I Changed India's Law For My Son | Zaaria | Josh Talks
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- Опубліковано 30 лип 2022
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In this Josh Talk, Zaaria shares her journey of overcoming domestic violence and creating a life for her son and herself. Married at a young age, Zaaria believed her married life would be like the one she dreamt of. But things took a rough turn when she had to face constant fights with her husband. Left all alone when she was pregnant with her first child, Zaaria fought her way up to become a successful entrepreneur and also for her son which is an inspiring story for the India. Her legal battle led the Government Of India to change an age-old law.
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I am also a single mother trying hard for my son's future. I can't go outside for work bcoz uski care karne k liye ghar me koi nahi hai. At this time I m just making videos with him please support and advice
@single mom&son vlog
Thank you Zaaria from the bottom of my heart. I didn't know that it was because of you this whole process changed and applying for the passport as a single mom for my son was so simplified and he got his passport in 4 months. So happy that you're out of that abusive relationship. More power to you. Wish you and your son loads of success and happiness that you rightfully deserve. All the best ❤️🙏
Yess, I too folowed that time over newspapers & online media. A big thank you Zaaria for this movement which add on to strength of ours.
Abuse is the worst of all
This lady is a very very strong person to have gone through all these abuse and pain and how she came out of it ! hats off to this amazing strong lady ! she sets a good example to all those women who are going through abuse and mental torture !
Remember girls!
First time abuse is always an abuse. Last time abuse will take you death. So say NO to second abuse. Life is only once given to us so cherish it.
disagree. say no to FIRST abuse. bring another guy home.
@@Damien1_1 say NO to abuse.. but what's that "bring another guy home" ?? completely wrong approach...
Say no to the 1st time itself
@@Damien1_1 This another guy statement speaks volumes about your mentality
Women abuse ABUSE a lot today. It is their easiest ticket out from a relationship.
Khaya, peeya aur fir abuse kehke kat liya...doosre mard try karne...
Myself faced similar situations. But fortunately my son's passport application was approved by the passport officer who understood the situation, way back in 2012. Am thankful to him 🙏 for the humanity he showed.
God this is so similar to my story except that my ex didn't even want my son's custody nor any visitation rights. He had abandoned us when I was 5 months pregnant, after a lot of domestic violence.. By God's grace me and my son are safe, he is 14 now.
God bless both of you🙏
Indian court do not give custody to male. In 99.99% case
@Pristiano penaldo fortunately not all men think that way. I was fortunate to find a good partner later.
@Pristiano penaldo plz Don't say like day
It will be like adding ghee to the 🔥.
U r true
But single life is better than toxic relationship n daily traumas🙏
@@parthpandya5631 Because they did not contribute to raising kids other than giving findings. Even your employer also gives the person a scholarship to cover education. Just giving money does not make you father. You only get custody when the mother is a horrible parent compared to the father. Well, they sacrifice their career for their kids. Even in many surveys more than 80 per cent person says they like their more than their father so child usually closer to their mother compares to their father. The majority of the kids are raised by a single parent whether they are married or not.
So many women are in abusive relationships is something I got to know through these platforms it's scary how some men are monstrous women are really courageous and have a lot of strength the amount of torture they go through more power to women. No more torture from husbands and in laws have the courage to leave. Proud of her👏
There should be a platform for men also.its one side of the picture
@@VarunKumar-mf1sh men can come up and speak on these platforms too.
@@VarunKumar-mf1sh who is stopping you? Go ahead and create one. We would love to hear.
"Be the change you want to see in the world"
My husband is abusive too.... And its very tough to go out of the relationship
I am one of them, who signed the petition without knowing her personally.
The monster was not only the ex husband but also the mother.
@@user-qk5vp6bn2pwhat's wrong with your name
You are a survivor and a fighter. Thankyou. God bless you.
Her story she's really melting my heart, I'm just 18 and her first story is just breaking my heart,,,, But the strength she has ,,,, huge huge huge respect 🥺❤️
After heard this kind of story...its shows some man hidden madness and poor mindset after having a great education too... feel sad for those man...plus many goverment system, indian system and law and rules are still pathetic which make no sense...hats off to you mam to took a stand for the same...👏👏awesome work you and community done thanks..
Real madness.
Thank you for doing this for all of us. All the best always dear.
I got emotional after listening your story. Your family must be very good who gave you courage to fight your battle. Just forget your past.
Relatives and parents call this a headache ,glad that you addressed the issue because these sort of things are usually brushed under the carpet or ignored as attention seeking in our current patriarchal society.
Such a well spoken girl!❤️
More power to you and your family!
i always thought that south Bombay girls had a really nice, romantic married life. This was eye opening.
What so special about South Bombay
You are an inspiration for other women. We women need to take action against anything wrong happening to us. More power and support to you. Thank you.
Her story is very inspiring. More power to you
U r lucky to have supportive parents and relatives. Even Many of educated Indians consider it a stigma for daughters to come back and prefer they endured or disappeared somewhere and fought alone rather than showing their face home again
Hats off Zaria and thanks for inspiring many women who are suffering in domestic violence.
👏👏👏👏 I applaud your strength Zaaria!
A Mother only can fight with anybody n how much difficulties
All the best for ur future, very nice voice, words as well, she speaks very nicely,very strong.
Yes really indian law need change..... 🙏🙏
She is a great rolemodel for me now that I know that her inspiring story to become a hero for thousand of women and and her fight against this society, this system and this world. Although, I m a boy, I wish I could be strong like her.
You are such a strong woman, may every woman in India get inspired from you!!!! Hats off!!!
Commendable.. thank you so much 💫💫
Wow.
Such an inspirational story
Kudos
Thank you Zaaria for the bold and relentless fight you put up to make this happen, not just for your son and yourself but for millions of others ahead.. Super proud.. and God bless you..
I respect your grit. You are an inspiration.
Great effort madam Thanks for Encouraging a lots of women...who are suffering with this problem
Yah many women are suffering..... thanks for encouraging it.
Thank you for sharing your story.
What a great platform.
Great…. I could understand your pain… 👍
Pray all r emotional, physical, mentally, b strong, God mercy💞
Thank you..from another single parent
Thank you so much single mother almost same story.
May God bless you abundantly Dear❤️❤️
majority of marriages based on childhood love is a Horror story
even arranged marriages are horror stories aswell, and that applies to both male and female 😭
That's why it's necessary to be independent enough to leave the relationship if it's harming to ur soul N mental health overall
Your such a brave woman Zaaria , I feel what you felt since my story was similar , taken to dubai , in an unknown land & shown the face of marriage in such a way that I thought I have to make this work as my mother was a single parent and I can’t let her down till I understood this family of doctors and engineers was nothing but a backward uneducated lot trying to suppress women coz of the their insecurities…till I stood up for myself , faced the society backlash, but never gave up…May t give courage to all the women to stand up for themselves, as people like u are voicing it out & being an inspiration to women empowerment.
LOST FOR WORDS . GOD BLESS !!
Josh i never knew there was this type of show in UA-cam n for 1st tym whn i show i was like They are women people who r suffering just like me n m not wrong to fight wid in laws n man of my daughters.Its very imprt to be bold brave n stand for ur self bcz children r watching n i had no choose but be strong.Women r not week mind it💪
She told him she doesn't like fried smell and he got fried chicken? That man is a psychopath he better know it.
Proud of you
achanak 5 males ke saath domestic violence kya ho gaya ki baaki 1000 males ko nani yaad aa gayi. Last 50 centuries se jo females ka rape and domestic violence case register nahi ho rha uski kisi ko nai padi hai. Ladna hai to lado apne rights ke liye (like females are struggling every minute) but don't you dare say females have the privilege. Any male saying so sounds uneducated (you perhaps are) and is living under a rock. A complete joke.
5males??have you lost your mind??each and everyday videos of men getting beaten by their partner gets viral and here you mindless girl saying that 5males....females easily gets help in a case like that but a man doesn't..not from the system not from the society! Be a man and you'll see how harsh the society is for a man...most people suffering from depression are men,most number of people committing suicide are men,most number of people getting murdered,beaten badly, homeless are men! I'm not saying that girls are living an easier life..but we men never complain and cry about our situations unlike girls.. don't forget that those were the men who died on titanic and let women and kids to get on the lifeboat...so that fil*thy women like you can say Men lives an easy life!girl get some fact!!
50 centuries se bhi top 10% prince charming males only own 50 females each.
Baaki ke 90% males unn kings, lords or zameendar k slaves hote the, free m violence bhi jhelna phir unke liye kaam bhi karna padta. Everybody was suffering since last 50 centuries not only females other than rich 2-3%.
Also, don't say males also have privileges. Most of the time, females have advantages in Judiciary.
India has twice as many women pilots than US. IT industry filled with women.
@@shrin210 look at your language. Disgusting! "Own" females?? And to think i just wrote about uneducated men (not the educated ones) talking like idiots in my last comment. I will NOT dignify the bullshit you wrote by answering you any more.
seems some one used ur body
@@irfanmansuri7655 it's mutual buddy. The moment you sleep with a guy these days, they say "you used me". I like sleeping with multiple beautiful men but I am always truthful from day one with every one of them. How is it my fault if some think I used their bodies? This one muslim guy's flatmate somehow got the idea that I specifically use muslim men for their bodies. I agree most men on my list are muslims but they all know that I don't want them. Any of them. Irrespective of their religion. Then why do some guys think I am using their bodies and want to be in an exclusive relationship with me? It is my bad luck, Imran. If I would have been lucky, no man would have wanted to be my boyfriend...
Ketonuria doesn’t signify depression, but in your case, it sounds like starvation ketosis. No potassium or magnesium also comes from vomiting and poor oral intake. That’s the reason, the doctor asked if everything was okay.
Hat's off awesome you're inspiring
Good job👍👍
WELL DONE.. HATS OF TO YOU ZAARIA👏🏻🙌🏻✌🏻😇🦋
अपना लक्ष्य खुद तय करो और प्रयास करो, तुम गिरोगे फिर उठना, फिर गिरोगे फिर उठना, फिर गिरोगे फिर उठना,🏃♂🏃♂ मत झुकना - मत थकना, लगातार चलते रहना लक्ष्य निश्चित तुम्हारा है।🎯☑️☑️
Thank you ❤️
One day Everything wil be fine..!
Kudos to you strong lady.... For everything u have been thru... Stay blessed with ur son ALWAYS.. This is how single moms are... Devi avatar..
Mother is mother, even God cannot take her place.🙏🏼❣️💯
Yeah but anyone take father's place...as it is very common is western.. countries mother will be same.but father keep changing...
@@Ravikumar-zi8qm 😌
@@Ravikumar-zi8qm anyone can became mothers place.. There are many single father's nowadays
Wow,.. You have channel of your own
Thank you so much dear. I myself am facing domestic abuse, but unable to come out, as I am not financially secure
Paisa aa Jayega, time won't come back. Be brave and good luck.
Thank you so much mam; because of ur initiative and courage; many are saved from Govt.'s inept processes 👍 God bless u & ur fmly🙏
Government ki Aesi ki Tesi
I am in love with your English Ma'am
Maa ki shakti🙏💪
Thank you so much
Dont judge by listening one side of the story
great women respect 👏👏🙏🙏
Really fantastic♥❣
R u sexologist??
This is main drawback to getting marriage in small age.
I didn't know it was so difficult to get passport for the child of a single women. That too just few years back. So sad .
Never seen someone so strong like you. Love you loads
Zaaria you inspire and how!! Stay Blessed. May Mohd. be the coolness of your eyes & champion life like you. Fi Aman Allah
Hey Josh Talks, I want talks of men who fought false rape accusers who are women too. Waiting for that one.
Inspirational
I too fought for my son's passport as single mother
One year later there was rule to issue for single parent child passport
The same story happened to my Son pp in 2016 and at last i had to bag his fathers signature...Thanks to ms Patni...u rocks👍
I have learn lots of words from this speech word like At that point (at that time )back and forth. Etc
I faced the issue about passport. Finally low changed for good! I did not know you were the reason for the low change. Proud of you!
Like many other women i still suffer going to court. My lil girl who is a cardiac patient needs the support of her mother is depressed to the core. Her biological father, for the sake of money and prestige asked for permanent custody. No law is there to support me or my child. There is no law to favor an abused mother or a girl child in India. All they (court) need is money, police complaint and influence.
जिंदगी खेलती भी उसी के साथ है,
जो खिलाड़ी बेहतरीन होता है,
दर्द सबके एक से है, मगर हौंसले सबके अलग अलग है,
कोई हताश हो के बिखर जाता है,
तो कोई संघर्ष करके निखर जाता।🏳️🏳️
Right word's
Hats off
She's beautiful
Thank you Zaaria ❤️
If u face something u can talk to ur parents or your friends. That's it 🙏🙏🙏
This woman is inspiration…
Very bad if they do not have any laws for single parents.
Am undergoing same issue in bangalore passport seva kendra. Passport is not getting issued due to dads visitation rights whereas in these 3 years he never gave a single penny nor tried to contact us....we dont even know his whereabouts. And here I am undergoing depression due to my kids passport not getting issued...
Aap wohi ho SSR killer??
Yes i read an article about your story in sum magazine womens era or femina may be....
You had fringe cut in those pics...
Kudos...
She is from a very affluent family and an ex student of JB PETIT SCHOOL
Must have been difficult for you to live in that family of psychopaths. I really feel sympathised for you. Toxic relationship or friendship can ruin your life, that's why it's better to fight for yourself and leave them without giving them a second chance, beacause they don't deserve it
HEARTY THANKS FOR HELPING US TOO DEAR.. I AM ALSO A SINGLE MOM.. CONGRATES 🌹
I've huge respect for you, ma'am. ❤️🥰 Power to you!
Ketone 3+ is because of starvation or diabetic ketoacidosis , not depression. Probably because of nause and vomiting, you were not eating and your ketone raised.
thanks for such really meaningful stories....and NOT like fofee with faran
What a real life story u r a iron lady
Sushma Swaraj was one of the greatest leaders we have
Both sides we must think. This is all one side talk.
Are you evenn woman? Such a shame
Abuse never stops.
Same story with me but he doesn't wanted any child
In many countries it is difficult to get the full custody for your child, even as a single mother. And even if you are already divorced for years you still need the signature of the father for a lot of things, like passports or being accepted to schools and so on. I survived that situation to make a falsification of his signature because his father was living in another country and I could not get a signature otherwise and my son needed to go to school and could not without the signature. I was so lucky that they accepted that and did not demand that his father should be there in person.
U r from which country
Single mother forgery master class.
Lovely journey . And Bharath is the only country who had this clause available and given full custody to the child .
ఇన్ని రోజులు తెలుగు ఛానల్ ఒక్కటే ఉందనుకున్న
Thanks to you and your fight. I suffered the same for years and I didnt want to take n o c from my sons father MISSING ABSOLUTELY from our life. 2018 i came to know its not needed anymore. Today i came to know ....how.
Hey. Have you got the passport? I am a single parent. Would like to know some details if you can spare lil time.
Love marriage mein bhi ye sab hone laga
You are very cute girl ma'am i like you