was with mine off and on for 8yrs. would not tolerate her bs. dumped her at least 5x, but always took her back. well the last time was a dandy, and that was her last time, and she knew it. when they know there is no more coming back, its over for good, thats when the mask comes off, and you get to see what you were really dealing with, giving u even more reason to push her out the door.
Thank you so much for this Stephanie, Absolutely tremendous, I'm learning a lot about abusive relationships so I can help others and not allow myself to get trapped in one, I'm healthy and deserve a healthy relationship and from experience with my mum and I not to give them chances, I know how it all works :-) Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All Glory praise and smiles to the most high :-)
@StephanieLynCoaching ..Stephanie.. you saved me... made me realize I knew exactly what was happening..and..helping me to move forward and focus on what's IMPORTANT...whatever quality of life I have left... Thank You is NOT enough..
Hello Steph, Been a while since I left a comment. This vid was surely what was needed to hear. The self physical exercise, the finding and changing of a new job and the finding a new and better place to live. I have accepted the discomfort that is required to make that transition. Thanking you for how you "organized" this vid; giving it a step by step process. ...your gay audience.
Thank you for listing real actions to take. I been waiting so long to come across someone giving this type of breakdown. It's so easy to say leave but how, what are suggested tips/steps, etc. Thank you!
Trust me I've been through one after another bad relationships and time heals everything. And then when you look back you laugh that you were even bothered by the situation. Life is too short you need to be at Peace!
Always have an escape plan for when the shit hits the fan. You can regroup and heal afterwards. I watched a close friend neglect himself after a failed relationship. You should always have your own back. Assemble your own self-help team; psychiatrist, philosopher, Life coach(That's you stephie), Personal trainer, fellow peers in recovery( People that understand you better because of past shared traumas), good friends(People that Don't pass judgement for your past mistakes and accept you for being the strange and wonderful person that you really are.) and Family that emotionally support through your hard times you might be going through.
If it ain't about music or movies, I have zero intent of back tracking into the past. The past stayed in the past for a reason. I hope he never calls me ever again. I have no kids, Im single and ready to mingle. Keep moving forward.
I've been doing alot of work on myself im disabled recently been in contact with an ex 5 years after leaving a toxic long distance relationship trying to be friends now and put the past behind me but still being careful
Ever since I found Steph, it helped me to realize that my ex-wife was not worth the time and effort to stay in that shit box relationship. Steph helped me see that there are so many gorgeous women out there (mainly her) that make me happy that I’m free again. Steph is sexy AF.
Thank you, Steph, great advice. I am moments away from signing my final divorce papers. Ladies, please know that if you want a divorce, do everything in your power to avoid getting separate attorneys. It may be inevitable, but I’m in California with kids and some assets, and the legal fees alone were $100k on just my side, and it took more than a year. And I was told if we went to trial I would spend another $500k. That would have been impossible for me. And the worst part is the mental anguish and sleepless nights. His lawyer will say terrible things about you. If you make more money than him, they will try to take everything. Do everything you can to try to keep this out of court. Agree to settle. Everyone says “lawyers are expensive” but they don’t say how much time this takes! And most importantly, if you are not married and you think he’s a narcissist, do not get married! But no matter what happens, there is light at the end of the tunnel if you make the choice to get out. ❤️
Living with the toxic abusive spouse or move back to toxic abusive parents is not a choice, its ping pong 👀 I get that you're between a rock and a hard place so to speak but neither option is a good option. Is there a womans shelter in your area? They will help you find a job, find low income housing or at least get registeted on the waiting list. Do you have a church in your area? Do you have any siblings or family you can stay with till you get on your feet? Can you look online for shared accommodations? A live in caretaker, housekeeper or housesitter ? Perhaps a live in care aide ? I would talk with a women's shelter for advice ...there has to be other SAFE options to consider and Pray for a safe living arrangement 🙏🏼 Trust in our Creator, Keep the Faith 🕊️
If only there was a designated safe house for narcissistically abused women, a transitional home to get back on your feet. With connections to Financial advisors, housing advisors, career counseling and NPD councilors. If I win a million dollars I would like to make this a reality 🙏🏼🕊️
I’m only watching because I’m in love with Steph. So beautiful and can’t understand how any guy would ever treat her poorly. He had to be a total asswipe. She’s too hot to leave.
was with mine off and on for 8yrs. would not tolerate her bs. dumped her at least 5x, but always took her back. well the last time was a dandy, and that was her last time, and she knew it. when they know there is no more coming back, its over for good, thats when the mask comes off, and you get to see what you were really dealing with, giving u even more reason to push her out the door.
As you told someone else in the comments, you chose it.
Yes, I wish I had left YEARS ago...I stayed too long. I was too loyal and all of the reasons you mentioned...
Very well summed up in short period of time. Good info. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this Stephanie, Absolutely tremendous, I'm learning a lot about abusive relationships so I can help others and not allow myself to get trapped in one, I'm healthy and deserve a healthy relationship and from experience with my mum and I not to give them chances, I know how it all works :-) Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All Glory praise and smiles to the most high :-)
Another great video..thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
@StephanieLynCoaching ..Stephanie.. you saved me... made me realize I knew exactly what was happening..and..helping me to move forward and focus on what's IMPORTANT...whatever quality of life I have left... Thank You is NOT enough..
Hello Steph,
Been a while since I left a comment.
This vid was surely what was needed to hear.
The self physical exercise, the finding and changing of a new job and the finding a new and better place to live.
I have accepted the discomfort that is required to make that transition.
Thanking you for how you "organized" this vid; giving it a step by step process.
...your gay audience.
Hello my dear! Thank you for taking the time to write a comment - I am glad it helped!
Thanks Stephanie.
You are so welcome!
this video format suits me a lot
Thank you for listing real actions to take. I been waiting so long to come across someone giving this type of breakdown. It's so easy to say leave but how, what are suggested tips/steps, etc. Thank you!
You're so welcome!
It's so so hard. It has ended. The healing continues. Daily regret for not listening to others ever.
Trust me I've been through one after another bad relationships and time heals everything. And then when you look back you laugh that you were even bothered by the situation. Life is too short you need to be at Peace!
@@benjaminmoore528 hard to do when there are kids involved :(
Thank you for this information 🙏 ❤
My pleasure 😊
Thank you, very helpful advise.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you Stephanie. ❤ I find working with parts is super helpful. Internal Family Systems IFS Richard Schwartz.
Beautiful 😊
Always have an escape plan for when the shit hits the fan. You can regroup and heal afterwards. I watched a close friend neglect himself after a failed relationship. You should always have your own back. Assemble your own self-help team; psychiatrist, philosopher, Life coach(That's you stephie), Personal trainer, fellow peers in recovery( People that understand you better because of past shared traumas), good friends(People that Don't pass judgement for your past mistakes and accept you for being the strange and wonderful person that you really are.) and Family that emotionally support through your hard times you might be going through.
Thank you
If it ain't about music or movies, I have zero intent of back tracking into the past. The past stayed in the past for a reason. I hope he never calls me ever again. I have no kids, Im single and ready to mingle. Keep moving forward.
awesome!!
I've been doing alot of work on myself im disabled recently been in contact with an ex 5 years after leaving a toxic long distance relationship trying to be friends now and put the past behind me but still being careful
Ever since I found Steph, it helped me to realize that my ex-wife was not worth the time and effort to stay in that shit box relationship. Steph helped me see that there are so many gorgeous women out there (mainly her) that make me happy that I’m free again. Steph is sexy AF.
I concur with your opinion of Steph and even better is she is smart AF too!
I am leaving/moving in 13 days. I have not told him yet. But I think he knows. I am so anxious about the next 2 weeks.
How’d it go?
Stay strong and think how happy you're going to be 😊
I got lucky. I texted her toxic ass goodbye and went home and changed my locks.😂
quite the learning lesson tho. 2nd thing i did was change my phone number. that seems to get the message across.
@@lilfairycupcake Yes. We all have our similar stories but with a dash of different flavors.
@@Introverted100 they all operate out of the same play book.
Thank you, Steph, great advice. I am moments away from signing my final divorce papers. Ladies, please know that if you want a divorce, do everything in your power to avoid getting separate attorneys. It may be inevitable, but I’m in California with kids and some assets, and the legal fees alone were $100k on just my side, and it took more than a year. And I was told if we went to trial I would spend another $500k. That would have been impossible for me. And the worst part is the mental anguish and sleepless nights. His lawyer will say terrible things about you. If you make more money than him, they will try to take everything. Do everything you can to try to keep this out of court. Agree to settle. Everyone says “lawyers are expensive” but they don’t say how much time this takes! And most importantly, if you are not married and you think he’s a narcissist, do not get married! But no matter what happens, there is light at the end of the tunnel if you make the choice to get out. ❤️
Thanks for sharing. It is a really really hard thing to go through and unless you’ve been there most don’t understand
Have you got children?
stephanie, where can i book a session with you?
I had no choice but to stay, NO MONEY, not going back to my parents home, they are the entire reason why I SETTLED for an abusive man
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Wow...this is/was my life.
the door is always a choice, dont bs yourself. you chose abuse. you have no reason to complain.
Living with the toxic abusive spouse or move back to toxic abusive parents is not a choice, its ping pong 👀
I get that you're between a rock and a hard place so to speak but neither option is a good option.
Is there a womans shelter in your area? They will help you find a job, find low income housing or at least get registeted on the waiting list.
Do you have a church in your area?
Do you have any siblings or family you can stay with till you get on your feet?
Can you look online for shared accommodations?
A live in caretaker, housekeeper or housesitter ?
Perhaps a live in care aide ?
I would talk with a women's shelter for advice ...there has to be other SAFE options to consider
and Pray for a safe living arrangement 🙏🏼 Trust in our Creator, Keep the Faith 🕊️
If only there was a designated safe house for narcissistically abused women, a transitional home to get back on your feet. With connections to Financial advisors, housing advisors, career counseling and NPD councilors.
If I win a million dollars I would like to make this a reality 🙏🏼🕊️
@@casperinsight3524 why just for women? men dont exist? "people"
I'd sooner you get out and it pretty much just be a heatbreak. Over ending up dealing with a stalker. Trust me.
I'm lucky I'm thinking what If i never meet anyone again and I'm saying ha hopefully not 😅😅😅😅
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full support
finally
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I’m only watching because I’m in love with Steph. So beautiful and can’t understand how any guy would ever treat her poorly. He had to be a total asswipe. She’s too hot to leave.
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