I'm Leaving Ur Mom's House
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2022
- sometimes good things fall apart. it's time for something new ~
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When Annemarrie left, I did feel like the energy of the house changed a bit. And now knowing how you felt about it definitely explains how it affected you these past few months, Elliot. Although ur mom's house is coming to a close, I'm glad it happened as it brought many great moments that will never be forgotten. Excited to see the next chapter of your life Elliot.
one toxic person in the group
@@babo4019 And her name starts with A.
@@sanjogh777 how was she toxic?
@@babo4019 who is the toxic person?
@@sanjogh777 the only toxic one here are the comments villainizing kashley. yall dont know these people personally lol sit down
I think its just that Annemarie grounded the house no matter how big or fun everything was Annemarie always had a way of showing every individuals humanity and brought things into perspective she made everyone seem relatable
That’s exactly what i feel with Annemarie presence and what she meant to the whole group, without her everyone just kinda float around and are off on what’s the reality is and what the important things are, you know and I bet that’s what Elliot felt as well with her gone. Annemarie have a really grounding and peaceful presence which makes everyone felt in ease and grounded while u still can have fun.
Anne-Marie was just super real. You could tell she was very empathetic and personable to the point where it came through in videos . When she disappeared from the house I figured something mustve happened as it was never really explained.
I really blame Ashley and Kelly. Ashley such a pick me and Kelly just annoying and dumb
also living with a couple must be awkward as hell
to be honest, i dont blame her because she mightve been jealous of the relationship but she was super awkward
kelly and ashley's both had unbelievably supportive families their entire lives, and elliot's mentioned he has strained relationships with his, always having screaming fights etc, and i really empathise with him here. he never had the familial support system so he naturally would put his friends on a higher level of importance and its so so tough to face the reality that they don't view you the same way, even worse that they won't and literally can't understand why he feels this way. i think this is a very common sentiment in (full) asian households and maybe i'm projecting but i really do see why he felt that betrayed. especially since he and kelly were best friends for so much longer than kashley's been together.
plus kelly mentioned he was the first one elliot told about how he's been feeling the past few months, so it does show that elliot still sees him as number one, if that makes any sense. though not discounting his lack of communication and wilddd mistreatment towards ashley, i do think elliot should probably get therapy if he hasn't already (not in a he's a shit person and needs to be fixed) but more so that he has a lot of emotional baggage and should learn how to process and regulate his emotions in a healthier way, that doesn't end up with him bottling up till it explodes and burns more bridges.
(Saw this comment from reddit and thought its well spoken about this situation)
Elliot is just a girl deep down with female emotions
On the flip. Elliot needs to understand that just because he doesn’t value family over friends, he shouldn’t push that belief onto other people. And having those feelings isn’t a valid reason to hate someone or discredit their work when they really did nothing personal to you.
But why did Annemarie leave though??
@@sportsnerd321 no need for the sexism El Oh El ashley is also a woman with “female emotions”
@@sportsnerd321 lmao wtf does this even mean
Things like these make you appreciate a team like the Sidemen for sticking together for about 8yrs
Probably helps that they never dated each other.
@@JackH2254 yeah kinda.....
Props to the Sidemen, they've had worse fights and never ever threatened to harm each other.
@@yemiomotoso9215 and they baptized ksi's hamster
@@GalaxChongloi llmaoooo
@@JackH2254 I'd recommend giving Kelly's new video a watch - apparently Ashley had spoken to the whole house about her and Kelly's eventual relationship (they were flirting before they signed the lease) and offered to live by herself if the house wasn't comfortable with them eventually dating. So it really wasn't kashley that ruined the house, but just different priorities and growing secret resentment on Elliot's part that led to Elliot straight up telling Kelly that he hated Ashley and that she didn't deserve any equity in their new company.
think we all kinda realized moment annemarie left the house, the group wasn't going to work out. Overall we gotta give him props creating ur moms house in first place..
Kashely ruined the house. It’s not fair for Elliot to be a 3rd wheel it’s simply makes Elliot more lonelier with Amber out.
@@gigizurpos9678 Elliot is dating Nic though so he didn't have to thirdwheel. Isa would always mention in her vlogs that she's a 5th wheel because she's the only single one. If Kelly and Ashley didn't date they would have dated other people anyways. I don't think it's that deep because the creator house wasn't going to last forever. Eventually they would go their separate ways.
@@gigizurpos9678 Shut up elliot is also dating Nic who was 24/7 with them.
@@Beckst how tf you know they dating and why are you stalking Elliot’s private life. He never address it and you don’t have prove but just assumptions saying nic dating Elliot so stfu
@@Jean-wh2hu um you don’t know they are dating . He never address it so your just assuming and you could be wrong cause Elliot never said it
I keep forgetting how funny this title and thumbnail must be to people with no context lol. But in all seriousness, wish you the best of luck on the next chapter brother!
upload gang
WHEN IS YOUR NEXT VIDEO COMING BRO ?
Why funny?
@@tranzollo because hes leaving your moms house
@damanpreet he meant like how people would react to a title of a video called leaving ur moms house
Me finally watching this after watching Kelly and Ashely’s clap back video 🤷♂️
We're making things worse here. Let's not bash elliot nor on kashley or anyone. We're doing nothing good for their mental health by throwing any hate comments. Let's all step back and things be resolved among themselves in their own time.
Meanwhile, let's just continue to support them as individuals.
Wow this is such a lovely and sophisticated comment in this otherwise cruel internet society. Maybe it's naive from you to say this but I like how you think.
Yeah well he paints Kelly and Ashley in a bad light
@@jesterjohn123 how??
@@jesterjohn123 that’s your own negative interpretation. You’re doing the exact thing they’re talking about.
agree!
Makes sense. After annemarie left, the urmoms house content as a group practically stopped. The podcasts just died off too. Keep doing what's best for you Elliot.
i really loved ur moms house as a 4 person collective. i stopped watching and lost interest once annemarie left and i felt bad that i lost interest because you are all really great creators and i looked forward to wednesdays because of yall but something felt off once she left, like the dynamic of content switched. best of luck to whatever is next elliot.
I too stopped tuning in to watch videos, the Connections seemed spotty. Miss the Old days.
Tbh I lost interest since Kashley happened. Idk like good for them but I feel like the vibe changes a lot, even in Ashley's videos so I find myself watching Ashley's videos less and less, especially when there's Kelly in it. Not that I dislike Kelly but the vibes are just meh when they're both tgt. Might be because there are just too many contents involving them both. I'm happy for them especially Ashley but tbh I very much prefer the siblings videos lol.
Me too. I stop watching they all when Annemarie left.
@@vece_calls totally agree sibling vids r the best till this date.
same here
Bro made the most dramatic edit ever when he actually just toxic and immature fr
childish af
> _sorts by new_
> grabs popcorn
SAME
lmao i did this as soon as the kashley vid came out today
We all know Eliot always want to suck that hotdog of Kelly that's why his so jealous to Ashley
aw man I seriously miss those days, when you would all post right after one another on the same day, I’m not sure why it feels so long ago but maybe it has been. You’ve all grown sooo much in this span of time together, and even though it never went the way we expected it to, it definitely happened for a reason. I can also imagine how it would’ve felt when Ashley and Kelly started dating more publically, I always wondered where you were , but you could tell it wasn’t the same.
it’s been “kashley’s house” for a while now, don’t blame you for separating yourself from something you didn’t sign up for. Best of luck and I’ll be there watching your journey
🥲
ikr what a pain
I agree so hard on this
I agree so much. They just want everything to be about them
Just because something worked for kashley doesn’t mean it’s their fault. Don’t blame them. It’s all of them.
Listen guys, let's be all more careful with words.
I understand that in this type of drama everyone has a strong opinion and takes a side defending it at all costs, but we must limit ourselves.
They are young adults, they can solve all this very well in private, without spectators who continue to insult and threaten.
Let's remember the effects that all this hating and cyber bullying can do.
Be kinder and more sensitive for the sake of all of them.
calling elliot on his bull shit treatment of ashley is not bullying. it's not hating or cyberbullying. this man just needs to apologize
@@biggestbullsfan8569 right and the fact that ppl are coming to say that it's "speculation" lmaooo elliot needs to stop with his fucking overdramatized self montage rain videos and just conversate like an adult.
@wlndbeach You obviously did not understand the meaning of what I said and yet it seemed very easy to me.
The important thing is not who is on the side of whom (also because you do not even know what I think) .
In general it is necessary to calm the tones and not worsen the situation with threats and excessively aggressive comments. Many people because of these pressures have done really sad things.
Do not create drama on my comment, when my intent is opposite.
Be kind, do not spread arrogance unnecessarily.
@@biggestbullsfan8569 I completely understand the fact that Elliot was wrong and must apologize.
I've never followed his channel, but I'm sorry to see all these hateful comments.
I don't think Ashley and Kelly would want us fans to spread so much hate.
No one deserves to receive death threats etc.
I wouldn't want all this to lead to bigger and more serious things, all this online hate can lead to really bad things that can ruin lives forever.
I'm sure that with the right time the guys will be able to solve a little without the interference of some viewers who can exaggerate.
@@cateIeya I've been following Ashley forever and Kelly for a year now.
I couldn't care less about defending Elliot, also because he obviously did too many wrong things.
Whatever person it is, no one deserves to receive so much hatred, I have read really disturbing and exaggerated things.
Knowing Ashley, I guess she's sorry to see all this too.
Later maybe when serious things happen everyone will magically feel sorry for what they have consciously provoked.
Online hate is always wrong, always.
I hope they can speak as soon as possible away from the spotlight, without interference that worsens everything, so that they can say everything and close this sad chapter.
This was a great video Elliot. I enjoyed watching all of you guys together since the beginning, but especially appreciated your presence. You're a very genuine person and your videos were not only fun to watch but actually useful and growth-oriented which I'm sure has helped so many of your viewers, like myself. Like many others have stated, I really felt Anne Marie's grounding and comforting presence and once she left, it just felt unbalanced for probably that reasonYou deserve to be around people who understand and appreciate and support your journey too.
You too deserve to be unapologetically yourself. Don't listen to people who make assumptions about you who don't even know the real you or take the time to. All that is just noise. Thank you Elliot for being you!! So proud of you and your dedication to self-peace and growth.
Standing in the rain was kinda cringe lol 😂
elliot, this chapter of your life was essential for your growth as a person. like you said, the painful times are blessings in disguise. you are an amazing person and honestly its been an honor to say ive been watching your videos for awhile. i love your style and the cinematography and storytelling in this video is amazing. further proof of how much you've improved and matured. we love you elliot and cant wait to see what the future holds ❤️
Either way I see the hurt Elliot went through, but that Equity thing was a dick move tho.
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@wlndbeach sounds like you took a side now too. But for kelly i might think twice, but for ashley I won't.
@@tulipnightsdiary294 wdym?
@@nombusodlamini7348 its in kelly video. Apparentlly when they do group video, the money the earn is not equal and ashley barely gets anything compared to the rest.
@@nombusodlamini7348 Kelly and Ashley posted a video on their side of the story. They said even though it was agreed that everyone would get an 25% cut of ur mom's house, after Annemarie left, Elliot said him and Kelly each get 50% and Ashley gets 0%
I went through the same situation a year ago. A lack of communication can really hurt a friendship. We grew up in different families and environments. Unfortunately, if you grew up in different places, it won't end well. I realized this too late. Best of luck for all your future.
Elliott, I really really hate this it's so unfortunate but i truly think i speak on behalf of everyone, we appreciate the honesty and we all want what's best for you! Hopefully this decision leads you somewhere greater and we'll always cherish you and the memories at ur moms house!!!!!!
ua-cam.com/video/pM1Y6d-WOVk/v-deo.html vlog ;)
I cried watching this. Such amazing story telling, Elliot…The visuals and the videos shots as well. I was able to discover Elliot through your moms house. This won’t be the end but another chapter in his life.
No literally same
Same 💯
You are not alone 🫂 i was also crying while watching the video.
ua-cam.com/video/pM1Y6d-WOVk/v-deo.html vlog !!
LMFAO
Dear elliot, I hope all this drama will mellow out and you guys can sit down and talk it out one day rather than disrespect each other or let the fans pick and chooses sides. but for now i hope your mental health is doing okay. I watched you since the beginning of times, just because you always smile in your videos doesn't mean you're happy. We don't really know what's going through someone's mind and only judge through videos. Only your friends and yourself can be the judge of that. Keep your head up high!
This is such a beautiful video. Filming, pacing, content. Thanks for being so vulnerable! Social media can easily impact the authenticity of real life moments. It’s a bummer. Looking forward to what’s next for you!
Elliot its okay no matter where you go we will all still be there supporting you. Remember don't be sad its ending, be happy it happened, excited for the future :)
He didn’t even see your comment 😂 sad life
Elliot’s channel was one of the biggest from the beginning, i dont think he has to worry about losing support on his channel lol
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Damn that was so sad. I really liked the Ur Mom's House Squad. It was just a bunch of friends in their 20s hanging out and creating content together. I really loved the vibe of this house and it became a huge inspiration for me to pursue something like that in the future. Man these guys were like the real life version of 'Friends'. It really sucks that this creator house was so short lived but it was fun to watch while it lasted. Wish the Ur Mom's House Squad all the best though even as they go separate ways.
The rest moved into a new apartment with Luke, Jed, and Isa.
@@Jean-wh2hu source?
@@ilykilz They hinted finding a new apartment in their videos. I watched Luke's insta story and they were in a new apartment with a bunch of moving boxes.
@@Jean-wh2hu what is his insta?
@@ariahselocin2090 Luke Eich
am I the only now that watched this video and didn't see an attack? idk why everyone is saying this video started beef. I watched this when it came out and all the comments were about how great of a video it was despite it being sad. Now that Kellys video is out everyone is talking about how this video started online beef. but I can't find a single point this vied where he placed blame on to anyone. it just seemed like a sad situation for everyone.
straight FAX bro kelly's passive aggressive video started all this online drama.
Thought the exact same thing right now, damn I guess they might have been scared of backlash so they acted fast
ashley’s moms comment was so uncalled for
what she said?
@@mar9642 she said “Don't blame your unhappiness on others when you had the same opportunities as Ashley and Kelly to grow your own channel. A true friend wouldn't make such a overly dramatic video to throw shade on who you called your best friend/S. Do better if you want to succeed. Don't blame others for your lack of ideas on your videos. Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon."
@@genesprouts I’m sure Ashley literally talked to her mom about the comment. An told her to not to get involved with this dumb situation
is this fr?
Omgg no way, where did she write this? By the way I sensed that was the issue. I don’t think they want to touch specifically on it but I assumed he had huge expectations on the group joint channel that prob felt intimidating to the others. Just an observation tho that could be super wrong.
I totally agree with your decision, I saw how different the content was without Annemarie. It didn't feel right to me either, but even though it's the end of an era I'm always going to support you. And I'm also very excited to see where you end up next.
Jed did a good job with filming.
This video really conveys your feelings and the message you are trying to pass.
Oh Elliot. What have you done.
There is no wrong or right decision. It's just how each person accepts it. Elliot will grow from this decision and how the rest accepts this makes their path. Vice versa for each ur moms house roomate. Considering that we(subscribers) no nothing about the truth, the best we can do is wish the best for them.
I really love how transparent and vulnerable you are. The easy way out would be to just say “oh you know, things change, etc” to avoid confrontation but you actually are open and honest with how you feel. You’re direct and face things head on, instead of sugarcoating. Honestly, that takes a LOT of courage in being true to oneself.
To the people commenting things like “Well, so and so kept making videos and kept it pushing, and Elliot didn’t, so he can’t complain.” You guys are dense and obviously DON’T GET IT. This is exactly what Elliot had an issue with - content over their actual friendship.
He says “We were so focused on making videos together that we forgot to focus on what actually mattered, just hanging out and having fun eith each other, and not just when we needed to film.”
It sounds like there was no longer a connection there, and Elliot made efforts to get it back, and he couldn’t and that’s when he decided it was time to move on.
love this comment because everything about it is right. i feel so bad for elliot but im so proud of him for moving on.
I agree one hundred percent- creators usually don't make videos like this and I appreciate his honestly. tbh I think Ashley's videos have gotten less real and they feel much more scripted but idk
I agree...and I relate to Eliot's experience pretty closely because I had really really really good 3 friends and we were friends throughout whole past 10 years continuously, we had fun, we cried, we did stupid things, we studied, we argued, we fought and made up just in minutes. Even others told us that we were together since they know any of us and it's an amazing friendship we have. But last few years we got another two friends and things were even more fun.. then old friend and new friend started a relationship and just forgot others and only used others to make their way for romance, and they even made fun of others and said we were jealous of them, they changed really fast that I couldn't even believe it. Unbelievable thing is old friend played the victim even tho that person started that and became mean all alone. Then they broke up and our friend group became really awkward and so we unknowingly stopped hanging out. Then my other old friend started changing since she went to another college and I still love her so much and try to keep the friendship through texts and stuff but she wouldn't respond for weeks. Remaining ones also moving with their lives individually as if nothing happened. I think I'm the only one hurting, thinking, missing my friends and trying. Maybe true friendship was never there? May be people changed? Maybe they all found better people? I'm still processing. But I figured every bad thing happened for good as Eliot said I won't attach and trust my future friends like last time no matter how good they are, humans change really fast I won't let other hurt me who don't even care about me. So Eliot I loved all of you in ur mom's house and not judging any of you because we don't really know what's going on others life, but I just want to let you know I understand you and wish you all the best.
"Don't blame your unhappiness on others when you have the same opportunities as Ashley and Kelly to grow your channel. A tru friend woulnd't make an overly dramatic video to throw shade on who you called your bestfriends. Do better if you want to succeed. Don't blame others for your lack of ideas on your videos.
Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon"
- Ashley's mom's deleted comment
@@Khan-dw1mr why are you commenting this on every single thread
I also felt like after Anne Marie left there was no longer a strong dynamic. With all four in the beginning, you could tell how passionate & fun they were working together in their videos. Not just as creators, but as great friends. At some point in time, I remember feeling the house’s content going towards a certain direction and things were feeling off. Not much after, Anne Marie announced that she was leaving & when she did the house content changed fully. In the beginning it felt like watching 4 friends just documenting memories and adventures together, now the house has been feeling like watching individual youtubers who post unrelated group content who just by chance live with fellow youtubers. I just wish Elliot the best of luck.
Edit: I adore every past roommate and am excited to see where they all go in time :) This though is not a thing of who “succeeds the fastest or greatest” but witnessing the content house progression in giving that feeling of community felt somewhat lost [“community” & “dynamic” go hand in hand]. That is a quality I believe is very valuable to withhold in a creator household.
"Don't blame your unhappiness on others when you have the same opportunities as Ashley and Kelly to grow your channel. A tru friend woulnd't make an overly dramatic video to throw shade on who you called your bestfriends. Do better if you want to succeed. Don't blame others for your lack of ideas on your videos.
Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon"
- Ashley's mom's deleted comment
@@Khan-dw1mr did anyone else respond to this comment?
@@olidibu A lot of ppl were criticizing her bc she's a grownass women attacking someone who was clearly honest and vulnerable about the content creator house that HE CREATED and grew. She clearly only has Ashley's narrative at the forefront, bring shade into the conversation when Elliot mentioned nothing about Kashley, but just that UMH's original vision was lost and he hated that he was feeling so negative. Ashley even defended that her mom's comment was warranted -_- but obviously deleted it when many comments criticized this family for ganging up on Elliot's honest video. Her mom's comment literally doesn't make any sense like Elliot was also in a relationship & chose not to monetize it, it's not like relationship content is an original idea that Kashley came up with🤣
@@studyoasis wait, what did ashley say to defend her mom?
@@Khan-dw1mr I thought this comment was so unfortunate because Elliot took a break for his mental health and his channel was already doing really well. He had a million before Kelly.
I just wanted to say that it's a complicated situation from all sides. I can only imagine how unmatched expectations, loneliness and mental pressure feel. It's quite sad that the narrative that we - viewers - were able to get was not complete and omitted a number of crucial moments. And the timeline was perceived differently because of that. It doesn't deny the fact that there were episodes of miscommunication and hurting each other. And I'm damn sad because of all this. I loved watching every member of UrMomsHouse and I can tell that these episodes helped me to go through probably the hardest part of my own life. And therefore I'm grateful to each member of the house. I really wish you will be able to remain good friends. Or at least try to do it. Life moves on, but we should remain humans to one another. Love to all of you who read this comment. Hugs.
The narrative that you gave in this video seems very vulnerable and honest. We can tell things have been different and like you expressed in your video it has been hard. I hope you create an even better experience for your future.
P.S. Your videos and the majority of your channel has always been uplifting and inspiring. And it’s understandable that a person who pursues such amazing goals can have difficult times.
tbh i feel really bad for elliot bc he’s the one who started the idea of a creator house and he ended up disconnecting with it. i hope he can stay in nyc because he talks about how much he likes it there
edit: i thought it was elliot bc he’s the one who recruited annemarie and i thought he was the one who was looking for apartments in nyc but sorry my bad if it was kelly 💔
I mean.
Their contract was coming to an end, so it was the end no matter what I recon.
naw they ll had to leave
@@zesiDK okay apologist LOL
Kelly had the idea, he told elliot
It was Kelly's idea!
This video low key made me shed a tear. Ur Mom's House was epic, being able to watch you all do the most is inspiring to say the least and while this chapter is coming to an end I can't wait to see the next chapters unfold.
Also welcome back, we missed you ✨
I really appreciated how you were so honest with your feelings whether they were good or bad. You really know how to tell a story and experience in a way where we can all feel it!
Yeah you appreciate him being a backstabber snake right? 🐍
I'm now a senior in high school. I still remember watching you as a freshman and riding along with your journey at Vanderbilt. I keep saying it to myself and almost everyone I know-- but, man, time flies... huh...
I'm sad about the departure of everyone, and the ending of ur mom's house, though I'm still looking forward to your next chapter in life!
This is one of those chapters that'll be heartbreaking to go through, but life goes on, another chapter will be unfolded, and this is just part of the story, not yet the end. Though I'm extremely sad that you're leaving, I'm happy that you're standing up for yourself Elliot 🥺
I'll support you no matter what chapter it may be. 🤗
i saw this coming but i wasn’t prepared. i will never forget ur mom’s house but also looking forward to ur new content. appreciate ur hardwork elliot im proud of u
Everyone is moving out but he's actually leaving ur mom's house, the other roommates will continue to live together somewhere else.
u guys literally named the content house after ashley
That’s wasn’t his choice, it was mainly Kelly’s. Everyone else just went with it because they couldn’t think of anything else
@@azizaellison5433 even so the house would not have worked without any of them so for him to say ashley didn’t deserve equity is wild
I can’t imagine sitting through the clips of memories of my life that’ve happened knowing I’ll never get to relive them again. Seeing you guys each week in a new video was the highlight to my week and now it feels like the finale of what was a brilliant series. I truly wish the best for each and everyone of you. I’ll forever miss urmomshouse😢
"If you wanna start a new chapter you have to end the one that you're on" 💯
The scene at 6 min is so dramatic knowing Elliot was basically bullying Ashley 😂
Bullying Ashley?
@@bewatter3014 overdramatic Ashley fans
@@faizanhusain7845 LOL yeah, they act like they know all in person 😂
I enjoyed Kelly’s videos but now he feels like a backstabber friend
Can’t f with that
I just know Elliot’s quaking right now lmaooo
I started watching their content collectively a few months ago and I just had a feeling it wasn’t going to last and that’s the sad reality of content creation households don’t last. They’re all great people tho and I wish them the best!
Although sad, I think this is arguably the best video Elliot has ever made. When you really study the cinematography, the storytelling, and his ability to take you on a journey through this period of his life - it’s truly incredible.
still in awe that you and elliot are friends. both of your content over the years have changed my life 💯
The cinematic subway scene sent me
@@nicksantos7586 what are the changes that u r proud of?
I was thinking the same thing, bravo Elliot bravo 🤌🏼
Yesss exactly. Also, I thought the ending was well done. Plugging out the light symbolizing an end, but also a new chapter. This video was tastefully done.
the essential message I received from this is that being in your 20s is hard and anyone this age or at a transitional period of life can relate. it was a nice feeling and I didn’t get anything negative from this but maybe that’s just me. great work elliot!
I think that trying to constantly “be happy” and “spread positivity” can get superficial and creates a distance between the creator and the viewer. Thank you for being as transparent as you could with this video. It builds a lot of trust with the audience❤
Well Elliott is contantly moping in his videos so "trying to constantly be happy" isnt an issue here. Every other vlog is "I dont know what to do with my life" or "taking another break from youtube". This dude is always on a break.
well now you know he wasn't actually being "transparent"
Your a real inspiration Elliot, it’s not easy to move on from something that’s dear to your heart, but the fact your able to do so speaks volumes. I’m sure whatever path you decide to journey on will better you as a person, plus we will always be their to support you. Look forward to seeing what your future holds.
Anyone here after Kelly’s Video?
Things really just happen in life and us viewers don't know the full story. Thankful for all the four of yall creating ur mom's house. I hope maybe someday if you're all good and thriving all on your own paths, you'll make time to get together and have a little reunion. Wish u all the best in this new chapter Elliot. You are amazing.
5:43 rain thing was kind of dramatic.
This is not movie.
After all the sins he has committed, he needed that rain shower 🛀 lmao
im so proud of you for choosing whats best for you! we’re all rooting for you and all your upcoming achievements!
this video felt like a movie. even though i stopped following the house after annemarie left, i still feel connected to it cause i saw it all since the very first beggining i guess we all saw this coming after the group started being separates duos. im sad, but i totally understand. good luck elliot, i really like you and wish you the best new chapter.
I completely agree
Rewatching knowing he hated Ashley during these vids is eyeopening
Literally ☹️
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Yeah and you can definitely see how Elliot is towards her now
@wlndbeach preach !
Elliot never blamed Ashley on his videos and she made it look that way so she can slender him
I'm sorry but this is so dramatic 😭😭😭
ELLIOT😭😭. I’m so sad this chapter is coming to an end. Watching you in your moms house has been some of the best content I’ve seen and I’m gonna miss it but I’m so excited for this new chapter and what’s next. I can’t wait to see what you do in the future. Keep pushing through.
Well Elliot…it’s been such an honor to see everything that you and the gang have created in the last year unfold…we ALL wish you the best of luck and will definitely support you in the next and exciting new chapters of your life :))😩✨👏👏👏
We’ll always support your decision Elliot and I hope you find happiness in your future plans. it takes a lot to finally realize that there might be things that you aren’t feeling comfortable with and stepping away from the negativity that your getting.
Betrayed his bestfriend by talking behind his back and saying he hates his friend Ashley damn
Great video and a great run. You guys truly did something unique and should be proud of it 🙌🏼🙌🏾
I love you guys congrats on 1 mill!
You guys gotta do a follow up video on this 😭
Ur video on them had some bad juju in it 💀
It’s your fault this happened, y’all jinxed them 😳
Happy 1 million guys🎉 fully deserved ❤
This wasnt the video I was expecting, but you know yourself best, and we'll be here to support you no matter what. Best of luck and I can wait to see the next chapter to come
I wish you the best of luck in your next chapter Elliot. You were the first creator out of this group that I watched and I have always enjoyed watching your videos each week. I am excited to see what you will do next.
no matter what, the amount of support we all have for you will never change
Maybe go see Kelly's vid about it
Man im leaving
ngl them dating made it proly awkward for the rest instead of them doing videos together since kelley and ashley were dating they started focusing on each other for content and completely forgot about the main reason how they all got there. That's sad
💯💯
I personally don't see any shade. Elliot may have not posted an ending video with ashely and kelly because he wanted to show his perspective- not theirs. For him, leaving the house wasn't just physically moving out- It was starting a new chapter. For ashely and kelly, they're still going to be together and probably make the same content as they always- keeping ur mom's house spirit alive but in another location. Anyways this is their relationship and their lives and I don't think we should victimize anyone. To be honest working with people who are your friends can be difficult and eventually there were going to be some issues between one another. The way they broke up isn't the worse and I'm kinda glad we get to see both perspectives. However, perspective comes with biases. As viewers who didn't witness the full picture of their relationship: we should respectfully accept their decisions without hating on any of them.
True. Thanks for this perspective.
My gosh this is literally the best response to it, wish everyone could think the same and not shade and victimize one or another
I agree with you but knowing what happened between them is irrelevant because the fact that Elliot made it seem like he was the only one leaving was sus in itself because by doing that it leaves subtext saying “we have irreconcilable differences”
it just leaves people room to assume it shouldn’t be this ambiguous with some this sensitive and when he mentioned how he started resenting best friends what are audiences supposed to think other than negative thoughts about Kelly and ashley?
@@zephanwong6650 I beg to differ. It's an assumption a mass of people are making that Elliot released his video 1st to make his own narrative and that one simple part of the video is shade or is what started the beef. This video before Kelly and Ashleys was just someone sharing their journey with the house, their feelings and emotions along the way and them putting it into cinematic videography and story telling. Saying he started resenting his best friends was context from the prior moments and thoughts in the video so people could understand how he emotionally and mentally.
Also since UMH was already pretty much done at that point and the damage behind the scenes in their friendships had already been done, he didn't owe it to them to post at the same day and time as them. Especailly since it was a pretty emotionally charged journey for him he could have posted it first because he just wanted to post it, get it over with and be done and move on instead of waiting to post it later with the others. People have shit to do outside of these videos and you have no idea what was going on behind the scenes for him. That assumption that he did it to fit a narrative came only because it was mentioned by Kelly and ashley.
It's also an assumption that " Elliot made it seem like he was the only one leaving". Elliot could have posted his video early or the same time as them and it would have made no difference essentially. The only reason beef became public was due to the response in Kelly's video in the middle of the edit as well as the one he did with Ashley. Had he just posted his video without an edit of that in the middle talking about Elliot we wouldn't even be having this conversation right now.
Response from Kelly seemed more on a create and control the narrative move as it was more reactionary. You gotta keep in mind...US watching Elliots video vs Kelly watching it carrys an insanely different meaning and understanding. This is both of their lives and It seems Kelly wasn't thinking from a viewers perspective, it was from his own due to the experience and interactions they've had within the last few months. Kelly didn't have to make that edit in his video which kinda backfired on him pretty heavily and then they had to make another video to control that fire Kelly started in his edit.
Posting when emotionally charged can make things worse and really expose public beef that people probably wouldn't have know anywhere near that extend or even at all if he didn't post 2 response.
But to each their own. Cheers, m8.
exactly where is the shade
Annemarie is like a mom keeping everyone together, I’ll be honest. If I was to live together with a couple, I’ll feel left out and feel like 3rd wheeling all the time as well if not feeling fit in, left out. I’m not surprise how the group ended this way, after all.. it’ll only last 1 or 3years maxim of good relationships with people you met in life. I wish the best of luck in every members as they parts way…
aww.. 🥺 This is the saddest part about outgrowing people and friendships in your life. We'd always here to watch your videos and support you, Elliot no matter what. Much love 💙
Its sad to see how all this time, Elliot is feeling like this yet Kelly and Ashley is having the time of their lives (at least with their recent videos). Makes you think that Elliot really felt alone in a house his started.
Honestly I think living with a group of your friends is risky. I've always been told never to live with your best friend because it might be the downfall of your friendship. I think this was still a great experience for him. I'm sure he'll be happier living on his own.
Im waiting for their fake sympathetic stories saying we’ll miss you Elliot
@@Jean-wh2hu okay, you win, get off my back now please
@@helloitskyraaa Yeah I'm sure they all had high expectations for the house, but things don't always go as planned. They're in their 20s and this is an experience a lot of people have when dealing with roommates. They probably decided to stick to only posting on their own channels. I saw Luke's insta story and they already moved into a new apartment together.
@@helloitskyraaa I think everyone seeing them as one entity instead of separate entities is what made things toxic. That's when viewers started bashing people in the house because they no longer appeared as this perfect group of friends who are in each others videos all time. The fans seem to be so attached to how urmomshouse was portrayed in the beginning. They don't get how they want to go back to doing their own type of videos before they joined the house.
I dont see the shade
they decided to close down the house together and upload a joint video in the
"& they were roommates" channel...but elliot seperately posted a video without telling kashley and giving the title as "I'm leaving your mom's house" after they agreed to post jointly when in reality they all are leaving and the house is closing down!! Because the title makes it look like kashley are still there and the house broke up due to them when that's not the case and they are getting undeserving hate. Elliot is smart, he knew he didn't directly have to throw shade what's more important is what was implied throughout the video "I started resenting my friends" like are you fr?
I hate picking sides but Elliot owes Ashley an apology.
A big one too.
Why?
can u explain in brief
@@7loading107 he lied+all of them are leaving it wasn’t Ashley’s fault+ there is a lot of hate to Ashley now
He is a liar
I’m still crying 😭 love you Elliot so proud of you 👏🙌
Must be a tough decision to make! All the best Elliot, looking forward to your next chapter!
When r u gonna post something on your channel?
Ps -big fan of ur editing and videos as of whole
KEOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Everyone's glazing over the fact that they're not just roommates, they were all BUSINESS PARTNERS. They’re not the average friends that decided to move in because they wanted to live together. The initial intent of them moving in together is business based-to form a content house and create content together, but featuring their own creative styles. This makes them business partners as well. There’s nothing inherently wrong with dating a roommate, but once kashley started to veer away from the initial house content to heavily monetize on their relationship content, they’ve broken the business agreement they all made for moving into the house together in the first place. This type of relationship and dynamic requires a level of professionalism because they’re not just friends, they’re business partners that agreed to come together on this business venture (the content house).
The collaborative effort at the beginning was evident in the content that they were all putting out. I think at some point, Kashley saw how well their relationship videos were doing, and naturally they started to lean into that more and eventually created a substantial amount of videos surrounding the two of them. I don't believe that this was an abrupt choice that they made one day, but rather something that they allowed to gradually grow and fester to become what it is now. The house content becomes less and less and the relationship content becomes more and more. And how does this happen? it's because Kashley's efforts are now geared more towards working with one another to create relationship content than it is with other members in the house.
Good business mandates that once all parties agree to terms, those terms need to be upheld. When one business partner, in this case two, decides to change those terms, that’s unprofessional and bad business. The issue isn't that roommates started dating, the issue is that that Kashley couldn't separate between personal and business.
Essay 🥴
Couldn't agree more on this. Facts
@Mathe Jone I’m sorry that logic bores you. Im guessing that’s usually the case for smooth brains.
@@user-qf7yrscsw6x you call this is an essay? Why thank you, so generous of you. Unfortunately my college professors would disagree though. Which tells me you’re either in grade school or have a mental capacity of one.
@@emmydng someone is fuming 😂
Some of these comments didn't age well. I hope they can all sort it out. Feel free to share, but don't let the public force you all. Bottling up things is probably what Asian immigrant children have to deal with. Best of luck with everyone involved!
Why asian immgirant children?
Most likely not. It’s done . The only way they are going to get back in good friendship is Elliot to apologize to Ashely and Kelly for talking some much shit behind their back. Heard Kelly’s story and it seems terrible and Elliot does not want to apologize which Kelly is still disappointed because there’s so much elliot has done that really made Kelly angry to the point he has to say it out or else the finger/ hate goes to him
@@gigizurpos9678 I hope that's the case. That's such a sore subject to navigate for an overly protective bf like Kelly W. and having to deal with a (ex-)bestie Elliot that hates your gf (Ashley) while simultaneously doing business together. I do understand Elliot wants full control of 'ur mom's house' brand, but idk if the 50/50 split was the best approach. I do generally hope they can work it out
The house would’ve worked out if jimmy zhang joined instead of Ashley
life is a journey man, and we’re all here with you through it all. whatever decision you make, we got your back 💪🏼.
I hope you shared these feelings with your friend’s first before the world. Good luck to everyone’s journey.
“Ashley shouldn’t get any equity” when literally she had (still does) the most subs before Ur Moms House shows she brings A LOT of VALUE to the house… 🤦♀️
someone told Ashley that Elliot said she should't get any equity. but who is this person?? is this person lying?
@@summerlandwb Kelly stated this in his newest video addressing the whole matter in deeper context
@@MattFangCreates Kelly didn’t address any facts. They were their assumptions of what they heard. Elliot addressed facts that their agreements were to share equity evenly. For Kashley to bring up about the equity when they already made agreements, is so shady. They wanted the audience to support them and blame Elliot for the end of UMH.
I would just sincerely like them all to know that the content created through ur moms house truly saved my life. Though it’s a little heartbreaking to hear, I am forever thankful for them all
Okay hear this out: Elliot, it's okay to feel about this way. The four of you shared so much fun things with us, and I will always be thankful for that. Growing up, there are things that are out of our control and you are right, change is part of life. I don't see this "getting on your own path" is something to be sad about, it just shows that the four of you are growing. I still wish and pray for all of you and can't wait for the next chapter of your lives!
I think you lack some emotional maturity and communication skills in terms of what you need in your friendships from what I've gathered on Kelly's and Ashley's video. I hope you'll grow and learn from this. Stay safe :))
bottom line, ellliot posted this video when he knew for a fact that the lease was ending, which gave him a plausable excuse to gain attention by acting like he was suffering in the creator house. The fact is that Elliot used his situation to gain views, and choose a possible gain of money and clout over his friendships.
This is facts
What a video. The fact that Elliot was honest with us means the world to me as a big fan. Things won’t be the same, but i am going to continue following his journey every week!❤
Cmonnnn am i the only one who knows Elliot liked ash and Ann liked Elliot??? Now that kell and ash are together he feels so lonely now that Ann left. In their videos I could sense Elliot liking ashly it was sooooo obvious
@@Daboyricco he has a gf, what are u talking about
@@milanmagyar5664 I’m talking about early stages of ure moms house
I knew I could sense some Jed vibes from those cinematics. Ur Mom's House will live on in our memories, and I'm looking forward to your next move Elliot. You are a part of the reason why I started UA-cam.
Dude just wanted you to know, Iove your videos and editing style, and where you are doesn't matter to your viewers, it's not even the videos you make, just being yourself is enough. So go out and live life to your fullest! You only get once chance at life and as you said, you gotta put the past behind you to enjoy the present
One of your best videos! It's real and also a demonstration of your cinematography, efforts, and heart. Wish you all the best in your next chapter!
I’m having a similar situation in college with my roommate rn. We’re living together and I’m starting to resent her but in my case there’s no way out. I really respect how brave Elliot is for doing what’s best for him and keeping it real. ❤
I suggest you take a break for some time maybe go home if it's close or you can ask another friend to stay at their place for like a week. After that go back and try to talk things out with your roommate.
I know your talking about ur moms house splitting up but the quality of this video is extremely good. The emotions is expressed very well in this video. You sir are an incredible artist
I don't know how to feel about this video given that it failed to mention that everyone is leaving.
THANK YOU
It’s suuuuuper manipulative!!
@@tianna7695 "Don't blame your unhappiness on others when you have the same opportunities as Ashley and Kelly to grow your channel. A tru friend woulnd't make an overly dramatic video to throw shade on who you called your bestfriends. Do better if you want to succeed. Don't blame others for your lack of ideas on your videos.
Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon"
- Ashley's mom's deleted comment
@@niazyx6038 "Don't blame your unhappiness on others when you have the same opportunities as Ashley and Kelly to grow your channel. A tru friend woulnd't make an overly dramatic video to throw shade on who you called your bestfriends. Do better if you want to succeed. Don't blame others for your lack of ideas on your videos.
Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon"
- Ashley's mom's deleted comment
Exactly!
ashley deserves an apology
first of all elliot hating ashley is so immature how can you just hate her because she is dating kelly ?? and the thing that irked me the most is elliot saying ashley ( the only woman in the house that contributed a lot ) does not deserve equity ... the blatant misogyny...
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Ikr....at the start of the house she was bringing the most views..had the most subs and played a huge role in making them famous...she brought in the furniture...was always sweet towards them and elliot saying she doesn't deserve the equity is just🚩🚩🚩
@@aastha1753 Apparently, the claim that he didn't want equal equity by Kelly and Ashley was a lie. So ... who knows what really happened.
@@bridgiannini i think a lot of people are taking this wrong....ashley never said that they discussed about her having less equity.She said that she heard from their friends that elliot thinks she should get less equity....ofc elliot won't say that on het face right??
@@aastha1753 So based on what she "heard" from friends, they make a 40 minute video claiming that this was a fact and crucifying Elliot? That's even worse. At the end of the day, Kelly worships Kanye West and looks up to him as a role model. Ye is a known anti semitic racist Trump supporter. So it's hard to trust Kelly's judgment. The fact that Ashley is taking his side have made me lose all respect for Ashley.
Because of this, I think it's hard to sustain content creation households for an extended length of time. We all likely knew it wasn't permanent, but the fact that it was so fleeting may have shocked us more. Such a house needs everyone to be on equal footing and valued accordingly in order to function. I know it seems a little naive, but I definitely saw the life span being shortened once Kelly and Ashely got together. At that point all it would take would be for either Annemarie or Elliot to leave first, before inevitably kicking off a chain reaction, as it automatically guarantees that whoever stays behind with Kelly and Ashley would be third wheeling. This is exactly where this whole idea of "feeling less than" is kicked into play. All of a sudden you have this very disturbed dynamic, and regardless of what kind of group/environment you're in, no one wishes to be the outcast.
agreed
My respect for Sidemen has increased manifolds. What a goated group
There lease was up buddy… lol
but then again Elliot also has Nic so it's not fair to put the blame on Kelly and Ashley's relationship
This is what Ashley’s mom commented on this video and deleted: “Don't blame your unhappiness on others when
you had the same opportunities as Ashley and
Kelly to grow your own channel. A true friend
wouldn't make such a overly dramatic video to
throw shade on who you called your best friend/
S. Do better if you want to succeed. Don't blame
others for your lack of ideas on vour videos.
Jealousy is a disease. Get well soon.”
The Screenshot is up on Urmomashley’s subreddit
So cringe and unnecessary of her 💀
aint no way💀
Wow Ashley deleted all of the critical comments on her channel. I was really rooting for her but idk if I can defend her anymore
Her mom is something els for making that nasty comment. Smh
He only talks about "the house" and not the people there. Says a lot. This video is so extra, the rain part? lol
I’m not siding nobody here. But… The rain part had me ded🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
Elliot I wish u the best and I love your content! keep on doing you I love how authentic and transparent u are. keep on smiling
We support you on your decision Elliot. You guys shared some beautiful moments together, but life takes us in different directions and that doesn't mean it wasn't all worth it. The memories will always be there. Loved the cinematic shots at the end btw.
Also, I feel my perception of influencers has changed a bit. I wonder if at times you feel forced to capture a false sense of happiness and abundance when in reality having so much can make people feel alienated and like they're always chasing social acceptance. Maybe not, but that's just what I feel lies beneath the surface.