuck like how in the fuck....?

    • @ellenaj2764
      @ellenaj2764 5 років тому +1

      That's a whole joke

  • @Ckb.
    @Ckb. 4 роки тому +371

    One time i wore my hair to school in a fro and ppl were like "its not crazy hair day" "whats with your hair" LIKE IM SORRY YOU DONT HAVE VOLUME IN YOUR HAIR EMMA

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 4 роки тому +22

      Omggggggg

    • @JaneSmith-rx6kx
      @JaneSmith-rx6kx 4 роки тому +47

      Ignore them, there's probably envy.... I was very frustrated and a bit jealous as a child,because my little blond pigtails NEVER looked as cool as my black friends.

    • @arwengarraway9143
      @arwengarraway9143 4 роки тому +14

      I did that once and a girl laughed at me....I simply left the ignorant swine to her ignorance

    • @dakuten3882
      @dakuten3882 4 роки тому +3

      This happened to be too and my hair wasn't even in a fro. F you Kylie.

    • @chi1899
      @chi1899 4 роки тому +7

      This happened to me in first grade, but it was teacher

  • @ataya6623
    @ataya6623 5 років тому +729

    It was only 24 seconds into the video and I’m already heated 😭 the way the girls looked at her Smfh

    • @TheeMademoiselle
      @TheeMademoiselle  5 років тому +10

      TayTay dead ass lmao

    • @r.a.y.a.n.a
      @r.a.y.a.n.a 5 років тому +3

      Rigght

    • @QueenKLLC
      @QueenKLLC 5 років тому +7

      My neck would have tilted off it's axis with my eyes twitching and all right there in the office in front of them as they probably might ask if I may be going Into an epileptic seizure.

    • @r.a.y.a.n.a
      @r.a.y.a.n.a 5 років тому

      @@QueenKLLC 😭😭

    • @kino2818
      @kino2818 5 років тому

      Ikr

  • @ashley6817
    @ashley6817 5 років тому +508

    Literally have 3 packets of "packaged hair" on my head right now and I'm African

  • @luvvxnia2537
    @luvvxnia2537 4 роки тому +1418

    “I’m pretty sure women in Africa can’t afford packaged hair”.....bby there’s a lot of people that can afford Range rovers in Africa and you’re talking about packaged hair💀💀💀 I cant-

    • @user-qn9bx3jm5d
      @user-qn9bx3jm5d 4 роки тому +96

      Bruh talk about Lamborghinis... range rovers are quite normal to find in the streets

    • @jkamara77
      @jkamara77 4 роки тому +39

      mansions dudeee

    • @shenii6512
      @shenii6512 4 роки тому +32

      Exactly in africa if you have the money you can buy it.

    • @idontknowbutitsok9739
      @idontknowbutitsok9739 4 роки тому +34

      Omg ikr when I went back home for holidays I saw range rovers non stop

    • @mina3442
      @mina3442 4 роки тому +7

      I’m just so done- 💀

  • @erinmatthews1921
    @erinmatthews1921 4 роки тому +882

    “ tHey cAnt evEn afFord bRaiDing hAiR”
    Sis braiding hair is $1.99 at the local beauty supply store😭😭

    • @charityokleki4667
      @charityokleki4667 4 роки тому +38

      Erin Matthews funny enough our braids in Africa can cost up to 34.62 dollers depending on how we do it

    • @eggsammich1186
      @eggsammich1186 4 роки тому +66

      It's not that cheap, but it definitely is affordable 🤣

    • @leannac2282
      @leannac2282 4 роки тому +61

      They are so ignorant. I'm a woman in Africa who just took out her braids and has another hair appointment tomorrow. Africa is not as poor as they wanna make it seem

    • @samanthasmith6921
      @samanthasmith6921 4 роки тому +15

      Uh! Some of my beauty stores here are still at $0.69 per pack 😒 i don't know what some white fokes really be 🤷🤔

    • @thadramallama
      @thadramallama 4 роки тому +12

      @@leannac2282 I KNOW RIGHT!! Some guy in my school literally asked me if I lived in a mud hut when I use to live in Africa!!!

  • @bexii786
    @bexii786 5 років тому +303

    disrespected but not about my hair but about my hijab like yes Wendy I have hair under this and no I don't wear it in the shower🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @kachyn_
    @kachyn_ 5 років тому +511

    Y'all should listen to solange "don't touch my hair" 😑

  • @Marvellous442
    @Marvellous442 5 років тому +621

    I live in Africa and we can afford a lot more than packaged hair🙄🙄

    • @giseleornellankieeyenga3147
      @giseleornellankieeyenga3147 5 років тому +8

      Marvellous Tunes tell them!!!!!

    • @bernicet7325
      @bernicet7325 5 років тому +35

      👏🏾👏🏾 They absolutely hate to see us winning.....they watch these movies that display us as wild people living in mud and huts when they don’t know the beauty of the motherland 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @ravenrosemia4840
      @ravenrosemia4840 5 років тому

      @@bernicet7325 omg the BBC loves to do that vice too

    • @umaguriaveraz2834
      @umaguriaveraz2834 5 років тому +17

      @sevengance where? Stop watching TV, you NEED to get out more.

    • @amaniibrahim5599
      @amaniibrahim5599 5 років тому +11

      sevengance half of us BITCH what tv is eating all you’re brain cells 😭😑😑 go and don’t talk shit about africa you never been there don’t know anything about it soo be quite thank you 🙏🏾

  • @girlfromthehood8919
    @girlfromthehood8919 4 роки тому +820

    I'm not being rude or anything like that..but I'm tired of other countries looking down on Africa, Number 1. Africa is not a country it's a Continent..Number 2. We don't have animals walking up and down on the streets, we have zoos and where they keep them..Number 3. We also have electronic devices, such as: TV's, cell phones, laptops, etc...Number 4.Not all Africans live in huts or straw houses or houses like that. We do have normal houses. In fact, there are lots of mansions in African countries( based on where you are)..Number 5. I'm from South Africa, and I can assure you that I wouldn't want to immagrate to anywhere in the world, I must say I love South Africa with all my heart..it might not be a (well developed) country like the USA..but we are working on it. I believe that God will help us rebuild our Continent so we can stop poverty in other countries in Africa, and meet other people's needs.
    You can go to AFRICA FACTS ZONE on Twitter, and you'll see how beautiful Africa is...
    I forgot to add that we also have water..
    Edit: I would also like to add that Africa has never needed the world, the world needs Africa. Almost all of our resources come from Africa, but because we have selfish leaders here..we don't use our resources in a responsible way. I mean think about the diamonds and the Gold that we have here..we could be a rich continent, but we were blessed with selfish leaders😧

    • @lawriem7747
      @lawriem7747 4 роки тому +38

      Is the USA really a well-developed country though?

    • @girlfromthehood8919
      @girlfromthehood8919 4 роки тому +19

      @@lawriem7747 I don't know..I mean, judging from what we see on TV, it's a pretty cool country. You guys have all the things that you need..

    • @lilxpotadoe6366
      @lilxpotadoe6366 4 роки тому +37

      @@girlfromthehood8919 almost...we have white privilege instead of equality for all races. So not exactly EVERYTHING we need.

    • @girlfromthehood8919
      @girlfromthehood8919 4 роки тому +22

      @@lilxpotadoe6366 same here in South Africa...But with all that's going on in your Country, I wish you guys nothing but the best...everything will be alright.

    • @girlfromthehood8919
      @girlfromthehood8919 4 роки тому +16

      @@nala3055 OMG😂😂She should really learn more about Africa...there's also a girl from my school who is from the USA, she told us that she thought that Africa was a country, until she moved her in South Africa with her parents. But now she knows more about Africa. She even told us it's not as bad as she thought.

  • @saaraah9790
    @saaraah9790 5 років тому +725

    Got 4 on my head, 10 under my bed, and like 30 in my mom's closet, so I think I can afford packaged hair💁🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @jazzybear2763
      @jazzybear2763 5 років тому +25

      Um question why u got so many bundles?

    • @mothisgud2040
      @mothisgud2040 5 років тому +74

      @@jazzybear2763 always be prepared

    • @keiannamcgruder9190
      @keiannamcgruder9190 5 років тому +24

      Facts my mom has more braiding hair and bundles than clothes

    • @peacheau5199
      @peacheau5199 5 років тому +23

      Sis is prepared

    • @o_o9687
      @o_o9687 5 років тому +7

      saaraa h yes queen
      Let em know

  • @vastya.3255
    @vastya.3255 5 років тому +873

    onisions mom💀💀💀💀

  • @aestheticanxiety3656
    @aestheticanxiety3656 5 років тому +1458

    Fun fact a lot of African Americans created a lot of stuff we use in a daily life. Soooo 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @princess__blueberry1775
      @princess__blueberry1775 5 років тому +58

      Yup like a good 90% of it

    • @princess__blueberry1775
      @princess__blueberry1775 5 років тому +75

      @Otaku rex
      Black people invented everything so yes it would be a good 90 to 95%,
      Stop trying to claim shit that's not yours.

    • @princess__blueberry1775
      @princess__blueberry1775 5 років тому +72

      @Otaku rex
      There's this man on UA-cam that's called "everybody hates angel"
      In one of his videos called "black people invented everything", It literally gives you a long ass list of black people who invented the cell phone the Internet, etc.

    • @sophinenijland2510
      @sophinenijland2510 5 років тому +17

      Aesthetic Anxiety and so did white people

    • @princess__blueberry1775
      @princess__blueberry1775 5 років тому +60

      @@sophinenijland2510
      Not as much as much black people, that's for sure.

  • @tiarahill9178
    @tiarahill9178 4 роки тому +113

    “I’m pretty sure women in Africa can’t afford packaged hair”
    Does she not know how hair works. You don’t need packaged hair to braid you can use your own hair that grows naturally.

    • @hussainvirk8598
      @hussainvirk8598 4 роки тому +14

      Tiara Hill yes and women in Africa can afford packaged hair

  • @halamilktea
    @halamilktea 5 років тому +618

    well, here in KENYA, in AFRICA women CAN DEFINITELY afford packaged hair. No white women could EVER pull off the hairstyles that African women be wearing in these streets. PERIOD. 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @phoenixmoon5580
      @phoenixmoon5580 4 роки тому +6

      My hair is a lotta weird, and I'm caucasian to the point that printer/copier paper has more of a tan than me. My first response would have been 'challenge accepted'. Then I realised Kenyan women and African women are more women than I can comprehend, and in more ways than I can comprehend. So my second response is: Can you please send me a link or few to some of the hairstyles (or specifically name them)? I would like to learn about them.

    • @livelife7232
      @livelife7232 4 роки тому +65

      @@glitterrose716 who told you only black people wear wigs?!? every race wear wigs

    • @mangotoffee422
      @mangotoffee422 4 роки тому +9

      Goo Kenya!

    • @toorikie
      @toorikie 4 роки тому +8

      yess finally sm/one from where im from

    • @elizabethwangari2770
      @elizabethwangari2770 4 роки тому +4

      Yaaaas same from kenya

  • @Tee-le4ci
    @Tee-le4ci 5 років тому +611

    I just wanted to say, your puff looks really full and beautiful 🤩🤩

  • @robynpruitt1116
    @robynpruitt1116 5 років тому +396

    I'm white and I DO NOT shampoo my hair everyday... it's horrible for your hair.

    • @oliveoil5034
      @oliveoil5034 4 роки тому +35

      that right black ppl we dont wash are hair everyday......

    • @maxinecard3603
      @maxinecard3603 4 роки тому +37

      If we wash their hair every day ironically it gets dry especially with my 4c hair

    • @nonames5883
      @nonames5883 4 роки тому +11

      @@oliveoil5034 I'm white and I dont that just dries your hair out

    • @averagetacocat1530
      @averagetacocat1530 4 роки тому +6

      I only really use conditioner plus if you want hair to grow faster and more rich wash it less keep it moisturized and leave it be

    • @kissriy
      @kissriy 4 роки тому +3

      Right us black people can got over 6 months without washing our hair

  • @jiminfoundhisjams7395
    @jiminfoundhisjams7395 4 роки тому +704

    If I got a dollar for every "is that your real hair" they'd be here and I'd be on a yacht.

    • @queenv22
      @queenv22 4 роки тому +57

      same or the “why did u change your hair again😒”

    • @jinxinghour8766
      @jinxinghour8766 4 роки тому +56

      @@queenv22 Bruh.
      Or
      "how did your hair grow sO fast"

    • @sxmply_bibi1989
      @sxmply_bibi1989 4 роки тому +24

      JinxingHour or did u dye ur hair

    • @jinxinghour8766
      @jinxinghour8766 4 роки тому +16

      @@sxmply_bibi1989 yeah
      The list could go on for dayyys

    • @victoriajames6634
      @victoriajames6634 4 роки тому +25

      @@jinxinghour8766 Or like "Can I touch your hair?"

  • @dedeshikaalabi-mensah9471
    @dedeshikaalabi-mensah9471 5 років тому +293

    I was called a wild child when I had a huge stretched out fro at work and asked to wear twist outs instead. At least they knew different styles I guess 😅I left that job.

    • @barbarapeller
      @barbarapeller 5 років тому +11

      Dedeshika Alabi-Mensah, good for you, why can't we be who we are?

    • @zay-zay3
      @zay-zay3 5 років тому +9

      That's messed up. People just get jealous of natural hair

  • @dprmingi
    @dprmingi 5 років тому +603

    “like what is this? onisions mum?” I WHEEZED FUCK AJANJSNS

    • @oliverweise4414
      @oliverweise4414 5 років тому +3

      hyungwon is done 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂your comment kills me yes she must be his mom

    • @Goddessreyah
      @Goddessreyah 5 років тому

      hyungwon is done 😭😭

    • @HunterLvyiXIII
      @HunterLvyiXIII 5 років тому +2

      Yes! It's really early and I think I might have woken my roommate 😅 that part had me dead 🤣💀

  • @mosaikapariat5957
    @mosaikapariat5957 5 років тому +89

    I'm a French black girl and I'm so obsessed with the fact that I can relate to these problems. It means that it has crossed boundaries and that the black community have the same problems in every occidental countries. That's a shame.

    • @Tssharif
      @Tssharif 10 місяців тому

      You from congo?

  • @StrongSinger
    @StrongSinger 4 роки тому +159

    I remember i had to get my ear fixed through a plastic surgeon. The office was in a white area, all the staff was white and the surgeon was a older white guy. The first time i came in my hair was in its natural state. Then i came back for a follow up and my hair was in braids. He wasn’t disrespectful at all. Very fascinated by my hair. Half my appointment was talking about my hair lol my ear is great he did a great job 🤣

    • @anonamous6968
      @anonamous6968 4 роки тому +21

      Nice. I sometimes think that there is an opportunity to enlighten that some people don't use. Like I was tell someone else on here. Many non black people are just now beginning to even comprehend how black hair works. They are so out of the loop with regards to weaves, wigs etc. No clue about black hair care etc. It's a real mystery to them. They often think it's cool or beautiful but have no idea what goes into it. It's so different than what they are used to. I think once everyone is on the same page and understands how it works, stuff like in this video skit will happen a lot less. But we have to get there first. I think black people can play a part. Not that you're obligated to but, if you educate and help all information about black hair be common knowledge stuff like this won't happen. Once the mystery is gone and people know better than to touch, how hair styles are achieved, etc, or what is considered a rude way to approach a question about hair, there will be less and less of this occurring. I hope.
      So nice to hear about your willingness to have a pleasant conversation with your surgeon and that he was respectful. I'm sure you enlightened him and now he knows more than before. Very nice.

  • @fafarofie8112
    @fafarofie8112 5 років тому +620

    She tried it
    I'm from South Africa Durban and I'm definitely sure we can afford packaged hair
    And white people need to learn to ask us about our hair without being racist
    I definitely relate people don't even ask to touch your hair around here they just fuckin touch it

    • @sativa777
      @sativa777 5 років тому +10

      People don’t dare touch my hair if I don’t give them a go. Like I know most people don’t like others touching their hair but for me it gives me a calming effect

    • @hisokamorow5393
      @hisokamorow5393 5 років тому +9

      Oh my gawd you're so pretty

    • @sounds_4177
      @sounds_4177 5 років тому +3

      I know right. Like they have the right

    • @hopeorendal8658
      @hopeorendal8658 5 років тому +2

      Black Rose you see here in Cape Town they only ask after they have touched your hair, smh 🤦‍♀️

    • @WhitneyKM
      @WhitneyKM 5 років тому

      Hey neighbour, from Johannesburg

  • @Tee-le4ci
    @Tee-le4ci 5 років тому +493

    People used to call me bald all because I had short natural hair and they refused to understand my explanations. My hair was relaxed and I cut it myself.

  • @teetea1155
    @teetea1155 5 років тому +290

    When he touched her hair I literally cringed because I have locs and I've had white people ask to touch it

    • @shivermetimbers9663
      @shivermetimbers9663 5 років тому +16

      Geez that's better then me! They just come and touch my hair.

    • @destynemarrero8767
      @destynemarrero8767 5 років тому

      Mia Shepher

    • @lone6718
      @lone6718 5 років тому +6

      Tiara Stone .....I have had people touch or pet my hair before (I’m white), usually they were older ladies or a dude hitting on me. I was taught to keep my hands to myself, so it has always bugs me when people make a move like they are going to touch me.

    • @teetea1155
      @teetea1155 5 років тому

      @@shivermetimbers9663 omg I would be so mad if they just came up and touched it

    • @foodwhore9961
      @foodwhore9961 5 років тому +1

      A mean people come up to me and touch my hair black and white so

  • @pennilessdeity2198
    @pennilessdeity2198 4 роки тому +75

    "I'm pretty sure women in Africa cannot afford packaged hair" bish most people in Africa I know have like 3 or 4 houses in Africa so I'm pretty sure we can afford it karen

  • @eshblue1884
    @eshblue1884 5 років тому +214

    For a while I always wore my hair in braids and twists. So I decided to let my hair breath and wore it out, natural. The temp in the office (older white lady) "wow what happened to your hair?" "ummm this is my natural hair" "wow it's so wild and woolly"....I think ya'll can guess the face I gave her

    • @cookielove4ever363
      @cookielove4ever363 5 років тому +6

      Ur profile picture is perfect!

    • @joannediaz8978
      @joannediaz8978 5 років тому +13

      I would've said, Yup! Just like Jesus 🙌

    • @chosenamongst3914
      @chosenamongst3914 5 років тому

      I hope it was the biggest cringe you ever had lol

    • @pickoneformethen
      @pickoneformethen 5 років тому +9

      They did describe jesus having hair like wool in the bible woah.

  • @chillinwdjess2519
    @chillinwdjess2519 5 років тому +235

    I’m the only black person in my public speaking class. I decided to educate them on the braided hair styles. I made sure I told them that Bo Derik did not started the style. Moun blan ooo 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @stephaniesissons9978
      @stephaniesissons9978 5 років тому +3

      GOOD ON CHU!!

    • @Maxeeemay
      @Maxeeemay 5 років тому +5

      Yeoo, ‘Moun blan” has me weak😭😂😂😂.

    • @ellalexa7929
      @ellalexa7929 5 років тому +1

      "Moun blan oo" lmao 😃

    • @alittlewheiser521
      @alittlewheiser521 5 років тому +3

      Smart people know Bo Derek didn't start the braid trend. Young people today don't even know who she is!

    • @endl1234
      @endl1234 5 років тому

      Yes moun blan for real👀👀

  • @kadiesowa7681
    @kadiesowa7681 5 років тому +818

    I got suspended for wearing A head wrap at school 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @roses2122
      @roses2122 4 роки тому +107

      That’s just dumb

    • @charityokleki4667
      @charityokleki4667 4 роки тому +58

      😦 bruuuuuuhhhhhhh

    • @sniff.6186
      @sniff.6186 4 роки тому +67

      Omg are u- I would sue somehow.

    • @smileunice8822
      @smileunice8822 4 роки тому +36

      Seriously?! Ooooohhhhhh lawwwdddddd HAVE MERCY!!!

    • @mitchellwoods4523
      @mitchellwoods4523 4 роки тому +30

      Fr bruh I had to wear a bonnet and got sent to the office but the principal said it was fine... All 7 times that day

  • @xgoldfishgirlx2277
    @xgoldfishgirlx2277 4 роки тому +279

    “I’m Not sure if women in Africa can afford hair”
    My mom: has 150 packs of hair in the closet.

    • @luhruby7519
      @luhruby7519 4 роки тому +12

      Mood

    • @lilianrose715
      @lilianrose715 4 роки тому +10

      Let me get 5 packs please

    • @xgoldfishgirlx2277
      @xgoldfishgirlx2277 4 роки тому +5

      Sure 😂

    • @spookyscaryskelies2187
      @spookyscaryskelies2187 4 роки тому +9

      right!! like I live in america but I am originally from kenya and everytime we go home, my mo buys literally a whole luggage full of hair pieces, she reserves one just for them.

    • @hiitsme9958
      @hiitsme9958 4 роки тому +1

      My mom has a collection on wigs

  • @theyycraveenii
    @theyycraveenii 5 років тому +1665

    This boy in my class pulled my braids and I beat him up and punched him in his face at lunch

    • @Bored-vk5ky
      @Bored-vk5ky 5 років тому +147

      Love Bugg you did the right thing sis

    • @theyycraveenii
      @theyycraveenii 5 років тому +85

      -lilsymoney - yea you don’t understand how mad I was

    • @oluwasolaadu1314
      @oluwasolaadu1314 5 років тому +10

      LMAO gud

    • @theyycraveenii
      @theyycraveenii 5 років тому +84

      Otaku rex u don’t understand how much it was hurting but I guess I’ll try that next time

    • @theyycraveenii
      @theyycraveenii 5 років тому +131

      Otaku rex but if he touch me I touch him back PERIODT

  • @opinionatedlibra1934
    @opinionatedlibra1934 5 років тому +194

    Very clueless person needs to be like the one the one couple who adopted a little black girl. The dad took braiding lessons from an African American hair shop and the mom asked an African American lady in the store for hair product advice.

  • @Cabbage_3659
    @Cabbage_3659 5 років тому +328

    People be touching my puff and I be about to slap them

  • @firebirdtelevision175
    @firebirdtelevision175 4 роки тому +23

    As a child, I had very long straight hair. My grandmother lived in a black neighborhood that had lots of other children to play with. I was different, but a few of the girls befriended me anyway. We were so young, honesty came easily. We were fascinated with each other's hair. They would try to fix my hair like theirs (I have always wanted curly hair) and it would look like a floppy mess, but we had fun. After some of the older girls saw them regularly playing with me, they were told they weren't allowed to be my friend anymore. I remember sitting on my grandma's stoop and crying when they would pass, I didn't understand. That was when I started begging my mother for a perm and trying to get my skin to darken in the sun. Now in my 40s, I embrace my silky hair and pale skin. If someone doesn't want to be my friend because of how I look, it's their loss (cause I'm a pretty cool gal just the way I am).

  • @favourosunbitan1144
    @favourosunbitan1144 5 років тому +216

    Her-I’m sure people Africa can’t afford hair packages
    Me-Yall know we do have hair under these braids and wigs we’re not bald

    • @mayamaya1735
      @mayamaya1735 5 років тому +9

      Africa rich can’t believe you never knew that :/

    • @Darkdemonoflite
      @Darkdemonoflite 5 років тому +8

      And there are beauty supply store all over africa lol

  • @r.a.y.a.n.a
    @r.a.y.a.n.a 5 років тому +243

    Bro every time I took out my braids one of my teachers would be like "oh you took out your hair...I like it,bit what happened to it???" I would be like you just answered you own question like why are you asking that??

    • @mypanexogamouslineage965
      @mypanexogamouslineage965 5 років тому +5

      They wanna know why, though.
      Why did you decide to take out your hair.
      What moved you!?

    • @r.a.y.a.n.a
      @r.a.y.a.n.a 5 років тому +7

      @@mypanexogamouslineage965 no I had that hairstyle for a while and then when I took it out that's what they asked I would never do something because somebody said something

    • @tjackson6284
      @tjackson6284 5 років тому +3

      @@mypanexogamouslineage965 do you ask girls "why are you wearing a ponytail today?"
      Are we not allowed to change our hairstyle when we want to?

    • @Marie-rb2vy
      @Marie-rb2vy 5 років тому +1

      T Jackson well if someone has the same hairstyle for a while (ponytail or whatever) and then suddenly changes it I actually ask them, why they changed it. It's not such a big deal honestly

    • @tjackson6284
      @tjackson6284 5 років тому

      @@Marie-rb2vy that's really unusual to me.
      I understand if it is a DRASTIC change like someone with really long hair who came in with a pixie cut. But a basic hairstyle, no.
      Where I come from, girls change their hairstyle every day (all the girls, black, white, asian, latina etc - even the girl with short hair changes it up every once in a while). We say "Your hair looks cute today" but never "Why did you change your hair?" That's equivalent to "Why did you change your clothes?"

  • @ripples2.0
    @ripples2.0 5 років тому +222

    I grew up around all kinds of people, so my world view is a bit bigger than some, and even if I don't know all there is to know about black hair, at least I know not to touch it 😑 that part made me cringe so bad! One of my white friends tried to do this to my coworker who was black and I had to stop her and apologize to my coworker. It baffled me that she truly didn't see what she was doing wrong.

    • @TheeMademoiselle
      @TheeMademoiselle  5 років тому +22

      Coffee Time smh that’s insane man.

    • @barbarapeller
      @barbarapeller 5 років тому +17

      Coffee Time, I walked into my doctor's office one day and there was this older white lady checking in at the front desk, when I walked up she turned and looked at me, stunned-looking, she asked me, "Is that your hair, can I touch it?" I had my hair in a puff like this young lady, I didn't mind her asking me if it were my hair, but I do not like for anyone to put their hands in my hair, Black or White. I wasn't rude to her, I just simply smile and said, "No."

    • @ripples2.0
      @ripples2.0 5 років тому +10

      @@barbarapeller I just don't understand why some people would do that or even ask. I wouldn't want a stranger putting their hands in my hair so I don't get how other people think it's okay to do that. Its common sense. I'm sorry black men and women have to deal with this daily.

    • @ThePhillyfashionista
      @ThePhillyfashionista 5 років тому

      Wonderful

    • @latrellejackson375
      @latrellejackson375 5 років тому

      Stop calling people black and let's see what changes.

  • @fairlyfeminine8630
    @fairlyfeminine8630 4 роки тому +60

    I put my hair in twists and all the white kids at school the next day said “I like your dreads, when did you get them,” 😭😭😭😭

  • @elliekingston1281
    @elliekingston1281 5 років тому +272

    I wish black women understood how beautiful their hair is and how beautiful they are.

  • @victorgitobu8313
    @victorgitobu8313 5 років тому +1229

    Neighbors:wanna play
    Me:no i have to do my hair
    Neighbor: the braids
    Me: ya why
    Neighbors: can we watch
    Me: its an hour
    Neighbors: its ok
    Me: *what the frikkk?
    THANK YOU FOR ALL THE LIKES I HAVE NEVER GOT THAT MANY!!!!!!!(395)!

    • @yomama2469
      @yomama2469 5 років тому +39

      When I had mines they took 6 hours 😥😩

    • @itsellen1747
      @itsellen1747 5 років тому +25

      Mine took 10 hours

    • @bananahogo5609
      @bananahogo5609 5 років тому +1

      Customlicious Custom Desserts I can relate 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @ernaryfaithh
      @ernaryfaithh 5 років тому

      Victor Gitobu lmao really

    • @natsudragneel305
      @natsudragneel305 5 років тому

      Victor Gitobu 😂

  • @cherry8835
    @cherry8835 5 років тому +148

    White woman: thats not ur real hair!??!
    Me: yes its my real hair it just magically grew over night...NO LINDA ITS NOT MY REAL HAIR ITS WEAVE DONT TOUCH IT!

    • @leahjames6870
      @leahjames6870 4 роки тому +17

      Right, get it together Linda😭😭😭

    • @amazhasjamsok5392
      @amazhasjamsok5392 4 роки тому

      Exactly!, honestly where do they think we got it from😂😅

    • @kingveve7163
      @kingveve7163 4 роки тому

      “Karen”

  • @glittergirljmm
    @glittergirljmm 4 роки тому +36

    All of this!
    Last year, a customer reached for my hair but caught herself at the last minute.
    She dropped her hand and her head. She looked up at me apologetically and said "it's so pretty"
    I will never forget her. She was so respectful. It had never considered that she or anyone who grabbed my hair though it was pretty. 🤭

    • @anonamous6968
      @anonamous6968 4 роки тому +5

      Yep. People sometimes are just curious and forget themselves.

    • @bakedjesus1177
      @bakedjesus1177 4 роки тому +1

      Most people just curious what if feels like I'll be honest I wanna touch a big fro I ain't gonna lie friend of mine had a big one always had to fight the urge to touch it I don't know if it's true but Heard your hair is really brittle and really hard to get it that long idk

    • @glittergirljmm
      @glittergirljmm 4 роки тому +2

      @@bakedjesus1177 thank you for your honesty. It just feels like hair. It is just really curly hair. If you take care of it, it's soft. If you don't, it is dry or rough. The strands tend to be thinner, so it can be fragile and like most curly hair, it tends to get frizzy.
      As a hair and make up artist I can tell you that most hair basically is the same. You treat it basically the same, except for styling. If your friend is really close, it might be OK to ask. The biggest problem is people touching you. Strangers should not just walk up and pet you like a puppy. Curiosity makes people feel more "other". As a woman with ample bussom people are, including women, curious. I prefer that people don't touch those either. 😉
      It's usually OK if you ask someone you know, just don't walk up and grab someone. 😊

    • @k.v.7681
      @k.v.7681 4 роки тому +2

      I'm a redhead and people touch my hair all the time. Mostly women and old people. It pisses me off. Like, I'm not a cute dog to pet.... or a curiosity out of a zoo. I get also get the "is it real hair" trope black people are subjected to. People asking me if it was my real color (or the not so subtle "does the carpet match the drapes" question) drove me so mad once that I removed my shirt to show my chest hair while shouting/ranting... not my proudest moment, but I was so exasperated that I didn't think, and it was a really bad day...

    • @anonamous6968
      @anonamous6968 4 роки тому +1

      @@k.v.7681 I was thinking you were going to say "so I pulled down my pants. There are you happy! " lol

  • @CemeteryGates436
    @CemeteryGates436 5 років тому +204

    "Thats so gross" ummmm i dont wash my hair every day either lol and why did tht guy feel the need to touch her hair thts weird

    • @michellesmith3064
      @michellesmith3064 5 років тому +13

      Caitlin same I don't wash my hair everyday either

    • @mayamaya1735
      @mayamaya1735 5 років тому +11

      I mean black people cant wash there hair everyday it messes up

    • @kittydollsxo189
      @kittydollsxo189 5 років тому +6

      Black people hair produce barely to no oil
      So because of that they're hair doesn't get get dirty for a lonnnng time other then the products they add for moisture that builds up

    • @ThickestSkull03
      @ThickestSkull03 5 років тому +4

      Same. I wash my hair once or twice a week. Lol

    • @tammycook1675
      @tammycook1675 5 років тому +4

      I don't either. I wash mine twice a week. My hair get brittle and dry when I wash it everyday.

  • @lil_bhperiodt7142
    @lil_bhperiodt7142 5 років тому +349

    * wears weave in hair *
    Annoying ppl in general:Is your hair real
    Me: they never ask how our day is the first thing they can think of is your hair real

    • @kadjagnee.4811
      @kadjagnee.4811 4 роки тому +7

      Ong 🤦

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 роки тому +3

      this isn't a fairy tale last time I checked. Welcome to Earth

    • @sniff.6186
      @sniff.6186 4 роки тому +2

      Ikr.

    • @ladylouthebest8620
      @ladylouthebest8620 4 роки тому

      I hate that. I really do.. You black (brown) girls are beautiful, your hairstyles are beautiful, I wish I could try it on my mixed cousins, but sadly I'm hours away from them. I sometimes wish I was black so I could do those styles, I mean my hair isn't straight, it's curly but I wouldn't be able to do those. Don't listen to them, you black girls are beautiful, so is every race😊

  • @earth2zamiyah
    @earth2zamiyah 5 років тому +177

    I’m black and Puerto Rican but I was raised black and I would wear things like wraps and durags and bonnets. I remember earlier this year I wore a wrap to school cause I like the way it looks and my religion teacher pulled me out after class and told me not to wear it to school anymore and I was like no, just no absolutely not. This is a part of my style. She then told me that she likes them but she doesn’t want me to wear them anymore. My reaction was so shocked and disappointed. All of my friends are Dominican and Puerto Rican so when I told them they all agreed with me cause she definitely went out of line with that mess. And she’s white like the rest of my teachers. Also when I went to sleep away camp with my school she was the director and she called out one of the seventh graders who is black and said “she be rocking that weave 24/7” and EVERYONE at camp was like OOOOOOOOOO my entire school is Spanish so they all understood that as an insult. But she didn’t mean it that way. There’s so much more to the story but I don’t feel like typing it lol

    • @yasmin-qj8zm
      @yasmin-qj8zm 5 років тому +24

      Zamiyah Romero Okay im just going cause I’m tiredddd Bonnets and Durags aren’t a fashion thing its something we put on our head so we can take care of hair 🙄🙄🙄

    • @DreamiMusho
      @DreamiMusho 5 років тому

      @@yasmin-qj8zm not true

    • @damanidorsey7255
      @damanidorsey7255 5 років тому +8

      Mainly they all black or mixed so they definitely understand

    • @yasmin-qj8zm
      @yasmin-qj8zm 5 років тому +17

      Dreamy Diaries It is true. Why tf you think guys use Durags to get waves. It ain’t a fashion thing hunny. Bonnets and Durags is something *we use it to take care of our hair* period

    • @andreavelez4968
      @andreavelez4968 5 років тому +10

      I'm Puerto Rican too. I use wraps and durags for sleeping or when I straighten my hair y'know to keep "el dubi" in place 😆

  • @AmaHeart
    @AmaHeart 4 роки тому +43

    This is giving me elementary and middle school flashbacks...

  • @KekeTvGang
    @KekeTvGang 5 років тому +198

    We aren’t prone to getting lice that easily also🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @linkz317
      @linkz317 5 років тому +1

      That is awesome

    • @kaylarose627
      @kaylarose627 5 років тому +3

      @Aaliyah Mallory my black friend had lice and couldn't get rid of it for 3 months, so come again?

    • @kaylarose627
      @kaylarose627 5 років тому +7

      @Aaliyah Mallory so black people can get lice is what I was basically saying, the race doesnt matter

    • @juliannaslife523
      @juliannaslife523 5 років тому

      Keke Tv period

    • @lalabarker2814
      @lalabarker2814 5 років тому +10

      Lxfe/ MSP that girl doesn’t exist
      So come again..

  • @PrincessPlaysytchannel
    @PrincessPlaysytchannel 5 років тому +400

    I live in South Africa and we can afford pretty much anything, thank you very much😑

    • @nomalizomtyela4704
      @nomalizomtyela4704 5 років тому +2

      Yes comrade

    • @shutterfly19JL
      @shutterfly19JL 5 років тому +29

      I swear ppl are so dumb when it comes to Africa like it’s a whole continent! So many ethnic groups, languages and countries. In America people think Africa is just poor with famine or wakanda 😒 of course people can afford packaged hair or maybe they just braid their own damn hair lol

    • @PrincessPlaysytchannel
      @PrincessPlaysytchannel 5 років тому +20

      @@shutterfly19JL ikr people from other countries always be like "h0W cAn y0u SpEaK eNgLiSh?" or "aReNt y0u p0Or?" and they honestly sound so stupid

    • @ayandatheglamorousngoloyi6446
      @ayandatheglamorousngoloyi6446 5 років тому +13

      ღLazy Lilyღ same here sister
      South Africa you can find SOOO many white people actually walking around bare foot and I have no reason y
      Seen more white people bare foot than black (not including children coz all children here live walking around bare foot)
      And the hair
      You don’t need packaged hair
      Like moghel!
      Die Benne en betty

    • @malakhiwegrootboom3706
      @malakhiwegrootboom3706 5 років тому +1

      👏👏

  • @luhvysia
    @luhvysia 5 років тому +296

    I laughed when she said "black"and then caught herself and said "African American " 😂

    • @Sierrabrs
      @Sierrabrs 5 років тому +53

      Black isnt even offensive. Neither is it interchangeable with African American. Not all black people are american.

    • @skyc7089
      @skyc7089 5 років тому +5

      Should Black be a label that only African American people use* for themselves? Thank you for your time

    • @skyc7089
      @skyc7089 5 років тому +1

      @@bruh-ri4cs Thank you so much!!!!

    • @_Ash0099
      @_Ash0099 5 років тому +5

      @@bruh-ri4cs omfg great minds think alike this is actually what im talking about im a Ghanaian myself and usually i just say im black but then also add im ghanaian as well which is confusing but yea are right about how Countries in Africa have different culture and even religion as well meaning different food and music also.

    • @quirkyblackenby
      @quirkyblackenby 5 років тому

      Sky C no lol. Black people around the world call themselves black. It’s an all inclusive term

  • @nayn7808
    @nayn7808 4 роки тому +95

    "What is this, Onision's mom?" 🤣🤣🤣 I can't

  • @mgesy3
    @mgesy3 5 років тому +135

    I'm ivorian and I live in Côte d'Ivoire in West Africa and WE CAN afford it. Why do people like taking about what they ignore? 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sarahkoko2679
      @sarahkoko2679 5 років тому +5

      Schékinaelle Yavo ayeeeee we from the same country

    • @mgesy3
      @mgesy3 5 років тому +4

      @@sarahkoko2679 Haaan le monde est petit dh😹😍

    • @paule-marianekipre9976
      @paule-marianekipre9976 5 років тому +3

      Moi aussi je suis de Côté d’ivoire ❤️🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮

    • @brownskingirl1131
      @brownskingirl1131 5 років тому

      Moi aussi oooh

  • @kaylasimon2813
    @kaylasimon2813 5 років тому +90

    Honestly your hair changed my whole opinion of 4c hair and now it’s one of my favorite hair types; you taught me that your hair doesn’t have to be long or loosely curled to be beautiful ❤️

  • @gerryspringer9206
    @gerryspringer9206 5 років тому +399

    I feel like every continent has its own history with braids, but African people created some beautiful styles of braid.

    • @milandemoonlight4703
      @milandemoonlight4703 5 років тому +4

      Same

    • @karringtontaylor9751
      @karringtontaylor9751 5 років тому +67

      It's fine to "feel" want you want, but I encourage you to do your research on where it ORIGINATED. 😌

    • @gerryspringer9206
      @gerryspringer9206 5 років тому +30

      Karrington Xo yes definitely, in Europe we have plaits which are not directly connected to the scalp, which apparently originated from Scandinavia, but I do believe that braids did originate from Africa.

    • @00Anew00
      @00Anew00 5 років тому +42

      I’m pretty sure we can all safely assume that the FIRST people on earth invented the first set of braids. 😂

    • @gerryspringer9206
      @gerryspringer9206 5 років тому +3

      Disapproving Cynic haha 💯💯

  • @elmalesly
    @elmalesly 4 роки тому +66

    “I’m pretty sure women in africa can’t afford packaged hair” man y’all don’t know anything about africa🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😒😒😒😒

  • @shootinthebreeze2058
    @shootinthebreeze2058 5 років тому +79

    Had an Asian lady tug at my hair once and asked if it was real, shes lucky I had a job. Had a white lady ask me If my hair was real, although she knew the answer to the question, it seemed like she just wanted to here me say it wasn't real. Come on! Like they were long braids going waist length down my back, really! They saw me with my natural hair the week before! It just makes them feel better when they know your hair really isn't that long.

    • @jayjee735
      @jayjee735 5 років тому

      Whenever I am asked is that real, i say yes and when the strange look i tell them well it's not a virtual world i live in how bout you?

    • @ThornDracul
      @ThornDracul 5 років тому +1

      I can relate, black people ask if my hair is real all the time
      Since im really pale with super curly hair, some even give me dirty looks when I say it is real, i dont get it 🤷

    • @jborrego2406
      @jborrego2406 5 років тому

      No they want to embarrass you in front of people

  • @bananahogo5609
    @bananahogo5609 5 років тому +1466

    *Takes natural hair to school*
    White person: OMG can I touch ur hair it looks like a pillow.
    Me: If u dare..
    White teachers: How long does it take to do ur hair?
    Me: How long does it take to do ur hair? 🤦🏾‍♀️😳🙄

    • @emmad9552
      @emmad9552 5 років тому +88

      oh no I've done that before I didn't know that it was upsetting or not nice I'm sorry now I know not to ask thank you

    • @bananahogo5609
      @bananahogo5609 5 років тому +48

      EmmaK Dont worry its good to know now right?

    • @protectminyoongi9510
      @protectminyoongi9510 5 років тому +47

      Maybe they just wanted to know more about your hair?

    • @emmad9552
      @emmad9552 5 років тому +7

      Banana Hogo yep

    • @bananahogo5609
      @bananahogo5609 5 років тому +78

      ImaTaejinshipper Dontbotherme well they could ask us instead of putting their hands in our hair🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @leafychu_6476
    @leafychu_6476 5 років тому +242

    One time this boy he was like
    "That wig looks so real!" and i was trying to explain it was my real hair but he kept denying it ⤷⤷⤷⤷⤷⤷⤷

    • @swanstarss
      @swanstarss 4 роки тому +15

      You shouldve literally yanked the hair, and then told him to yank it. Then slap him and walk away.

    • @leafychu_6476
      @leafychu_6476 4 роки тому +6

      @@swanstarss I wish I did! 💀👀

    • @fcerti
      @fcerti 4 роки тому +3

      It’s because so many black girls have wigs and weaves

    • @Hope-si1kb
      @Hope-si1kb 4 роки тому +8

      @@fcerti I'm not even black, I'm half white half Puerto Rican with curly hair and I've been asked before if my hair was fake💀

    • @aisha5156
      @aisha5156 4 роки тому +2

      Hope
      So if you’re not white you have weave. Alright everyone, the mystery has been answered.

  • @blazeryinthedark8730
    @blazeryinthedark8730 4 роки тому +44

    As a white person, I apologize for the ignorance of other people.

  • @Tootisepop
    @Tootisepop 5 років тому +177

    Yet they come steal our diamonds and Jewels from our land
    🇳🇬🇯🇲🇯🇲🇳🇬♥️ Proud Jamaican/Nigerian girl

    • @kenji7982
      @kenji7982 5 років тому +6

      @@tatitheweridgurl2366 sis ain't say nothing wrong, she was adding on. no need to get all in your feelings.

    • @zazabami6789
      @zazabami6789 5 років тому +4

      YOUR T R A S H Nigerian 🇳🇬

    • @tatitheweridgurl2366
      @tatitheweridgurl2366 5 років тому

      @@kenji7982 and who was talking to you that's the real question

    • @ashleystarr9172
      @ashleystarr9172 5 років тому +1

      YOUR T R A S H what about Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @lexibrianna7838
      @lexibrianna7838 5 років тому

      @Y O U R T R A S H wait who comes? The whites

  • @mordecai6937
    @mordecai6937 5 років тому +73

    In high school, I had a friend who had dreadlocks (she still has them to this day). So one time, me and my group of friends were sitting down at lunch when my friend, let's call her A, was casually playing with my friend's dreadlocks when another girl goes "Ew, don't touch her hair A! It's all dirty and old and nasty!" If I said we were furious at her, that would be an understatement. 😤😡

    • @mypanexogamouslineage965
      @mypanexogamouslineage965 5 років тому +9

      I can't for the life of me understand the old part.

    • @judasisco1156
      @judasisco1156 5 років тому

      It's shed hair that has formed together sometimes there's lint in it, dirt, and products from years ago in there. Washing them doesn't get everything out. Have you seen them use acv the water would be brown or black. I'm not saying that people with dreads are dirty I'm just saying that their hair is

    • @Ada-kj6ym
      @Ada-kj6ym 5 років тому +1

      Mordecai The girl doesn't know anything, the dreadlocks was probably more clean than her own hair. smh.

  • @nadia-il2bd
    @nadia-il2bd 5 років тому +289

    Im white and I'm ashamed of this🤦‍♀️

    • @turtletail313
      @turtletail313 5 років тому +32

      don't be this has nothing to do with you

    • @katievogt3036
      @katievogt3036 5 років тому +17

      I'll be honest, I know very little about how they make different styles....
      But even when I was young, I knew what comments and questions came off as rude. Is it really that hard to be a decent human being??

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 5 років тому +14

      Stop being guilty because of your skin colour.

    • @tiredbaymaxripoff2818
      @tiredbaymaxripoff2818 5 років тому +9

      No need to hate on yourself

    • @marlenmartin4753
      @marlenmartin4753 5 років тому +4

      Don’t be ashamed it just some people don’t understand and if u react like that it because u are not ignorant and I like that ;)

  • @africanqueen3708
    @africanqueen3708 4 роки тому +41

    Y'all idk who's reading these comments a year later but this video reminded me about why I started my natural hair journey and 😤 I have a book for you to read down below😂...
    When I was 14 (20 now) I started wearing my hair natural and I was really insecure with it but I couldn't take it anymore because was just so damaged from straightening it every day. So I was walking around my local mall with my mom and sister (lighter skin than me can pass for white, I'm mixed: black and Spanish (European Union)) and we walked by this hair straightening kiosk, the woman at the kiosk was handing out some cream to help perm your hair and she saw me and sat me down to test out a new straightener and I kept saying no constantly but she almost forced me into the chair (my mom wasn't around, so just my younger sister and I sitting by ourselves minding our own business) she then proceeded to straighten a little piece of my hair along with giving me a really bad sales pitch (my sister and i looked older than we actually were at the time) when she was done I told her "no thank you, I had been straightening my hair every day since I was 9 and I'm trying to let it grow out and be healthy, to make it look pretty when I'm older" she then said with hand motion to follow "Well don't you wanna do something about all.... that?"
    Right when she said that my little sister popped up and was about to cuss her out but I stopped her and before she could get anything out of her mouth I said
    "I'm 14 and trying to find myself, it's not a good idea to in force your idea of beauty on me because my hair is different than yours, I have been bullied about my hair since I was 9 and don't need to listen to people like you who don't know what I have to deal with to tell me who I need to be anymore"
    Her jaw was on the floor and when we told my mom she was livid

  • @sophiethesavage8274
    @sophiethesavage8274 5 років тому +139

    Girl if we shampooed our hair everyday our hair be looking like straw. We need to keep these natural oils. Quit playing 🤣🤣

    • @phoenixmoon5580
      @phoenixmoon5580 4 роки тому +6

      I'm caucasian to the point that printer/copier paper has more of a tan than me. However, when I shampooed and conditioned my hair everyday it resembled something called a 'brillo pad', which is like a scourer.

  • @itsindiebaby3243
    @itsindiebaby3243 5 років тому +84

    I SWEAR TO GOD THIS WAS ME IN THE 5TH GRADE and the lil white girl said THE EXAAACT SAME THING CALLING IT DIRTY....another white teacher had to school her SMH

    • @fuyuko-chan9400
      @fuyuko-chan9400 5 років тому +4

      Indie Robbins don’t let be the day where the nurse has to the class and check the nonblack kids head for lice, but didn’t mostly check the black kids cause most of them had braids or a perm.

  • @officially_jess17
    @officially_jess17 5 років тому +101

    0:13-0:15
    SIS U CAN'T AFFORD A NICE PERSONALITY

    • @roses2122
      @roses2122 4 роки тому

      It’s free

    • @twiggymp416
      @twiggymp416 4 роки тому +1

      @@roses2122 not free in the actress eyes

  • @fa.tou24
    @fa.tou24 4 роки тому +19

    People in my school called my hair medusa and I said keep saying that and you will get a hard rock punch

  • @lovely_tragedies
    @lovely_tragedies 5 років тому +140

    I’m white and I don’t shampoo my hair everyday? It’s not healthy for your hair🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @lorelei1350
      @lorelei1350 5 років тому +14

      SAME! I do like twice a week .. lmfao. My gets gets super fluffy and out of control after shampooing, and it looks the best 2-3 days after a wash, IMO. Also, no one I know shampoos their hair daily..

    • @feminielove7494
      @feminielove7494 5 років тому +9

      I'm Asian and as far as i know most of us Asians don't shampoo our hair everyday 👍

    • @hudsontheyellowlabradorret9536
      @hudsontheyellowlabradorret9536 5 років тому +5

      Drαgσn Ғrʋιt yeah also it’s annoying to wash everyday

    • @annak7989
      @annak7989 5 років тому +2

      I shampoo my hair once a week

  • @parixo
    @parixo 5 років тому +75

    this shit happens to me everyday like back the fuck OFFFF! how many times do i have to tell people to not touch my hair and that it took 5 hours to braid??? all of these situations are too accurate.

    • @pepethelastsamurai3480
      @pepethelastsamurai3480 5 років тому +1

      Im irish and cherokee with thick curly hair and everyone wants to touch it. I think its when its big and curly it gives a soft and round appearance, which is generally a cute shape. This may explain the thing with wanting to touch it.

    • @sourpatch6784
      @sourpatch6784 5 років тому

      Omg fucking same. White chick here, but I've got curly locks and they just want to run their fingers through it. I do a full on limbo move swerving that. "Why don't you brush it?"😑 Everyone's hair is different but I'd rather know what's going on with other people.

  • @chalenavenegas
    @chalenavenegas 4 роки тому +18

    I am half Black and half Mexican and white girls still come up to me asking dum questions about my curly hair! One day I had my bangs styled kinda like Aaliyah's with one big chunk of bangs parted to the side over my face. Instead of it being poker straight I set my bangs as one giant ringlet to keep it out of my eyes. Some random white girl came up to me no greeting or acknowledgement and just blurted out is that a dreadlock!? I was taken back because she sounded flustered like she couldn't believe it. I simply told her I wetset my hair, no locks. She then asked me if she could touch it. I told her yes trying to be nice, but she grabs it and started trying to undo the curl, but it jus made more curls. She walked away just as abruptly as she walked up. After that experience I have never let anyone touch me again. I am not an animal at a zoo. Way before that a manager at one of my old jobs asked me if he could touch my face, because he has never touched black people's skin before. He then reached out one finger like ET phoning home and touched my cheek. He was shocked he said, "your so soft!?" like he expected me to be rough and tough or something. He made me feel like I was an alien. Never again I say. Never again.

    • @skylightvelore7883
      @skylightvelore7883 4 роки тому +1

      Oh my that is shocking

    • @chalenavenegas
      @chalenavenegas 4 роки тому +2

      @@skylightvelore7883 yeah now that I think back to that memory that manager went as far to rubb his finger on my face like he was tryna see if my color would change like I'm some dam mood ring.. ugh I haven't thought about these instances until I watched these videos and remembered how outlandish some people's children are..

    • @zenix3305
      @zenix3305 4 роки тому

      What is wrong with those people😬😒

  • @thiscommentisrelevant7911
    @thiscommentisrelevant7911 5 років тому +115

    A girl asked my friend who had extensions “ how do you wash ur hair ?” And she explained that she takes it out and washes normally and then the girl said” ok so after you wash it do you put the same braids back in?” And I was just 🌚 I thought the question was silly but I’m glad she actually wants to learn more about our culture.

    • @phoenixmoon5580
      @phoenixmoon5580 4 роки тому +2

      I would do the same, especially if I found the hair specifically, and the style, to be stunning and their personality matched.

    • @Usthereout
      @Usthereout 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah but I'm actually curious. Do black girls wash their hair if they like those braids in?

    • @fionaodige2203
      @fionaodige2203 4 роки тому +2

      Kez yes

    • @thiscommentisrelevant7911
      @thiscommentisrelevant7911 4 роки тому +6

      Kez When we wash our hair we take them out And then we change our hairstyle. If you wash your hair while the braids are still in your hair is going to shrink and floof up in the braids which is why it’s not recommended to swim with braids in if u don’t have a cap or aren’t going to take them out the next day.

    • @eggsammich1186
      @eggsammich1186 4 роки тому +2

      @@Usthereout it depends on the style

  • @chooseylover1422
    @chooseylover1422 5 років тому +81

    Do you think I could grow my hair long and have it packaged????!!!!
    Uh!!!!
    Who gone buy it sis???!!!!

  • @kitty-ph1ce
    @kitty-ph1ce 5 років тому +70

    I’m a white girl and the only time I’ve every touched someone’s hair was when I asked my friend of 2 years if I could and if she was should it was ok, because I didn’t want to annoy her.

    • @justmydeals
      @justmydeals 4 роки тому +6

      kitty304 Of course, because you’re a normal person. I’m white and would never touch someone’s hair... ever. It would never even occur to me to do that.

  • @emilyf6472
    @emilyf6472 4 роки тому +21

    I’m dating a black man and my favorite thing to do for him is de-tangling his hair and making it look good after he slept on it. I even made him stop washing his hair everyday because even as a white-native girl I don’t wash my hair everyday. It’s kinda common sense I feel like. But then again some people have no common sense at all. Love your channel I’ve been binge watching all week😂❤️

  • @baniwi.
    @baniwi. 4 роки тому +290

    I was in class when a girl that sits in the front of me said
    "Why do you have rings in your hair?"
    I just glared at her..

    • @phoenixmoon5580
      @phoenixmoon5580 4 роки тому +46

      I had loose ringlets, and when I embraced them and had my hair down, other students sharpened pencils into my hair, and threw things like food into it. (Caucasian).

    • @tamirahiggins6599
      @tamirahiggins6599 4 роки тому +54

      @@phoenixmoon5580 if i was u i would have slap the livin day light out of them
      PERIOD

    • @moniquejames4795
      @moniquejames4795 4 роки тому +4

      😆😆😆

    • @lovelyxpew6716
      @lovelyxpew6716 4 роки тому +11

      @Jane Aint Plain period.Was abt to say that.

    • @lovelyxpew6716
      @lovelyxpew6716 4 роки тому +4

      @@tamirahiggins6599 👹uno reverse.

  • @Gabby-qh6gw
    @Gabby-qh6gw 5 років тому +68

    Okay so I'm a college student and I work at Publix part time "where shopping is a pleasure" 🙄. I was talking to another cashier when this white man walks up behind me and grabs my hair and says "Wow, this is amazing! Honey, you have to touch this!"

  • @veronicashertoine1810
    @veronicashertoine1810 5 років тому +67

    Maybe you should translate braids to them in Kardashian language. I'm sure they will understand then. 😂🤣

    • @Ada-kj6ym
      @Ada-kj6ym 5 років тому

      Glen Coco 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lavibaloyi5931
    @lavibaloyi5931 4 роки тому +16

    Its funny how people think Africa is poor
    Like really ,people should do their research😲
    I mean we can even afford to buy private jetters and stuff like that.

  • @blessingbrown4404
    @blessingbrown4404 5 років тому +44

    Why is it when i wear braids, people feel the need to pull my hair and then they ask "does it hurt when I pull your hair ?" BICHT WTF DO YOU THINK. 😡 Of cours it hurt. DO👏NOT👏TOUCH👏A👏BLACK👏WOMEN'S👏HAIR👏UNLESS👏YOU👏GET👏PERMISSION👏

    • @annawagner7139
      @annawagner7139 5 років тому +4

      don't touch anyone's hair without permission... actually don't touch people in general without permission

    • @princessk9748
      @princessk9748 5 років тому +1

      @@annawagner7139 white people are the only people that like touching strangers.....

    • @Ada-kj6ym
      @Ada-kj6ym 5 років тому

      Blessing Brown Trusss!!!!!👏👏👏

    • @annawagner7139
      @annawagner7139 5 років тому

      @@princessk9748 na ha... As a person with """crazy""" hair (like punk if you want a reference) I have lot of different people wanting to touch my hair. I personally don't have a problem with that, so I let them.

    • @princessk9748
      @princessk9748 5 років тому

      @@annawagner7139 well that's you .... and It cant be black people touching your hair , because we know how it feel and its annoying.

  • @iamyourangel777
    @iamyourangel777 5 років тому +117

    A guy asked me at my school how I curled my hair once 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @checkmattee222
      @checkmattee222 5 років тому +10

      Hope you didn't answer him and walked away.

    • @melindawalker1392
      @melindawalker1392 5 років тому +1

      🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @Sierrabrs
      @Sierrabrs 5 років тому +6

      I would've just said water

    • @crystalmethany7774
      @crystalmethany7774 5 років тому +1

      I would've just stared at him and then walked away😂💀

  • @teddise59
    @teddise59 5 років тому +125

    I’m nine my friends touch my hair at school and I’m like girlllll touch me again girl touch me again and you’ll see what happens you bout to get popped up

    • @and-xl2ey
      @and-xl2ey 5 років тому +25

      nine, girl get off youtube

    • @aubreylascano4940
      @aubreylascano4940 5 років тому +12

      @@and-xl2ey does that really concern you

    • @gda664
      @gda664 5 років тому +23

      Yess baby tell them ! Don’t let nobody touch your hair and be careful on UA-cam but you can stay I don’t understand why this stupid idiot before me told you to leave the platform

    • @yourestillontheproperty8837
      @yourestillontheproperty8837 5 років тому +3

      @@gda664 because you have to be 13+ to make an account

    • @gda664
      @gda664 5 років тому

      youre still on the property I didn’t know that well thank you for acknowledging me

  • @moniquenixon3781
    @moniquenixon3781 4 роки тому +26

    Omg I’ve had some one tell me “Why are you wearing braids? You’re not black.” I responded with “No, I’m not black but I am Native American and we wear braids too.” Ive had a job tell me my “braids” were too wild for work by a Black receptionist!? I almost lost my job that day. How do you sit there straight faced and tell me my hair is wild when her and the black chick filling out an application we’re wearing BRAIDS!?! So I was like is it just me or does she have to take her braids out too. Then it switched to “those colors” and I seriously had 6 braids a different color easily hidden. I can’t stand how someone else’s body is everyone’s opinion like dude stay in your lane. Love this video cuz I had the same reactions you did at the same points!

  • @f2k596
    @f2k596 5 років тому +40

    Someone asked me one day if I take out my cornrows everyday and redo it in the morning 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

  • @afropride5598
    @afropride5598 5 років тому +166

    White lady: I'm pretty sure African women cant afford packaged hair
    Me: lemme find this girl in the streets watch me educate her

    • @joemamajoemama6684
      @joemamajoemama6684 5 років тому

      'White lady' ?

    • @avekatumba4794
      @avekatumba4794 5 років тому

      Sarah Abrahams yes! I am African and i am my offended black sister. All those hairstyles mostly came from us bc of occassions in Africa like marriage, easy management, etc

  • @azyraizel
    @azyraizel 5 років тому +29

    Im restarting my loc journey today because i love my natural hair so much .

  • @minniewortham9299
    @minniewortham9299 4 роки тому +3

    My friend who is nonblack kept asking questions about how we washed our hair our how we did hair styles on so many days. And people like him I appreciate bc they genuinely want to learn about me or ppl like me.