Men Always Miss These 16 Signs She's Sexually Attracted To You (MUST WATCH)

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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  Рік тому +38

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    • @jamesbowen5573
      @jamesbowen5573 Рік тому +1

      Why it's all a waste of time. Women today send out too many mixed signals. And anyone playing your game is not worth your time. Who wants to be so pathetic that they allow another human being to treat them so poorly? Modern women had been indoctrinated and most of them are not worth knowing because nine out of ten of them will cheat on you probably with a close friend or relative giving even half an opportunity. And the better you treat them the worse they treat you. They want you to play games to prove you're really interested in them and not like some other guy while the truth of the matter is they are probably seeing somebody else at the same time. I've seen it happen to a lot of guys. I've had women try to run that on me. Tell me how they want to do things differently this time because they think I'm somebody that might be worth a serious relationship with. And how if you do what you always did you get what you always had so this time, they want to wait and take things slowly. They don't want to just jump into bed with you. And on the surface it sounds totally reasonable. Until you start talking to them. And they tell you about taking on six guys at once at a party. Or hooking up with somebody they just met and a gas station bathroom. Most of these women have more miles on them than mail trucks. And the more they talk the less you want them because apparently until they met you they spread their legs open for any guy walking by. And I'm supposed to be flattered they want to take their time with me? Yeah I don't think so. What I think is there trying to play me or anyone else like that as a sucker. And then after you spend a month or so getting to know these people and becoming friends or whatever. They hook up with some guy they met somewhere else and they just had chemistry. And they're literally screwing within minutes of meeting each other. I think I would rather become a monk. Women today are psychotic, neurotic and generally mentally ill. None of them want to be your friends. They want to control you and they want to change you. And if you're the kind of guy that doesn't need to be changed or controlled because you are already a nice person they have no interest in you. They always go for the abusive guys who act like spoiled little boys. Because most of them want to be a mama figure to their humps. I have seen a lot of beautiful women with the dumbest man I have ever met. Guys that won't even take a shower unless she pesters them like a little kid. Guys that won't even do their own laundry. And can't even hold down a job. That's the kind of guys women want. And everything else is a load of crap. Personally I Believe by own experience and what I have personally witnessed over anything someone else is trying to push. Young women do not want older men. If you even look at them they accuse you of being a pedo. And I'm not talking about young girls I'm talking about women in their 30s if you're in your 50s nevermind they have no idea what the word really means. Personally I wouldn't even look at someone in their 20s because they screw around way too much. They are all over the map like a chihuahua watching a squirrel out the window. Who gets distracted over a leaf falling from a tree.

    • @nunosantos00
      @nunosantos00 Рік тому +1

      So they will start to behave like that around guys they don't like if they suspect we are watching your video.😂😂😂

    • @richardarena5281
      @richardarena5281 Рік тому +1

      Might sound crazy 🤪, but I show the bad side of me first, before I show the good side of me...If she can handle my faults, then I know the relationship can possibly work...I don't believe in a long drawn out approach...

    • @nunkito
      @nunkito Рік тому

      A woman I’m seeing gave me the sultry look and lip bite before making love. I think she’s attracted to me .

  • @josephpoitras3090
    @josephpoitras3090 Рік тому +1224

    We don’t miss these signs. We are just debating if we can afford the future alimony and child support payments.

  • @matthewh8573
    @matthewh8573 Рік тому +262

    Never chase a woman who plays “hard to get”. She will never have any respect for you if you do.

    • @bobbystereo936
      @bobbystereo936 Рік тому +1

      ​Neither! Country side.

    • @richardlanier2113
      @richardlanier2113 Рік тому +7

      They won't respect you at all. Society teaches them that that is bad.

    • @joewas2225
      @joewas2225 Рік тому +1

      I never chase anyone. I've never made the 1st move & have had 3 relationships. Had 4 FWBs & even those I didn't make the 1st move. Last person I was with it was just a hookup.

    • @karlozols816
      @karlozols816 Рік тому +6

      Plus not worth your time and effort. And I personally hate playing games.

    • @Bryan.holland
      @Bryan.holland Рік тому +3

      yup she will ruine your life

  • @Mark-mm1ke
    @Mark-mm1ke Рік тому +175

    Women go into a relationship hoping to change the man. Men go into a relationship hoping the woman does not change.

    • @Just1American1966
      @Just1American1966 Рік тому +8

      Exactly. I've often phrased it as "Women will end a relationship if the man doesn't change. Men will end a relationship if the woman does change."

    • @romzen
      @romzen 3 місяці тому

      @@Just1American1966 Not true. Women try to change men as shittests as well. The moment the man changes into the kind of man she has no desire for, she will leave him. Men should for the woman. But as men work on themselves and naturally become higher value women must change to accomodate for that and keep up with him.

  • @andyhinds542
    @andyhinds542 Рік тому +365

    They'll also remember everything you did or said that upset them and bring those moments up when you least expect it.

    • @charlestilley2576
      @charlestilley2576 Рік тому +7

      Damn sure will! Every time, even if she says she won't.🤣
      Time to find another woman, if she's still around if really feeling like this (& single), she's there for a reason? Could be money/credit cards, wanting a baby, or just insecure. Needless to say, it's best to part ways.....while you can.😀

    • @Lewisevans1618
      @Lewisevans1618 Рік тому +5

      Yep from 5 years ago

    • @TheBereanVoice
      @TheBereanVoice Рік тому +6

      Andy Hinds, and she will say something like "If you don't know what is wrong, I'm certainly not going to tell you

    • @sting1111
      @sting1111 Рік тому +9

      I ask them “what are you writing a book”? It’s generally money and just waiting for the right time to take half and move to the next victim already in the line.

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest Рік тому +5

      Yah, so true. Unfortunately, women tend to remember these for life!

  • @timjones9962
    @timjones9962 Рік тому +108

    Most men don't do or like mind games.
    If you're attracted to a man just say so, otherwise just walk on by.

  • @Dan.50
    @Dan.50 Рік тому +611

    Stay single, gents. Let them jump through their own hoops and read their own minds.

  • @Colt-tf6xf
    @Colt-tf6xf Рік тому +187

    If she grabs ahold of your pekker and says "Hey big boy come here." you're in like Flynn.

    • @Osssssss666
      @Osssssss666 Рік тому +11

      In like Flynn not flint

    • @Colt-tf6xf
      @Colt-tf6xf Рік тому

      @@Osssssss666 thanks for the correction, if I ever knew it, I forgot. It's nice that you agreed with the concept.

    • @jeromebarry1741
      @jeromebarry1741 Рік тому +6

      It's a trap!

    • @maitreyas.4902
      @maitreyas.4902 Рік тому +3

      I have noticed that.

    • @fredeinsel1549
      @fredeinsel1549 Рік тому +4

      How many other guys is she doing this to? I've been backstabbed by too many narcissistic women

  • @chrisvandy3864
    @chrisvandy3864 Рік тому +147

    You can always tell if a woman likes you by where she puts her ankles , if they are anywhere near your ears she really really likes YOU 🤣😍🤣

  • @Mauitaoist
    @Mauitaoist Рік тому +138

    Just because she's interested in you isn't necessarily a good thing.
    " You may not be interested in war, but war is interested in you,"
    Leon Trotsky.

    • @moesworld505
      @moesworld505 Рік тому +3

      😂🤣🤣

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages Рік тому +1

      FACTS
      Girls get vindictive if you don't give them attention

    • @erickolb8581
      @erickolb8581 Рік тому +4

      Exactly! I was in a CDL A truck driving class last year and the only female in my class showed interest in me first. She was a single mom of 2 and claimed to be new to the area. She came across as extremely desperate for a 2nd source of income. Not just no, but hell no! I also don't consider myself a good influence on children on account of my anger issues.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages Рік тому

      @@erickolb8581 single moms are to be politely faded away from. No way am I letting one baby trap Me.

    • @jamescox1805
      @jamescox1805 Рік тому +8

      A shark may be interested in me too that doesn't mean go jump in the water

  • @jasondouglas152
    @jasondouglas152 Рік тому +115

    Don't worry about women being attracted to you , they want you to stress , overthink, and react to stuff like this and they'll just take advantage of you if you show interest back.

  • @psyclotronxx3083
    @psyclotronxx3083 Рік тому +159

    Joyanima, if you haven't noticed, men are really done. We're sick of it and yes, we put most of the blame on women and toxic femininity. It's truly bad out there

    • @Dr.Dupree1510
      @Dr.Dupree1510 Рік тому +8

      Damn straight!

    • @ZeusDragon
      @ZeusDragon Рік тому

      Yes I have not had the company of a woman in over a decade. it's like women have changed so much from the 90s But honestly I think it's because 99% of males are ManCubs and not real Men.

    • @psyclotronxx3083
      @psyclotronxx3083 Рік тому +6

      @Linl most of them

    • @ZeusDragon
      @ZeusDragon Рік тому

      @Linl weak lost people cheat .. most women and almost ALL men fall in this category.. there is no honor ... Sex is an exchange not sacred to most people

    • @ZeusDragon
      @ZeusDragon Рік тому +10

      I have not had sex in 11 years because I am waiting for it to be special and sacred and based in Love

  • @thatboyaintright
    @thatboyaintright Рік тому +74

    Be careful guys. Some women are just nice and flirtatious in general to every guy and you could be misinterpreting this as her having some type of attraction towards you. This is not exclusive to you and she's giving this type of vibes to a bevy of other guys.

    • @RS-xo7rd
      @RS-xo7rd Рік тому +6

      Yes, that particularly applies to them touching you. I have met many women who touch your arm when they laugh, but I seriously doubt this was anything to do with my unbridled and contagious sexuality (in my dreams). I notice how negative are many of the comments on this video. Nothing personal against the creator who is trying to be helpful, but doubtless based on a lifetime of being messed about, rejected, suffering mind games and knowing they were way down the list of female options.

    • @jazzman1626
      @jazzman1626 9 місяців тому +2

      @@RS-xo7rd
      Yes. Not a single thing in any of these types of videos is definite. All of the so-called signs are ambiguous. Trouble is, guys get messed around so many times by these signs not signs games, that if or when a real signal comes along, the guy really does miss it.

  • @danteeightsix9069
    @danteeightsix9069 Рік тому +121

    I tried to tell them she was playing hard to get, but those cops and the judge just didn't want to listen.

    • @tyrox3274
      @tyrox3274 Рік тому +5

      Literally man, she threatens to file a complaint but continues with dropping hints and shy attitude.

    • @frankharte9617
      @frankharte9617 Рік тому +2

      Hell yeah 😎

    • @Andrew66632
      @Andrew66632 Рік тому

      No shit. A lot of these broad now a days will give you signs all to hell. “Oh no, she’s just being nice. She dresses slutty because it’s a form of expression and art. She’s decorating herself.”

    • @carlfender3513
      @carlfender3513 Рік тому

      Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

    • @joblow4827
      @joblow4827 Рік тому

      😅

  • @LoudmanSpeaks
    @LoudmanSpeaks Рік тому +247

    If women were “open and honest about how they feel” we wouldn’t have to know all the signs and signals would we?…

    • @moesworld505
      @moesworld505 Рік тому +2

      Because Women love to play games they have a very complicated personality

    • @LoudmanSpeaks
      @LoudmanSpeaks Рік тому +7

      @@moesworld505 Maybe 20 years ago brother…today it’s just bat shit crazy!…

    • @jimzucker
      @jimzucker Рік тому +4

      women are honest, lol

    • @te9591
      @te9591 Рік тому +2

      Not defining the attraction out loud helps escalate the attraction.

    • @LoudmanSpeaks
      @LoudmanSpeaks Рік тому

      @@te9591 …actually it means she plans on putting you through a few more shit tests before she decides on secretly banging your best friend. Head games are for head cases.

  • @whatsreal7506
    @whatsreal7506 Рік тому +25

    As an older bachelor: stay single and enjoy life without the entanglements, head games and BS!

  • @chrisubias7135
    @chrisubias7135 Рік тому +60

    You know you can do really dumb things when you’re in love. I even got married once.

    • @monkeydog8681
      @monkeydog8681 Рік тому

      Hey. A lesson we must all learn.

    • @inrptn
      @inrptn 11 місяців тому +1

      Been there, done that.

  • @iamric23
    @iamric23 Рік тому +58

    Maybe just maybe let the guy know if you like him. Why is it always the male that has to put himself out there and get embarrassed if he is wrong? In this day and age, approaching a woman for anything that has to do with liking her, can wind you in court.

    • @valiaudet3415
      @valiaudet3415 Рік тому +2

      Too true. It's time women step up. Perhaps if women ask men out on a date and play real, relationships may have half a chance.

  • @G1FREAKZ
    @G1FREAKZ Рік тому +65

    My wife would give me all this signs when we first met, now she tells me that I annoy her 😳🤣✌️🍺🇺🇸

  • @felicitydawson1143
    @felicitydawson1143 Рік тому +36

    Everyone is buried in their mobile phone nowadays to pay ant attention to another person, let alone develop a meaningful relationship.

  • @Mark-pr7ug
    @Mark-pr7ug Рік тому +109

    Had a friendly lady approach me once in a bar. Eye contact, giggling and nervously biting her lip. Then after a short conversation, her phone bleeped. She said bye and I never saw her again. Never saw my wallet again too. Somebody behind me half inched it whilst my attention was on her.

    • @sloanmagnum5009
      @sloanmagnum5009 Рік тому +11

      Why I always keep rubber bands around my wallet 1. So it doesn't slide out and 2. Makes it more difficult to pickpocket

    • @mephistoxarses8585
      @mephistoxarses8585 Рік тому +2

      And the moral of this story is...........

    • @martinaguilar1508
      @martinaguilar1508 Рік тому +16

      Keep ur wallet in ur front pocket

    • @wayneanderson8034
      @wayneanderson8034 Рік тому +6

      Wear zippered pocket pants when bar hopping. Pickpockets are expert at removing from an open pocket, but have less experience opening a zipper without notice. For super stealth, I once saw a pair of pants that had a zipper inside a zippered pocket for the wallet, no one is getting that one out.

    • @lenwennerberg1631
      @lenwennerberg1631 Рік тому +8

      At first I thought this was going to end with "Sheena was a man".

  • @ramonepedgio5964
    @ramonepedgio5964 Рік тому +105

    This is the sort of information that can get a lot of guys in trouble.

  • @manos-oliveriversen2112
    @manos-oliveriversen2112 Рік тому +26

    The reason we are missing out those signs: We guys don't have time for mind-games. If she wants us, why can't she just SAY it?

  • @randyjohnson2087
    @randyjohnson2087 Рік тому +12

    Just what we need, another advice guru.

  • @rtopalovich
    @rtopalovich Рік тому +51

    And most women will try to "change" you to meet their expectations. Run!

  • @Lmiller201
    @Lmiller201 Рік тому +26

    So the fact women avoid any contact with a look of disgust, and keeps a great distance, means I am as attractive as road kill. Thats fine, my marriage was enough to make me never want to do that again

  • @wesleyhalpern184
    @wesleyhalpern184 Рік тому +43

    But regardless of all else you always have to make the first moves or else nothing will happen. It will never go beyond just the flirting and hint dropping.

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 Рік тому +8

      Better idea: force her to make the first move. Don’t give a girl choosing power they haven’t earned
      They live to reject. Force her to reveal her hand first because it makes it much harder for her to seriously reject you after. It’s all a game of continuous yet relatively carefree coaxing

    • @yasoru
      @yasoru Рік тому +8

      @@marcusmcgraw3519 I assure you if a girl truly is interested in you and available, she would not reject your date offer. If she rejected you she's either not sure about you yet, not ready for a relationship, or just not interested all together.

    • @Last_Chance.
      @Last_Chance. Рік тому +5

      Generally they make the first move. I'm a very attractive man though so that helps a lot

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +4

      And when you make the move she rebuffs you and you’re left thinking wtf. Happens to me every single time literally

    • @SKBSKBSKBSKBSK
      @SKBSKBSKBSKBSK Рік тому

      @@Last_Chance. Yup. The indirectness is annoying though.

  • @moose6144
    @moose6144 Рік тому +17

    After going through a lousy marriage for 27 years I try to ignore any sign that she might be interested in me but yes there is a woman that I find very attractive and always have upwards of 15 years younger than I am and she’s the one asking me to come over for dinner but I don’t know if I’m interested in getting into another relationship

    • @gooe9561
      @gooe9561 Рік тому +9

      It took Thomas Edison a lot of tries before he finally found a design for a light bulb that worked. When asked about how he felt all of the times he failed he said something like, "I never failed, I just found a thousand ways that didn't work". The risk of pain will always exist but so will the risk of being happier then you could have ever imagined you could be. Don't pass up the opportunity.

    • @rhmayer1
      @rhmayer1 Рік тому +6

      I'd take her up on her offer. What the heck. You don't need to go in like it's romantic. Maybe it's just a friends thing at first - just get to know each other a bit. Keep it light and humorous. You'll at least get a nice home-cooked meal. Who knows. Maybe something will spark. I wouldn't turn down an opportunity for a spark with an attractive woman who is interested in me. Just stay honest with each other and to yourself. Don't let yourself get infatuated. Keep a safe emotional distance at first - but it sounds like that's where you're at anyway. So actually you're in the PERFECT position to meet someone that you find attractive. It sounds like you already have the perspective of healthy skepticism.

    • @ronnieunderwood1951
      @ronnieunderwood1951 Рік тому +1

      27 years for me too and I'd get back out there if I were you. I am desperately looking to get out there as well but so far it just isn't happening.

    • @matthewh8573
      @matthewh8573 Рік тому

      Then you “hang out” with her and let her know exactly how you feel and let the chips fall.

    • @hankdutton8896
      @hankdutton8896 Рік тому

      You can't say "Hello" until you say "Goodbye".
      Let us know what you do.

  • @randytaylor2747
    @randytaylor2747 Рік тому +1

    Very informative,Joy😊.Thank,you.

  • @Anomize23
    @Anomize23 Рік тому +36

    Its so creepy what a girl crushing on you does but yet so flattering.🤣 The big eye stare, the proximity, the almost shoulder checking passing by. Literally seeing this girl at work that fancies me i just would want to talk with but then she runs away. 😅

    • @elliotvazquez6318
      @elliotvazquez6318 Рік тому +7

      I'm going through the same situation.
      This beautiful woman has these Olive green eyes. Just stops me in my tracks every time I catch here looking at me.

    • @elliotvazquez6318
      @elliotvazquez6318 Рік тому +6

      I invited her to go out she said yes let me check my schedule. Haven't heard back from her. And I see her every day.😀 I don't get it!

    • @rhmayer1
      @rhmayer1 Рік тому

      @@elliotvazquez6318 Ignore her for at least a week or two. The ball's in her court since she said she'd get back to you. Time for YOU now to play hard to get. DON'T go begging after her. Do the OPPOSITE of seeming desperate. Now's the time to look confident - that you don't need her. Let her curiosity grow. It will drive her crazy that you don't go begging after her like a lap dog. Make her come to you, or at least make her initiate a subtle "reminder" like she might start walking by your area more and trying to catch your eye. If she does that, let her do that a few times before approaching her. Even then don't bring up going out until she brings it up. That's how to find out if she really meant yes, or if she's just stringing you along like a lot of young women do for weird ego reasons. (Bottom line: a little playful teasing is OK, but if she's just playing head games then drop her like a hot potato - thank me later for avoiding a train wreck.)

    • @moesworld505
      @moesworld505 Рік тому +4

      @@elliotvazquez6318 it means it could be no from her or she's testing you or prolly she forgot.

    • @elliotvazquez6318
      @elliotvazquez6318 Рік тому +1

      Thank u🤔

  • @johnmichaelrichards
    @johnmichaelrichards 8 місяців тому

    Thank you. I knew much of this from studying psychology and human anthropology but I picked up some new signs from you.

  • @Ab-xk9nl
    @Ab-xk9nl Рік тому +6

    I've got lots of girls coming to me with all these signs, not to sound arrogant, but i know im attractive... I act like i don't see the signs, because Im not social, i think more then i speak. Wich will turn them off, cause im not good at keeping a convo flowing, going from topic to topic. Chit chatting just to chit chat. I just say things that i feel is nesesarry to say. And that's it. I can be funny asf, but Im kind of a boring person in terms of holding a convo. So i'll just ignore the signs. But it only makes them wanne give me more signs. Me keeping it short, comes from feeling too much pressure to match their expectations about me. And from all these signs, wanting to know everything, being all up in my bussiness. But it only makes them think im mysterious wich turns them on even more... im attracted to quiet, shy girls. Not the confident ones that are so open to give me so much signs... i know im weird, but i hope anyone gets me✌

  • @brianshaffer810
    @brianshaffer810 Рік тому

    Hey new to the channel I like how you broke things down. I've met this girl we just kind of starting talking. We laugh and enjoy each other's company. But we both are dealing with some difficult circumstances and are trying to be cautious and take our time.

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому

    Yes their are quite a few that I've noticed. Now I know what to look for. Thank you Joyanima this is really helpful!

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому +1

    This is a wonderful video Joyanima! Thank you ❤️🦋🌹❤️

  • @heavymetalzombie9226
    @heavymetalzombie9226 Рік тому +15

    10 minutes later . Sexual lawsuits

    • @HoLeeChit11
      @HoLeeChit11 5 днів тому

      If that’s the case, something is not right

  • @alexmax3502
    @alexmax3502 Рік тому +4

    "Women do this to subconsciously let you know...." Next time you talk to a woman, bring your tarot cards and an astrology book, start using those in front of her and then stare right into her eyes to *subconsciously* let her know that you're interested in her as well.... I remember one time when I was still in middle school when a girl walked up to me and said "I like you" things were simpler back then and it worked.

  • @Laffingrl
    @Laffingrl Рік тому +2

    My god,your new hairstyle looks AMAZING,Anna,!!!

  • @brianwaller7383
    @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +6

    Nope. I had eye contact, open body language, leaning, mirroring, sat next to me every chance they got, all meant nothing. She ghosted me when I tried to pursue her

    • @tyrox3274
      @tyrox3274 Рік тому

      Why man why??

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому

      Sounds like...
      The Friend Zone 😱

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому

      @@BWater-yq3jx that’s why I dropped her. It’s relationship or nothing

  • @alexblue6991
    @alexblue6991 Рік тому +15

    Now I know my dog likes me

    • @SSurfer1
      @SSurfer1 11 місяців тому +1

      Haha exellent

    • @inrptn
      @inrptn 11 місяців тому +2

      and your dog won't file for divorce if it gets "bored"

  • @Dman425
    @Dman425 Рік тому +8

    Straight males aren’t that complicated. If a woman is interested in a guy, they just need to say it without giving hints. Giving hints is actually counter-productive for them

  • @speciallion1135
    @speciallion1135 Рік тому +12

    I am blessed. I have an energetic connection & experienced all of these signs, except the friends, one. We spent five hours chatting, she opened her heart out to me & I absolutely know, that we are in to each other & on the cusp of a romantic relationship. We haven’t exchanged phone numbers……too busy chatting & forgot. I would love a second meeting, she might be playing hard to get - but so am I (unintentionally, as she didn’t give me her number) The thing is, she knows where I live & can easily contact me in other ways, other than phone. So, if she is that into me, I am sure she will let me know….,I hope. Don’t want this connection to slip by without exploring further,
    Thanks for the insights, although I am an intuitive ‘Sigma’ deep in my gut, I can feel she will be coming back.

    • @antonthompson7838
      @antonthompson7838 Рік тому +9

      Dude if you think she’s the one get her phone number right now because anything could happen and you may never see her again…and yes I’m speaking from experience. I met a girl in 1995 and we were both 19 and she worked in the nightclub where I used to go, we got talking and got to know each other really well. I didn’t want to rush things with her and I truly believed she was the one…my soulmate. I was falling for her and she was falling for me, and the last time I saw her, I asked if she wanted me to drive her home and she said yes and she looked so pleased and of course I was too. But then her friend threw a spanner in the works and was adamant that I wasn’t taking her home. So reluctantly I said she better go home with her friend, she looked so sad and I was too, we tried to get each other’s number but we couldn’t find a pen or paper anywhere in the place and this was 1995 and mobile phones were not readily available. Anyway we gave each other a kiss and cuddle and said we will see each other soon….the next Friday when she was working. The next Friday came and I couldn’t see her at her usual bar, so I walked round the entire club upstairs and downstairs, she wasn’t there. But then I saw her friend, ya know the one that stopped me from driving her home! I said “Where’s Angela I can’t find her anywhere?” She said “She got sacked”. So I said “Wait she got fired, did she get fired because of me?” She just said nothing and looked up into her eyelids like I was annoying her. Then I said “Can you give me Angela’s phone number?” She said no. Then I said can you give me her address and she replied no, so I said why not and she simply said because I don’t want to. I walked away from her for a while and rationalised that she was just protecting her friend, even though she knew me and Angela had got to know each other very well. Anyway I went back over and said will you give Angela my home phone number and she still said no and as you can imagine by now I’m angry and very upset and the worst thing was she knew I was visibly upset and she just grinned to herself, I left the club and Angela and I never saw each other again, and it affected me greatly even now I can replay in my mind the last time I saw Angela and the week after when I saw her work friend. I just kept thinking I wish I told her friend to get stuffed and drove Angela home. I tried to find her but I never did find her and I’m still looking for her right now even 27 years later. So like I said, if she’s the one get her number right now and don’t rely on any of her so called friends because a green eyed jealous monster will most likely stop you in your tracks!

    • @db4419
      @db4419 Рік тому +1

      @@antonthompson7838 so what's your status now? Did you find another Angela all these years later?

    • @gamingenthusiast5450
      @gamingenthusiast5450 Рік тому

      Excellent

    • @pearlinedeane4652
      @pearlinedeane4652 Рік тому

      @@antonthompson7838 0

    • @antonthompson7838
      @antonthompson7838 Рік тому +2

      @@db4419 I’m single I’ve never found another “the one”.

  • @runtiger
    @runtiger Рік тому +7

    Dude you're a life saver and it's because of the way how I totally needed to hear this from a girl lol

  • @Takeitlightly6
    @Takeitlightly6 Рік тому +39

    16 things women would never do for me 😂

  • @Diogenes425
    @Diogenes425 Рік тому +7

    Remember my brothers, women didn’t get labeled “ spiders” out of humor.

  • @SaraJones-mf8nx
    @SaraJones-mf8nx Рік тому +3

    The "friend" thing I also would have thought would have been an accurate gage. I have a love interest in the office and after months of not going anywhere, but us just looking at each other, I thought maybe her friend would let me know. But NO. Her friend has never let on that they talk about me.

  • @vesaparkkonen4279
    @vesaparkkonen4279 Рік тому +6

    Flirting is a way to make day better even there is no sexual content drawn out 😊

  • @stephenmcgregor1066
    @stephenmcgregor1066 Рік тому +7

    Its always a joy to have women like you ..and you know that you have your someone that loves you even more...i love the attention. ..its nice to know ❤✌👍👀

  • @qualitydigitalvision
    @qualitydigitalvision Рік тому +3

    Very informative video
    Thanks for sharing
    Always stay bless 🎁🎁🎁🎁

  • @sonnyc3826
    @sonnyc3826 Рік тому +3

    im 42 i dont have time to chase women down playing hard to get...been there done that doesnt work well for me and its a waste of time..im a grown up just speak up and say whatever it is you want

  • @jamesski1108
    @jamesski1108 Рік тому +12

    I'd take this advice with a grain of salt. Women don't all do the same things. You may think you're getting a silent "yes", only to then have her back away or talk bad about you behind your back - if you're lucky. Only the touching thing means anything of substance.

    • @krollpeter
      @krollpeter Рік тому +1

      They may play with these things to test their attraction level. Not seldom, actually.

  • @DLeske
    @DLeske Рік тому +1

    *I love your slight accent.* Is it Austrailian?

  • @jonwind3383
    @jonwind3383 Рік тому +28

    Women: we are great communicators and men need to do better
    Also women:

    • @luiszuluaga6575
      @luiszuluaga6575 Рік тому +2

      I’ve tried that honesty and communications thing in earnest, it only confused her even more. Lol 🤷🏻‍♂️🤣

  • @MusaFinderi
    @MusaFinderi Рік тому

    Yea I've had these signals at work, the other one I ignored, the second pulled "a boyfriend card" when chatting casually even through she has no boyfriend, an instant alert. I don't play their games.

  • @charlestilley2576
    @charlestilley2576 Рік тому

    Hi Joyanima, am one of many of your loyal followers!😁
    Am 60 years old & the only thing I've not accomplished (within reason) in my life is to have a child. Is it possible for me to get a woman of childbearing age at this stage of life? After all, there'll automatically be a check for the child, and if below 16 or 18 when I die (lets hope not, want 2-3 more!), she'll be lucky enough too to get a check too just to care for them.
    Other than that, I still take care of myself, do to the doctor regularly, as am disabled due to failed back surgery syndrome, dress decently & have my own ride, credit & some savings. In fact, saving for down payment on a home for my new family, with FHA, can get one for as low as 3.5% down. I can be the "stay at home dad" if she has a job or career. My SSDI benefits are more than what most retires on & has been (as a percentage & widening) since the age of 43.
    What do you think? Please be honest, you're not going to hurt me by being truthful.😁

    • @sasukemadara5968
      @sasukemadara5968 Рік тому

      Sir it is your time to play with your grand kid not making the kid yourselves
      I am joking sir have a healthy happy life.

  • @NarwahlGaming
    @NarwahlGaming Рік тому +11

    Her: **invites me in. Disappears in bedroom and comes out wearing lingerie**
    Me: _"Oh. You're going to sleep? Ok. I'll see you tomorrow, I guess."_

    • @scottstanford7711
      @scottstanford7711 Рік тому +2

      OMG!! Your not alone, that would be my response as well.

    • @ImJunCena
      @ImJunCena Рік тому +1

      You: **puts on snowsuit** ... "WaNNa go ouTside!?" 😂

    • @NarwahlGaming
      @NarwahlGaming Рік тому

      @@jaredmiller8740 Said millions of men who can't read signals given by women.

  • @joemcconnell2674
    @joemcconnell2674 Рік тому +4

    Somebody told me this. I looked for the signs in work or walking around town. All I could see was them blanking me out or a dirty look like I was something they scraped off their shoe.
    In work they never bother with me. In work I have noticed when I am going to walk past them they get their phone out to look down at their screen so they don't have to look at my ugly face.
    But at least I am free and single.

  • @Swearengen1980
    @Swearengen1980 Рік тому +14

    A little overboard. Some of these are personality traits. Men being convinced some of these basic personality traits are sign of sexual interest is why men can't take no for an answer. Smile, appearance, anxious, eye contact.....absolutely do not have to mean sexual attraction.

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 Рік тому

      It does lol

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому +1

      Can be helpful to watch how she interacts with others.

    • @happyhands117
      @happyhands117 Рік тому +1

      I am so glad you wrote this comment. I work in a company that consists of 99% men. Am I expected to be miserable all the while, not smile, not laugh, not look after my appearance, without it being seen as sexual interest? I listened to the video and thought this is definitely not strictly true. Every woman is different, just like every man has his ways that are different to the next in showing interest. It also comes down to what the man or woman are actually looking for after the initial attraction, as to how they behave. This is so generalised and some of it not accurate.

    • @moesworld505
      @moesworld505 Рік тому

      You're exactly right!

  • @sammybivoni4005
    @sammybivoni4005 Рік тому +9

    I had this young woman that i was attractive to and so was she everything was well until one day I noticed something on her so i question her about having a boyfriend, she got little upset and yes and ever since things are not same to the point that I been getting the cold shoulder

    • @charlestilley2576
      @charlestilley2576 Рік тому +4

      She doesn't want you, time to look for one who does.

    • @rhmayer1
      @rhmayer1 Рік тому

      "I noticed something on her" You mean like a hicky? Drop her.

    • @johndoe-pe9dy
      @johndoe-pe9dy Рік тому +2

      Your the standby

  • @robklein583
    @robklein583 Рік тому +3

    My graduating class in high school had about 40 students. One of the girls would never miss a chance to do something nasty to me whenever she had a chance. I wondered why she was mean to me as I always was polite to her and everyone else. Years later I found out she had liked me and was trying to get me to notice her. Didn't want to tell me she liked me for fear of being rejected if I didn't like her. Women sure like to play mind games...😖

  • @InspectorVol
    @InspectorVol Рік тому +1

    Conversely when they are mad at you for something real or imagined, they will try to rip your soul out as payback.

  • @dobber2255
    @dobber2255 Рік тому

    i just love everything about you! and every time i see you or even here you talking, i just melt! lol

    • @HoLeeChit11
      @HoLeeChit11 5 днів тому

      Hey dude, I saw her first, 😅😂🤣

  • @TheAdrianSmith
    @TheAdrianSmith Рік тому +3

    Ignore all of them , specially good looking ones. You’ll be much better off

  • @easyas314
    @easyas314 8 місяців тому +3

    Guys, if you want to catch a fish, you don't ask the fish how to catch them. You ask the fisherman.

  • @instinctofapredator9009
    @instinctofapredator9009 Рік тому +1

    I remember one time last year some random girl at school was walking by during gym. I didn't know her really but I looked at her as she was walking by and she seen that I looked at her. She smiled and giggled a bit before continuing on her path. I didn't make no move towards her, but it was cute to see. There was also a time this dude came up to me with his friend who was a girl and he told me that his friend wanted my number. Once again, I didn't know her but she looked shy and they walked away rather quickly before I could think if anything to say.

  • @johnpalacios2747
    @johnpalacios2747 Рік тому

    Thank you for information ❤

  • @flipflopping
    @flipflopping Рік тому +2

    I have found that a Porsche works just as well.....or....a money clip that is packed with $100 bills.

  • @mikestroud9969
    @mikestroud9969 Рік тому +4

    Yes they hide it. Lol. A lot of times. They try not to stare at you. If they are shy. She will try and get your attention. In one way or another. 👍👌💯

  • @tempestmkiv
    @tempestmkiv Рік тому +15

    No, the dating scene is actually fairly stress free but the real stress starts after you put a ring on her finger!

    • @budoshi-f2l
      @budoshi-f2l Рік тому +4

      pro tip, never put a ring on her.

    • @Hugh_Manitee
      @Hugh_Manitee Рік тому +3

      That little metal warranty policy.

    • @phoenixrisin2269
      @phoenixrisin2269 Рік тому +5

      Never sign a contract where the other person stands to gain wealth at your expense. They are merciless and feel entitled to everything you worked for with zero remorse with their divorced 304 friends as her cheerleaders. What happened to these sub humans inter species predators?

    • @NarwahlGaming
      @NarwahlGaming Рік тому +2

      That ring was the lock on a gate that slammed shut after the "I do"s.
      She started spending $3 for every dollar I earned and, in a foolish attempt to keep up I got a second part-time job.
      The spending just went up.
      Then, I later found out that most of my money was going to the guy she was cheating on me with while I was at work(s).
      _"You're never home! What was I supposed to do?!"_
      Then, she tried to burn my house down.

    • @phoenixrisin2269
      @phoenixrisin2269 Рік тому +2

      @@NarwahlGaming If they didn’t have the split tail, there would be a bounty on them😂

  • @DevilsAdvocate619
    @DevilsAdvocate619 Рік тому +1

    There's a barista at a coffee shop by my house and it's hard to tell if she likes me or not or she just has good customer service. She says things like "it's good to see you again." She smiles and waves at me when I come in but it could be that I'm just a regular... I could be overthinking though

    • @inrptn
      @inrptn 11 місяців тому +1

      sit around the shop for awhile and see if she acts exactly the same with other men coming in.

  • @armangolba2814
    @armangolba2814 Рік тому

    Hi Joyanima,
    Did you notice you mentioned a couple of inconsistent behaviours.
    Eye contact , Communication & Touch Vs
    Anxious , Shyness & Hard to get.
    However, the woman with who I would like to be is not single. In other words she should be forgotten.🥀

  • @usuariousuario-jf4hf
    @usuariousuario-jf4hf Рік тому +7

    You should make a video about girls with the jezebel spirit. Those are pure evil

  • @williamhale6808
    @williamhale6808 Рік тому +1

    Sometimes we choose not to take the bait. Sure we all want it but risk is part of equasion

  • @manuelr1405
    @manuelr1405 Рік тому +4

    love the mens responses spot on 😁🤣

  • @guywoznicki7847
    @guywoznicki7847 Рік тому +1

    The only sign I’ve noticed in the last 30 years is the eye contact, and that’s only when I’m talking to her. I always assume that if she talks to me for over 10 minutes that she has some interest. Of course that’s almost always wrong. Hey I’m bluntly honest and many times I reveal details that may not make me look good. Don’t know if that contributes to my 100% failure rate. Nearly all the dates I’ve ever been on are when the girl comes to me!

  • @bpit9645
    @bpit9645 Рік тому +12

    Or it could be that if she's looking into your eyes and licking her lips it could mean that she has a cold sore, and when she twirls her hair she might be trying to get a dead bug out, if she smiles check and make sure your pants are zipped up, if she touches you she might be wiping grease off her hand. My point is don't read too much into it guys because it's probably not what you think. More than likely.

    • @brianarmstrong8264
      @brianarmstrong8264 Рік тому +3

      That's why you look for several signs as opposed to just one, also carry some grease and stain remover and a small towel if she's just wiping her hands off you'll need the small towel for later when you press assault charges 😂

    • @patrickdunn8918
      @patrickdunn8918 Рік тому

      😃

    • @wayneanderson8034
      @wayneanderson8034 Рік тому

      This is why I carry a towel on my hip that clearly states "use this for platonic wiping of filth". It gets used a lot by women I find attractive, but they show no sexual interest. The last lady to use it asked if she could hang her purse on my bulge while she wiped.

  • @TravelatorH8r
    @TravelatorH8r Рік тому +4

    I work in a grocery store so all day I have interactions with women. When they first meet you and they are attracted there's three things that goes into the routine, firstly make eye contact then she looks at my zipper then she plays with her hair. Every fucking time I telling you

  • @stevenmcgrath7437
    @stevenmcgrath7437 Рік тому +1

    Can recognise most of these signs in someone but she tells me she is in love with someone else, a person she cannot name and has not mentioned ever before. Very confusing

  • @Michael_RareZebra
    @Michael_RareZebra Рік тому +1

    While they walk past, make eye contact and then giggle, don't confuse the combo

  • @jamesstrutz4937
    @jamesstrutz4937 Рік тому +3

    17.) SHE HAS HER HAND IN YOUR BACK POCKET AND GOING FOR YOUR WALLET.

  • @asofotida443
    @asofotida443 Рік тому +10

    Thanks … as a divorced rich man in his forties, this video is very helpful, I can ensure I create enough distance between any “interested” females and me for I have discovered things far more satisfying than women.

    • @mandalorian5038
      @mandalorian5038 Рік тому +1

      Men?

    • @asofotida443
      @asofotida443 Рік тому +1

      @@mandalorian5038 sort of yes. I reconnected with some of my college mates, same story with their marriages. 3 of us are starting a new business together. We meet up for drinks every weekend, discuss business plans, we engaged an IT company to start building our product.. let’s see where this goes. My buddies say it’s a 10 billion dollar industry, I’ll just be happy with 5-10 million. Wish us luck!

    • @mandalorian5038
      @mandalorian5038 Рік тому

      @@asofotida443 I swore it off for 7 years, but now trying to balance it and my IT business - good luck to you!

  • @thebigcnel
    @thebigcnel Рік тому +1

    Glad I haven't been missing anything lately.

  • @JACKPAVAL
    @JACKPAVAL Рік тому +4

    If she plays,"hard to get " with me , she won't get got. (at least by me)
    I dont have time for that.

  • @abkeener81
    @abkeener81 Рік тому

    As it relates to wearing red ... besides a dress, sweater, and such ... what else red might she wear?

  • @1923tlandenm
    @1923tlandenm Рік тому +4

    I asked someone in a date; she said yes and then had something come up but if I was free later then maybe we could meet. I didn’t hear from her again until today. She asked me if I still, and later walked up behind me with her body pressed against mine and put her head in my shoulder. I don’t know how to take this… do I try again?

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому

      I give them ONE chance.

    • @BWater-yq3jx
      @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому +3

      So yes, I'd try again. But low-key it.
      i.e. casual, low investment.
      As in
      "I'm gonna be at .......... doing ........
      Do you want to meet up / join me?"

    • @NarwahlGaming
      @NarwahlGaming Рік тому

      @@BWater-yq3jx This is the best advice.
      Low key, neutral ground, no commitment.

  • @NEOMASS0
    @NEOMASS0 Рік тому

    I know a friend who is married and she seems to like my friend a lot. But when I talk to her she laughs a lot and doesn't look at me in the eye when she talks to me.

  • @richardcarlson343
    @richardcarlson343 Рік тому

    I don’t miss these signs at all. I just think of her body count which now a days is significantly higher than mine and that always out weighs the staring, giggling, and questioning.

  • @johnmichaelrichards
    @johnmichaelrichards 8 місяців тому

    I'm already in love with the love of my life but your presentation has made me wonder as there is another lady who giggles and plays with her hair and holds eye contact when around me. How do I let her down gently?

  • @ancientwarrior777
    @ancientwarrior777 Рік тому

    I already knew this, but you forgot about the standing crossover of women when she crosses over one leg to another to keep it together!

  • @bikiniluvnguy1
    @bikiniluvnguy1 Рік тому +9

    I never miss the signs, when a woman looks at me, and has either a look of disbelief, or looks pale or nauseated, I know exactly where we stand.

  • @jonesdarryn1
    @jonesdarryn1 Рік тому +1

    yeah, confirmation she was not attracted to me. but some advice tho, don't judge a book by its cover.

  • @brownwrench
    @brownwrench Рік тому +15

    Sadly my wife does none of these things (any more)

    • @SKBSKBSKBSKBSK
      @SKBSKBSKBSKBSK Рік тому

      Why do men marry? It’s stupidity

    • @darrellsimpson6966
      @darrellsimpson6966 Рік тому +3

      Nor does mine. Says she has no love for me and roots around. Too old to care, 'cause she's a great cook.

    • @HoLeeChit11
      @HoLeeChit11 5 днів тому

      Of not, she’s probably doing them to someone else when you’re not there

  • @waynesworld90
    @waynesworld90 Рік тому

    New Subscriber ✊🏾

  • @johnnstamoezze4047
    @johnnstamoezze4047 Рік тому +8

    My horrible ex made me push away some friends.

    • @6548ww
      @6548ww Рік тому

      Mine too and family I deeply regret it

  • @redghost3170
    @redghost3170 Рік тому +3

    If a woman a man works with talks to HR about you, does that mean she’s playing hard to get? Asking for a friend.

  • @grimrevan4660
    @grimrevan4660 Рік тому +1

    Proud of my fellow men in the comment section. I've never had time for cat and mouse games. I have passed up many because of those who want to be chased.

  • @agostinhomaiadossantos9018
    @agostinhomaiadossantos9018 Рік тому

    Hi Joyanima, Thank you, I like more this, how can I do some action to atract her that she can also think about me all the time.
    Another one is this, sometime these signs are there but as we get closer to each other and she just slowly change her mind and not interested to me anymore, I don't even notice, why?

  • @kolorkonexion
    @kolorkonexion Рік тому +2

    Trying to match your colors u wear at the gym...💯💯💯

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx Рік тому +2

    I've noticed European women are better at the eye-contact thing.
    Def makes it easier.

  • @danielteyehuago1633
    @danielteyehuago1633 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing it with us